Hi,

A lot of people are still asking me about my stance about the whole Will (@willsgardevoir)
situation. I am on the side of the victims. I will be outlining why, with as much proof as possible.

I want to start by making this clear: I am not claiming to be a victim in this situation. My FAKE
relationship with Will was completely consensual and he did not harass me. But, I feel that with
the way he treated me, it is not surprising to me that other women could have been
uncomfortable by his flirting. Will and I met in July 2023, which was relatively recent. We
became friends because I qrted one of his posts of someone else flirting with him (not 100% on
what the tweet was honestly, just know that I qrted it) by saying “I LOST.” This started a
friendship between us where we would flirt with each other a lot. Keep in mind that I am a
person who does not get uncomfortable easily. I receive unsolicited dick pictures in my dm
requests everyday, and have been through a lot with men so I personally do not get
uncomfortable very often. But, a lot of the things Will said to me, masked as flirty jokes, would
make the average person uncomfortable. There are so many examples of this, ones posted
publicly on his twitter. Here are some examples:
Mind you, these are all interactions between 2 people who are just friends. We were not dating,
and our conversations turned sexual quickly. Though I personally was not uncomfortable by
them at the time, I can see why any other person on the receiving end of these jokes could’ve
been uncomfortable. A lot of my friends were. All of my friends and mutuals on twitter that knew
me from before I became “Will’s E-Waifu” do not like Will. They felt like he fetishized my race
and made unnecessarily sexual jokes to me, especially with the fact that we only just met and
were not dating.
Here are examples of him bringing up my race/skin color constantly, these were also when we
first just met. Again, I personally was not necessarily uncomfortable by it at the time but the
average person would not be comfortable by a man bringing up her race repeatedly as a way to
flirt. To put it in perspective, all of these screenshots, except for the first one, are from the same
day.
Also, there was a huge power imbalance in our relationship. He was a big, famous account,
whereas I had a mere 100 followers when we first met. Because of this, I let a lot of shit slide on
the basis that wow a big account likes me and thinks I am pretty. When I did become a bigger
account than I was previously, my follower base was mostly (like 99% of my followers) people
who came from Will, which made it even harder to say anything. I felt as though if I did speak
out or put an end to our relationship, no one would really care for me or like me anymore. I know
this is my fault, and I am not blaming Will for this, but it is important to realize the nuance behind
harassment allegations. Many people are using the defense of “if you were uncomfortable, why
didn’t you say anything?” But firstly, Will is a big account which adds some fear in speaking out
against him. You can see it happening now as people are trusting Will without even reading the
victims’ stories. Secondly, at least in my case, my friendship/relationship with Will was built on
us flirting with each other and being crush-oomfs (croomfs as we’d call it). This made it hard to
say anything, especially when the weird flirting was just “jokes.” I didn’t want our relationship to
change, or for him or others to like me less, by speaking out about how I was uncomfortable by
the things he was saying. Again, I am not blaming Will for this. It was also my fault for not saying
anything, but honestly, I feel like the way he talked to me just wasn’t the way you talk to a
woman, especially one you just met. I have never fetishized Will’s race in any way, and even
though some of the tweets I’ve made about him were sexual, none of them crossed the line in
any way. I am not going to sit here and claim that Will sexually harassed me because he did ask
me if I was comfortable and I always told him yes, but I just want to highlight that a lot of his
flirting would not be comfortable for the average person and speaking out against him is difficult.

In our 5 month friendship, Will has asked me for reassurance many times. Though this isn’t
anything bad and I always gave him the reassurance he needed, it was a lot and a little
unhealthy. But I want to focus on one specific incident we had. This took place on August 26th.
It started off with Will tweeting about his love for Bella Poarch, and me getting upset at it
(jokingly).
But Will thought I was genuinely upset, causing him to post this on his private account, then
deactivate, and even post this on his private Instagram.

We talked about the issue, and he guilt tripped me the whole time. Will would constantly put
himself down which forced me into a position where I would have to console his inferiority
complex. Saying stuff like “i get it I wouldn’t compare to him and thats okay like you said hes a
superstar and im just a regular ass dude.” Note that this was only around a month after we met,
and we were just friends.
This behavior is very guilt trippy, manipulative, and obsessive. We weren’t even together but I
was being guilt tripped for posting about a K-Pop idol I’ve liked for years. Notice how he knows
the behavior is guilt trippy, but tries to tell me it’s just him “being realistic.” This was our only big
incident of it, but all throughout our friendship, he would make weird “jokes” about me choosing
white/east asian men over him. Even though these messages were delivered as jokes, you
could tell there was underlying inferiority in the messages.

Context: I said I would cry if he cheated on me, and he responded by implying if he was Soobin
(K-pop idol) or white, I wouldn’t be upset at him cheating.

Mind you, I don’t even post about Soobin often, and I do not post about white men at all. But his
inferiority complex and obsessiveness made him bring it up in so many conversations, just
unnecessarily. Because he was obsessed with me, I don’t doubt that he was the same with
other women.

A lot of people think I was clout chasing by having this fake relationship with Will, but that is not
the case. We were both in on the fact that it was fake, I did not deceive him in any way. It was
just a fun, silly thing we did for laughs and interactions. So yes, in some ways it was for clout but
we both had a mutual agreement that it was just for fun and likes. People are also probably
going to think I am clout chasing by making this, but it’s actually the opposite. I do not care for
clout at all, and my followers consist mostly of Will’s fans that follow me because of our
relationship so me going against Will is only going to get me more hate. Know that I am not
gaining anything from posting this, I just want to add more nuance to the matter and share my
experience, and how it could be similar to the victims’ experiences. Also keep in mind that this
was all in the past year, just a few months ago. So the argument that he has changed might be
applicable to the bigotry but not the sexual harassment allegations. The things he said to me
that were masked as flirtatious jokes are not normal things to say to someone you only recently
met and are not dating. I know I am going to get a lot of hate for this, and this may as well be my
last post, but I think it's wrong of me to stay quiet and act like Will is not the type of guy to do the
things people are accusing him of. I don’t care if you hate me or think it’s my fault for letting all
this happen, I just want this to be out there so people can learn from it. You don’t have to
sympathize or side with me at all. I am also not trying to cancel Will. Will was an amazing friend
to me, don't get me wrong, but it is important to hold him accountable for what he is doing and
how his actions have affected people.

TL;DR: Will made a lot of weird jokes to me when we first met, and though I wasn’t necessarily
made uncomfortable by it, I can see why another woman could have been. His weird, obsessive
treatment towards me makes it likely (at least from my perspective) that those other women are
not lying. I doubt he does this intentionally, but I still think it’s important that he realizes he
should not be making jokes like this with women he just met.

Love,
Reincel_9

P.s. : I reached out to a victim in this whole situation to get insight about their story. The victim I
spoke to asked me if I could include these screenshots.

Translation: I was fucking there in those groupchats ; in the groupchats those awkward sexual
texts stayed with me
From the victim: “This is from a ex mutual of Will also coming forward to seeing his predatory
behavior towards women. I actually know the person they're referring to as well (the person
didn't want to come out themselves) but I remember will making those odd sexual jokes geared
at them too (as he did to all of his female mutuals including me) but at the time he was just our
friend and tbh nobody saw anything wrong with his jokes until they got extremely excessive and
even more perverted and nasty.”