EASTERN AND WESTERN THOUGHTS
Western                                     Easter
       (Greek and Judeo-Christian                               n
                Traditions)                          (Classical Indian and
 Individualism/Fragmentary/Dualistic:                       Chinese
                                            Collectivism/Wholisti
 A human being has an individualistic       c:            Philosophie
 nature and is an independent part of the   A human being iss)an integral part of
 universe and the society. More focused on  the universe and the society. People
 the individual events and the role of the  are fundamentally connected. all
 person. Emphasis is on the “I”.            events      in the universe are
                                            interconnected              (Systematic
 Outer-world dependent: Searching           Inner-world dependent: the “WE”.
                                            Approach).    Emphasis  is on
 outside yourself – through research and    Searching
 analysis                                   inside yourself – through
 Science/evidence-based culture: What       meditation
                                            Evidence is meaningless; truth is
 can be proven/measured is deemed the       and right living
                                            given
 truth                                      and does not have to be proven
 Man is an element of the Divine            Man is a part of the cosmic unity
 Life is a service (to God, money,          Life is a journey towards eternal
 business, etc.)                            realities outside the world
 The journey of mankind is linear;          The journey of mankind is cyclical:
 everything has its beginning and end.      perception of eternal recurrence
                                            (life after death, reincarnation)
 Action is not necessarily a translation    The action is the extension of the
 of the mind.                               mind.
 The concept of “Me”: the true “me” is      Me- to be discovered by liberating
 a part of the Divine that need not become from the false “me” – attachment
 apparent: it is given, does not have to be to the material things
 cognizable
Construction of the Self in the Western Perspective
The Western worldview underscores the importance of the parts rather than the
whole. It suggests a fragmentary approach in understanding phenomena as it does
not subscribe to a holistic view of reality. As such, all aspects of life are explored
and analyzed not as whole but as separate parts.
Even the self is purported to be investigated and viewed as a highly
compartmentalized entity. The Western Thought maintains the individual as a
separate, self-contained individual, whose sense of self-worth is focused on
internal attributes (ability, intelligence, personality, goals, preferences, rights).
Since the West values individuality and freedom, the self as an independent
individual is given preference over the others. It does not however discredit the
role of environment and society in the development of the self but its focus is
always looking toward the self. The personal achievements of the self over the
others for instance is highlighted, thus Westerners tend to compare themselves to
the rest of the group in order to be better. Their self-esteem can in fact be verified
and confirmed through social comparison. But they can set out their own goals
regardless of whether or not these goals conform to the society’s shared goals.
Moreover, individual needs and wants are given more importance as they put
primacy in developing themselves.
From this standpoint, equality is accorded to every individual self who is regarded
as an independent being that has inalienable right to life and personal
development. Individual rights are recognized and given prominence over duties
as it is only through this where the society at large attains progress and
civilization.
The self according to Western theories was comprehensively discussed in the
preceding topics. For us to fully appreciate the self and make an objective
synthesis about it, we shall, in particular, take a brief look unto how it is explained
based on the Eastern theories. We will be examining how the self was explained
by the major philosophies of the East – Hinduism, Buddhism, Confucianism,
Taoism. We shall likewise explore the indigenous conceptualization of the self
based on the Filipino culture.
The Self as Embedded in the Oriental Thoughts
Understanding the propositions of the East regarding the self entails a paradigm
shift of the Western views. While its western counterpart highlights the
importance of individualism, the eastern thought values unity and harmony and
being part of the greater whole, where everything is believed to be connected and
the interdependent with others and nature. The Eastern perspective does not see
any distinction in all the things in the world; everyone is interconnected thus, the
other person is deemed part of yourself.
The self, through this holistic view, is considered a relational being whose very
existence is defined by his being blended harmoniously with the other selves, all
things and events. The self is fundamentally connected with the other selves and
is an integral part of the universe and society. In this web of interdependency,
harmony is the key. One’s conformity with shared norms and values is very
important.
Consequently, the self must place duties over rights. Individual goals are
manifested and find fulfilment in society’s shared goals. It is crucial for the self to
participate in creating harmony, and to avoid criticism, ridicule, and rejection to
gain approval and acceptance.
The Self in Hinduism
Who is the self? The self is Atman, and Atman is the innermost essence of the self
whose destiny is to be Brahma in Nirvana. Attachment of the self to the material
world (maya/illusion) leads to suffering (samsara). Reincarnation of the self is a
form of suffering because the self keeps coming back to the material-world
thinking that it is its real destiny. The self has to liberate itself from this ignorance
by cultivating an authentic knowledge (self-realization) that the self has is NOT
MAYA but ATMAN. When the self has been thoroughly cleansed from its
illusions, the self is filled with the sense of well-being, and at death, its soul is
liberated from endless rebirths (reincarnation) and join the universal spirit Brahma
and becomes one with Brahma.
The Self in Buddhism
The doctrine of non-self or annata dictates that the self is subject to the law of
changes. Everything, including the self, is always in constant change: born, grows,
and dies. The self is composed of five aggregates: natter, sensation, perception,
mental construct, and consciousness. Each aggregate is transitory in nature. That is
why there is no such thing as permanent self. Buddhism discards the existence of
the self. The idea of the self is illusory. This false belief yields harmful thoughts of
selfish desire, “me-and-mine” mentality, craving, attachment, ill-will, hatred,
conceit, pride, egoism, and any other defilements and social problems. It is the
source of all troubles in societies.
The goal of the self is to attain enlightenment by freeing oneself from ignorance
that causes suffering. To eliminate ignorance and attain enlightenment, the self
should:
    1. Know the four noble truths that there is suffering in this world; the cause of
        suffering is craving for self-identity as if it is permanence; there is way out
        of this bondage of suffering.
    2. The way to get out of suffering is by practicing the eightfold path.
The Self in Confucianism
The self is a moral and social being. Confucius was essentially concerned with what
made a good life. Good life depends on order, and order depends on good and just
government. If a ruler lives and governs virtuously, virtuous people would obey
him. Virtue consists of correct behavior, such as benevolence, righteousness,
propriety, wisdom, and loyalty.
    These virtues must guide human relations, namely, (a) between ruler and people;
   (b) between parents and children; (c) between husband and wife; (d) between elder
   brother and younger brother; and (e) between friends and friend. A true self is a
   noble man possesses all the virtues, and this noble man is called the man of JEN.
   The self is a dot in the universe and being a part of nature, the self must live in
   accordance with the law of nature that rules and directs the movements of all
   things. The highest achievement of every human being is being a wise person. As
   a wise person, his highest achievement is affinity with the universe. The
   happiness of the self is found in the self’s conformity with nature.
   Confucius advocated the active role of man in relation to creating oneness with
   nature. Since the self is the master of nature, his duty is to actively harmonize
   himself with nature by translating the innate law of nature into action.
   The Self in Taoism
   As a philosophy, Taoism advocates what is natural and spontaneous, simple, and
   necessary. Taoism derived its name from its central idea, Tao or the Way of nature.
   Taoism, just like Confucianism aimed at humanity’s oneness with nature. But
   Taoism contradicted Confucianism as regards to how oneness shall be achieved.
   Taoism considers the self as merely one of the many elements of the natural world.
   Tao is an indescribable force that govern natures. The self must bring himself in
   harmony with Tao by practicing the three great virtues: humility, frugality and
   contentment. The self should not strive for learning, riches, and power; the self
   should find last thing happiness by being, quiet, thoughtful, and humble. In other
   word to be able to harmonize, the self must practice the WU-WIE or the non-
   interference with the natural courses of events. Most of the problems in the world
   is caused by the self’s active participation in creating harmony with nature. Too
   much involvement of the self in nature can lead to destruction.
HOW BEAUTY IS DEFINED AROUND THE WORLD
      1. Ethiopia: Body Scars
         Wsome are concerned with erasing scars, Ethiopia’s Karo tribe is creating
         them. In the tribe’s eyes, beauty is literally skin deep: the scars cut onto the
         stomachs of women at childhood are seen as beautiful adornments meant
         to attract men who are husband material.
      2. Kenya: Long Earlobes and Shaved Heads
         To the Masai tribe of Kenya, long, stretched earlobes and low-
         maintenance buzz cuts are the ideal. Women are known to shave their
         heads and use everything from elephant tusks to twigs to pierce and
         stretch their lobes to become more attractive.
      3. Burma and Thailand: Long Necks
     Long, giraffe-like necks are the ultimate sign of beauty and female
     elegance to the Kayan tribe. At 5 years old, Kayan women start priming
     their necks with heavy brass rings. Each year, more coils are added,
     pushing down their shoulders and creating the effect of a longer neck.
     Keep in mind that the rings in this centuries- old ritual can weigh up to 22
     pounds (9.98 kg).
  4. China, Thailand and Japan: Pale Skin
     In various parts of Asia, pale, white skin is revered as a sign of
     affluence and attractiveness. In Japan, women avoid the sun at all costs,
     while skin-care products with whitening agents are the norm in places
     like China and Thailand. Sometimes, it’s hard to find products without
     bleaching properties.
  5. New Zealand: Face Tattoos
     Tattooing is a sacred ritual to the Maori people of New Zealand, and not
     something parents warn their teenagers they’ll one day regret.
     Traditionally, a chisel was used to carve grooves into the skin, creating
     swirling tattoos called Tamoko. Women with tattooed lips, chins and full
     blue lips are the most beautiful.
THE FIVE GLOBAL BEAUTY ARCHETYPES:
           Primary Sexual Characteristics
           Primary sexual characteristics are the physical characteristics directly involved in
           reproduction, such as the sex organs. Sex organs are a broad category that
           includes any gland, organ, or part that is necessary for reproduction. (Study.com)
           The sex organs show a major physical change during puberty – its growth and
           development make up the primary sexual characteristics. Primary sexual
           characteristics are there from birth (for example, penises vs. vaginas). In
           mammals, sex is determined through hormonal events in utero that under
           normal circumstances are controlled by the combination of X and Y
           chromosomes. If an egg is fertilized with a sperm carrying the X chromosome,
           the gonads should develop into ovaries and the offspring will be female; if the
           egg is fertilized with a sperm carrying the Y chromosome, the gonads should
           develop into testes and the offspring will be male. (Reid, 2018).
           For the male: scrotum, testes, epididymis, vas deferens, prostate, seminal vesicles,
           urethra, and penis all qualify as being part of the sex organs. (Study.com) The
           male gonads (testes), which are located in the scrotum (sac), outside the body, are
           only approximately 10% of their mature size at the age of fourteen years. Rapid
           growth occurs for a year or two, after which growth slows down; the testes are
           fully developed by the age of twenty or twenty-one.
           Secondary Sexual Characteristics
           Secondary sexual characteristics emerge at puberty. These physical characteristics
           are not used in sexual reproduction, but are important for attracting a mate or
           being able to provide care for offspring - such as human breasts. These features
           distinguish males from females and make members of one sex appealing to
           members of the opposite sex. Hormones secreted through the hypothalamus
           initiate the development of classically male or female secondary sexual traits
           (Reid, 2018). The appearance of secondary sexual characteristics makes one
           “sexually appealing”. Changes caused by the gradual development of these
           characteristics, like other developments at puberty, follows a predictable pattern.
           The following table shows the secondary sexual characteristics of boys and girls
Important Secondary Sex Characteristics:
           BOYS                                                       GIRLS
Hair                                            Hips
Pubic hair appears about one year after the     The hips become wider and rounder as a
testes and penis have started to increase in    result of the enlargement of the pelvic bone
size. Axillary and facial hair appears when     and the development of subcutaneous fat.
the pubic hair has almost completed its
growth, as does body hair. At first, all hair   Breasts
is scanty, lightly pigmented, and fine in       Shortly after the hips start to enlarge, the
texture. Later it becomes darker, coarser,      breasts begin to develop. The nipples
more luxuriant, and slightly kinky.             enlarge and protrude and, as the mammary
                                                gland develops, the breast become larger
Skin                                            and rounder.
The skin becomes coarser, less transparent,
and sallow in color, and the pores enlarge.     Hair
                                                Pubic hair appears after hip and breast
Glands                                          development is well underway. Axillary
The sebaceous, or oil-producing, glands in      hair begins to appear after the menarche, as
the skin enlarge and become more active,        does facial hair. Body hair appears on the
which may cause acne. The apocrine glands       limbs late in puberty. All hair except facial
in the armpits start to function, and           hair is straight and slightly pigmented at
perspiration increases as puberty               first and then becomes more luxuriant,
progresses.                                     coarser, darker, and slightly kinky.
Muscles                                         Skin
The muscles increase markedly in size and       The skin becomes coarser, thicker, and
strength, thus giving shape to the arms,        slightly sallow, and the pores enlarge.
legs, and shoulders.
                                                Glands
Voice                                           The sebaceous and apocrine glands become
Voice changes begin after some pubic hair       more active as puberty progresses. Clogging
has appeared. The voice becomes husky           of the sebaceous glands can cause acne,
and later drops in pitch, increases in          while the apocrine glands in the armpits
volume, and acquires a pleasant tone. Voice     produce perspiration, which is especially
breaks are common when maturing is rapid.       heavy and pungent just before and during
                                                menstrual period.
Breast Knots
Slight knobs around the male mammary            Muscles
glands appear between the ages of twelve        The muscles increase in size and strength,
and fourteen. These last for several weeks      especially in the middle of puberty and
and then decreases in number and size.          toward the end, thus giving shape to the
                                                shoulders, arms, and legs.
                                                Voice
                                                The voice becomes fuller and more
                                                melodious. Huskiness and breaks in the
                                                voice are rare among girls.
EROGENOUS ZONES OF THE HUMAN BODY
These body parts are known as erogenous zones – sensitive areas on the body that
cause sexual arousal when they are touched (Merriam- Webster). Your awareness
of these body parts will lead you to being responsible – as to know your limits and
capabilities, and will give you control over your
desires and sexual urges.
   1. Clitoris – this is the female body part contributing most to sexual arousal.
      It is extremely sensitive due to nerve endings. Research shows that
      stimulating the clitoris is the fastest and easiest way for many women to
      achieve orgasm through pressure and vibration.
   2. Vagina – it is where the “G-spot” is located. The interior of the vagina
      contain nerve endings, and women report that deep stimulation leads to
      more intense orgasms. The outer edge of the vagina, on the other hand,
      tends to respond to light touch.
   3. Cervix – located at the lower end of the uterus, has its own feel-good
      nerve pathways. In fact, some research suggests that the vagina, clitoris,
      and cervix all respond separately and distinctly to sexual stimuli. Nerves
      in the cervix respond most to pressure stimulation, but light touch has
      been shown to elicit a response as well.
   4. Mouth and Lips – surveys found kissing to be more important in
      relationship-building than in sexual arousal. Studies suggest that many
      women rank the lips and mouth highly as erogenous areas.
       5. Neck- according to a large survey of women, both the nape and
       back of the neck are among the top 10 erogenous zones. One study
       found that the neck is very sensitive to light touch, especially among
       people with low body fat. Another study found that women with
       spinal cord injury can get pretty turned on by neck stimulation alone.
   6. Breasts and Nipples – both men and women have breasts for evolutionary
      purposes especially women; and they play a role in sexual arousal as well.
      Nipple stimulation sets fireworks off in the same region of the brain that
      processes sensations from the clitoris and vagina. Just as
      with the clitoris, pressure and vibration stimulate them.
   7. Ears – are super sensitive to touch, probably due to a large number of
      nerve endings.
   MALE
1. Penis - both survey and lab-based scientific experiments demonstrate that
   penile stimulation significantly contributes to sexual satisfaction. And
   while this can be a sensitive subject, circumcision doesn’t appear to
   decrease sensation or sexual satisfaction.
2. Mouth and Lips – they are highly sensitive; male lips respond to light
   touch, temperature, or pressure. Kissing also triggers a release of
   hormones involved in intimacy – especially oxytocin, the so-called “love
   hormone.”
3. Scrotum - it is one of men’s most notable erogenous zones. Lots of nerves
   mean that this area is super-sensitive to touch.
4. Neck – while touching the neck doesn’t appear to be quite as much of a
   turn-on for men as for women, it’s still ranked pretty highly on the
   erogenous zones list. The neck has great sensitivity to low-frequency
   vibration, making it a prime spot for light erotic touch.
5. Nipples – as with women, men rank nipples as a definite hot spot. While
   male nipples don’t appear to serve any real purpose (they’re basically by-
   products of evolution), that doesn’t mean they’re totally useless – they still
   have plenty of nerve endings.
6. Perineum – is the area between the anus and scrotum and is hooked up to
   perineal nerves, which help convey sensations of sexual pleasure from the
   genitals to the brain.
7. Ears – highly sensitive to touch because of a high number of sensory
   receptors on the skin, the ears are ranked just behind the scrotum for body
   parts that help men orgasm when touched or otherwise stimulated.
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