I’m trying something different this for goals this year. I wrote up a bunch of yearly goals like I usually do, and it just didn’t feel quite right. Instead, I’m just picking out some tasks to complete, habits to build, and things to work on for the first quarter of the year. This fits better with the idea of being underambitious to make progress easier and help new habits stick, and also committing to actually making progress on a smaller number of things.
Somehow, we’re already halfway through the first quarter of the year, but fortunately I’d been starting to chip away at things even though I hadn’t published them yet ;)
give myself More space to rest and room to recover
- Take off one day a week (Sundays) from writing with the intention of relaxing, recovering, doing fun things, making my home nicer, spending time with DH, and doing things that use my body – I’m still working out exactly what to do with these days, and have found myself doing other creative work (writing on the blog for example) and reading on Twitter
- Build an evening routine to wind down for bed, at a space away from my bed – I’m trying to make a cup of chamomile or Sleepytime tea, light a candle, and read on my new couch
Finish my book
- Write 30 minutes a day on weekdays
- Do 1-2 writing Caves on the weekends (2.5 hours)
Take Care of Myself
- Exercise 75+ minutes each week, plus 2 strength workouts
- Keep a short daily “journal” with a few bullet point notes of what I did and how I felt – I’m doing this inconsistently, so I need to find a way to fit it in daily so I don’t have to try to recall the last three days
- Go to therapy to work on insomnia – starting with this CBT for insomnia self-guided course
- Do more things just for fun – so far had a burger making date night with DH and carved Valentine’s Day block prints, plus we’re doing weekly brunch on Sundays
Make Our House More Comfortable

My cat has discovered my rocking chair hangout spot is good for keeping an eye on me and looking out the window
- Create a sanctuary for myself to spend time and relax – done! At least version 1.0 is ;)
- Clear out the “storage space” where we just started stashing crap – almost done! We need to find homes for a few more things, and sort through our camping equipment to purge stuff and store it better
- Create a workout space
- Clean out the random extra bedroom
- Do twice-weekly downstairs team tidy-ups to keep up with chores and split the work equitably – about every other week, I’ve been making a list of everything that needs to be done downstairs because I seem to be more aware of all the tasks piling up, and if I just do them myself I wipe myself out and feel like I’m doing more than my fair share
- Hang curtains in my new space – I have the curtains and rods, just need to charge the drill