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Diagnosing Desire BI O P O LITI CS A N D FEM I N I N IT Y I NTO TH E T W E NT Y- FI R ST C E NTU RY A LY S O N K . S P U R G A S Diagnosing Desire Biopolitics and Femininity into the Twenty-First Century Alyson K. Spurgas T H E O H I O S TAT E U N I V E R S I T Y P R E S S COLUMBUS Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Names: Spurgas, Alyson K., 1981- author. Title: Diagnosing desire : biopolitics and femininity into the twenty-first century / Alyson K. Spurgas. Other titles: Abnormativities: queer/gender/embodiment. Description: Columbus : The Ohio State University Press, [2020] | Series: Abnormativities: queer/gender/embodiment | Includes bibliographical references and index. | Summary: “Examines how low female desire is produced, embedded, and lived within neoliberal capitalism. Rethinks ‘femininity’ by investigating sex research that measures the disconnect between subjective and genital female arousal, contemporary psychiatric diagnoses for low female desire, and new models for understanding women’s sexual response”—Provided by publisher. Identifiers: LCCN 2020022197 | ISBN 9780814214510 (cloth) | ISBN 0814214517 (cloth) | ISBN 9780814280751 (ebook) | ISBN 0814280757 (ebook) Subjects: LCSH: Sexual desire disorders. | Women—Sexual behavior. | Femininity. | Sex therapy. Classification: LCC HQ29 .S68 2020 | DDC 306.7082—dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2020022197 Cover design by Regina Starace Text design by Juliet Williams Type set in Adobe Minion Pro The paper used in this publication meets the minimum requirements of the American National Standard for Information Sciences—Permanence of Paper for Printed Library Materials. ANSI Z39.48-1992. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. CONTENTS Acknowledgments vii INTRODUCTION Diagnosing Gender through Desire: How You Know You’re in Bed with a Woman CHAPTER 1 CHAPTER 2 CHAPTER 3 CHAPTER 4 CHAPTER 5 CONCLUSION 1 Sexual Difference and Femininity in Sex Therapy and Sex Research: Examples from the Nineteenth, Twentieth, and Twenty-First Centuries 29 Interest, Arousal, and Motivation in Contemporary Sexology: The Feminization of Responsive Desire 63 Women-with-Low-Desire: Navigating and Negotiating Sexual Difference Socialization 107 Embodied Invisible Labor, Sexual Carework: The Cultural Logic and Affective Valorization of Responsive Female Desire 148 Reclaiming Receptivity: Parasexual Pleasure in the Face of Compulsory and Feminized Trauma 184 The Freedom to Fall Apart: Feminine Fracturing and the Affective Production of Gendered Populations 221 Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. vi • CONTENTS Appendix 235 References 239 Index 263 Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. INTRODUCTION Diagnosing Gender through Desire How You Know You’re in Bed with a Woman In 2009, popular writer Daniel Bergner published two articles on the complexities of female sexuality and desire in the New York Times Magazine. The first, published in January 2009, was titled “What Do Women Want?” and the second, published later that year, in November, “Women Who Want to Want.” It was in these two popular pieces, over a decade ago now, that the seeds of this book were sown. Twenty-first-century women were apparently stricken with low desire, and their sexuality, their femininity, was a frontier to be explored. Bergner’s articles described the new pioneers—the explorers were young, smart, ambitious, and energetic; they called themselves feminists. These new scientists were there to help women figure out what the problem was, why they weren’t in the mood. It was upon reading these articles that I realized that what I now refer to as the “new” science of female sexuality was blossoming, and that it was going to be—already was—very big. In the second of his two articles, Bergner points to both the ambiguous nature of female sexuality and to the ambiguously feminist nature of the driving force behind this new science: “More than by any other sexual problem— the elusiveness of orgasm, say, or pain during sex—women feel plagued by low desire.” Many low-desiring women, however, want to want. He describes how, in her efforts to help these women, the Canadian sex researcher and clinician he interviews in the article, Lori Brotto, deals “in the domain of the mind, or in the mind’s relationship to the body, not in a problem with the body 1 Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 2 • INTRODUCTION itself.” Bergner suggests that the ultimate therapeutic goal for clinicians like Brotto, then, might be to help women repair this estranged mind/body connection by suturing (physical) sensation and (subjective) sexual self-image, and cultivate their own desire, even in the face of what he calls “women’s complex sexual beings.” Questions of women’s sexual complexity, responsiveness or receptivity, and how their minds and bodies line up (or, more often in these accounts, do not) seemed to be at the heart of this new science and its accompanying sexual response models and treatment protocols for low female desire. But how had it come to be that at the beginning of the twentyfirst century, self-identified feminist sex researchers described women’s sexuality as reactive, receptive, and responsive? Did these researchers believe, as these popular articles implied, that women’s sexuality operated according to a completely different logic than men’s sexuality? Why were women’s sexual problems, no longer the result of hysteria or frigidity, still so confounding to scientists? And if, as these popular articles posited, women were so sexually complex, in many cases lacking an urgent sense of lust yet also demonstrating strong physiological arousal and a fluid responsiveness and receptivity—how did they get to be that way? Furthermore, how was the problem of women’s low desire to be solved? A few aspects of Bergner’s articles, and others like it, jumped out at me. One was that the new science of female sexuality described desire from what we might call a behaviorist perspective. In this way of thinking about sex, human beings are almost robot-like organisms with instincts and drives. The desire for sex, in this framework, is sometimes understood as inextricable from the drive to reproduce, as one might expect given behaviorism’s frequent pairing with evolutionary psychology. Even more to the point, though, the behaviorist perspective reduces desire to a cost-benefit analysis of what the organism is willing to seek out for sex—or more often, for women, what the organism will be receptive to. The idea is that, like Pavlov’s dog, we learn (or are trained) to find certain stimuli desirable, weighing internal and external criteria to make rational, incentive-motivated, and reward-seeking decisions about whether or not to engage in sex. Particularly in the first decade of the twenty-first century, this cost-benefit analysis was often portrayed as being more complex for women than for men, in part because the related evolutionary psychology discourse views women as beholden to a maternal drive that complicates their sexuality and orients it toward finding a good mate. I came to identify behaviorism and evolutionary psychology as the twin foundations of several contemporary sexual response models that I will describe in this book. I also came to see that, in these models, desire, per se, wasn’t part of the sexual equation. And this seemed to be especially true for women. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 3 This absence of desire in the new science of female sexuality was jarring for me. For Freud, Lacan, all of the many queer, feminist, and postcolonial scholars that followed (and critiqued) them, desire was about aims, objects, fantasies, fetishes, power, and trauma. Desire was sexy, it was hot, sometimes it was ugly, shameful, and unspeakable, but it was never fully capturable or controllable; there was a je ne sais quoi that was indeed constitutive of it. It was sometimes differentiated along the lines of gender in these theories, but rarely reduced to evolutionary adaptations or machinelike rationality. For post-Freudian psychoanalytic thinkers like Laplanche (1976), there may be a mechanics or hydraulics to desire, a libidinal economy, but there was still a wiliness to it that couldn’t be trained away—or conjured up—by any proverbial Skinner Box (the behaviorist black box trope of cognitive psychology and operant conditioning designed by founding father B. F. Skinner [1938]). If anything, as Jagose (2013) has pointed out regarding behaviorism and sexuality, whatever it is that cognitive conditioning models have tried to do to human sexuality, from the sensate focus techniques of Masters and Johnson in the 1960s to the erotic conversion therapy (including “orgasmic reconditioning”) used on gay men in the same era, these models cannot account for desire’s vicissitudes. There is always an excess, a part of desire that cannot be fully redirected, even if behaviors themselves can be changed. This is in part because, unlike most other human behaviors, fantasy is constitutive of sexuality in a way that suggests that desire—that fundamentally intersubjective and unrequited wanting or longing—is never reducible to behavior or motivation and can never be approximated or fully delimited. Beyond the lack of attention to desire, another thing stood out to me about these popular articles and other discussions of the new science of female sexuality, including the research studies that I began to voraciously read. Many of these studies were deeply invested in making comparisons between the objective arousal of the body, as measured by a subject’s physiological sexual response (determined by attaching machines to her genitals), and her subjective experience of arousal—the desire she experiences in her mind, abstracted into quantitative and behaviorist terms. These two measurements were increasingly taken in laboratories, and the gap between them was made to say a lot of things about gender (long story short: women have a much bigger gap). This seemingly new trend, what I have come to call the work of the gap, was all over the place in the scientific research and its popular interpretations. I learned that experiments that used arousal-measuring instruments were called volumetric studies, and that the use of these machines was called plethysmography (the machine for people with penises was sometimes called a penile strain gauge). In his first 2009 New York Times Magazine Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 4 • INTRODUCTION piece, for instance, Bergner describes the work of the Canadian experimental sex researcher Meredith Chivers. Chivers uses plethysmography to measure her subjects’ physical arousal, then compares the results to the numbers these subjects record on an “arousometer,” a tool for registering how turned on they feel. In many of these volumetric studies, cisgender men and cisgender women1 are compared in terms of this gap. The studies work something like this: A person sits down in a LaZBoy recliner, alone in a lab, and inserts a probe into their vagina (in more recent studies, measuring devices may also be attached to the labia or clitoris) or attaches one to their penis. They watch different films or other stimuli, maybe listen to an audio recording. Some films are considered neutral (like a documentary on lei-making in Hawai’i—true story), while some feature sexual content. The sexual stimuli include a variety of scenes and situations—men having sex with women, women having sex with women, men having sex with men, a naked man alone walking on a beach, a woman working out. Sometimes there are rape scenes. Sometimes there are animals having sex, like bonobos, overdubbed with loud ape sex noises. Across these studies, the common finding has been that cis men—both gay and straight—tend to have physiological and subjective experiences of arousal that line up with each other. They are “concordant.” Cis women, on the other hand, particularly those attracted to cis men, tend to be physically aroused by everything, or at least any “relevant sexual stimuli,” even when they report low levels of subjective desire via the arousometer. They are “discordant.” In other words, women who are attracted to men have the biggest gap. This was the cutting-edge research of the twenty-first century. I had spent many years in graduate school reading Freud, Foucault, Fanon, Butler, and many other bad guys, girls, and genderqueers of critical race and queer theory, cultural studies, psychoanalysis, and poststructuralist feminism, but I was way more shocked by the new science of female sexuality than I was reading about hysteria, wish fulfillment, and the repressive hypothesis. In the January 2009 article, Chivers tells Bergner that she hopes one day to develop a “scientifically supported model to explain female sexual response.” Bergner writes: 1. In some cases, such as in a study conducted by Lawrence, Latty, Chivers, & Bailey (2005), the subjects are also transgender women, who are referred to as “male-to-female transsexuals” and are said to “display male-typical [sic] category-specific sexual arousal” (p. 135). The potentially violent cisnormativity and heternormativity inherent in the methodology of studies like this—particularly those conducted in the first decade of the twenty-first century—is a theme I will interrogate throughout this book. See chapter 2 especially for more on the construction of “category-specificity” in terms of genital sexual response. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 5 When she peers into the giant forest, Chivers told me, she considers the possibility that along with what she called a “rudderless” system of reflexive physiological arousal, women’s system of desire, the cognitive domain of lust, is more receptive than aggressive. “One of the things I think about,” she said, “is the dyad formed by men and women. Certainly women are very sexual and have the capacity to be even more sexual than men, but one possibility is that instead of it being a go-out-there-and-get-it kind of sexuality, it’s more of a reactive process. If you have this dyad, and one part is pumped full of testosterone, is more interested in risk taking, is probably more aggressive, you’ve got a very strong motivational force. It wouldn’t make sense to have another similar force. You need something complementary. And I’ve often thought that there is something really powerful for women’s sexuality about being desired. That receptivity element.” I read these words and saw the history of sexology flash before my eyes. I was immediately struck by how this idea of female reactivity, responsiveness, receptivity, that had been supposedly abandoned with all the other misogyny of the premodern sciences (including psychoanalysis, abandoned much to my dismay) had somehow been maintained in the twenty-first century. How were words like these being uttered by a feminist scientist in 2009? Why was this being discussed in the New York Times Magazine? What would the impact be? Then I read the comments. Of course, many people lauded the Times for publishing such an article. Others said this research diminished the variation across women’s sexualities. And plenty said that the “gap” of female discordance identified in this research indicates that women are lying about what turns them on, or that they don’t know the truth of their own desire. For instance, commenter “George” from Irvine says: “Undamaged, quality women want real men. They want the strength, protection, leadership, stability and commitment of a man who isn’t afraid to express his masculinity. A man who understands that women are driven by their emotions, not necessarily by logic and reason, as the article well points out. When men understand this, they can have their way with women.” Similarly, “David” from Boston tells us: “So, the conclusion among leading (female) sexologists is: Women are selfish narcissists who don’t know what they really want, except that, underneath it all, what they really want is to be ravished against a wall in a dark alley by a stranger. Well! Any man could have already told you that!” Beyond the retrograde nature of the scientists’ words and the way they were being taken up by everyday misogynists, another thing that caught my attention in these articles was the focus on new ways for women to enhance their desire, including through sex therapy techniques that utilize cognitive Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 6 • INTRODUCTION behavioral methods and mindfulness. Although at the end of the first decade of the twenty-first century, plenty of antimedicalization feminists were focused on critiquing pharmaceutical interventions like Addyi for women, in the wake of the supreme success of Viagra for men (see the work of the New View Campaign2 for the quintessential example of this anti–Big Pharma movement), I was more interested in what other sexual enhancement techniques were being developed and deployed. This was in keeping with my interest in the work of French theorist Michel Foucault and his notion of biopolitics (1978, 2000, 2003)—or the ways that our lives are governed, in late neoliberal capitalism, through technologies that don’t so much discipline us as make us live in certain ways. Bergner underscores some of these new techniques and associated research in his second 2009 Times article. For instance, according to Bergner, while Brotto’s “patients’ genitals commonly pulse with blood in response to erotic images or their partners’ sexual touch, their minds are so detached— distracted by work or children or worries about the way they look unclothed, or fixated on fears that their libidos are dead—as to be oblivious to their bodies’ excitement, their bodies’ messages.” Mindfulness, by combining an attention to bodily sensations with the “power of positive thinking,” allows women to cultivate a subjective sense of sexual arousal or “trains patients to immerse themselves in physical sensation”—that is, it trains them to work to bridge the mind/body gap. Through Bergner’s interviews with Brotto and another Canadian sex researcher, Rosemary Basson, readers also learn about women’s tendency toward “responsive” or “receptive” desire, and the formulation of a new “trigger-based” sexual response model. For women, Basson reports, “the start of plenty—and maybe the great majority—of sexual encounters is defined not by heat but by slight warmth or flat neutrality.” This was the new “arousal-first” sexual response model for women, based on reactivity, receptivity, and bridging the gap: I will refer to it from now on as the circular sexual response cycle, as it is described in the literature. “Basson’s lesson for women, which has been distilled by sex therapists into three words, ‘desire follows arousal,’ is a real rearrangement of expectation and a reweighting of sexual theory,” Bergner wrote. But was it really so new? The idea that women lack free-flowing desire and require sexual activation (by men) seemed pretty old to me. Indeed, it appeared in some of the earliest sexological texts, including in those by Wilhelm Stekel, Havelock Ellis, and Richard von Krafft-Ebing. The final thing that stood out to me as I read these articles over a decade ago was the way they discussed diagnoses for sexual dysfunctions, including low desire. In the second of his 2009 articles in the Times, Bergner raises questions surrounding the next incarnation of the Diagnostic and Statistical 2. Website: http://www.newviewcampaign.org/ Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 7 Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, the psychiatric bible since the 1950s that infamously once included an entry for homosexuality. The volume was scheduled to be updated and rereleased in 2013. What would the new low desire diagnosis look like, Bergner asked, given all of this new research into female sexuality? The existing unisex diagnosis of hypoactive sexual desire disorder, or HSDD—defined in the DSM-IV as “persistently or recurrently deficient (or absent) sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity”—struck him as “simplistic,” or at least as insufficiently complex to apply to women. Bergner wouldn’t know it for certain yet, but similar concerns would eventually lead to the development of a new female-specific diagnosis for low-desiring women— female sexual interest/arousal disorder, or FSIAD. And so it was, that in an attempt to depathologize women’s responsive desire, the DSM-5 (2013) sexual and gender identity disorders work group included a new criterion for women only (three out of six criteria are required for an FSIAD diagnosis): “does not initiate/is not receptive to a partner’s initiations.” The scientific research and clinical treatments described in Bergner’s articles and in other popular accounts, and later the revised low female desire diagnosis itself, in concert indicate that women should not be diagnosed with a disorder just because they lack fantasies or a strong initiating sexual urge (they aren’t men, after all?). These discourses instead suggest that if more women knew about their own responsive desire, then maybe they wouldn’t feel like their desire was low. And here, I began to see, is where all the pieces fit together. Throughout the rest of this book, I will refer to the broad paradigm connecting these strands as the feminized responsive desire framework. This paradigm, which became ubiquitous at the turn of the twenty-first century and which has left its imprint through today, consists of all the themes I just outlined: the absence of desire from behaviorist models of sexuality; plethysmographic research suggesting a commonplace discordance between objective and subjective experiences of female arousal; a theory of circular sexual response for women in which desire is said to be triggered by receptive arousal, and new DSM diagnostic criteria for low desire in women codifying that theory; and finally, new modes of treatment for women’s discordant desire/arousal system, including mindfulness practices intended to work on the gap by bringing the undesiring mind into line with the aroused body. Something didn’t sit well with me about this entire framework, and this book is an attempt to explain, analyze, and theorize what that reaction was and where it came from.3 It is only in a moment in which liberal feminism has 3. Since the publication of the DSM-5 in 2013, several of the experts involved in this original line of research have stated that responsive desire may be common in men, too, and more research has since been conducted on men in this vein. I am aware of the quickly shifting Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 8 • INTRODUCTION been mainstreamed, right alongside evolutionary psychology, that this model of female sexual response could make it into the media spotlight and be read as feminist. And it was only at the turn of the twenty-first century, with no critical or activist response, that this type of reductionist, hetero-/cisnormative, and anti-intersectional thinking about female sexuality could become common parlance across the Global North, and particularly in the North American context. While the new science of female sexuality and the feminized responsive desire framework are certainly meant to be feminist, and in fact came into being as a response to what was understood to be a restrictive male-oriented model of desire (Tiefer, 1991, 1995, 1996), I question the feminism of this new paradigm on a variety of bases. My concerns include the way that “women” are (re)produced as a population here; how this population is read as white, wealthy or middle-class, straight, and cisgender; how widespread gendered, raced, and classed trauma too often goes unaccounted for in this framing; and how this feminized population is positioned to be managed through new techniques framed as “safe” simply because they don’t involve psychopharmaceutical drugs or hormones. I argue that this framework must be interrogated as it plays into tropes about white cisgender heterofemininity, and particularly because it will invariably affect a lot of other people who don’t fall into this category. I write from a crip-queer-femme perspective, and want to attend to the ways in which these discourses pathologize queer femmes and nonbinary and gender-nonconforming folks, including femmes of color and trans women. A further gap that I will explore in this book is why trauma—including banal, everyday, and insidious forms of trauma including but also beyond childhood sexual abuse—has been largely unaccounted for when considering the differences between men’s and women’s desire. My analysis suggests that this is a direct result of a shift away from psychoanalytic/psychodynamic thinking in mainstream psychology. But what is also important to consider is how women—cis and trans, across racial backgrounds, of different embodiments and other disparate statuses—understand their own desire, or lack thereof. My terrain of sexual science and recognize that much has changed even in the last five years, but in this book, I want to emphasize how these reductive ideas about women’s desire have been taken up broadly in the mainstream since the turn of the twenty-first century through today. One problem is how quickly media latch on to scientific explanations for gender differences in sexuality; however, over the course of the last two decades, the scientists themselves have also made broad, sweeping claims in both media interviews and in their expert publications, even when their findings are actually just hypotheses in an ever-shifting world of scientific knowledge (see DeJesus et al., 2019 for empirical evidence [!] on problems with scientific overgeneralizing). Thus, I argue that even as they move their research agendas forward in the spirit of feminist inquiry and ethics, these experts must first reckon with their own recent pasts. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 9 main quest was to seek information from these folks themselves about how well this feminized responsive desire framework applies to them. And I found out that for a lot of them, it doesn’t work so well. Certainly, some of these folks do feel receptive and responsive, but those experiences are often related to trauma, and with how the people we call women are socialized; they are not neutral or natural. So, let me be clear: My project here is not to make the case that men’s and women’s sexualities, or that masculine and feminine desires, are exactly the same. Instead, I argue, along with the new scientists of female sexuality, the pioneers and explorers of this frontier, that many women are absolutely different from many men. But in this book, I consider and honor how they’ve come to be that way, rather than simply describing them as such. To this end, I want to explain how I use the term femininity in this book, and why I chose to use she/her pronouns in most cases throughout the text. I did this for a couple of reasons, and my decision-making here was an incredibly fraught and difficult process. First, for reasons that I will explore throughout this book, it was primarily cis women who responded to participate, and all participants used she/her pronouns at the time of the interviews; however, these interviews represent only a snapshot in time in terms of participants’ gendered subjectivities. I strongly suspect that in the case of at least a few folks, their pronouns have changed, but conducting follow-up interviews about participants’ gender identities to confirm this is the province of a future study. Indeed, how trans women, nonbinary, two-spirit, agender, genderqueer, and gender-nonconforming individuals uniquely experience these heteropatriarchal medical and scientific norms regarding femininity should be explored further and in greater depth. How some trans men have potentially experienced coercive medicalized norms for responsive femininity pre-transition is imperative to study, as well, particularly insofar as these men have a unique perspective to offer on the gendering of desire and sexual expectations. Second, and relatedly, I talk about women and femininity throughout this book because those are the terms used—and taken for granted—in much of the medical and scientific literature that I engage with and critique, and it is this research that I argue produces these very categories (categories that individuals, in the case of this study assigned-female-at-birth, or AFAB, individuals, are then forced to navigate—and in some cases reject but are often still haunted by). I hope that readers will understand the delicacy of choosing language to use for a project such as this one, dwell with me in this conceptually difficult space, and read my use of the terms women and feminine throughout the text as somewhat tongue-in-cheek—yet also uttered with a certain sobriety and solemnity. The truth is that I know these categories could never be so monolithic, and that they are coproduced with race, class, Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 10 • INTRODUCTION nationality, and so many other categories of difference. This is precisely why I wage the critique that I wage in this book—the “femininity” that clinical and experimental researchers too frequently imagine belongs to a white, cisgender, middle-class or wealthy, normatively able-bodied woman in the Global North. But this femininity is then deployed as timeless and universal—even evolutionarily ordained. In this vein, I am not describing femininity as an identity in this book; instead, I describe it as a process—one that is embodied and experiential but not essential, one that in its hegemonic or dominant formulation may be experienced as coercive, and one that is most specifically connected, in my analysis, to the traumatizing effects of receptivity as a clinical protocol, as a technoscientific framework, and as a lived—but extremely mercurial and unstable—materialization of sexual difference. Here, women-with-lowdesire, sexuality, and contemporary sexology are co-constituted; there is no natural category of “woman” here to be recuperated. Femininity is then a material-discursive socialization process, enacted in part through medicine and science, and it is the project of this book to connect that process to its promulgation via contemporary sexological discourse and that discourse’s popular framings. My formulations here of femininity-as-process have much in common with other contemporary sociotechnical investigations of gender, including with the pharmacopornographic or techno-chemical dimensions of gender in the work of Preciado (2013), the biopolitics of gender in the post–John Money era as analyzed by Repo (2016), and the production of gender via scientific and medical categories, particularly as they pertain to discourses around hormones and to treatment of intersex, as described by Jordan-Young (2011) and Jordan-Young and Karkazis (2019). Other important recent interlocutors include Labuski (2014, 2015, 2017), who considers how vulvodynia and its treatment inform experiences of race, gender, and (a) sexuality, and Ward (2015), who examines straight white men’s sexual behaviors outside of the deterministic logics of biology and identity but instead as part of a culturally delimited process that is bound up with misogyny and white supremacy. Ideas about women’s responsive sexuality and fluidity are found in myriad popular cultural domains today. And it is the pervasiveness and popularity of “expert” discourses on receptive femininity that are precisely why many of the AFAB folks I interviewed—most of whom identify as women but some of whom also reinvent or reject femininity—still have to navigate and grapple with these ideas about women (and what it means to be one) throughout their lives. So, although all the participants in this study describe interacting with femininizing discourses, technologies, and protocols, they absolutely occupy a diversity of spaces in relation to femininity and feminine or femme iden- Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 11 tity. This is in no small part due to the fact that they come from a diversity of racial, ethnic, cultural, religious, and other backgrounds in addition to being of diverse sexualities; a fact that emphasizes the need to implement an intersectional feminist framework and to consider the racialized Eurocentric and white supremacist origins of sexual difference, which I address below. Race, Femininity, and the Whiteness of Sexual Difference Very little work has looked at the phenomenon of low desire through an intersectional (Collins, 1990; Crenshaw, 1991) lens, so desire issues have either been framed as universal for women or the impression has been given that concerns about desire are specifically problems encountered by white women (my data suggest otherwise). Following the recent work of Snorton (2017) and Schuller (2018), I seek to highlight the racialized terrain of sexual difference production—for this project, within contemporary discussions of female sexual dysfunction and women’s low and/or responsive desire. Schuller (2018), for instance, argues that discourses of sexual difference are not only related to racial difference narratives, but that sex difference is a function of racial difference—that is, without the evolutionary logic embedded within racist scientific discourses of the nineteenth century and before (including, for Schuller, impressibility and sentimentalism—white people are more “receptive in a good [evolved] way,” according to these logics), there would be no civilizing project in which male and female as distinct types emerged. The idea encapsulated in early racist scientific narratives is that as the “races” became more evolved and civilized—moving up the “great chain of being”—masculine and feminine types became more distinct. The white European male was produced as anatomically, behaviorally, and psychically distinct from the white European female; in some sense, the passive, receptive nature of the white European female became the constitutive ground for white European male rationality and objectivity, while white femininity became produced as something in need of protection (in most cases from the figure of the Black male rapist). Of course, the other constitutive ground here has always been Black femininity—conceived initially as not very differentiated from Black masculinity (i.e., “Black gender” or “flesh” for Spillers, 1987), and then as hypersexual, exotic, and tempting to white men (Collins, 2004; Hammonds, 1994, 1999). Black feminist scholars have opened up critical investigations of the ways in which notions of sexual difference have always rested upon regimes of racial difference—to the point where neither can be examined alone. Spillers (1987) argued that the treatment of Black bodies under slavery produced Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 12 • INTRODUCTION them as ungendered flesh—that bodies that were enslaved and produced as Black were not gender differentiated or subject to the same regimes of sexual difference as white bodies, and further that sexual differentiation was part and parcel of narratives of racial evolution and civilization. Hartman (1997) extended this argument and examined the ways that Black womanhood (or the figurative lack thereof) was codified under regimes of slavery in the US and thus illuminated “the contingency of woman as a category” (p. 101). In Scenes of Subjection, Hartman (1997) examines sexual injury as it relates to conceptualizations of femininity, addressing how Black women were legally figured as “unrapeable” and thus as not really “women” at all, stating: By interrogating gender within the purview of “offenses to existence” and examining female subject-formation at the site of sexual violence, I am not positing that forced sex constitutes the meaning of gender but that the erasure or disavowal of sexual violence engendered black femaleness as a condition of unredressed injury, which only intensified the bonds of captivity and the deadening objection of chattel status. (p. 101) Hartman’s discussion of the relationship between sexual injury and femininity has special import for the current project—particularly in that my project investigates the widespread popular deployment of expert discourses of purportedly “unmarked” feminine receptivity and responsiveness, discourses that have their origin in colonialist science, but that are now disseminated broadly and sometimes taken up by—or forced upon—women of diverse backgrounds. Scholars who critically interrogate philosophies and histories of science have also added much to this conversation about racialized femininity. McWhorter (2004, 2009) makes a case for the co-constitution of biopolitical regimes of racial and sexual difference, and Somerville (1994, 2000) has described the ways in which the designation of the “homosexual” has always been a racially freighted category. Somerville (1994) illuminates how the pathologization of the purported anatomical idiosyncrasies of lesbian bodies (large labia and other genital anomalies) were bound up with racialized descriptions of the supposedly abnormal bodies of Black women (the socalled hottentot apron, or enlarged labia, also analyzed by Fausto-Sterling, 1994). Markowitz (2001) extended the conversation by looking specifically at how ideas about female pelvic size were used in conceptualizing racist frameworks of sexual difference. In both early comparative anatomy and sexology, including in the work of Havelock Ellis, white women were figured as having larger pelvises than Black women—a trait that was said to have evolved Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 13 because white women needed to have more pelvic space in order to give birth to white babies (who were figured as having larger skulls according to the logics of craniology and phrenology!). At the same time, Black women, who in these early discourses were regularly framed as having larger and more voluptuous lower bodies than white women, were said to look this way due to “steatopygia”—a physical anomaly that included large buttocks, which gave the (compensatory and deceptive) appearance of a larger pelvis without actually having that “evolved” trait (Markowitz, 2001). Snorton (2017) has recently revisited these themes, as he analyzes how the formation of white femininity quite literally relied on medical experimentation conducted on Black women by early gynecologists such as J. Marion Sims. Snorton argues that the regular occurrence of vesicovaginal fistula (VVF) in Black women slaves was a product of the circumstances of living on the “medical plantation” of chattel slavery, but was simultaneously blamed on the lack of expertise of Black midwives and/or posited as a product of the biologically inferior and categorically “unfeminine” bodily constitution of the Black woman. Snorton (2017) sums up this paradox, and the imbrication of racial difference and sexual difference, stating: “The founding of the field of American gynecology thus raises a number of questions, including how race constructs biology, and whether sex is possible without flesh” (p. 20). Importantly, these differences in discursive production and material treatment of real live (Black) bodies is not just a thing of the past—Black women today experience disproportionately poor treatment in terms of gynecological care and sexual and reproductive outcomes, including in maternal and infant mortality rates (Casper & Moore, 2009; D. C. Owens, 2017; Washington, 2006). All of these scholars illuminate the whiteness of sexual difference discourses as these are produced under colonialist medicine and via scientific racism. Whiteness is similarly the foundation of the feminized responsive desire framework I analyze in this book. If sexual difference is, in fact, a function of race (and I argue, along with the scholars cited above, that it is), then there can be no feminine receptivity without race—or, more specifically, without the privileging of whiteness. White feminine receptivity has always been produced against Black feminine hypersexuality as its counterpart. Further, white women have traditionally been framed as more sexually receptive, but women of color have traditionally been expected to actually be more receptive to sex. In this study, I do not extensively examine the Black hypersexuality against which white receptivity is framed, but rather illustrate the dominant white discourses and the insidiousness of their reach, as I critique a particular moment in contemporary popular psychology that is very much white (i.e., the publication of the DSM-5 and its related discursive formations). While Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 14 • INTRODUCTION these discourses about women’s sexuality are racialized as white or are left “unmarked,” my findings importantly suggest that women across racial identities experience low desire and are forced to navigate this white framework of receptive femininity. In spite of a plethora of excellent intersectional research from critical scholars, contemporary scientific narratives of sexuality and gender continue to reify binary conceptions of sexual difference, specifically since the modern Darwinian synthesis in which male and female were firmly cast as distinct and complementary types, with all of their binary trappings, and since the X chromosome was formally posited as the “female” chromosome (Richardson, 2012). Beginning with this neo-Darwinian shift and through to today, (discursively unraced) women are broadly understood as being more sexually receptive, responsive, and reactive than (discursively unraced) men—and this is in part due to how ubiquitous experiences associated with white feminine sexuality have become. Part of what I will engage with in this book is how the idea that women as a whole are sexually “receptive” became popularized and how it has come to affect diverse individuals. How did sex difference as binary become such a truism in popular culture in the Global North, and how is this idea perpetuated through expert knowledge? What are the contemporary technologies that produce binary sex difference? And why is it that so many women today do, in fact, end up experiencing their desire as low or lacking? Diagnosably Low Female Sexual Desire: A Brief Clinical History Although the contemporary iteration of feminized responsive desire is my focus in this book, the main sexual complaint that women tend to present with clinically is “low desire.”4 Indeed, sexology, sex therapy, and sexual medicine shifted to a responsive model of female desire in part because of the prevalence of this complaint. Beginning in roughly the 1970s, antimedicalization feminists began to argue that a male model of spontaneous desire had been applied to women, and that women were therefore pathologized (or pathologized themselves) when in fact their desire was simply different from men’s: 4. Although there is little to no epidemiological data on racial or class demographics of the women who seek medical help for low desire, due to the very structure of what it means to “present clinically,” particularly in the US, where health insurance is a commodity, we can assume that most of these presenting women are white, cisgender, and middle-class or wealthy. However, due to the way that expert discourses travel in the popular sphere, many other women may self-diagnose as low in desire and self-treat. That is precisely what this book is about. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 15 potentially weaker, more receptive or responsive, often following arousal and needing to be triggered. However, as “low desire” has been registered as women’s key complaint and as the notion of women’s responsive desire only entered mainstream medical discourse in its newest guise around the turn of the twenty-first century, I will elucidate a brief history of low female desire here. Many sexual disorders are accounted for in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, but none included the language of desire until 1980. That year, two new disorders— inhibited sexual desire (ISD) and sexual aversion—were introduced into the DSM-III, both emphasizing desire disorders as dyadic; in other words, they were said to afflict the (implicitly heterosexual) couple rather than just one partner, and were brought to bear in the context of sex therapy treatment. In the DSM-III-R, published in 1987, ISD was divided into two categories: hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and sexual aversion disorder (SAD), and when the DSM-IV was introduced in 1994, these diagnoses remained the same. Up until the publication of the DSM-5 in 2013, both men and women could be diagnosed with hypoactive desire, although women have consistently been diagnosed much more frequently than men. In the DSM-IV-TR (text revision), HSDD was defined as “persistently or recurrently deficient (or absent) sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity.” The 1999 National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) reported that around 32 percent of women between the ages of eighteen and thirty-nine were afflicted with low desire (as compared to about 14 percent of men in the same age range). A nationally representative study conducted in 2008 suggested that 26.7 percent of premenopausal women and 52.4 percent of naturally menopausal women fit the criteria for diagnosis with HSDD (West et al., 2008), and another study suggested that up to 40 percent of women lack interest in sex (K. R. Mitchell et al., 2013). Even within the terms of these studies, these numbers should be qualified. The number of low-desiring women reported by the NHSLS study has been critiqued as inflated, including by the main researcher on the study. Meanwhile, these percentages are often dramatically reduced when potential diagnosees must also be “troubled” or “distressed” by their lack of sexual desire in order to receive a diagnosis, a criterion that is built into the new DSM-5 diagnosis (i.e., women who are not distressed by their low desire should not receive the diagnosis, as some may identify as asexual instead). According to most contemporary estimates, the number of women who lack sexual motivation and who are concomitantly troubled by this experience hovers at around 12 percent (Shifren, Monz, Russo, Segreti, & Johannes, 2008). Regardless of Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 16 • INTRODUCTION the details of these studies, the prevalence of low female desire remains a cultural trope, and statistics continue to be cited as proof of the pervasiveness of the phenomenon. Although recent estimates do not indicate an increase in the actual number of women afflicted with diagnosably low desire over the last few decades, widespread attention to women’s desire problems in clinical literature, a proliferation of recent reports in the popular media (for examples, see Bergner, 2009a, 2009b, 2013a; Elton, 2010; Gottlieb, 2014; Schreiber, 2012), and an increase in reports of women who lack interest in sex as demonstrated in both clinical settings and on national surveys gives the impression that low desire in women is on the rise, at least in the Global North. Further, as pointed out by Charest and Kleinplatz (2018), there has been a shift from an emphasis on sexual problems as dyadic to the increased pathologization of individuals with sexual complaints—and in the case of low desire, this is most often individual women. Hence, in most clinical and popular discourses today, it is widely accepted that men and women have very different sexual problems (Basson et al., 2001; Basson, Brotto, Laan, Redmond, & Utian, 2005; Brotto, 2010a; Leiblum & Rosen, 1988; Tiefer, 1991, 1995). Low sexual desire appears not only to occur more regularly in women, it is expected to be a more common experience for women. Here, it is important to recognize that many women do in fact experience themselves as low or lacking in desire, and this experience now cuts across race and class lines, among other categories of difference. The questions I seek to answer in this book do not challenge the reality or validity of this highly gendered sexual experience of low desire, but instead, its etiology and assumptions: Why are women more likely to be afflicted with this problem? Do we assume this gendered experience is natural, biological, hardwired? What does that assumption look like, or how does it manifest, and with what consequences, in our contemporary climate? Unlike much feminist analysis in the medical sociology and social psychology traditions, which tends to argue that sexuality is socially constructed, and that heteronormative gender expectations influence us to pathologize women’s low desire when it is actually just “normal variation”—or, more recently, that women’s desire may not be disordered but simply “responsive” and “receptive”—I want to consider how these ideas about receptivity, responsiveness, and even “normal variation” themselves become gendered, and how this framing influences men’s and women’s lived experiences of desire and their sexual expression more broadly. I want to think about how gender differences in desire are carved out in the world, in all their specificities, and with what effects, including for women who come to identify as either deficient or disordered, or as normal—but receptive and responsive. Is there a way to understand low desire as disorder, yet simulta- Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 17 neously to question and complicate its supposed neurobiological or essential origins? Is there a way to look beyond both social constructionism and biological determinism when it comes to sexual difference? Relatedly, is there a way to think beyond disability, debility, and disorder as objective, medical, and measurable, yet to simultaneously foreground their material and embodied existence? And is it possible to endeavor a deep critique of the racialized and gendered nature of scientific and medical discourses while at the same time acknowledging that some women are disturbed by their lack of desire and want treatment for it? Theoretical and Methodological Framework Before beginning my analysis, I posed a number of research questions: How do contemporary and historical scientific, medical, and therapeutic discourses define sexual desire? How do these discourses (and the experts themselves) frame sexual difference? Do they identify gender differences in desire, arousal, and sexual behavior? If so, how do they interpret and explain these differences? Are masculine and feminine desire framed differently across sexual medicine, sex therapy, and clinical psychology paradigms over the last two centuries? Is anything consistent across these paradigms? And finally, how do women themselves understand the machinations of their own desire, or lack thereof? Because I wanted to focus on the low desire diagnoses in the new DSM-5 and related feminized responsive desire framework, I interviewed women identifying as low or lacking in sexual desire, including those who have either sought medical or alternative therapeutic treatments or who have considered seeking treatment. However, I chose to include within my study interviews with women who had not undergone medical treatment or received a diagnosis, for a few reasons. It is actually quite difficult to acquire a low-desire diagnosis from a psychiatric practitioner due to obstacles within the US health care system, internalized shame about female sexuality, and a variety of other factors (additionally, this population is also very difficult to reach due to medical gatekeeping). But I was also actively interested in speaking not only with women who have received official diagnoses and medical treatment for low desire but also with potential consumers of medicine—or of alternative therapies such as mindfulness, yoga, tantra, and feminine energy “healing” workshops—intended to remedy low desire. In other words, I was interested in how not only the low desire diagnosis itself but also the broader feminized responsive desire framework I outlined at the beginning of this introduction Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 18 • INTRODUCTION affects a broad population of women. This study deals with medicalization and healthism (to be defined below), but it is not a medical ethnography. I am more interested in how the logic of feminine receptivity impacts women broadly than in the experience of patients who have been diagnosed with a specific disease state or disorder. Or, rather, I am interested in the increasing blurriness of these categories—the diagnosed and the undiagnosed—particularly as self-medicalization becomes more and more prevalent due to the impact of the internet and social media. The sociological study and critique of medicalization—what Conrad (1992) referred to as “a process by which non-medical problems become defined and treated as medical problems, usually in terms of illnesses and disorders” (p. 209)—has been an important subfield within sociology since the 1960s, borne out of the symbolic interactionist and sociology of knowledge traditions. Early theorists of medicalization included Szasz (1960), who wrote about the historical invention of mental illness; Zola (1972), who argued that medicine has become an institution of social control; and Conrad (1975), who argued that hyperkinesis or attention deficit disorder (ADD) in children, among other disorders, were iatrogenically produced.5 These sociologists examined how disorders are socially constructed via powerful medical discourses, and how they then affect individuals and the “biosocial” communities who take them up, contest them, or navigate them in a variety of other ways (Rabinow, 1996). More recent scholars in this area have focused on biomedicalization (Clarke, Shim, Mamo, Fosket, & Fishman, 2003) and healthism or healthicization (Crawford, 1980). These terms reflect a shift in which the dominant status of medical professions has diminished under neoliberal capitalism, and increasingly, individuals are targeted by corporations; they may self-diagnose and self-treat (via online protocols); and alternative, functional, holistic, and “Eastern” medicine and extramedical protocols have become more popular, both within so-called Western medical arenas and also outside of the clinic. The medicalization of sexuality—and specifically the project of making sexual difference a focal point of psychiatric interest and intervention—has a long history in the Global North, particularly in the Anglo-American context. Many feminist scholars have suggested that medicine and science, including psychology and psychiatry, should be deemed irresponsible not only for their 5. Goffman, with his work on institutionalization (1961) and stigmatization (1978), and Foucault, with his genealogical analyses of madness (1965), the productive power of expert discourse (1972), the development of the clinic and the clinical gaze (1973), and disciplinary regimentation within surveilling institutions (1977), are also associated with the sociological critique of medicalization. For this project, I am more interested in Foucault’s later work on governmentality, regimes of sexuality, and the biopolitical production and management of populations, as I elaborate below. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 19 social control techniques in general, but for their social control of women as deviant others in particular (Birke & Hubbard, 1995; Boyle, 1993; Harding, 1986; Hubbard, 1990; Irvine, 2002, 2005). Feminists of the 1960s and 1970s analyzed the legacy of psychoanalysis in this regard, and much of the pathologization of women’s minds and bodies has been attributed to Freud’s drive model of sex, and the concept of penis envy. These scholars further argued that the “feminine neuroses”—female masochism, hysteria, frigidity, and even eating disorders today—were socially constructed as ways to pathologize femininity or, alternatively, that they were the tangible and devastating material results of the suffocating societal control of women. For other scholars, these illness experiences may also be read as radical forms of feminist refusal or resistance to patriarchal modes of being (Bordo, 1993; Ehrenreich & English, 1978). Today, disability studies scholars such as Garland-Thomson (2002) and Kafer (2013), and feminist psychiatric disability and madness studies scholars such as Donaldson (2002), Johnson (2010, 2013, 2015), and Mollow (2014) in a crip theoretical frame (McRuer, 2006) offer a way of understanding gendered and racialized illnesses as being simultaneously real and legitimate (rather than just “socially constructed”), yet still emergent as social products and not simply forms of refusal. Some feminist and sexuality studies scholars have also taken up critiques of sexism and misogyny in sexual dysfunction discourses and in the areas of women’s sexual, reproductive, and mental health more broadly (Angel, 2010, 2012; Cacchioni, 2015; Labuski, 2015; Moore & Clarke, 1995; Tiefer, 1995). Additionally, asexuality studies scholars have highlighted regimes of compulsory sexuality (Barounis, 2014, 2015, 2019; Flore, 2014, 2016, 2018; Gupta, 2011, 2015, 2017; Kim, 2014; Milks & Cerankowski, 2014; Przybylo, 2013, 2014), and feminist science studies scholars have unpacked categories of diagnosis, including in regard to intersex embodiment, exposing the heteronormative rhetoric that operates under the guise of scientific objectivity (Fausto-Sterling, 1992, 1994, 2000; Jordan-Young, 2011; Jordan-Young & Karkazis, 2019; Karkazis, 2008). As mentioned above, many scholars in this vein have importantly highlighted the whiteness of these regimes and of racialized sexual difference more broadly (Hartman, 1997; Markowitz, 2001; McWhorter, 2004, 2009; Schuller, 2018; Snorton, 2017; Somerville, 1994, 2000; Spillers, 1987). I offer an analysis of low desire in women that is in conversation with all of this scholarship. Recent sociological critiques of the medicalization of sexuality, including prolific critiques of the social construction of female sexual dysfunction and low desire, have primarily taken an antimedicalization, antipharmaceuticalization or anti–“Big Pharma,” anti-“disease-mongering” stance (Jutel, 2010; Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 20 • INTRODUCTION Moynihan, 2005; Tiefer, 1995, 1996, 2006). By contrast, I focus on the ways in which sexual difference is carved out through clinical discourses, how gendered ways of being are thus prescribed within these domains, and ultimately, how discursive regimes for active masculinity and receptive femininity become circuitously attached to bodies and lived out socially. In the present study, I address these crucial—and too often neglected—components of the current context within which “female sexual dysfunction” (FSD) and low female desire are constructed, debated, and, by some critics, denounced as wholly fictitious. I do not think non-asexual women’s low desire is fictitious or purely “socially constructed,” but nor do I think it is simply “normal variation,” in the most generous reading, or essential to female sexual constitution, in the most reductive reading (it is worth noting that both “normal variation” and “female essence” here operate within the logic of a reductive biological frame). Instead, I want to turn the gaze back upon the very feminist-identified clinicians and scientists who study and work on women’s desire, and show how they are complicit with the production of receptive femininity as something to be regulated, controlled, and optimized. Women-with-low-desire here is produced as a category, as a population to be managed, and the members of this population are in many cases produced and managed by self-identified feminist researchers and clinicians themselves. In this vein, my research questions further lend themselves to a theoretical exploration proceeding from a biopolitical framework. Beginning with the work of Foucault in the late 1970s, there has been much attention to the dynamics of identity and population production, embodiment, and other forms of corporeal politics in late neoliberal capitalism (Clough, 2007, 2018; Cooper, 2008; Cooper & Waldby, 2014; Mbembe, 2003, 2019; Murphy, 2012, 2017; Puar, 2007, 2011, 2017; N. Rose, 2001, 2007; Weheliye, 2014). Scholars following and critiquing Foucault began to explore these questions within a biopolitical and affective framework beginning in the late 1980s. The primary common claim is that neoliberal discourses under late global capitalism— which are attuned to and productive of race, gender, sexuality, nationality, (dis)ability, and other categories of citizenship and governance—manipulate, surveil, and affectively control bodies and populations, increasingly through consensual rather than disciplinary means. Some of these control mechanisms operate through the domains of medicine, science, and psychiatry—and their popular instantiations that are now accessible through new media, digital formats, and self-help techniques—and they regulate and manage the health, illness, capacity, debility, life, and death of various populations and the body politic at large. This management is increasingly performed in the name of “self-improvement” and individual “health” to the benefit of certain groups Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 21 at the expense of certain others (all of whom are raced, gendered, sexualized, and nationalized). All of these investments are part of a larger neoliberal project of submitting social life—including family configurations, sexual relations, and other embodied aspects of this sociality—to market logic. My project, as it examines the lived experience of racialized and gendered medical and scientific discourses—including those that extend beyond the clinic—and their effects on women’s bodies and psyches, and insofar as it focuses on the management, regulation, and production of certain iterations of feminine desire, is firmly situated within this biopolitical framework. In order to investigate how individuals live out low or responsive female desire discourses, I employed a mixed methodological qualitative approach. I utilized three different sociological research methods, including critical discourse analysis of peer-reviewed scientific and sexual medicine journal articles, a limited amount of analytic observation6 at medical clinics and sexual enhancement workshops, and in-depth interviews with thirty-seven individuals. Most of these interviews were with cisgender women who identified as currently lacking in sexual desire or who have experienced problematic low desire at some point in their lives. I also conducted a small number of interviews with a variety of practitioners who do “desire work,” including clinical psychologists, sex therapists, yogic/tantric practitioners, sexual enhancement workshop leaders, and antimedicalization activists. By analyzing emergent themes through in-depth qualitative data-analysis techniques, I was able to excavate the parallels and tensions between “expert” discourses on low female desire and the experiences of low-desiring women themselves. How do women think about low desire, receptivity, responsiveness, complexity, and sexual flexibility? How do they experience their sexualities and genders? How do they characterize their current and past sex lives? What turns them on or off? How could their sexual partners help them increase their desire and give them more pleasure? Why do women themselves think their desire is low, or has been throughout their lives at different times and with different partners? In order to shed light on these questions, among others, I conducted in-depth, one-on-one, semistructured, qualitative interviews with thirty low-desiring women. These interviews ranged from thirty to 210 minutes in length, but most were between one and three hours long. Most participants contacted me on the basis of experiencing low desire currently or because they had experienced troublingly low desire at some point in 6. I use the term analytic observation rather than participant observation, as I was not actually a participant in any of these spaces. Rather, I conducted interviews in medical and alternative therapeutic spaces and was able to observe certain dynamics in these “clinics” during the interviewing process. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 22 • INTRODUCTION their lives; two had participated in medical treatment programs that utilized behavioral, therapeutic, and pharmaceutical interventions to treat sexual pain and concomitant low desire. They ranged in age from twenty-one to fiftysix years, but most were between the ages of twenty-five and thirty-seven, and all except for one were premenopausal. These women were of diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds, with about one-third of the sample identifying as women of color. They grew up with a multitude of cultural, community, and religious backgrounds. Most were born in the US, and almost all had at least a college education (or were currently attending college). They were of diverse sexualities (most were straight or bisexual; some identified as queer) and lifestyles (some were married or in long-term partnerships, some were single, some were polyamorous or in open relationships, and only a few were pregnant or had children), but all of the women I interviewed who identified as low-desiring (or who had previously experienced distressingly low desire) had been sexually involved with cisgender men at some point in their lives. One participant identified as being on an asexual/pansexual spectrum, and one identified as genderqueer/nonconforming. A participant also interviewed me, using the same interview schedule I had used with all of the low-desiring women I interviewed. See the appendix (Table 1 and Table 2) for full participant and expert demographic information. All of the names used for participants in this study are pseudonyms. The names in Table 1 (low-desiring participants) were chosen by the participants themselves. I selected the names in Table 2 (the experts; although some of the experts agreed to use their real names, not all did, so in order to be consistent, I gave them all pseudonyms. All of the experts are white). Most of the participants responded to a flyer I posted in a variety of spaces around Brooklyn, Queens, and Manhattan in New York City—including in college health centers and other university settings, coffee shops and restaurants, grocery stores, yoga and dance studios, and other public places with bulletin boards for posting events and activities. The flyer was also disseminated to initial participants to email to their friends and post on their Facebook and other social media pages, so many of the later participants were recruited via snowball sample (Berg & Lune, 2011; Miles, Huberman, & Saldaña, 2013). I also posted the recruitment flyer on my personal blog, Facebook, and Twitter pages and made it shareable so others could post it. This type of convenience sampling is appropriate given the sensitive nature of the interview topics, and is useful for making exploratory grounded theoretical observations that are not generalizable to any larger population.7 My sample could be said to be 7. Most of the interviews were conducted at my apartment, at the participants’ apartments, or in a public space such as a café or park (in all cases, the participants chose where they preferred to be interviewed—and a handful of interviews were conducted via Skype or Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 23 somewhat disparate, but I argue that this makes sense and is in keeping with the scientific literature, as what it means to be a “low-desiring” woman is confusing and ill-defined, and the medical discourse itself is confusing and ill-defined. There is no consensus in experimental or clinical psychology or sexual medicine or sex therapy on what “desire” even is, or what “low desire” indicates, and the new female sexual interest/arousal disorder diagnosis attests to this, as I will explain in chapter 2. In the remaining six interviews, which were conducted with clinicians, therapists, activists, and yogic/alternative health practitioners, emergent themes included these experts’ thoughts on feminine receptivity, innate or neurological differences between men and women, evolutionary sexual adaptations, and gender differences in mind/body disconnects or alignments (i.e., arousal/desire “concordance” versus “discordance”). I also examined how practitioners dealt with the same themes that emerged from the low-desiring women’s interviews. Different practitioners grappled with these themes differently, and they had diverse ideas about the most appropriate and effective treatments for low female desire. I utilize these expert interviews sporadically throughout the remainder of this book, primarily to frame the textual analysis and low-desiring participants’ interview data. Chapter Overview In the first half of Diagnosing Desire, I examine historical and contemporary formulations of both clinical and popular discourses about femininity, sexuality, and gendered sexual response; in the second half of the book, I turn more closely to the interviews and the themes that emerged from them. In chapter 1, I examine how femininity, women’s sexuality, and female desire have been framed in sex therapy, sex research, and specifically as part of conceptualizations of human sexual response, from the nineteenth century through to today. I pay special attention to how notions of feminine responsiveness and receptivity have been maintained through different sexual response models, from early psychoanalytic configurations to more behavioristic accounts to evolutionary psychology formulations of sexual difference. Although paradigms through which sexuality is interpreted have shifted immensely (and much has been lost in the movement from trauma-based psychoanalytic/psychodynamic theories to the more reductive evolutionary FaceTime) between 2012 and 2014. I did not compensate any of the interviewees monetarily, although I did offer to buy them coffee or tea if we were at a café, and if they came to my apartment to conduct the interview, I cooked dinner for them and/or provided food and beverages. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 24 • INTRODUCTION psychology and behavioristic models), the idea that men and women operate on different sexual planes of existence has remained constant. In chapter 2, I pick up with contemporary behavioristic and evolutionary models and focus on the trajectory of the new science of female sexuality as it relates to these models, and specifically on the development of the circular sexual response cycle as part of the feminized responsive desire framework. I show how these models for thinking about women’s sexual response began to take hold over the last twenty-five or so years, and came fully into the popular spotlight during the first decade of the twenty-first century, and I consider how the notions of sexual “interest,” “arousal,” and “motivation” have come to replace the language of (female) “desire” and have simultaneously come to dominate in individualized sex therapy, sexual medicine, and contemporary sexology. I further show how this feminized responsive desire framework— along with experimental psychology research on women’s subjective/genital discordance—culminated in the newly gendered FSIAD diagnosis in the 2013 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM5). The feminization of responsive desire is not only an issue for those who are diagnosed with FSIAD, however—because of the far reach of ideas about feminine sexual receptivity via popular media, many women have internalized these notions, and will self-diagnose and seek treatment, including through mindfulness-based sex therapy, or MBST, one of the most popular methods of treatment today. I analyze this entire framework as it relates to themes about women’s sexuality that have emerged in evolutionary psychology, and consider treatments—including mindfulness to enhance desire—through a biopolitical lens. Members of the population women-with-low-desire are produced as such through sexual medicine and treatment protocols and come to regulate themselves accordingly. This self-surveillance rehearses antiquated narratives about (white) feminine receptivity and has dire negative consequences for women’s sexual agency—which is paradoxical, in that the framework and treatments are designed to “empower” women. Through the qualitative analysis of interview data, several primary themes emerged as specifically affecting women who identify as low in sexual desire, and they are the topics of the remaining chapters. In chapter 3, I examine concepts associated with the FSIAD diagnosis, such as “interest,” “arousal,” “motivation,” and “receptivity,” and consider how well they apply (or do not apply) to the women I interviewed. I also examine how second-wave feminism, specifically cultural feminist strains within the “psychology of women,” and even ideas about women that have emerged from antimedicalization activism, have been imported into the feminized responsive desire framework. Today, this model of women’s sexual response is offered as “feminist”—however, I argue Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 25 that it can only be interpreted as such if women’s empowerment is defined narrowly within a white liberal feminist framework. I argue that more in-depth, intersectional feminist goals are undercut by the racialized, cisnormative, and heterornomative contours of the feminized responsive desire framework itself. The primary theme that emerges from my interview data here is the notion of sexual difference socialization, or the experience of one’s sexuality (and femininity) through pervasive scientific, therapeutic, and popular discourses that prescribe gender differences in sexual desire and behavior. Here, I consider how the category women-with-low-desire is not only produced discursively via sexual medicine but also how members of this population are socialized into being, through gendered sexual expectations that are part and parcel of contemporary sexology and its associated scripts. In chapter 4, I consider embodied invisible labor in the form of sexualized social reproduction, or what I call sexual carework. This theme from my interview data does not only concern the ways women are expected to sexually service men under heteropatriachy (although it does concern that). I also focus on how the medical and scientific discourses I analyze in the first part of the book support notions of feminized sexual carework, which has particular import for women-with-low-desire, and even more specifically for women of color in this category. Further, I consider how, under regimes of compulsory gendered (hetero)sexuality, sexual carework becomes a mandate for self-care—for the good of the hetero/cis relationship, the bourgeois family, the nation/state, and sometimes the woman’s “own health”; here, alternative therapies, including mindfulness, become tools of self-care as self-regulation, and femininity becomes a duty. Feminized sexual carework is thus a biopolitical mandate, and feminine carers are a population to be invested in and who are expected to invest in themselves in order to self-appreciate (in the sense of accruing value, or making oneself more valuable). In chapter 5, I analyze the interviews and consider how and why some low-desiring women are drawn to submission in bondage and discipline/ dominance and submission/sadism and machochism or BDSM practice, and concomitantly interrogate the problem of the missing discourse of trauma within the feminized responsive desire framework. In this vein, I consider the fraught nature and importance of sexual intentionality—including the necessity of actively negotiating sexual taboos and attempting to build sexual trust (particularly for women who have sex with men)—in the face of many low-desiring women’s frequent experiences with and histories of feminized trauma as a result of gendered and sexual violence. Here, I further expose the violence inherent in the feminized mandate to sexual receptivity, including as it is deployed via the FSIAD diagnosis and mindfulness-based sex ther- Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 26 • INTRODUCTION apy and related discourses. I show, however, that receptivity can be and is reclaimed by women, including through mindful and intentional submission, for instance via BDSM. This intentional and queer reclamation of receptivity via submission throws into stark relief the (ironically) more self-disciplinary mandate of enhancing one’s own responsive desire via biopolitical techniques such as mindfulness, and thus what I refer to as parasexual pleasure is able to be experienced even in the face of compulsory and feminized trauma. Here, I add to ongoing conversations about asexuality, demisexuality, and other nonnormative versions of erotic life. I bring all of these themes together in the conclusion of Diagnosing Desire and consider a different model of care and parasexual agency through the lenses of crip theory, critical feminist disability studies, and feminist madness studies. Here, I think through the implications of the biopolitical analysis of femininity that has been laid out in the book; if the responsive feminine are produced as a population, then there may be an experience of vitality to be found in “falling apart” or “fracturing” together—rather than self-surveilling and constantly seeking to individually enhance under white supremacist, ableist, cisheteropatriarchal capitalism. There is revolutionary potential in falling apart in the face of trauma and low desire, with others, in radical community, rather than using biopolitical techniques in order to simply “get by.” • I want to acknowledge a few final things before I go any further. First, while I will argue throughout this book that contemporary discourses of femininity are framed as universal or are racially “unmarked,” but that they ultimately recapitulate ideas about white women’s sexuality (founded in early scientific discourses of racialized sexual difference), the one-on-one interviews for this this book did not focus on race in an in-depth way. I reflexively acknowledge the limitations of this book in this vein; while I did speak with several women of color for this project, we did not extensively discuss the many ways that race, racism, and white supremacy undoubtedly impact their experiences of their own sexuality and desire. To some extent, this was a limitation of my interview schedule and the substance of the overarching research question that brought these participants to speak with me in the first place (the connection between gender and low desire), but my own whiteness surely influenced how I chose to analyze the interviews and what themes I ultimately centered in the final analysis. There is a strong connection between my own work here and research that suggests how (sexualized/gendered) trauma and (sexualized/gendered) carework are disproportionately experienced and enacted by Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. DIAGNOSING GENDER THROUGH DESIRE • 27 poor women, women of color, and folks of other marginalized statuses, and I highlight that research throughout the text with a nod to the limits of my own project. I take seriously Nash’s (2019) critiques of the burden thrust upon feminist scholars of color to do intersectional work and Puar’s (2017) critiques of the ways in which (white) new materialist feminist scholars specifically have too often ignored an intersectional frame. I hope that my research here on the whiteness of the contemporary medical and scientific milieu of sexual difference production and regulation can open the door for more in-depth analyses of racialization and unmarked whiteness as it travels in this milieu (and it is white scholars, including me, who should endeavor to perform these analyses). A few final points I’d like to acknowledge include the time scale of this research, the pervasiveness of what may appear to be a narrow discourse, and the complexity of the experts I analyze. The science that I have been studying moves fast, and narratives and hypotheses offered in experimental and clinical psychology publications have changed quickly since I began this project. Thus, this book focuses primarily on a very specific time period: the first ten to fifteen years of the twenty-first century, when women’s (receptive) desire increasingly came into the spotlight, and the discursive space of “feminism” was increasingly occupied by mainstream sexual medicine practitioners, researchers, and sex therapists. This book, then, is also a critique of white liberal feminism as it has been taken up in mainstream psychology. In this vein, one of my goals is to inspire an interdisciplinary dialogue. Many popular mainstream psychologists are still primarily working with the categories of “males” and “females,” are only recently beginning to examine the social construction of gender, and assume universal sex categories without analyzing their founding within colonialism and white supremacy. By contrast, scholars in critical race and sexuality studies, disability studies, queer and feminist theory, and queer of color and crip of color critique have moved well beyond social constructionist arguments and forefront white supremacy as undergirding all of our medical and scientific categories. I hope this book can promote useful and practicable discussions among these scientific researchers and cultural theorists, so that our most cutting-edge science and medicine can be informed by our most cutting-edge theories of gender, sexuality, race, and embodiment. These discussions will be imperative in improving both clinical/therapeutic treatments for marginalized populations, and the scientific research upon which those treatments are based. Finally, it must be noted that this project has been difficult in part because of the complexity of the medical figures and experts who have become the primary characters in this story. While I critique the way their various research Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved. 28 • INTRODUCTION projects, treatment protocols, and activist endeavors have come together to form the feminized responsive desire framework that I see as ultimately detrimental and retrograde, I also recognize that these women are progressive and innovative scholars in their fields and have done much to shift the terrain of mainstream psychology and sexology. They have moved sex therapy and research forward in many invaluable ways, and my intervention here is meant in the spirit of feminist dialogue and critical engagement with those projects. We are all steeped in our own disciplines and have to navigate the constraints therein, and I hope that my argument and analysis in this book will provoke a necessary conversation. Copyright © 2020 by The Ohio State University. All rights reserved.

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