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The mindset of more (series introduction)

I’ve been playing the game Satisfactory with my sister for about the past year. Neither of us have played games much, and that mostly pre-2000. It’s been slow going as we learn what tools are available to us, how to interact with the world, and what goals we’re meant to pursue. But another thing we’re learning are the world rules.

Chatting with a friend who also plays the game, I mentioned that we were really limited by only having one power plant and coal mine. “By one,” he asked, “do you mean one one?” As he laid out the vast resource extraction the game supported, I realized that I’d been operating under real-world scarcity mindset, assuming that mines would run out, wells would run dry.

That was a few months ago, and I continue to run up against the constraints of mindset that are holding us back in the game. (The latest? Realizing that we could construct workshops everywhere, not run back to the central workshop every time we need to build something.) But what I’ve found interesting is how perceiving that the game world has its own rules makes clearer that I am living in a world with constructed rules too.

“The fact that capitalism has colonized the dreaming life of the population is so taken for granted that it is no longer worthy of comment.”

— Mark Fisher, Capitalist Realism

I’m noticing the many ways capitalism’s rules shape the way I act and the things that I want. Underneath all of them is the pernicious quest for morethe idea that more is always better.

This post introduces a series on tackling wants, managing my information diet, and finding enough.

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Culture The Internet

Steered towards wanting

Liked The Algorithm of the Mind 📱 by Alicia Kennedy (From the Desk of Alicia Kennedy)

We’re served something uncannily like what we do like but often not quite all the way there.

I used to think I was making my taste by reading lots of magazines and watching lots of movies and obsessing over music videos. I was absorbing in many ways an anti–mainstream taste that was nonetheless commodified and codified for me, no less a stooge for a corporate algorithm than young people now… Which is to say, we’ve always been influenced in what we find beautiful or valuable or important, of course, but what’s new is the speed at which one is inundated with things to desire, to value, to find beautiful… It alters the pace of brains, as well as consumption.

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Instagram says it is really good at “discovery.” The user discovers very little on Instagram. Instead, a machine learning algorithm tracks user behavior on the app and then predicts what the user wants to see next. Because the user scrolls to move their feed along, it can feel like they’ve discovered the content served to them. But scrolling is just a game mechanic that makes the user feel like they are making choices.

Meg Conley

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We now exist in a structure where we are defined, in the context of capital, by our status as consumers. This is the power that is afforded us. We respond—giddily—by making decisions about taste and asserting them. We become obsessed with this thing, mega-fans of that. We act like our preferences matter, because that is the job late capitalism has given us. And here’s the funny thing—our choices and preferences do matter, because something has to. Our selves are constructed from the shitty stuff of consumption, but we remain feeling people nonetheless.

— Claire Dederer

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Further reading:

Why I’m Done Making My Home Look Like a Magazine by Marian Schembari

 

See also: A Bunch of Pretty Things I Did Not Buy

Style vs. taste

Taste requires intentional attention

The consumer society

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Society

The consumer society

Bookmarked Notes on Jean Baudrillard, The Consumer Society (1970) by Rob (Marginal Utility Annex)

Baudrillard’s basic premise in The Consumer Society is that the logic of exchange value in consumption has rendered all activities equal

“When we consume, we never do it on our own (the isolated consumer is the carefully maintained illusion of the ideological discourse on consumption). Consumers are mutually implicated, despite themselves, in a general system of exchange and in the production of coded values.”

— Jean Baudrillard

See also: How we feel about what we consume

Performing yourself on social media

The draw of the herd

The vulnerability of having taste

 

The world of goods treats consumers as a group in order to classify them into different statuses, but the individuals within the group feel no collective impulse; have no sense of being a part of a group – so the process is impervious to collective resistance.

See also:

Packaging people for corporate consumption

Preserving our rights from corporations

Finding enough together

 

Meta note: I’m never clear what of older theory remains worth reading, but also, what I’m interested enough to read. It is here I feel my lack of liberal arts background — I’m taking notes of references to older works, so if one seems to come up again and again I can check it out. That’s what has me interested in McLuhan for media, but I might also be interested in exploring deeper the literature on culture.

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Reflection Relationships Society

How we feel about what we consume

Quoted That’s Not How Stains Work by Anne Helen Petersen (Culture Study)

In the book, I draw on Mark Fisher’s thinking in the excellent book Capitalist Realism to talk about this impulse toward individual, consumer response. Because we are atomized individuals with no collective power, we are left with this single response: a grandiose yet ultimately meaningless sense of the importance of our purchases.
— Claire Dederer

This is interesting and fair, but in her larger point about consuming media by ‘stained’ people, I think overlooks our emotional responses to learning bad things about people whose art we liked. (Note: I haven’t read the book, only this interview.) It’s possible that we as individuals read too much into what we like, that we invest too much of our identity into corporate properties or even art by individuals, and that part of the harm we feel on discovery of harm is associative: that by enjoying something made by someone who did bad things, some of that badness must rub off on us. That the art is dirty, and enjoying it has sullied us.

Or it can trigger feelings of betrayal — that’s how I still feel about Warren Ellis, who I thought was (who portrayed himself as) “one of the good ones.” I feel visceral disgust at the idea of reading his newsletter again, no matter how much I enjoyed it before, and I boxed up my Transmet collection so I didn’t have to see it all the time. I’ve worked too hard at learning to pay attention to my emotions to dismiss them as invalid; I’m not going to gaslight myself that I’m overreacting.

 

See also:

The Conundrum of “Ethical Consumption”

You can’t unknow

Audience commodity

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Featured Future Building Society

Finding enough together

I don’t believe a climate resilient lifestyle must be one of deprivation. I dislike emphasizing less as inherent to our response to climate change because in so many ways, changes to address climate change will make our lives better.

Unless all you value is material trappings and broadcasting your social status through those goods. I don’t fault people who think that way now since this is a standard means of signalling in our society. But we need a new way to signal success and achieve happiness besides material accumulation. We need a cultural shift around the values that lead people to want a bigger house, a bigger car.

Though I don’t write much about climate change directly, it underpins nearly everything I’m thinking and writing about.

When I’m writing about labor, I’m writing about climate change.

When I’m writing about food, I’m writing about climate change.

When I’m writing about new technology, housing, community, I’m writing about climate change.

Climate change is a crucible for societal change. Climate impacts are woven through our society — everything we do affects how much carbon we release. That means the values that influence our choices must align with what is best for the climate. To tackle climate change, we must move our mental frameworks away from scarcity and towards a new view of abundance.

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Learning Meta Shopping

The stuff fractal

Bookmarked A Grand Unified Theory of Buying Stuff by Paul Ford (WIRED)

The supply chain is fractal: Zoom in on your stuff and there’s more stuff, ad infinitum.

To stop this from happening again, I have come up with a personal Theory of Stuffness, a way to structure and understand my local stuff ecosystem, especially the digital stuff. I divide Stuffworld into the Object (drum machine), the Enhancements (all the extras), and the Experience (sick beats).

What I was doing with my drum machine was trying to skip learning, attempting to buy talent and accomplishment by configuring my workstation. That’s the promise of buying stuff for your stuff: The Enhancements will make the Experience so much better and give you more of the power of the Object.

I love this framing of Stuff.

It’s so easy to fall into the gear trap. Not only is it kinda fun to research and hoard gear, it’s much easier than putting it to use. Buying the stuff helps us perform new identities — sometimes without ever getting around to doing the stuff of identity at all. If you’ve got the money and you’re having fun, it’s not terrible, but I think a lot of people fall into the gear trap out of fear of failing or because they don’t have the energy to indulge in new past-times that require more mental energy to do since they’re not yet routine.

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Romance

Read The Trouble with Hating You

Read The Trouble with Hating You

Liya Thakkar is a successful biochemical engineer, takeout enthusiast, and happily single woman. The moment she realizes her parents’ latest dinner party is a setup with the man they want her to marry, she’s out the back door in a flash. Imagine her surprise when the same guy shows up at her office a week later — the new lawyer hired to save her struggling company. What’s not surprising: he’s not too thrilled to see her either after that humiliating fiasco.

Jay Shah looks good on paper…and off. Especially if you like that whole gorgeous, charming lawyer-in-a-good-suit thing. He’s also arrogant and infuriating. As their witty office banter turns into late night chats, Liya starts to think he might be the one man who truly accepts her. But falling for each other means exposing their painful pasts. Will Liya keep running, or will she finally give love a real chance?

I expected this to be a romcom based on the cover and title but on balance the heroine’s history of sexual abuse and abusive parents and hero’s trauma and self-loathing dragged it into more serious territory. It was smooth reading but there was quite a lot that I found distressing, from a near date rape with another guy to emotional blackmail to worker exploitation to slut shaming to the hero saying some truly terrible things to the heroine’s face to leading other romantic interests on after the halfway point. I disliked how the hero confronted the wannabe rapist and forced her to interact with him again. They bicker a lot at the beginning and everyone else thinks it’s cute but mostly they’re just being assholes to each other, not bantering.

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Environment

Want to watch: The Contradictions of Sustainability

Bookmarked On the Contradictions of Sustainability by Danah AbdullaDanah Abdulla (Futuress)

This talk explores the contradictions of sustainability: between greenwashing, politics of production, and overconsumption.

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Society

Investing commercial products with personal meaning, building identity through brands

Bookmarked The Trend Report™: Memory Purchase by Kyle Raymond Fitzpatrick (The Trend Report™)

On the objectification of memories and a new “it” product.

In a way, this “famous recipe” was sponsored content. It was a remixing of products. These memories, this story of hers, was a personalization of capitalism, building a lore and culture around something bought.

But where this becomes a bit concerning is when…all of your memories are wrapped up in products, in stuff, in things that came-from-the-store.

To be American, to be of the twenty-first century, is to have no heirlooms but to own so many physicalized empty calories.

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Lifestyle Reflection Reuse Shopping

Read A Bunch of Pretty Things I Did Not Buy

Read A Bunch of Pretty Things I Did Not Buy

Like most people, Sarah Lazarovic covets beautiful things. But rather than giving in to her impulse to spend and acquire, Sarah spent a year painting the objects she wanted to buy instead.

Based on a visual essay that was first published on The Hairpin, A Bunch of Pretty Things I Did Not Buy is a beautiful and witty take on the growing “slow shopping” movement. Sarah is a well-known blogger and illustrator, and she writes brilliantly without preaching or guilt-tripping. Whether she’s trying to justify the purchase of yet another particleboard IKEA home furnishing, debating the pros and cons of leg warmers or calculating the per-day usage cost of big-ticket items, Sarah’s poignant musings will resonate with any reader who’s ever been susceptible to an impulse buy.

I began to define my person by what my person wanted.

I see this too in the overstrong association of self with what you like: constructing an identity from your preferred intellectual properties and universes.

[W]e’ve long thought of shopping as frivolous leisure, when in truth it is real work.

Amen! And exercising patience in waiting for the right item — high quality, right price, not too trendy — is excruciating in a world of instant gratification.

(…this dismissal is also because women and shopping are linked in our society, and women are “responsible for” the home…)

Sarah Lazarovic

The buyerarchy of needs:

The Buyerarchy of Needs, adapted from Maslow by Sarah Lazarovic: from bottom to top (most to least), use what you have, borrow, swap, thrift, make, buy

The wanting never goes away altogether, even as you restrict your purchasing: I still lust after items on my wishlist years after adding them. The collector’s urge is strong in me, particularly when it comes to art, one of my exceptions for impulse purchases. I have also found what the author has: that my buying desires have been turned and concentrated on home goods. These I justify as making my house more beautiful and comfortable, my life easier and more efficient — but many are not necessary. (Yet, some are worthwhile: buying a handful of storage crates this year has made my home tidier and nicer to be in.) As with all of life, shopping will be an area of continuous learning and mistakes.