COMPLETE Draft Custody
COMPLETE Draft Custody
Introduction
volume of water into a single bottle. There are two primary difficulties in
categorizing Indian literature-- the first is that so much of it was in the form of
oral traditions rather than written, making it impossible to date when a work
was first composed. Secondly, with 'India' being a legal construct barely 68
years old, there is difficulty in figuring out who and what should be considered
Indian history. The Vedic literary tradition thus places itself at a transmission
stage of history between Pre-history and the Historical period. The Vedic
literary tradition started around 1500 BCE with the emergence of the Aryan
Culture. This literature gives information about the cultural and spiritual
events during that period, including the names of certain tribes and their
leaders and sages. Vedic literature is said to be the oldest readable Literature in
Indian history.
Harappan texts are available, but they have not been deciphered to
date. Vedic literature is intrinsically connected with spirituality. The term Veda
third, discuss matters associated with the meditation of God, and general
musings of the world and humans. Aranykas and Upanishads are partially
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The correct date of the origin of early Tamil Literature is not traceable.
But it might have begun between the AD 1st Century and Century. Early Tamil
Tamil literature is a fusion of Tamil and Aryan cultures, which are different.
centre place of Sangam was the Madurai in Tamil Nadu. In the later phase,
Tamil words and letters. Sangam literature is widely divided into two sections
which are Ettuthokai (eight works), Pathuppatu (ten works). Based on their
This section is related to the concept of society. It deals with the ethics of
social life, munificence and valour of king and war. Other one is Subjective. It
Bhakti movement include the mystic realization of God within oneself and the
ultimate union of the individual with God, based on loving devotion on the
popular later in the sixth and tenth century CE. In south India, it started during
the reign of Pallava kingdom. Then it spread to other parts of south India,
including the regions under the Pandya and the Chera kingdom. The preachers
Brahmin tradition is that it is more inclusive. There were people from lower
castes, and there were also women in the Nayanars or Adiyars. The main
difference of the bhakti culture from the Vedic Bhakti movement like Andal.
There were also conflicts between the bhakti movement, including Alvars and
Nayanars with Jainism and Buddhism, the main religions in medieval south
India.
Writings in India during the high and late colonial periods were largely
influence or impact represents the features of modernity that derived from the
Indians in English and other regional languages during the colonial period.
scant. The early colonial phases of the 17th and 18th centuries seldom saw
hegemony, includes mimicking their crude forms and resisting its dogma.
identity.
popular belief that Printing and publish, modern modalities, would churn out
bend itself to market demands. Publishing during colonial times thus turned
into the reproduction of pre-modern folktales, myths and romances that had
better demand among native readers rather than bring them the tenets of
European modernity.
Sydney, Vancouver, and Chennai, the same powerful paper published a full-
page storey on the books of R.K. Narayan, a Chennai native. Rammohan Roy
and Ranade, Dadabhai and Phirose shah, Surendranath and Bipin Pal,
Sankaran Nair and S. Srinivasan Iyengar, Tilka and Gokhale, Malaviya and
and thought-provoking. Aurobindo wasn't the only author who used western
and eastern myths and stories to produce what he termed "poetry of the soul."
which earned him the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913, making him the first
author from outside of Europe to receive the honour. The late President of
ambassador for Indian culture across the world, is widely regarded as one of
the greatest Indian poets of all time. His most important works are Ghare
to literature are still only available in the Bengali language, despite the fact
R. K. Narayan is a famous Indian author best known for his works set
sophistication, ingenuity, and wit. His services to literature have earned him
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the Padma Bhushan. In 1935, he had his first tale, Swami and Friends,
published. Both Bachelor of Arts (1936) and The Darkroom (1938) followed
shortly afterwards. Bachelor of Arts, R.K. Narayan's second book, was a huge
hit over there. One of his many fans was the acclaimed author, Graham
Malgudi, the setting of many of his novels and stories, is an integral part of his
writing. The English Teacher (1945), Mr. Sampath (also known as The
Talkative Man , Waiting for the Mahatma also known as The Guide, are just a
in the state in 1952. She communicated with the United States and Canada.
She, with Gandhi and Nehru, was arrested in 1939, during World War II. She
started her career as a writer when she was just eleven years old, in 1890,
when she wrote her first poem. In 1892, she wrote The Lady of the Lake, a
long poem with 1300 lines, in only six days. That same year, she wrote a
2000-line play. In 1905, she published her first book of poetry, titled Golden
Threshold. Forty poems cover a wide range of topics. Poems like "Innovation
to India" and "Lord Buddha Seated on Lotus" have made this collection
famous. The Bird of Time, her second book of poetry, was published in
London in 1912.
There were 46 love-themed lyrics in all. The Broken Wings, her third
collection of poetry, was published in London that year, 1917. There are 61
poems in all. The Sector Flute (1953), The Feathers of Dawn (1961), and The
Temple (1963) are her other collections. In India, she is revered as much as the
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"Nightingale." After India gained its independence, Sarojini Naidu became the
country's first female governor. The success of her book of rhymes established
Kerala in the 1960s and 1970s, depicted by Arundhati Roy in her book
The God of Small Things (1997), is a microcosm of the bigger national scene,
marked by clashing political beliefs, deep chasms separating the rich and poor,
food shortages, economic stagnation, joblessness, and, most of all, caste and
the subaltern under the heel of mighty social and political forces. Over the
intervening years, Roy has used her high profile in India to become "a writer
for the victims of modernity" rather than an advocate for the things she
believes in.
condemned the government for its choice to initiate nuclear tests. As she fights
all of these nuclear tests at once when so many people in India are living in
filthy slums and terrible poverty. She is calling on the government of India and
the rest of the globe to reevaluate their treatment of the planet and its
inhabitants.
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Chetan Bhagat's works are worth millions, as was just indicated. It's
interesting to think about how these books' styles and themes resonate with
today's youth since they are so similar to those of blockbuster Hindi films.
narratives like the ones in his book. Young people are drawn to Bhagat's novel
cinema. Bhagat's writings resonate with young people in part because they
literature. By writing in both the literary and nonfiction genres, she will secure
a place for herself among the constellation of Indian female writers. A River
Sutra (1993), Karma Cola (1979), Snakes and Ladders (1997), Raj (1993),
and Eternal Ganesha (2006) are all works of hers that deserve recognition.
collection. He has also written five non-fiction books, and co-edited two
Midnight’s Children, the book that he is best known for. He won the Booker
Prize (1981), the Booker of Bookers (1993), and the Best of the Booker (2008)
Verses, Haroun and the Sea of Stories, The Moor’s Last Sigh, The Ground
Beneath Her Feet, Fury, Shalimar the Clown, The Enchantress of Florence,
Luka and the Fire of Life, Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights,
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The Golden House and Quichotte, the last having made it to the Booker Prize
shortlist in 2019.
with modern dilemmas. Girish Karnad’s works reflect the fusion of tradition
issues such as communalism, gender identity, and LGBTQ+ rights. His works,
like Final Solutions and Tara have earned him critical acclaim. Indian
and Nobel Prize nominations. Their works have been translated into many
She graduated from the Miranda House University College for women and
she is a teacher of English literature at her alma mater Miranda House College,
Delhi.
She has three daughters. Her first novel, Difficult Daughters, won the
1999 Commonwealth Writers' Prize, best first book, Europe and South Asia.
Manju Kapur’s debut novel Difficult Daughters earned her substantial success,
tradition is strongly apparent in her novels. The search for control over one’s
destiny is the key theme. Manju Kapur speaks for the middle-class and even
has been earned several comparisons with Jane Austen for her sharp-eyed,
When Kapur’s first novel came out in 1998, India had just tasted
Prizewinning debut novel, The God of Small Things (1997). The next year,
Jhumpa Lahiri, an American woman of Indian origin, won the Pulitzer Prize
for her first collection of short stories, The Interpreter of Maladies. In contrast
social miseries the women experience, the way in which the women folks
encounter and battle the barriers they face, the male dominance in the society,
the turmoil the woman folks experience in obtaining equality, the sufferings
Abstract:
Manju Kapur’s novel Custody narrates the story of two women who
suffer under the constraints of traditional family values. The story revolves
around two couples, Raman and Shagun, who undergo a divorce and battle for
the custody
of their children. The novel explores the lives of two very different
women: Shagun, who desires a modern, unrestricted life, and Ishita, who longs
for love and support but is rejected by her own family due to her infertility.
Both women face similar struggles, as they are held back by societal
and familial expectations rather than being allowed to make their own choices.
Shagun represents the modern woman, leaving her family behind to pursue an
woman, adheres to societal norms without hesitation. However, her life takes a
drastic turn when her infertility leads to her being cast aside by her family.
The novel explores themes such as the search for love, freedom,
identity, and the suppression of women. Kapur presents these two women as
victims of a rigid traditional society. By the end of the novel, both characters
Khanna, while Raman and Ishita gain custody of Roohi, allowing Ishita to find
Manju Kapur has her own concerns, priorities as well as her own ways
the modern-day women authors, has expressed herself freely and boldly on a
tradition. However, the novelist seems to be aware of the fact that the women
of India have indeed achieved their success in sixty years of Independence, but
war and peace external and internal. It reflects the nature of both nature and
man. The broad definition incorporation everything that has been written
down in some form or another i.e. all the written manifestations of a culture.
communication about the topic. Furthermore, this concept neglects the fact
that in many cultures in the past and for a number of original people today,
literature has not been arrested in written media but has been passed down
popular till the 17thcentury. Wide extending themes are dealt with in Indian
important relation with the social and political history of the mid- nineteenth
century. The first half of the nineteenth century saw gradual improvement of
India was faced with a number of crises including social, political and
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own culture and traditions. While some of the authors pen in English, most
have been successful enough to maintain the unique flavour of their region
in their works. Indian writers in English have made the significant influence
to the novel. The rich and the wonderful legacy of India was the strength of
The first novel written In Bengali was Alaler Gharer Dalal‟s Spolit
Sort of a Rich Family, which was published in 1858. It also gives nice
Custody
marriage, infidelity, divorce, and child custody battles, depicting the emotional
pressures. The novel provides a deep psychological insight into family life,
making it a strong example of domestic fiction. The novel deals with the battle
of divorce and its consequences in the Indian society where the marital
These problems arose in the family when Shagun, the beautiful wife of
Raman, found the love of her life outside wedlock. This upper middle-class
family was doing well until Shagun fell for Raman’s boss Ashok and had an
extramarital affair with him. When Raman suspected this affair, it had a hard
effect on him, both physically and mentally. Later the dispute for the custody
of the children arose when Shagun demanded a divorce out of mutual consent.
On the other side, Ishita, a young woman, was divorced because of her
were the people who had to suffer the most. The eldest boy could understand
the domestic changes that took place and was constantly worried about the
society’s eye on him and his family. The youngest couldn’t comprehend the
fact of two mothers, two fathers, two countries, and ultimately two families.
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children, under the pretence of legal rights and parental ego battles, are
shuttled between those two individuals, who in the very first place were
supposed to give them a happy, carefree, and contented childhood. The novel
narrates the story of Raman and Shagun, a married couple with two children,
Soon Shagun meets Ashok Khanna, Raman’s boss, and they immediately fall
in love. When Raman discovers their love affair, Shagun has to decide what
She asks Raman for a divorce, but he turns into a vengeful person. In
another part of Delhi is Ishita, whose marriage collapses because she cannot
have children of her own. She tries to find some satisfaction and a sense of
identity in social work, but she abandons it when she meets the divorced
Raman. Since she is drawn to him, she believes she can be happy as a
stepmother. In the second half of the novel, the story focuses on the custody of
the children, the bitter legal battle, and the price of freedom.
father and husband, head of the family, who goes out to the world to fight and
make money, who has to be looked after. After he comes back home, he also
does not care much for his own wife or children. His professional career is
more important than them. He seems to be married to his job and company.
His parents would never question him. They assume that a woman’s
The husband produces and goes out into the public sphere, and the wife gives
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life to children and takes care of them at home in the private sphere. Amid the
demands of the four grown-ups, Raman, Shagun, Ashok, and Ishita, in this tale
of broken marriages, the children remain quietly in the background until the
novel’s second half. It is then that we begin to see the disastrous side effects of
the bitter fight for their custody, the tyranny of blood, and their trauma, torn
The shattered lives of the children are due to the extramarital affair of
the parent, the in-law’s treatment of a woman who cannot conceive, and the
eyed, beautiful wife of Raman, falls in love with his charismatic, handsome
boss, Ashok Khanna, who has never been in love before and is determined to
possess the woman he now loves. It does not matter to him how, but he goes
about conquering Shagun’s mind, body, and soul like a seasoned, persuasive
to resist. The pace of the story gains momentum as their affair begins to
become more fiery, daring, and passionate. Shagun has no regrets about lying
choices she makes. For example, she leaves her kids with her mother to go off
for weekend trysts with her newfound lover. Yet she convinces herself all the
time that she is a devoted mother to her children. She goes to all lengths to
brainwash her children against their own father, knowing that this would be
The story skirts our closest to the society’s traditional norms and
tiny social observations, such as how Shagun’s mother does her best to coax
completely stop confiding in her mother if this is how she is going to take
sides. It is evident that marital life in India is fast disintegrating and being
and so on. As a parallel story, the plot swerves to the troubles of Ishita, who is
the daughter of Raman’s mother’s friend and neighbour. Reflecting the dismal
though they were all dear friends, changed overnight when they realised that
extramarital affair of the parent, the in-law’s treatment of a woman who cannot
families, particularly in tackling situations like this. The well-knit story reveals
the layers of dirt that are hidden behind the happy family. syndrome among
discussions with the doctor to dig deep into understanding the medical cause
of this condition.
Ishita’s fault and that this happened because she had contracted an illness in
childhood that had damaged her system. In Ishita’s story there is nothing
understanding for the girl, who could have been seen as a daughter instead of a
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love to her, becomes the obedient son to his parents. The coldness, the cruel
indifference, and finally the rejection of a wife solely because she cannot bear
a child are portrayed in a heartrending way. Even domestic pets are treated
teach underprivileged children. She loves children, and they love her back.
Gradually, she finds hope in the process, her own sense of individuality. In the
second attempt, Ishita marries Raman and thus returns to the status so rudely
snatched from her, the status of wifehood and motherhood, which endows her
with legitimacy.
Ishita’s union to Raman empowers her and gives her strength to fight for the
household’s common target: the custody of his children. Some women, like
Ishita, Raman’s second wife, may be fully satisfied being guardians of their
family. But Shagun’s spirit, like that of so many other women, is different. She
has never been able to guide her life. Everything has been decided by her
parents, family, and cultural customs. In this novel children become the
and invent lies over Roohi’s illness. She exercises power over the small child
by teaching her what she has to say in court in order to win the custody of the
little girl. Their lawyer, a friend of the family, does not oppose Ishita and
Raman.
internal structures to maintain power over others and have control of their
possessions, the more they transgress ethics and democratic laws. More
appreciative was the insight into the difficult situation divorce puts the
children in. Through Arjun and Roohi, we are shown how a perfect childhood
can get messed up and how the care takers egos and their personal desires can
Some of the most well-written chapters were those involving the kids
and how the adult’s fiddling with their minds can not only coerce them but
also leave a lasting impression that eventually makes them into adults with
troubled emotions. Ishita cannot dominate the boy, who is older and capable of
discerning her dishonest behaviour, but she can control the little girl, Roohi, to
whom she gives a new name, Roohi. This new name represents that the child
is hers and not Shagun’s. To a certain extent, the readers feel compassion for
the barren Ishita, who still suffers from the reminiscences of her past
supervision, she needs to demonstrate to herself and to the others that she is a
good, loving mother for Roohi. Entrapped in such a suffocating family, her
egoistic love compels her to break whatever democratic ethical agreements are
She never speaks to Shagun, nor does she make the effort to
understand her as a mother and woman who also wants to be happy. Roohi’s
custody constitutes Ishita’s last chance to cure her past frustrations and be
accepted as a good mother and exemplary wife among those who dictate or
abide by patriarchal socio-cultural norms. The novel portrays the stress and
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globalisation and liberalisation ideas affecting the Indian culture. This novel
focuses on the two children of Raman and Shagun. In this ugly battle of
‘custody’ and ‘divorce,’ the children are treated like commodities in constant
daughter, becomes a victim of slight nervous disorder, and she becomes quite
eight-year-old boy who has inherited Shagun’s appearance and her character
traits, like being selfish, cruel, and indifferent to everything for his own
satisfaction. Whereas Roohi, two years younger than Arjun, is “right from the
beginning it was clear that Baby Roohi was a carbon copy of her father,” who
Raman and Shagun are not aware of the most important factor the child
psychology and the stress upon the children’s psyche. The stress upon the
children to choose one of the parents is the most difficult and most
emotionally devastating trauma to bear with. The parents are unaware of the
the first one to get affected. She is in a confused state and unable to tell her
Whereas Arjun is having a hard time with his father’s position replaced
by Ashok Khanna. The children’s happy childhood days have become full of
scars with broken family memories, which eventually would make them adults
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with troublesome emotions. Arjun and Roohi also suffer from parental
alienation.
They feel isolated by the parents because of their divorce and family
problems. Shagun’s extramarital affair with Ashok Khanna, the hasty second
marriage between Shagun and Ashok, and Raman with Ishita Rajora are the
reasons for the parental alienation of the children. Before the divorce of
Raman and Shagun, the separation in them is seen clearly by their indifferent
activities at home.
Arjun spends most of his time in his friend’s house, and Roohi is taken
care of by her father at night, and she sucks her thumb desperately. Roohi
reflected the brokenness of the family in constant loud wails that grated on all
their nerves. This shows the emotional imbalance in Roohi. She also screams
maid Ganga in the house comes running to Shagun in the garden and tells her
that Roohi had been screaming hysterically for fifteen minutes; not even Sahib
by the children. When Raman comes home in the evenings, Shagun moves out
of the house. The reason why Roohi is affected by slight nervous disorder is
because of her father’s (Raman) illness. Her father’s illness had upset the child
so much that she began to have nightmares, she explained to the bemused
parents.
Raman is forced to lie to his children when they ask for their mother.
He says Shagun has gone to take care of their grandmother. Arjun can see
through his father’s lies. Arjun and Roohi’s education also gets affected
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has become quiet and absent-minded in class. Arjun’s math and English marks
go down when he is in the custody of his new legal stepfather, Ashok Khanna,
who is not as caring as his biological father, Raman, who can teach him both
subjects. Arjun also forges his mother Shagun’s signature in the test papers in
which he has scored low marks and hands them over to the teacher. The moral
psyche and children’s psychology are at stake because of the divorce issue
In the divorce and custody paper, Raman accuses Shagun and Ashok of
well-being; she herself was an evil moral influence”. The children, who are
exposed to such emotional imbalance in their early childhood, are at the risk of
Syndrome, and it has also been proved medically. They develop hatred
towards one of the parents, especially those who are no longer in charge of
their custody.
The story focuses on the shattered lives of the children, the bitter legal
battle, and the price of freedom. At the beginning of the story, it is seen that
Raman is in his traditional role of father and husband and the head of the
background until the novel’s second half. It is then that the disastrous effects
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of the bitter fight for the custody of studdles being and the tyranny of blood
and their trauma, torn between two mothers, two homes, and two countries,
ensue. While the parents are embroiled in a legal battle for custody of the
children, they do everything they can to make the children feel worse. Their
The children find their own ways to tackle the crisis because they are
confused and feel divided. Loyalty swarmed around them, throwing them into
tough, emotionally disturbing situations with their parents being the worst of
all. The father realises that marriage to Shagun, whom he had loved blindly,
had been a big mistake. One who has children too would also pay a heavy
price. The novel asks questions on who will get custody of the kids. It
The novel is a true story of modern marriage that exists around us.
This is true in today’s world. The writer indicates that children are God's gift
in every parent’s life. The modern world does not think so. The parents seek
their own will. The parents have an affair with someone else. But they do not
look after the interest of their own children. It is the riveting story of how love
can disintegrate into an obsession towards possessing children, body and soul.
narratives deal with the marriages that collapse, social hypocrisies, and the
and disintegration. Modern family life can be stressful, and with various
pressures on families, it’s not always easy. Ultimately, parents want what is
best for their child, and a strong parent-child relationship can help lead to
better outcomes for children. Ishita is a stepmother of Roohi and Arjun. Ishita,
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a childless divorcee, marries Raman after his divorce. She is a perfect wife and
mother to Raman. Parents are a child’s first teachers and role models.
their parents, so it is important that they should be good role models that the
behaviour for their children. Children are very smart and observant. Divorce
Arjun stops going to school because of the shame that his mother is
divorced, and he is the kind of single parent. He sees other children enjoying
their holidays, arriving at school functions, or going for outings with both their
mother and father. Shagun is not a perfect mother, and her role is replaced by
Ishita in taking care of Roohi by giving her motherly love. Ishita could
understand the exact role of a mother, and she performs it well. She can’t leave
Roohi for a second and is not ready to send her to Shagun when the court
custody turn comes. She is more curious about protecting Roohi than her
father, Raman. Roohi and Ishita have a better understanding that even Roohi
Roohi learns good manners from Ishita and is melted by her care and
love. The ways the two children, Arjun and Roohi, are brought up get reflected
in their behaviour. Arjun cannot move friendly even with his real father easily,
but Roohi can easily attach with Ishita and others. Children could be moulded
mentally and emotionally. When parents fail to do that, then their children’s
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lives take different directions. Kapur discusses Ishita's shattered marriage due
to her inability to bear children. Her husband divorced her due to her
today. Some people commonly marry in order to have offspring who will
continue their family line. A woman is considered unfit for marriage if she
Two and a half more would be given six months later when the final
proceedings were over. The interim six months was a period meant for the
reconciliation process. What process? though Ishita dearly, there was never a
How can we make money to compensate for the people who are
broken? Money is not the best way to find balance. Furthermore, when people
attempt to compensate with money, can they rely on the appropriate criterion
for the amount of money that the husband provides to the wife? In the case of
the divorce of Raman and Shagun, Shagun was not in favour of any financial
settlement. She said, don’t make it harder. I have left you the best part of the
marriage. Surely my freedom is not too much to ask in exchange?” In the case
the decision to separate from her husband, but since she was a homemaker and
involved with Raman's boss, she was unable to negotiate a financial settlement
with Raman.
between divorce among couples with children and nulliparous couples. It all
starts with anomalies that occurred shortly after their marriage; Shagun
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married Raman, although she didn't like her union from the beginning. She
wanted a self-sufficient life and admired the women who worked for
modelling agencies.
knowing the excitement it would provide. When he first knew Shagun, she had
wanted to be a model, but her mother was strongly opposed to a career that
would allow all kinds of lechery near her lovely daughter. “Do what you like
after you marry, she had said, but after marriage there had been a child.”
Kapur also throws light on the other characters involved in this upheaval. Due
to Shagun's marital conflict, nobody has suffered more than Shagun's mother,
Mrs. Sabharwal. She regards Raman as the kindest and most caring son-in-
law. Having gone through the agony of separation, she could not choose the
best side for herself. She attempts to persuade her daughter to reconsider her
decision and occasionally tries to defend her daughter Shagun during phone
is not such a bad idea, went on Mrs. Sabharwal carefully. „After all, it is a
question of your whole future, along with that of your children’s” (94). Shagun
was well aware of her mother's true motivations for persuading her. Raman
had been very good to her mother and had shown her much love and care.
Raman's parents, they were proud of his academic achievements. They were
looking for a relationship where the bride would be lovely and caring to
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Raman. Marriage problems usually begin when people expect the bride or
eventually wears out. The same thing happened in Raman's marriage. Shagun's
expectations were entirely at odds with her reality. People make mistakes,
when a person manipulates the other one, their mind, and provides a false
about Raman, who is an outstanding and diligent individual, his family asks
parents tried their hardest to find Raman an excellent match, but marriage is a
highly complex phase of one's life. One must concentrate on discovering what
one genuinely likes and hates. Raman spent the next five years in IIT, then
another two years of even greater toil at IIM, Ahmedabad, to finally land a job
at India’s Think Tank with a six-figure annual salary. I will ask Bhabhi to look
for a bride, said Mr. Kaushik; she has done such a good job with Rohini. Fits
in perfectly. Such lovely children too”. In the case of Shagun, she expected
more than just being a typical housewife. As Mrs. Sabharwal starts enticing
her and represents an illusion that even she was unaware of, Shagun marries
Raman.
In the second scenario of a shattered marriage, Ishita and SK loved and cared
for each other until SK expected a kid from his wife, Ishita. Ishita was forced
to divorce after failing to meet his expectations. Though the marriages were
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shattered in both cases, it also demonstrated that life allows people another
Ishita, while Shagun finds love with Ashok Khanna. It may seem fine for a
while when people find happiness with someone else outside of marriage, but
the legal and judicial processes for securing a divorce are pretty strict.
happening around them at a young age. Arjun and Roohi, Raman and Shagun's
children, were in a similar situation. Amid his parent’s drama, Arjun found it
challenging to breathe. His mother once duped him into avoiding his father,
Raman.
heard about their hardships. Ishita's life focuses on working for an NGO, being
centres around Ashok and Arjun. Finding their love again not only heals the
In both cases, through all the chaos and turmoil, the novel ends with a
new pair of husband and wife. Some spaces will never be filled, like Roohi's
absence in Arjun and Shagun's life and Arjun's absence in Raman's life. The
Conclusion
impact of marital discord, divorce, and child custody battles on her characters.
The novel portrays how these conflicts lead to shattered lives, affecting not
only the adults involved but also the children caught in between. The
custody.
Throughout the process of divorce, the children, Arjun and Roohi were
the people who had to suffer the most. The eldest boy could understand the
domestic changes that took place and was constantly worried about the
society’s eye on him and his family. The youngest couldn’t comprehend the
fact of two mothers, two fathers, two countries and ultimately two families.
After years of struggle, the custody of the girl was given to Raman and Ishita
whereas the boy was in boarding school and was older enough to decide his
consequences on children who are played like pawns in a game of legal chess.
under the pretence of legal rights and parental ego battles are shuttled between
those two individuals, who in the very first place were supposed to give them
The novel narrates the story of Raman and Shagun, a married couple
enjoyed a privileged life. Soon Shagun meets Ashok Khanna, Raman’s boss,
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and they immediately fall in love. When Raman discovers their love affair,
Shagun has to decide what she wants to do, or what she can do. She asks
part of Delhi is Ishita whose marriage collapses because she cannot have
children of her own. She tries to find some satisfaction and a sense of identity
in social work but she abandons it when she meets the divorced Raman. Since
she is drawn to him, she believes she can be happy as a step mother. In the
second half of the novel, the story focuses on the custody of the children, the
father and husband, of head of the family who goes out to the world to fight
and make money, who has to be looked after when he comes back home, but
also does not care much for his own wife or children. His professional career
goes out into the public sphere and wife gives life to children and takes care of
Amid the demands of the four grown-ups Raman, Shagun, Ashok and
Ishita in this tale of broken marriages, the children remain quietly in the
background until the novel’s second half. It is then that we begin to see the
disastrous side-effects of the bitter fight for their custody, the tyranny of blood
and their trauma, torn between two mothers, two homes and two countries.
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The shattered lives of the children are due to the extramarital affair of the
parent, the in-law’s treatment of a woman who cannot conceive, and the
eyed, beautiful wife of Raman, falls in love with his charismatic, handsome
boss, Ashok Khanna, who has never been in love before and is determined to
possess the woman he now loves. It does not matter to him how, but he goes
about conquering Shagun’s mind, body, and soul like a seasoned, persuasive
marketer.
resist. The pace of the story gains momentum as their affair begins to become
more fiery, daring, and passionate. Shagun has no regrets about lying to her
husband or to her own mother. The extent of her selfishness and ability to be
cruel is visible in the choices she makes. For example, she leaves her kids with
her mother to go off for weekend trysts with her newfound lover. Yet she
convinces herself all the time that she is a devoted mother to her children. She
goes to all lengths to brainwash her children against their own father, knowing
that this would be useful to negotiate her terms of divorce when it is finally
time.
The story skirts our closest to the society’s traditional norms and
tiny social observations, such as how Shagun’s mother does her best to coax
completely stop confiding in her mother if this is how she is going to take
sides. It is evident that marital life in India is fast disintegrating and being
and so on. As a parallel story, the plot swerves to the troubles of Ishita, who is
the daughter of Raman’s mother’s friend and neighbour. Reflecting the dismal
problems begin when she is unable to conceive. Her mother-in-law and sister
in-law, who doted on her and acted as though they were all dear friends,
falls in love with his charismatic, handsome boss, Ashok Khanna, who has
never been in love before and is determined to possess the woman he now
loves. It does not matter to him how, but he goes about conquering Shagun’s
everything that a woman of today would find difficult to resist. The pace of the
story gains momentum as their affair begins to become more fiery, daring, and
passionate.
mother. The extent of her selfishness and ability to be cruel is visible in the
choices she makes. For example, she leaves her kids with her mother to go off
for weekend trysts with her newfound lover. Yet she convinces herself all the
time that she is a devoted mother to her children. She goes to all lengths to
brainwash her children against their own father, knowing that this would be
useful to negotiate her terms of divorce when it is finally time. The story skirts
our closest to the society’s traditional norms and conventions. Manju Kapur
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demonstrates her intrinsic level of detailing with tiny social observations, such
as how Shagun’s mother does her best to coax her to remain faithful to her
her mother if this is how she is going to take sides. It is evident that marital
life in India is fast disintegrating and being shaped by foreign elements such as
As a parallel story, the plot swerves to the troubles of Ishita, who is the
problems begin when she is unable to conceive. Her mother-in-law and sister
in-law, who doted on her and acted as though they were all dear friends,
unable to have children. The Mint syndrome among middle class families. An
dig deep into understanding the medical cause of this condition. Everyone’s
curiosity is satiated when the doctor clarifies that it is Ishita’s fault and that
this happened because she had contracted an illness in childhood that had
her in-laws lack of sympathy or understanding to the girl who could have been
had proclaimed never ending love to her becomes the obedient son to his
parents. The coldness, the cruel indifference and finally the rejection of a wife
Even domestic pets are treated better than a daughter in law in some Indian
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families. A divorced, socially isolated Ishita finds the courage to volunteer and
teach underprivileged children. She loves children and they love her back.
Gradually, she finds hope in the process, her own sense of individuality
In the second attempt Ishita marries Raman and thus returns to the
status so rudely snatched from her, the status of wifehood and motherhood
which endows her with legitimacy. Her marriage to Raman elevates her to her
husband’s social position. Ishita’s union to Raman empowers her and gives her
strength to fight for the household’s common target: the custody of his
children. Some women like Ishita, Raman’s second wife, may be fully
satisfied being guardians of her family. But Shagun’s spirit, like that of so
many other women, is different. She has never been able to guide her life.
Everything has been decided by her parents, family and cultural customs.
More appreciative was the insight into the difficult situation divorce
puts the children in. Through Arjun and Roohi, we are shown how a perfect
childhood can get messed up and how the care takers egos and their personal
desires can take a tool on the innocents. Some of the most well chapters were
those involving the kids and how the adult’s fiddling with their mind cannot
only coerce them but as well leave a lasting impression that eventually make
Ishita cannot dominate the boy who is older and capable of discerning
her dishonest behaviour, but she can control the little girl, Roohi, to whom she
gives a new name, Roopa. This new name represents that the child is hers and
not Shagun’s. To a certain extent the readers feel compassion for the barren
Ishita who still suffers from the reminiscences of her past frustrations and
demonstrate to herself and to the others that she is a good loving mother for
Roohi. Entrapped in such suffocating family her egoistic love compels her to
turns into the worst oppressor: She never speaks to Shagun; nor does she make
the effort to understand her as a mother and woman who also wants to be
happy. Roohi’s custody constitutes Ishita’s last chance to cure her past
unstable relationships, homes and mothers, Roohi is the first one to get
affected. She is in a confused state and unable to tell her mother’s name (i.e.
hard time with his father’s position replaced by Ashok Khanna. The children’s
happy childhood days have become full of scars with broken family memories,
individual identity for a person, he cannot live in this society. The plight of
Arjun and Roohi is very miserable. When Shagun applied for divorce and she
decided to live with Ashok. As Ashok got a new job in the United States, she
decided to leave for US. Before leaving for US, Shagun and Arjun lived with
Ashok. Arjun has no interest with the new house he lives. He remembered his
father and his support for him in his studies. In the new house, Ashok never
cares for him. Arjun hated the atmosphere existed in Ashok`s house. Arjun felt
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reluctant to attend his regular school. Shagun and Ashok decided to join him in
boarding school and the father will have access in the weekends.
mother. Later he played well the role of father and mother. Separation took
place between brother and sister. In boarding school Ashok has been
introduced as his father. When Raman visited him, Arjun was not happy to see
his father. Thinking disturbed him that his friends will mock at him by saying
that he has two fathers. Thus, two children got affected in their personal life.
Roohi, two-year girl, may not express her feelings through words, but her
behaviour clearly reveals that she suffers because of the fight between parents.
Arjun grown up boy understands the problem between his parents and cries
within himself.
was happy, until they met gynaecologist because Ishita has not conceived in
their five years of married life. Ishita got her divorce because of her husband’s
conventional approach for her barrenness. She was insulted for her infertility.
After her divorce she was living with her parents. Ishita was more worried
about her identity. She considers herself as a burden to her family. Change
came to her life when she met Raman. Ishita had close attachments with
Raman and Roohi. Ishita and Raman had ex in their life. They never seemed to
be guilty about what they did because Raman doesn’t want to be faithful to his
unfaithful wife and Ishita doesn’t want to remain loyal to her husband who
never loves her. They both decide to marry. Roohi had close attachments with
showed his interest in his studies. He was so adamant and violent in his
behaviour. He hated Ashok and he longed to see his sister. Though there was
age difference between him and his sister he loved her so much. He started to
cry saying that he hated going to school. Ashok and Shagun decided to send
Ashok to boarding school. Ashok and Shagun went to the United States. In
holidays Arun was asked to visit US. He visited twice and Roohi once. After
returning from US, Arun was much worried by saying that mother was there
alone in US. Roohi also cried by saying that wolf will come and kill her
mother. Raman understood that this story was told to facilitate such a
suffered a lot. Shagun can enjoy only with Ashok. But she couldn’t enjoy with
Manju Kapur's Custody deals with the disturbed city life of two
custody, social evils and injustice. It reveals the desires and disturbances of
two female characters-Shagun and Ishita, who are in constant search for new
space in their troubled lives. They try to lead happy life with their husbands,
but could not sustain themselves for long. Consequently, they get divorce from
them and are remarried with their men after a big struggle in their lives. Manju
Kapur has created almost all her women characters with the same rebellious
India. Here lies the greatness of Manju Kapur in creating new space for her
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characters, especially for her female characters after divorce in this novel, and
The story belongs to the liberalized India where the young have finally
been able to dream and strive for professional and personal success. The story
arc couldn’t happen to the protagonist’s parents who wouldn’t have had these
opportunities and more importantly never been able to take on the guilt of
breaking a marriage and make young children suffer in the process. So, the
story begins with a professional and ambitious Raman working hard to build a
career with an MNC firm selling carbonated soda water to the masses. His
young and beautiful wife, Shagun, is distracted and lost twiddling thumbs
when she is not taking care of her two young children Arjun and Ruhi. The
too much for her to handle. She is swept of her feet by the whirlwind romance
sympathy for her blemish less damad (son-in-law) who has done his duty by
her and the family. However, when the relationship blows apart with Shagun
joining Ashok her filial devotion asserts itself and she decides to support her
daughter.
been handed over everything in life on a Golden platter. For her to abandon a
life of duty and propriety to consort with a lover at great cost to the family and
partners aided by those who know how to bilk the System means that the
matter drags on for years. De facto Shagun is able to take ownership of Arjun
who is almost a teenager and Ashok pulls strings in his old’ boy network to
send him to prestigious boarding school that is his own alma mater. A subtle
truce develops between Arjun and Ashok. Raman hangs onto his young toddler
daughter, Ruhi and soon marries Ishita, a young and infertile divorcee, who
shades of grey. Instinctively in the Indian milieu Raman and Ishita’s cause is
viewed with more sympathy since it was Shagun who walked out on her
marriage and even her children to begin with. Ashok too is quite a remote
character who seems to be besotted only by Shagun. What he does for Arjun is
more from a sense of obligation than any genuine affection for the boy. He
never develops a bond with Ruhi and in way seems to be the first one to accept
the division of kids that was a happenstance that eventually gets converted into
Manju Kapur scores as she showcases the battles and its scars with a
great sensitivity and underplays the story to avoid melodrama. Without having
watched it I can vouch that the Hindi soap that spinned off this story must
that the sob story can proceed with full gusto and tears.
She also makes the most obvious point – it is the children who pay the
price of the tragedy. Arjun is growing up and feels the social humiliation at his
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school and it affects his studies and even personality. Ruhi is far too young but
she feels the emotional trauma as Ishita and Shagun battle hard for her
affections and the filial connect. The Indian Courts are stuck in a time-warp
and warring couples can indeed battle for years on trot with scant regard to the
state of depression. As they are raised by single parents, their depressed state
keeps them aloof from others. In the failures of these marriages, it is the
children who suffer mostly for no faults of theirs. Those children do not
difficult for them to come out of the hectic state. They will entirely be in a
destitute state when they are left in other’s care. The time spent by the
Proper care and motivation are mandatory to make them strong, and to move
The personal clashes and deviations between a husband and wife not
only distress them, but also the people around. The best illustration for that
is the couple Raman and Shagun in Custody. It highlights clearly the wife’s
shifting of children from one home to the other, with painstaking sincerity.
They prepare to separate mutually and also insist their children to accept the
reality and adapt with the situation by choosing either father or mother.
Being ignorant to the situation, the children struggle in between their father
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and mother and spend their time here and there according to the court order.
In this struggle and often changing lifestyle, their behaviour, attitude, mind,
mood change and they cannot live with their parents happily and fail to get
their true love fully. Much research over many years found that children
who experience the divorce of their parents… are at higher risk for an
children who suffer mostly for no faults of theirs. Arjun and Roohi are too
young to realize the happening between their parents Raman and Shagun.
After Shagun’s marriage with Ashok Khanna, her children are supposed to
call him as father. Shagun trains them for that, but it is challenging for them
to follow her words. Arjun is in chaotic state. He cannot perform well in his
between his father and mother. He decides to take the option of joining in a
can’t be open to his own father about the happenings. He longs for the days
he spent with his father and the subjects his father taught him. Shagun
leaves Arjun in an International school and visits him once in few months
which increase the communication gap between the two and she fails to
teach him life and to pour love on him. He feels stress free in the new school
but longs for his old friends and the old school. His new school offers him a
new beginning to a new life with the new parental care. He changes into a
silent boy who starts to skip visiting his father and behaves in a different
way with Raman being very quiet at a certain point. His life goes only
around the school and classmates. Parents’ role in Arjun’s life is least as he
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gets only financial assistance for his studies, few visits to a foreign country
Ashok, she considers Roohi as burden and leaves her in toddler in her
innocent stage. The child is rejected by her own mother in its childhood
itself. After Shagun’s marriage with Ashok, Roohi is like a ball moving to
and fro between the foreign country where Shagun resides, and India where
why she often travels from one place to another. During her custody period
under her father, she meets Ishita, a young divorcee, who shows much
attention and care towards her. Ishita’s love gives Roohi a new feel and she
begins to admire her. Their bond and Roohi’s love for her father bring
meaning to her life. Ishita’s possessiveness for Roohi stops her to permit
Roohi to visit her mother after her custody period. Ishita too feels
completeness in her life after meeting Raman and Roohi and longs for a
family.
through parents in its learning stage. Parents are the inducing and hidden
power of a child. Their proper guidance will reduce their stress and fear,
giving them protection. When a child lacks this from its parents, it will
become zero in future and will suffer with anxiety, emotional and
behavioural disorders. Some children come up with their own effort being
stubborn in their goal. They are rare but they too long for parents’ love
personally.
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Ishita in taking care of Roohi by giving her motherly love. Ishita could
understand the exact role of a mother and she performs it well. She can’t
leave Roohi for a second and not ready to send her to Shagun when the
court custody turn comes. She is very curious in protecting Roohi than her
father Raman. Roohi and Ishita have better understanding that even Roohi
never thinks about her real mother Shagun. Roohi learns good manners from
Ishita and melted by her care and love. The ways the two children, Arjun
and Roohi are brought up get reflected in their behaviour. Arjun cannot
move friendly even with his real father easily but Roohi can easily attach
with Ishita and others. Children could be moulded easily in an earlier stage.
mentally and emotionally. When parents fail to do that, then their children’s
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