Our experiences tell us, however, that our true freedom
is undermined when we ignore our moral obligations
toward one another as person-
                        person-in-
                                 in-community. In the light
  of objectivity²
     objectivity²if we can lie about others, they can lie
   about us²
         us²we understand the value and need to do
good & avoid evil. Through our well-
                                  well-formed conscience,
we are able to discern the concrete good act we should
 do or the concrete evil act we should avoid in order to
  become truly free persons-
                     persons-in-
                              in-community. Clearly, our
    conscience are a blessing & a gift from God who
     desires that we become truly free & truly happy. 
veryday, we are constantly making moral judgments about
  the acts we are about to do or acts we have already done.
 We all experience within ourselves an inner voice telling us
at the right moment ³ë ³ë «
                            «  	´.
                                           	´. Because of our
  past experiences & choices, many of our moral judgments
      are almost automatic, seemingly involving little or no
 deliberation at all. Other moral acts, on the other hand, may
demand from us a longer process of discernment, especially
     if we have doubts about the facts, motivation or other
circumstances related to the act. When we fail to do the good
        or shun the evil in our concrete circumstances, we
                          experience guilt.
 The idea of conscience is not something new to most people.
But some of us perceive misconceptions on what it really means.
   ° Myth 1: ³It¶s a matter between me & my conscience
                                            conscience..´
                For some people, following one¶s conscience is
     simply doing things ³my way´ without considering the good
     of others.
        others. This individualistic idea of conscience, collapses
     before the fact that we are all relational beings beings.. We
     become truly free as persons  persons--in-
                                            in-community only by
     fulfilling our moral obligations toward one another
                                                  another..
° Myth 2: Conscience is God¶s voice within us
                                           us..
           We naturally relate the voice of our conscience to
  God, first, because God has created us as moral persons with
  consciences, & second because God is the perfect norm of
  goodness.. But this is not the case
  goodness                       case.. God can never be confined
  to any person¶s conscience because from experience we know
  that our consciences can sometimes be in serious error  error²
                                                               ²
  mistakenly judging what is truly evil to be good & vice versa
                                                           versa..
  Our own erroneous judgment therefore results from our own
  human inadequacies & faulty moral formation
                                        formation..
° Myth 3: Conscience is our feeling of guilt
                                       guilt..
           Although guilt is often a sign that our consciences are
  at work in our concrete moral situations, we should not equate
  our feelings with conscience itself
                                   itself.. It is like saying that our
  consciences make moral ³judgments´ only by considering the
  good or guilty feeling following a particular free action
                                                       action..
° Myth 4: The notion that media¶s depiction of
 conscience as an external reality is essentially
 accurate..
 accurate
           Films & advertisements usually depict human
 conscience in entertaining although misleading ways      ways..
 Some examples of this is the story of Ý 
 that
 equates conscience with an advice of a friend, and the
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 implying that conscience
                      
 is simply an act of personal deliberation without reference
                               standard.. This should not be,
 to any objective moral standard
 instead, we must know the true nature of sound moral
 judgment when we use our human conscience
                                        conscience..
   All of us have conscience. We all have human capacity to use our
reason to discern & judge the moral goodness or evil of a particular act
  with the feelings of being morally obliged to do what is good & avoid
  what is evil. With this understanding, we are called not only to judge
     what is normally good but ³to do the right & to love goodness.´
               Subjective Dimension of Human Conscience
By subjective, we do not mean that the judgment of conscience depends
 not only on what an individual thinks (kanya
                                       (kanya--kanya mentality) but that
      our individual conscience is simply ours & no one else¶s. Our
conscience has a unique role that nothing & no one else can perform: it
    judges what we must do or avoid by creatively applying universal
             objective moral laws to our concrete moral act.
            Objective Dimension of Human Conscience
 Our conscience are shaped by the influence of others; they do not
    develop in a vacuum. As children we learn by our parents &
     teachers, & as teenagers we learn by our friends, media, &
religious education. Only through interaction do we fully understand
  the fundamental human values & objective norms that guide our
  consciences in making moral judgments. The relational nature of
     our consciences flows directly from our relational nature as
  persons. Thus, our conscience always have a social dimension.
                          Follow Your Conscience
  We experience the law of God written in our hearts within us when
we reflect on our moral acts. For instance, we chose to study than to
spend time with your Ô			
                         Ô			,, we realize that our capacity to discern
what we should do & the decision to do so are not the results of any
  merely private whim. Rather, this experience of the working of our
   conscience is based directly on the natural human capacities of
 intellect & free will as exercised within a social context. By creating
   us a rational persons, God has endowed us with the capacity to
discern what, in their best lights, given the limitations of their reason,
freedom, & all their faculties, they consider to be truly good & should
be done. Hence, our dignity as persons lies in following our properly
 formed consciences; when we reject the call of conscience, we sin.                    
ducate Your Conscience
    Sincerely following our consciences is not our only moral
obligations as human persons. We also need to form or educate
  our conscience; because conscience gradually develop. It is
 formed by many influences: family, friends, religious practices,
catechesis, even media. It is our moral responsibility to develop
     our own correct conscience; one that judges true moral
                            goodness.   
very person has an obligation to develop his conscience. This is
    because, as we mature, conscience also undergoes stages of
   development: instinctive, ethical or moral, & religious or Christian.
                              Instinctive Level
It is the stage where most young children are. They do not yet see the
   intrinsic goodness or evil acts.
                              acts. Hence, children at this level cannot
        understand yet the inherent goodness of doing honest acts.
                        
thical or Moral Stage
We become aware that the goodness or evil of acts is not dependent on
 the approval or disapproval of others. We may choose to do good or
          evil depending on the level of awareness we have.
                       Christian or Religious Level
We see our moral actions as a response of faith to God our Father who
summons us through the Risen Christ & the Holy Spirit to goodness &
the fullness of our graced life. It is our relationship with the Triune God
     that can empower us to do what is good & avoid what is evil.
  Our conscience is influenced by what we learn & how we feel, our
        intellectual & affective aspects: our mind & our heart.
                       Ways of Forming our Minds:
   ~   Learning from the experiences & reflections of friends
                                                         friends..
   ~   Taking time to read & study the Bible
                                        Bible..
   ~    Listening to parents¶ advice or engaging in a dialogue with them
       over important issues
                       issues..
   ~   Learning in school by our teachers & discussions
                                                discussions..
   ~    Studying moral teachings & principles of our society & of the
       Catholic Church on moral issues
                                  issues..
   ~   Consulting or asking questions from elderly people.
               Ways of Forming our Hearts:
~ Spending moments alone in a quiet personal prayer &
reflection.
~ Attending & participating in the 
ucharist Liturgy.
~ Joining reflection sessions, prayer groups, or youth
recollections with friends.
~ Receiving the sacraments, especially the Sacrament of the
Holy 
ucharist (Communion) & the Sacrament of
Reconciliation.