Have you ever looked in your wife or girlfriend's closet and wished you had sex for every time she bought a new pair of shoes?
Here is a complimentary audio dialog for your knowledge :
http://personallifemedia.com/2014/04/get-her-to-say-yes-to-sexual-intimacy-everytimeYOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN SHOES
If you are trying to generate the masculine/feminine dynamic and inject polarity into your relationship, I commend you.
Women nowadays are so "masculine" in their career that it's a damned nice break to relax into a man's arms and let him care for you.
One thing I hear repeatedly is that men today are too feminine. I wonder if it's more that many women are so used to taking care of business that they forget to allow their man the space to step in and take charge.
I notice just as many men letting doors go in my face as I do women who stride ahead of their guys and open doors for themselves.
I've learned to linger...
I wait in the car until Tim has enough time to get around and open my door for me...
Extending my hand first so he can grab it and help me up out of the car.
I pause at entrances and step aside so that my husband can get the door for me.
Part of being a woman is creating the space for a man to be gallant.
Being a good woman entails creating opportunities for my man to "win."
And then to notice when he's been chivalrous and appreciate him for the effort.
This same dynamic works in the bedroom.
In general, it is a man's job to lead sexually. You have to know how much and how long you're going to tease her and turn her on. If she runs into an emotional issue, you're going to stop and handle that. Then you're going to do
something to take her to the next level of turn on.
You're in control.
You call the plays.
You're the director.
That's HOT for her.
You have a lot of surprises and you offer them to her like you're giving her several meals from which she can choose. You're holding the game plan in your head while you’re being totally present with her.
That's the combination of things that the masculine energy does in the sexual relationship, where the feminine surrenders, gets out of her head, stops directing everything. She lets you run the show, and she just has orgasms for you.
That's a perfect balance.
So if a guy has vision and she knows that you have a plan with plenty of opportunities for her to choose throughout it, that lets her say,
"All right, he's got this. I don't need to tell him what to do. He has a plan, and so I can just let go and go on his ride."
You're giving her an erotic adventure. You're utilizing your vision.
Master the four keys to seduction and you'll have more sex than you can handle.