Editor’s Letter

Left: Edwina Bartholomew

shares a positive update
on her shocking 2024
cancer diagnosis. Below:
Mother’s Day memories
for Sophie, as a baby
with mum Deirdre.

SOPHIE TEDMANSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY PETER BREW-BEVAN. EDWINA BARTHOLOMEW PHOTOGRAPH: ALANA LANDSBERRY.
he month of May always reminds me of my mum, Deirdre, as it’s not only
Mother’s Day, but also her birthday. I have fond childhood memories of
making her breakfast in bed on Mother’s Day, which included a special
illustrated menu and scrambled eggs (made by my older sister) or
Vegemite toast (made by little me!). Growing up in a big, blended,
loving family, my siblings and I were also fortunate enough to have been raised
and supported by other maternal figures at different stages in our lives.
Mothering comes in all shapes and forms. And while I know the day can be hard
for some, I was fascinated to learn in our story on page 62 that Mother’s Day was
first officially celebrated in 1908 by Anna Jarvis to honour her late mum, Ann. A mother of no less than
13 children, Ann advocated childcare, health and other issues affecting women. Mother’s Day was also, for
its founder, a tribute to “the matchless service of mothers everywhere”.
In this issue we celebrate several inspiring Australian mums. Our cover star, Edwina Bartholomew,
welcomed us into her new home in the National Trust-listed town of Carcoar, NSW, and shared a positive
update on her 2024 leukaemia diagnosis (page 20). She also muses on being gifted with a second chance
at life, and the benefits of raising young children in a beautiful community in a “gem” of a country town. OTHER IMAGE SUPPLIED AND USED WITH PERMISSION.
Turn to page 30 for a moving extract from Lauren Zonfrillo’s memoir about her first Mother’s Day
without her beloved husband, Jock, and on page 74 Carla Zampatti’s children discuss continuing their
fashion icon mum’s extraordinary legacy. Lastly, on page 56, we meet Ann Lanigan, whose revolution
in mental health support for new mothers has helped thousands, including her own daughter.
I hope you enjoy this issue.

SOPHIE TEDMANSON E D I T O R E m a i l m e a t aw weditor@aremedia.com.au

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Re d CA R P ET

Naomi Watts wore spots to

match her co-star, Bing the Great
Dane, for the New York premiere
of her new film, The Friend.
“One of us has got to change!”
she wrote on photos of her
posing with her co-star.
Also starring Bill Murray,
The Friend is based on the
2018 bestselling Sigrid
Nunez novel of the same
name. Bing’s handlers
said he was “pawsitively
excited” about the film.

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 R o y a l N E WS

Princes on patrol
“A memorable two days!” Prince
William said after training with
the Mercian Regiment in Estonia.
In Denmark, Prince Christian has
been serving as a military officer in
the town of Slagelse. It is tradition
for members of the Royal House
to serve in the armed forces.

Picture book win

Nukgal Wurra artist and debut
author Wanda Gibson, 79, has
won the $100,000 Victorian
Premier’s prize for children’s
literature for Three Dresses,
a book about her childhood.

Above: Prince William inspected infantry

vehicles while wearing army fatigues as he
met with British troops. Right: Queen Mary
visited Prince Christian at his barracks.

Swimmer steps up
Former Olympic swimmer
Kirsty Coventry, 41, from
Zimbabwe, has been elected
the International Olympic
Committee’s first female
president in 131 years. She is
also its youngest president.
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Ella tops tractor pull

Ella Martin, 17, has become
the first woman ever to win
New Zealand’s Northland
Field Days’ tractor-pull
competition. Competitors drive
Mediterranean monk seals once on the brink of extinction
a tractor over a 100-metre course have made a population recovery thanks to the conservation efforts
pulling a weighted sled. of the Hellenic Society for the Study and Protection of the Monk Seal.

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 Family A LBUM

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex,

has shared a glimpse of
Lilibet, three, and Archie, Courtney Act
five, showing her children
have inherited Prince Harry’s
is co-hosting The
red hair. Meghan shared the Eurovision Song
shot with her kids (left) as Contest, live in prime
she launched her range of jams, time May 14-18 on SBS
teas and pre-made crepe and
biscuit mixes, under the label and SBS On Demand.
As Ever. “Every day is a love I love Eurovision
story,” Meghan captioned because … it’s a camp
the photo. Her first collection, celebration of music,
released in early April and culture, language
only available in the US, sold and performance.
out within an hour.
My favourite artist
to ever perform at
Eurovision is …
Conchita Wurst because
I am inspired by her
voice, poise, and
elegance. Her beard is
very luxurious too! I’ve
had laser hair removal,
so such a hirsute display
will never be available to
me – unless I glue it on.
The best award I’ve ever
won was … Mr Tiny Tot
1987. Yes, I am a pageant
title holder!
The biggest risk I’ve
taken is … I jumped out
of a plane to impress a
guy. I wouldn’t say it
worked either.
My favourite saying is …
Best DRESSED
accept your reality as it is,
not as you want it to be.
My hero is … any young
The National Gallery of Victoria is hosting a retrospective of Australian-born, Paris-based queer kid who has the
designer Martin Grant. Grant has dressed stars such as Cate Blanchett, Lady Gaga, Tilda courage to be themselves.
Swinton and Queen Rania Al Abdullah of Jordan. He also created Qantas’ blue, pink and
purple uniforms. The exhibition will run until January 26, 2026.

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 The US California’s Morning Glory spillway CHINA

has to be one of the more spectacular drains

on Earth. The 22-metre hole keeps Lake
Berryessa, in Napa, from overflowing. Police officers in Shanghai kept a close
eye on the crowd at the Chinese F1
Grand Prix, aided by a humanoid robot
and a robot dog. Both the human and
canine robocops are produced by
a Chinese robotics company.

The UK

Arty egg hunt underway

Londoners are on the hunt for 123 unique eggs
hidden around the city as part of The Big Egg Hunt.
Artists and designers created the collection, including
a diamond and emerald egg by luxury jeweller
Chopard that sits at Royal Albert Hall. The hunt raises
money for conservation charity Elephant Family.

Japan Switzerland Italy New Zealand

A killer payday Healing history Naming rights Spooky politics
Japan has awarded a wrongly Authorities in the Swiss town of A proposal for newborns to New Zealand’s parliament
convicted man who was on Neuchâtel will cover the cost of get their mother’s surname has is offering after-hours tours
death row for close to half “museum prescriptions” issued caused a stir in Italy. Supporters exploring the ghostly history
a century 217 million yen by doctors who believe their say the move would “right a of the building. Actors in
($2.3m). The 89-year-old was patients would benefit from historic wrong” but opponents Victorian-era veils and fake
exonerated over a 1966 time in one of the town’s fear it would cause a shift “from blood feature in the “mostly
quadruple murder. four museums. patriarchy to matriarchy”. factual” tour based on legends.

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 Savannah TOUR

The Dutch royals spent four

days in Kenya, including a
visit to the famed sanctuary
park in Naivasha which is
home to Africa’s most
majestic animals. King
Willem-Alexander and
Queen Maxima of the
Netherlands (right) said
they were “grateful to have
gained more insight into
Narelda
the everyday lives of the welcomes
Kenyan people”. a bub
Narelda Jacobs will take a year
off from the Network 10 news desk
to be with her baby who arrived in
In MEMORIA M early March. “You’ll find me alongside
my most beautiful wife [Karina Natt]
as we spend our days getting lost
in the cheeks, the toes, the fingers
and the nose of our Sanna Swan.”

Beloved for playing Dr Kildare and starring in

The Thorn Birds (below), Richard Chamberlain
will be remembered by many as a heart-throb,
but during his six-decade career he was
nominated for four Emmy Awards and won
three of six Golden Globe nominations.

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littlest Victorians
Victorian Parliament has opened
Royal HONOUR a carers room for MPs with babies.
The room was named after former

Sir Fry “chuffed to MP Kirstie Marshall’s daughter

Charlotte. In 2003, speaker Judy
the high heavens” Maddigan let baby Charlotte into the
“My mother is beaming like a Legislative Assembly chamber to
lighthouse,” Sir Stephen Fry said after highlight the rights of mothers
he was knighted for his charity work returning to work. Victoria has
(above), adding if it helped his advocacy more female MPs than male.
“maybe they should make me a duke”.
Anapela Polataivao
looked deep inside for
her role as a mother and
teacher in NZ film Tinā.

napela Polataivao is not only one of New Zealand’s

great theatrical actors, she is a mother of three –
Rocky, 23, Iuni-Katalaina, 20, and Hector-Jack, 18.
Taking on the role of Mareta in the film Tinã drew on every
part of her being, because Mareta, a high school choir
teacher, loses her daughter in the Christchurch earthquake.
For a role like this, Anapela tells The Weekly, “you draw on
your own humanness. I’m Samoan, I’m a woman, a human
being and a mother. I have one daughter who is like my best
friend. So I’m going to get teary just thinking about going
through all that.” And she wasn’t alone. “At the first table “I’m just so driven to tell our stories, to maintain our
read, the narrator was sobbing, bless him. And then of presence,” Anapela says, and she’s speaking of Samoan,
course, by the end, we were all pretty much in that space.” Māori and Pacific stories. “There are some things in our
Written and directed by Miki Magasiva, Tinã has impressed stories ... I hope there’s some sense of release, that it’s going to
judges at film festivals internationally and in spite of all be okay in the end. The reaction to Tinā – and all the feelings
those tears, the film is brimful of hope, joy, music and truth. it has evoked – it’s healing.” Tinā is in cinemas from May 1.

D i n o D I S C OV E RY
M a r b l e D I VA

School’s rock
holds treasure Our Tassie
trove of fossils nightingale
In the late 19th century,
A boulder that sat in the
Tasmanian-born Amy Sherwin
foyer of a Queensland
was among the world’s great
school for more than
sopranos. She had taken
a decade turned out to
America, Europe and
contain 66 dinosaur footprints
Australasia by storm and
made about 200 million years
sung for kings and
ago. The fossil bares the
tzars. Yet today, she
mark of the Anomoepus
has been largely
scambus dinosaur.
forgotten. That will
change if the Amy
Sherwin Fund has
its way. It has
commissioned a
life-sized marble
statue of her which
it hopes will stand
near Hobart’s Theatre
Royal. For more, visit
amysherwinfund.au
 Basil the Corgi made a
splash in his debut at the
competition, winning over
spectators to be crowned
crowd favourite.

Sur f ’s PUP

Four-legged friends descended on Noosa for the 14th annual Surfing Dog
Championships. Poppy, a Groodle who surfs in a hot pink outfit, thrilled
spectators by gliding into Noosa main beach on her hind legs and picked
up the best wipeout trophy with owner Michelle. Basil the smiling
Corgi was voted crowd favourite along with owner Cindy, while Red
Cattle Dog Bear claimed the best wave trophy with his owner Isaac.

Pooches and their owners

hit the surf to show off
their skills.
JO WARD PHOTOGRAPHY.

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 WO R D S b y SA M A N T H A T R E N OW E T H

Jasmin Link cares for her son, Luke,

who has autism. It’s a labour of love,
but has cost her a secure retirement.
Learn whyThe Weekly’s campaigning support work coordinator and last year she graduated from
a First Nations domestic violence facilitator program.
to help voluntary carers like Jasmin. “Having done the healing journey myself, to then become
a facilitator makes me feel that all the experiences I’ve been
asmin Link’s son, Luke, was born with mild through weren’t in vain,” she says.
hydrocephalus, meaning there was too much Jasmin is 37 now, Luke is 12, and although he attends
cerebrospinal fluid in his brain. Doctors warned this school, his needs mean she still can’t work full-time. Whole
could lead to developmental delays, but equally “he years have been taken out of Jasmin’s working life when she
could be perfectly fine, and at first earned no wage or superannuation. Even today, her part-time
he was. He was healthy, strong, all of that,” wage is supplemented by voluntary carer payments which
Jasmin tells The Weekly. have no superannuation included, so there is no chance of
At three months, Jasmin noticed Luke was hypersensitive saving for retirement. And Jasmin is not alone. On average,
to drafts and to sounds. He failed to meet a succession of a person who becomes a primary carer will lose $392,500 in
milestones. At two-and-a-half, he was non-verbal and was lifetime earnings by age 67, and $175,000 in superannuation.
diagnosed with level three autism. Jasmin was 25 and a proud Jasmin remembers, years ago, thinking: “How am I ever
Aboriginal, South Sea Islander woman. She had studied law going to save money and think of a retirement? But having
and worked in the public sector, but left all that behind and super added to our payments would make so much difference
became a stay-at-home mum and voluntary carer to Luke. to carers. They could plan for the future and create healthy
“I wasn’t prepared for the chapter I was about to enter,” financial habits, rather than just getting by ... They could
she explains. “You have a baby and you go on maternity have some security, and something to look forward to.”
leave and there is an assumption that you’ll get back into Today, Luke is in a special school and he’s reached his “early
work, but that felt so far away. I didn’t see how I could live verbal” milestone. “He’s affectionate, he’s a nature lover. He’s
a normal life where I’d be able to provide for my children.” got the most infectious laugh,” Jasmin says with a smile. AWW
Jasmin had a daughter two years after having Luke, and
MARTIN OLLMAN.

when he was three-and-a-half, she secured a place for The Australian Women’s Weekly and our parent company,
him in assisted childcare. She also enrolled in a Carers Are Media, are campaigning with Carers Australia to have
Queensland program called Your Caring Way, which helps superannuation added to voluntary carer payments. To learn
carers pursue personal development. Today Jasmin is a more and sign our petition, visit costofcaring.com.au

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have always tried to encourage independence. I like to think of it this I slipped into despair at the
my children to speak up about way instead of the alternative of perhaps disappointment I was about to
their needs and wants and being – how can I put this – a control inflict on someone. I felt sick at
desires. In fact, if I had given freak. The jury’s out on that one. the path that led inevitably to letting
them a dollar for every time I’d Let’s assume, for the sake of my someone down.
uttered the phrase “if you don’t self-esteem (and therapy bill), that I’m And then I remembered: Nothing
ask, you don’t get” they’d be able to merely a person who has always done gives me more joy than helping
pay for their own Tyler The Creator things by themselves. And trust me, others. And I considered for a moment
concert tickets/arcade birthday this isn’t, I’m quickly realising, a virtue. that the chance of me being the only
parties/new must-have The first challenge I’ve identified in human being in my life that feels this
SteamAirJumpRocket sneakers/ my quest to request favours is a big way was exactly zero.
four-bedroom inner-city mansion one. I simply do not consider the I called my sister and this is how the
themselves instead of me having to possibility that if something needs to conversation went, word for word:
constantly budget for them. be done that it can feasibly be done by Me: “I think I need help on Friday.”
But, as we’ve always been told, anyone but me. Plant the new herbs? Her: “Sure. I have the morning off.
children will do what they see, not Sure. I can fit that in after school What do you need?”
what they’re told. I realised I have not drop-off and before the work team Me: “Could you have the kids at that
been putting my money where my meeting. Kitchen tap inexplicably swimming pool 20 minutes from their
mouth is in relation to asking for help. running slowly? No worries. I can school for the carnival by 8.40am?”
Instead, I’ve been putting my money in meet a plumber in the 45 minutes I’m Her: “Easy! Want me to come early
a savings account named “Kids’ Whims”. waiting for my home hair-dye job to and do breakfast and stuff?”
And I’m not just talking about develop because I’ll be home anyway Me: (something about relief, kindness
material needs. They’re easy. I want to take the parent teacher call at that and saving my life and OMG, yes
those closest to me to feel comfortable time (camera strictly OFF!). please, they like omelettes with goat’s
asking for the elements in life that make This insanity came to a head when cheese, but not too much).
their lives easier, that make their lives a situation arose which would’ve And so it began. My commitment to
more joyful, that make their lives a taken a Dolly the Sheep-style cloning showing those around me, but mainly
wonderful dance of reciprocal care. of yours truly to solve. Despite the myself, the tangible, measurable power
I want them to learn the power of extensive use of my trusty paper of the phrase, “if you don’t ask, you don’t
asking for help. But, even though this planner pad, which is divided into get”. The greatest surprise has not even
sounds so simple, uttering the phrase hourly increments to document my been the “getting” of the physical favours.
“I need a hand with something” is, commitments and whereabouts, on It’s been making myself vulnerable,
PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHLOE ELIZABETH.

I am quickly learning, an art form. a certain morning that also required a dropping my Superwoman façade and
And a skill I’m trying to learn daily. last-minute surprise swimming carnival having that bravery rewarded with the
I was born with the sometimes – I will NEVER get across all those apps unexpected bonus of feeling supported,
brilliant, oftentimes maddening – from the schools – it became apparent loved and cared for. And that’s a
but always present – gene of hyper- that I couldn’t handle this by myself. wonderful explosion of love to get. AWW

Chrissie Swan is a radio broadcaster, podcaster and TV host who counts walking, human connection and triple-shot coffees
as daily mental health must-haves. You can contact her at chrissie@aremedia.com.au
Listen to The Chrissie Swan Show on Nova 2-4pm weekdays or her podcast, The ChrissieCast, wherever you get your podcasts.

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Last September, on Sunrise, Edwina Bartholomew announced
she’d been diagnosed with leukaemia. Seven months later – and
on the road to recovery – she invites The Weekly to the town of
Carcoar to glimpse her new life and unexpected blessings.

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ar tyres crunch But it’s not just the history of this has been hoping to hear since she,
on a gravel road, town that Edwina has fallen in love tearfully yet optimistically, shared her
winding through with – it’s the whole package. diagnosis of chronic myeloid leukaemia
dense, white fog on “As we’ve come to find since we’ve (CML) on Sunrise last September.
the valley floor then been living here, it’s a really beautiful “I’m super fortunate,” she says,
up again into pale community,” she explains. “Every “that when they said to me, ‘you have
sunlight. A mob of Thursday night, everyone goes down cancer’, they also added, ‘it’s this kind,
20 grey kangaroos races The Weekly to the pub and has dinner together. and it’s a good kind and there’s a
team across golden paddocks on It’s a ‘no one gets left behind’ kind medication for it. You can go to your
either side of this backroad to Carcoar. of community where people care for local pharmacy and pick it up for $30
One last bend, then we’re on the each other. We felt it from the first a bottle and it will most likely work.’
main street of town, and beyond that, time we came here. It’s like the movie Almost straightaway, the blood cell
in an old Victorian cottage, Edwina Brigadoon: The mist parts and there’s count started to go down.”
Bartholomew is waiting. She’s this little town hidden in the valley. In CML, the body produces a “fusion
listening to the dawn chorus, tearing It’s this little gem. gene” called BCR-ABL1. When Edwina
into a croissant from a local bakery, “You can be here in town and see was first diagnosed, her count was at
ready for hair and make-up as she kangaroos hopping over the hills at around 30 per cent. But a fortnight
has been almost every morning for the station. There’s the Carcoar Show before The Weekly came to visit, her
the past 20 years. in October. Neil enters the cake blood test clocked the errant genes
However, it’s not the Sunrise crew competition for the blokes. Molly and at just 0.094 per cent. That, she
today. Edwina and her husband, Neil I might enter the jam competition this says, indicates a “deep and efective
Varcoe, have invited The Weekly to year. [They’ve just made their first response to treatment” and means she
join them in the NSW Central West batch of strawberry jam and it’s is on the verge of “molecular remission”.

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to explore the National Trust-listed delicious.] There’s a little horse the “If it gets down to 0.000, then
town where they’re putting down kids feed at the other end of town. I know it’s essentially gone from
roots and, now that the shock has They swim in the river. There are little my body, but then I need to take

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dissipated a little from Edwina’s gold flecks on the bottom. There used medication for the next three years,
leukaemia diagnosis, to share a to be gold in this area so the sand in or even in perpetuity, to keep it out
glimpse into their future. the river is actually gold.” of my system. I’ve had no side effects
The family already feels embedded Around the corner, by the Belubula from the medication, so it’s no
in this town. “Carcoar is a special River, sits the old guesthouse and land problem for me to keep taking it.
place,” Edwina says, ready now for – Saltash Farm – where Edwina and Neil “I’m very cognisant of the fact that
our shoot and leading us back to (and their little ones, Molly and Thomas, this is not the case for everybody. A lot
the crossroads, past verge gardens who is two) are building a new life. of people who have CML have to go
planted with jasmine and roses. At the moment, Neil lives here through chemotherapy and other
“It really gets under people’s skin.” full-time and the rest of the family kinds of treatments, but for me,
“It gets into their feet as well,” comes up on weekends – often long because I caught it early, this is the
quips five-year-old Molly, and shows weekends. The guesthouse has been only thing I’ve had to do.”
us the spot where she got a splinter stripped back to bare bones, and soon Which is not to say these last seven
on the old, wooden bridge. the restoration will begin. There have months have been without challenges.
When they first visted here on been hold-ups with approvals (as can There have been some steep ones.
a holiday, Edwina and Neil were happen in a National Trust town) but When she was first diagnosed, there
intrigued by the town’s history. there have been “serendipitous was a sense of shock and also sadness.
She points out shopfronts, a events” too, like finding a local builder Still unsure whether treatment would
courthouse, the post office, a bank who understands their dream. be successful, Edwina went on a
(where the manager famously fell “It all makes us feel we’re headed holiday, with her best friend, Pip Brett,
into a cellar while foiling a pair of in the right direction,” Edwina says. to a health retreat in New Zealand.
bushrangers) – all built here, on “It was straight after I made the
Wiradjuri country, in the 19th century dwina’s health is also heading announcement on Sunrise,” she says,
as the colony pushed west, looking in the right direction, which “and that was a really tough period. It
for grazing land and gold. is the news that all of Australia was a pretty emotional time. But what

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 Edwina wears Mia Fratino
knit, Fine-Day skirt and
Tomolly earrings (worn
throughout). Indigo & Wolfe
earrings (worn throughout)
available at Jumbled
Online. Molly wears Grown
top and pants. Tom wears
Retrobub top and pants.
Neil wears his own clothes.
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an amazing gift that is for a friend changing. “It has probably gone from have over the last month. I went
to come with you on a trip like that.” 130 per cent down to 80 per cent,” she back, a bit, to living life as ‘Edwina
Another challenge has been telling chuckles, and that’s been helped along Bartholomew 1.0’. So I just went away
people. “I still don’t say out loud that by negotiating a new work routine. for two days by myself and slept and
I have cancer very often,” she says, “I’ve been lucky that, having worked read books. It’s a work in progress.”
grappling to articulate the intricate for Channel Seven for 20 years, they
feelings involved. “Even talking to you were really supportive,” she explains. t’s not just the pace of Edwina’s life
now, it’s a shock to say it ... It’s a weird “I had a meeting with them straight that has changed. There have been
mix of different emotions. That kind after I found out, and I said, ‘I just subtler shifts too, and positive ones,
of guilt around being okay, when can’t work these hours, hammer and that will echo for years to come.
others aren’t ... Really mixed emotions.” tongs, like I used to.’” “You get this second lease on life,
Telling the people she loves was She now works flexibly – three days and you get this perspective change
especially difficult. She hasn’t told a week in the studio and one from home. that a health shock affords you,” she
her children, and has no plans to. When she notices herself slipping back explains. “A friend of mine described
Her parents, she says, are immensely into old habits, “saying yes to too it as like an awful dose of mortality.
relieved that her recent blood-test many things”, Edwina pulls herself up. You’ve realised that, in a second, you
results have been good “but I think “I just can’t do that anymore,” she could lose it all. I’m so conscious that
they worry about me still”. says. “I have to be so conscious of I could have gone into the doctor’s
One of the things they worry about not burning myself out. I have to be office that day and they could have
is the pace at which Edwina has careful that I don’t take it for granted said anything. They could have said,
always lived her life, although that’s that I’m okay, which I think I probably you’ve got two weeks to live, or go sort

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Edwina wears Mia Fratino
knit and Fine-Day skirt.
Indigo & Wolfe bracelets
available at Jumbled
Online. Akubra hat. Ganni
boots (worn throughout).
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out your affairs, or this is the end. through the same thing, and om has been stacking bricks
But they didn’t. that’s been nice too – having that and spotting kangaroos from
“Since then I think I’ve become confidential community of people. the back porch at Saltash Farm.
more patient. Things don’t phase me “We hear all the negative sides of Molly has taken on a role as junior
like they used to. I’m easier on myself social media and being in the public photographic assistant. She’s also
– physically and mentally. I think I’m eye, but for me, there has been this rolled out a batch of pink and purple
also less grumpy,” and she laughs. overwhelming wave of love – it’s Play-Doh biscuits and created an
“It’s been an extraordinary shift. been a really beautiful thing.” uncannily lifelike chalk portrait of
There have been many positive parts And all those inner changes have her mum. Later, when the neighbours’
to it. Realising and relishing beautiful made the decision to eventually up kids get back from Blayney Show, she
friendships that I’ve had for a very sticks and move the family’s focus and Tom are plotting to invite them
long time that have become even to Saltash Farm feel even more around to paint. There hasn’t been
deeper and more meaningful. serendipitous. “I’ve just been given a “device” in sight all day, and
Realising there are so many people this second chance at life,” she says, nobody’s asked for one. This town
who are there for you – from close and it’s a theme she’ll return to again has impossible mobile reception,
friends to new friends and school and again as we chat today. but one suspects this is more than
friends and family, to total strangers. “So what do I do with that? I’m an accessibility issue – that it’s part
“I have people reaching out on determined to make sure that the next of the Bartholomew/Varcoe family’s
Instagram and just saying, ‘I’ve been chapter of our lives is as full as it can new appreciation of even the small
thinking of you. How are you going?’ possibly be, because what a gift it is moments of life.
People being so caring. People have to be told that you’re sick, you have They had already bought Saltash
reached out to me who are going cancer, but you’ll be okay.” Farm and begun work on the property

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available at Jumbled Online,
DISSH skirt and Tomolly
earrings. Molly wears
Retrobub dress and Little
Harper Lee jacket. Tom
wears Grown boilersuit.
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before Edwina was told she had taking that time

cancer. Neil, who had been diagnosed – just the two
with chronic fatigue syndrome, was of us.”
spending most of his time in Carcoar, It’s made them
but still working in a freelance more aware of
capacity in media. family time
“The reason we moved out to as well, as is
Carcoar was very much for Neil’s so evident in
health,” Edwina explains, “and this every moment
place has genuinely healed him. here. They have
That was a decision we had to make thought long
for ourselves a few years ago because and hard about
what we were doing clearly wasn’t how these
working. It wasn’t working for him, lifestyle changes
it wasn’t working for our family, it will affect
wasn’t working for our marriage. And Molly and Tom,
it’s been the best possible thing for us. and these kids
“It seems kind of strange. He lives are an integral,
here, three hours away from us, and joyful, adored and
we see him on weekends and holidays respected part of the team. guesthouse and the veggie patch, kids
and back and forth, but it’s been the “There’s definitely been a roaming up the road to the local school.
best thing, and probably the only way reassessment of our priorities, and When that happens, would she be
we would have survived as a family. of what kind of life we want for our tempted to still dabble in the media, or
It meant he could prioritise his health kids,” Edwina says, as Tom and Molly could she let that life go entirely, with
and have space and time, but then, gather a box of painting gear for this no regrets at all? “The 10-year plan,” she
when he’s with the kids, he’s 150 per afternoon’s playdate. “We want to says, “is that we will be here full-time,
cent switched on.” be around for them. We want to see and I don’t particularly have a desire
Edwina believes her experience with them grow up and we want to be to keep a hand in media when that
leukaemia has not only helped her there for those moments. happens. When we choose a life out here
appreciate her own vulnerability, but “It’s taken the urgency out of full-time, that will be the decision. Never
has given her a deeper understanding everything and you just become say never, but I can’t see myself trying to
of Neil’s struggles, and in that way, incredibly appreciative of really bridge the two worlds. You know, there
brought them closer. simple stuff. If I’m reading to them are many ways to live a life – that’s been
“I think it’s made me a bit more and they want another book, we read the biggest takeaway of this process.”
empathetic of his chronic fatigue,” she another book. It sounds super clichéd, And in the meantime, this little
explains. “He’s getting better now but but it’s made us focus more on the family is happy to take each day as
he’s been sick for 10 years. Was I as things that really matter, and given us it comes.“What does life look like for
understanding as I could have been the ability to let everything else just us in one year, two years, three years,
throughout that entire time? Probably fade into the distance a bit.” four years, five? We don’t know, but
not. So I think that’s given me a new Neil has now given up his media career we’re a little less wed to the idea of
perspective. Having always been really entirely to become a full-time country a plan, perhaps because of what’s
gung-ho, now being the one who has bloke, and ultimately, that’s where happened over the last few months,”
to rest and not always be pushing, Edwina sees life leading her too. Edwina says with that beaming smile.
that’s made me push him less as well. She’s not prepared to say when that “When life throws you a curve ball
“I think it’s made us much more will be yet. It won’t be this year or that you never saw coming, you just
appreciative of the time we have next, but she can see herself based in have to get on with it. That’s what
together too – and the importance of Carcoar, in her gumboots, lady of the we’re doing.” AWW

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 am a data-driven person, and
nothing about what I was going
through was factual, rational or
had any set path. No data points
could be allocated, and no goals
could be set to strive for. But
I realised in the first couple
of weeks that numbers meant the
future for me – they represented
progress, goals that I didn’t need
to strive for because the universe
inevitably pulled me forward, and
small notches that got me further
away from the impact zone.
First, I needed to survive a
period of time. I needed to get
to Sunday, the day after Jock’s
funeral. I had naively thought
it would mean that no more
decisions needed to be made
and that the phone would
stop, but that wasn’t to be.
I had lost visibility of what else
was happening in the world
and realised that this day, this

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Sunday, was my first Mother’s

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Day without Jock. It felt like a
cruel irony that I would have

WEARS JAC AND JACK SHIRT AND SHORTS. ISLA WEARS SEED JACKET AND PANTS. ALFIE WEARS SEED TOP AND PANTS.
to have one of the many
unrelenting “firsts” so soon.
Jock always celebrated me
on days like this, and he gave
a lot of thought to every element
From top: Jock, with his family,
of the day, knowing exactly what loved to celebrate Mother’s Day
would make me feel special. He was and Christmas in a big way; with
also very talented at gift-giving – he son Alfie in the kitchen; Lauren
was not someone who would think with MasterChef judge Andy Allen,
about it a couple of weeks before or who, with his wife Alex, has been
an invaluable support.
buy something online. Every single
present Jock ever bought me – from it made in Australia, hoping it would before he was finished with them –
our first Christmas, eight weeks after be as he imagined. It makes me think something I, too, always did with Jock.
we met, through to my birthday weeks the universe made it happen because Alex poured glasses of their
before his death – was an heirloom. now he is gone I can remember every favourite Orange wine for me. Andy
Every single present he ever gave single birthday present, Christmas cooked me lamb cutlets and salmon;
me was something I still have; they present and Mother’s Day present he made delicious salads and
were meant to last forever. One year from every year we were together. vegetables, knowing I had lived off
after Jock had given me my birthday I think that is a rarity and not coffee and the occasional boiled egg
present, Andy Allen said to me that something many people would be the weeks prior. I think it was the exact
he was relieved I loved it so much able to say. meal Jock would have made me too.
because Jock had spent all of the On this first Mother’s Day without For them to do this for me, even
breaks in filming MasterChef for Jock, Andy and his wife, Alex, came to cook me a meal after the day we
months working on it. Jock had been over and cooked lunch for me. They had all just had, was really special.
sourcing parts of it from all over Italy, walked in the door, arms filled with But it was even more special to me
having each of them sent over to shopping bags, and started their usual that they had missed Mother’s Day
Australia, tracking them and getting kitchen routine, Andy prepping the with their own mums so they could
them through customs, to then have food and Alex cleaning up his things be there for me.

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I was relieved that this Mother’s Day, Jock would go over-the-top. wanting the days to occur at all.
Day was out of the way, the first of He would write me the most beautiful The Mother’s Day that just passed,
all the first times I wanted to rush cards; he would plan things with the I ignored – pretended it didn’t even
through and get done. I have now kids for weeks so their excitement happen. I went to the Mother’s Day
been through some of the second built and aligned with his energy, morning teas at day care and school
times, and it does get easier. all to make sure I had a perfect day. the week before because it was
I know my sadness is caused by But now that he’s not here, now it’s important to Alfie and Isla, but on
two things. One is that I feel Jock’s just me and the little ones, that effort the actual day, I had a normal day
absence more on these occasions: and energy doesn’t exist. I don’t want with no mention of it to the kids. I can
He was an energy force in my life and others to do it for me; I don’t need see that might sound callous or like
within our family, and I feel it in those presents or cards from other people. I took an opportunity away from the
moments when he’s not there creating I want Jock kids to celebrate, but it
that specialness. The other is that as a back for those feels fruitless to tell my
mum, most of my actions are directed moments. kids to celebrate me.
outwards and for the kids. So when it And so I find My first birthday
was my day, my birthday or Mother’s myself not without Jock was
terrible. I started crying
the night before and
continued for hours in
bed, so I took a sleeping
tablet, and then when
I woke up the next
morning, the tears
instantly started again.
The kids came into
my room in the
morning, and without
even saying anything,
Alfie went downstairs to
– Lauren Zonfrillo the freezer, got me two
icepacks, came back
upstairs and told me to put them on
my head. I said it was my birthday,
and the response I got was to be asked
when they would be able to eat some
of my cake. Then they went downstairs
and made themselves breakfast.
It felt like they didn’t care it was
my birthday, and that made the
crying even more uncontrollable.
Then I acknowledged that they didn’t
understand the importance of the day
to me, and I was expecting a three-
year-old and a six-year-old to be Jock.
My friends and family were calling
and texting, and I just turned my
phone off so I could cry and feel sorry
for myself uninterrupted. I was now
maybe an hour and a half away from
needing to leave for my birthday
lunch with friends, so I climbed out
of bed, took a couple of beta-blockers
and some CBD oil, had a shower and
got in an Uber. I called my mum and
dad back and said I didn’t really want
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When I arrived at lunch, everyone But Jock never got to have these sorts time Alfie opened his school lunch
was there. Of course, Andy and Alex of days with his little ones. he thought his papa was a legend.
wouldn’t miss being there for me, so They’re often so mundane, times An agreement I made with myself
they had flown in from Melbourne to I may not have even enjoyed or would early on was that good enough was
Sydney just for the day. When I saw possibly have booked a meeting over good enough. I made Alfie’s Easter hat
them standing there, I walked up to the top of so I could have avoided them so late the night before – after I’d put
them and burst into tears, and they – but these simple moments are actually the kids to bed, tidied the house and
both just hugged me until I stopped. so special and so innocent. I wish Jock got my work done – that the glue was
They provided a human shield while had been able to experience them. still wet when we went to school the
I reset myself and wiped my eyes, and I think of Jock often when I am next day. I couldn’t figure out how to
then it was back to business as usual. making Alfie’s school lunch. Jock make the Christmas tree lights work,
During my year of “yes”, I had told would have loved doing that every so they were on the tree but never
myself that if I started saying “no” day; he would have invested heavily turned on. And Alfie’s birthday cake,
it would be like imprisoning myself. in many different containers and which was usually Jock’s greatest joy,
Having a birthday lunch with my friends contraptions to make sure that every was an ice-cream cake that Uber Eats
was not something I wanted to do, delivered during the
but I said yes, and then there I was. party. I am not alone in
And from saying yes, I had a fantastic needing to remind myself
day. I hate being the centre of attention, that good enough is good
but having my friends there and seeing enough – it’s where the
their faces brought me joy, and it was parent guilt can creep in,
a wonderful birthday. when comparisons with
Naively, I thought all the firsts the effort and time of
happened in the first year. That may
be true for the first Christmas or
Mother’s Day, but they actually come
in waves each year, and some are freak
waves I didn’t see coming. I found
myself inconsolable at Alfie’s first
Above: Lauren and Jock were
Easter hat parade. I was embarrassed married in 2017. Below: Being
by bursting into tears for apparently a father brought Jock incredible
no reason, but I couldn’t stop the joy. Right: Lauren has moved
tears from coming. Isla was with me, through grief one day at a time.
in awe of her brother,
and she cuddled me and
wiped away my tears like
she usually does.
Ironically, the Easter
hat parade would have
been something Jock
and I found funny.
Coffees in hand, we
would have watched
the kindergarten kids
wander around instead
of listening to their
teacher’s instructions,
and we would have had
a laugh together seeing
what one of the parents
had created from a case
of wine. Then we would
have said goodbye to
Alfie when it was
finished and gone and
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 Wil encouraged me back, and said
they would accommodate whatever
I needed. He also said that if I changed
my mind, it was totally fine, and
I could come back onto the show
years from now when I was ready.
I had worried that Jock’s fans
wouldn’t be able to handle seeing me
in that environment or being happy,
laughing and having an opinion.
When I mentioned on my social media
that I was on the show that night,
someone commented that they
couldn’t believe I would be able to do
it. She said if she was in my shoes, she
just couldn’t. Someone who hadn’t
lost their husband was saying directly
to me – and publicly – that what I would
be doing was shocking to her.
I had decided to return to the show
because that’s part of my identity; and
it was now more important than ever
that I had a solid career because I needed
to provide for our two young children.
All of the life costs that are usually
borne by two working parents –
housing, schooling, medical and food
bills, and celebrations – were now 100
per cent my responsibility. I wanted to
scream. Then I realised that I could
only move through this at my own
pace and without giving value to the
opinion of others, whether they had
walked this path or not.
As I move further away from the
immediate trauma of losing Jock, the
importance of numbers is receding as
I shift from basic survival and getting
through one day at a time to freedom
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other parents are made. I just keep firsts for the kids, and I know I have and release from guilt.
telling myself that I am doing the been forgetting or blocking out my own. The biggest number – one year – is
best I can in this moment in time. I don’t have the answer yet for how behind me. Getting to one year was a big
I know now that there are to manage my personal firsts or special goal. It felt like a finish line that kept
unrelenting firsts still to come. Isla occasions, like my birthday and moving. I was continually reaching for it,
will have her first day at school, and Mother’s Day, other than knowing they trying to bring it closer. I didn’t know
Alfie will have his first soccer game. will hurt, and not expecting our little what I expected the prize to be when
I’m sad on the kids’ firsts because ones to be adults and know what to do. I got there; I just knew I wouldn’t feel
Jock deserves to experience them. Managing public firsts is another like a winner. AWW
I cry because I feel the pain of him challenge. I acknowledge I want time
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missing out, not necessarily the kids to pass so I am allowed to be happy This is an edited
missing out. Being their papa brought again and can be the new version of extract from Till
Jock so much joy; it was really his myself without feeling guilty or judged. Death Do Us Part
guiding light, and my mind takes me I recently returned to Gruen, a TV by Lauren Zonfrillo,
back to his gorgeous face and voice show I’ve been on for 10 years. It’s a fun Penguin Books
in those moments he had with them. show; it’s high energy, and we laugh a lot Australia, available
I’m emotionally attached to all the – the host, Wil Anderson, is a comedian. May 6.

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s the Duchess of be eager for his aunt and uncle to play says the government was reluctant.
Sussex returned to a more prominent role in public life. The visit would not have happened
Netflix earlier this Their commitment is essential. but for the duchess’s quiet
year, cooking and Their children are unlikely to sign determination. “The government
entertaining in her up to royal duties and the number tried to stop her going to Ukraine,
series, With Love, of working royals will inevitably but she wasn’t having any of it,” said
Meghan, another diminish as older members of the the friend. A former courtier who
duchess was family – such as the Duke of Kent, worked closely with Sophie said:
planning a low-key approach to a 89, the Duke of Gloucester, 80, and “She’s got backbone and good
milestone in the less glossy surrounds the Duchess of Gloucester, 78 – hang instincts.” Aides say the duchess
of Surrey. up their boots. plans to continue visiting at least
The Duchess of Edinburgh turned Ingrid Seward, the editor of Majesty two conflict zones a year.
60 on January 20, a birthday she spent magazine and Edward’s biographer, A former palace aide who knows
“privately” at Bagshot Park, the home said: “With Sophie, it’s not all about Sophie well said, “She’s tough, she
she shares with Prince Edward, her her. She was one of the first ‘outsiders’ knows her own mind and will argue
husband of more than 25 years, and who came into the royal family and her corner. There was always a danger
their three dogs: A cocker spaniel realised it’s about all of ‘them’ people underestimated her but she
called Mole, and two black labradors, working together as a team. She really stood up for herself, for Edward, for
Teal and Teasel. gets that and doesn’t want praise them as a couple.” Recalling their
Their children, Lady Louise Windsor, heaped on her.” diary meetings when engagements for
21, and James, Earl of Wessex, 17, sent That was evident last year when the year ahead were planned, the aide
birthday wishes – she from St Andrews Sophie returned from a visit to said: “Edward would say okay to most
University, where she is in her
third year studying English,
and he from boarding school
in Oxfordshire, where he
is studying for A-levels
next summer.
Beyond the customary
acknowledgements on the
royal social media channels,
the advent of Sophie’s
seventh decade was marked with little Ukraine in April as part of her things, but she would ask, ‘What are
fanfare, which is just how she likes it. longstanding work supporting victims we doing that for? What’s the value
Sophie has long been considered of sexual violence in conflict. She met in it?’ She wanted to know what they
one of the monarchy’s “safest pair with survivors at a UN centre in Kyiv, were doing was actually useful.”
of hands”. Doted on by the late visited the mass graves of those killed As patron of more than 70 charities
Queen for her loyalty and unflashy by Russian troops in the suburbs of and organisations, with focuses on
approach to royal life, the fourth- Bucha and Irpin, and shared the UK’s championing young people and
hardest-working member of the solidarity with President Zelensky and supporting those with disabilities,
family – after, in order, Princess his wife, Olena, handing over a letter she is increasingly known for her
Anne, the King and Edward – she of support from the King. work highlighting sexual violence
clocked up 257 official engagements Writing for The Sunday Times after in war-torn countries – far from
at home and abroad last year. her visit, Sophie observed: “Since traditional royal territory.
She has come to embody the “keep returning to the UK, many people She is also passionate about
calm and carry on” mantra that the have said how brave or courageous preventing avoidable sight-loss
monarchy desperately needs after I was for going. I am neither. The and promoting eye health: Louise
being shaken by family feuds, Charles brave people are those who have was born a month premature with
and the Princess of Wales’s cancer endured extreme violence and esotropia, a condition that makes
diagnoses and the continuing scandal survived. The courageous are those the eye turn inwards towards the
around the Duke of York. who have reported the crimes nose, for which she has had surgery.
William and Kate are big fans of committed against them.” Since committing herself to the
Sophie and Edward, and vice versa. Although the duchess “officially” sexual violence cause in 2019, after
“They get on very well,” said a palace visited Ukraine at the request of the researching the taboo issue and
source. Palace insiders believe that Foreign & Commonwealth Office, a resolving to get more “cut-through”
under the next reign, William V will friend who discussed the trip with her for the subject, Sophie has travelled to

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 CLOCKWISE
FROM TOP:
In Ukraine at a
memorial to war
victims; Sophie
was the first royal
to visit Chad,
where she met
refugee women;
the Duke and
Duchess of
Edinburgh; the
Wales’s are big
fans of Sophie and
Edward; James,
and Lady Louise,
who was born with
an eye condition;
visiting one of the
70 charities she
is patron of.

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 Royals
Kosovo, Iraq, Colombia, Ethiopia, the Sophie also previously described In a speech last March ahead of her
Democratic Republic of Congo and how they tried to maintain as husband’s 60th birthday, Sophie gave
Chad, to hear from survivors. “normal” a home life as possible. a few clues to why the partnership
During a visit to South Sudan in “[The children] go to friends for works with her “darling Edward”
2020, accompanied by The Sunday sleepovers and parties,” she said. who “wears a uniform well”.
Times’s chief foreign correspondent, “At weekends we do lots of dog “He has been my guide and shown
Christina Lamb, Sophie explained walking and stay with friends. I guess me the way over the years. He has
her motivation: “If I can prod the not everyone’s grandparents live in a given me much help and advice – not
consciences of those who may be castle, but where you are going is not always taken, I admit – and his
able to do more to try and prevent it, the important part, or who they are.” knowledge and instincts that have
and can help get justice for survivors, Sophie’s desire to give her children been honed over decades of service
I will do everything I can.” are invaluable. Together I think
Asked whether she genuinely we make quite a good team. I am
shared the closest of bonds so proud of the man he is. He is
with the late Queen, as many the best of fathers, the most
reported, Sophie replied: loving of husbands, and still is
“I think so. I hope so.” my best friend.”
It wasn’t always so. Elizabeth A source who knows them
was left underwhelmed at one of both well said: “There is a lot of
their first encounters at Windsor strength in their personal and
in 1993, during the early days of working relationship and a lot
Edward and Sophie’s courtship. of humour too.”
With a successful career in public Once asked if she considered
relations and a solid middle-class herself a feminist, Sophie said:
background – her father, “I suppose I probably am. I believe
Christopher Rhys-Jones, was a in equality for everyone.” Having
tyre company executive and her supported Girlguiding as its
late mother, Mary, a secretary – president since 2003, she became
Sophie was not the typical patron of the organisation
blue-blooded girlfriend that championing girls and young
princes brought home. women last year, a role previously
Ingrid Seward says: “Sophie held by the late Queen. Denise
wasn’t from that world. She’d never Above: Queen Elizabeth II adjusts Sophie’s Wilson, Girlguiding’s chairwoman,
encountered anything like the royal hat in 2002. At first underwhelmed by her said: “The duchess is a passionate
new daughter-in-law, the Queen came to
family and was very nervous, shy and advocate for women and aligns closely
admire her loyalty and “unflashy” approach.
tongue-tied when she first met the with some of the pressures and
Queen, who as a result thought she the option of pursuing careers outside difficulties girls are struggling with
was a bit dull and told a friend, ‘You the royal fold is significant, given that today, including experiencing sexism
wouldn’t notice her in a crowd’. her short-lived attempt to combine in their daily lives.
“But the more she saw of her, the running her own public relations firm “She wants to play a big part and
more she liked her, especially as she with being a working member of the help empower young women.”
made a big effort with Prince Philip, royal family ended in scandal. A source who has known the royal
learning to ride, taking up carriage In 2001, she was recorded by a family for years said: “Sophie and
driving. The Queen always liked people reporter posing as a potential client Edward were overshadowed because
who could deal with her husband. Sophie describing the prime minister, Tony bigger stars in the family came along,
might be low-key but she’s a lot smarter Blair, as “President Blair”, his wife, and I think at times she did mind that.
than people give her credit for.” Cherie, as “horrid, absolutely horrid” But she was always pragmatic about
The Queen also respected Sophie – as well as referring to the Queen their place in the hierarchy, unlike
and Edward’s decision not to use as an “old dear”. some others in the family.
the HRH title for their children. They The Edinburghs’ solid marriage was “The King and Queen are much more
can decide to use them from the age a personal joy for the late Queen, understanding and aware of the role
GETTY IMAGES. ALAMY.

of 18, but Sophie previously said she who gave them Bagshot Park when they have been playing, and as they’ve
thought this was “highly unlikely”. the couple wed in June 1999 at St come more into the spotlight, the rest
Louise has not opted to use the title George’s Chapel, Windsor. Edward of the family have appreciated that
and James is not expected to when is the only one of her four children more. The [late] Queen always knew
he turns 18 in December. not to have divorced. it. Sophie is a proper asset.” AWW

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WO R D S b y T I F FA N Y D U N K PH OTO GR A PH Y b y E L L E GR E E N
 Rummaging through dusty archive boxes led to a journey of rediscovery for
Delvene Delaney – and inspired a new project she’s sharing with the world.
ove comes in many As John became increasingly unwell “Everybody has a story about what
forms. For Delvene after being diagnosed with Parkinson’s Crocodile Dundee means to them,”
Delaney, she feels in 2001, it had gradually fallen to Victoria says. “It’s passion for our
fortunate to have Delvene to look after the running of country. It’s the sounds of our childhood.
experienced it in his company, Rimfire Films, of which It was incredibly successful for so
various guises Crocodile Dundee was undoubtably the many reasons, but it also had these
throughout her star. And with questions coming in incredible values that underpinned it
73 years. There’s been a great about contracts, trademarks and that were real, authentic and all came
romantic love with her late husband, copyrights, she reached out to her from a place of love.”
John Cornell. There’s been boundless friend Victoria Dombroski.
love for family – including her two Before they’d met at the local elvene first met Paul Hogan at
daughters, Allira and Liana – and school Delvene’s grandchildren and a TV function in 1975. Having
friends. And there’s also been an Victoria’s kids attended, Victoria had spent two years in the UK
HAIR AND MAKE-UP BY CANDICE SEPTEMBER.

incredible passion for work and for worked for a film distribution company. earlier that decade, she remembers
the land she calls home. Would she mind helping out one day a her surprise at leaving a country that
All of those forms of love collided week, Delvene asked. had Stuart Wagstaff reading the news
when, a few years ago, she went in That day quickly became weeks and in his clipped English accent only to
search of the original master tapes for then years as the duo uncovered a return to see “Hoges” appearing
Crocodile Dundee – the iconic film John treasure-trove of archival material. regularly on A Current Affair with
and his best mate, Paul Hogan, had It led them to make the documentary his broad Aussie drawl.
blown the world away with in 1986. Love of an Icon: The Legend of Crocodile “We came from this time of being
It’s still being screened all over the Dundee, which revisits the events of the fairly stitched up by a long umbilical
world, Delvene tells The Weekly today late 1970s and early ’80s which would cord from Great Britain,” she says
from her home in Byron Bay. change Australian culture forever. of the times. “Paul Hogan and his

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authentic attitude to being a proud over to introduce himself and ask if he pair married on December 31,
Australian – both John and Paul were she’d like to be on the show. 1977. With Delvene by his side,
hugely patriotic; he didn’t give us a The answer, of course, was an instant John continued to make great
voice, but he gave us permission to yes. And while previously the show had strides in the worlds of business and
have our voice.” a rotating series of actresses, Delvene entertainment. Earlier that year, he’d
Delvene was a fledgling TV was clearly a perfect long-term fit. helped Kerry Packer launch the renegade
personality, having presented the Not just with Hoges and Strop (the World Series Cricket competition and
weather in Brisbane and with a few dopey sidekick character played by put Australia on the map.
stints on soaps under her belt. Paul, John) but with John himself. “Kerry adored John because he
who had been discovered by John while “There was instant chemistry,” wasn’t sycophantic,” Delvene says of
still working as a rigger in 1971, was a she says now with a smile. “He was the relationship between the two. “And
bonafide star after the duo launched 10 years older than I am, which I liked. John never took a cent for World Series
The Paul Hogan Show in 1973. He was funny and smart and kind and Cricket ... You don’t expect a paycheck
“We really hit it off,” she recalls of into nature. After the second show we when you do things from the heart.”
that fateful event. “He was natural went to a party together. I went with The same applied when John and
and approachable and very funny. one guy, but I left with him.” Hoges went into partnership with
Unbeknownst to me, apparently John John was recently divorced with a Tourism Australia without charging
had been perving on me in TV WEEK. five-year-old daughter. Delvene was a cent. The pair were in London when
So Hoges reported back to John, 23 and in uncharted territory. John they spotted a poster in Australia
‘I met that Delvene Delaney bird mate, was flat broke with nothing but a House urging people to visit our
and she’s a bit of alright. You’d like battered old Valiant car to his name. country alongside a picture of a
her, she’s a good bird. I think she’d be Delvene had saved $10,000 from her kangaroo and a koala. Back at home,
good for the show, she’s funny.’” previous jobs, a veritable fortune at they got together with a creative
Shortly thereafter, John spotted the time. team from ad agency Mojo and
Delvene one night at a Sydney pub. “After about six months I gave it to revolutionised the tourism industry.
Both were on dates with other people, John because I thought, ‘I’m going to “They said, ‘We can do better than
but it didn’t stop him from sliding invest in this and I’m going to invest this’,” Delvene reflects of the campaign
in you’,” she says. “We had which saw the phrase “throw another
this very complementary shrimp on the barbie” go global.
relationship because he “You can go anywhere and see a
was very imaginative – skyscraper or a museum, but you can’t
very clever and a big meet real Aussies. [The ads] showed
thinker. He had an that you can come to our country and
expansive imagination we’re friendly, we’re approachable.
but sometimes he wasn’t We live on a beautiful island surrounded
great on the last row. by gorgeous oceans and wildlife and
But I am. I would quite why wouldn’t you want to invite
happily be in the role of people to come and share that?”
getting things started and As Love of an Icon revisits, we’d just
doing the work. We always won the America’s Cup and Australians
bounced ideas together. were brimming with pride at our nation.
A lot of people say you And when Hoges showed John his next
shouldn’t work with your idea, a hastily scribbled early scene for
wife, but we had a really Crocodile Dundee, we were about to
productive relationship, get a turbo boost of extra patriotism.
and it was enjoyable
because it was part of ictoria recalls sifting through
being creative together.” the Rimfire Films archive boxes
From top: Paul and Delvene
over three decades later and
met at an event and hit it off. finding “a folder of gold”. Along with
It didn’t take much for Paul to Hoges’ original riggers ticket from
convince John to hire her for working on the Sydney Harbour Bridge,
The Paul Hogan Show since there was a treasure trove of unseen
John had a crush on her; the
archival Crocodile Dundee
behind-the-scenes footage and
material includes early scripts handwritten scripts in various draft
and set photos. stages written on hotel notepads.

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 Women’s Weekly cover star, and a mum
to six-year-old Allira. She was going
backwards and forwards in her breaks
from the show but when her contract
wrapped she quit, took Allira out of
school, and joined the crew full-time.
Delvene was on hand to watch
another love story unfold. While they’d
butted heads at the start of filming,
Hoges and his leading lady, Linda
Kozlowski, were clearly falling in love
– despite the former being married.
“It was a surprise really, because in
all the nine years that I did The Paul
Hogan Show I never even saw him look
at anyone else,” she says now of a
romance which would make headlines
across the country. “He was married
[to first wife Noelene] with five kids
and not that man at all.”
Linda, recalls Delvene, was
struggling to adjust to
Australia – the heat, the
bugs, the isolation. So each
time she visited set she’d
spend lots of time with the
American actress to help her
feel more at home.
“It was during one of these
trips,” shares Delvene, “that
she totally freaked out because
she felt this attraction to Paul
and him to her and she was
worried, saying, ‘he’s married
and what do I do?’ And that
was when I said to her, ‘you
have to follow your heart’.
“When you make films,
From top: Delvene there is something called
and John were ‘location fever’ and there was a bit of
married 44 years; pairing up on Crocodile Dundee. But
as The Weekly’s
they did the right thing, and they kept
cover star in 1985;
almost 40 years on, apart. I give them credit for that.”
Crocodile Dundee Of course, two years later, they’d
remains a cultural reunite for Crocodile Dundee II and the
touchstone. passion remained. The duo married in
1990 and had a son, Chance, together
“You can feel the essence in those duo struggled to raise the entire before divorcing in 2014.
notes of John’s musings and what he $8.8 million needed to get their
was thinking ... You can see how that film made, a tide of “mum and dad” ut back to 1985. It was magic
thought process was translated into investors – including Delvene’s own on the set of Crocodile Dundee.
something for the film. You’d open a parents – swooped in to help. And so, Having enlisted The Paul Hogan
box and get goosebumps.” on July 13, 1985, filming began in the Show director Peter Faiman to direct
John, says Delvene, had “absolute, tiny Queensland town of McKinlay. the movie, John knew he’d need an
unshakeable faith in Paul”. So too At that time, Delvene was co-hosting established crew to support this
did the Australian public. When the Sale of the Century, was a popular first-time filmmaking trio. Picnic at

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Hanging Rock alum Russell Boyd was settled in Byron Bay, where they had friends and family who weren’t able to
brought in as cinematographer, Mad their second child, Liana, and began be at his funeral. Kookaburras often
Max 2’s David Stiven enlisted as editor. a hotel empire. perch on that tree, Delvene reveals.
And they were just two of the heavy- And then John fell sick when he was And as she shares stories of their life
hitting names to end up in the credits. just 60 years old and, says Delvene, together, the unmistakeable cackle of
But it was the magic between John “we became not reclusive … but private. the Aussie bird interrupts a retelling.
and Hoges that would ultimately We found ourselves a sanctuary. John “He’s having a laugh,” she says
make the film a success. and I used to rarely give interviews fondly, John as always forefront in
“In their writing sessions, from unless there was a really good reason both conversation and mind.
what I observed, John kept pushing for it. I think this story is the most “[Making Love of an Icon] has been
and prodding, annoying Paul to say, open I have ever been in my life. And a journey. It’s been challenging and
‘We can do better’,” says Delvene of I think [Love of an Icon] is a good reason demanding. There have been tears,
their creative dynamic. “Then he’d to invite people in to share the story.” there have been meltdowns, there
throw a line in – and John was really Hoges was firmly on board when have been obstacles. And I absolutely
funny – then Hoges would top that Delvene told him of her plan to make applaud Victoria because she never lost
and then it would go back and forth this film. Both he and Linda appear, sight of this incredible opportunity.
until they got there.” as do many other contemporaries and “I’m 73. And Victoria is 52. And this
When Crocodile Dundee released in players from that era, to share their is a message to women to not give up.
Australia on April 24, 1986, it would memories and talk about the long- Don’t think that because you’re of a
break box office records and go on to lasting effect John had on their lives. certain age you can’t do anything
take over $47 million. When it was John passed away on July 23, 2021, anymore. You can. So come on!” AWW
released in the US in September, it close to 20 years after his diagnosis.
would debut at number one and “Through it all, I’ve never seen anyone Find out more about Love of an Icon:
become the highest-grossing non- be more brave,” Delvene recalls in the The Legend of Crocodile Dundee at
American film of all time, taking in documentary of those final years. “He crocodiledundee.com
close to US$175 million. In the UK, never whinged,
it was equally successful, raking in he was stoic, and
£20 million. he was accepting
In Love of an Icon, John is pictured at and never sorry
the Australian premiere, being asked for himself.”
why he had so much faith in the little When she
film that could. asked him how
“Well they say films are a gamble, he would want to
but in this case I knew the horse and be remembered,
the horse talks to me,” he said with he said he’d like
a smile. “And I’ve got great faith in it to be as a
Hogan. Always have and probably kookaburra,
always will have.” because they
“I think a large degree in their success always make
together was the absolute trust that people laugh.
Paul had in John, because John believed In the
in him,” says Delvene with a smile, backyard of
her love of the relationship the two the home they
men shared clear. “When somebody shared is a tree
believes in you that much it gives festooned with
MAIN PHOTOGRAPHY BY ELLE GREEN. ALAMY.

you free license to be creative. To go messages from

places you may not otherwise because
you know someone’s got your back.” From top: Delvene
and Victoria; as
ost Crocodile Dundee II, however, well as behind-the-
it was time for the pair to focus scenes footage,
Love of an Icon
on new ventures – ones that felt
features interviews
closer to home. with creatives
Hoges moved to LA with Linda and from the era,
focused on building a movie career including leads
in America. And John and Delvene Paul and Linda.

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– Delvene Delaney
Love story
OPPOSITE PAGE: THE ESTATE OF DAVID GAHR/GETTY IMAGES.

WO R D S b y DAV I D S H E F F

Yoko Ono and John Lennon’s first meeting in 1966 sparked a

passionate love affair which survived divorces, the Beatles break-up,
deportation threats, miscarriages and more. And then came John’s
affair with May Pang in 1973. A new biography of Yoko revisits these
times – and documents how she and John would come back together.

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he concert [with John the strain became too great, she told they were separated. “He was
Lennon joining Elton him, “You’d better go now.” intelligent enough to know that this
John on stage] was set But finally Yoko was ready to try again. was the only way that we could save
for Madison Square They were both nervous. John said, our marriage,” she said. “Not because
Garden on Thanksgiving “We realised that there were a lot of, as we didn’t love each other, but because
– November 28, 1974. we call it, holes in our aura – space that it was too much for me. Nothing
Yoko contemplated attending. She was we had to be gently healing between us.” would have changed if I had come
hesitant but decided to go to see how She said, “We had to clean our aura.” back as Mrs. Lennon again. It was
John was doing. “Everyone was telling He explained, “We had to clean the good for me to do the business and
me how worried they were about him, … separation period from us, you regain my pride about what I can do.”
so I thought maybe I should go.” know. We had to sort of wash it off, John knew he had to be sober.
She didn’t tell John and requested a somehow, and that was a delicate “When I was still drunk, I would just
seat where John wouldn’t see her from operation. Almost as delicate as first ramble on or scream abuse at her or
the stage. Before the concert, she sent meeting, and that sort of getting-to- beg to come back, you know – between
gardenias but didn’t say she’d be there. know-each-other business and all that.” Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde,” he said. “I
“If I’d known she was there I’d have Yoko said, “So then when we came don’t know what I was saying or doing
been too nervous to go on,” John said. back together again, I think that he half the time when I was still drinking.”
“I would have been terrified.” really tried hard in a way to make it Also, as John said, he’d been a
In the middle of his set, Elton brought work … I started to have just a great “performing flea” since he was a
out John. “In my whole career, I’ve respect for him.” teenager. He decided he needed to
honestly never heard a crowd make John left May. “John [called and] stop living life as the Beatle or
a noise like the one they made when said, ‘Yoko’s allowed me to come ex-Beatle. “I was the walrus, but now
I introduced him,” Elton wrote. They home,’” she said. May was devastated I’m John,” he sang in God. But he had
played Whatever Gets You Thru the when John left her. no experience being just John; could
Night, Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds, When John moved back into the he function as a person not in the
and I Saw Her Standing There. Dakota, no one, other than the small centre of the maelstrom of press,
As Yoko explained, “The whole staff, knew until John phoned Elliot musicians, events, producing records
house shook. But what I saw of him [Mintz, publicist] and said he could – chaos? He decided there would be
was a totally different thing. I saw this make an announcement. no recording studios, no media.
lonely person and that really touched “Let the media know that the Their lives were simplified. John was
me, and I started crying … It was like separation did not work.” humbled. Yoko seemed different too.
my soul suddenly saw it … saw his [Photographer] Bob Gruen said, “She was
soul, which was not what the audience oko was still trepidatious, but the less restless … They were in love – like at
saw, obviously, because they were just separation had changed her. She first but it felt more solid, like two people
applauding. And that’s why I went had more confidence than before. who’d gone through the gauntlet.”
backstage – to say hello.” She was comfortable in herself. She felt On March 1, 1975, Yoko and John went
This decision was a concession on that although John had work to do on to the Grammy Awards, where John was
Yoko’s part. When she went backstage, himself, he was pretty evolved for a man, a presenter. The Grammys provided
she said, “We looked at each other for especially considering his background. an opportunity to show the world that
the longest time. We couldn’t take our He was deeply regretful about the he was sober and he and Yoko were
eyes off each other.” night at Jerry Rubin’s [where an together. He thanked Yoko from the
The next thing that happened, Yoko inebriated John had sex with a stage: “Thank you, Mother, thank you.”
said: “We dated. We laughed about it.” stranger despite Yoko being in the Three weeks later, on March 20,
next room]. He’d concluded that the they celebrated their sixth wedding
hey met at an art opening. They self-indulgent rockstar lifestyle was anniversary. They had made it –
gossiped and turned over and over not for him. “I was the real pig,” John barely. At the Dakota, amid a sea of
what had happened to them while told me later, “and it is a relief not to white carnations and white candles
they’d been separated. John was still be a pig. The pressures of being a pig burning, dressed in white, they
living with May in an apartment he’d were enormous. They were killing me.” renewed their vows.
rented. After the date, he returned to They talked about conditions for
May, and Yoko returned to the Dakota. reconciling and made the decision to hey wanted a child. Of course,
They went on more dates. Yoko was “reorder our priorities”. They defined they each had a child from a
cautious. She was wary of being sucked new roles that would allow them to previous marriage, and both had been
back in – afraid of losing herself. work on what they needed to work on. – by their own admission – less than
They sat together and didn’t talk Yoko would take care of the business, stellar parents. But having renewed
much. Sometimes they cried. When which she’d begun to focus on when their commitment to each other, they

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 Clockwise from left:
John and Yoko
reunited in 1974
after more than a year
apart; life post-
Beatles was difficult
for John; personal
assistant May Pang
was John’s lover;
the “bed-in for
peace” in 1969; the
reconciliation meant
new roles; John and
Yoko married in
Gibraltar in 1969.

– Yoko Ono
Clockwise from top: The most recognisable
peace activists of the 1970s; John and Elton
wearing the gardenias from Yoko; at the Grammy
awards in 1975; Yoko and Sean at Buckingham
Palace in 1983, three years after John’s death; at
their home in Berkshire; with John’s son Julian.

– John Lennon
 Love story
were reassessing what mattered most, n October 9, 1975, John’s thirty- the four of them watched Saturday
and they were consciously building fifth birthday and two days after Night Live together. Producer Lorne
their future together. the court overturned the deportation Michaels joked on the air that he’d
They’d been gravely disappointed by order, Sean Taro Ono Lennon was born. pay the Beatles to reunite on the
Yoko’s miscarriages and had begun to In the early morning of October 9, show. They’d been offered millions,
accept they might never have a child. Yoko began having contractions, and but he offered $3200. John and Paul
But back in 1972, Hong, the they went to the hospital. Because of talked about heading to the SNL
acupuncturist and herbalist who’d complications, Yoko received a blood studio at Rockefeller Center. They
helped them get off methadone, had transfusion, but she had a bad reaction almost went but were too tired.
instructed them on how Yoko could get to it. “I was there when it happened There was a nanny and domestic
pregnant. Cryptically, he’d told them and she starts to go rigid, and then staff as backup, but John was hands-
to take time apart, which had been shake from the pain and the trauma,” on. Being his son’s primary caretaker
unthinkable then. But now they had. John said. “I run up to this nurse and thrilled him. He attended to Sean’s
Hong had also said to stop drinking and say, ‘Go get the doctor!’ I’m holding on meals, played with the baby, and put
doing drugs. They had done that too. tight to Yoko while this guy gets to the him to sleep at night. He sat by the crib
Yoko soon got pregnant. In the past, hospital room. He walks in, hardly and played guitar and sang to him.
they’d announced their pregnancies notices that Yoko is going through And Yoko? Before Sean was born,
immediately, but Yoko asked John fucking convulsions, goes straight for she said to John: “I am carrying the
to wait this time. “The minute we me, smiles, shakes my hand, and says, baby nine months and that is enough.
announced I was pregnant, there were ‘I’ve always wanted to meet you, Mr. You take care of it afterwards.” And
a lot of negative vibes sent to us from Lennon, I always enjoyed your music.’ John had agreed.
She explained to me, “If a father
raises the child and a mother carries
it, the responsibility is shared. That
is a better way. I am not criticising
myself. This is what I am, and I can’t
be anything else.” Her reasoning flew
in the face of conventional gender
roles at the time.
crazy people in the world,” Yoko said. “I start screaming: ‘My wife’s dying and But Yoko wasn’t completely
“We’d get a doll in the mail with a you wanna talk about my music!’ Christ!” uninvolved. Focused on business and
pin stuck in it or something, wishing Although they’d planned on having investments, she downplayed her
I didn’t have the child. We had to natural childbirth, the baby ended up maternal instincts, but John defended
separate ourselves and protect being delivered by caesarean section. her. He said, “She puts herself down as
ourselves from that to nourish our child.” They were elated when they brought a mother, which is garbage!” He saw a
The baby would be born to parents Sean home. Yoko and John’s world natural connection between Yoko and
legally permitted to be in the US. There mostly became the Dakota. It had been Sean. “She can still allow him to climb
had been more developments in the a year since the Elton John concert, and all over her when she’s doing something
immigration case over the previous they were excited about a new way to else, which I cannot do. I’m either doing
year and a half. At one point, the Board be. It was just like starting over. him or I’m not doing him. Sean can
of Immigration Appeals ordered John wake her up without her being irritated,
to leave the country. A series of appeals he Queen is in the counting whereas it still irritates me if he wakes
and countersuits were filed. It became house counting out the money; me up before I’ve woken up naturally.”
a familiar routine. the King is in the kitchen making A friend recounted going for a walk
Eventually the case moved up to the bread and honey.” Those were among and then to lunch with Yoko, John, and
US Court of Appeals. On October 7, 1975, the lyrics of Cleanup Time, a song John Sean. He described seeing “Yoko always
that court overturned the order to deport wrote about that period. riffling with the
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BRIDGEMAN IMAGES. SAM EMERSON.

him. The decision noted, “Lennon’s They walked to Café La Fortuna, baby’s hair. Gently
four-year battle to remain in our their hangout a block from the Dakota, touching him.
country is testimony to his faith in for coffee or they walked in the park. So happy.” AWW
this American dream.” (Almost a year Yoko and John occasionally went to
later, at a press conference after restaurants, leaving Sean with the This is an edited
John’s application to be a permanent nanny, but they saw only a few people. extract from Yoko:
resident was approved, John thanked They saw the McCartneys A Biography
Yoko. “As usual, there’s a great woman occasionally. On April 24, 1976, Paul by David Sheff,
behind every idiot.”) and Linda McCartney were over, and Simon & Schuster.

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 HAIR AND MAKE-UP BY ELISA CLARK.

Ann with daughter

Kate, and
grandchildren Luna
and Jazz. After a
postnatal depression
diagnosis, Ann was
told she’d feel better
once she was home.

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 Mental health

When her first child was born, Ann Lanigan struggled, at a time when
perinatal anxiety and depression were largely misunderstood. Knowing
we could do better, Ann began a revolution in mental health support for
new mothers that’s helped thousands, including her own daughter, Kate.
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 3am in the winter
mornings of 1982,
Ann Lanigan could
be found crouched
in her home in
Melbourne’s
south-east, cleaning out cupboards as
she waited for her newborn to wake for
his feed. She couldn’t sleep. She couldn’t
eat. Her mind was restless, and her
soul was troubled. She had three
children to care for, and she’d been
handed a diagnosis nobody seemed to
understand. What she knew was that
the symptoms were hollowing her out,
and she had no idea when she would
recover. Her body was sapped of
energy, but she could not stay in bed.
She had to get on with it.
“It was a very confusing,
overwhelming time for me,” she tells
The Weekly. “I felt very alone.”
The maternity hospital psychiatrist
who had first diagnosed her with
postnatal depression (PND) had
explained the condition inadequately
and promised she would get better
once she was home. When this didn’t
happen, she sought advice from
her own GP and then other health
professionals. They all told her she
would get better, but she didn’t feel
better. She felt guilty and confused.
“I even went to the library,” she says. Having someone acknowledge her
She found nothing. “I had a friend who turmoil and give her genuine hope
was a medical person, and they couldn’t that she would recover was “a
find anything. It was becoming clearer fantastic feeling”. It took time, but
and clearer that this was either so eventually Ann did get better, and she
rare, and I was the only one who had wondered, were there other women
it, or that no one had documented it.” who felt the same way?
Help finally came via sheer luck. All Ann pauses. “I’d like to say upfront
three of Ann’s children got sick at once that I’m speaking on behalf of all the
and Ann, at breaking point, asked her that’s what I’d been told. He told me, volunteers. We had many people
husband, Peter, to take a day off work in no uncertain terms, this is a very coming and going in the early years.
so he could take them to the doctor. serious mental health issue.” Then I couldn’t even tell you how many
He told her he would, but she had to he gave Ann hope. “He said, ‘This is volunteers we had doing so much.”
come too. He was worried about her. what we’re going to do together. She then proceeds to tell the story
“I couldn’t see the point because We’re going to set a plan of action.’” of how a group of mums started a
I’d already reached out to people,” He prescribed medication, and he quiet revolution in her lounge room.
Ann says. But she agreed. phoned her every single day for the Ann phoned her Maternal Child
Before the doctor saw Ann’s next four weeks to check she was okay. Health Nurse, Jean. When Jean had
children, he sat and spoke with her. “It was only by luck,” Ann says. “We first started seeing Ann, she’d noticed
He told her she had postnatal didn’t know this doctor. We were just Ann’s discharge papers said that she
depression. “I said, ‘They told me that looking for a clinic that would take had PND. Jean didn’t know anything
in hospital. They said that it would go.’ the four of us. I found out he had an about the condition, but she pledged
“He was absolutely astounded that interest in PND.” to help in any way she could.

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 Mental health
Now, Ann asked Jean if she thought Australia, the first support group to “There were so many stories that
there were any other women in the area recognise the isolating mental health really I think without PANDA’s help
who might have experienced PND. challenges of being a new parent. would have had major bad outcomes.”
“I’d love to talk to someone who knows Marriage break-ups were common, but
what I’m talking about,” Ann told her. n its early years, PANDA volunteers Ann observed that once women heard
Jean said to leave it with her. That visited women in hospitals and they would get well, their prospects
afternoon, she phoned Ann with the their homes. “We made everyone improved dramatically. In the case of
names and numbers of five women, all know we weren’t medical. It was the woman Ann met in the psychiatric
within walking distance of Ann’s house. strictly a support group.” facility, intensive support from
“I couldn’t believe that … here were It was clear that PND was not PANDA volunteers helped her recover.
six of us in a small suburban area,” the rare condition “It did take
Ann says. She rang one of the women Ann had thought a while, but
on the list, Jan, who asked Ann if when she was she ended up
she could come around right away. suffering through it coming on our
“I thought, ‘She’s as desperate as alone. It’s now clear committee,”
I am!’” Ann recalls. Right: Ann (far right) at Ann says. “She
Ann went to Jan’s that evening. the opening of the ended up having
The meeting was a revelation. “We Canterbury Family Centre another baby
in 1993. Below: Ann, with
laughed, we cried, we shared our and she was
Peter and the children,
stories,” Ann says. Afterwards, she started treatment by fine. No PND.”
was elated. “I just felt, this has been chance when she met a GP The group
so great, I’ve got to ring the others.” who took PND seriously. continued to
All the women on Jean’s list grow. “We were
were eager to meet. Ann invited getting more
them to her home. “The same phone calls, and
thing happened. There were
tears. There was laughter. It was
what everyone needed.”
While each woman’s story was
different, they’d all been diagnosed
with PND yet given no support.
The six women decided to meet
every fortnight. “Everybody got
so much out of it,” Ann says.
She asked Jean if she could put
up a flyer in the health centre to
reach other women. “I just typed
it up and popped it up there,” Ann that up to one in five
explains. “On the top I had, ‘You Are women experience some
Not Alone’, in huge letters … We had form of perinatal anxiety
a lot of phone calls.” or depression.
There was, Ann says, a stigma attached Ann also observed how
to PND. “In fact, a few of the women serious it could be. She
would say, ‘Don’t say how you met me. recalls visiting one woman
Just say you met me in the park.’” in a psychiatric unit.
As the calls continued to come in, “There were no mother-
Ann spoke with her local council, baby units in those days,”
and another woman in the group Ann says. “She had been
knew a local MP. “Things just started diagnosed with psychosis
to evolve,” Ann says. and then depression, so
Within a year, the community centre she had PND. She had seen
was playing host to two morning coffee her baby once in nine
sessions and an evening session each months under supervision.
week “just from that one little flyer”. It was so overwhelmingly
That was the start of PANDA, or sad. Her husband was
Perinatal Anxiety & Depression beside himself, of course.

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 Mental health
we couldn’t keep up with them.” the nurse stood firm. “No, no, no.” national. In 2023-24, more than
In the winter of 1985, Ann and the “But we were determined,” Ann adds. 300,000 people accessed PANDA
other volunteers decided they needed “It became a bit of a passion of mine.” digital support, and the PANDA
to organise an information evening. Helpline fielded more than 63,000 calls.
“If [callers] were in our area, we took nn moved on from PANDA after In 2017, Ann was reminded of how
their names down and said, ‘We’re 10 years, but her legacy, and crucial PANDA’s work still is when her
having an information night, would that of the other volunteers, daughter Kate’s first pregnancy took
you like to come?’” gives comfort and support to women a dangerous turn.
Based on the number of people all over Australia. In 1987 and 1988, “We spent 48 hours in hospital,”
who’d said they would come, Ann their advocacy led to the opening of Kate says, recalling the birth of her
arranged for 50 chairs, and 50 cups six-bed mother-baby units at Monash daughter, Luna, who was induced.
and saucers. She told Peter she Hospital and the Mercy Maternity “They broke my waters … I remember
expected she’d be home by 11, and Hospital in Melbourne. my husband saying, ‘Is this normal?’
she took her new three-month-old “Probably by the eighth year we All of a sudden, I was shaking,
daughter, Kate, with her. The plan were getting calls from interstate,” vomiting. I couldn’t move. Every time
was that Ann would address the group Ann says. By the early ’90s, there were I moved, her heart rate would go up.
and provide a personal point of view. 37 groups in Melbourne, and a phone “About seven or eight hours into
Then Jean would speak, then a senior support line which has since become labour I had an epidural. That calmed
psychiatrist from the Royal Women’s
Hospital. The group’s work was
attracting healthcare professionals
with an interest in PND.
When they opened the doors for the
information night, “we got the shock
of our lives,” Ann says. More than 200
people turned up. It was standing
room only. It was the first time PND
had been discussed in an open forum.
They had to end the Q&A session
after an hour. “That was a turning
point really,” Ann says.
The information night was in
August. By November, the six women
were a formalised committee with
a constitution and a code of ethics.
Ann was the president.
“We gave ourselves the name
PANDA,” she says. With the legalities
taken care of, the women wanted to
celebrate. Together with their partners,
they went out for a Chinese meal.
“I kept saying to Peter, I love that
Mumma Panda on the menu, and when
we got home, he presented me with the
menu. We gave it to a graphic designer
who designed it with a baby in arms.”
It became the first PANDA logo.
There was still a lot of stigma
surrounding PND. One nurse in
charge of a maternity hospital refused
to let Ann share information about
PANDA with new mothers. She told
Ann, “I don’t want my women
imagining they’ve got PND.” When
Ann asked if she could just share
the support information with them,

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 me down, but it made everything a lot Kate went to the Royal Children’s said, ‘You need to speak to someone.’”
slower. I went into a bit of an out-of- Hospital. Her carers at her maternity Ann knew exactly what her
body experience.” Then something hospital encouraged her to stay and daughter needed to get her through
went wrong. recover for a few days, but Kate the tough weeks and months that
“We went from having midwives in needed to be with Luna. followed. Kate was eventually
the room with us the whole time to “It was an intense time,” she says. diagnosed with post-traumatic
about 10 different medical staff. All of “I was just completely running off stress disorder (PTSD).
a sudden, I was on my back. My legs adrenalin.” Kate and her husband “You go through a roller-coaster
were in stirrups. There was a sense of were eventually able to bring Luna of emotions,” Kate says. “Everyone’s
urgency ... One young midwife said to home, but Kate found her body situations are complex. I didn’t fall
me, ‘You need to get this baby out now!’ remained in fight-or-flight mode. under the category of postnatal
“I got her out in three pushes. What “Unfortunately, there’s no switch [depression]. I had more trauma
they knew at the time and didn’t from the physical element of
tell me was that she wasn’t it all. I was just sitting there like,
breathing. They called a code blue. I don’t know what to do with this.”
They had to resuscitate her right Once she had that diagnosis,
in front of me. It was very full-on. Kate was able to focus on getting
I can still hear this woman’s voice better. She relied on Ann’s wealth
saying, ‘Come on, come on darling.’ of knowledge and experience
It was a lot.” to help find her way out of the
Ann was in the waiting room, just PTSD. And she says that watching
outside the door. She heard the Ann taught her how to advocate
code blue and leapt to her feet. for herself.
“I knew instantly something was “She’s the person I go to for
wrong. I texted my husband most things,” Kate says. “I was
something like, ‘Get here now!’ lucky to have that.”
“I went through every emotion, Since recovering, she and her
thinking, what’s happening?” Ann husband have also welcomed a
says. “The midwife came in to son, Jazz, now four.
me and explained that Kate had Kate wanted to share her
delivered the baby but it needed experience, alongside her mum,
resuscitation and had been rushed Above: Ann, Kate and Luna. Kate was to help tackle the stigma that remains
into a humidicrib.” diagnosed with PTSD, and had felt lonely around PND and birth trauma, and
and isolated after bringing her daughter
Ann went to Kate, who collapsed into to show what is possible if you ask
home. Ann immediately knew what to do.
her arms, asking, “What did I do wrong?” for help.
Recounting the story still brings to turn that off,” she explains. “My “Kate’s a great mum,” Ann says.
Ann’s emotions to the surface. She body was keeping up and once I came “She’s done a great job.”
assured Kate her baby was going to home, I didn’t feel like myself. More than 40 years after her first
be okay, and that Kate hadn’t done “I felt very confident in myself as phone call with Jan, Ann is proud to
anything wrong. “My role at that stage a mum, if that makes sense. I think see what PANDA has become, and
was to be protective to Kate,” she says. people would have assumed I would to know new mothers and fathers no
“She was really fearful and anxious have been a nervous wreck and not longer have to navigate PND alone.
and so was I. Kate kept saying to me: wanting to put her down. I actually “We always wanted a service
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‘This is my fault; what have I done?’” felt very grateful to be at home … you could get through to,” Ann says.
“It was completely terrifying,” [but] I had severe anxiety. I couldn’t “We were trying to create something
says Kate. breathe properly, I couldn’t sleep, where the first time they reached
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Luna was taken to the Royal Children’s I couldn’t eat. I knew something out it was a positive experience.
Hospital. Kate had to spend the night wasn’t right with me.” Even though it’s a big organisation
in the maternity ward. “That was a It was a lonely and isolating and a digital organisation, I think
form of torture. Just lying there, not experience, Kate says. “I had a lot the values and the vision are exactly
able to get up, not knowing what was of people say to me, ‘You’re right the same.” AWW
going on with Luna. It was potentially now. She’s home, she’s fine now.
the worst night of my life,” she says. What’s the problem?’ I can’t just erase PANDA provides information, support
Ann arranged for a doctor to make that. I did think, ‘Maybe I should stop and advice to parents affected by
it clear to Kate that she had done talking about this.’ perinatal mental health issues.
nothing wrong. The next morning, “That’s when Mum kicked in and Visit panda.org.au

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With love

The Weekly explores the origins,

controversy and – most
importantly – the love that
surrounds the second
Sunday in May.

WO R D S b y SA M A N T H A T R E N OW E T H
 Motherhood has been celebrated around the world for centuries,
including through Europe and Asia. Commercialisation of the day in
the 1900s saw people up in arms against florist and card companies
– including the woman who established Mother’s Day in the US.

nn Jarvis was dynamic, opinionated

and generous – a woman of passion and
principle who lived through the troubled
times of the American Civil War.
She was also the woman who inspired
Mother’s Day.
Ann was a mother of 13, though she
lost nine children to disease, rampant during the war.
In spite of that heartbreak, she devoted her life to good
works, largely around educating women and honouring
the work of mothers.
In 1858, while pregnant with her sixth child, Ann founded
OPPOSITE PAGE: UNDER THE LILACS, HANS THOMA (1871).

Mothers’ Day Work Clubs all through West Virginia to bring

women together and combat soaring infant and child
mortality rates. When war broke out, the clubs turned
their attention to nursing and feeding wounded soldiers,
and at her insistence, did not differentiate between
Confederate and Union men. After the war, Ann became
a popular speaker, lecturing in church and community
halls on childcare, health and issues affecting women.
Anna, her eldest surviving daughter, admired her
larger-than-life mother. As she grew older, she began
campaigning for a day on which to honour not only Ann
but the endless and uncelebrated work – Ann had called
it “the matchless service” – of mothers everywhere.

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 Clockwise from left: A flyer from the first
official US Mother’s Day service – a
memorial for Ann Jarvis; Japan’s current-
day celebrations first began post-WWII;
Mother’s Day issue of The Weekly from
1936; a day to recognise unsung women’s
work was Anna’s original inspiration.

THE BATH, MARY CASSATT (1890–91). OPPOSITE PAGE: BRAIDING HER HAIR, CHRISTIAN KROHG (1888).
Ann Jarvis died in 1905 and
three years later, the first Mother’s
Day was celebrated as a memorial
service at which Anna presented
hundreds of white carnations
to those who attended. Anna
campaigned for the day to be adopted more widely and
in 1910, the second Sunday in May became a holiday in
West Virginia. Then in 1914, US President Woodrow Wilson
declared Mother’s Day a national holiday.
Of course, this was not the first time motherhood had been
celebrated. The ancient Greeks honoured Gaia, Hera, Demeter
and other goddesses who embodied aspects of motherhood.
First Nations people have celebrated motherhood for tens
of thousands of years, and in many parts of Australia are
reclaiming the power and sacredness of motherhood through
the Birthing on Country movement. In Argentina, Mother’s Day
was originally connected to a celebration of the Virgin Mary
but now has a day of its own. In Bolivia, Mother’s Day is
celebrated on May 27 and commemorates the 1812 Battle of La
Coronilla, when women fought for the country’s independence
from Spain. And for centuries, the fourth Sunday in Lent has
been celebrated in the UK as Mothering Sunday.
 With love

– Anna Jarvis
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With love
THIS PAGE: MADONNA AND CHILD BY A FLOWERING TREE, UNKNOWN (EARLY 19TH CENTURY). OPPOSITE PAGE, FROM TOP: A MOTHER WATCHING
OVER HER CHILD, LUIGI DI GIOVANNI (1890); CLOTILDE AND ELENA ON THE ROCKS AT JAVEA, JOAQUIN SOROLLA (1905). GETTY IMAGES.

Though mothering practices differ from culture to culture – from

India to South Africa – acknowledging the tireless love and contribution
of mothers remains at the heart of all Mother’s Day celebrations.

Janet Heyden of NSW was a pioneer of Mother’s Day in

Australia. Visiting a friend in hospital, she noticed many
older women had no visitors, no flowers, no gifts at all.
In 1923, she began a campaign for members of the public
to donate gifts which she would distribute to “lonely,
forgotten aged mothers”. Donations flooded in. Her daughter, “sentimental piffle inside Mother’s Day cards ... A sincere
Thelma Little, told The Weekly in 1969 that she believed and simple ‘Thank you’ or ‘I love you’ expresses everything
this was the original Australian Mother’s Day. in a wonderful way.”
Mother’s Day didn’t remain such a homespun event for ‘No Sweet Stuff’ from Sans Souci, NSW, added: “Here’s
long. Florists, confectioners and card companies were the another mum who doesn’t like fancy verses. I prefer the
first to see its commercial potential, and soon gift-giving card I received this year. ‘Thanks, Mum, for your great gift
began to feel like Mother’s Day’s raison d’être. to society – Me.’”
In Britain, a Nottinghamshire woman, Constance Penswick As the Greeks and ‘Another Mum’ knew well, mothers are
Smith, saw the writing on the wall early. In 1913, she began not always “patient angels”. Following the ’70s women’s
a campaign to restore Mothering Sunday in place of the movement, a mother’s role has expanded exponentially,
more commercial American celebration. adding a whole new basket-load of rewards and challenges.
Even Anna Jarvis, who had campaigned so tirelessly for Mother’s Day can be tough, especially for those who have
the US national holiday, was distressed by its materialistic lost or become estranged from a mother or a child, and for
turn. Historian Katharine Antolini told the BBC that when those struggling to become parents. No mother is perfect
the price of carnations skyrocketed one May, Anna released – some far from it. Motherhood can be tremendously
a statement saying: “What will you do to rout charlatans, tough, but at its best, it’s the nearest thing we’ll know to
bandits ... and other termites that would undermine with unconditional love.
their greed one of the finest, noblest and truest movements Carla Pascoe Leahy, a researcher and historian from the
and celebrations?” And to respect Anna’s wishes, members University of Tasmania, describes motherhood as “one of
of her family stopped celebrating Mother’s Day. the most cataclysmic – and rewarding – experiences” in
The debate has continued ever since. In 1962, in The Weekly, life. And surely that’s worth celebrating with breakfast
‘Another Mum’ from Youngtown, Tasmania, bemoaned the in bed and a hand-drawn card on Mother’s Day. AWW

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he Northern Territory cattle

station where Kate and Tick
Everett (opposite) raised their
daughters, Meg and Dolly, is
hundreds of kilometres from
Katherine and doesn’t get
mobile phone coverage. Kate recalls one
trip into town, years ago, during which Meg
and Dolly were talking about “streaks” on
Snapchat. “It was how many days in a row you
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had daily communication with a certain friend,”
Kate says. She had no idea what it meant.
Her girls explained: “We gave so-and-so a
password to this account so they can keep our
streaks alive ’cos we knew we wouldn’t have
phone service or wi-fi when we got home.”
Kate shakes her head. “All of that is so wrong,
and it definitely rewires their little brains.”
Since 2018, Kate and Tick have come to
understand more than they ever wanted
to about social media, and how phones are
used and misused by young people. As this
new threat seeped into their lives in 2017,
they did not grasp how damaging the unfettered
exposure to the online world could be.
One day stands out in Kate’s memory.
“I remember getting into phone service and
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message sound and seeing her visibly
shudder,” she says of her younger
daughter, Dolly. “That was probably
a very pivotal moment where we
knew ... how bad it was.
“We probably kidded ourselves
[that] they were functioning well ...
That was only a few months before
she died.”
The Everett family became a global
news story when Kate and Tick went
public with what happened next.
Schoolyard conflict, amplified by a
mobile phone that allowed the bullies
to follow Dolly, 14, into her home,
became too much for the teenager,
who loved to ride horses and draw. On
her last day on Earth, she made potato
salad, coleslaw and steak for the family,
then she took her own life. Kate lay
beside the body of her younger girl,
waiting for emergency services,
sinking into the very deepest grief.
“It was kind of a little too late by
the time we’d –,” Kate breaks off.
“Put the pieces of the puzzle
together,” Tick finishes.
Clockwise from above:
As Kate and Tick planned their Bullying, amplified by her
daughter’s funeral, sitting under a tree mobile phone, became too
where Dolly liked to read, they swore much for Dolly; Kate and Tick
to channel their grief into preventing channelled their grief into
any family from having to face what Dolly’s Dream; Dolly and sister
Meg with Kate and Tick.
they were suffering through. Dolly had
left a pencil sketch of a gymnast, and and support networks,
the phrase, “Speak Even if Your Voice particularly if they live
Shakes”. It became the motto for their in regional areas.
foundation, Dolly’s Dream. In her agency’s Behind
In the seven years since that night, the Screen transparency
they have achieved much, and they report, eSafety
count among their supporters young Commissioner Julie
people who may not still be with us Inman Grant writes that
if it wasn’t for Dolly’s Dream. Their the mission to give young
support line, Parent Hub, Beacon cyber people access to online
safety app and classroom education opportunities, while
programs have made a dent, but keeping them safe,
digital bullying remains a critical is “one of the most
issue for Australians. Phones can turn pressing regulatory and societal Prime Minister Anthony Albanese
schoolyard conflict into a 24-hour, challenges of our time”. has conceded the ban “won’t solve all
no-escape campaign of harassment. Eighty per cent of children aged eight the problems” but says the government
The government has moved to impose to 12 surveyed used at least one social had to respond to changing technology.
an age limit on social media accounts, media platform in 2024, despite policies The ban is supported by all states
but skirmishes have already broken out prohibiting users under 13, the report and territories.
over how it will be policed and applied. says. The most popular service used This challenge is set against another
Critics say it won’t work. Young people by children under 13 was YouTube, crisis in our schools. The Australian
who spoke with The Weekly fear it will the service currently pardoned from the Education Union’s 2024 State of Our
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mattered was Logan’s mental health.”
For Logan, Dolly’s Dream was a
beacon during the worst period,
reminding her she was not alone. She
is telling her story because she wants
to remind other victims that “there is
a life outside of bullying and it does
get better”.
“I’m a horse rider, so that would be
my break,” she says. “I’d have my phone
in my pocket, listening to music and
then I’d hear a ‘ding’ on my phone, and
I’d go: ‘Oh, who is it?’ Then it would
be a horrible message.”
She’d block the offending account,
and then see a new account try to
contact her within 10 minutes.
“I remember trying to do a sports
activity that was actually outside of
school and someone had videoed it
and sent it to people in our area, kind
of making fun of how I was doing sport.
That’s the thing with phones. As soon
as you turn your back, they could be
videoing you … and spread it around
without you even knowing.
“A lot of the social media avenues
they use allow them to be harsher ...
and to make things a lot more constant
too. Whereas … if social media wasn’t
a thing, and they were doing these
things in person, I think it would be
– Kate Everett a lot more noticeable to people. It
allows them to be a lot more sneaky
two-thirds of educators have observed and a lot more cunning.”
a decline or significant decline in student Eighteen-year-old Logan Lynch Social media apps aren’t necessary to
wellbeing and engagement in the past arrives for her interview with The harm and harass. Logan’s face crumples
18 months. Nine out of 10 teachers Weekly in a checked shirt and cowboy as the memories rush back. “Everybody
reported a decline, or significant decline, boots. She is articulate and friendly, knew it was happening but nobody
in teachers’ wellbeing and morale. but she had to leave school at 17 to was really game to stand up and say:
The parents The Weekly spoke with escape crippling harassment. As in We need to do something about it;
felt schools lacked the procedures to Dolly’s case, her bullying started in we need to change it,” she says.
effectively respond to bullying, though the schoolyard then crossed into the Her family was frustrated with the
they do not shy away from the reality online realm. Her parents, Matt and school’s response. “Our experience
that the challenge needs a whole of Allison, say it was a difficult decision with the schools was – they didn’t
community response. to pull her out of school, but they felt want the stigma of a bullying school
“I guess what people really need to they had no choice. attached to their name, so they tried
understand is how much that device “There’s a very, very fine line that to pretend it wasn’t happening,”
impacts your child’s life,” says Kate. parents tread between building resilience Allison says.
“For us, we never shy away from, ‘Do in your child or it turning into something The Kids Helpline reports that one
we think we should have known more more serious, like Dolly Everett’s parents in five young people in Australia
as parents?’ Absolutely, and it was are going through,” Allison says. “You experience social exclusion or
kind of a slow creep. I look at social go through a lot of emotions.” threats of abuse online. The federal
media now and what kids have access “We had some very dark conversations, government’s bullyingnoway.gov.au
to, and I think: My God, I didn’t even Logan and ourselves,” Matt says. “It got website is full of state-by-state
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Allison say the capacity for harm is
something parents of teens, as well
as policy-makers and educators, are
still coming to grips with.
“Our generation fell asleep at the
wheel,” Matt says twice during the
conversation. Adolescence has changed.
“In my era, we had breaks. We’d go home
from school, and you’d have until nine
o’clock the next morning until you
had to see that person. If it’s 24/7 that
you’re told you’re shit, that’s what you
start to think.”

Abbie Kelly, 15, has strawberry blonde

hair and loves to dress in bright colours.
For her, social media was a lifeline that
kept her afloat during a bombardment
of hate-filled abuse from her fellow
students. But it could also be a medium
for that harassment, which still hasn’t
completely stopped, despite her
moving 1300km away.
“I’m going to call out bad behaviour,
and I don’t regret that decision, but
sometimes I wonder how much less
damaged I would be as a person if
I didn’t do that,” Abbie says.
She traces the bullying back to – Matt Lynch
her first year of high school in Broken
Hill. She asked her principal if the my life more of a living hell, it was … they wish there was someone like me
school would fly the Pride flag on The I can’t even feel safe in my own home. when they were younger.”
International Day Against Homophobia, Even when I’m not at school, it’s Abbie had been raised to understand
Biphobia, Intersexphobia and haunting me everywhere I go.” that there were all different kinds of
Transphobia to send a signal of That same year, in 2022, Abbie created love in the world. Even so, she was
acceptance. The school said yes, and The Rainbow Shoelace Project. She nervous to come out as bisexual to her

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she was pulling up the flag, with the shared beads in the Pride flag colours mother, Sophie. When she did, her mum
principal by her side, when “this group for people to wear on their shoelaces as was understanding but felt helpless
of six or seven Year 10 boys – a lot a sign of solidarity with the LGBTQIA+ when she tried to find external support.
bigger than me – started swearing community. The project attracted “We got into a situation where [The
and yelling at me,” she says. accolades and media attention, but Department of] Education were saying,
The principal told them to rack off, the praise was not universal. ‘We can’t do anything, our hands are
but Abbie had become a target. “I felt Death threats were hissed into her tied. You need to go to the police’,”
terrified at school because now people phone at night. She received anonymous Sophie explains. “We’d go to the police
knew me as the gay girl,” she says. phone calls from blocked numbers. and they’re like, ‘We don’t know what
Kids would jeer and laugh at her. People circulated rumours online. you’re talking about. This is happening
“It was every single day ... I’d try and “I just feel like it will never stop and on school grounds.’ So, the police
report every incident that happened that is the most lonely feeling in the wouldn’t do anything. The Education
but by the end of it I just felt so sick of world,” Abbie says. But she adds quickly Department wouldn’t do anything.”
nobody doing anything about it. that her experience online hasn’t Abbie is grateful for the teachers
“I look back and my heart breaks for been entirely negative. “This is where who looked out for her, but they were
that 12-year-old girl who had to walk I’m so grateful because I get to go on unable to stop the abuse. Things got
around feeling so unsafe. When these social media and go into the DMs or go so bad that she and Sophie made the
people who were bullying me face-to- into the comments and have all these decision to leave Broken Hill.
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 over the creation of deepfakes of 50
Left: Abbie Kelly, an
female students, who were depicted
LGBTQIA+ advocate, and her in explicit and graphic images.
mum made the decision to Julie Inman Grant addressed the
leave Broken Hill after Abbie Senate on a popular open-source
was bullied. Opposite and AI ‘nudifying’ app, which claims to
below: Logan Lynch found
support from her family
“nudify any girl with the power of AI.
(brother Kade, mum Allison Just choose a body type and get a
and dad Matt), as well as result in a few seconds.”
the Dolly’s Dream foundation. “There is compelling and concerning
data that explicit deepfakes have
increased on the internet by as much as
550 per cent year on year since 2019,”
she told the Senate Standing Committee
on Legal and Constitutional Affairs.
In the coming months, the office of
the eSafety Commissioner will work
with government to implement and
enforce the social media minimum
age legislation. It will also continue
supporting parents to play active
roles in their children’s online lives.
“Nothing can replace those vital
conversations that help parents stay
informed, set boundaries and help when
something goes wrong,” Julie says. She
believes that building digital literacy
and resilience in young people is key.
Beyond phone and computer
screens, the Everetts would like to see
national wellbeing standards for all
schools. And they want educators to
be supported to provide protection
kids need. “The government’s got to
do more for the teachers,” Tick says.
“We need buy-in from every single
person: parents, carers, teachers,”
could not go to school anymore. My Attitude 101 list of LGBTQIA+ Kate adds.
mental health declined so severely that Trailblazers. She is publishing a book “It’s frustrating,” she continues,
I just couldn’t even get out of bed,” and counts Dannii Minogue among her reflecting on the ever-changing nature
Abbie says. “Honestly, this is something fans, but the harassment has robbed her of the challenge. “At the same time, it’s
I’ve been thinking about recently and of a lot of the joy she should be feeling. one more reason to get up and keep
it actually really scares me, but if fighting the fight and not give up.” AWW
I was still in Broken Hill, I don’t think
I’d be alive right now.” When we talk about cyberbullying, we To find out more, or find help, contact:
Her advocacy has cost her dearly, automatically think of social media, but Dolly’s Dream support line for parents
yet she feels it is important to share texts and messaging apps also play and young people on 0488 881 033 or
her experience. insidious roles. Tick Everett mentions visit dollysdream.org.au; Kids Helpline
“I am very concerned that the [social gaming platforms, where boys and 1800 55 1800; Lifeline 13 11 14.
media] ban will make kids from remote young men can be vulnerable.
towns and members of the LGBTQIA+ “Technology keeps progressing Friday May 9 is Do It For Dolly Day. Go
community … become very isolated,” faster than we can develop answers blue to end bullying. Every dollar raised
she explains. “In my case, I would not and programs,” Kate adds. helps Dolly’s Dream deliver anti-bullying
be where I am right now if I did not Logan mentions her fears around AI programs and support services for
have social media.” being used to bully. Last year, a male young people, families, and schools
Abbie has been included in the 2025 student from Victoria was arrested across Australia. doitfordollyday.org.au

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Alex, Allegra and
Bianca in front of
their mother Carla’s
portrait. The siblings
are determined her
memory and legacy
will endure through the
Zampatti generations.
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huge portrait of Carla Zampatti is on the wall behind a grand piano. Painted by Swedish-
Australian artist Danelle Bergstrom in 2009, it is almost life-size, highlighting Carla’s
unflappable gaze and impeccable style. She is also pictured from the back, full-length,
almost as if reflected in a mirror.
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Carla’s three children – Alex Schuman, Allegra Spender and Bianca Spender – are
arranging themselves at that piano as they pose for The Weekly’s photographer. And
the subtext of the set-up isn’t lost on Bianca – that Carla’s presence continues to
loom large in all of their lives. “It’s not a subconscious presence right now,” she says with a laugh.
“It’s a very physical presence.”
“It’s got a good sense of her, actually,” says Allegra of the painting, adding that Bianca had a more
precarious relationship with the canvas when she worked with their mother; Carla had the portrait
hanging behind her office desk, in the same building we are in now in Sydney’s CBD.
“I was like, ‘Mum, can you not sit below yourself in full life-size? I don’t need three of you – the back
of you, the front of you, and then you’,” adds Bianca. Although, she concedes, “I actually think of all
the paintings that have been done, it’s definitely the most talented and captures her the best.”

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pril marks four years since Liberal politician in the 1980s and First, the week Carla spent in hospital
Carla’s unexpected passing, later, Australian ambassador to France. following the accident, and then the
a week after a tragic fall at the “I think having very busy parents very public overflowing of emotion
opera on Sydney Harbour. The revered does actually help your children and attention after their mother’s
and beloved fashion designer, because they have to rely on each death, which included a state funeral
businesswoman and philanthropist other,” says Bianca. “So we were very at St Mary’s Cathedral in Sydney. It
was 78. Although, it depends who close and we all had our different was a fitting tribute to a woman who
you speak to. “We never knew her roles that we played. I would always achieved so much during her lifetime,
age [growing up], we were just never iron Allegra’s uniform, and Allegra including being made a Member of the
told. It was like past 40 – we’re not was always the advice giver, even Order of Australia in 1987, elevated to
counting,” says Bianca. though she’s younger than me.” Companion in 2009, and appointed by
This year marks 60 years of the That strong bond helped them the Italian government Commander
Carla Zampatti brand. A milestone through the most difficult of times. in the Order of Merit of the Italian
that, while phenomenal for Republic in 2004.
a business, Bianca says “The three of us were very
would have made her united in that week that
“furious – because that she was in hospital and we
would make her really weren’t sure what was going
old and would definitely to happen,” says Allegra.
not be appealing to her”.
Left: The 1985 Carla Zampatti
As a designer, Carla
Ford Laser. Below: Carla, who
Zampatti was a household started her business in 1965,
name, synonymous with with a model in the ’70s.
chic, a vision in feathered
jackets, sunglasses and
elegant black-and-white
tailoring. An aspirational
role model to women across
the country who proved you
could build a successful
business from scratch.
As a mother, she was funny,
opinionated, but never precious. The
family home in Sydney’s Woollahra
might have been filled with beautiful
things, but it was also lived-in.
Bianca notes that a huge and
expensive couch was usually used
as a racetrack and cubby house by
various grandchildren, and scratches
on the piano from moving around
a vase were just par for the course.
Her children recall with amusement
Carla’s love of a bargain at the
supermarket, and her personal
velocity – and that of her driving,
which once left then-Prime Minister
Malcolm Turnbull vowing never to
get into her passenger seat again.
The three siblings are a tight-knit
bunch, something that Bianca says
is the result of having two working
parents growing up, something still – Allegra Spender
relatively unusual at the time. Carla’s
second husband (and the girls’ father),
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 many of them were dealing with
their own grief while they’re being
inundated with customers buying
everything off the shelves.”
Carla Zampatti remains a family
business in every sense of the word.
Alex, Bianca and Allegra literally grew
up in the business. Since primary
school, holidays were spent working
in the company rather than heading
to the beach or travelling like
their friends. It gave them all an
appreciation of how much work it
takes to build a successful career.
Bianca recalls, as a 10- or 11-year-old,
being tasked with picking up the cash
takings from the three city outlets to
take to the bank, and days on end
spent filing daily takings sheets.
But after those years of menial
tasks, they have all held senior
positions in the company at various
points. Before Alex was CEO, Allegra
was Managing Director of the
company for eight years from 2009.
And after working for French designer
Martine Sitbon in Paris, Bianca
worked on Carla’s designs for five
years before starting up her own
Bianca Spender label in 2008.
Both Alex and Allegra concede that
Bianca was the one who inherited the
style gene from their mother, albeit
a style Bianca says is diametrically
opposite to that of her mother.
Not only is the company owned
by the family, but many of the team
have family connections. “There are
so many multi-generational members
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of the team,” says Alex. “So mother,

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“None of that was straightforward.” and tell me their stories, which daughter, granddaughter all working
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“It was really tough on the family,” was beautiful.” for the company at various stages.”
adds Alex. “The state funeral was “And mum was a very personal
incredibly challenging because you t wasn’t only the family that they boss,” adds Allegra.
really have to put aside your own had to hold together. The siblings With the 60th anniversary of the
grief for that. It’s such a public thing. also had the Carla Zampatti brand this year, there are corks to
It took us a long time after that to business to keep on track, led by be popped, but also challenges to be
sort of regroup and recover.” Alex, the company’s CEO since 2019. faced. “We’re trying to be the first
Despite the difficulty of this time, They couldn’t have anticipated the eponymous second-generation
the children found a lot of strength “stampede”, as he calls it, of customers fashion brand in Australia,” says Alex.
from the many stories that were buying up sophisticated tailoring and “It’s done frequently overseas, but
shared by people who had either met eveningwear designs in the weeks there is a sense in which this hasn’t
their mother, or worn her clothes for immediately after her death. been done before here. And so that’s
special moments in their lives. “It was an extraordinary display something we’re really proud of.”
“So many people knew Mum,” says of support,” he says. “But it was also The celebrations will include a
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Week in May where a runway is named
in her memory. Just as Carla was
considered the “godmother of
Australian fashion” by the industry at
large, Alex says that the festivities will
also be “a celebration of the fashion
industry, because Mum was really
passionate about the whole industry”.
“There are so many designers,
models and photographers who got
their first big break in Mum’s
business. And so we really want to
recognise and celebrate her altruism.”
While there were talks of succession
plans while Carla was alive, “she was
such a force and amazing forces are
quite hard to replace,” says Bianca.
“But it’s also quite hard to start
successions
while [the
founder is]
there. And she Above: Carla loved the magic
was the creator of the runway. Left: At Australian
right to the end Fashion Week in 2010. Opposite:
and [then we Carla outside one of her
eponymous boutiques in the ’80s.
had] to shift
into that gear the same. As a board member
without a for multiple companies and
pause, because organisations – and the first
fashion doesn’t female Chair of SBS for a
have a pause.” decade from 1999 – she led
Designer as an example to women
Karlie Ungar that they should be in the
was soon boardroom, and she promoted
brought in agendas that would further
as Creative women’s equality. And while
Director for she dressed them for their
three years, and last June a former today is that Carla had already tried entire working lives – from their first
member of the design team, Tanya so much during her career – there job interview right through to that
Emon Beattie, returned and took over were products and collaborations that corner office – she was also there for
as Fashion Director. included sunglasses, eyewear, perfumes, their most personal occasions, be it
Another new-ish tack for the brand swimwear, the famous 1985 Ford Laser graduation or second wedding.
is to sell internationally. Carla had and even a Hoover vacuum cleaner. Carla also achieved her phenomenal
opened stores in the US in the 1980s, “She was never afraid to try new success as a self-made immigrant,
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something Alex calls “outlandishly things,” says Alex. “That’s the trouble who arrived in Australia from Italy as
ambitious”, unheard of for an coming in the second generation a small girl in 1950, without a word of
Australian designer at the time. behind her. It’s very difficult to break English; who left school at 14, and
They were short-lived, and since new ground.” found her own way into a career that
then the focus has always been on she loved and built a business from
the Australian customer. But since t was Carla’s groundbreaking scratch. Encouraged by her first
last year the brand is now stocked approach to all aspects of life and husband, Leo Schuman – Alex’s father
with three retailers overseas, business that made her such an – she launched her business in 1965;
including Moda Operandi, and the integral part of Australian women’s he also invested in the enterprise.
aim is for a slow-and-steady approach lives, as well as a role model for them. In their divorce a few years later, she
to growing this side of the business. As a business owner she empowered lost it all – except her name. She
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from her cousin, on the proviso that passing. While it wasn’t something eeping Carla’s memory alive
she run the business single-handedly. she’d considered while Carla was for the next generation of the
“She started this at a time which alive, and had never discussed with Zampatti family is also easier
wasn’t very friendly for women her, Carla’s life lessons have proven given the siblings’ bond. Between
starting their own business,” says invaluable in the role. her three children, Carla had nine
Alex. “And it wasn’t friendly for “Mum was very courageous,” she grandchildren, aged from 24 to eight,
divorced women with a newborn baby. says. “You couldn’t bully Mum. who still miss their “nonna”.
And yet she did it all by herself.” It would have been really interesting “The next generation are also quite
He notes that this year has many running [for office] with Mum. close,” says Bianca. “They’re all in
other anniversaries to celebrate. It would have been wonderful. Sydney, so we’re lucky we can keep them
“She was one of the women who She would have been really proud, all together. They all do a stint of work
started Chief Executive Women, as a mother and as a woman. But at Mum’s. There is always a barcode to
which turns 40 this year. And she was I think she would have had a lot of be stuck on, a box to be unpacked, or
integral to the start-up of Australian views,” she finishes with a laugh. shoulder pads to be counted.”
Fashion Week, which is facing its In parliament Allegra is surrounded While Alex’s four children are the
30th year this year. They’re all coming oldest, and therefore had the longest
together with a big bow.” time with Carla, Allegra’s youngest
The various strands of Carla’s life ones still have lovely memories.
are also woven through the “They remember she had a sweet
philanthropic work that she began, jar,” says Allegra. “On a Sunday
and which is now continued by her afternoon, she would feed them
children, supporting multicultural croissants and Nutella and try and
endeavours, women in business feed us champagne. They loved her
and her other great passion, the arts. sense of style. All three of mine still
The Carla Zampatti Foundation works
with organisations
– Alex Schuman feel that and my middle one often
gets a piece of fabric
including the Sydney from Bianca’s office
Dance Company, – and she’s very good
writing and at draping.”
performance program The month of May
Voices of Women, was known as the
Australian Fashion “festival of Mum”
Council and the according to Allegra,
Wayside Chapel. as her birthday fell
There are awards and on the 19th, the week
scholarships in her after Mother’s Day.
name, including the And while the
Australian Fashion birthday was always
Laureate’s Carla the main event,
Zampatti Award you couldn’t forget
for Excellence in Mother’s Day,
Leadership, and according to Bianca:
the NSW Premier’s “You had to
Mutlicultural acknowledge it in
Community Medals include the Carla by Carla Zampatti designs on fellow some way, you weren’t off the hook.
Zampatti Arts and Culture Medal. female politicians who gravitate towards I mean, she was an Italian mother and
“Mum empowered women by the brand for its polish and practicality. the Italians keep their children close.”
making them feel great,” says Allegra. Certainly Allegra’s political mindset No matter where the siblings find
“Because when she felt great, she has been informed by her mother’s themselves, “I’ll have a glass of
took on the world and she wanted all achievements. “She was a woman champagne for Mum on Mother’s Day
women to take on the world.” without money, without connections, and think about her,” says Allegra.
Alex jokes that Allegra is now “the without background, who was really “We all have a deep sense of Mum,”
embodiment of women’s empowerment” successful,” says Allegra. “My lesson adds Bianca. “And that has been
as the independent federal Member for from her life is that we should continue a huge gift. She’s somehow still there
Wentworth, a position she was elected to be a country in which you can be in the room – but hopefully not in
to in 2022, a year after her mother’s successful wherever you come from.” a painting on the wall.” AWW

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In the 1930s and ’40s, Mavis Ripper was

a powerful fashion force in Australia.
But early retirement and a warehouse
fire saw her disappear into the mists of
time … until The Weekly stepped in.

Fashion designer Mavis Ripper

opened her first salon at the
age of 21. Opposite: Sue found
this dress at a vintage store.
It’s the only known surviving
Mavis garment.
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 he dress is a pale
green brocade, with
small baskets of
flowers in cream
and green dotted
across the fabric.
The fitted bodice
features buttons covered in the same
fabric, which stop at the waist, leaving
the skirt split down its long length.
An underskirt would have been worn
underneath, its likely contrasting
colour peeking through. The peaked
leg-of-mutton sleeves are short, and
there are two pocket flaps on the hips.
The label at the neck is stitched
with four words: Mavis Ripper
Model Melbourne.
This name will be unfamiliar to
most, with the exception of those with
an avid interest in early 20th century
Australian fashion and film.
Tom McEvoy has spent years
researching this period, completing
a Master’s of Fashion and Textiles.
He first stumbled across Mavis Ripper
while searching through the archives
of The Australian Women’s Weekly and
it sent him on a deep dive to find out
more about the unsung pioneer. this almost looks like a costume Aged just 21 in 1929, Mavis opened
“She was one of Australia’s first for the stage or for film.” her first dress salon on Collins Street in
celebrity fashion designers,” Tom says. The dress was put aside in the Melbourne. She had studied drawing
Yet despite this, she had disappeared warehouse. Then, just a couple of and design before being swept up by
into the mists of time. weeks later, Sue heard Tom on ABC a “sheer love of clothes” and moving
And this is when The Weekly Radio National. into dress design, according to a 1937
stepped in to help. As well as being “Tom was saying that there’s no article in The Age. She would move
our humour columnist, Amanda Blair known Mavis Rippers in existence,” into larger premises just up the road,
also owns not-for-profit Dulcie’s she recalls. “I thought, that’s crazy. employing a staff of women to create
Vintage Bus and Dulcie’s storefronts Not only have we got one, but it’s in her designs. Her salon was bought
in Adelaide. Every week, pieces are such incredible condition. So I sent by Myer, in which she then created a
dropped off by people wanting to the link through to Amanda.” namesake salon once more.
donate special garments and Amanda’s Amanda tracked Tom down and sent Decked out in deep blue carpet
team clean and repair the pieces so him the text message he didn’t think with lemon curtains, the Myer salon
that they don’t end up in landfill. One he would ever receive: “I was doing had “modernistic lounges and chairs”,
such item was this Mavis Ripper dress. a lecture at the time,” he says, “and along with one addition familiar to
Volunteer Sue Stephenson turned I got a text message saying, ‘Hi, is this her clients from Collins Street – a
up one Tuesday to see it hanging on Tom? I’ve got a Mavis Ripper here.’” white bear skin “almost carelessly
a rack, waiting to be priced. The dress is doubly significant thrown across the steps leading to
“The fabric was so beautiful and it because, to anybody’s current a small platform of huge mirrors”,
was such an unusual design,” says Sue. knowledge, it is the only remaining according to the article, the pelt
“The pattern was just woven so piece by the Australian designer left having become “like a mascot”.
beautifully and it had this incredible in circulation. The same article, titled “Enterprising
lime green lining. It was kind of like Women and their Careers”, sang Mavis’
a Bridgerton coat. And I just said to o, who was the elusive designer praises as one whose work would be at
this other girl, ‘What’s going on here? Mavis Ripper, and why was her home in the fashion capitals of London,
This is amazing.’ And I thought, work so significant? Paris and New York – and Hollywood.

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Right: Mavis’ creations were
thought lost until this dress
turned up at a vintage store.
Left: Store volunteers Tas, Deb,
Kerry, Gail, Barb, Sue and Rhonda
with owner Amanda. Below:
Mavis’ looks in The Weekly.

Indeed, it would
be her work for Of all of these films, it is this final
Australia’s early one that has garnered most of the
film industry that renown with regards to her costumes
would raise her and subsequent effect on the fashions
profile further. of the day. The film is a classic
Since 1934, fish-out-of-water tale that could be
Mavis had been redubbed “Country Bumpkins Inherit
creating costumes City Dress Salon”.
for musical The film’s finale was a spectacular
theatre shows in fashion parade to showcase the salon’s
Melbourne, but a new collection. It was heralded as the
few years later she “Royal Show of Fashiondom”, a nod
signed a contract to the agricultural background of the
with Sydney film salon’s new owners. Mavis and her
production company Cinesound. new production fashions are born that team of 50 seamstresses and assistants
“Now Miss Ripper enters the field in sweep throughout the world.” created 45 looks for the finale alone,
Australia as the first woman designer Her first film for the studio would presented by 18 models.
of screen fashions,” touted The Age. be It Isn’t Done, a 1937 comedy The collection featured sportswear,
“[Film] calls for work that is absolutely directed by Ken G. Hall, followed by including equestrian jodhpurs and
original, striking, and something which Tall Timbers. Another three films jacket, an ice-skating skirt with
will have a definite appeal to women. would follow in quick succession: fur-trimmed jacket, and even a fishing
There is no doubt at all that the screen Lovers and Luggers, The Broken Melody ensemble. The montage also includes
to-day [sic] is the greatest influence (in which former Australian Prime a bikini of remarkable daring for 1938;
on fashion, and that women study the Minister Gough Whitlam appears the bra top was matched with short-
lovely creations designed for their as an extra in a nightclub scene) and style bottoms, bare at the sides but for
favorite [sic] star so that with each Dad and Dave Come to Town. a few strips of fabric.

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Sportswear done, it was the gowns
that naturally drew gasps from the
audience in the film – and are still
worthy of the same today. One is
strikingly modern, with a stiff peplum
over a languid silk skirt and an angular
bust line; another silk bias-cut dress
has a shimmering, sunray-pleated
train; while a boudoir setting features
a form-skimming silk peignoir with
fur-trimmed sleeves and a silk overlay
draped asymmetrically behind.
The different sections of the parade
had live-action film playing behind
them, a first for cinema. So progressive
was it that the Camperdown Chronicle
called it “the most original idea ever
used in fashion presentation”.
One of the dresses in the parade, and
another in the earlier part of the film,
are similar in silhouette and detail to
the dress discovered at Dulcie’s, so it is
likely that it hails from the same period
Clockwise from above: Mavis designed
of Mavis’ design. costumes for films including Lovers
The trickle-down effect from screen and Luggers; Mavis’ dress is being kept
to street was as potent then as it is safe at Dulcie’s; she championed Aussie
today. Mavis hosted one of the film’s designs and fabrics; Mavis Ripper.
models, Leila Steppe – “the most Leila also modelled the film’s
beautiful American glamour girl”, designs for a 1938 issue of
spruiked Myer in a newspaper ad – for The Weekly – the gowns shown in all
five Fashion Teas in the department their glorious colour. The Fashion
store’s Mural Hall in September 1938, Editor wrote: “Back must come the
where she modelled some of Mavis’ off-the-shoulder decolettes [sic],
glamorous designs. boned bodices, full skirts sweeping
into near-bustles, pleatings,
ruffles, fussy bows, feathers,
and fal-lals [sic] … ”
At least one other fashion filmmaking and fashion supplies, with
spread in The Weekly was a shift in energies on all fronts. But
devoted to the costumes from Mavis kept designing – and innovating.
the film, including in October With buttons from Czechoslovakia
that year, which showed off the and ribbons from Switzerland now
sportswear looks featured on unavailable, she looked to local
“some of Australia’s loveliest craftspeople and substitutes; buttons
girls” cast to model the designs. were crafted from cork and laced with
One of these was “Piquant patent leather, while tape dipped in
Jenny Brereton”, in a cotton thinned lacquer stepped in for ribbons.
swimsuit with detachable skirt Above all, however, she became a
“trimmed with white braid vocal advocate for Australian design
reminiscent of grandmamma’s and locally-made fabrics, including
swimming days”. Australian wool. As she told The Daily
Telegraph in August 1941, “There is
here was no looking no reason why Australia should not
back when World War II give a lead to the rest of the world
broke out in 1939. in design, and in weaving and
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 fell out of the papers, and the minds
of the public.
And when, also in 1947, a fire gutted
the warehouse of Cinesound, it was
thought that the remainder of her
iconic garments went up in flames
along with the reels of those early films.

hich brings us back to that

dress. It’s not entirely clear
who the dress originally
belonged to. It was found by Angela
Gibson when she came to sell the
house of her late mother, Nancy. But
Angela is convinced that “it wouldn’t
have been something my mother wore
because she didn’t ever wear green”.
She has another theory. “Bettye
Harrison was a great friend of Nancy’s,”
she muses. “She worked as a model
probably in the late ’30s, early ’40s.”
And after her modelling career?
“Bettye had a great history in the rag
trade in Flinders Lane in Melbourne
in particular,” says Angela. There’s no
way to be sure, however, as Bettye also
passed away some years ago.
For Tom McEvoy – who recently
completed a screenplay about the early
Flinders Lane rag trade – just people
Instead of copying fashion centres in David Jones, where her designs remembering the name Mavis Ripper
in other parts of the world, as we did were stocked. is a start. “She was ahead of her time,”
formerly, perhaps after the war In February 1945, The Sydney Morning he says. “She would be ahead of her
Australia may set the designs for them.” Herald reported that Mavis would time now. She was running her own
Mavis also stepped into the war return to film for “the biggest job of salon, she was doing theatre and then
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effort in her own way. A photograph her career”: Wardrobe Supervisor for she did this film thing.
in The Sydney Morning Herald in 1942 Smithy, an Australian biopic about “The Australian Women’s Weekly did
showed the designer visiting an arms pioneering aviator Sir Charles Kingsford these amazing colour pictorial spreads
factory in Newcastle, under the Smith. The cast had 60 speaking parts and [her work] holds up today. I’ve
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headline “She’ll Design Overalls”. and over 500 extras. shown fashion students some of these
This period also brought a lucrative, “I’ve got cramp in my hands already, photos and [her work still has] that wow
if short-lived, enterprise for the and I’m not even halfway through,” factor so many years later. She achieved
designer. After being introduced to she told The ABC Weekly in April 1945 so much in her career, but a lot of it has
Mavis by Noël Coward, Sir Frank of the design process. been forgotten. And being remembered
Packer – then publisher of The Weekly During the war years, Mavis also is, for a designer, one of the most
along with other media titles – went returned to her first love: art. She significant aspects to your post-career.”
into business with her in Sydney, was a finalist for the Archibald Prize The dress itself is currently in
launching the Mavis Ripper House of in 1944 with a portrait of her first Adelaide, being safeguarded by our
Dress Design. For this, she received husband, Colonel Paul Northey, and columnist, Amanda. “We will never sell
what was then the astronomical sum also the Wynne Prize for landscape it,” she promises. “We will give it to
of 1000 pounds per year. the same year. Tom to use for archiving and teaching.
The business relationship lasted In 1947, Mavis married her second Things like this belong in museums.
barely a year and would end in the husband, the Vice-Consul for They are part of our history and all
courts. But until then her designs Switzerland, Jean-Pierre Saurer, and at Dulcie’s Vintage are just so happy
were swooned over in the pages of stepped away from the heady world that we can ensure the history of the
The Weekly, and shows were spruiked of fashion. It was then that her name amazing Miss Ripper lives on.” AWW

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 Peter was an
esteemed foreign
correspondent
for 25 years.
Opposite: Lois and
Juris became
activists to free
their son.

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As a new film starring Richard Roxburgh

HAIR AND MAKE-UP: BECCA GILMARTIN.

revisits Peter Greste’s time behind bars in

Egypt as a political prisoner, the journalist
and his parents, Lois and Juris – who were
instrumental in bringing Peter home – share
their incredible story of love and survival.
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e will never entire Greste family, Freeing Peter. says. “It affected our sleep badly and
know, most Lois and Juris soon discovered that we were on sleeping pills, which we
of us, what we this was a particularly turbulent had to use for most of that year.”
are really made period in Egypt. Mohamed Morsi, the Everything stopped so they could
of. If we are first democratically-elected president work on Peter’s case.
fortunate, we in the country’s history and leader For his part, Peter would discover
will never be tested. We will never of the Muslim Brotherhood, had how mentally strong he was when he
know what we would do to survive. been overthrown in a military coup was put in solitary confinement for
When something terrible or tragic six months before. The Egyptian 10 days at the start of his ordeal.
happens you find your inner resources. government had become hostile to the He was in the political wing of the
Some people, like the Greste family, foreign press and believed that Al Jazeera notorious Tora Liman maximum-
find fortitude and purpose. was supporting the Muslim Brotherhood. security prison. He didn’t even know
Retirees Lois and Juris Greste had While Peter was being held in what time of day it was. His expansive
no idea that they were campaigners. appalling conditions with no idea why he world as an international correspondent
Or that they could front the media day was there, his parents flew into action. had shrunk to a concrete box.
after day. What they would be capable They sent emails to parliamentarians “That is a really difficult
of if one of their three sons – Peter, and the Department of Foreign Affairs, psychological challenge because your
Andrew and Michael – were in trouble. “doing everything we could think of,” mind starts to eat itself up,” he says.
At Christmas 2013, they had just Lois tells The Weekly. “We had to get He beat himself up about the end of
moved into a townhouse in Brisbane him out of prison. Full stop.” his marriage, about the death of his
and were breathing in the tranquillity This would be their life for the producer, Kate Peyton, who when
of their hobby farm in the Laidley next year as the campaign gathered working for the BBC in Somalia was
valley. Juris and his boys had built the momentum and become an shot dead in front of him. Maybe, he
timber house there. Their eldest son, international cause célèbre. And they thought, the universe was punishing
Peter, was happy in his life in a would all be changed by that year. him for the sins of the past.
community of journalists and “None of us is the same person we “In the silence and emptiness of a
photographers in Nairobi. were in December 2013,” adds Juris, prison cell, the mind starts to kind of
“We were all foreign correspondents a former architect, now 80. Lois, 78, replay the movie of your life on the
in some form,” he tells The Weekly agrees. “We found out about ourselves walls of the cell,” Peter explains.
today. “I lived in a wonderful place, and found out about each other,” she He set himself a rigorous exercise
I had a job I loved, friends regime and, having recently done a
that I cared deeply about.” course in Vipassana meditation, was
During his 25 years able to meditate and find calm.
as an esteemed foreign “If you see it as a psychological
correspondent in the world’s problem and then you start to take
most volatile countries, control over it, over time your mind
Peter’s parents often didn’t imposes its own order on it and then
know where he was. He
wasn’t particularly excited
about the latest assignment
he had accepted in Cairo for
three weeks for the Al Jazeera
network. He was just filling
in. “Not a major assignment.”
We are meeting at the Grestes’
townhouse, a lived-in home with
books on sideboards. On December 29,
2013, Lois and Juris were sitting down
here for dinner in the soft flickering
light of hurricane lamps and candles
when the phone call came. The
evening was shattered. Peter had been
arrested and was in prison in Cairo.
“The news came like a bolt of
lightning, sharp and fearsome,” Lois
would write in a book penned by the

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 Peter’s ordeal changed the entire
Greste family as they fought for
his freedom. Opposite: Lois and
Juris with their three sons;
as a correspondent Peter visited
the world’s political hotspots.

a decision that Peter would always

have a family member in Cairo – not
only for personal morale but also to
show Egypt their unflagging support.
The brothers would take leave from
– Lois Greste their jobs – Andrew as a farmer and
Mike as a forensics officer with the
it becomes survivable,” Peter says. charges, says Peter, were so ridiculous Queensland Police. They all knew that
Vipassana gave him the ability to deal that he was initially sure they would be people without support could and did
with a “lot of really toxic emotions dismissed within a day. Soon, it became disappear into the system. Peter’s
that often bubble in those types of clear that he was a political prisoner. family was not going to let that happen.
environments … One of the things This was a delicate situation: The “I was blown away by the level of
was accepting that this is the reality Grestes couldn’t risk offending the commitment and devotion the family
I have to deal with.” Egyptian government, which held all showed sticking with it as long as they
He kept this up over 400 days. the cards and, more importantly, did, never walking away,” Peter says.
held Peter. His life depended on it. The fortnightly 45-minute prison
eter, his Egyptian-born Aware that Peter was what visits could be fraught, with so little
Canadian producer Mohamed his brother Andrew would call time and so much to download. If
Fahmy, and their colleague, the “a small piece in the chess game of there was a misunderstanding or
Egyptian journalist Baher Mohamed, international relations”, the entire disagreement, they had to stew on it
had been charged with being members family was on edge. “Every second for two weeks. They would smuggle out
of a terrorist organisation; financing of every day, we were conscious of letters Peter had written on toilet paper.
a terrorist organisation; supporting a the fact that anything we did could Lois and Juris spent long periods of
terrorist organisation and knowingly possibly negatively affect the whole time in Cairo, battling the dirt, dust
broadcasting false information to outcome,” Juris explains. and decay. They had to find a lawyer
“spread fear and discontent”. The From the beginning, the family made in a culture that was fundamentally

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different from anything they knew – a In prison, Peter grew herbs from strike – he was told he was leaving.
different language, an “alien system seeds brought by his uncle Ojar, he He didn’t know it then, but President
of government,” says Juris. “And, dare cooked and studied for a Master’s el-Sisi had granted a presidential
I say it, a highly corrupt legal system.” degree in international relations. decree. He felt conflicted, disoriented
Many lawyers were too scared of the “He made a little lamb roast,” says and agonised about leaving his
government to take the case on. Lois, to share with his prison friends. colleagues behind. (Fahmy and
The next year would be one of dashed He thought and wrote about media Mohamed would be released by
hopes and crushing disappointments. freedom. Making sourdough was presidential decree seven months later.)
While Peter was sure his charges would “symbolic”, Peter says. “It’s a living, A huge crowd was waiting to greet
be thrown out at trial for lack of breathing thing. It occupied us. Peter when he arrived in Brisbane at
evidence, instead it was a chaotic sham, I wanted to do things that would stretch 2am on February 5, 2015.
pure theatre with the defendants in the boundaries, that prison authorities “I thought there will be one or two
cages as if they were dangerous terrorists. would struggle to deny without seeming insomniac photographers and maybe
To the Grestes’ horror, the trio was ridiculously petty and stupid.” morning news breakfast shows might
convicted and sentenced to seven years. Warm slices of sourdough were also send a crew,” he says, still in disbelief.
“That was the lowest point,” says Lois. handy to bribe the guards with. “But there were literally hundreds of
“I know this might sound people. I didn’t understand how big it
counterintuitive, but I learned to t the end of January 2015, one was, I really didn’t.”
give up on hope,” Peter explains. “At year and one month after his When it ended as suddenly as it
each point, that hope being dashed arrest – as Peter and other had started, Lois says, she briefly felt
becomes really crippling because hope prisoners were about to go on a hunger “deflated”. “It was only a moment,”
is the cross-your-fingers strategy.
You recognise that all you can deal
with is what’s in front of you.”
However, the international outcry was
loud and clear. Barack Obama advocated
for Peter in a meeting with Egyptian
President Abdel Fattah el-Sisi at the
United Nations, British Prime Minister
– Peter Greste
David Cameron spoke out in the UK.
Australia’s Foreign Minister, Julie Bishop,
was indefatigable. Across the world,
fellow journalists, human rights activists,
Amnesty International, the United
Nations, politicians and citizens were
voicing their outrage. Peter’s friends
in Nairobi started the zipped lips
campaign, taping their mouths shut
and photographing it. It went viral.
“It was all over the world, even the
Philippines and Kabul,” Peter marvels.
Yet, as Lois says in the book, “Peter
was still in prison.”
Difficult decisions had to be
made on a daily basis. There were
disagreements on strategy, heated
Skype exchanges. The strain was
wearing the whole family down.
One call ended in “tears, grief and
confusion, with a lot of unresolved
tension. Distance was aggravating The campaign to free Peter had
every conflict,” Juris recalls. been all-consuming for his parents.
Opposite: Richard Roxburgh as Peter
“At times,” agrees Lois, “we were
in The Correspondent; John Bell as
extremely short with each other.” Juris and Anna Volska as Lois in
But they couldn’t let these abrasions a prison scene from the film.
get in the way of the main game.

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 she adds hastily. The campaign had I kept one eye on going abroad until it London, and held vigils outside
been all-consuming. just didn’t make sense.” Downing Street. A young, charismatic
“The whole focus for the family was But he found new meaning and activist, Alaa had called to Peter when
this, and all of a sudden it stops,” purpose. He wrote his first book in he was in solitary saying, “It’s okay,
Peter explains. “There really was no 2018, The First Casualty. you’re with friends here.” Alaa had
preparation at either end.” “One of the reasons I wrote the book helped him survive. Now, even though
Peter’s life in Kenya and his work as was to say that what happened to us he had finished his sentence last
a foreign correspondent was over. He was an emblematic example of what September, Alaa is still in Tora prison.
remains a convicted criminal with an has been happening to journalism all Peter is now a professor of
outstanding sentence to serve. over the world,” Peter says. journalism at Macquarie University.
“As far as the Egyptian judicial Now there is a film about Peter’s He advocates for media freedom.
system is concerned I am on the run, time in prison – The Correspondent, “People assume that trauma means
evading justice and there is a prison based on the book of the same name the same as damage. I don’t think that
cell waiting for me in Egypt if I ever that Peter penned about his experience. is necessarily true. I think in a lot of
set foot in a country that has an Making a film about a man trapped ways it has made the family stronger.”
in a concrete box takes an For Lois, it took a little while to
actor like Richard Roxburgh reorient after all the excitement.
who can show what “But our lives are pretty full. Grandkids
was happening to Peter started to be in Brisbane which they
internally. The frustration, hadn’t before because they were at
the boredom, the anger that school. It is just a natural process of
he is not out there living weddings and family things.”
the life he had so enjoyed. Juris believes they were able to work
The injustice. together on such a huge campaign
Peter says he was “because we have always thought of
“weirded out” about the ourselves as a family rather than as
film in the beginning. a group of individuals”.
“Until I realised I was trying Peter agrees. “We’ve got a long
to identify too much with history of working together. One of
what was happening on the things I remember is that Mum
screen. And inevitably there and Dad bought a small, 20-foot yacht
are some deviations but on Pittwater. You can’t sail a boat
those are minor. I was very unless you work together as a crew.
invested until I realised When we came to Brisbane, we went
that it’s not about me any on quite a few long-distance camping
longer. I recognise that trips. We’d load up the gear and drive
there has been a whole to Cairns, or Broken Hill, down to
extradition treaty with Egypt. series of layers of creative processes Adelaide. You have to work together
In any politically unstable added onto the book I wrote. The as a family to make those things work.”
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country, you just need one story I wrote is no longer mine. And “Every one of us went to pieces at
arsehole and it is all on.” now I can see it in a much more some stage,” says Andrew in Freeing
He admits he misses the detached way.” Peter, “but there was always another
adrenaline, the importance He and Richard talked and texted person to pick us up.”
of the stories he was covering before and during the film. “His Now, looking back down the years,
“every single day”. performance is fantastic. What Peter says, “It had taken this crisis for
“I couldn’t really visualise matters is that it is a fantastic thriller, me to finally see the family love that
what my life would be like a brilliant piece of filmmaking.” had always been there. I had lived so
without being a correspondent He is pleased that it starts, he says, selfishly for so long, and it was incredible
and I couldn’t work as a “the conversations” about the things to find that their love was so steadfast.”
correspondent from Brisbane. that matter to him. “About the As he says in Freeing Peter: “We fought,
But that job I pined for doesn’t injustice of arbitrary detention, the struggled, argued and ultimately loved
exist any longer – that world love and strength of family, and our way through the ordeal, and in the
has largely changed.” media freedom issues.” end we all came out better for it. Normal
Still, he wasn’t quite ready In January, Peter and Laila Soueif, family life, in other words.” AWW
to give up his old life. “That the mother of Alaa Abd el-Fattah,
took a long time to get past. went on a 21-day hunger strike in The Correspondent is in cinemas now.

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until I retired from soccer at the age of 30.

Back in 2015, I sat at my office desk in London thinking,
“I can’t do this job forever. It’s just not for me, it doesn’t
When athlete Fran Hurndall light me up.” I realised I wasn’t meant to be there, got the
travel bug and booked a one-way ticket. Not running away
learnt her sister had lived through from anything, wanting to see the world.
domestic violence, she set out to I left the UK with just a backpack, landed in Brisbane
and absolutely loved it. Australia is so outdoorsy, and
raise $1 million for survivors. that’s my thing. I’ve been over here for 10 years, which is
why I only found out last year that my younger sister had
ust kicking a soccer ball and trying to score a goal, been in an abusive relationship.
over and over again in my family’s garden – that’s She was really suffering, trying to bring up her little boy,
how it started. I was always outside playing and who’s six now. She’d tell us she had tripped, or walked into
practising, from the age of five or six, in my little a door – things like that – so we didn’t think too much of it
Manchester United kit. at first.
There were four of us kids, three sisters and a As a family, we’d never been exposed to domestic
brother, but I was the odd one out, the only one who played violence. I had such a loving childhood with no bad
sports. Growing up in Essex, on the outskirts of London, memories at all and enjoyed every moment.
I picked up football way before women’s sport became My sister didn’t feel able to admit what was going on
a big thing. but obviously, the evidence mounted.
One day Dad said to Mum, “You know, I think Fran’s got For a while, they all lived in our family home and my
some talent. We should get her into a team.” brother copped a lot. The neighbours would hear cries for
I had to play with boys until I was 11, but it all help and call my dad, except he wasn’t around. My parents
kicked off from there. I was scouted by Arsenal at 13, were divorced in 2020, and all this went on while my mum
represented England by 15 and had an amazing career was out working to keep a roof over everyone’s heads.

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 them they can rise to any challenge and make a difference.
That’s why I dribbled a soccer ball 1000km from the Gold
Coast to Sydney – something that had never been done by a
woman before – during the FIFA Women’s World Cup in 2023.
It took 32 days and earned me a Guinness World Record and
a nomination for the FIFA Fan Award. All the money I raised
went straight back into grassroots women’s sport.
Back then, I’d only recently taken up long-distance
So she’s been through a really traumatic experience too. running, but I’m one of those annoying people who has the
At first, there were some stories I only told my partner, athletic ability to fit into just about any sport. I really love
Natalie, and Nicolle Edwards, the founder of RizeUp running, the routine and the discipline, so it’s replaced
Australia, a charity that supports people affected by football for me.
domestic and family violence. But I think it’s important to I’ve been training full-time for the Reach Out Speak Up
make it public. Domestic violence has these little tentacles challenge which starts at Perth’s Cottesloe Beach on May 1.
that affect everyone in a family. When it’s your own flesh People ask me but no, I won’t be dribbling a ball this time!
and blood, it runs so deep. You’re not sure what to do. The idea is to complete the 3800km in under 40 days –
My older sister is currently staying with our mum, something no woman has ever attempted – so for me
but they’re in the UK and I’m here in Australia, living it still ties in with advocating for women and inspiring
at Airlie Beach in Queensland. I’ve had to lodge long- people to do extraordinary things. We can do anything
distance police reports. It’s so heavy and I think that’s we set our minds to.
why it doesn’t get talked about enough. Even so, it’s a big operation. There are five of us confirmed
Learning what my sister had been through fuelled to go: Me plus my partner, a content creator and two
me with so much passion and fire to speak up, spark chiropractors to keep my body together. I reckon I’ll get
change and make an impact. I decided I had to do through at least 12 pairs of shoes. It will just be run,
something to break the silence surrounding family pull up into the
and domestic violence. motorhome, eat,
So I set myself my biggest challenge yet. sleep and do it all
This May (Domestic and Family Violence Prevention again the next day.
Month) I will run 3800 kilometres from Perth to Sydney. The stress my body’s
I’m calling it the Reach Out Speak Up Run, and I want going through has
to raise $1 million for RizeUp to help survivors of family already been
and domestic violence. Right: Fran dribbled a soccer
challenging. Also the
I’m hoping to create a ripple distance from my
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ball 1000km to raise money

effect of awareness and support, for women’s sports. Below: family creates a lot
and be a beacon of hope for Fran with her mum (left) and of heartache because
people experiencing DV. sister (right), who inspired I’m not there to help
her fundraising run.
You talk about your purpose them and obviously
and your why – it’s so strong for I can’t go home at the
me. The cause is deeply personal. moment. But I feel in
When you think about it, such a privileged place
running 110km a day is nothing because I’m able to give my sister a
compared to being in a domestic voice and help her heal in some way
violence relationship and the as well.
pain that comes from that. I’m just grateful to be able to do
It’s such a tricky time, trying to this for the charity and for all those
navigate my own life, support my silenced by fear and abuse. I can’t
family from here and train for wait to run the distance and break
the run. But every day I tell the silence across Australia. AWW
myself I’m right where I’m
meant to be. As a footballer, To donate to Fran and support RizeUp,
now full-time athlete, I know visit reachoutspeakupchallenge.com.au
extraordinary things come from
pushing beyond your comfort If you or someone you know needs
zone and getting out of your own help, call 1800RESPECT or 1800 737
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 Humour

When it comes to
trying to keep the linen
cupboard organised, it’s
often a case of three sheets
(and a few pillowcases)
to the wind.

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like to think I’m half smart. I’ve raised four kids, had trying to run back to the shop where things were neat and
some okay jobs, done a bit of travel and won a few blue tidy. You may recall that I put a lock on the door to stop
ribbons for baking. I’ve purchased a house, read lots the overuse of towels, and this worked for a while. But then
of books, met stacks of interesting people, collected another problem arose when I was asked to unlock it
some nice friends, organised large family events 87,000 times a day.
and done some fundraising. My life has been full I’ve tried keeping the sets together by folding the sheets
and most of the things that I’ve wanted to achieve I’ve and doona all together into the fitted one. I saw this on a
been able to. “how to organise your linen press” tutorial. Yes, they really
But there’s one thing I’ve longed for that I’ve never exist. But then when I unwrapped the linen cocoon, I’d
managed to grasp. I’ve gone to great lengths – I’ve watched noticed that one kid had taken a pillowslip, another the
online tutorials, and I’ve read brochures. I’ve talked to people top sheet. So I was left with one pillowcase and a fitted
who have managed it and even had some of them try to help sheet. This did not give my bed the “Shaynna Blaze for
me. But no matter how hard I try, how hard I work and how Harris Scarfe” feels.
much I want it, I just can’t get an organised linen press. A friend suggested that I buy those lovely “bedding
Sigh. cubes”. You put everything that matches into a tiny box
Bed linen is my secret pleasure. When I’m feeling out and label it in your best Meghan Markle-style fancy
of control or want to gee myself up, I go and put on writing, then file them. Only problem: When I got the
some fresh linen. Bamboo sheets, matching pillowcases boxes home, my bedding was too fat for them, and I was
and a coordinated doona cover. A fresh bed makes me feel left trying to stuff it all in. This triggered a deep memory
that I’ve got my life sorted, no matter how dysfunctional from the late ’80s of trying to stuff myself into tight jeans.
it actually is. I like buying bedding “ensembles” – usually T’was humiliating as I’d had the jeans on lay-by for weeks, ILLUSTRATION BY BRENT WILSON/THE ILLUSTRATION ROOM.

the ones they have on display in the shops – except I forgo convinced they were going to seal the deal with the bloke
the 28 throw cushions. Life’s too short for regrets, peeling at the local petrol station. There were sparks when he
carrots and arranging throw cushions. asked if he could “fill up” my red Nissan Pulsar. Sparks.
My linen journey starts well. I get my “set” home, give But it was only the sparks from my thighs rubbing
it a wash and line dry. (I love my biscuits, gin and sheets together, my recent discovery of coffee scrolls causing
crisp.) I put them on for that first sleep and the joy is something of a blowout.
overwhelming. But it goes pear-shaped when they go Sigh.
into the wash again. Like socks, they separate from their I stared at my messy cupboard filled with chubby,
partners and then get mixed up in my source of domestic mismatched linen. I poured myself a crisp gin and decided
horror – the linen press. that I’d just have to work with it. I’d created the messy kids
This double-door, multi-shelved cupboard is the bane of who’d created the messy cupboard in my messy, messy life.
my life. It’s a disaster. I need to wear a crash helmet each It was my lot, it was my bed, I just had to lie in it – even
time I open it as manchester jumps out at me like it’s if the linen was horribly mismatched. AWW

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WO R D S b y L AY N E B E AC H L E Y

Transitioning to life
after surfing wasn’t
easy, but Layne
Beachley says one
two-letter word
helped her navigate
it – and can help
others too.
 resh out of high school, boundaries and sacrificed my health. and demanded they come on board.
I joined the professional Unsurprisingly, I ended up with This was unsustainable and
surfing tour. For 20 years serious health concerns including completely unacceptable behaviour
I defined myself as a pneumonia, blood in my stools – my loved ones deserved better,
professional athlete, and adrenal exhaustion, as well and so did my health.
following the endless as strained relationships. Something had to change, and it
summer of the pro tour. During that had to start with me. I sought out a
time, surfing, training and travelling mentor to help me understand why
were my main priorities. These I was constantly driving myself into
priorities made my decisions for me, This fear of saying no resulted in the ground, and to teach me how to
because my time was focused solely prolonged pain and suffering because make decisions from a place of love
on being a strong, healthy and my choices were being made from for me instead of out of the fear of
confident competitor. A clear fear – a fear of letting people down, saying no. The decision-making
direction simplifies the process. resulting in feelings of rejection; framework she taught me has been
When I retired from the pro an absolute game-changer.
tour, that purpose was lost. Setting boundaries asserts
With it, I lost my sense of your self-worth, and they need
community, direction and to be clearly communicated.
identity; my sense of self. I’m a glass-half-full kind of
Without any set routine or girl, often viewing the world
structure to use as a barrier or through rose-tinted glasses
reasonable excuse, I found it and looking for the silver lining
very challenging to say no to in every cloud. My optimism
things without feeling guilty. and positivity can be grating
To avoid the discomfort of on some people, and is
guilt, I said yes to every occasionally judged as naïve
opportunity presented to me. or just bloody annoying.
I was hoping to find my next
passion or project to establish a clear
course of direction and a new sense
of purpose. Hope is not a plan, and
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I rarely use the word or rely on it

as a compass because, in my life, it
has become an acronym – Heaps Of
Plausible Excuses.
So the fact I was hoping was a red a scarcity mentality stemming
flag indicating I was well off course. from the belief that I would only
As a result, I was working long days be relevant for so long; and
and late nights and attending far expectations predominantly unspoken Communicating our needs is the most
too many events and functions, or projected by me onto others. effective way to avoid resentment,
determined to fulfil everyone’s I saved the most energetic version frustration and disappointment, and
expectations of me. of myself for people who barely knew a big part of this is knowing what’s
These expectations weren’t ever me, ultimately placing my self-worth important to you and being sure to
expressed by anyone – I had placed and self-esteem in the hands of communicate it – in other words, setting
them on myself. I wasn’t willing to let strangers. As a result, I always shared boundaries. How do we establish and
go of being the star of the show, the the most depleted and exhausted enforce a new boundary? By tuning in
shiny thing, the best in the world. version of myself with the people who to how we feel, which then fuels our
Being busy reinforced my need to love me the most. confidence to say either “hell yeah” or
be accepted, wanted and desired by How often do you find yourself “f no”. This is true in our day-to-day
people (the opposite of rejection) so bringing energy and enthusiasm to relationships as much as it is for new
I continued to say yes, turn up, turn everyone else but your loved ones? opportunities. The responses “hell yeah”
on and perform. Worse still, I expected my loved and “f no” have become my internal
During this phase I compromised ones to tolerate it. I resorted to stories compass and accountability partners
my values, dissolved my personal and excuses to justify my decisions to maintaining my energy for life.

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 Self-care
When big life changes present
themselves, this can be a testing time
for personal boundaries. At these times,
it’s important to allow your wisdom to
guide you to the most compassionate
and courageous response.
Take a deep breath, sit for a moment
and tune in to how the idea is making
you feel. Do you feel excited, curious
or expansive? Or are you lacking
enthusiasm, or feeling uncertain,
drained or restricted?
Every situation is different, so tune
in to your thoughts and connect with
your heart by taking a deep breath and
asking yourself, “Does this opportunity
light me up?” If yes, it’s a “hell yeah!”
– go for it before the monkey mind or
the worm gets involved and starts
suggesting the opposite. Alternatively,
if your response includes the words
“I could”, “I should” or “I would”, then
it’s a “f no!” Simple.
Occasionally, responses land between
the two options – it’s neither a “hell
yeah” or a “f no”. In these scenarios
I either request more information,
base my decision on my current
This is not defined by the car we drive but rather how we show up in the schedule/ energy levels, or give it the
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And through small daily actions, you can enhance your own happiness
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these activities as essential to providing a safe, nourishing environment for Beachley AO and
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 Heart health

Cholesterol contributes to almost one

in four Australian deaths. Experts say it’s
time we took our levels more seriously.
or many, when our doctor
WO R D S b y A S H L E I G H AU S T E N
warns that our cholesterol
is on the higher side, we
half-heartedly promise to
cut down on dessert and With around 2.1 million Australians cholesterol around in the bloodstream.
go easy on the bacon. diagnosed with high cholesterol, it’s There are two main types: Low-density
However, it usually slips down our clearly having a significant impact on lipoprotein (LDL), often called
priority list, becoming a humorous our health. High cholesterol is one of “bad cholesterol”, and high-density
point of contention when our partner the leading risk factors for heart attack lipoprotein (HDL), known as “good
gives us a knowing look as we reach and stroke, yet it often comes with no cholesterol”. LDL cholesterol contributes
for the ice-cream after dinner. warning signs. Dubbed the “silent to plaque build-up in the arteries,

ADOBE STOCK. THE ADVICE IN THIS ARTICLE IS GENERAL IN NATURE AND

While we try to adopt healthier killer”, it plays a critical role in heart increasing the risk of heart disease,
habits to lower cholesterol levels, the disease, which accounts for almost while HDL cholesterol helps remove

DOES NOT TAKE INDIVIDUAL CIRCUMSTANCES INTO ACCOUNT.

fact it has no noticeable symptoms a quarter of all deaths in Australia. excess cholesterol from the bloodstream.
makes it easier to ignore. Even when “Cardiovascular disease is the number Having too much LDL cholesterol
your cholesterol is high, you can feel one killer in Australia and around the in the blood can lead to a condition
perfectly fine, leading to a perception world. Making small improvements to called atherosclerosis, where fatty
that it isn’t a significant health our cholesterol could save many lives, deposits narrow and harden the
concern – that is, until a major event so having it well under control is arteries, making it harder for blood
like a heart attack happens. important,” Professor Kovacic says. to flow through. This increases the
“Cholesterol that’s marginally over risk of cardiovascular events like
the upper limit might not seem like a heart attacks and strokes. The goal
big deal, but we’re often exposed to those Cholesterol itself isn’t the villain – it’s is to keep LDL levels low while
increased levels for decades, and that an essential fatty substance we need to maintaining higher levels of HDL.
can have a profound effect on our heart build cells and produce hormones. The Further complicating things, there is
health,” explains cardiologist and CEO trouble starts when levels get imbalanced. a third type of particle thats important
of the Victor Chang Cardiac Research We know water and fats don’t mix, to know about, called lipoprotein(a), or
Institute, Professor Jason Kovacic. so our body needs a way to transport Lp(a). Similar to LDL, it leads to plaque

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build-up in arteries, but unlike LDL, it’s researcher Professor Stephen Nicholls. improve cholesterol levels and overall
genetic, which means diet and exercise Because high cholesterol doesn’t heart health. Stopping smoking and
have no effect. cause obvious symptoms, he says reducing alcohol intake can also help
Research around treating it is still in regular testing is essential. A simple rebalance cholesterol levels and
its infancy, but Professor Kovacic says blood test, known as a lipid panel, improve cardiovascular function.
that’s about to change, with clinical measures cholesterol levels and can For some, lifestyle changes alone
trials for treatments in the final give a clear picture of whether aren’t enough. Medications such as
stages. “It’s not often measured in intervention is needed. statins are commonly prescribed to
patients, but it is a powerful indicator Doctors recommend that adults lower LDL cholesterol and have been
of heart attack and stroke.” over the age of 45 have their shown to significantly reduce the risk
cholesterol checked every five years. of heart attack and stroke.
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander “Diet and exercise are important for
people, who are at higher risk, should treating a number of risk factors, but
Cholesterol levels are influenced by begin testing from age 35. the degree to which they will lower
a mix of genetics and lifestyle factors. Those with a family history of high cholesterol levels is typically modest,
Some people inherit genes that cause cholesterol or heart disease should and for many patients, that won’t be
very high cholesterol levels – a condition be tested earlier and more frequently. enough by itself, so it becomes a
known as familial hypercholesterolemia If you have additional risk factors, combination of lifestyle modifications
(FH), which affects about one in 250 such as high blood and medications,”
Australians. Those with FH have high pressure, diabetes, says Professor
cholesterol levels from birth and often or obesity, you may G o i n g D OW N Nicholls.
require medical intervention to keep require annual Statins work
them under control. cholesterol checks by blocking an
However, for many, lifestyle habits to ensure your enzyme in the liver
are the main culprit. Our modern diets levels remain in that produces
– which are often high in saturated and a safe range. cholesterol, and
trans fats found in fried foods, processed are highly effective,
meats, and baked goods – contribute though some
significantly to rising cholesterol levels. Making small changes to patients experience
Sedentary lifestyles also play a role, The good news is your lifestyle is a great place side effects such as
with a lack of physical activity making that cholesterol to start to positively influence muscle pain or
cholesterol levels.
it harder for the body to process and levels can be digestive issues.
eliminate excess cholesterol. improved, often EAT MORE FIBRE Other medication
Soluble fibre found in oats,
Beyond diet and exercise, excessive through a options include
beans, and lentils helps lower
alcohol consumption and smoking combination of Ezetimibe, which
LDL cholesterol.
are also major contributors to high lifestyle changes and reduces cholesterol
CHOOSE HEALTHY FATS
cholesterol. Alcohol can increase medical treatments. absorption in the
Swap butter for olive oil
triglycerides, another type of fat in the A diet rich in fibre, intestine, and
and processed snacks for
blood, while smoking lowers levels of particularly soluble nuts or avocado. PCSK9 inhibitors,
HDL cholesterol, making it harder for the fibre found in oats, injectable drugs
MOVE MORE
body to get rid of the “bad” cholesterol. beans, lentils, and Physical activity, like a daily
that can lower
Australia’s growing rates of obesity flaxseeds, can 30-minute walk, can improve LDL levels but are
and type 2 diabetes also have a direct help reduce LDL cholesterol levels. more expensive
link to high cholesterol, creating a cholesterol. Healthy QUIT SMOKING and less commonly
perfect storm for cardiovascular fats, such as those Giving up cigarettes boosts prescribed.
disease. Many don’t realise that even in olive oil, nuts, HDL cholesterol and improves “The future
if they feel healthy and don’t have and avocado, are overall heart health. is bright for
obvious symptoms, their cholesterol beneficial, while CUT BACK ON ALCOHOL patients with high
levels could still be dangerously high. cutting back on Too much alcohol can raise cholesterol levels,”
“We can’t treat high cholesterol processed foods, fast triglycerides, increasing Professor Nicholls
levels if we don’t know if they are food and sugar can cardiovascular risk. says. “We now have
high. We still don’t test enough. Every make a difference. WATCH YOUR WEIGHT multiple options
adult should know their numbers by Regular exercise is Maintaining a healthy which give patients
having their cholesterol and blood another key factor, weight reduces the strain on a choice on how
pressure measured. That starts with a with just 30 minutes your heart and improves to best lower their
conversation with your doctor,” explains of moderate activity cholesterol levels. risk of heart disease
cardiologist and Monash University a day shown to and stroke.” AWW

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 Mind matters

From a sore back to fear of public

speaking, could hypnotherapy be the answer
to overcoming anxiety and chronic pain?

WO R D S b y E VA- M A R I A B O B B E R T
 didn’t know quite what to real than reality,” says Lyn. cancer patients (particularly paediatric
expect but it wasn’t exactly “Hypnotherapy doesn’t wipe out patients who experienced procedure-
this: Reclined on a couch, trauma, but it creates a different related stress). Numerous studies
tucked beneath a fluffy blanket, visceral response to a trigger so have shown it to be effective for
I’m visualising myself in a place that your body and mind react in a physical pain too, particularly irritable
that fills me with joy. It’s not different way. You can’t talk your way bowel syndrome, migraines and
that I was expecting clock through that process, you have to headaches. A 2018 study found that
swinging or party tricks but this delve into the unconscious mind.” hypnotherapy is an effective way to
feels more like I’m drifting off for a treat back pain. It has even been
power nap in the presence of a stranger shown to effectively manage pain and
– a little awkward at first but, as I Most commonly clients turn to anxiety associated with colonoscopies
listen to her voice and focus on the hypnotherapy to help overcome and some types of surgery.
details of my daydream, I get swept up
in the moment in much the same way
I might get lost in a good book or film.
Essentially, I’m slipping into a flow
state, which is really an induction
process that serves a specific purpose:
To silence the conscious, thinking mind
– the brain babble, as hypnotherapist
Lyn Macpherson likes to call it – so that
you become absorbed in the moment.
The more immersed you become in
the visualisation, the more real it – Lyn Macpherson, hypnotherapist
seems. This state of deep relaxation is
important because it’s when your brain addiction, stuttering, phobias, A Macquarie University study
is more open to suggestion, whether chronic back pain and anxiety. found that hypnosis can help patients
that is letting go of a past experience Lyn gives the example of stage overcome ingrained behaviour that
or visualising a solution to a problem. fright, something that commonly is usually outside of conscious
“You are the boss of your own mind, triggers anxiety. Hypnotherapy, she control, something that surprised
I can’t make you do anything you says, can help the brain recalibrate even the researchers.
don’t want to,” says Lyn, who has a the emotion attached to the thought
government-accredited Diploma of of public speaking. “You might feel
Clinical Hypnotherapy and is founder anxious, you might even get palpitations Whether you are dealing with a physical
of Harmony Hypnotherapy in Sydney’s or dizziness. It’s your unconscious or emotional pain, the process of
Mosman. “But if people want change mind trying to tell you that this is retraining the brain not to respond
they can generate just about anything something that matters to you. But negatively to old triggers is much the
if they learn to drive the powerhouse instead of feeling stress or anxiety, same. Lyn explains it like this: “Imagine
that is their unconscious mind ... that you can teach your brain to interpret a pathway through dense bush that is
part of you that speaks to you in those sensory cues as enabling and well worn as it has been walked many
feelings, metaphors, pictures, dreams exciting rather than paralysing.” times – you’re likely to always take
and other forms of language.” the existing path rather than go to the
All hypnotherapy effort to forge a new one. Your brain
requires from patients does this with neurological pathways
is a reasonable level too. What we need to do is generate
of suggestibility a pattern interrupt and create a new
(which around two- There is some neurological pathway ... Once you stop
thirds of adults have). science to back up walking down the old path it grows over.
That doesn’t equate the effectiveness But it does require the client to be
If you’re considering
to being gullible, hypnotherapy, be aware that
of hypnotherapy consciously invested in the process.”
but it does require it is a self-regulated industry as an anti-anxiety That means you can likely expect
STOCKSY. UNSPLASH.

imagination. in Australia, guided by the strategy. A 2017 to walk out with some homework to
“If you are able to Hypnotherapy Council of meta-analysis of do, such as breathing exercises or
imagine something Australia and the Australian 20 studies found that visualisations. Your mind, it turns out,
viscerally at a sensory Hypnotherapists’ Association. it had a significant needs regular maintenance as much
level it becomes more effect on anxiety in as your body does. AWW

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 RECIPES AND INSPIRATION from Australia’s most trusted Test Kitchen
PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOHN PAUL URIZAR. STYLING BY MICHELE CRANSTON.
PHOTOCHEF: CLARE MAGUIRE. RECIPE: JESSICA BROOK.

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Citrus delights, including this Quick-mix lemon ricotta cake, Test Kitchen
shortcuts, and brand new recipes from Jamie Oliver, Julie Goodwin and
others. For more lemon dishes head to womensweeklyfood.com.au
 In season

For most avid cooks, lemons are a staple and an ingredient we

certainly can’t do without in the Test Kitchen. This month we
share sweet and savoury dishes with a citrussy burst that will
have you happily zesting and juicing to you heart’s content!

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 PG

Lemon chilli
pasta with
crispy crumbs
PHOTOCHEF CLARE MAGUIRE. RECIPES JESSICA BROOK.

Test Kitchen
For an extra salty kick, add 3
or 4 finely chopped anchovies
when adding the garlic.
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One pan
creamy lemon
chicken

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 In season

For a tender, delicate crumb, it’s

important not to overmix the ricotta
and eggs. Don’t be alarmed by
the cake’s tendency to dip ever so
slightly in the centre. It gives it a
slightly rustic appearance. Serve with
a dollop of thick cream, if you like.

PG

Quick-mix
lemon ricotta
cake

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 In season
One pan creamy lemon Lemon chilli pasta with Greek-style lemon
chicken crispy crumbs chicken rice with fetta
SERVES 4 PREP + COOK TIME 30 MINUTES SERVES 4 PREP + COOK TIME SERVES 4 PREP + COOK TIME 50 MINUTES
30 MINUTES (+ RESTING TIME)
1 teaspoon smoked paprika powder
2 tablespoons plain flour 400g spaghetti 8 large chicken thigh fillets
4 chicken breast fillets 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 1 teaspoon Greek dried oregano
40g butter 1 lemon, thinly sliced and seeds removed 1 teaspoon finely grated lemon rind
2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 60g unsalted butter 4 cloves garlic, crushed
4 cloves garlic, sliced thinly 4 cloves garlic, crushed 2 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil
3/4 (180ml) cup chicken stock 2 tablespoons baby capers 1 large (300g) brown onion, chopped
300ml thickened cream ¼ teaspoon dried chilli flakes finely
150g green beans, trimmed ¼ cup finely chopped flat leaf parsley 1½ cups (300g) long grain rice
120g baby spinach leaves lemon wedges, to serve 2½ cups (ml) chicken stock
1/2 cup (40g) finely grated parmesan, CRISPY CRUMBS 1/3 cup (80ml) lemon juice
plus extra to serve 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil, extra ¾ cup (120g) pitted kalamata olives,
1/4 cup (60ml) lemon juice 1 clove garlic, crushed halved
1 teaspoon finely grated lemon rind ½ cup (35g) panko breadcrumbs 2 tablespoons fresh oregano leaves,
2 tablespoons finely grated parmesan to serve
1 Combine smoked paprika and flour in 100g Greek-style fetta crumbled,
a shallow bowl. Season with salt and 1 Cook pasta in a large pan of well- to serve
pepper. Add chicken breasts and dust salted boiling water until al dente. lemon wedges, to serve
well to coat. Drain, reserving ½ cup (125ml) pasta
2 Heat butter and oil in a large frying pan cooking water and keep warm. 1 Preheat oven to 180°C (160°
over medium high heat. Cook the chicken 2 CRISPY CRUMBS Heat oil in a large fan-forced). Combine chicken, dried
for 3 minutes each side or until golden, frying pan over medium heat. Add the oregano, lemon rind and garlic in a
but not yet cooked all the way through. garlic and panko crumbs and cook, small bowl. Toss well to coat and set
Remove and set aside. stirring for 3-4 minutes, or until deep aside to marinate for 10 minutes or
3 Add the garlic and cook, stirring, until golden. Add the parmesan, season overnight if you have time.
just fragrant. Add the stock, cream and with salt and pepper and stir to 2 Heat oil in a large shallow
green beans and bring to a simmer. combine. Take off heat; set aside. casserole pan over medium heat.
Return chicken to the pan. Reduce heat 3 Meanwhile, heat oil in the same Add chicken and cook for 4 minutes
to medium low; cook for 8-10 minutes, or frying pan over medium heat. Add each side, until golden. Transfer to
until chicken is tender and cooked through. lemon slices, season with salt and a plate and set aside.
4 Remove the chicken and add the pepper and cook for 3-4 minutes, 3 Add onion and cook for 6-8
spinach, parmesan and lemon rind and turning occasionally or until lightly minutes, stirring until softened and
juice; cook, stirring until spinach starts caramelised. Remove from the pan golden. Add the rice and stir to
to wilt. Return the chicken and serve. and when cool enough to handle chop combine, then the stock and lemon
two-thirds of the lemon slices juice. Place chicken back on top of
finely, reserving remaining the rice.
slices for garnishing. 4 Bring to a simmer, cover with a lid.
4 Return the pan to low Place in the oven and bake for 30
heat. Add the butter, garlic, minutes, until rice is tender. Set
capers, chilli flakes and aside, covered, for 10 minutes.
the finely chopped lemon, 5 Sprinkle over the olives and
cook for 1-2 minutes or oregano and fluff with a fork.
until garlic is fragrant Serve with fetta and lemon wedges.
and tender.
5 Add pasta water and pasta
After slicing and toss to combine. Add
thinly, season parsley and season well.
lemon with Toss to coat in sauce.
salt and 6 Divide pasta between
pepper and
pan fry until
bowls, top with crispy
lemon slices crumbs, remaining lemon
caramelise. slices and lemon wedges.

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 Greek-style
lemon chicken
rice with fetta
 In season
Quick-mix lemon Lemon blueberry loaf with
ricotta cake mascarpone icing overload
SERVES 8-10 PREP + COOK TIME SERVES 8 PREP + COOK TIME 1 HOUR 20 MINUTES
1 HOUR 30 MINUTES Pick lemons that have a smooth
and bright exterior and are heavy 150g salted butter, chopped and softened
melted butter, for greasing for their size. Store on the kitchen 1 cup (220g) caster sugar
1¾ cups (260g) plain flour, plus bench if you intend to use them 2 tablespoons finely grated lemon rind
extra for dusting in a few days or refrigerate in a 2 eggs, room temperature
3 teaspoons baking powder paper bag for up to a month in 2 cups (300g) self-raising flour
the crisper.
¼ teaspoon bicarbonate of soda ½ cup (125ml) sour cream, room temperature
1¼ cups (275g) caster sugar 1 tablespoon lemon juice
2 lemons, rind finely grated 125g blueberries
125g very soft butter (not melted) MASCARPONE ICING
1 cup (240g) fresh firm ricotta 250g mascarpone cream cheese
2 eggs, room temperature 300ml thickened cream
There are two important things
1 teaspoon vanilla extract to remember when removing the 2/3 cup (110g) icing sugar mixture, sifted
¼ cup (60ml) lemon juice rind from a lemon. Wash the 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
¼ cup (60ml) extra virgin olive oil lemon in very hot water to remove finely grated lemon rind, to serve
½ cup (40g) flaked almonds any dirt or coating on the fruit. If
icing sugar, for dusting the recipe calls for both rind and 1 Preheat oven to 180°C (160°C fan-forced).
juice, always remove the rind first. Grease a 23cm x 8.5cm loaf pan, line base and
1 Preheat oven to 180°C (160°C It’s much easier to finely grate a sides with baking paper.
fan-forced). Grease a 22cm spring whole lemon than half a lemon. 2 Beat the butter, sugar and lemon rind in the
form cake pan, dust the base and Our preferred tool is a fine, sharp bowl of an electric stand mixer with a paddle
sides with a little flour, tapping grater, like a microplane, to attachment and beat for 5 minutes until pale
out excess. Line the base with remove the outer yellow rind, and fluffy.
perfect for baking. A zesting tool
a round of baking paper. 3 Add eggs one at a time, beating well after
will remove thin strips of rind,
2 Sift the flour, baking powder each addition. Fold in the flour then sour
more suited to savoury dishes.
and bicarbonate of soda into a The white pith underneath the cream and mix until combined. Stir in the
medium bowl. rind is quite bitter so best to lemon juice and fold in the blueberries. Spoon
3 Add the sugar and lemon rind avoid grating too deeply. into the prepared pan; smooth the top.
to a large bowl. Using a balloon 4 Bake for 1 hour 15 minutes, or until a skewer
whisk, whisk until rind is inserted into the loaf comes out clean. Cool in
dispersed through the sugar. tin for 20 minutes, then turn onto a wire rack
Add the soft butter, whisk until and cool completely.
smooth, creamy and slightly 5 MASCARPONE ICING Combine
lighter in colour. the mascarpone, cream, icing sugar
4 Add the ricotta and whisk and vanilla in the bowl of an
until combined. Add eggs, one electric mixer and beat on medium
at a time, then vanilla and whisk speed for 1 minute or until firm
until smooth. peaks and spreadable.
5 Whisk in the flour mixture 6 Line the same loaf pan with
then the lemon juice and olive baking paper allowing a 4cm
oil, whisk until combined. overhand. Return the cooled cake
6 Spoon into the prepared pan to the pan and spoon the icing
and sprinkle top with almonds. onto the cake. Refrigerate for
Bake for 1 hour or until a skewer 1 hour or until the icing firms up.
inserted comes out clean. 7 To serve, using the overhang
7 Cool in the pan for 15 minutes baking paper, carefully lift the
before removing side of the pan cake out of the pan. smooth the
to cool completely. Dust with side edges and sprinkle with the
icing sugar, and serve with thick lemon rind.
cream, if you like.
Return cake to the
baking-paper lined loaf
pan. Spoon icing onto
the cake and refrigerate.

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If you have a bread tin (22cm x 8.5cm base
measurement), use this to bake and ice the loaf as
it has much higher sides then a traditional loaf pan.
Uniced cake suitable to freeze. To refresh in the oven
after thawing, place in a 160°C oven for 15 minutes or
until warm. Cool completely before icing.

Lemon & blueberry loaf with

marscapone icing overload

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Whether you’re new to

air frying or an expert,
Jamie Oliver’s
latest cookbook,
Easy Air Fryer,
can help to
level up your
cooking.

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Fragrant
chicken in
a bag

P H O T O G R A P H Y b y DAV I D L O F T U S
 SERVES 1 HANDS ON 7 MINUTES COOK 20 MINUTES 1 DRAWER

1 aubergine (eggplant) (250g) 1 Slice the aubergine lengthways 1cm thick, Trim the spring onions, and finely slice with
1 clove of garlic then into long 1cm-wide strips. Remove the the chilli. Click apart the lettuce leaves.
1 pak choi air-fryer shelf, scatter the aubergine into Pick the herb leaves.
1 tbsp unsalted roasted peanuts the drawer and cook for 15 minutes at 200ºC, 4 Drain the noodles and add to the drawer
1 tbsp sweet chilli sauce shaking halfway. with most of the chilli and spring onions,
150g straight-to-wok thick 2 Peel and finely slice the garlic. Quarter the the chilli oil and balsamic. Toss together well,
udon noodles pak choi lengthways. When the time’s up, season to perfection, then tip into a serving
4 spring onions pull out the drawer, scatter in the garlic and bowl. Add the lettuce leaves on the side, scatter
½ a fresh red chilli peanuts, spoon over the sweet chilli sauce, over the remaining chilli and spring onions,
½ a little gem lettuce then shake to coat. Add the pak choi alongside along with the herb leaves, then serve.
2 sprigs of mint or coriander and cook for 5 minutes at 200ºC, or until the
1 tbsp crunchy peanut & sesame aubergine is soft and sticky. ENERGY 461KCAL FAT 13.4G SAT FAT 1.8G
chilli oil 3 In a bowl, cover the noodles with boiling PROTEIN 15.3G CARBS 69.9G SUGARS 24.1G
1 tbsp balsamic vinegar water to soften them, and leave aside. SALT 1.2G FIBRE 11.8G

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Tomato & mozzarella tart

 Simply the best
Cheddar cheese
& chive scones
SERVES 6 HANDS ON 16 MINUTES
COOK 12 MINUTES 1 DRAWER

200g self-raising flour, plus extra

for dusting
1 tsp baking powder
1 tsp English mustard powder
cayenne pepper
75g cold unsalted butter
120g mature Cheddar cheese
1 bunch of chives (20g)
70ml milk, plus extra for brushing
200g light cream cheese
½ a lemon

1 Sift the flour into a bowl with the

baking and mustard powders, then
add a generous pinch each of cayenne
pepper and sea salt. Cube up the butter,
then use your thumbs and fingertips to
rub it into the flour mixture until you
have little cornflake-sized pieces.
2 Coarsely grate in 100g of the
Cheddar, finely chop and add the
SERVES 2 HANDS ON 15 MINUTES COOK 16 MINUTES 1 DRAWER
chives, then mix everything together.
2 large skinless boneless breadcrumbs, spending a bit of Make a well in the middle, pour in the
chicken thighs time really patting them on. milk, and bring together into a soft,
2 tbsp plain flour 4 Evenly space the chicken in the dry dough, adding a tiny extra splash
1 egg air-fryer drawer and cook for of milk, if needed – use your hands,
2 tbsp gochujang paste 16 minutes, or until golden and if necessary, but don’t be tempted
75g stale white bread cooked through, turning halfway to over-mix.
2 burger buns and adding the buns cut-side up 3 Turn out on to a flour-dusted surface
320g crunchy veg, such as red for the last 2 minutes. and quickly work the dough into a 3cm
cabbage, carrots, onions, radishes 5 Prep your veg, then finely shred thick round, then cut into 6 triangular
1 fresh green chilli or grate them to make a quick slaw wedges. Lightly brush the tops with
1 tbsp toasted sesame seeds – I use a speed-peeler to create a milk, grate over the remaining cheese,
2 tbsp Greek yoghurt super-fine, crunchy texture. Finely and sprinkle with a little cayenne.
slice and add the chilli, along with 4 Rub the air-fryer shelf with a little
1 One at a time, bash and flatten the sesame seeds, 2 tablespoons of olive oil, then preheat the air fryer to
the chicken thighs between two red wine vinegar and 1 tablespoon 180ºC for 2 minutes. Evenly space in
sheets of greaseproof paper to of extra virgin olive oil, mix well, the scones and cook for 12 minutes,
1cm thick, then dust all over with and season to perfection. or until golden – you may need to
the flour. 6 Mix the remaining gochujang work in batches.
2 Beat the egg with 1 tablespoon into the yoghurt and divide 5 Mix the cream cheese with a good
of gochujang in a shallow bowl, between the buns. Halve the few gratings of lemon zest, season
then season with sea salt and chicken pieces and pile up with the with black pepper, and add a drizzle
black pepper. In a food processor, slaw, put the bun lids on, squash of extra virgin olive oil, if you like.
blitz the bread with 1 tablespoon together, and enjoy! Serve any Serve with the warm scones. Great
of olive oil into fine crumbs, then extra slaw on the side. with a watercress, chicory, apple and
spread across a plate. walnut salad.
3 Preheat the air fryer for 2 minutes ENERGY 665KCAL FAT 22G
to 200ºC. Dip the floured chicken SAT FAT 5G PROTEIN 33.6G ENERGY 368KCAL FAT 24G SAT FAT 13.7G
into the egg mixture, letting any CARBS 83.7G SUGARS 20.3G PROTEIN 11.4G CARBS 28.3G
excess drip off, then coat in the SALT 2.6G FIBRE 8.5G SUGARS 2.9G SALT 1.1G FIBRE 1.3G

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cheese & chive
scones
 Pear &
blackberry
crumble

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Pear & blackberry Fragrant chicken in a bag
crumble syrup. Mix together and cook SERVES 1 + 3 FREEZER PASTE PORTIONS
SERVES 6 HANDS ON 12 MINUTES for 40 minutes at 180ºC, or HANDS ON 12 MINUTES COOK 25 MINUTES 1 DRAWER
COOK 50 MINUTES 1 DRAWER until the fruit has softened,
stirring halfway. 1 nest of vermicelli rice noodles (45g)
4 ripe pears 2 Meanwhile, place the oats 12 lime leaves
2 eating apples in a bowl, cube up and add the 8cm piece of ginger
2 balls of stem ginger in syrup remaining butter, then rub 2 cloves of garlic
300g blackberries together with your thumbs and 1 stick of lemongrass
100g cold unsalted butter fingertips. Add the sugar and 1½ fresh red chillies
1 large orange cinnamon, scrunch in the 1 bunch of coriander (30g)
100g porridge oats cornflakes, and mix well. 4 tbsp low-salt soy sauce
60g demerara sugar 3 Scatter the crumble mixture sesame oil
1 pinch of ground cinnamon over the fruit and cook for another 1 x 150g skinless chicken breast
100g cornflakes 10 minutes at 180ºC, or until 1 pak choi
golden and bubbling, then dish 80g sugar snap peas
1 Cut the pears and apples into up straight from the drawer. 80g baby corn
sixths, removing the core. Finely Great with custard, crème fraîche 2 spring onions
chop the stem ginger. Remove the or ice cream. 1 tbsp unsalted roasted peanuts
shelf from the air fryer, then place ½ a lime
the pears, apples, blackberries and ENERGY 378KCAL FAT 15.6G
ginger inside with a knob of the SAT FAT 9G PROTEIN 4.3G 1 In a bowl, cover the noodles with boiling kettle
butter, the orange zest and juice, CARBS 58.7G SUGARS 32.1G water and leave to soften for a few moments, then
and 2 tablespoons of stem ginger SALT 0.2G FIBRE 5.3G drain and refresh under cold running water.
2 Tear the lime leaves into a small food processor,
discarding any tough stalks. Peel, roughly chop
and add the ginger and garlic, chop and add the
Tomato & lemongrass and 1 chilli, most of the coriander,
mozzarella tart until dark golden and puffed up. stalks and all, reserving a few nice leaves, and a
SERVES 2 HANDS ON 15 MINUTES 3 Meanwhile, squash, destone and pinch of sea salt. Add the soy and 1 teaspoon of
COOK 30 MINUTES 1 DRAWER tear up the olives, and finely slice sesame oil and blitz into a paste. Divide the paste
the chilli. Dress with 1 tablespoon into four, keeping one portion for now and freezing
500g ripe tomatoes of red wine vinegar and ½ a the rest for future meals.
½ x 320g sheet of ready-rolled tablespoon of extra virgin olive 3 Score deeply into the chicken a few times at an
puff pastry oil, then season to perfection. angle and rub with half the paste portion. Halve
6 black olives, stone in 4 Carefully and confidently flip the pak choi, sugar snaps and baby corn, trim and
½ a fresh red chilli the tart out of the drawer on to finely slice the spring onions, then toss it all with
½ x 125g ball of mozzarella a board, tear over the mozzarella the remaining paste half-portion.
COPYRIGHT © JAMIE OLIVER ENTERPRISES LIMITED (2025 EASY AIR FRYER).

2 sprigs of basil and basil leaves, spoon over 4 Tear off a large sheet of thick tin foil (about
the olive mixture, and serve. 60cm long), fold it in half, then open it out like
1 Halve the tomatoes, then use Nice with a simple rocket salad a book and rub one side with sesame oil. Top with
your fingers to scrape out the on the side. the noodles and veg. Finely slice and scatter over
seeds. Remove the shelf from the the remaining chilli, then sit the chicken on top.
air-fryer drawer, then go in with ENERGY 302KCAL FAT 21G Fold over the foil to create a parcel, twisting the
the tomato halves, 1 tablespoon SAT FAT 9.9G PROTEIN 8.5G edges to seal, and adding 50ml of water before
of olive oil and a pinch of sea salt CARBS 19.9G SUGARS 4.2G sealing the final side. Place in the air-fryer drawer
and black pepper. Toss together, SALT 1.3G FIBRE 1.6G and cook for 25 minutes at 200ºC, or until the
arrange the tomatoes cut-side chicken is cooked through.
down, and cook for 15 minutes at For MORE 5 Remove the bag to a serving plate and carefully
200ºC, or until soft and golden. tear open the foil. Crush over the nuts, scatter
2 Gently stretch or roll out the This is an over the coriander leaves and finish with a squeeze
pastry to the size of the drawer. edited extract from of lime.
Easy Air Fryer
Lay the pastry on top of the by Jamie Oliver,
tomatoes, carefully poking and Penguin Michael ENERGY 655KCAL FAT 20G SAT FAT 3.6G
tucking it in at the edges. Joseph, RRP $55. PROTEIN 52.9G CARBS 64.4G SUGARS 9.5G
Cook for 15 minutes at 200ºC, or SALT 1.8G FIBRE 4.1G

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 Mid-week magic

This month, Julie Goodwin

shares a childhood
favourite: Her beloved
Nan’s Chicken stroganoff.
It’s simple to make – and
cheaper than the beef
version. Plus, the video
on our website,
womensweeklyfood.com.au
really brings the dish to life.

PORTRAIT PHOTOGRAPHY BY PHILLIP CASTLETON.

HAIR AND MAKE-UP: ALLISON BOYLE.
PHOTOCHEF: CAITLYN MCGRATH.

P H O T O G R A P H Y b y J O H N PAU L U R I Z A R · S T Y L I N G b y M I C H E L E C R A N S T O N
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stroganoff

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My earliest memory of eating stroganoff

was at Nan’s house. I think it was probably
memorable because Nan wasn’t known for
her experimentation with spices, or exotic
cuisines, so I think my young tastebuds would
have been quite surprised by
the flavours of paprika and sour
cream. I am not even sure if, at
that early point in my life, I would
have eaten too many mushrooms
either. All I know is I was
enamoured with it. My boys
have always loved it as well and
it became part of the dinner
rotation in our house. Beef is the
traditional meat for this, but my
chicken version makes it even
more economical and I reckon
just as tasty. It’s quick, too, and
an ideal mid-week dinner as we
head into the cooler months.

Chicken stroganoff
SERVES 4 PREP + COOK TIME: 30 MINUTES

1/3 cup plain flour 1 In a large bowl, combine the flour,

½ teaspoon salt salt, pepper and paprika. Toss the
½ teaspoon ground white pepper chicken strips thoroughly through
2 teaspoons sweet paprika the mixture.
5 chicken thigh fillets (around 2 In a large, non-stick pan, heat a
650g), cut into thin strips ¼ of the oil over high heat until it is
¼ cup olive oil just smoking. Place 1/3 of the chicken
SCAN mixture into the pan and toss for
for video 500g cap mushrooms, sliced
3 cloves garlic, finely chopped 2 minutes until it is golden brown.
Want to see this dish
¼ cup tomato paste (It is important to have a large enough
come to life? Watch
½ cup chicken stock pan and not to overcrowd it.) Repeat
Julie’s how-to video
FAMILY PHOTOGRAPH SUPPLIED AND USED WITH PERMISSION.

where she shares her 2 tablespoons Worcestershire this process with the remaining oil
tips and tricks for sauce and chicken mixture.
success. Scan the 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard 3 Reduce the heat to medium high.
barcode above for 300ml sour cream Place the last of the oil in the pan
quick access, or visit and sauté the mushrooms until they
womensweeklyfood. become golden. Add the garlic and
com.au sauté for a further minute. Stir through
the tomato paste until well combined.
Add the stock, Worcestershire sauce,
mustard and sour cream to the pan.
Return the chicken to the pan and
simmer for a few minutes until the
chicken is cooked through.
4 Serve with pasta or rice, and greens
of your choice (we used steamed beans).

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 Indulgent desserts

Food writer Katrina Meynink’s latest cookbook, Kitchen Keepers,

celebrates simple, delicious home cooking that you’ll want to
make again and again and again. This month she shares a sneak peek
of a few of her dreamy desserts with The Weekly.
P H O T O G R A P H Y b y K AT R I N A M E Y N I N K

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Spiced apple
crumble slab cake
of your dreams
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Blood plum
pannacotta for a
crowd with orange
blossom &
black pepper

Katrina’s tip
I tend to slice my fruit as
close to the stone as possible
then discard the seed, but you
can remove the stone first then
slice as per the recipe. You will
need to start this one day ahead.
Indulgent desserts
 Spiced apple crumble
slab cake of your dreams
SERVES 8–10 SERVES 12–14 (OR 1 FOR A FEW DAYS)

In each of my books, meringue exists in some form as a nod The best cake I have ever made. The End.
to my grandmother. She taught me to cook long before I had True story: If apple crumble and apple pie could
any inkling of the hold it would have over my life, and the leave a note on a spiced cake’s dash saying, “Call me,
smell of whisked egg whites and sugar is enough to take me we’re pregnant”, this is that moment. A complex,
out at the knees. I honour her in every book and every meringue. intriguing and entirely beguiling love tryst of
I adore the wild entanglements of Turkish delight running baked-good goodness. It’s cake, it’s pie, it’s
through the peaks and troughs of this meringue. It gives it crumble, and they are working together to make
both whimsy and a sense of occasion. the cake-eating world a better place.

TURKISH DELIGHT SYRUP 1 TURKISH DELIGHT SYRUP 500g plain flour peeled, cored and cut into
(MAKES ABOUT ¾ CUP) Dust off as much of the sugar 480g caster sugar 1cm cubes
170g Turkish delight coating as possible from the 2½ tablespoons baking 2 tablespoons brown sugar
250ml (1 cup) water Turkish delight pieces and powder CRUMBLE TOPPING
PAVLOVA chop into chunks if large. generous pinch of salt 200g plain flour
8 egg whites at room Put in a saucepan with the 265g unsalted butter, cubed 85g caster sugar
temperature water and simmer on a very 4 extra-large eggs 85g brown sugar
450g caster sugar low heat, stirring regularly, 300ml buttermilk 1 tablespoon ground
1 tablespoon white-wine until the Turkish delight 2 tablespoons ground cinnamon
vinegar dissolves and you are left with cinnamon ½ teaspoon ground
1 tablespoon vanilla bean a gloriously gloopy syrup, 1 teaspoon each ground cardamom
paste similar in consistency to thick cloves and ground cardamom 190g unsalted butter, cubed
TO TOP honey. This can take anywhere 2 tablespoons vanilla bean 50g (½ cup) rolled oats
150g thickened cream between 5 and 15 minutes. paste 3 tablespoons raw
125g (1 cup) raspberries Allow to cool slightly. 6 granny smith apples, (demerara) sugar
250g strawberries, hulled 2 Preheat the oven to 115°C.
and sliced Line a large baking tray 1 Preheat the oven to 180°C and line a 30 × 23 × 5cm
edible fresh rose petals approximately 40 × 30cm baking tin with baking paper.
(optional) with baking paper. 2 CRUMBLE TOPPING Combine all the ingredients in
3 PAVLOVA Whisk the egg a bowl. Use your fingers to work the butter through the
whites and a small pinch of salt in the bowl of an electric mixture until you get a rough crumb. Set aside.
mixer fitted with the whisk attachment until soft peaks 3 Put the flour, sugar, baking powder and salt in the bowl
form, about 4 minutes. Keep whisking while gradually of an electric mixer. Beat in the butter a few cubes
adding the sugar until firm and glossy, another 3 minutes. at a time until it looks like a fine crumble – this can take
Rub some of the mixture between two fingers – if it still a few minutes. Add the eggs and beat until incorporated.
feels grainy, continue whisking. Once smooth, whisk in Add the buttermilk, 1 tablespoon of the ground cinnamon,
the vinegar and vanilla bean paste. the ground cloves and cardamom, and 1 tablespoon of the
4 Using a spoon, drizzle over a few spoonfuls of the vanilla bean paste and beat until incorporated then
Turkish delight syrup and then gently fold it through the continue to beat on high until the mixture is smooth and
meringue – you just want a few random streaks of pink. combined – it will seem a bit lighter and fluffier. Scrape
Scoop the meringue out onto your lined tray and drizzle the mixture into the baking tin and bake for 20 minutes.
over another tablespoon of the syrup. Use a palette knife 4 Put the diced apples in a bowl with the brown sugar
or spatula to loosely swirl it over the top of the meringue and the remaining tablespoons of ground cinnamon and
– we only want ribbons of pink here and there through vanilla bean paste and give them a quick toss to coat.
the meringue. Reserve the remaining syrup to serve. 5 At the 20-minute mark, working quickly, open the oven
5 Place the meringue in the oven and bake until crisp but and gently scatter the apple mixture in an even layer
not coloured, about 11/2 hours. Turn off the heat and allow across the top of the sponge. Bake for another 15 minutes.
to cool completely in the oven. DO NOT SKIP THIS STEP. 6 Open the oven and scatter the crumble mixture over
6 To plate, gently transfer your meringue to a serving the top of the apple mixture. Bake for another 20 minutes
platter. Lightly whip the cream to medium–firm peaks and or until a skewer inserted in the centre comes out
scoop it over the top of the meringue. Top with the berries, mostly clean.
then drizzle over a little more Turkish delight syrup. 7 Leave in the tin to cool before cutting into glorious,
Scatter with edible rose petals, if using, and serve. serious chunks of cake.

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Blood plum pannacotta
for a crowd with orange
blossom & black pepper
SERVES 8–12
SERVES 12
600ml thickened cream This recipe is nothing more than my compulsion to indulge. Brownie
225g (1½ cups) chopped couverture is crack to me, a kryptonite I cannot say no to. Ditto for liquorice.
white chocolate And this combo is the kind of perversion my mouth cannot say no to.
2½ titanium-strength gelatine leaves, The liquorice through and on the brownie makes this chewy, crispy
bloomed in cold water and properly indulgent. It is excellence in baked form.
1.4kg vanilla bean yoghurt
1 tablespoon vanilla bean paste 450g soft, excellent- 1 Preheat the oven to 150°C. Grease and
3 tablespoons unsalted butter quality liquorice line a 30 x 23 x 4cm baking tin with
60g slivered almonds 280g unsalted butter baking paper.
PLUM POUR-OVER 200g caster sugar 2 Put 300g of the liquorice in a small
2 blood plums, sliced and seeds discarded (I love 300g brown sugar saucepan and add just enough water to cover,
to use Queen Garnet plums) 5 eggs approximately 200ml. Place over a low heat
1 tablespoon orange-blossom water 125g Dutch cocoa and simmer for 15 minutes or until the
2 tablespoons caster sugar powder liquorice has begun to break down. You want
freshly cracked black pepper, to taste generous pinch of salt it to look like chunky black tar. Remove from
TO TOP 115g plain flour the heat and allow to cool slightly before
2 blood plums, sliced and seeds discarded sea salt flakes, to finishblitzing the whole soupy lot in a food processor
125g raspberries, halved to eradicate any remaining chunks of
125g mulberries or blackberries liquorice – we want a browny-black goop. Scrape into a bowl while
it is still warm and set aside. Chop the remaining liquorice into
1 To make the pannacotta, put the cream small pieces and set aside.
and chocolate in a saucepan over a low heat, 3 In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment,
stirring regularly until incorporated. Add the beat the butter and both sugars until pale and creamy, about
bloomed gelatine and whisk vigorously to 5 minutes. Add the eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition.
combine. Remove from the heat and whisk Scrape the liquorice mixture in and beat until incorporated. Turn the
through the yoghurt and vanilla bean paste. mixer to low and add the cocoa powder and a generous pinch of salt
Pour into a large serving bowl (approximately and continue to mix until combined. Turn off the mixer and, using a
30cm wide and at least 10cm high) or large spatula, scrape down the sides of the bowl and give the mixture a few
trifle bowl and place in the fridge to set. turns to get any bits at the bottom. Add the flour and stir to combine.
It’s best to let this sit overnight or a minimum 4 Pour the batter into the prepared tin and gently scatter over the
of 8 hours. chopped liquorice. Bake for 40–50 minutes. You want to see the
2 Put the butter in a small frying pan over a slightest softness in the centre to ensure you have brownie, not cake
medium heat. Once foaming, add the slivered – a good brownie needs a touch of sludgy fudgy in the middle and a
almonds and cook, stirring constantly, until top that looks like cracked earth. Scatter with sea salt flakes and
golden and toasted. Remove with a slotted allow to cool in the tin.
spoon to a plate lined with paper towel and
set aside.
3 PLUM POUR-OVER Put the sliced plums, Katrina’s tip
orange-blossom water and caster sugar in a
Store any leftover
saucepan over a low heat. Cook for 1–2 minutes
brownie in the fridge
or until the sugar has dissolved and the
but remember my
plums are starting to break down. Strain into
cardinal rule: A cold
a jug and season with a good crack of black cake is not a good cake.
pepper – it seems odd, but it makes the The same applies to
flavours come alive. Allow to cool. brownie. Let it come to
4 To serve, spoon some of the plum pour- a nice ambient room
over onto the pannacotta, top with the extra temp before inhaling.
sliced plums and berries, the toasted almonds This is an edited extract
and another light cracking of pepper. from Kitchen Keepers
by Katrina Meynink,
Hardie Grant Books.

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 Hot & tasty

Easy chicken,
chickpea & sweet
P H O T O G R A P H Y b y J O H N PAU L U R I Z A R

ST Y LI NG b y MICHELE CR A NSTON
potato casserole
with couscous

This month Maggie Beer

embraces the cooler weather
with delicious, warming
meals – one quick and easy;
the other low and slow.

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 Lamb shoulder & barley casserole with herb yoghurt
SERVES 4 PREP & COOK TIME 3 HOURS 30 MINUTES

50ml extra virgin olive oil 1 Preheat the oven to 145°C (125°C Add the stock, herbs and spices.
1kg diced lamb shoulder fan-forced.) 5 Cover with the lid and bake for 2 hours.
200g red onion, diced 2 In a large, heavy-based dish with 6 In a separate pan, cook the barley in
2 cloves garlic, chopped finely tight fitting lid (with pot large enough plenty of salted water according to
100ml red wine to hold the added barley) pour in the packet instructions. Drain.
40ml aged red wine vinegar olive oil, place over a high heat and 7 Add the drained barley to the lamb
400g can whole peeled brown off the diced lamb; remove mixture and cook, covered, for an
tomatoes, including the juice and set aside. additional 1 hour.
500ml chicken stock 3 In the same dish, sauté The barley becomes
3-4 sprigs thyme the onions until golden, NUTRITION a little like a risotto,
1 stalk fresh rosemary add the garlic and then add INFORMATION taking up almost
1 teaspoon black peppercorns the lamb back into the dish. Quantity per serving all the juices.
1 cinnamon stick Deglaze with the red wine 8 HERB YOGHURT In
300g pearl barley and vinegar; cook, stirring, ENERGY 6070KJ a small mixing bowl
PROTEIN 31.2G
HERB YOGHURT for a few minutes until combine the yoghurt,
FAT, TOTAL 127G
250g natural yoghurt at least half of the liquid lemon thyme and parsley.
– SATURATED 53.2G
1 tablespoon lemon thyme is evaporated. CARBOHYDRATE 43.7G
9 Serve with Herb Yoghurt
leaves, chopped 4 Add tomatoes, including – SUGARS 6.2G and extra herbs.
¼ cup chopped flat leaf parsley the juice (chopping the SODIUM 518MG Accompany the meal
or mint leaves, plus extra for individual tomatoes). with picked watercress.
serving
PHOTOCHEF CLARE MAGUIRE.
 Hot & tasty

SERVES 6-8
PREP + COOK TIME 45 MINUTES

½ cup (125ml) extra virgin olive oil

8 (1.5kg) chicken thigh
fillets, cut into 2.5cm
pieces
2 medium brown onions,
chopped finely
2 cloves garlic,
chopped finely
1 tablespoon fresh
turmeric, grated finely
3 teaspoons ground
cumin
1 teaspoon ground
cinnamon
400g can crushed
tomatoes
2 cups (500ml) chicken
stock
300g sweet potato, unpeeled,
scrubbed, chopped
120g prunes, pitted
400g can chickpeas, drained and rinsed
1 lemon, zest removed in wide strips
with a peeler, white pith discarded over. Remove each batch from pan and salt and pepper, then simmer for two
coriander and mint sprigs, to serve set aside on a plate, reserving the juices. minutes or until just heated through.
1/2 cup (180g) natural yoghurt 2 Heat remaining olive oil in same pan, 5 BUTTERED COUSCOUS Meanwhile,
lemon wedges, to serve add onion and garlic; cook for 4-5 place the couscous in a medium
BUTTERED COUSCOUS minutes or until soft. Add turmeric, heatproof bowl and pour over the boiling
MAGGIE BEER PHOTOGRAPH: PETER BREW-BEVAN.

1 cup (200g) couscous cumin and cinnamon; cook water or stock. Cover and
1½ cups (375ml) boiling water or for one minute or until NUTRITION stand for five minutes Add
chicken stock fragrant, then add tomatoes, INFORMATION the butter and use a fork
30g unsalted butter, small diced and stock, sweet potato and Quantity per serving to fluff up the couscous
softened prunes. Season with salt and separate the grains.
1 tablespoon mint, chopped and pepper; stir to combine. ENERGY 1960KJ Season to taste and keep
1 tablespoon flat-leaf parsley, chopped 3 Partially cover, simmer PROTEIN 32.3G warm. Just before serving,
FAT, TOTAL 28.1G
for 15-20 minutes or until stir through the herbs.
– SATURATED 7.3G
1 Heat half the olive oil in large sweet potato is cooked. 6 Serve chicken mixture
CARBOHYDRATE 19.2G
frying pan over high heat. Season 4 Stir in chickpeas, lemon – SUGARS 9.4G with herb sprigs, yoghurt,
chicken with salt; cook, in batches, zest, chicken and reserved SODIUM 548MG lemon and Buttered
for 6-8 minutes or until golden all resting juices. Season with Couscous.

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No.

Place 2 cups (400g) dried chickpeas in a large saucepan; cover with cold water and bring to the
boil. Turn off heat; stand, covered, for 1 hour. Drain. Re-cover with 2.5 litres (10 cups) water. Stir in
11/2 teaspoons cooking salt; bring to the boil over high heat. Cook, uncovered, for 55 minutes,
topping up with water if necessary, or until chickpeas are tender; drain. (Makes 5 cups/900g)

No.

No.
 Protein-packed pulses

Delicious ways to serve this nutritious pantry

staple, with a quick-soak hack to save you time.
P H O T O G R A P H Y b y J O H N PAU L U R I Z A R · S T Y L I N G b y O L I V I A B L AC K M O R E

1. Chickpea falafel 3. Za’atar chickpea salad

MAKES 24 PREP + COOK TIME 40 MINUTES (+ STANDING) SERVES 6 PREP + COOK TIME 1 HOUR
Cook ½ quantity chickpeas (see opposite page), draining Preheat oven to 220°C (180°C fan-forced) and line two oven
chickpeas after they have stood for 1 hour. Combine the trays with baking paper. Cut 400g pumpkin into thin wedges;
chickpeas, 1 small (100g) coarsely chopped onion, halve crossways. Cut 1 red onion (300g) into thin wedges.
2 quartered cloves garlic, ¼ cup coarsely chopped flat-leaf Thickly slice 1 each small (200g) red and yellow capsicum.
parsley, 1 teaspoon ground coriander and ½ teaspoon ground Spread vegies over one oven tray and 1 quantity prepared
cumin in a large bowl. In two batches, process chickpea chickpeas (see opposite page) over the other. Drizzle each
mixture until almost smooth. Return mixture to bowl. Stir tray with 1½ tablespoons extra virgin olive oil and season.
in ½ teaspoon bicarbonate of soda, 1 tablespoon plain flour Scatter chickpeas with 1 tablespoon za’atar. Roast both trays
and ½ teaspoon salt. Set aside for 30 minutes. Roll level for 25 minutes or until vegies are tender and chickpeas
tablespoons of mixture into balls; stand for 10 minutes. In golden. Whisk ¼ cup (60ml) each vinegar and extra virgin
batches, deep-fry falafel for 3 minutes or until golden olive oil in a bowl; season to taste. Place vegies and
brown and cooked through. Drain on paper towel. chickpeas on a platter; drizzle with dressing, top with
SUBSTITUTE: 2 x 380g McKenzie’s Chick Peas 100g fetta and 1/3 cup mint leaves, chopped.
in Tetra Pak, drained. SUBSTITUTE: 4 x 380g McKenzie’s Chick Peas
in Tetra Pak, drained.
2. Chickpea curry
SERVES 6 PREP + COOK TIME 45 MINUTES 4. Hummus
Heat 1½ tablespoons extra virgin olive oil in a MAKES 2½ CUPS PREP TIME 15 MINUTES
large saucepan over medium heat; cook 1 medium Reserve 60g chickpeas from ½ quantity prepared chickpeas
(150g) chopped onion, 1 medium (200g) chopped (see opposite page); reserve 1 cup (250ml) cooking liquid.
red capsicum, 2 cloves crushed garlic and 1½ Process remaining cooled chickpeas, 1/ 3 cup (90g) tahini,
tablespoons curry powder, stirring, for 8 minutes or 1 clove crushed garlic, ¼ cup (60ml) lemon juice (or to
until onion is soft. Add 1 quantity prepared chickpeas taste) and 1 teaspoon ground cumin until smooth. Add
PHOTOCHEF: REBECCA LYALL.

(see opposite page), 400g crushed tomatoes and 3 enough reserved cooking water to thin to a smooth purée;
medium (600g) peeled, chopped potatoes; simmer, covered, season to taste. Combine reserved chickpeas, 1 tablespoon
for 20 minutes or until potato is tender, stirring occasionally. extra virgin olive oil, ¼ cup coriander leaves, chopped, and
Add 1 teaspoon lemon juice and season to taste with salt 1 finely chopped eschalot. Serve hummus topped with
and pepper. Serve topped with yoghurt and coriander leaves. reserved chickpea mixture and a pinch of sumac.
SUBSTITUTE: 4 x 380g McKenzie’s Chick Peas SUBSTITUTE: 2 x 380g McKenzie’s Chick Peas
in Tetra Pak, drained. in Tetra Pak, drained.

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 Twist on schnitzel
This clever method of crumbing
will do away with flouring and
“egging”, making it a great
technique for a speedy dinner.

SERVES 1 PREP + COOK TIME 25 MINUTES

1 (200g) pork leg steak

¼ cup (75g) whole egg mayonnaise
½ cup (35g) panko breadcrumbs
olive oil, for shallow frying
butter lettuce leaves and avocado
slices, to serve
PINEAPPLE, LIME AND CHILLI SALSA
1 tablespoon lime juice
¼ Bethonga pineapple, peeled,
cored and finely chopped
½ fresh long red chilli, sliced finely
¼ teaspoon caster sugar
1 tablespoon small mint leaves

1 PINEAPPLE, LIME AND CHILLI SALSA

PHOTOGRAPHY BY CON POULOS. STYLING BY MICHELE CRANSTON.

Place lime juice, pineapple, chilli and sugar
in a bowl, then toss gently to combine.
Cover and refrigerate until required. Just
before serving sprinkle over mint leaves.
2 Using a meat tenderiser, pound pork
until 5-10mm thick. Coat pork steak in
mayonnaise then dip in breadcrumbs,
pressing firmly to coat.
PHOTOCHEF: CAITLYN MCGRATH.

3 Heat oil in a small frying pan until approx.

170°C or when a few breadcrumbs dropped
into the oil start to sizzle. Shallow-fry pork
for 3 minutes each side or until golden
brown and just cooked through. Drain on
a wire rack or paper towel.
Test Kitchen
4 Serve immediately with salsa, butter You can substitute the pork with
lettuce leaves and avocado slices. chicken breast fillet, if you like.

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E D I T E D b y F R A N A B DA L L A O U I

Marion Grasby swaps the hustle

The Shepard is the perfect and bustle of Bangkok for her own
avocado for sandwiches thanks slice of paradise in Noosa, Qld,
to its smooth and buttery texture. taking a fresh approach to her
It’s great for slicing, acting as
Asian-Australian heritage that
a barrier to help stop your bread
inspires her new TV series
getting soggy from the other
sandwich ingredients. That Flavours of Heart & Home.
makes it worthy of the title of In this eight-episode, half-
sandwich-approved avocado! hour snackable series Marion
shares stories and recipes that
reflect her upbringing, from
comforting family dishes to
delicious street food. Watch now
on SBS Food and SBS On Demand.

Mother and daughter Karima Hazim

Chatila and Sivine Tabbouch have created
a celebration of Lebanese flavours and feasting with
authentic family-style recipes that are as generous
as they are nourishing. Sofra is a book made with
love, to feed the soul and preserve their heritage.
Published by Hardie Grant. Sundaykitchen.com.au
Weʼre Santoku knife Art, food & storytelling
loving ... A shorter blade than a typical A Heide Harvest by Alice Crowe
JENNIFER JENNER. LUISA BRIMBLE.

chef’s knife, plus the wide face and Maximilian brings together
and sheepsfoot (no point) design art, history, and recipes – with
makes a Santoku a great knife to stunning photographs and
scoop ingredients from the archival material – inspired by
chopping board to a pan or bowl. artists John and Sunday Reed,
Its comfortable non-slip green who founded Melbourne’s Heide
pakkawood handle with steel Museum of Modern Art. Published
bolster makes food preparation by Thames & Hudson Australia.
a joy. RRP $149. Hexclad.com.au Heide.com.au

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P H O T O G R A P H Y b y M AG G I E DY L A N

When cafe owners

Maggie Dylan and
Julian Kelly moved from
Melbourne to the hills of
Byron Bay, they leaned
into the rustic nature of
their new home.
 rom their home for all seasons in the Byron
hinterland, Maggie Dylan and Julian Kelly have
had a profound impact on Byron Bay’s cafe culture.
“We have lived in a beautiful barn in Coorabell
for about four years, which we found by chance
in the local paper,” Maggie explains. “It’s been
a special place for us, and its walls are filled with many
memories. We cook here, play music here, read and riff on
Clockwise from top left: The couple have extensive books, music
all things art, business, love and life. We feel very lucky to
and plant collections; their home features macramé created by
be here. Our landlords are amazing, and the property is Maggie’s beloved father; the space provides Maggie and Julian
a bit of a mix of wild beauty and considered design. We live with a backdrop for gardening, cooking and reading. Opposite
together with Cohen, our dog, and his cat brother, Len.” page: The former barn – found by chance – is a special place.
Their space embraces the duo’s artistic nature and provides
a backdrop for gardening, cooking and reading together.
“We like to keep the home itself pretty loose. I have the
attention span of a goldfish and we can both be quite messy,
so our home space needs to accommodate that. It’s our office/
bedroom/art studio/kitchen. It has housed us lovingly. It housed
us as our businesses grew and we needed that sanctuary.
It housed my dad in some of the final moments of his life
while we cared for him. It has housed us in love and in grief.”
The home also shows the couple’s sentimental side,
evident in their most cherished objects. “Our plants are
very special, most of which we adopted when they were so
young, back in our previous Melbourne life,” says Maggie.
“Everything in our home is pretty special to us. We don’t like
to bring anything into our space unless we already have a
purpose or place for it. There is no storage, so everything is
‘on display’, so to speak. Our books and music collection are

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precious to us as they are sentimental and provide us with
the connection to the outside world – living in the hills of
Byron is very isolating!”
Among their favourite pieces is an old Japanese door used as
a bedhead, complete with carpenter’s notes, and macramé pieces
crafted by Maggie’s dad during a long hospital stay in the 1970s.
Greenery is in no short supply, with potted plants of all shapes
and sizes punctuating empty spaces throughout the home.
Looking back on the inception of their much‑loved cafe,
Maggie recalls, “We started Folk in what was maybe the rough Maggie and Julian have a special affinity with their plants, many
area of Byron at the time. We took on the lease without having of which were ‘adopted’ when young for their former home in
visited the building. On the first day of renovations, we took Melbourne. Below: A Japanese door makes a unique bedhead.
the big grated security bars off the windows and cut a giant
hole in the frontage for our front door. Our neighbours were
aghast – were we crazy, everything will get stolen, this isn’t
going to work in this area, et cetera. When they discovered we
would only be serving vegetarian food, their jaws dropped
even further. But we felt like it was the best area for it.”
Maggie and Julian envisaged an inclusive space for the locals
– a little community garden reflecting the values of the area.
“Byron has had massive growth since that time, and
sometimes it feels as though Folk has come to represent an
aspect of Byron in itself,” Maggie says. “When we first started,
we were just a bunch of gritty kids and old hippies, lounging
on the lawn, sipping coffees, and sharing what was really
restaurant‑quality food from an old shack out the front of
a caravan park.”
Much like the couple’s businesses,
Maggie and Julian’s home stands
as a reflection of their creativity,
sentimentality and commitment to
cultivating spaces that embody warmth
and a true sense of retreat. AWW

This is an edited extract from Sanctuary

by In Bed, Hardie Grant Books, RRP $60.

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 Homes

The couple’s potted plant

collection adds to the sanctuary
feel of the former barn. Green
flourishes punctuate spaces
throughout their home.

– Maggie Dylan
 Homes

E D I TE D b y TI F FA N Y D U N K

Make an exhibition of your favourite prints, Grab a large sheet of butcher’s

paper and cut an outline of each
Read THIS! paintings and photos with these easy steps. piece you plan to work with before
you get down to business. Mark where
each picture’s hanger placement is.
Lay your artworks down in front
of the wall you plan to hang them
on. Choose your biggest artwork
first and use that to set the tone for
your display.
Australia is home to Once you’ve identified your
some of the most centrepiece, spend some time
beautiful native birds in arranging until you settle on the
the world – and there placing. Mix up sizes and orientations
are some clever ways – don’t choose all vertical or all
you can attract them horizontal pieces. Consider colour
into your own backyard. themes, but don’t feel you need to go
This book is a great too matchy-matchy. Equally, don’t be
afraid to mix and match your frames.
guide for gardeners
Once you’re happy, mirror that
and bird lovers alike.
display on the wall with your
It’s full of tips on how paper cut-outs (put them up
to design a garden with with washi tape) to check you’ve
both native and exotic got the spacing right. Aim for around
plants, plus other 5-10cm between frames but don’t
features to entice every be afraid to go wider or narrower
type of bird fly in. if it feels right.
Creating a Bird-Friendly Get hanging using nails, anchors
Garden by Stephanie or adhesive strips as identified in
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PRIZE

To prevent tulips from drooping when arranging them

in a vase, use a pin to prick a small hole through the
stem about 2cm below the flower head.

Perfect marks
To prevent marks when
Ask drying a jumper, cut a
The slit in a pool noodle and

Weekly slip it over your washing

line, then drape the
jumper over the noodle.

What is the best way Space saver

to repair some small Repurpose a clothes
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holding and mixing paint or glue when of sewing cotton
through the snagged
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gently pulling the
stitches “on waste yarn” combine mince with and put the bag on top. snagged loop through powder, add boiling
while you knit the body, ½ cup milk in a bowl and to the back and water: if it doesn’t
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One of a KIND

Mother Tongue by Naima Brown,

Pan Macmillan

he Sapir-Whorf hypothesis proposes that

the language we speak influences and
shapes our perception of reality. This
theory is at the heart of Mother Tongue,
a daring new novel by American-born,
Australian-
based author Naima Brown.
The premise: Brynn, a
suburban mother, wakes up
from a coma with the ability
to speak fluent French. She
seizes the opportunity to
leave Midwestern America
and start a new life in Paris,
leaving behind her MAGA-
voting husband and five-
year-old daughter, Jenny.
If you recoiled in shock
and horror at the thought
of a mother abandoning her
young daughter, you’re not
alone. That was my initial As a writer, Naima Brown language – would impact, say, the mother of a young child,
reaction too, but as I dove strongly believes that when in an unhappy marriage, feeling quite isolated and stifled in
deeper into Brynn’s story, you show up for the work, her life – and voila! Brynn was born.”
the work shows up for you.

REVIEWS BY ALLEY PASCOE. NAIMA BROWN PHOTOGRAPH: INGRID PULLEN.

I started to understand and Twelve years after making a life for herself in Paris,
“I know that sounds woo-woo,
empathise with her choice. Brynn’s past chases her down when she becomes pregnant
but hey, I’m a Californian
For Naima, the subject of living in the Northern Rivers, and feels a pull to reconnect with Jenny, now 17. Their
foreign language syndrome so … ” jokes Naima, a former emotionally charged reunion ends in flames, both literal
ILLUSTRATION BY LIZ ROWLAND/THE ILLUSTRATION ROOM.
– or bilingual aphasia filmmaker who released her and metaphorical, singeing everyone involved.
– provided rich material. first novel, The Shot, in 2023. “I always knew I wanted to pry this group of people apart,
“I came across the story She moved to Australia and then smash them back together in a grand denouement,”
of an Australian man in 2012 after a stint living in Naima tells The Weekly, explaining how she’s drawn to the
who woke up from a coma Afghanistan, where she met “messy middle” that’s a part of any transformation.
speaking fluent Mandarin a group of Aussie creators Messy is a fitting word for this book. Not because of the
– and he ultimately decided and artists. “I followed them writing, which is spectacularly tight and sharp. But because
here … and never left,” she
to move to China and make of the characters who are complicated, sometimes outrageous
says, proclaiming her love
a career for himself there,” and often chaotic. “Messy isn’t always very likeable,” adds
for the Northern Rivers.
reveals Naima, who has a “It’s a magnificent place to Naima. “But there is a part of me that revels in writing
background in anthropology. write. There’s a lot of room unlikeable women – as I think women waste a lot of time
“I started to wonder how a to think and to be alone with trying to be liked, trying to please. And there is something
similar experience – waking nature, but also a thriving freeing in writing women who are untethering themselves
up speaking a different creative community.” from that expectation.” Viva la messy women.

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Ly r i c a l M A S T E R P I E C E

I am
Nannertgarrook
by Tasma Walton,
Bundyi Publishing
This novel opens with a
women’s ceremony on
sea country honouring
the sacred whale with
celebratory singing, storytelling, dancing
and drumming. It’s a beautiful scene
but it’s interrupted by brutality when a
boat of white sealers sails into the bay.
The colonists abduct Nannertgarrook – Candid History Surreal
confessions reimagined suspense
a mother of two, pregnant with her
third child – and force her into the slave
market. Far away from her Country,
Nannertgarrook must try to keep her spirit The Sex Lives of Nightingale by Orpheus Nine
alive for herself and her newborn son, who Married Women Laura Elvery, by Chris Flynn,
she has to raise with the children of her by Saman Shad, UQP Hachette
fellow captives. The devastating tale is
Penguin Random
based on the true story of Tasma Walton’s You know her name: It’s Saturday morning in
House
ancestor, whose strength is still inspiring Florence Nightingale. Gattan when the first
all these generations later. The truth is You know her image: wave hits the small
confronting. The storytelling spellbinding. Don’t be fooled by “The Lady with the Aussie town. At the local
The spirit of Nannertgarrook lives on. the title of this book: Lamp” caring for football field, parents,
It is about much more wounded soldiers at grandparents and siblings
than sex. In fact, a night during the Crimean gather to watch two sides
L i t e ra r y F I C T I O N more fitting title War. And you know her of nine-year-olds play
might have been “The significance as the footy. At the end of the
Catching the Light Complex Interpersonal founder of modern match, when the clock
by Joanna Horton,
Relationships of Married nursing. This novel strikes 11am, the
Women”. But that reveals the Florence nine-year-olds freeze.
Ultimo Press doesn’t have quite Nightingale you don’t They are immobile.
Depending on who you the same ring to it. know, namely because it Then, they begin to sing
ask, Isaiah is either a Meet BFFs Meena and is part historical fiction – sweet and high – in
Sophie and their new and part ghost story. Latin. The lyrics are from
utopian community of
friend Rani. After their Author Laura Elvery King Lear and translate
artists in the hills or a hippie commune and
paths collide, the three takes inspiration from to “As flies to wanton
sex cult. For Alice, it becomes her childhood women bond over their real life and uses the boys are we to the gods;
home when her single mother Sylvie meets marriage issues, their flame from the lady with They kill us for their
painter Michael and impulsively moves to burning desires and the lamp to ignite a sport”. Around the world,
Isaiah. The location offers Sylvie the their wildest dreams. gripping tale. The novel every nine-year-old on
things she’s yearned for since becoming Confessions are spilled begins in Mayfair, 1910, the planet sings the same
a mother – freedom, art and love – but it over coffee and where a 90-year-old verse, before swelling up
comes at the expense of her relationship cocktails as the women Florence is frail in body beyond all normal
with her child. Alice rebels, as teenagers navigate motherhood, and mind. When a young proportions and dying.
misunderstandings man named Silas Bradley One hundred and thirty
do, and her act of defiance has life-long
and … masturbation. shows up claiming to million die that first day.
consequences. Years later, Alice must
Yes, there’s still plenty have met her during The horrific phenomenon
come to terms with her past when an art of sex nestled between the Crimean War 55 – so-called Orpheus Nine
historian begins working on a retrospective the important topics years ago – an – continues every day
of Michael’s work. Or so she says ... of female friendship, impossibility! – she after. The residents
For fans of The Strays by Emily Bitto privilege and purpose. knows he is there to of Gattan wrestle with
and The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt. After all, it is in the title. remind her of things. the unknown.

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The Homemade God by Rachel Joyce, Eat Your Heart

Penguin Random House Out by Victoria
Some books you read for the characters, some for the plot. Then Brownlee,
there are books you read purely for the words. The Homemade Affirm Press
God is such a book, where the artistry of writing is on full display. Most people have had
Four siblings – Netta, Susan, Goose and Iris – seem incredibly a sketchy job interview
close, bonded by the early loss of their mother and their chaotic childhood with before, but this takes the cake. French
their artist father, Vic Kemp. But as their elderly father falls in love with 27-year- celebrity chef Carla Duris is looking for
old Bella-Mae, the siblings’ lives start to fracture. When their father’s body is found a writer to pen her memoir and invites
on the edge of Lake Orta near their family summer house in Italy, the disjuncture the crème de la crème of the Parisian
accelerates. This is a book about grief and secrets, family and art. In instructions food scene to interview for the role
penned by their late mother: “Netta can fend for herself, but do not let her take during a weekend at her lavish estate
over. Susan wants to be Netta. Take care of Goose. Do not be fooled by Iris.” on the Côte d’Azur. Chloe Bridgers, an
Australian food blogger, and Henri de la
C r i m e M Y S T E RY Fontaine, a restaurant critic, are two of
the six candidates. Bizarre tasks draw
out the competition among the group,
Lyrebird by Jane Caro, Allen & Unwin and draw Chloe and Henri closer.
My mum – from whom I inherited my love of books – exclusively Alternating chapters between their
reads biographies. The exception to that rule was Jane Caro’s viewpoints amplifies the frustrating
2022 novel The Mother, which she picked up from my bookshelf miscommunications between the two
and devoured. Such is the brilliance of Jane’s writing; she can protagonists but also builds their
convert a devout non-fiction reader to the dark side. Jane’s romantic bond. How far will the
latest book, Lyrebird, has “converter” written all over it. The novel is set in the interviewees go to secure their dream
remote Barrington Tops region in NSW and follows ornithologist Jessica Weston role, and how far will Carla push them?
and detective Megan Blaxland as they investigate the cold case of a suspected As one candidate reflects: “From the
murder – witnessed 20 years ago by a lyrebird who mimicked the cries of the moment I met Carla Duris … I could tell
victim. An enthralling and thoroughly researched whodunnit with an important by her secretiveness ... she was somebody
message about climate change. Mum gives Jane another five stars. who didn’t believe in boundaries.”

COLLECTING: LIVING WITH ART PHOTOGRAPHY BY DAVE WHEELER. CHRISTOPHER YOUNG.

... ink for every mood, appetite and season

Unbury the Dead Grace of the Empire The Comfort Barren Cape by Theft by
by Fiona Hardy, State by Gemma of Crows by Michelle Prak, Abdulrazak
Affirm Press Tizzard, Hachette Margaret Renkl, Simon & Schuster Gurnah,
Teddy and Alice are It’s 1930s New York and Spiegel & Grau For Mac, Barren Cape, Bloomsbury
hired hands with dancer Grace trades her A literary love letter to an abandoned luxury Three kids’ coming-of-
loose morals, forced heels for work boots nature – 52 chapters resort, is a safe place age in Zanzibar in the
to turn the tables on when her twin brother is devoted to the flora to hide while between 1990s, from a winner
their wealthy clients injured on the building and fauna in Margaret houses. But is her of the Nobel Prize in
to reveal the truth. site of the Empire State. Renkl’s backyard. refuge actually a trap? Literature.

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 From the city, to the sea,
to somewhere far beyond.
Noisy Noisy City by Andrew
Kelly and Hélène Magisson,
Kym’s book offers a Wild Dog Books
glorious glimpse into
the inner worlds and Toot toot, ding
Collecting: personal collections
of a selection of
ding, ratatat. The
sounds of the city
Living with Australian collectors.
create a glorious 3+
Art by Kym symphony in this
Elphinstone, read-aloud book
with watercolour
Thames & Hudson illustrations by
If the walls of Australia’s most the supremely talented Hélène Magisson.
interesting tastemakers could
talk, they would say: “Art Odder by Katherine
shouldn’t be bought because it Applegate, illustrated by
is popular. It should be bought Charles Santoso, UQP
because it is loved.” With this Odder – the otter – is the
carefully curated coffee table “Queen of Play” out in
book, arts advisor and advocate Kym Elphinstone the ocean, and in the
takes us inside the homes of 26 unique collectors, pool at the aquarium

including architect Penelope Seidler, artist Angela where she teaches

rescued otter pups
3-6
Tiatia and philanthropist Gene Sherman AM. how to twist and dart,
weave and roll, and
dazzle in the water.
Readers and
writers unite
Polish your reading glasses
How to Sail to Somewhere
and gather your bookmarks by Ashleigh Barton, Hachette
because May is a month of
writers’ festivals. Before the Last summer, Bea’s uncle Byron
Melbourne Writers Festival gave her an antique book with a
kicks off on May 8 and the map of Somewhere –
Sydney Writers’ Festival Tim Winton a secret island off the
follows suit on May 19, the
west coast has its moment
(above) and Holly
Ringland (left)
coast – along with a
promise that they’ll sail
8-12
in the sun with the Margaret spoke at the 2024
River Readers and Writers
there next summer.
Margaret River
Festival (May 2-4). The Readers and
When that doesn’t
three-day “storytelling Writers Festival. happen, something
spectacular” is the largest The line-up this else magical does.
regional literary event year includes
in Western Australia. Marian Keyes and
Visit mrrwfestival.com Markus Zusak.

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Marie-Madeleine Fourcade is young,

beautiful and the only woman to
lead a resistance network in WWII
France. But when Nazis knock on the
door looking for one of her agents,
is it the end of her double life?
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the fun of hunting out Resistance
quarry rather than the bad luck to be
stuck with me, I snort revoltingly into
a handkerchief.
The guard shudders, turns his back,
I hear their boots first. Ack-ack-ack, “Where’s the man? Oh please find and I leap forward, scoop up the
like machine guns firing in the me a man. With a face like mine, papers and toss them under the
stairwell. Then the roar: “Gestapo! they’re in short supply.” I gesture to sofa just before the plain-clothes
Aufmachen!” my jutting chin, thankful that I let gestapiste returns.
That’s when I remember – I forgot MI6’s dentist make me a prosthetic “Have you seen a tall man with
to lock the door. disguise to alter my face so completely fair hair? He’s part of a network of
I’ve run so often these past four that I’m unrecognisable as the woman terrorists. We were told he’d been
years that I think I can make it; that on the Wanted posters who leads the here.” The officer speaks politely,
if I fling the bolt into place, I’ll have Alliance network. but I know this is the moment before
time to escape out the back. And I do It’s the only weapon I have, so I wield his temper breaks.
make it. The bolt is in my hands, but it, winking at the Nazi and pointing to I have to stop it from breaking on me.
the door is bulging from the force of a cupboard where, six days ago, stacks I heave my shoulders into a witless
the bodies trying to break in, and my of documents couriered across France shrug. “The only blonds here are
fingers are hysterical with adrenaline from my agents were hiding. “Perhaps your soldiers.”
and can’t make the lock catch. he’s in the armoire.” “Then why did you try to bar the
The wood cracks. The door shudders. When the soldiers fling open the door against us?” he shouts.
It flies open. armoire, they find nothing. All the Spittle and frustration punctuate
Two dozen Nazis burst in. papers stashed there have long since the air like angry stars.
This is the moment everyone in been coded and sent to London. My hands tremble.
London warned me was coming. I expel adrenaline with another I shove them in my pockets, cast
Capture. Torture. Death – but only cackle. “Make sure he’s a good one.” a sly eye at the furious Nazi. “If I’d
if I’m lucky. The leader glowers. But doubt flickers known you were all so handsome,
In front of me is a wall of submachine in his eyes like the match I hold to a I’d have flung the door wide open –
guns and menace. I should back away, nonchalant cigarette and I start to and my chastity belt too.”
far away, but my feet are ready to hope: Maybe I’ll get away with it. I want to be sick. The gestapiste
charge straight through the guns Perhaps I won’t even be taken to wants to hit me. But his soldiers
and out the door and toward my prison this time but will be overlooked have found nothing. He hits the
three children so I can hold their as an ugly peasant woman who has table instead.
innocence and their love right up nothing whatsoever in common with I swallow, breathe, swallow again
against my body for what could be so-called beautiful spy Marie-Madeleine. as, miraculously, incredibly, the Nazis
the very last time. The Nazis fan through the apartment, shoulder their guns and walk away
It’s not his intention, but a plain- probably hunting for Lucien, head of from the leader of the largest
clothes gestapiste saves me from that my Provençal sector, who was here Resistance network in France.
mad act. He demands, “Where’s the earlier, both of us part of a network the Two minutes more and I can drop to
man?” rousing me back to sense. Germans call Noah’s Ark because of my knees on the floor.
The man. He’s here for one of my our animal codenames. Probably also But ...
three thousand agents, then. Not me. hunting for the stack of intelligence One of them sweeps the room a
Not yet. reports Lucien delivered, which is final time and, as if the devil has
Which means I have to take hold of sitting in plain sight on the table. control of them, his eyes fall to the
myself, become the name on my papers: I inhale smoke, exhale fear. I have space beneath the sofa where piles of
Germaine Pezet, a provincial housewife. to hide those papers. But there are coded messages wait like traitors. Now
Hérisson, the little hedgehog I take my five machine guns still trained on me. I do almost drop to my knees and cry
codename from, must scuttle away. I leer stupidly, call out, “I prefer brown out that deaf and futile word, Non!
If this performance is anything less hair. Brown eyes too.” “Lügnerin!” the Nazi screams as he
than my best, they’ll find the agent Léon’s eyes are grey-green jasper. pulls out fistfuls of paper.
they’re looking for. And I’ll never see Forever, I told him the last time I saw Liar.
my children again. Or Léon. him, ten months ago. Now I stumble. I’m so tired, don’t
Where are you, Léon? Please God, Thankfully, my guards join the think I can do this anymore. Defend
let me find him. search, leaving just one SS officer in myself and my agents, pretend and
The gestapiste’s gun clicks. I make the room. The second his attention perform, rescue myself every time.
myself step toward it, cackling. shifts to his companions, who have Where’s the damn D’Artagnan the

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storybooks promise you, the rebel information that could have been now that the Allies have finally
trickster who saves both the day and tortured out of me? landed, will feel the Nazis’ guns press
honour too? He pushes me toward the stairs. right into her skull.
Six soldiers advance, machine guns “The regional commandant will be in So I pull myself up, remind myself
pointing at my head, my chest, my Aix-en-Provence tomorrow morning.” that I’m a little hedgehog wearing a
throat. Others tear the sofa to pieces, the The boneless relief of being allowed dress of spikes.
footstools too, which are crammed with to live for a little longer almost makes It’s five hours until dawn.
more intelligence reports. Rifle butts me stumble again. But what hellish I start at the window. It’s up high,
smash tables into splinters of bone. prison will they take me to? And how one metre wide and perhaps double
The ringleader seizes me by the will I get away before I have to face a that in height. No glass covers the
shoulders. “Who are you?” he rages, Gestapo commandant or before they opening, just a heavy wooden board
shaking me so viciously I’m terrified serve torture for breakfast? with a gap at the top through which
my prosthetic will fly out, revealing I’m driven to the Miollis barracks I can see thick metal bars.
both my disguise and the answer to and shoved into a punishment cell. A gap.
his question: I’m the woman you’ve The men occupying it are ordered out, An opening.
been hunting since 1941. leaving behind the stench of urine A space where the light gets in.
I’m the D’Artagnan. And no matter and sweat. I brace one hand against My breath comes faster. I’m balancing
how scared I am or how tired of the wall, but it isn’t enough to ward on the thin line that exists between
fighting and mourning my murdered off the stink and the terror, and three madness and hope when I shove the
friends and the children I never see, seconds later I’m retching into the cot beneath the window and empty the
I have to fight some more. There’s bucket so violently that perspiration bucket, gagging again from the stench.
time for despair only when I’m lying drenches my body and I want to claw I upturn the bucket on the cot.
alone in my bed at three in the morning my skin off my bones. In Shanghai, where I lived in the
and no one can see how I have to grip Empty and exhausted, I sag against French Concession as a child, my
my hands between my knees to stop the wall, close my eyes, draw on the father told me about burglars who
them from trembling. memory of Béatrice’s and Christian’s greased their bodies so they could
I fling out my last-chance dice. faces the last time I saw them, over slip easily into houses at night. It’s
“I’m a spy,” I say, the guise of silly a year ago. I picture the tiny baby, summer. The cell is an oven. My body
housewife lain aside, the self of Léon’s child, whom I had held for only is drenched in sweat. Rationing and
Hérisson still hiding. “London sent me.” a week before I had to give him up. running from Nazis for four years
The gestapiste tries to interrupt, but He will have just turned one. means I’m as thin as a needle.
I keep talking the way Marie-Madeleine, How many more birthdays will I miss? But am I slick enough and thin
the aeroplane-flying, car-rallying It’s the kind of question you should enough to slide into the gap between
daredevil iconoclast, would have never ask yourself when you’re alone the board and the bars and then
spoken five years ago. in a prison cell with a capsule of through the bars to freedom?
“I’m the stag you catch when you cyanide hidden in a locket around I slip off my dress, grip it between
were just out hunting rabbits. And I’ll your neck. Not when the man you love my teeth. Then I climb onto the
only speak to the master of the house, is missing. Not when the lives of your bucket, reach up to the window and
not his gamekeeper. Find me the most three thousand agents, as well as the try to believe that I’m like a ray of
senior Gestapo officer in Provence, freedom of your country, are at stake. moonlight, able to crack open the
rather than his underling,” I sneer. By morning, the Gestapo will have darkness and pass through anything
My heart is a maniacal drumbeat. read enough of my papers to know – uncatchable. AWW
My common sense is screaming at me who I am, and they’ll punish me in
to find a better solution than to let ways so cruel I can’t even imagine This is an edited
them arrest me. But I need to get away them. If I’m to swallow the cyanide extract from
from the guns. If I’m taken to a prison MI6 gave me, it has to be now. The Mademoiselle
to await a Gestapo commandant I have Back in London, the priest told me Alliance by
no intention of facing – because a that God would forgive me. Natasha Lester,
commandant will know exactly who I am But will I forgive myself? Hachette Australia.
and he won’t be so kind as to shoot If nobody warns Lucien that the
me – then maybe I can escape. Guns Gestapo are onto him, he’ll be
kill, but prisons can be escaped from; captured. His sector, almost all that’s For MORE
that’s a fact I’ve learned firsthand. left of the Alliance network after the
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 t’s a drizzly winter Monday night Clockwise from above: The early
in Venice and it feels good to be morning quiet in St Mark’s Square;
the Rialto Bridge spans the Grand
alive. The bracing wind gusts Canal; a pasta deli in Venice; a
have whisked away our jetlag, scenic mooring spot for gondolas.
we’re chilling under the Opposite: The Grand Canal.
umbrellas of a quiet wharfside
cafe enjoying the scenery while being were taken down a peg
serenaded by a 10,000-strong male or two at the Peggy
choir. In front of us, a dozen or so Guggenheim and have seen
gondolas roped together for the night a lot more of Venice than
are bobbing boisterously on the we’d bargained for.
agitated waters of the lagoon, like
over-exuberant chorus members in
Gilbert & Sullivan’s The Gondoliers The choir is our consolation.
dancing “a cachucha, fandango, It’s not here for us, but we’ll
bolero” having drunk too much take their accolades anyway.
Xeres, Manzanilla, Montero because They’re in the open-air
“wine, when it runs in abundance, football stadium a kilometre
enhances the reckless delight of or so away, warming up their
that wildest of dances”. vocal cords before Venezia
We’ve been on the go for 30 hours, Football Club’s big game
flying or in transit, but once we board against local rivals Verona.
the Viking Star it’s just a quick The exuberance of this cast
freshen up and refreshment, then of amateur Pavarottis,
a hop on the 4pm Fusina-Venice ferry. Bocellis, Domingos and
My travelling companion, Zora, wants Carusos is infectious.
to see the Peggy Guggenheim The 7pm ferry arrives to
GETTY IMAGES. ZORA REGULIC.

Collection before it closes at 6pm as transport us back to the comforts of

tomorrow, like every Tuesday, it will our ship. It’s the first night of our The last time I stood in St Mark’s
be shut. We zigzag down alleys and eagerly awaited “Venice, the Adriatic Square in Venice was one morning
race alongside cute little canals, & Greece” cruise and Xeres, in 1970 and there were more pigeons
reaching the ticket office in breathless Manzanilla, Montero, cachucha, around than people. Here I am,
triumph at 5.25pm. Alas, last entry is fandango, bolero could well be on 55 years later, when the word “over-
at 5pm. Still, at least we can say we the menu! tourism” is entrenched in our

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dictionaries, and there’s nobody
around either. We can take pics of
St Mark’s Basilica and bell tower,
Doge’s Palace, the Bridge of Sighs
and Columns of San Marco and
San Teodoro without our photo ops
being ruined by hordes of people.
That’s the beauty of quiet season
cruising: We’re here in late January.
It helps that we’ve opted for the
6.45am disembarkation for Viking’s
complimentary At a Glance: St Mark’s
Square
90-minute
walking tour.
By the time it
ends, the sun’s
come out and
the city’s
starting to
sparkle and
come to life.
Delivery men
tug trolleys
laden with
fresh fruit and
veg and other
edible goods
F o rc e o f N AT U R E
to the city’s
restaurants
and eager gondoliers are jostling
for pole positions on the canals.
We have all morning to explore
at will, but it just takes the
10-minute walk from St Mark’s Some parts of the world cast a magnetic,
to the Rialto Bridge – surely the hypnotic spell over cruise passengers,
loveliest sight in Venice – for me drawing them to the best viewing decks,
to become besotted with the city. where they line up in silent homage to
nature’s most majestic wonders. Backs
I fantasise about coming back next
turned temporarily on whatever pleasures
winter to become the resident
the man-made world has to offer – the
bohemian in whichever waterfront comforts, the cocktails and canapés –
hotel will accept me. they focus on the humbling giants of
the natural world. The ice sheets of
Antarctica, Alaska’s glaciers and New
At all five ports of call between Zealand’s Milford Sound are hypnotists.
THE WRITER WAS A GUEST OF VIKING CRUISES.

Venice and Athens, the Viking Star On this cruise, it’s the fjord-like cliffs
is the only cruise ship to come towering over the winding Bay of Kotor winter: We’re blessed with glorious
a’calling. In the lesser-known that command utmost awe, particularly sunshine all the way.
ports – Split, Kotor, Corfu and in the Verige Strait, where ships have But what will our reception be
just 340 metres width to squeeze
Katakolon – we get the red-carpet like in Dubrovnik, which has been
through. Kotor’s a friendly, compact city
treatment. For the local tour groaning under the weight of over-
to chill out in, and if your knees are
guides, souvenir merchants, up to it, the “Ladder of Kotor” and tourism ever since the world became
baristas, buskers and jewellers, our other walking trails up to the churches hooked on Game of Thrones? Well,
visit is a rare chance to earn some and forts on the hills behind the city there’s no groaning in winter! The
tourist dollars in the winter offer stunning views of the UNESCO Viking Star’s passenger capacity is a
off-season. Not that it feels like World Heritage-listed region. modest 930, many of whom disperse

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on shore excursions that fan out city and the sparkling blue sea.
away from the city, including a The views in any direction – red-
mighty 140-kilometre ride to Mostar, orange rooftops, distant hilltops,
in neighbouring Bosnia and nearby islands – are amazing. At the
Herzegovina. It’s my first visit finish I could happily turn round
to Croatia, though, so I’m here and do the circuit again in the
for Dubrovnik. Our three-hour opposite direction. Dubrovnik is a
complimentary walking tour place to visit time and time again. • In Split, Croatia:
A chance encounter
through the cobblestoned Old in the vestibule of
Town is a pleasurable breeze. Diocletian’s Palace
The one thing missing on this with a male klapa
winter jaunt was the chance to (traditional, a cappella,
At the end of the tour, our guide throw a snowball, or build a snowman. multi-part singing) quartet.
recommends doing the two- But there’s ample consolation in the Their angelic voices swirl
kilometre walk atop the castle walls Snow Grotto, my favourite part of around the towering dome left
but warns that some of the steps the Nordic Spa on deck 1 of Viking’s uncovered so as to be a window to
the gods in the sky. The acoustics are
along the way are steep. This could ships. Give me cool over heat any
amazing. Phones out! Press record!
be a game of bones – my knees are day. On my previous Viking cruise,
Start reeling! This is the most
starting to become unreliable. Will though, I’d chickened out of doing Instagramable, Tik-Tokable moment
they let me down in the most scenic the cold-bucket shower after the of the tour. Big claps for the klapas.
of locations? Will the circuit turn sauna, because of the shriek of a
into my Walk of Shame? woman who’d just given it a go.
• Being transported back in
time from the pretty port of
No way! On the Dubrovnik walls Time to rise to the challenge! I take Katakolon to Ancient
you forget you’re human, you feel position, yank the rope ... love it. No Olympia, where the
like a bird soaring over the ancient shriek, just gasps and giggles. AWW Olympic Games were
held as part of the
festival of Zeus every
four years from
776BC until the end of
the 4th century, when
pagan festivals were
abolished and the temples
destroyed. Earthquakes and
mudslides and silt from a nearby river
eventually covered the site, but
excavations over the past 200 years
have given it a wondrous new lease
of life. The Archaeological Museum
at Olympia houses its treasures.
• Getting acquainted with
Corfu, where British
writer Gerald Durrell
spent some of his
childhood, brought to
life in the hilariously
exaggerated memoir
My Family and Other
Animals and its
sequels. Author and
illustrator Edward Lear
also made “the loveliest
place in the world” his winter
writing base between 1855 and 1864.
Bookings are open for all Viking’s
eight-day Venice, the Adriatic &
Above: The walk along the castle walls offers views of Dubrovnik and the harbour.
Greece cruises from now to November
Opposite page, from left: Kotor’s Church of Our Lady of Remedy; the Viking Star seen 2027. See vikingcruises.com.au
from a lookout point on one of Kotor’s walking trails; Kotor’s charming Old City.

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Brimming with cultural and
culinary wonders, Hobart has
the warmth of a country town
with the sophistication of a
major city, making it perfect
for every traveller – particularly
lovers of food and wine.

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a crisp Friday morning But today I’m here to tick an item

when I arrive in Hobart. off my bucket list – The Agrarian
Tasmania’s capital is Experience cooking class with The
known for its stunning Agrarian Kitchen co-founder and chef,
natural beauty and Rodney Dunn. Known for its farm-to- poached bay trumpeter; potato salad
vibrant food scene. Touching down table philosophy, the cooking school, with gribiche dressing; chargrilled
at the airport, I can already sense the restaurant and gardens are located in asparagus and fried fresh artichokes.
charm of this little city nestled on New Norfolk in the Derwent Valley, For dessert, divine rhubarb and
the banks of the Derwent River. about a 40-minute drive from Hobart. elderflower pies with ricotta and
My base for the trip is Lumière Lodge The bespoke, immersive, full-day class honey gelato. All made from scratch
in West Hobart. It’s easy to see why the includes a garden tour, foraging and with love and plenty of laughter!
remodelled 1890s Victorian property is harvesting fresh fruit and vegetables, The day culminates with the meal
billed as “experiential accommodation”. then hands-on learning and cooking. that we prepared, including Tasmanian
There’s a beautiful blend of antique Rodney teaches the skills required wines to match each course.
charm and modern luxury, the with kindness and generosity, then all The city’s natural surroundings and
stained-glass windows and rambling elements of the day’s menu are divvied cool climate make it perfect for growing
courtyard creating a cozy atmosphere up between the group and the cooking diverse, high-quality produce. The local
that transports you back in time. becomes a shared endeavour. The food scene thrives on its access to
I’m impressed by the fully-equipped intimate class size (maximum 12) everything from wild seafood to unique
chef’s kitchen, and the complimentary ensures plenty of opportunities for artisanal products. Plus, the local
welcome samples of local gourmet questions, observations and chatting. restaurants are constantly showcasing
provisions, artisanal baked goods and Our seasonal menu was egg yolk the freshness and creativity that
locally-made cheeses. ravioli with peas and the herb lovage; comes from the area’s bounty.

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Mount
Wellington
No Hobart visit is complete
without a trip to Mount
Wellington, which towers
over 1200 meters above
the city. Hike to the
summit or take the scenic
drive and be rewarded
with breathtaking views
of Hobart and the
surrounding wilderness.

Bruny Island is a foodie’s haven. Restaurant Maria

Above: Mount Wellington towers Located on Brooke Street Pier, its
over Hobart. Left and opposite pared back European vibe combines
page: Lumière Lodge. Mediterranean flavours with locally-
sourced ingredients. Try the wallaby
tartare, Bruny Island oysters, and the
slow-cooked lamb shoulder. Don’t
skip the yoghurt-based panna cotta!

Pigeon Whole Bakers

It’s easy to understand why this has
become a cult favourite. Excellent
sourdough, sandwiches, artisanal
pastries (top) and great coffee.

Salamanca Aloft
Stroll through the cobbled streets of On the top floor of Brooke Street
this historic waterfront area, where Pier, Aloft offers a fusion of fresh,
you’ll find the bustling Salamanca seasonal ingredients with a modern
Market on Saturdays – a vibrant hub Asian twist. The flash-fried saltbush
for local produce, handmade goods was a stand-out, as were the great
and lively street performances. The cocktails and tunes for fun dining.
atmosphere is electric, and you’ll find
plenty of opportunities to chat with
locals and vendors.

MONA – Museum of
Old and New Art
This cutting-edge gallery pushes the
IMAGES. LEAN TIMMS. ALL PRICES ARE APPROXIMATE.
TASMANIA. ADAM GIBSON/TOURISM TASMANIA. GETTY

Hobart is more than a destination, boundaries of art. The museum’s

THE WRITER TRAVELLED AS A GUEST OF TOURISM

collection spans from ancient to

it’s a place that invites you to savour
contemporary and includes pieces The Agrarian Kitchen
every moment and mouthful. A city
that challenge traditional ideas of art Combining freshness, purity and an
that surprises at every corner, with and culture. The journey to MONA is “everything from scratch” ethos
its mix of history, natural beauty and an experience in itself – a ferry ride makes for an experience that goes
modern culture. AWW from Hobart offering stunning views. beyond the meal. It’s a celebration
of both the ingredients and the
Lumière Lodge from $650 per night. Bruny Island processes behind them. This level
Visit lumierelodge.com Just a short ferry ride from Hobart, of care for every aspect really sets
The Agrarian Experience full-day, Bruny Island is famous for its pristine The Agrarian Kitchen (above) apart
hands-on cooking class, $440. natural beauty, wildlife, and delicious as a place of culinary integrity.
Visit theagrariankitchen.com local cheeses and oysters.

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E D I TE D b y B E R NA R D O ’ S H E A
Best
places to
go solo
Helsinki, Finland.

The spectacular four-day Southern Ocean Walk through

some of the most scenic parts of South Australia now
has a foodie sibling: The Fleurieu Gourmet Tour.
It covers similar territory to the former – the best of the
Heysen Trail and the Fleurieu Peninsula – but the walks
are shorter, leaving more time to savour the local
flavours and their wine parings. The tours include three
Zagreb, Croatia. nights’ accommodation at the Homestead in Deep
Creek National Park. See southernoceanwalk.com.au

The Fleurieu Gourmet Tour

includes McLaren Vale wineries,
nature trails (right, top) and
local produce (right, bottom).

Helsinki and Zagreb came out tops

in a study of cities most suited
to solo female travellers in 2025.
The study commissioned by The bible on Australia’s best
Dip ’N Dive looked at safety and beaches is here! Travel journalist
friendliness levels; prices of hotels Celeste Mitchell scoured the 10,000-
and meals; number of free tourist odd beaches on Australia’s coastline
to find the top 80 for the latest in
attractions; weather; and even
Hardie Grant Explore’s “Ultimate”
the locals’ proficiency in English.

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series. Among those making the
Helsinki in Finland got the best grade were Pinky Beach on Rottnest
score of the 25 cities surveyed, Island (left), WA’s Wharton Beach (on
followed by the Croatian capital, cover), and Cosy Corner in the Bay
Zagreb, which ranked very high of Fires. The guide also highlights ISAAC FORMAN. CELESTE MITCHELL. GETTY IMAGES.

for safety. Berlin, Singapore and must-do nearby attractions and lots
Warsaw rounded out the top five. more. Ultimate Beaches: Australia,
on sale June 3, RRP $45.

Did you know? You can visit four Hawaiian islands on

seven-day cruises all year round. The sailings on Norwegian
Cruise Line’s Pride of America depart every Saturday from
Honolulu on O‘ahu, calling in at Kahului (Maui), Hilo and
Kona (Hawai‘i) and Nāwiliwili (Kaua‘i). See ncl.com
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E F F I E Z A H OS i s a m o n e y
c o m m e n t a t o r, a u th o r a n d
Cha n n e l N i n e’s M o n e y E d i t o r.

Nothing spells “trust” more than sharing money

with your other half. But is it a good idea?
some point, most cause of relationship breakdown. plan to share your money, you could
of us meet the Remember too, you and your partner certainly end up sharing it if the
person we want to may be regarded – in the eyes of the relationship ends. It makes some
share the rest of law at least – as a de facto couple long advance planning a good idea.
our life with. It can before you see yourselves this way. Research by comparison site Finder
be a heady time, Under Australian family law, de facto found two-fifths of Australian couples
filled with romance and plans for the relationships are generally those keep their cash separate. And that’s
future. The challenge can be navigating where a couple has lived together for okay – it’s about finding what works
your shared finances. at least two years. This is not the only for you as a couple.
Money may be a fact of life, but benchmark though: Sharing a home, However, there can be valid reasons
it remains a taboo topic for many having a sexual relationship, and to test the waters for sharing your
Australians. And let’s face it, even having kids together can all point money from an early stage. Here are
in the most laid-back relationship, to being a de facto couple. four ideas to get the ball rolling:
conversations about money aren’t Either way, if the relationship ends
exactly romantic pillow talk. you could find yourself looking down 1. Engage in money talk
If you can get money matters right as the barrel of a property settlement Like so many aspects of coupledom,
a couple from day one, however, you will where all assets can be on the table. the sooner you start talking about
have eliminated at least one significant The upshot is that even if you don’t money, the easier it can be. A handy

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 icebreaker is to have relaxed conversations around each You may be happy to take on the role of bill payer and
other’s life goals, and how you both plan to achieve them. financial decision maker. But that doesn’t mean your
At this stage it’s about opening up to each other. partner should be left in the dark.
Hosing down your partner’s aspirations with statements Conversely, if your partner manages the money, alarm
like, “The way you spend you’re never going to achieve bells should start ringing if he or she discourages you from
that!” does nothing to progress the conversation forward. taking an interest in household finances.
That said, early money chats can raise a few red flags. No matter who holds the purse strings (and hopefully it
If you’re keen to save for a home in the next few years, is both of you equally), you should each understand what
while your partner is focused on travelling money decisions were made – and why.
the world with no intention of settling
down, you may need to seriously consider Wa r n i n g! 4. Maintain your own
if the relationship is likely to last. financial identity
Let’s face it, good money management
2. Test-drive a joint calls for a bit of effort. It can be very
bill account seductive to let a partner take care of
Few things say “togetherness” more than household finances, especially if you’re
a shared bank account. And according to a first-time mum, busy working mum,
Finder, 84 per cent of Aussie couples have or if you are caring for ageing relatives.
at least one shared account. REDRAW FACILITY But the reality is that close to two in
In many ways a joint account is the If separating, check your five Australian marriages are expected
ultimate symbol of trust, as you are leaving redraw facility on your to end in divorce.
the door open to your partner walking (or home loan. Ask your bank Maintaining a savings account and even
more likely, running) off with your money. to freeze unilateral a credit card in your own name lets you
withdrawals, especially
That’s why it pays to start small. preserve your “financial identity” – a clear
if your spouse has risky
Think about opening a shared account record of how you save, manage expenses
spending habits.
where you both contribute just enough and handle credit. It will also allow you
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ANY ADVICE PROVIDED IS GENERAL IN NATURE AND DOES NOT TAKE YOUR PERSONAL CIRCUMSTANCES

each payday to cover household bills. CREDIT SCORE to build up your own credit score.
This way, if your other half shoots through Credit scores don’t merge This sort of record will stand you in good
with the cash, you shouldn’t lose too much. when you marry, but both stead if the relationship hits the rocks and
A shared account is also an opportunity are considered for a joint you need to apply for a loan or credit in
to gain valuable insights into your home loan. A bad score your name at any point in the future.
could mean the difference
partner’s attitude to money. Are you I stress that it’s not about hoping for
INTO CONSIDERATION. READERS SHOULD SEEK THEIR OWN FINANCIAL ADVICE.

between approval and

constantly reminding them to cough up for the best and planning for the worst.
rejection.
bills? Do they continually claim to be short Rather, it’s about recognising that your
on cash but “will fix you up” next month? DIRECTOR personal financial identity matters.
In the early bloom of love it can be Be cautious if your partner Yes, sharing your money is a sign of
easy to overlook financial shortcomings, asks you to become a love and trust. And that underpins every
especially if other aspects of your life director of their company. lasting relationship.
together are fantastic. It could come with legal and But you matter as an individual too.
financial responsibilities
But please, keep an eye on the future. And one thing you should be able to
that impact you personally.
A partner with poor spending habits or a control, regardless of your relationship
“whatever” attitude to money, can have a big RED FLAGS status, is your personal financial identity.
impact on your future financial wellbeing. If your partner is reluctant to You never know when you may need to
talk about money, becomes rely on it. AWW
3. Divide financial chores defensive, is always short of
but stay engaged cash, or spends excessively,
In any relationship, one person almost it might indicate hidden Find more money articles and
always earns more than their partner.
financial problems. Stay savings tips from Effie online at
alert to protect yourself.
And it’s equally likely that one person
is better at paying bills than the other.

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E D I TE D b y L I L I TH RO C H A

Apr 22 - May 21

This month’s best birthday

present to yourself? The practical
magic of taking “you time” every
day, even a few minutes. To ditch
devices, step out of routine
obligations and tap into deep
inner calm. During the middle
two weeks of May, the sun,
executive Mercury and innovative
Uranus synching up in Taurus
could bring a breakthrough in
your work or finances if you’re
willing to think outside the box
and experiment with new
methods. Plus, they’re pushing
for a wardrobe refresh to start
your new astrological year in
suitably fine style.

May 22 - Jun 22 Jun 23 - Jul 23 Jul 24 - Aug 23

This month’s energetic upsurge in May honours Mother’s Day and all With Mars pumping up the volume in
your sector of social groups – known Cancerians are mothers to something, Leo, your dress code is head-turning
in traditional astrology as the house whether family, animal or enterprise. and nobody could accuse your
of joy – is about networking, Geminis’ So acknowledge whatever you’ve majesties of underselling: you’ll make
superpower. In late May, articulate nurtured with a celebration that’s every invite sound like the must-attend
Mercury, big-picture Jupiter, the sun meaningful to you. If mid-month’s event of the season. But as always,
and this year’s only new moon in intense full moon of consuming conditions apply – which are that
Gemini form a powerful planetary passions sparks a jealous or possessive Mars can escalate drama (avoid a
quartet to kindle exciting synergies flare-up, it’s advisable to cool down Game of Thrones approach) and also
with kindred spirits old and new, rather than attempt conciliation while incline you to exaggeration. There’s
bringing opportunities to join people are feeling hot-headed and nothing wrong with a little poetic
forces with others who share your righteous. The new moon on May 27 licence, but over-bedazzling the truth
enthusiasm. Even better? Neptune in the sign of media communication is likely to attract backlash. You might
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and Saturn at a friendly angle are and local activity is one of the year’s feel like pushing the envelope, but
likely to attract collaborators with a most delightful for community think carefully before posting
rare mix of ingenuity and stability. interactions and gatherings. anything provocative this month.

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After April’s fast, furious and fiery In this down-to-earth, taking care of In traditional astrology Mars is
interactions, May’s planetary speed business month you’re quite likely Scorpio’s ruler, and the red planet in
slows to a steadier, more practical to find that the glitches and hitches its most glamorous and theatrical
and productive, Virgo-friendly pace. which seemed insoluble in April placement this month calls for adding
But while it’s natural to concentrate become manageable, workable, even a big dash of flair anywhere life has
on what’s in front of you, without potentially positive. Love planets got a bit predictable or vanilla. So
regularly scheduled focus shifts, Mars and Venus dancing a playful shake up any stagnant habits or stale
this could have the downside of fandango in show-off fire signs are behaviours. Dress up for everything,
narrowing your attention span and calling for an overhaul of whatever’s not just special occasions, and make
perspective so you miss out on become repetitive or monotonous all occasions special. At this year’s
opportunities. All of which is less in the life of Libra. So when May’s Scorpio full moon on May 13, celebrate
likely if you make dedicated time last 10 days switch on celestial fairy your achievements: your deep and
to stop and appreciate life’s lights in your astrological sector of meaningful connections; your loyal,
never-ending supply of small joys, new adventures, expect to be revelling sexy self; your phoenix ability to
whatever they are for you. Need in the latest, most up-to-date styles, transform challenges and difficulties
reminding? Stick a list on the fridge. trends, buzz and fizz. into valuable learning curves.

Nov 23 - Dec 21 Dec 22 - Jan 20

Taurus season energises your zodiac zone of work and With the sun and managerial Mercury in their
wellness, so May is Sagittarians’ month for putting most practical placement, May’s earthy energies are
healthy habits in place and finding ways to make daily Capricorn compatible, so think tactics and strategies.
tasks more efficient and enjoyable. Mars in your sector of You’ll save time, money and energy with advance
adventure and personal growth gives entrepreneurial planning, so do those recent exciting ideas and
ventures and educational pursuits a high-octane boost. propositions have legs? Crunch numbers and work
And Jupiter, Sagittarians’ ruling planet, spending its last through estimates for what has potential to go the
month in your relationship zone (it won’t be back for distance and be profitable as well. But all work and no
more than a decade) suggests defining and clarifying play makes boring Capricorns, so don’t be slow to factor
partnerships of all kinds to expand your personal in a generous dose of leisure time for all those creature
resources before the gas giant moves next month. comforts, pleasures and indulgences you love.

Jan 21 - Feb 19 Feb 20 - Mar 20 Mar 21 - Apr 21

Aquarius is a collaborative sign, Neptune and Saturn finally winding As this month shifts your focus
and Pluto beginning its annual up their long residency in your sign from personal reinvention, use
retrograde here suggests the have May’s planetary perambulations May’s grounding energy to secure
possibility of power plays disrupting bringing the Pisces tribe a welcome a stable base and get workable
team efforts. If you’re unable to gain degree of sweet relief as pressures plans in place for bringing those
traction, use Pluto’s snooze cycle ease, complications unravel, and exciting new ideas to life. Vibrant
to tap the brakes and take a reality life’s possibilities brighten. If Venus Venus with her red dress on in
check. Ask yourself these questions: and Neptune in your money zone your sign is bold, confident and
Is everyone aligned and on the same this month fire up a generous and raring to go, and there’s more
page? Have you taken on too much? commendable passion to assist (drum roll) … The biggest news
This five-month transit can be a people not blessed with as much of all is taskmaster Saturn moving
blessing in disguise if you release good fortune as you – and they may – into Aries for the first time in
the pressure valve and gear down please keep reminding yourself 30 years. And who better than
to a less stressful, slow and steady, to direct some of that love and structured, strategic, systematic
phased approach, with each step a a few of those treats towards your Saturn to usher dreams into reality?
foundational support for the next. own deserving self as well. Ready, set, manifest! AWW

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Nineteen-year-old model Kathy Murrell was “the girl with the longest legs in Sydney”, said this issue’s cover
notes. “She was a natural choice to illustrate the new long-legged look”. That look was so-called as “in a bombshell
explosion that has rocked the fashion world, Paris couturiers upped the hemline almost to the knees”. Readers
could find instructions for raising hems at home on page 30. Elsewhere, staff reporter Helen Frizell caught up with
WORDS BY TIFFANY DUNK.

Rosalie Kunoth-Monks to see what she’d been up to since starring in Jedda (1955). Now 21, Rosalie was in Adelaide,
helping care for the five children of Rev. Lionel Renfrey at his rectory. In her room, she had photos of modern-day
stars pinned to her wardrobe door. “My favourite is Jimmy Dean,” Rosalie told Helen. A report on page 27 investigated
whether handwriting could be used to identify your soulmate. The article saw two leading graphologists
(handwriting experts) analyse several couples’ penmanship with interesting results. If you were feeling the
need for love, however, you could enter the Puppy Talk Contest on page 64 to win a cute fox terrier. AWW

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