This document discusses the importance of discernment in decision making. It provides guidance on discernment, including reflecting on oneself, being one with God through prayer, considering options, making a decision, and remaining in truth. Hindrances to discernment like pride and selfishness are also examined. The document emphasizes invoking the Holy Spirit through prayer and reflection to help discover God's plan and make right decisions.
This document discusses the importance of discernment in decision making. It provides guidance on discernment, including reflecting on oneself, being one with God through prayer, considering options, making a decision, and remaining in truth. Hindrances to discernment like pride and selfishness are also examined. The document emphasizes invoking the Holy Spirit through prayer and reflection to help discover God's plan and make right decisions.
This document discusses the importance of discernment in decision making. It provides guidance on discernment, including reflecting on oneself, being one with God through prayer, considering options, making a decision, and remaining in truth. Hindrances to discernment like pride and selfishness are also examined. The document emphasizes invoking the Holy Spirit through prayer and reflection to help discover God's plan and make right decisions.
This document discusses the importance of discernment in decision making. It provides guidance on discernment, including reflecting on oneself, being one with God through prayer, considering options, making a decision, and remaining in truth. Hindrances to discernment like pride and selfishness are also examined. The document emphasizes invoking the Holy Spirit through prayer and reflection to help discover God's plan and make right decisions.
DISCERNMENT through the people, things or events that happen to us. - Every day, we make our own decisions. Success and failures DEEPENING (Samuel) depend on what we decided. That's -Samuel was called by God three why it is important to have a times. Three times he answered. Three times he thought it was Eli. discernment first before we come up with a final decision. Until Eli told him, it was the Lord. RESPONSIBLE -God calls us. The call comes through -Exerting effort and time to know people, things, or events that happen God's will for oneself to us. Like Samuel, we sometimes fail to understand this call. In this regard, Expounding the meaning of the value "responsible" more time for prayer and reflection is -To do something using energy/effort, needed. discern, pray, and listen to what is Lesson to ponder and should be the will of God for you. remembered: -One wrong decision, choice, or GENERALIZATION -Often times, we neglect the call of action may have a lifetime impact. God for us because we have so much DISCERNMENT anxiety and stress in many things. We - Discernment is the process of discovering God's plan or will should be responsible in all our actions and focus on one thing at a - We are moved by various motives, time. Sometimes, we want to fulfill both from what we do every day and everything in one snap. With this in our own decisive choice. regard, we fail to understand the real - Many forces contribute such as personal interest, altruism, family, or call of God for us, that's why we need more time for prayer and reflection. money. GENERALIZATION - Altruism - goodwill DEVELOPMENT/FORMATIVE -Motive is our driving force to do ASSESSMENT things and make things happen. -Our motive should be based on love Direction: Supply the missing word in the following sentences. Choose your that our Lord Jesus Christ answer from either of the word/s in exemplified. close parenthesis. -There should not be any conflict with what we want and what God 1. It is important to have a (consultation from others, wills. For whatever God wills is best discernment) first before we come up and truly good for us with a final decision. WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO DISCERN? 2. Being responsible is exerting effort In spiritual discernment, we need to listen, admit our powerlessness, trust and time to (know, wait) God's will for oneself. in the Lord, make choice, become 3. Like Samuel, we sometimes fail to responsible, and expect instability understand God's call for us. In this -First, we have to learn to listen regard, more time for (attending -Second, we have to admit that we need God mass, praying) and (silence, reflection) is needed. -Third, trust is important yet difficult DEEPENING (PARABLE OF WISE AND to keep. When faced with FOOLISH VIRGINS) uncertainties, difficulties, trials and - The oil (spiritual) were the good hardships, and sufferings, some still works that you have done. In the end question His loving presence. To of our journey here on earth, the Lord journey with God requires trust. will see if we have enough oil. -Fourth, we have to make a choice. -The oil cannot be shared and taken We have to avoid saying "Go with the by someone else because it has to be flow." earned by each one. The oil or the -Fifth, we have to take responsibility good works can serve only as an with our choices. We need other inspiration and example to others. people for guidance and direction but -Keep watch and be vigilant for we do ultimately, we are to decide. not know when, where, how the -Sixth, we have to accept the various bridegroom will fetch us. Keep our feelings of sadness, happiness, fear, lamp burning every day, be good and surprises, upset, and even anger don't waste every opportunity to help (sometimes all at once). All these are others. Save oil so that we will have a part of spiritual discernment. enough anytime the bridegroom STEPS IN THE PROCESS OF comes. DISCERNMENT HOW CAN WE KNOW THAT THE 1. Reflect on your true self CHOICE IS RIGHT? - We try to discover His will through -The choice is right when we ourselves experience the fruits of the Holy - We get to know ourselves and find Spirit, growth in our faith, have the ourselves, we have to accept it zeal to do mission, and desire to offer 2. Be one with the source, origin and oneself to God through loving service, goal empathy with others, and realization -In prayer, we let God speak to us of greater purpose. and so we listen - If we are trying to live a life in 3. Consider options, make decision accordance with God's will, the best - After having in touch with ourselves criterion to know whether the and with God, we can start to gather decision is good or not, is how we all the facts and options to be find ourselves "blessed." considered in our decision -Aside from experience, there is -God would not give us anything that growth in our faith, in our personal by nature will deceive us relationship with God. We live not -Together with reason, feelings can only for ourselves but for God and for lead us to the right choice the people whom He loves. There is 4. Remain in truth an understanding that God has a - Once decision is made, we can greater plan for us. spend more time in prayer to confirm HINDRANCES TO DISCERNMENT whether it is the right decision or not 1. Pride - Sharing our decision is a wise thing -Makes us think that we are solely in to do as well charge of all that may happen to us - Others can provide us valuable - Destroys discernment feedback on the process of - Leads us to listen to no one except discernment we go through ourselves 2. Selfishness you if needed, at any time. You are - We look into ourselves for ourselves always to feel loved, and supported. -The decision is not what God asks us The Church and Scripture stand to do but what we want for ourselves about making discernment on pp. - With this, we will never be truly in 72-72 peace and joy Through creation, Scripture, Church, - It is in live that we find peace and and other religions, God reveals joy Himself and His plan. It pleases Him GENERALIZATION to share His goodness and glory to all -Discernment is very important in of us. He calls us friends and lives making decisions. Invoking the with us. guidance of the Holy Spirit, having -Only to Him who calls we will know time for prayer and reflection will the meaning and purpose of our lives help us to come up with a right GENERALIZATION decision and especially we will be - In God alone we will know the able to discover the plan or will of meaning and purpose of our lives. God for us. We just only humble And it is through prayer and worship ourselves and be selfless in front of that we will be able to discern God's God, because God cannot help us if will in our daily lives. we are full of ourselves. We should GENERALIZATION remember that God is the giver of all DEVELOPMENT/FORMATIVE grace and in Him nothing is ASSESSMENT impossible. Direction: Supply the missing word in GENERALIZATION the following sentences. Choose your DEVELOPMENT/FORMATIVE answer from either of the word/s in ASSESSMENT close parenthesis. Direction: Supply the missing word in 1. Only in God who calls us that we the following sentences. Choose your will know the (meaning, answer) and answer from either of the word/s in (goal, purpose) of our lives. close parenthesis. 2. "…Each of us is the result of a 1. Discernment is the process of (mind, thought) of God." - Pope discovering (God's, own's) plan or will. Benedict XVI 2. The choice is right when we 3. From the Footprints on the Sand: experience the (boost in our "…I never leave you… when you saw confidence, growth in our faith). only one set footprints, it was the TRUE/FALSE: The hindrances to time that I (carried, piggyback) you." discernment are our own pride and TRUTH selfishness. DEEPENING DEEPENING (Footprints on the Sand) -We Filipinos, value truthfulness. We -Our faith in God does not excuse us easily get discouraged with people from experiencing hardship and who lie, though they have been good sadness. The reality is that we all go to us. A liar means a person who through ups and downs in our lives. cannot be trusted with what she/he Whatever season you may encounter, says and does, that even the you are never to feel alone. God will truthfulness of their present good always be beside you, and carrying acts are put to question. This is one of the reasons why parents teach seriously the value of honesty to their truthfulness of their present good children. acts are put to (question, test). TRUTHFULNESS Multiple Choice: What did Jesus reply - Being true to one's thoughts, words, to the elders when he was asked, and actions accepting his/her "Are you the Son of Man?" responsibility as bearer and sharer of a. You say that I am truth b. I do not know who is the Son of DEEPENING ( Luke 22:47-53,66-71) Man -Jesus was a victim of injustice. It Identification: What value do you have was illegal during His time to arrest if you are always true to your and put Him in trial at night. It was thoughts, words, and actions and you illegal to arrest someone of a capital accept your crime on the basis of one's followers responsibility as a bearer and sharer or anyone related or connected to the of truth. Answer - truthfulness accused. It was illegal to pass THE MAGUINDANAO PEARLS By Isidro immediate judgment from those L. Retizos members of the Jewish court. Jesus This story revolves around customs was put to death not on the crime of of ancient Filipinos. In this story the blasphemy which they could not Sultan’s daughter Lakambini calls on prove and warrant capital Sinag-Tala, the best basket weaver punishment. He was put to death for of the place. She wants her weave a treason He never did. basket worthy as a gift to the mother -Not far from reality, we too may of the man whom she hoped to become victims of injustices. We may marry. The servant of the Sultan’s never be accused of something we daughter saw this man Walang Gulat never said or done. If this happens, always talking with Sinag-Tala as she what will we do? How are we gathers reeds for the basket. But expected to deal with it as Catholic Sinag-Tala did not know he was as he Christians? had introduced himself as Magiting. GENERALIZATION Sinag-Tala did not know he was a -We should always be truthful in prince and that he was the man whatever we say and do, be a sharer Lakambini was interested in. When and bearer of truth. the Sultan’s daughter learned that -It is a disgrace to a liar because Walang Gulat was interested in he/she cannot be trusted with what Sinag-Tala, she made a plan to do she/he says and does, that even the away with the girl. She pretended truthfulness of his/her present good that she had lost a string of pearls acts are put to question. and she accused Sinag-Tala taking GENERALIZATION them. She also hired a servant to Direction: Supply the missing word in attest that she had seen Sinag-Tala the following sentences. Choose your taking the pearl necklace and hiding answer from either of the words in it. At that time, the way to find out if the close parenthesis. the person is guilty of theft was to 1. liar means a person who cannot be have them dip their hands in boiling (relied, trusted) with what he/she water. If the suspect’s hands came says and does, that even the out unscathed he or she is declared innocent. But who can escape the effects of the boiling water? As the - Being thrown to an isolated place trial was going on Pirang Kawayan, What does the eighth commandment the father of the accused girl, was command us to do? watching at a distance. He was good -The eighth commandment marksman. And as his daughter was commands us to speak the truth in about to dip her hands into the all things at all times especially boiling water, he got his sharp concerning the good name and honor pointed dagger and aimed it towards of others his tumbling daughter. The Sultan’s -As children of God, we are called to daughter saw what was going to be like Him happen and was conscious stricken. - To speak the truth means to tell She cried out! I have the pearls! what is true Sinag-Tala forgive me! I hid them – -Truth hurts but there is no other the pearls – I hid them – the pearls – way. Only truth can lead us to the Oh I hid them! Sinag-Tala. right path. DEEPENING ( The Maguindanao Pearls) Why should one not bear false -"We should keep our tongue from witness against one's neighbor? evil, our lips from speaking lies. That - We are created in His image and we should turn evil and do good, seek likeness peace, and pursue it." (Psalm - Each one is good and honorable, 34:14-15) worthy of praise -We should be careful of what we say - It is in our inner calling to speak the to other people, especially if it can truth damage the reputation of others. Why should we protect our good What is the law that upholds the name? truth? - Our good name is a gift -The law upholds the truth is the How can we protect our good name? eighth commandment, "You shall not Doing good works build for us a good bear false witness against your name or reputation. It is like a light neighbor" (Exodus 20:16; that shines. Even without showing it Deuteronomy 5:20) to others, it naturally spreads and - Lies and deceit cause separation enlightens others about our true and distrust, while truth, though selves. sometimes hard produces unity and HYPOCRITE trust. - pretender, showy - In the Old Testament, it is evident GENERALIZATION that truth is not a private possession -Being created as an image and of anyone. Any concerns, problems, likeness of God, we are expected to and decisions of the people were live a good and honorable life, that referred to the whole. Those who we do good and say what is true. violated a law were put in a public -God wants us not to bear false trial. To bear false witness against a witness against our neighbor but neighbor is, therefore, to lie rather "profess the truth" (Eph. 4:15) bear false witness against a neighbor GENERALIZATION is, therefore, to lie against the whole Direction: Supply the missing word in community. the following sentences. Choose your EXILE answer form either of words in close parenthesis. 1. "You shall not bear false (watcher, GENERALIZATION witness) against your neighbor Direction: Supply the missing word in (family, neighbor)" the following sentences. Choose your 2. Our good name is a (gift, reward). answer from either of word in close 3. The eighth commandment parenthesis. commands us to speak the (secret, 1. In the Sacrament of (Baptism, truth) in all things at all times Confirmation), we become soldiers of especially concerning the (good name, God. good reputation) and honor 2.We become the ( salt, sand) of the (achievement, honor) of others. earth and (fire, light) of the world. DEEPENING ( STORY OF SUSANA) 3. We become (bearers, keepers) and - The Truth does not refer only to (heralds, suppressors) of the truth. lying as not telling falsehood against INTELLECT one's neighbor but also bearing -With this faculty or capacity, we can witness to the truth of the Christian tell things rightly Doctrine and faith even when SONS AND DAUGHTERS threatened with death. -It is the identity we share through - In the Sacrament of Confirmation, Christ, our Brother we become soldiers of God. We LITURGICAL CALENDAR become the salt of the earth and light -Starts at the first sunday of advent of the world. We become bearers and in december heralds of the truth. We become -Ends on the last saturday of ordinary witnesses of Christ. It is contrary to time on November our mission of spreading the Lord's LITURGICAL COLORS presence in truth if we do not keep Purple- Penance and Preparation the eighth commandment. -used during advent and lent THE SEVEN GIFTS OF THE HOLY Red- Sacrifice SPIRIT -used during Passion Sunday,Good 1. Wisdom Friday, Pentecost and feast of 2. Knowledge Apostles and martyrs. 3. Counsel Pink- Anticipation 4. Fortitude -Used on the third sunday of Advent 5. Understanding and fourth sunday during lent 6. Piety Green- Hope, Life, Growth 7. Fear of the Lord -Used throughout Ordinary Time GENERALIZATION White/Gold- Joy and Purity -We become soldiers of Christ the -Used on Easter, Christmas seasons moment we received the Sacrament and feasts of the Blessed of Confirmation. We become the salt Mother,angels and saints who weren’t of the earth and light of the world. martyred We become bearers and heralds of Blue-Serenity, Inspiration, Stability the truth. We become witnesses of -dedicated exclusively for the blessed Christ. virgin Mary - "Truthful lips endure forever" LITURGICAL SEASONS AND ITS - "Honesty brings joy" SIGNIFICANCE Advent- Jesus is coming Lies of Propaganda- mostly used by Christmas- Jesus is born government officials which is evident Ordinary Time-Jesus teaches during election Lent-Jesus will die and rise Half-truths - trust can’t be said or Paschal triduum-Jesus suffers and is twisted to say and mean something crucified which is not so. Easter- Jesus rises Contrived Flattery- exaggeratedly FAST FACTS used to gain or win undue favor from Advent- preparation of the coming of the authorities. the Son of God Lies told from malice- lie intended to Christmas- birth of Jesus harm others Epiphany- Jews or the Israelites were Silence (pa-simple)- “playing safe”. the chosen people of God Lie when one remains silent though Baptism of Jesus-Beginning of Jesus’ obliged to speak in order to free ministry himself/herself from trouble. Passion,Death and Resurrection of SECRET Jesus- saving works of Jesus -known privately to a person or only -Easter-most important season of a few persons the year-St. Paul -common to friends LYING -considered as one of the basis of a -saying or doing what is untrue with true friend the intention of deceiving KINDS OF SECRET: -may be done through words and Natural Secret- secret that cannot be actions revealed. -is a contrary to our identity as -would cause a person harm in children of truth his/her reputation,honor, or influence -is an abuse of speech and Promised Secret- secret a person communication promised from another person to -is selfishness keep it unknown after he/she learned -opposes basic human relationship it. -is an injury against other people who Entrusted Secret/Commited Secret- are led to error same lng with promised secret -is an injury to society public welfare Confessional Secret- secret that is sacrificed comes from a professional person. DIFFERENT LIES -known as “Confedentiality” White Lies (pasiklab/boasting)- Seal of Confession- secrecy exaggerating one’squality in order to demanded in the sacrament of get affirmation and recognition from penance. others RESTITUTION Escapist Lies (palusot)- preserving -restoration of something lost or one’s supposed good image before recompense for injury others, or avoiding possible recriminations Careless lies (sabi-sabi) or bola- simple but the damage may cause the person who does and who lied to, may not be easy to correct or change