Lesson 4:
The Self in Western and
   Eastern thoughts
 Eastern- Asia
 Western- Europe and Northern America
 In the Philippines alone each region may have a
  similar varying perception regarding the self
Confucianism- code of
ethical conduct,
on how one should properly
act
according to their
relationship with
other people;
It is also focused on having a
harmonious social life (Ho
1995)
 Confucianism is often characterized as a system of social and
  ethical philosophy rather than a religion. In fact, Confucianism
  built on an ancient religious foundation to establish the social
  values, institutions, and transcendent ideals of traditional Chinese
  society.
 The worldly concern of Confucianism rests upon the belief that
  human beings are fundamentally good, and teachable,
  improvable, and perfectible through personal and communal
  endeavor, especially self-cultivation and self-creation. Confucian
  thought focuses on the cultivation of virtue in a morally
  organized world.
 Identity and self-concept of the individual are
  interwoven with the identity and status of his/her
  community or culture, sharing its pride as well as its
  failures (Ho 1995).
 They prefer simple lifestyle and able to act
  spontaneously.
Chun-tzu- a
man of virtue
or noble
character
 Still embedded in his social relationships (Ho
  1995)
 Subdued self- wherein personal needs are
  repressed (subdued) for the good of many,
  making Confucian society also hierarchal for the
  purpose of maintaining order and balance in
  society
Taoism- second
philosophy. Taoism
is living in the way
of the Tao or the
universe
 Rejects having one definition of what the Tao is, and
  one can only state clues of what it is as they adopt a
  free-flowing, relative, unitary as well as paradoxical
  view of almost everything.
 Rejects the hierarchy and strictness brought by
  Confucianism and would prefer a simple lifestyle and
  its teachings thus aim to describe how to attain that
  life
 Taoism (also known as Daoism) is a Chinese
  philosophy attributed to Lao Tzu (c. 500 BCE)
  which contributed to the folk religion of the
  people primarily in the rural areas of China and
  became the official religion of the country under
  the Tang Dynasty. Taoism is therefore both a
  philosophy and a religion.
 The self –is not just an extension of the family or community; it
  is part of the universe, one of the forms and manifestations of
  the tao.
 The ideal self is selflessness but this is not forgetting about the
  self, it is living a balanced life with society and nature, bring
  open and accepting to change
 forgetting about prejudices and egocentric ideas and thinking
  about equality as well as complementarity among humans as
  well as other beings
 Buddhism-third
  philosopher
 The self is seen as an
  illusion, born out of
  ignorance, of trying to
  hold and control things,
  or human-centered needs;
 The self is also the source
  of all these sufferings
 It is self-cultivated.
It is therefore, our
quest to forget about the self,
forget the carvings of the self,
 break the attachments you
 have with the world,
 and to renounce the self
which is the cause of all
suffering and in doing
so, attain the state of Nirvana
 Confucianism and Taoism still situate the self within bigger
  context. In striving to become a better person, one does not
  create a self above other people or nature but self that is
  beneficial to his community as well as in order and harmony
  with everything else.
 As Buddhism, the self with all its connections and selfish ideas,
  is taken not just out of the center of the picture, but from the
  whole picture entirely
Western                             Eastern
 Democracy, rational thinking      -More collectivist
 Individualist           -sees the other person
 Looking toward the self        as part of yourself as
 Compare self in order to be       well as the things
   better                 you may create, a drama
Put privacy in developing self        in which everyone is
Dualities where in you are distinct interconnected with their
From other person            specific roles
 Western thought looks       Eastern perspective sees the
  at the world in dualities
                              other person as part yourself as
  wherein you are distinct
  from the other person,
                              well as things you may create,
 The creator is separate
                              a drama in which everyone is
  from the object he          interconnected with specific
  created, in which self is   roles
  distinguished and
  acknowledge.
 Americans talk more        Asians in general talk about their
  about their personal       social roles or the social situations
  attributes when            that invoked certain traits that they
                             deem positive for their selves
  describing themselves
                             Asians rather keep a low profile as
 American highlight their   promoting the self can be seen as
  personal achievements      boastfulness that disrupts social
                             relationship
 Western culture is what we would
  call an individualistic culture since
  their focus is on the person.
 By valuing the individual,
  Westerners may seem to have             Asian culture called a
  loose associations or even loyalty      collectivistic culture as the
  to their group                          group and social relations that
 Competition is the name of the          is given more importance than
  game and they are more likely           individual needs and wants
  straightforward and forceful in
  their communication as well as
  decision making.
 Westerners also
  emphasizes more on
                              Eastern or oriental persons look
  value of equality even if
                              after the welfare of their groups
  they see that the
                              and values cooperation.
  individual can rise above
                              They would also be more
  everything else. Because
                              compromising and they tend to go
  everyone is on their own
                              around the bush in explaining
  competition
                              things, hoping that the other person
 One can say that they
                              would feel what they really want to
  also promote ideals that    say
  create “fair” competition
  and protect the
  individual.
 Westerners would most
  likely call their bosses,   Asians, with their collectivistic
  parents or other senior     culture, put more emphasis on
  by their first name.        hierarchy as the culture wants to
 The boss can also be        keep things in harmony and order
                              For Asians, we have respectful
  approached head-on
                              terms for our seniors and lot of
  when conflicts or
                              workers would not dare go
  problems about arises.
                              against the high-ranking officials
 It must be emphasized, however, that these are general
  commonalities among Western cultures as compared to
  Asian or Oriental cultures. In case of the Philippines, we
  can also consider the colonization experience for
  differences and similarities with our Asian neighbours. We
  might also find variation among provinces and regions due
  to geographical conditions
With the social media, migration, and intermarriages,
variety between he Western and Asian perceptions may
either be blurred or highlighted. Whereas conflict is
inevitable in diversity, peace is also possible through the
understanding of where each of us is coming from