This article was written by Laura Bilotta and by wikiHow staff writer, Megaera Lorenz, PhD. Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.
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When you’ve been married for a while, it’s easy to get into a rut. But if your marriage is starting to feel a little stale, don’t worry—it’s never too late to start having fun with your husband again! In this article, we’ll talk you through some tried and true ways to bring the joy back into your marriage.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach and matchmaker, Laura Bilotta. Check out the full interview here.
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It can be upsetting to feel like your relationship is losing its spark. If you’re feeling this way, do your best to stay positive. It’ll be much easier to find the fun again if you maintain an upbeat, confident attitude![18]Thanks
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If you have kids, look for ways to include them in the fun sometimes. For example, you might all go to the zoo together or take regular family walks on a local nature trail. Having fun as a family is also important to a healthy, happy marriage.Thanks
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- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/myths-desire/201909/without-flirting-it-wouldnt-be-marriage
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/what_playfulness_can_do_for_your_relationship
- ↑ https://time.com/2859728/science-of-sexy-5-things-that-can-make-you-irresistible/
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_your_marriage_losing_its_luster
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_your_marriage_losing_its_luster
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Family/story?id=5387217&page=1
- ↑ https://smartcouples.ifas.ufl.edu/married/having-fun-and-staying-close/10-simple-habits-of-happy-couples/
- ↑ https://smartcouples.ifas.ufl.edu/married/having-fun-and-staying-close/10-simple-habits-of-happy-couples/
- ↑ https://extension.usu.edu/files-ou/publications/newsletter/FC_Relationships_2011-04pr.pdf
- ↑ https://extension.usu.edu/files-ou/publications/newsletter/FC_Relationships_2011-04pr.pdf
- ↑ https://www.relate.org.uk/relationship-help/help-relationships/feeling-unsatisfied-your-relationship/i-feel-my-relationship-one-sided
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.