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THREE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN1 rescued me. I had fainted and fell down on the sidewalk in front of Redbridge School in the Compo de Ourique neighborhood of Lisbon, Portugal. The three-Anna, Laura, and Maria-rushed out of the school where they worked, helped me off the ground, and brought a stuffed chair from the lobby, a foot stool, and water. Once I was settled, and showed few signs of imminently expiring, no blood, no broken bones, they called the bombeiros (fire fighters and emergency medical technicians in Lisbon) They measured my blood sugar, blood oxygen, pulse and pressure on the sidewalk while I was ensconced in the easy chair. I said to one of the women that I was getting better care there than at A US hospital. She replied that they had already complained that the bombeiros response time was too slow. Once I was sufficiently revived, I had to sign a form so to avoid being taken to a hospital. The bombeiros also talked o a physician who had to ratify the no hospital decision.

THREE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN by Geoffrey R Skoll 2022 (geoffreyskoll@yahoo.com) rescued me. I had fainted and fell down on the sidewalk in front of Redbridge School in the Compo de Ourique neighborhood of Lisbon, Portugal. The three—Anna, Laura, and Maria--rushed out of the school where they worked, helped me off the ground, and brought a stuffed chair from the lobby, a foot stool, and water. Once I was settled, and showed few signs of imminently expiring, no blood, no broken bones, they called the bombeiros (fire fighters and emergency medical technicians in Lisbon) They measured my blood sugar, blood oxygen, pulse and pressure on the sidewalk while I was ensconced in the easy chair. I said to one of the women that I was getting better care there than at A US hospital. She replied that they had already complained that the bombeiros response time was too slow. Once I was sufficiently revived, I had to sign a form so to avoid being taken to a hospital. The bombeiros also talked o a physician who had to ratify the no hospital decision. Anyone in the United States will recognize huge differences. First, schools there are locked down virtual prisons with police and/or armed guards patrolling them. If someone fell on the street outside one of those US schools, the staff would not only not rush out to help, the administration would prohibit them from leaving their posts. A lot of this has to do with the fact that many urban US schools in the United States have a majority of pupils who are non-White. There, kids are assumed to be criminally inclined and potentially lethally violent. Modeling caring and helping there is actively discouraged, whereas at Redbridge School it is part of their mission statement . Much to my shame, the next day, one of the three beautiful, Maria, passed me on the street, but I did not recognize her. One of my favorite Mark Twain observations goes something like this: If you take up a starving dog and feed it, it will not bite you. That is the principal difference between men and dogs. This small incident illustrates a principal difference between Portuguese culture and American culture. Of course Mark Twain was quintessentially American. I believe my point is that US society has become hateful and suspicious. In contrast, people in Lisbon, at least where I live, assume a more beneficent attitude. Here in Lisbon, people do not assume you mean to do them ill. They may or may not be correct, but the general attitude makes for far different interactions and relations. I grew up in the 1950s. US society was not always so mean and hostile. Back then adults generally treated kids with kindness, even if not understanding. Yes, there was scare about the teenagers of the 1950s, they were thought to be incipient juvenile delinquents. But they weren’t assumed to be violent predators. They were considered more like The Fonz (Fonzie, played by Henry Winkler in the TV series Happy Days). By the way, I grew up in his fictional milieu, same city, same drive-in eatery. So, what happened, Why in Lisbon did three beautiful women rush to rescue me, as opposed to in the United States, they probably would have called the cops to have me carted away if not shot and killed? 2