🧭 Framework: P.I.L.L.A.R.S.
of Strength for
the Next Generation
Each letter stands for a core area to develop. Think of these as foundational "pillars" to help
young people stand strong in a shifting world.
P – Purpose
Anchor their lives in meaning beyond themselves.
Help them discover their “why”
Teach them to serve others
Show them that greatness comes from contribution, not just ambition
Key Questions:
What were you made to do? Who benefits from your life?
I – Integrity
Develop inner strength and moral clarity.
Teach values, not just rules
Encourage consistency between beliefs and actions
Model honesty and humility, even in failure
Key Questions:
Who are you when no one is watching? What do you stand for?
L – Literacy (Critical & Media)
Equip them to think, not just absorb.
Teach them how to analyze, question, and reason
Help them understand how media and systems influence thinking
Prioritize truth-seeking over trend-following
Key Questions:
Is this true? Who benefits if I believe this?
L – Love (Relationships & Community)
Root them in real relationships and belonging.
Promote healthy family, friendship, and mentorship
Teach conflict resolution and empathy
Encourage face-to-face connection
Key Questions:
Who’s in your circle? Are you building up or tearing down?
A – Agency
Help them take ownership of their life.
Encourage responsibility, discipline, and resilience
Teach them to respond to adversity with action, not excuses
Frame failure as feedback, not finality
Key Questions:
What’s in your control? What can you do today?
R – Resilience
Prepare them to endure, adapt, and grow.
Expose them to challenges and let them struggle
Teach emotional regulation and grit
Help them find strength in faith, family, or philosophy
Key Questions:
What can this struggle teach you? Who are you becoming through it?
S – Stewardship (of Technology, Time, and Talent)
Train them to master their tools — not be mastered by them.
Teach boundaries and intentional use of screens and media
Help them invest time wisely and grow their skills
Foster creativity over consumption
Key Questions:
Are you using your time and tech to build something real?
🧱 How to Use the Framework
Mentoring/Parenting: Use the 7 pillars as a weekly theme in conversations.
Schools/Youth Programs: Build a curriculum or workshop series around each letter.
Personal Development: Encourage young people to reflect on which pillar needs
growth.
Leadership: Use it as a coaching framework for teams or young leaders.