Robert ford 11 cummins street novar gardens Adelaide

0431876760
Adelaide airport

*Hi there

*How are you doing??.

*Really nice profile you've got there..what do you think about mine?..

*Would be very nice to get to chat some more to see where this first chat leads us
together..Or what do you think?.

*I am Kevin and you are??

*Nice to meet you _________..

*For how long have you been here on bearwww?

I was on here for 2 months before and had to get off cos i had no luck coming up on
my side..what about you?Have you found anyone interesting yet??..

*What do you do for a living??.

*Would you devote time and commitment if you find the Right Man or someone
interesting??.

*Have you ever dated an Army man??..

*I am into Mechanical Engineering in there Army and i am a leader of 216 men out
here..We get to deal with anything on the trucks here and drive men to the field
for patrol to do our best to keep kids we take care of around here safe and try to
put a smile on their faces..

*What is your pet peeve?Mine is the wars going on in countries..

*I have been widowed for 9 yrs now and been raising my son alone ever since, that
is why i didn't have much time to date, but i guess this will be the time for me
now to give it a try..

*I've got a 13 yrs son(Ryan) who is my life and is there in Holland now with his
Moms little sister who just got married to a Dutch and i made him join her so we
can get together forever when i get back Stateside from this peace keeping
mission..And i hope that he is not a deal breaker..

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*Happily for me this is my last mission, cos i am retiring and wanna get to meet
someone nice soon to spend the rest of my life with that is why i find self here on
bearwww

*Do you mind adding me there on your yahoo messenger to get to chat some more from
there..Really slow on my side here on bearwww ..Really cool or what do you think??.

*We can get to exchange a couple of pics there too as we get to know each other
more and more..

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*Nice to meet you ones again ______..

*Really fast on here..

*Care to share a couple of pics together??.I will send that into your email now so
you will reply with a couple of yours dear..Okay??

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I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair
individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest,and looking
to meet a man that i can spend the rest of my life with in goodtimes and in
badtimes as well, A man that I can love and cherished with all my whole being and
heart and I pray to God almighty that he will provide me with that kind of a man
someday in my life

I'm proud of myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate,
someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behaviour and a great
personality.

I am looking for a partner and a lover and best friend who I can share the most
intimate dreams with. A well rounded individual and a spiritual person

I believe there is no ideal relationships, Be honest a relationship is hard work

and compromise, It is as good as you make it, What makes a relationship ideal to
someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people
are to it.
I want to meet a woman that has a good tolerance level and how far she can go in
life , If she is willing to stick around when the going gets tough and she will be
there for me and I will be there for her too when the going gets tough on us. If
she will still love me when I am falling apart

I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of
jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love pastries, but try
not to over do it)..love to travel a lot too and get around with horses too

I would also like to find a like-minded man where we can participate in activities
together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well

I have several hobbies, and wish I could find more time to pursue those, such as
swimming,playing video games, dancing, and more..And would like someone to share
those with, as well as they sharing their interests with me

I am generally an optimistic person with a good sense of humor, fairly easy-going,

and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it
takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work

I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes
the time we do spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a
relationship;i love to go with the saying "one man is enough trouble", I don't have
the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha

But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person
and not d'well on how the relationship is not working

I do not expect a woman to be a servant to me, spending all her time working and
and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize
that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook with her, clean, and
I have no problem doing that b'cause I b'lieve and I have being thought by my God
Father that it's also man's responsibility to do the house works and house chores
as well.

I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in
return; I'm not wealthy but I don't luck anything in life though so and don't
expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me

I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or
lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and
I'm not accusing you of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that

So you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope
that you are upfront and honest with me, as well

I realize that I am 39 years old and soon to be 40 and that you are somewhat older
than me but if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how
things go after we get to know each other more and more dear..;)

Well I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come
across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way,
nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt

I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a
relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that
they're too different to be compatible

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STARTING WITH PACKAGE@@@@@@@@@@@

*When is your b-day??..

*Mine is sooner the 10th of August..

*Would be a pleasure to have you here with me on my b-day to take a hike together
around while we chat and smile...LOL..But a guess you can't make it here..

*Will be a pleasure to receive something nice from you while i am here as this is
gonna be my first time receiving something while on a peace keeping mission and
it's gonna be from you dear..

*Don't have anything in mind now will let you know if anything comes to mind babe..

*I will get the sending address information for my Commander when i head out
now..Have to get into the gym for a while and then to get the info..

*Will be online again soon before you know it dear..

*Missing you already dear..Take care and stay safe..

*Warm hugs your way..

*See ya sweetie..

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Hope you like this couple of pics from me to you, ________...Take care and stay
safe while i will be looking forward to chat with you more and get to know about
each other on yahoo messenger soon..

Kevin.

My name is ________________________ I was born on the ________________, 1962 at

Baptist Hospital of Maryland..I started Children start 6 and later on continued
from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected
my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16yrs after high
school. .. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army
and later worked with the UN. I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf
war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam ,I had a
pretty bad experience. I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with the
UN. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I
am the leader of my squad of 216 men here on the peace keeping mission. I am a non
commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military..As you
already know, I am currently stationed in Kabul , the capital of Afghanistan I have
to let you know that I am on my second mission here as i was there in Iraq for 1 yr
6 months before coming here. My first mission to Iraq was in 2000. My mission ended
in 2002. Went back to the States, I found out that i had lost my wife to a kidney
problem. She cost me a lost. She meant a lot to me.. I was in love with her with
all my heart, thank God that i am able to over come that but she will be in memory
forever. I was with her for 9 years and i have been taking care of our only
son(Ryan) even since and he is 13 yrs now. : I am now looking for the one whisk to
my heart,a woman who will love me for me and not for what i have..I am looking for
true love to spend the rest of my life with. : Hope things will change from one
stage to another.I like you and you are very beautiful as well.I will be home in
this X-MAS and i am very happy to be retiring when i get back from this very
mission..I lost my family(both parents) in a car accident when i was 7 years, i
hate to talk about this cause it makes me sad every time i think about it.Am
actually relocating because it hurts whenever i come home,it reminds me of my past
so i have been living there in Los Alamitos-CA for 6 yrs now and i sold that home
too as i'm getting a new one again when i get back and Ryan can join me there
Stateside again as he is there in Holland now living with his mom's elder sister
who just got married to a Dutch and i made him join her there when i was coming on
this tour.. I dont use to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons
but I need a woman for myself as am retiring from the army to settle down.. A woman
that will be there for me and I will be there for her too. There is a smile of
love, and there is a smile of Deceit, and there is a smile of smiles, in which
these two smile meet, a smile is ever the most bright and beautiful with a tear
upon it. What is the dawn without the dew?. The tear is rendered by the smile
precious above the smile itself......... I loved my ex wife with all my heart, she
was the deepest happiness in a life time and think she will be the one I can come
home and lay my head on.The one I always thought or think by sharing all point of
view with.while thinking of her and thought she is the brighter side of my life. I
did all I could in support to her needs and given a helping hand for her to grub a
BETTER job, and support the family as well. In times like holiday and spending time
with each other. spending much time with her as much as I could..All though am
hurtled,i have gotten over it now and moving on in life with determination to hit
my goals and find that SPECIAL SOMEONE in my life to spend the rest of our lifes
together forever..Hope this times you a little more about me now and i will be
looking forward to hear more about you too in return sweetie..Take care

WIDOWED WITHOUT A KID@@@@@@@@@@@@

My name is ____________________..I was born on the ______________,

1962 at Baptist Hospital of Kansas-Riley..I started Children start 6 and later
on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at
school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy
at the age of 16yrs after high school there in Fort Riley... My mom was a head
teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the
UN. I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to
liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam ,I had a pretty
bad experience. I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG) and now working with
the UN. I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant
First Class. I am the leader of my squad of 216 men here on the peace
keeping mission. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior
management of the military..As you already know, I am currently
stationed in Kabul , the capital of Afghanistan I have to let you know that
I am on my second mission here as i was there in Iraq for 1 yr 6 months
before coming here. My first mission to Iraq was in 2000. My mission
ended in 2002. Went back to the States, I found out that i had lost my
wife to a kidney problem. She cost me a lost. She meant a lot to me.. I
was in love with her with all my heart, thank God that i am able to over
come that but she will be in memory forever. I was with her for 9 years....
I am now looking for the one whisk to my heart,a woman who will love
me for me and not for what i have..I am looking for true love to spend
the rest of my life with.. Hope things will change from one stage to
another..I like you and you are very beautiful as well..I will be getting
back into the States this new year and i am very happy to be retiring
when i get back from this very mission..I lost my family(both parents) in a
car accident when i was 7 years, i hate to talk about this cause it makes
me sad every time i think about it.Am actually relocating because it hurts
whenever i come home,it reminds me of my past so i have been living
there in Los Alamitos-CA for 6 yrs now and i sold that home as i'm
looking forward to getting a new one again when i get back there
Stateside.. I don't use to communicate with outsiders because of security
reasons but I need a woman for myself as am retiring from the army to
settle down.. A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her
too.. There is a smile of love, and there is a smile of Deceit, and there is a
smile of smiles, in which these two smile meet, a smile is ever the most
bright and beautiful with a tear upon it. What is the dawn without the
dew?. The tear is rendered by the smile precious above the smile
itself......... I loved my ex wife with all my heart, she was the deepest
happiness in a life time and think she will be the one I can come home
and lay my head on..The one I always thought or think by sharing all
point of view with while thinking of her and thought she is the brighter
side of my life.. I did all I could in support to her needs and given a
helping hand for her to grub a BETTER job.... In times like holiday and
spending time with each other. spending much time with her as much as I
could..All though am hurtled,i have gotten over it now and moving on in
life with determination to hit my goals and find that SPECIAL
SOMEONE in my life to spend the rest of our lifes together forever..Hope
this tells you a little more about me now and i will be looking forward to
hear more about you too in return dear..Take care and warm hugs your
way.......:)

Hugs,
Kevin.

MORE CHAT ON QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS@@@@@@@@@@@@

Favorite Basket Ball team--------------I like the 49ers raiders greenbay...giants

I like the Seahawks for football

1. What is ur favorite color?

ANS:My favorite color is blue.....once in a great while it is red, if I'm feeling
adventurous

6. What is ur fav type of food?

ANS:I like most foods, I cook anything i want to eat ..my weaknes is potatoes with
fried chicken.

9. What type of music do u listen to?

ANS:I listen to all types of music too, I like R& B old school stuff, don't listen
to heavy rock, heavy country or heavy Rap..And my fav. song is I won't let go by
Rascal Flatts

11. Do you take showers or bath?

ANS:I do baths at nights, almost everynight ritual, i love hot water and shower in
the AM

10. Are you right handed or left handed?

ANS:I'm right handed
13. Are u an affectionate person?If "YES".. Do u like to kiss?
ANS:I'm very affectionate and i like kissing ...no matter where i am even if in
public .. but with the right person.

14. Do you have any tattoos or body piercing?

ANS: No tattoos .. i dont like them

17. What would ur ideal mate be like in terms of education, body type, and overall
personality?
ANS:With me my ideal mate, education as long as we can communicate, no requirements
on body type, personality wise, someone honest, truthful, with integrity, with a
sense of humor, someone devoted to the relationship, someone to be my equal,
someone who can be passionate, someone who only wants to love me...

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18:would you ever apologise to your husband when ever you at fault or your prefer
him apologise?
ANS:When I'm wrong I will be the first to admit it, I'm not perfect, i do make
mistakes

19. If you and I were a couple and we have a disagreement, how would u handle it?
unresolved and act like nothing happened?
ANS: when as a couple we fight I expect to work the problems out, usually by
talking, from my past I found if you let things go unresolved they never go
away ... so i wil talk to you and will understand you and make sure we understand
each other.

10. Am gonna ask you some random question now..ok??

*bacon or sausage?
*thin crust or deep dish?
*vanilla or chocolate?
*winter or summer?
*sun or rain?
*chocolate chip or oatmeal raisen?
*sports car or suv?
*dogs or cats?

21. what is your favorite -place to go?

ANS: My fav place is the beach ...

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23. Do u wear jewelry?

ANS:yes I wear jewelry... gold once .

27. Are u a night or morning person?

ANS:.I'm more of an afternoon person, I don't like getting up early unless for
something special. and I usually go to bed late
28.what is your favorite -movie?
ANS:My favorite movie is The NOTEBOOK..Ever seen that?.

Movies!!

Must Love Dogs, Matrix, The Expendables, While You Were Sleeping, Lake House,
Speed, Frighteners, Witches of Eastwick...

33.What things do you feel passionate about?

ANS:What I feel passionate about, kids, my job, my life the Almighty, someday a
Woman , I hope.;)

34.Do you believe in love at first sight?

ANS: Love at first sight, YES I beleive love at first site

35.What's the difference between love, romance and sex?

ANS:Love is feeling deep into your soul, willing to give your all, romance is the
act of being in love, the attitudes, the things you do or say, sex is physical
gratification, sex can be different than making love, you can have sex but not be
in love..

36.Do you believe it is proper for people to express their feelings in public?
ANS:I think it should be to a certain degree, not too explict

38.If you had three wishes, what would they be?.

ANS:Three wishes for me would be, good health for all, Being able to help all those
I love , and finding my soul mate

40.What do you do when you feel sad or depressed?

ANS:When i'm sad or depressed I watch movies or try to play video games and talk to
my friends on the phone ..

42.What three words best describe you?

ANS:Affectionate , Happy,
Reliable........................................Positive,Loving and
Generous...........................Funny, Thoughtful, Dependable

43.What is your idea of a perfect date?

ANS:Someone I truly care about and feels the same about me, don't have to do
anything special just being together.

Trust And Faith.....................................................

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you
love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him or her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you
find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is
what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.

Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is
what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they
need some help..Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her
realize how much you really love her.

Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you
to give again and again.

You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies, trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be
trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.

For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.

Love is patient.Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not
proud........ It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It
keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the
truth.

It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope,
wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be
enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people.....

relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support.

Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their
way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure
your partner gives you support when you need it.
LOVE AND LIFE.........................................

So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no
human being must separate

I may be able to speak the languages of human beings and even of angels, but if I
have no love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have
the gift of inspired preaching; I may have all knowledge and understand all
secrets; I may have the faith needed to move mountains-but if I have no love, I am
nothing. I may give away everything I have, and even give up my body to be burned-
but if I have no love, this does me no good

Life without Love is like a harp without strings

Where so ever you go, go with all your heart

May the Lord make our love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone
else

You can�t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the
rest is up to the person to realize your worth

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's
not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till
the end

Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more
you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who
you are; you end up being complete with your loved one

Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith

The few Days I spend with you are worth the thousand Days I spend without you!!!!

And if God was to be a DJ, then Life is the dance floor; Love is the rhythm, and
You are the music....
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By this bible i promise never to let you go but to hold you tight Honey..I promise
never to let anything come between us by any means or ways..I will love you
unconditionally and be there for you no matter what happen and forever be
supportive in anyway to you and your family cos they are mine as well..

MatchName(MBinGR2148)
Mine(wishesNlove098)
Mary-2kids(21&16yrs)
50 year old woman
Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States
Divorced-21/2 yrs
Administrative / Secretarial
(I work at a health insurance company.
I've been here for 14 years.)

I listen to all types of music too, I like R& B old school stuff, don't listen to
heavy rock, heavy country or heavy Rap...And my fav song is I won't let go by
Rascal Flatts...What is yours?.I would love to travel there to Hawaii to swim with
the dolphins when i get back and doing the rest of he traveling to any lovely place
my charming princess would love to be with me...:).I prefer been read to, but
reading this emails from you ain't a problem since it will help make my day around
here dear..Was really a pleasure reading something about ya dear..We just got back
from patrol after been out all the night Hun..Had a question on mind dear..Email me
back on what you think sweetie..So what do you think you can get to me here for my
b-day?..Will be very nice to receive something for my first time while i am here on
a peace keeping mission dear..Or what do you think?..I will try to be online again
soon cos i can see you are have a great time there in bed by now babe..I will go
into the shower for a while and get some rest here too..Take care and stay safe
Carrie..Miss chatting with ya..

Warm hugs,
Kev.