Mantras and Rituals in Arya Dharma
Mantras and Rituals in Arya Dharma
&
Rituals
Index
Ariya Dharma Upadeshangal
Avani Avittam [Yajur Vedi]
Bodhayana Darsa Tharpanam
Dhyana Sloka
Gayatri Mantras
Marriage Rites and Rituals [Iyers]
Nitya Parayana Stotram
Pithru Sthuthi
Samkshepa Dharma Shastra
Sandhya Vandanam - Tri Vedi
Smriti Mukta Phalam
Stotra Chinthamani
Tharpanam – Iyengars
Tharpanam – Iyers
Vedic Marriage Ceremony
8. All gods reside on a cow. Going round it in clock wise direction, comforting
it, offering grass, rice bran, water and oil cake to it are blessed deeds. We
would be blessed with children because of that. Kicking a cow with leg, hitting
it with a stick, eating food without feeding it, informing the owner when it
grazes in his field are sins. We would be born as an out caste by doing any of
these. Once, a Brahmin threw away food as the dust raised by cow's feet fell
on it. Due to it, he was born as an out caste called Kaisika, By serving a cow,
King Dileepa got a great son called Raghu. We should try to protect the cow
as much as possible. At least we should not trouble it.
9. We should not use cloths, slipper, garland, water pot, seat and bed that
were used by others. It would be a sin and bring diseases.
10. The smoke from a corpse, early sun light, shadow of a lamp, shadow of a
human being and shadow of an out caste should not fall on us. It would cause
health problems and reduce our life span.
11. Nails and hair are like the lifeless feather on our body. A married
householder should cut / shave his hair only once a month, that too after
seeing an auspicious time. We should not cut our hair or shave ourselves.
Our forefathers used to see proper Nakshatra and thithi. It is essential to see
12. We should not nip our nails. If we do it, immediately we have to take a
bath. You should not draw a line on floor using the nail. You should throw the
cut nails outside our house. We should not bite the nails with our teeth.
Moodhevi (Jyeshta Devi) says that such persons are the place of her
personal residence.
13. We should not nip grass, durba or flower with our nails. Nails should not
touch the water that we are drinking. Introducing finger to see whether water
is hot is wrong. We should pour water in our hands and test it. If we sprinkle
water using nails on other person, our nail would get infected. (Nakha chuthi.
We should not nip the banana fruit with nail before offering it to God. We
would remove the skin at the tip of our fingers. We should not remove sandal
paste meant for God by using the nail. We should do it by our inner finger.
14. Without reason, we should not powder mud balls, tiles and bricks.
15. We should not wear a flower which has not been offered to God. We
should not wear it in such a way that it is visible outside our hair. If those, who
do not comb their hair, tie flowers with hair, the scent of the flower will not go
out. Ladies should not wear flowers without scent. We should not stamp used
flowers with our feet.
16. We should not travel in a cart drawn by a single bullock. If we go on a
pilgrimage on such a cart, it would even destroy the blessed deeds which we
have done earlier. Single bullock is the steed of Lord Shiva. The Goddess of
Dharma assumes the form of a single bullock and carries Lord Shiva.
Climbing on a single bullock or travelling in a cart being drawn by it is an
insult to Dharma.
17. We should never enter our village or house through back door or entry
point. We should always go by the front door. Dakshayani (Lord Shiva's wife)
entered Daksha's house by the back door and she destroyed herself as well
as the yaga.
19. We should not gamble. Playing cards with money wager is gambling.
Even Yudhishtra, who knew all Dharmas, lost everything due to gambling.
Since gambling leads to lie, avarice and treachery, it is one of those great
sins.
20. Crossing a river swimming with hand and leg is a sin. Our Sasthras want
to protect us. Lot of dangers may happen, when we cross the river due to
nature's fury. So cross the river in a boat and as soon as you reach the other
shore, do Aachamana. This is to expatiate ourselves from the sin of crossing
the river.
21. Please do not tell about Dharma or penance without request from others.
It definitely should not be told to people who are lower in birth status than us.
Food should only be given to hungry people. If we tell Dharma to people who
do not want it, they will not believe in it. So initially create a desire to hear
Dharma in them and after their request teach them.
22. We should not stamp by our feet the shadow of God's idol, Guru, Father,
mother, elders and cow. We should not cross their shadows also. We should
not stamp the shadows of sinners also nor cross it. We believe that a little of
a person's power is there on his shadow also. So stamping or crossing would
be disrespecting them. Ravana tried to cross Kailasa Mountain and got in to
trouble.
23. We should always tell the truth. If that truth is going to hurt others, we
should tell even that truth. We should not tell a lie to please another man.
Once, a hunter was chasing a boar. In the path there was a sage who always
told the truth. The hunter asked him which way the boar went. Instead of
telling a lie or causing hurt to the boar, that sage told, "Would the people who
see tell? Is the man who tells, the one who has seen it?"
24. We should not call any one as a sinner. If he had not committed a sin, the
bad effect of committing the sin would reach the man who called him a sinner,
suppose he has done the sin, half of its bad effect will come and reach us.
Three brothers were going separately on celestial vehicles to heaven. All the
three of them saw a Garuda killing a serpent. The first one said it is a sin. His
vehicle fell down on earth. The second one told Garuda "please kill". His
vehicle also fell down. The third one kept silent and reached heaven.
26. A householder should not grow hair, beard and nails for more than one
month. But after the death of his parents, he should not cut them for one year.
He should not also cut them when his wife is in the family way.
27. Fearing that the beggar will come, we should not close the main door
during the morning and evening.
28. Finding fault of Gods, Vedas and elders should not be done. When
Brahma found fault with Shiva, Veerabhadra punished him by nipping off one
of his heads. Once when devas requested Lord Vishnu to talk ill of Lord
Shiva, he refused. It is also wrong to find fault with those who worship God.
29. A lamp should not be put out by blowing air by the mouth. A male should
never put off a lamp.
31. We should not gnash our teeth making sound. This is a symbol of a
Rakshasa.
32. When we yawn, we should cover the mouth with our hand. Yawn is the
messenger to disease, laziness and sleep. At that time, the bad air in our
body escapes through our mouth. Suppose this air touches others, they
would become sick.
33. If the shadow of a lamp, shadow of human beings, water from cloth, water
from our hair, the dust raised by a goat, dust raised by donkey, dust raised by
ladies, the air made by a winnow, the dust that comes up while sweeping falls
on our body, even if we have wealth equal to Indra it would be lost. They
would take away the effect of good deeds done by us.
34. Man should not take food in the row of females or children. They should
not take food sitting in the same row as their wives. But they can do so, after
the marriage ceremony or during travel.
38. Our forefathers wore silk dress with borders. Silk protects the power of
our soul. There is no good effect of doing a ritual without wearing Kacha. So
even for rituals like Sandhya Vandana we have to wear the Kacham,
39. We should not wash our Dhothi at night. We should not sweep the floor at
night nor throw trash outside our home. At night we should not stay in the
shadow of any tree. We should not dig or plough earth at night. We should
not talk about secrets at night.
41. If we stub against a stone while walking, then we should take some mud
from that place and wear it on our forehead. That is called Muruthika and it
will protect us from wicked spirits.
42. Those who have father or elder brother should not wear a ring made of
silver (called Tharjani) in our pointer finger. Others can wear it. That finger is
supposed to be defiled because Lord Shiva nipped a head of Brahma by that
finger. For worship or Tharpana, the pointer finger should not be used. Silver
represents Rudra and if we wear silver on that finger and touch other fingers
with that finger, the others would not be defiled.
44. Daily in the mornings, we have to chant Gayathri 108 times. Gayathri
should be chanted after the hands are covered by a cloth and kept in front of
us. When we get death or birth taint, we should chant Gayathri ten times.
45. Even if the sacred threads are not broken, it should be changed once in
four months. When thread is cut or when the taint comes and goes away and
in Sravana, we have to wear a new sacred thread. If we happen to touch a
sinner, bad person, barber or ladies in periods, we have to take bath and
change the sacred thread.
50. After bidding farewell to friends and relatives or after doing worship or
after marriage or any sacred function, we should not take bath.
54. Penance of Upavasa is taking no food at all. During that time, if we suffer
too much, we can take water, root vegetables, Ghee, milk, Rice boiled with
water [without removing water], medicine and fruits. If we take any one of
these, the fast is not considered broken. At the time of a fast penance, if in
any one's house the Sradha cannot be performed for non-availability of a
Brahmin, we can help them by participating in Sradha.
55. Before taking food, Parishechana (pouring water around the leaf), should
be done with chanting the Manthra and taking water every time separately. It
is not proper to take water once and do more than one Parishechana. Taking
water after saying Amruthopastharanamasi (Poorva aabochanam) should be
done together by people eating in groups. The water taken in the hand should
be taken in completely. If that water falls on the food during day time it is like
a drop of nectar. If it falls at night it is like a drop of alcoholic drink. At night as
soon as the water is put in the hand, after finishing the food, we have to say
Amruthabhidhanamasi and pour half of it at the right of the leaf and take the
rest. This is called Pithru Theertham. When we pour Pithru Theertham we
have to say "Rourave, apunya nilaye, padmarbudha nivasinaam artheenam
udakam datham, akshayyam upathishtathu."
56. After taking food we have to gargle 12 times. Then wash leg and hands
and do aachamanam. Only then we would be clean. By that time if we touch
someone else, both the persons should take bath. After urinating we have to
gargle four times, after stools 8 times, after cleaning the teeth 18 times. After
these we have to do Aachamana. If we do not get good water, instead of
Aachamanam we can touch the ear three times by right hand. This is called
Srothrachamana.
57. When new water comes in the river, for ten days we are not supposed to
take bath in it. They say that river enters in to her periods that time. Some
people do not take bath from one to third day of Aadi Month (July 15 - August
15). But if eclipse, Upakama or Sankramana (first of the month) occurs during
the period, we are permitted to take bath in the river.
58. Some people do evening Sandhya Vandana facing the West. Only Japa
and Arghya (offering water) should be done facing the West. All other rituals
including Aachamana should be done facing east or north.
61. We should not keep milk, sandal paste and flowers in a copper vessel.
62. Ellurundai (sweet made of Gingili) and Thilannam (Rice made of Gingili)
should be made only for offering to manes and devas. We should not cook it
for ourselves. If we make Ellurundai or mix of jaggery and gingili and offer it to
the Peepal tree, then we would get cured of diseases. If we distribute thilanna
on Saturdays, sins would go away.
63. Sravana Dwadasi (Dwadasi with Sravana star (thiruonam) is greater than
Ekadasi. If Sravana Dwadasi comes, it is better to fast on Dwadasi day, than
on Ekadasi day.
64. Madhyahnika time is at 12 Noon. Gouna time is from 8.30 AM. On Dwdasi
day before Madhyahnika time comes, in Gouna Kala we would do
Madhyahnikam, Vaisva devam etc. This is because Dwadasi Paranai (taking
food) should be done before Madhyahnika time. But Dwadasi sradha cannot
be done in the morning.
65. If Dwadasi is only for a very little time, all rituals should be finished before
Dwadasi ends and food for Dwadasi should be taken. But if it ends in very
early morning, Dwadasi can be observed by taking Thulasi water. King
Ambareesha did like that.
66. Whatever taint may come, the Ekadasi Vrutha should be observed. It is
as important as Sandhya Vandana. But worship and Dhana (charity to
Brahmins) should be got done by someone who does not have the taint.
67. Upavasa (fasting) is a ritual meant for cleaning of the body and the mind
as well as to get blessings of gods. So without religious need, fasting should
not be done.
69. Drinking too much and eating too much are sinful acts. Once when
Bheema asked Yudhishtra how he will fall, he told him he would fall due to
over eating and over drinking.
70. Those who cannot fast completely, can fast eating fruits and drinking milk.
This is called Phalahara (Palaharam in Tamil). Eating hard to digest breakfast
71. After breaking fast on Dwadasi day, take a leaf of Thulasi after offering it
to God. This would remove all problems of body and mind. Actually this
should be done daily as Thulasi protects our mind and body.
72. During fast you should not drink water often. You should not clean the
teeth in such a way that water in the gums is squeezed out. We should not
use Thamboola and sleep during day time. Walking, fighting, talking loudly
and loose talk would destroy the good effect of fasting. Talking passionately
and company of women should be avoided.
73. What is Nithyopavasam (Daily fasting)? Daily taking food only twice, not
taking food in between and taking every handful of food after saying
"Govinda" is Nithyopavasam.
75. Food that should be avoided during Dwadasi: Snake Gourd, Brinjal,
Onion, Honey, Garlic, food from house of unknown people, sleeping in day
time, eating food twice, love making, oil bath should be avoided. They would
remove the good effects of Ekadasi fast.
76. Why this Paaranai in the morning? The one eighth portion of the Dwadasi
thithi on that day is called Harivasaram. We should complete worship,
Vaisvadeva and later offer food to God. King Ambareesha knew about it and
took Thulasi water during that time. Doing Paranai without fasting on Ekadasi
day is useless.
77. Why should Garlic and Onion be avoided? These take away the
Brahmanyam within us, which was built by rituals. People, who eat these
without knowing it, should once more celebrate Upanayana (sacred thread
ceremony). Then only they are eligible to do daily rituals like Sandhya
Vandana and ceremonies like Sradha. Though medicinally they cure some
diseases, they give extra wrong energy (Madham) to people and spoil the
mind. If we have to take it for medicinal purposes, we can take it but later do
redemption. For ladies, drinking of Pancha Gavya is sufficient. So people who
chant Gayathri should not take these just for taste or for strength.
79. What should be avoided: Taking bath in Dhobhi Ghat, water in an iron
vessel, taking gooseberry on Sundays, Sapthami and at night, Buttermilk
churned by hand, milk in the day time, curd at night and Sathuma (multi grain
flour) should be avoided.
80. Month based on Sun entering a particular Rasi is called Souramana and
months based on next day of Amavasya to the next Amavasya of a month is
called Chandramana. Sasthras prescribe certain rituals should be based on
Souramana month and others on Chandramana month.
81. Thula Snana, Dheepavali, Karthigai Dheepa, Dhanurmasa Pooja and
Shivarathri should celebrated on the Soura Mana Month.
82. Chandra Darsanam: We should not see Moon on Chathurthi day. If we
see, someone will find fault with us with no basis. Since Lord Krishna saw the
Chathurthi Moon, Sathrajit told that he has stolen the Syamanthaka Gem. If
we think about the story of how he fought with Jambavan and brought back
the gem, the problem due to seeing moon will not occur.
83. Things which reduce our life span: Drying ourselves in morning sun, being
touched by the smoke from the corpse, making love to a lady elder than us,
drinking water without filtering it and eating curd at night would reduce our life
span every day. Not performing Oupasana, eating food meant for somebody
else and eating food not supposed to be eaten, would reduce the life span
according to Lord Yama himself.
84, Drying in the evening sun, the homa smoke touching us, making love to
woman younger than us, drinking pure water and eating milk and rice at night
would daily increase the life span. Following rules of food, doing Oupasanam,
daily saluting elderly people would also increase life span. If we do not feed a
guest, Nachikethas says that the wealth of our progeny would be destroyed.
85. If we make guests wait outside and take food inside the house, that food
is like the cow's meat and the water is equal to toddy.
86. Never taking loan is the best. If there is need, we can take it and return it
speedily. We should pay the full loan taken at that time. Suppose we take
loan from someone and if we die without returning it, in the next birth, we will
be born as his child and after taking that amount, that child will die.
90. If the dust raised by hooves of a goat or that one raised by donkey, or the
dust raised by broom or the dust raised by feet of ladies falls on us, our
Wealth would be destroyed.
91. With this body having six senses, we should get salvation which is the
ever living joy. The devotees who carry god in their mind are mobile temples.
Any help that we do them is worship to God. Even though we are not great
devotees, some part of God is in every one of us. So we should help others.
There is no blessed deed better than this. We should help others by our body
and wealth.
92. When we are in our native place we should follow all rituals prescribed by
Sastras. When we go outside our place, it is sufficient if we do half the rituals.
In towns, quarter is sufficient. While travelling, as much as it is possible can
be done.
94. Keeping flower over the top of ears, man applying sandal paste only on
chest and keeping Thulasi on the hair are sins. You should keep flower on
hair, Thulasi over the ear and apply sandal paste on chest and arms. Ladies
can wear sandal paste on their neck and arms.
95. We have to keep secret of our age, wealth, quarrels in our family,
manthra which has been taught to us by a Guru, our love, our charity, prizes
given to us by others, insults we have to bear and loans that we have taken. If
97. Veda says that all gods stay inside the body of a person who knows
Vedas. So worship done to him is like worship of all gods. Like that, the hurt
we cause to them is like hurting all gods. We should not trouble anyone.
Specially, we should not trouble Brahmins. Playfully Samba put on a makeup
of a lady and asked Saptha Rishis as to what type of a child would be born to
him. Because of that, the axe that will destroy his entire clan was born to him.
An emperor called Nruga troubled Brahmins and was born as a Chameleon.
98. We should not stand in street junction at mid night or after eating in a
Sradha or at dawn or dusk.
99. Jyeshta Devi would stay permanently with a Brahmin who does not wear
a cloth or one who does not wear Pancha Kacham or one who wears only
loin cloth or one who is desirous of quarrel.
100. We should stand beyond two hand distance when a cart comes, beyond
ten hand distance in case of a horse and 1000 hand distance in case of an
elephant. In case of a bad man we should be far far away. These are actions
which give results immediately (Drushta). This shows that Sasthra is very
much bothered about the safety of our body.
101. The scorpion has poison in its horn, for flies and mosquitoes it is on their
head and snake has poison on its fangs. But for a bad man poison is
everywhere.
102. The father who dies leaving loans to be repaid by the son is like his
enemy. The father who does not give us knowledge or teach us humility is his
enemy. An ugly or very pretty wife is a man's enemy.
105. While gargling or cleaning our teeth, we should not use the pointer
finger. If we do, we will go to hell.
106. Till our daughter gets a child, we should not take food in our daughter's
married home.
107. At the time of taking food, we should wash our hand and leg, perform
Aachamana and eat food facing North.
108. We should not take food with single cloth, wet cloth, wearing silk, without
chanting god's names, without putting marks on our forehead or with untied
hair.
109. We should not eat the cooked rice for which Vaiswadevam has not been
done or which is not offered to god. This applies even to food offered by our
Guru.
110. Only after setting apart the rice meant for Vaiswadevam and offering it to
God, we should start taking it.
111. Without doing Pranagni Hothram (manthras we say before taking food)
you should not eat food. As soon as rice is served, we should hold the leaf
with our hand.
113. After food is served, till Pranagni Hothram is complete we should not talk
with anyone. It is better that we should not talk while taking food. But when
we eat with a guest, we should talk to him and be hospitable. This does not
go against the rule of being silent. During Aabochanam, when we take rice
one by one, each should not be chewed by the teeth but should be
swallowed.
114. We should take only that much rice in our hand, which will fill our mouth.
We should take food in such a way that the food along with five fingers just
enters the mouth. We should not take large quantity and then take it out and
keep it on the leaf. If we keep it and take it again, it would be like a dog eating
what it has vomited.
116. Every time we put a handful of food in our mouth, we have to say,
"Govinda, Govinda". If we do this, it is as if we are observing fast.
117. While eating, we have to take one part of food, one part water and leave
other part for air to be healthy.
118. Except while eating, we have to keep the water glass on our right. Water
kept on the left, water drunk with left hand, water drunk while standing,
drinking of remaining water after another one has drunk it, are equal to
drinking toddy.
119. Serving food other than fried food, fruits and sweets, should not be
served by hand or iron ladle or by left hand, it is equal to beef.
120. When people are eating in a row, if one man gets up, all the leaves
would get tainted (Yechil). In emergency cases draw a line with water on both
sides and get up. This makes you different from the row.
122. The water poured from the tip of fingers is Deva Theertham, What is
poured by the bottom of the hand is Brahma Theertham. What is poured to
the left side by the middle of the palm is Rishi Theertham. What is poured in
between the thumb and first finger is Pithru Theertham.
123. That Uchishta Theertham which we pour on the right side below the leaf
after taking food, is supposed to quench the thirst of people in the rourava
hell.
124. "Rourave apunye nilaye Padma arpudha nivaasinaam. Arthinaam
udakam datham akshayyam upathishtathu" is the manthra that we have to tell
when we pour the Uchishtya Theertham below the leaf.
125. When the cooked rice is brought, we have to say "asmakam nithyam
asthu yethath" (let me get like this daily). When we finish and get up, we are
supposed to say "Anna Datha Sukhi Bhava" (let him, who has given food, live
happily).
127. After food, after sitting and doing Aachamana, telling the following prayer
if we wipe our eyes, the eye sight will never fade:
Charyathimcha, sukayamaacha, chyavanam sakram aswinou,
Bukthamathre smareth yasthu chakshu thasya na heeyathe.
If immediately after we do this recitation, we remember Charyatha and other
sages, Sukanya, Chyavana, Indra and Aswini Devas, then our eye sight will
never fade.
128. We should move our hands over our stomach saying the following
Manthra, then all the food we have taken would be properly digested:
Agasthya, Agni, padapa analascha, buktham maya annam,
Jarayanthu asesham sukham chame thath parinama sambhavam.
Meaning: "Let Agasthya. fire god and Padapagni digest all the food that I
have taken. Let my body be healthy."
129. Immediately after taking food, we have to walk one hundred steps. If we
sit or lie down immediately after taking food, there would be diseases of the
stomach. If we walk fast or run, our life span would reduce. We will have fear
of Yama.
130. Before Uthrabochana, the housewife or those who serve food should
enquire whether more food is required. If we do not do that, the blessings
which we would get by giving food will vanish and also we will get sin. It is a
practice to do like this to the Sradha Brahmin.
131. To the guest, after he eats the food, along with Thamboola, we should
give at least a small Dakshina (cash present). Otherwise we would not get the
good effect of feeding.
132. As soon as we see an elder, we have to stand and then salute him. For
men, we have to chant "Abhivadaye" and then salute. Some people say
"Chathusagara paryantham Gobrahmanebhya subham bhavathu (let good
happen to all Brahmins for a width of four oceans) and then tell Abhivadaye.
Some people do Namaskaram and then tell Abhivadaye. These should be
done as per the practice of our family.
133. If we are permitted to touch the elder, then after saluting the elder, we
should touch his feet by keeping our hand in a cross fashion. That is we
should touch his right feet by our right hand and left feet by left hand. If we
135. Pravara saints are the important saints born in the family of Gothra sage.
In some Gothras, there are 7 Pravara Rishis, in some 5, in some 3 and in
some only one. Accordingly we have to say Saptha Rishaya (7) or Pancha
Rishaya (5) orTrya Rishaya (3) or Yeka Rishaya (1). Abhivadahye means, I
am introducing myself.
136. In the beginning, all gothras originated from 9 rishis and then they grew
to hundreds. The rishi to whose clan we belong to is called Gothra Rishi.
People having same gothra are referred to as Sagothra and people having
the same rishi in their pravara are called Sapravara. We should not marry
from our Gothra or our Pravara.
137. Asmi means, "I am as indicated". Bho is the form of address to elderly
people.
139. The famous suthras are Aswalayana for Rig Veda, Bodhayana,
Aapasthambha, Baradwaaja, Sathyaashaada and Vaikanasa for Krishna
Yajurveda, Kathyayana for Shukla Yajurveda and Drahyayana and
Jaimineeya for Sama Veda.
140. For the same Veda, many sages have created Suthras. We have to
follow that Suthra which was followed by our forefathers. In case of Shika
(hair style), Pundra (what we put on our forehead), Sutha and Aacharas of
our family and our forefathers have to be followed by us. If we change
according to will, we would be committing sin. If we do not get a priest who
knows our Suthra, we cannot follow some other Suthra. Suppose without any
option, if we are forced to do it, later the same ritual should be performed
according to our Suthra.
143. The room where delivery has taken place, if it is a mud floor, it should be
floored again and if it is any other type of floor, we have to first burn straw in
the room and bring a cow inside the room and then sprinkle Punyaaha water.
Unless this is done that room cannot be used for any purpose.
144. The Lady who has delivered, on the day she does Panda Sparsam
(touching of vessels), she should wear a new Mangala Suthra and take
Pancha Gavya. Then only she is eligible to participate in religious and Pithru
rituals.
145. On the day when death taint and birth taints go away, the person should
take bath in the morning, do all morning rituals and after 8.30 AM, should take
bath again, preferably in a pond or river.
146. When death occurs, till Sapindi Karana, a stone is kept in a pit in home
(Graha Kunda) and another one in the river bank (Nadhi Kunda). The stones
represent the pretha (dead body) of the expired person. The house where
Graha Kunda is kept is fully tainted till Sapindi Karana is over.
147. If Graha Kundam is kept in some other place, then by cleaning with cow
dung and after sprinkling Punyaha, the house will become pure. People who
are living for rent can stay in such a house.
148. When we get tainted, if we are doing Agni Hothra (ceremony of fire), we
can take bath, finish the Agni Hothra rituals. But Oupasana and worship
should not be done by us. Since they have to be definitely done, we can get
them done by someone who does not have taint.
149. Except Sandhya Vandhana, no other daily ritual should be done during
the taint period. But Grahana Tharpana, Yekadasi, Sravana Dwadasi and
Shiva Rathri should be observed during taint period.
150. If a panchama enters our home, we should throw away all earthen
vessels and all others should be washed by cow dung and Punyaha water.
We should throw away all cooked food. Only after bringing a cow inside the
home and the dust from its feet falls inside, the house would become clean.
151. A pond where a cow enters and is washed is a pure pond. It will not get
tainted by any one's touch.
153. The feet of a Brahmin is holy. So the house where the dust from their
feet falls is pure. Since Jyeshta Devi lives on the back side of a Brahmin, we
should never make them sit on a floor but either on a mat or a plank.
154. The back side and legs of a cow are pure. So they have to be seen.
Goddess Lakshmi lives there. The face of a cow and what is smelled by the
face or dirty. The cow licked the flesh from the body of sage Dadichi and
because of that got a portion in the fire sacrifice. So he cursed that front
portion of a cow will be dirty and cursed.
155. There was a sage called Behnabha who used to grow cows and live by
licking the foam on the calf’s mouth after it has drunk milk. In the fire sacrifice
conducted by King Ranthi Deva, they wanted to leave their body and become
cows with pretty horns. When he refused, they killed him by their horn.
Kamadhenu got angry and cursed that their face will become dirty and
cursed.
156. We can worship the back side of a cow and decorate it. Kalidasa says
King Dileepa worshipped the middle portion between the horns where lord
Shiva dances. But the place for worship is the back side. After worshipping
the back side, the front side can be worshipped.
157. Worship of cow, service to cow offering grass and paddy straw to cow,
scratching the neck of the cow, constructing a stone pillar so that the cow can
rub itself on that and offering grazing land to the cow are blessed deeds and
gets us reward.
158. Once the husband knows clearly that his wife is in the family way, he
has to do penance. During that penance he should not take Dhanam. He
should neither shave nor cut his hair. He should not go as a Brahmin in a
Sradham. He should not take bath in the sea. He should not go on a
pilgrimage. He should not go to the cremation ground nor should he carry a
corpse. If he does not observe these, he would accumulate sins and growth
of baby would be affected.
159. To get rid of sins, we should do Kruchram. It means give punishment to
the body. That is we should punish the body by starving and also repent.
160. Those who cannot fast, instead of one Prajapathya Kruchra should
chant Gayathri ten thousand times. If even that is not possible, he should do
200 Pranayama. If even that is not possible he should do 1000 homams. If
162. Suppose a person dies, we have to remove the body only after one
Yaamam (about 3 hours). We should not keep it more than 3 Yaamams (Nine
hours). If we keep it, it would become paryushitham that is old.
163. If a person dies in day time, his body should be cremated within 3
Yamams (9 hours) but if it is night, the body can be cremated within Nine
Nazhigai (One Nazhigai is 24 minutes), It is believed that the soul of the dead
man is being taken with great speed by the assistants of God Yama.
164. If we keep the body for a long time either in the day time or night,
Parayooshitha Dosha will set in. To remove this, we have to give away three
Kruchrams and wash the body with Panchagavyam and then again wash it
with pure water and then cremate it.
165. It is believed that, while cremating, we are doing Homa of the body in
fire. Since it is not possible to lift it and do Homa, we set up a pyre, place the
body on it and set fire to it.
166. Dying in Dakshinayayana, Krishna Paksha, at night and on the cot are
each a dosha. We have to give one Kruchram each for each of these doshas
and then only cremate the body. Once a person's soul was taken by mistake
to Yama Loka by the assistants of Yama since they brought the wrong soul,
Yama, the Lord asked them to take back the soul and return it to its body.
They have the power to do that and so we should not cremate the body in a
hurry.
167. What all things need to be done before a person dies? Death would
come definitely to everyone. Suppose we know that our death is nearing, we
should do Prayachitha (redemption). That would remove the sins committed
till then and make death occur without much pain. This is an important ritual
and should be done.
168. If the man is about to die and has sufficient strength, he should take
bath, do Sankalpa and do various Dhanas. If he does not have strength, he
can instruct his son to do it.
169. If after doing this, suppose he lives for another 3 more days, he has to
do this Prayaschitha again. It is possible that he might have sinned again by
170. The Dhanam that we do ourselves before our death is our great friend
and so we have to do such rituals which would help us in the other world.
171. If we are not able to do it, then we can get it done by our sons. We
should make the dying man see Thulasi leaves, great Brahmins, we should
murmur in the dying person's ear "Rama, Rama". If possible, we can ask
them to chant "Rama, Rama". We should sprinkle Ganga water on our body
and also drink it.
172. Once we know that the person is about to die soon, we should not make
him lie on a cot or bed. In the hall we can spread Durba and make that
person lie down on that. King Parikshtith attained hell because he died on a
cot. Devi Bhagwatha says that Janamejaya made Devi Bhagawatha Navaha
(reading Devi Bhagwatham in 9 days) and sent his father to heaven.
173. If you have done only Punya (blessed deeds) then our soul will leave our
body easily. The soul will leave by the holes in the mouth. The soul of sinners
would leave the body very slowly after troubling them a lot. The soul would
leave the body through the hole for stools and urine. For realized souls, the
soul will break their heads and go out via Sushumna Nadi. Mahabharatha
says that Drona's soul left that way.
174. What is the going of the Soul? Soul, which is the complete mingling of
mind, 5 Jnanendriyas, 5 Karmendriyas, and five airs of the body (called
Prana) and the past karma that we have done becomes like a spark of fire
and goes from our body to other worlds. For those who have got salvation, it
will all get mixed here itself. In case of those who learn Vedas, it will go to the
world of Brahma, read Vedas there and at last merge with Brahma. Those for
whom all the 48 Samsakaras are done or those who give as charity things
like earth, gold, cow etc., can go to Brahma Loka but because they do not
have knowledge of Vedantha they have to return back.
175. What is the labored breath with effort at the time of death? Normally the
udana at the neck will prevent other Vayus (airs) from going out of the body.
Till he gives way, the other airs of the body try to come out and when
prevented, make one more trial, till Udana allows it to go out. People
understand from this that the person is about to die.
176. How does the soul leave the body? Prana Vayu in the heart, Apana
Vayu in our ears, Udana Vayu in the neck, Samana Vayu in the belly button
and Vyana Vayu is all over the body are called Pancha Vayu. Before the soul
177. When will milk not go inside the body? When Udana opens the way to
Prana to go out, if we pour milk or water in the mouth, it will not go in but
come out. Before and after that the milk will go in. Since all the powers of the
organs go and merge in the mind, we will not be able to see or hear or smell
and the skin will be without any feeling.
178. Since soul is a shining entity, till it is there in the body, the chest would
be warm. Right from the beginning of Vyana going and other airs going out,
those areas would lose their warmth. Even if heart beat is not there and even
if none of the senses are working, we cannot conclude that a person is dead.
Pouring milk in the mouth, keeping cotton in the nose are the normal tests.
Again these are not the ultimate symptoms of death. Some people grind
pepper or clove and apply on that person’s eye. If there is no soul, water will
not come out of the eye. This is not a good method of testing.
179. Is there any other body? Some people believe that the soul catches hold
of another body and then only leaves our body. They believe that the soul
does not go to any other world and there is no need to observe sradham
(Death anniversary) for them. It is like a person does not like to leave the
house where he has lived for long, the soul also does not like to leave the
body. So the assistants of Yama show the picture of another body and then
attracted by it, the soul leaves the body and that soul is taken to the world of
Yama.
180. Soul never dies. Only body dies. When we are alive, youth goes and
middle age sets in and later old age sets in and each of these changes is lik e
throwing out the old dress and wearing a new dress. Death also is like that. It
is only a change of new cloths discarding old ones. This is mentioned in Gita.
181. There are modes for the soul to go. They are called, the northern way
and the southern way. These are also called the way of devas or way of
manes or also called the way of devotees and the way of bad souls. Those
who go by northern way are blessed as per the good deeds done by them
and they will go via world of Yama to Heaven or Mahar Lokam, Jana Lokam,
Thapo Lokam or Brahma Lokam. Sinners only go to Yama Loka.
182. Those who go to Brahma Loka will die in Utharayana (January 15th to
July 15th), in the waxing period of moon in day time. It will take one to God of
Utharayana or God of the Year and from there he will go to Brahma Loka.
This is the path to those who become experts in the knowledge of
Upanishads.
184. Does it mean that all those who die in Dakshinayana and in Krishna
Paksha will go to Yama Loka and Swarga? Suppose a person is a great
devotee of god, or has done innumerable charities, will he not go to
Brahmaloka. This is not true that all of them go to the heaven as your
placement depends only on the sins and blessed deeds that you have done.
185. Mahabharatha says that Bhishma wanted to die only in Utharayana and
postponed his death. Because of this we should not assume that only those
who die in Uttarayana would go to heaven. It is a holy time and his father had
given him a boon that he can choose his time of death. So he did this to use
that boon.
186. Cleanliness is a divine concept. We should keep our body, words, mind,
the cloths that we wear, the food we eat and the articles that we handle as
clean. Achara means all these aspects being clean. If they are unclean then it
is anachara.
187. If a woman in her periods or a chandala comes near us, we have to take
bath along with the cloths that we wear. Then only we will become clean. If
Sudras, tainted Brahmins, Brahmins who had haircut, dog or crow touches us
then we have to take bath along with cloths.
197. Pancha Gavya is the mixture of cow's urine (one palam - 60 Gms.), half
thumb equivalent of cow dung, about half a litter of milk, 60 Gms. of ghee
(clarified butter), 60 Gms. of durba water. There is a mantra to mix them.
200. This has to be done in the month that a person died, in the paksha that
he died and on the thidhi that he died. Because of this it is termed as
Prathyabdhika Sradham.
201. One day is divided into 60 Nazhigas (24 minutes), the thirty Nazhigai of
day time is divided in to 5 portions of 6 Nazhigai each. Each of these division
has a name:
1. First 6 Nazhigas - Pratha Kala,
2. 7th to 12th Nazhiga - Sangava Kala
3. 13th to 18th Nazhika - Madyahneeka Kala
4. 19th to 24th Nazhigai - Aparanna
5. 25th to 30th Nazhigai - Sayanna.
202. The thidhi of death for sradha should be there up to Aparahna. Suppose
the thidhi comes two days in a month, in Aparannaha, sradha should be
performed on the day when it is more in Aparanha.
203. If the thidi comes twice in a month, normally Sradha should be done on
the later date. But if the later thidhi has Sankramana dosha, then it should be
done on the former thidhi. If in both cases, such dosha is there, it should be
performed only on the later date.
205. If there is only one thidhi in the month, we need not bother about
Sankramana Dosham. Sradha can be done on that day.
206. In the night if Sankramana is there within 15 Nazhikais, then thidhi has
Sankramana Sosha. If Sankramana at night is after that, then there is no
dosham.
208. If the thidhi does not occur in a month, in the previous Chandramana
month if there is the proper Thidhi, we should perform the Sradha on that day.
If Thidhi is not there in Chandramana also, Sradha should be performed in
the next month.
209. If the mother's and father's Sradha comes on the same day or both get
postponed due to death or birth taint, then on same day father's Sradha
should be performed first and next mother's Sradha should be done. The
same cooked food can be used for both.
211. If Lunar of solar eclipse comes on the Sradha day, you should observe
fast on that day and perform Sradha the next day only.
212. If for some reason you forget to perform the Sradha, from the day you
realize it, you should observe fast, observe Krucharacharanam and then
perform Sradha the next day. This is the opinion of some saints.
213. For some other reason, we are not able to perform Sradha or suppose
we do not know which thidhi it has to be performed, it can be done on the
Krishna Paksha Ekadasi or Amavasya.
214. Those who perform Sradha should not eat food of outsiders, should not
shave or have a haircut, should not take oil bath and should not make love for
one month (some say 15days) before the Sradham.
215. If there are other problems these should not be done at least for one
week before the Sradha. These should never be done for three days prior of
Sradha.
222. Before Sradha, worship of Gods, worship of guests, special bathing and
Dhanam should not be done. Dhanam should also be not taken. Even those
who do not take early morning bath or Oupasanam should take bath early, do
Sandhya Vandanam and perform Oupasanam and take bath on the Sradha
day morning. Only sick people are permitted to do only one bath. Not
adhering to this will invite curses from Pitrhrus.
223. The man who does the Sradha should personally invite the Brahmins
participating on the night before they have taken their food. If we do not do it,
several sorrows will befall us. Normally we invite three Brahmins - one
224. The qualification for a Brahmin to participate in a Sradha: One who has
read Vedas, Vedanthi, Yogi, one who performs Agni Hothra (the best), Sama
Vedhi, Shukla Yajurvedi, one who does not go against one's Dharma. One
who knows Dharma Sasthras, one who is peaceful, one who is born in a
family of Vedic pundits even if he does not chant Vedas and one who does
Gayathri Japa without fail. Only these can participate in Sradha.
225. If you do not get Brahmins, father-in-law, uncle, guru, daughter's son
and the priest who helps us in performing Sradha can represent in the
Sradha. Some Rishis say that daughter's son has a special place in this.
226. Who should not represent? Those who do not know Vedas, those who
do not have wife or son, one who works under people lower than him, one
who works in government, priests of Sudras, people who do not observe
Vruthas, people affected by leucoderma, leprosy, people with Damaged nails
or damaged teeth, people who steal, atheists, eunuchs, those who drink
alcohol, people who earn money by singing or playing musical instruments,
people who have extra limbs like fingers, people who want to be
recommended for eating in Sradha, people who hate Vedas and Brahmins,
people who find fault with Vedas and Brahmins, those who do not do Sradha
of their parents, people who have returned after crossing the sea, people who
have taken food in a Sradha in the previous day, people who accept sinful
Dhanas should not take part in the Sradha as Brahmins.
227. If we accept wrong type of people in Sradha, what we give will not reach
the pithrus. If a man, who has not learnt Vedas, eats in a Sradha, when that
Brahmin and the performer reaches hell they will be asked to take as many
iron balls as much as the number of hands of food taken by that Brahmin.
228. If we do not get those who have learnt Vedas, at least we should take
those who chant Gayathri, the mother of Vedas properly. It is a sin to employ
Brahmins, who are not Brahmins any more.
229. We have to first show hospitality to Visva Devas first and then only to the
one who represents the Pithrus. Like that, when we send them after the
Sradham, first we have to bid farewell to Brahmin who represented Visva
Devas.
230. When we are washing the feet of Sradha Brahmins, on the northern
side, we have to make a square of 12" with cow dung.
233. Wearing the Pavithra, you have to worship with rice Deva Mandala
(square) and with Yellu (gingili) the Pithru Mandala. While we are washing the
feet of the Brahmin, we should remove the Pavithra and keep it on our ears.
In Deva Kunda, put the Durba on the eastern side and in Pithru Kunda, Durba
should be put on the southern side.
234. We have to apply ghee on the sole of the feet and thumb of the Brahmin
chanting "Shukramasi". After washing our hand saying "Kandathvaaram", we
have to apply cow dung.
235. Brahmana should face the east and the one who does Sradha should
stand facing the West. The water should be poured by the wife and using
both hands starting from the south, we have to wash both the feet.
236-238. We have to wash their feet chanting the following three slokas:
1. Samastha sampath samvapthi hethaa,
Samudhitha aapathkula dhooma kethava,
Apara samsara samudhra sethava,
Punanthu maam Brahmana pada pamsava.
This means that let the dust of the feet of the Brahmin, which can give
me all wealth, which removes all the dangers faced by me and which is
like a bridge helping me to cross the shore less sea of Samsara, make
me pure.
2. Aadhi vyadhi haram nrunaanam, Dukha daridrya nasanam,
Sri Pushi keerthitham Vandhe Vipra sri Pada pankajam.
Meaning: I salute the lotus like feet of the Brahmin, which removes the
diseases of the mind and body and which grants me wealth, health and
fame.
3. "Viprougha darasanath Sathya ksheeyanthe paparasaya,
Vandanath mangalavaapthi, archanath achyutham padam.
Meaning: Seeing a crowd of Brahmins, the crowd of sins would fly
away. If we salute them auspiciousness will come and if we worship
them we will get salvation.
239. After we propitiate the Viswa Deva in the Sradha, after telling the
manthra, we should put the rice from his right leg to head, from bottom to top.
We should wear the sacred thread over the left shoulder.
241. People who are rich should buy white silk dhothi every year and give to
the Brahmins or at least give a Dhothi with Silk Zari border. We have to either
give three or two or at least one Vasthra to the Brahmin. Giving a cloth
without border is not that good.
242. If the cloth with a black border is given, then the pithrus would go to hell
and so they will curse us. So we should always give cloth with red border.
That which has been washed by a washer man or that which was worn by
someone else should not be given. New cloth should be bought and on the
morning of Sradha, after we take bath, it should be dipped in water and then
dried to become eligible to be given as Dhana,
243. If we are not able to get suitable cloth, we can give its cost as dakshina.
If we cannot afford it, we can give a new sacred thread instead of cloth along
with some cash present.
244. If we give the sacred thread before the start of the Sradha and they wear
it, that sacred thread can be retained. But if we give after they are propitiated,
then they will have to change it the next day.
245. Before we start the Sradha, we have to give the Brahmins oil. It is a
hospitality shown to the manes and for the stool to go out easily for the
Brahmana. After he takes bath and wears the madi (untainted cloth), the
Sradham starts.
246. Similarly for cleaning the mind of Brahmin, Ellurundai (sesame jaggery
balls) is to be given and to make his language pure, Thamboola is offered.
Some people do not offer this because they think that nothing should be
eaten before the Sradha. The general rule is to follow the customs followed
by our family.
247. Aachamana should be done only after removing the Pavithram from
hand. Similarly the feet of the Brahmins should not be washed wearing the
Pavithram. We should not apply sandal paste wearing Pavithram. At those
times, Pavithram should be kept above left ear.
248. The feet of the Brahmin should be washed only up to the ankle.
249. The cooking for Sradha should be done using ghee. Some sages say
that we should not use gingili oil and coconut oil. But since pure cow ghee is
not easily available and since we use gingili in the Sradha, learned people
say that cooking can be done in good Gingili oil.
251. The food ritually offered to the pithrus can be taken only by those clan
members who have ten day taint from events in our family. Even those who
have three day taint should not eat it. Some people say that those fried in oil
is okay to be taken by any one. Others if they take the food offered to Pithrus
should do redemption before doing their usual rituals.
252. The remains of food offered during Yekodishta should not be even eaten
by ten day taint clan members.
253. Black gram, black gingili, wheat, green gram dhal, jaggery, khandasari
sugar, cumin, pepper and samba rice can be used for cooking in Sradha.
254. Some people say coconut, mustard, snake gourd, wood apple and
cucumber can also be used for cooking. Some people do not add these. So
do according to family custom.
255. Ash Gourds, chilies and asafetida are banned from being used during
Sradha. Ash Gourd grew out of an asura called Kooshmanda, Chillies came
from outside the country and Asafetida is a resin from a tree and is supposed
to be the result of the sin of Indra.
256. Perandai (Cissus), curry leaf, bitter gourd, plantain, mango, jamun fruit,
lemon, colacasia, elephant foot yam, lime, sweet potato, cluster beans, lab
lab beans and jack fruit can be used during Sradha. Among these black
gram, honey and jack fruit are greatly liked by Pithrus.
257. The following should not be used for Sradha: cow pea, horse gram,
Bengal gram, tur dhal (thuvarai paruppu), ash gourd, bottle gourd, drum stick,
curd made of buffalo milk, asafetida, pomegranate should not be used.
258. Pithrus are peace loving people and so we should use all material which
are Sathvika in nature only.
259. On Sradha day no one except those born in our caste can take food in
our house. Some people due to pity or due to their affection offer food for the
Panchamas and Shudras on that day, That is wrong and Pithrus will curse us
if we do it.
260. It is known that the great savant Sridhara Ayyaval fed a Panchama on
the Sradha day and that Ganges water came in the well of his house to purify
him.
262. That day vessels have to be washed by us, the place has to be washed
by us, cloths has to be washed and dried, cooking also has to be done by us
without drinking coffee and so many other rules should be observed on a
Sradha day. If these are all not observed, performing Sradha is a waste.
264. Due to certain sages permitting and due to practice, daughter's son can
be permitted.
265. On Sradha day and previous day, the one who does Sradha should not
clean his teeth with stick or brush, should not walk a distance and should not
carry a burden. We should not fix and invite a Brahmin and later cancel it. We
should not keep sandal paste on vessels made of mud.
266. Cooked Dhal, Payasam and Ghee should be served on the right side of
the leaf. Dhal and Ghee should be kept on a separate leaf piece in the
Dhonnai (leaf cup). All preparations where salt is added should be kept on the
front leaf. In sradham, food is normally served on two leaves (one front leaf
and the second leaf kept slightly behind on the first leaf).
269. The one who is selected as Viswedeva should wash his hand only after
the one who represents Pithrus washes his hand. The same thing is true of
Aachamana.
270. When the Brahmins are eating, if the food being eaten by one falls on
other man's leaf, the Brahmins should touch the leaf further. After removing
the leaf and cleaning that place with cow dung, fresh leaf should be again put
in another place and food should be served again.
272. If the pinda meant for the crow is eaten by some other animal before
crow touches it or if is eaten by a dog or if Sudras see it, we have to starve
that day and do the Sradha again the next day.
273. The rice and other preparations should be served to the Brahmins
without favoritism. But Dakshina can be given according to the capacity of
those Brahmins. But good people do not do that.
274. After Pinda Pradhana, few rice that is remaining should be eaten after
saying Manthra. After eating it, worship of Viswedevas can be done. Some
people only smell it. Do as per your family custom.
275. People who do not have sons, if they give the center Pinda to their wife
saying the Manthra abhandhava, then they will get a son. Other Pindas
should be put in fire or water.
276. The vessels used to prepare food for sradha should not be cleaned by
Sudras. The leaf used by Brahmins to take food should be buried in the soil. If
Sudras touch that leaf or Dog eats from it, then the entire Sradha is a waste.
277. The leaf used by Brahmins to take food should be removed before they
start to tell the blessing Manthras (Swasthi Vachana). The area should be
cleaned after Pinda Pradhana.
278. The Brahmins should not touch each other till the Sradha is over. They
should eat silently. While eating food, suppose they say the food is good, the
Pithrus will not eat that food.
279. Before the leaf of Viswedeva, you have to draw a line by water and
spread cooked rice over it and then pour water over it. This is called
Vikiranna.
281. In front of the leaf of Pithrus, then we have to draw a line with Gingelly
mixed water, keep cooked rice on them and pour Gingelly water over it. This
is called "Paithruka Vikirannam."
283. After keeping the Vikiranna, we have to keep our Pavithram on our ears
and then do two aachamanams, keep Dhurba facing south and over that
keep Vayasa Pinda (Pinda for crow) Since this Pinda is offered to the crows,
it is called Vayasa Pinda.
284. "Ye agni daktha, Ye anagni daktha, yevaa jathaa kule mama, bhoomou
dathena Piindena trupathayaanthu Param gathim" is the manthra to be
recited and this would mean "To all those who are born in my clan, to those
who were burnt by fire and to those who were not burnt by fire, let them get
satisfied by the Pinda that I am keeping on the earth."
285. The vayasa pindam should be kept on earth, in a place where dogs
would not come and should not be visible to other caste people. First we have
to pour water, put the sacred thread on the right shoulder and then call the
crow. Once it seems Lord Yama took the form of a crow and then he told his
devotee that if Pinda is given to the crow, then Yama will not trouble our
ancestors. And so offering Vayasa Pindam in Sradha and daily offering
cooked rice to crow before we eat is a must.
286. When Bhishma and Sri Rama were offering Sradha Pindam, it seems
their manes came and received it. But they said, since the Mantra says, we
are keeping on earth, we would not receive from you, but take it from earth.
So we also should follow rules and believe that our Pithrus are present during
the Sradha.
287. If the crow takes the Pinda facing east, our wealth will increase, if it
faces south, we would get ill. If it takes facing west, we would go to some
other town. If it takes facing north, our life span will increase. If it does not
take it at all, sorrows will increase.
288. We should address the Pithrus and ask them, "Anna seshai kim
Kareyatham?" (what to do with the food that is remaining?). They will say
"Ishtais saha bhojyatham" (eat it with people who love you). Because of this
mantra, some people say that the food can be shared with friends. This is
wrong.
289. Since Sastra says that only our clan members who have ten day taint,
can eat that food and learned people also follow that custom, we also should
do like that. We should not interpret that we are disobeying the order of
Pithrus, but take it as the order is forever and refers all the food that remains,
which should be shared with friends.
291. If Sradha comes on Ekadasi day, the one who performs Sradha, his wife
and children should definitely take food on that day. Sradha which comes
only yearly once is much more important than Ekadasi which comes twice a
month. Pithru Sesha will bless us and also give us the effect of observing
Ekadasi.
292. If widows perform Sradha for their husband on Ekadasi day, they have
to eat the Sradha Sesham. If they think that Ekadasi is more important and do
not take food, Pithrus would be made to eat dirty food.
293. If Sradha for father or brother comes on Ekadasi day, ladies with
husbands living (Sumangali) can eat the Pithru Sesham but a widow should
not eat it.
294. The Sradha Sesha of father in law and uncle can be eaten by son-in-law
and nephew respectively.
295. Fruits, milk, curd, butter milk, ghee, honey and uncooked vegetables do
not have Pithru Sesha,
300. The Brahmins who represent Viswedevas and Pithrus, slightly modify
these slokas and bless us using them.
303. Paraheni Tharpanam This should be done the next day of Sradha in the
early morning and not immediately after Sradha on the same day.
305. Sasthra are the orders of God and we have to follow it. We should not
find fault with it. In some type of Sradhas there is no Partaheni Tharpanam. In
some Sastras, it asks us to immediately do it and in some cases it asks us to
do it the next day.
306. What are those Sradhas where Paraheni Tharpanam is not there? If
father is alive and mother is no more, in the Sradha done to mother, there is
no Paraheni Tharpanam. In case of Sapindikarana Sradham, Anumasika
Sradham and Nandhi sradham, there is no Paraheni Tharpanam.
307. What are those occasions where Paraheni Tharpana should be done
immediately? Except in case of Sradha for mother and father and in case of
Sakrunmalaya Sradham, in all other cases Paraheni Tharpanam should be
done immediately. We should get up at 4 A.M. of the next day (Brahma
Muhurtham), wash our hands and legs, gargle, take bath and then do
Paraheni Tharpanam. Then we have to clean our teeth, take bath again and
do the morning ablations.
308. If we do not get up at proper time and the dawn is over, then only after
finishing Sandhya Vandanam, the tharpanam should be done. By that time if
we are not clean, then we have to take bath and do the Tharpanam.
309. Can we clean our teeth on Sradha day? Sasthra says that without
washing teeth, without answering calls of nature and without taking bath, no
ritual should be performed. Same Sasthra says that we should not clean our
teeth on Sradha day. Is this not contradictory?
317. After the property is divided between brothers, each of them has to do
Sradha separately.
318. After property is divided, Sradha should be done separately. But if father
is no more and mother is alive, yhe Sradha has to be done in the place she
lives. If mother and children live separately, the mother should feed two
Brahmins.
319. If there is no property to divide, if the brothers are living separately then
also they should do Sradha separately. If they happen to be in the same
place, they should employ different set of Brahmins, separately cook rice and
Payasam and using all other cooked things commonly and do the Sradha.
They have to do Homa separately.
I. Kathyayana:
By the annual performance of Upakarma and Uthsarjana by the Brahmins,
The power of the already learnt Vedic chants will increase.
II. Gargya:
Krishna Yajur Vedis should do it in the Pournamasya of the month of Sravana
(avani in Tamil and Chingam in Malayalam. It occurs during august
September), Rig Vedis in the Sravana Nakshatra of Sravana Masa. The day
should not be the beginning of the month or eclipse. Upakarma should not be
done if it is eclipse or first day of the month (Solar month)
IV. Smruthyanthara:
If Pournami and Prathama join after 12 nazhigai after sun rise (called Sangha
kala - 4 hours 48 minutes) and before noon, that is the proper day for annual
chant of Gayathri (Gayathri Japam). If it joins before this time then previous
day is Upakarma and next day Gayathri Samitha Dhanam.
V. Thithi Darpanam:
Rig vedis should do Upakarma on the day when during sun rise Sravana star
is there.
Sama Vedis should do it when Hastha Nakshatra extends beyond this time in
month of Bhaadrapada (Purattasi/Kanni/September-October). If the Simha
Bhadrapada is not holy due to Moudya, then they (Sama Vedis) should do it
in Kanya month during Krishna Paksha (waxing period of moon).
For Rik Vedis the lord of the Shaka (branch) is Guru, For Yajur vedis it is
Shukra, for Sama Vedis it is Angaraka and for Atharva Vedis it is Bhudha. So
they should do upakarma when the Lord of their Shakha is powerful. If these
planets are in Moudya (powerless) or when there is eclipse or when there is
month beginning, Upakarma should not be performed on that day.
Shukla Yajur Vedis should do Upakarma on the full moon day of Sravana
month. If that has dosha they can do it on Sravana star of the same month or
on the day when star Hastha and Panchami thithi are together in the same
month and if even that is unsuitable they can do it on the day when Hastha
star is there in the Sravana month. They can also do it in the full moon day of
the Bhadhra pada month. The decision has to be made based on the family
custom.
VI. Sandilya:
Upakarma should not be performed with wet cloths. If it is done, it is termed
as Rakshasa. During Upakarma, a new sacred thread should be worn, that is
Upakarma should be done with new cloths and new sacred thread by
everyone and in case of Brahmachari they should wear in addition a new belt,
new deer's skin and new staff.
a. Perform Aachamanam.
b. Repeat:
Shuklaam Baradharam Vishnum,
Shashi Varnam Chaturbuhjam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dhyaaye,
Sarva Vighno Pashaantaye.
c. Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands
and recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savitur varenyam, Bhargo devasya dhimahi, Dhiyo yo nah
prachodayat.
Om Apa
Jyothi rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om!
i. Do aachamanam.
2. Kamo karshet Japam (Vedic Chant to get rid of sins committed due to
passion, anger and avarice):
a. Perform Aachamanam.
b. Repeat:
Shuklaam Baradharam Vishnum,
Shashi Varnam Chaturbuhjam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dhyaaye,
Sarva Vighno Pashaantaye.
e. Then chant "Kamo karsheth manyura karsheth namo nama" 1008 times
in the ------ year, in the southern solastice, in the Greeshma season (August-
september), in the waning period of the moon on the good Pournamasi (full
moon) thithi, on ------- day, on ---------- nakshatra, in the good yoga, in the
good karana, and in the good thithi of pournamasi which has all the good
qualities described, for performing the annual redemption for not doing the
prescribed rituals and for doing the annual redemption, I chant
"Kamokarsheth manyura Karsheth (pardon for the lapses committed out of
anger, passion and avarice)", 1008 times
a. Perform Aachamanam.
c. Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands
and recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savitur varenyam, Bhargo devasya dhimahi, Dhiyo yo nah
prachodayat.
Om Apa
Jyothi rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om!
Do achamanam thrice, wipe your lips twice, touch water once, sprinkle water
on left hand and leg and touch head eyes, nose ears and chest
After this recite, if possible, Vedic manthras that you know like Rudram,
Chamakam etc.
Put the Yagnopaveetham in normal fashion and pour water from the tips of
fingers
Put the Yagnopaveetham (poonal) as garland and pour water by towards the
left of the palm
Put the Yagnopaveetham in normal fashion and pour water from the tips of
fingers
o. Only those who have lost their father (others go to step p) do Pithru
tharpanam wearing the yagnopaveetham on the right shoulder pouring water
between the thumb and index finger.
a. Perform Aachamanam.
c. Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands
and recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savitur varenyam, Bhargo devasya dhimahi, Dhiyo yo nah
prachodayat.
dighdanthi-shunda dhanda-uttambhithe,
Where sounds roar in all directions,
jambhu-plaksha-saka-salmali-kusa-krouncha-pushkarakhya saptha
dweepanaam madhye
In the middle of seven islands called Jambu, Plaksha, Saka, Salmali, Kusa,
Krouncha and Pushkara,
Jamboo dweepe,
In the Jamboo island,
Bharatha varshe,
In the continent ruled by King Bharatha,
bharatha kande,
In the sub-continent of India,
prajaapathi kshetre
In the area created by Lord Brahma,
dandakaaranya-chamapakaaranya-vindhyaaranya-veekshaaranya-
vedaaranayaadhi, aneka punya aaranyaanam Madhya pradeshe,
In the middle of the area surrounded by the forests of Dandakaranya,
karma bhoomou,
In the land of action
Bhaageerathi-Gouthami-Krishna veni-Yamuna-Narmadaa-Thungabadhraa-
Triveni-Malaapahaarini-kaveri- ithyadi, aaneka punya nadhi viraajithe,
In the area where several holy rivers such as Ganga, Gouthami, Krishna veni,
Yamuna, Narmada, Thunga Bhadra, Triveni, Malaprabha, Kaveri etc flow,
Indraprastha-Yamaprastha-Aavanthikaapuri-Hasthinaapuri-Ayodhyaa puri-
Maayaa puri-Kasi puri-Kanchi puri-Dwarakaa aadi aneka punya puree
viraajithe
In the area where cities like Indraprastha, Tamaprastha, Avanthikapuri,
Hasthinapuri, Ayodhya, Maya Puri, Benares, Kanchipuram, Dwaraka etc
shine,
kali yuge,
In Kali yuga,
samapathakaanaam upapaathakaanaam
normal sins and subsidiary sins
malini karanaanam
making things dirty
aapathrikarananaam,
by giving and taking from unsuitable sources,
a. Perform Aachamanam.
c. Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands
and recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savitur varenyam, Bhargo devasya dhimahi, Dhiyo yo nah
prachodayat.
Om Apa
Jyothi rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om!
Wear poonal as garland and do tharpanam using water mixed with thil (black
gingely) and akshatha
Each manthra has to be chanted thrice and tharpanam done.
7. Vedarambham
a. Perform Aachamanam.
In the beginning due to the wish of Lord Vishnu, the world started functioning
and the first Brahma was created. In the second division in the age of the
white boar, during the rule of Vaivaswatha Manu, in the 28th part Kali Yuga,
in the first division, in the Island of Jambu (Jamun) fruit, in the continent of
* meaning "Oh God who is worthy and eligible, I meditate on thine luminous
light, please make my intellect shine
Gayathri Avahanam:
Then chant Gayathri manthra 'Om bhur bhuva suva, thath savithur varenyam,
Bhargo devasya deemahi, Dhiyo yo nah prachodayath' 1008 times.
b. Samashti Abhivadanam
Starting from the direction facing which the japa was done after each manthra
turn 90 degrees to the right. Say the next manthra and so on.
Sandhyayai nama
Savithryai nama
Then touch with both hands the ears slightly bow and chant
Abhivadaye (tell your rishis) (tell number) Risheya
(tell your pravara) pravaranvitha
(tell your Gothra) gothra
(tell your Suthra) suthra
(tell your Veda) adhyay
Sri (tell your name) sarmanam aham asmibho
After this touch your feet with both hands and do namaskaram
Then again face the direction in which you were doing japa and continue:
Oordwaya nama (above)
Adharaya nama (below)
Anthareekshaya nama (straight)
d. Yama Vandanam
Yamaya nama
Yamaya dharma rajaya, mrutyuve cha anthakaya cha
Vaivaswathaya kalaya sarva bhootha kshayaya cha
Oudhumbharaya dhagnaya neelaya parameshtine
Vrukodharaya chithraya chithra gupthaya vai nama
Chithra gupthaya vai nama om nama ithi
e. Harihara Vandhanam
Ruthagum sathyam para brahma purusham Krishna pingalam,
Oordhwrethwam viroopaksham Viswa roopaya vai nama
Viswa roopaya vai nama om nama ithi
g. Samarpanam
Take a small quantity of water recite the following manthra and pour it on the
ground
Kaye na vacha manase indriyair va
Budhyathma nava prakruthai swabhavat.
Karomi yadyat sakalam parasmai,
Narayana yethi samarpayami
Then do aachamanam
Bodhayana was a great saint who was the son of Sage Kanva. He has written
Grihya Suthras which are followed by many Iyer Brahmins. He belonged to
the Krishna Yajur Veda. The Amavasya Tharpanam for those who follow
Bodhayana Sutra has to be done on Bodhayana Amavasya days.
The Tharpana manthras as per Bodhayana Suthra differ from the manthras
used by those who follow Apasthamba Sutra. Apart from Pithrus, thaprpana is
also done to acharyas (mentor), Gurus (Teacher) and Sakhees (friends) and
their families. I am giving them in English so that it would be useful to people
who live away from their native place and are not able to read manthras in
Sanskrit or in their mother tongue or unable to locate a Purohith. I have
followed the compilation by Sri Painga Nadu Venkatrama Sastri in Tamil by
Surabhi publications, Chennai. My grateful acknowledgements to the learned
compiler and the publisher.
This is ALSO AVAILABLE IN A SCANNED BOOK FORM IN Devanagari
script at:
[Link]
1. Perform Achamanam
Take minute quantities of water (just sufficient to soak one grain of black
gram) three times in the right hand and take it with the following manthra.
1. Om Achyuthaya nama [Link] Ananthaya nama 3. Om Govindaya nama
Then
Touch with thumb both cheeks saying kesava -Narayana
Touch with ring finger both eyes saying Madhava - govinda
Touch with the first finger both sides of nose saying Vishno-Madhusoodana
Touch with little finger both ears saying Trivikrama-Vamana
3. Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb, little and third finger of the hands and recite
the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tatsa vithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhi mahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying Om, Om, Om.
4. Do Sankalpam
Mamo Partha Samastha Duritha kshaya dwara Sri Parameshwara
Preethyartham.
Apavithra pavithro va Sarvavastham gathopi va,
Ya smareth pundarikaksham sa bahyanthara suchi
Manasam vachikam paapam karmana samuparjitham
Sri Rama smarane naiva vyapohathi na samsaya
Sri Rama-Rama Rama
Thidir Vishnu thada vaara nakshatram Vishnureva cha,
Yogascha karanam Chaiva sarvam Vishnu mayam jagat
Sri Govinda Govinda Govinda
Adya Sri Bhagavatha maha purushasya Vishnor Agnaya pravarthamanasya
Adhya Brahmana Dweethiya parardhe Swetha Varaha kalpe Vaivaswatha
manvanthare ashta vimsathi thame kali yuge prathame padhe,jambu dweepe,
Bharatha varshe, Bharatha Khande, Mero Dakshine Parswe, Sakabdhe
6. Tharpanam
For each of the following twenty four manthras offer water oblations mixed
with black gingelly thrice:-
1. Pithrun Swadha namastharpayami
2. Pithamahan Swadha namastharpayami
3. Prapithamahaan Swadha namastharpayami
4. Mathru Swadha namastharpayami (Pithamahi Swadha namastharpayami
when mother is alive)
5. Pithamahi Swadha namastharpayami (Pithru Pithamahi Swadha
namastharpayami when mother is alive)
6. Pithru pithamaha swadhanamastharpayami (Pithru praPithamahi Swadha
And using the end of the untied Koorcha pour water three times.
1. Perform Achamanam
Take minute quantities of water (just sufficient to soak one grain of black
gram) three times in the right hand and take it with the following manthra:
1. Om Achyuthaya nama 2,Om Ananthaya nama 3. Om Govindaya nama
Then
Touch with thumb both cheeks saying kesava -Narayana
Touch with ring finger both eyes saying Madhava -govinda
Touch with the first finger both sides of nose saying Vishno-Madhusoodana
Touch with little finger both ears saying Trivikrama-Vamana
Touch with the middle finger both shoulders saying Sreedhara-Hrishi kesa
Touch with all fingers the belly button saying Padmanabha
Touch with all fingers the head saying Damodara
2. Ganapathi Dyanam
Recite the following manthra slowly hitting the forehead with both fists
together:-
Shuklambaradharam Vishunum Sasi Varnam ChathurBhujam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dyayeth Sarva Vigna Upa Santhaye.
3. Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tatsa vithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhi mahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
4. Do Sankalpam
Mamo Partha Samastha Duritha kshaya dwara Sri Parameshwara
Preethyartham.
Brahma Yagnam karishye
Brahma Yagnena yakshye
Mamo Partha Samastha Duritha kshaya dwara Sri Parameshwara
Preethyartham.
Brahma Yagnam karishye. Brahma yagnena yakshye.
5. Prayogam
b. Then chant
Om Bhoo, tatsa vithurvarenyam
Om Suva, Bhargo devasya dheemahi,
Ogum suva, dhiyo yona prachodayath,
OM Bhoo tatsa vithurvarenyam bhargo devasya dheemahi.
Om Bhuva, dhiyo yona prachodayath,
Ogum suva, tasa vithur varenyam bhago devasya dheemahi dhiyo yona
prachodayath.
d. Chant "Om Bhoorbhavassuva" and rotate little water round your head
I. Deva Tharpanam
Wear the Yagnopavitha over the left shoulder (Upaveethi) and do Tharpana
through the tip of the fingers of right hand chanting the following manthras:
1. Agni, Prajapathi, Somo Rudhra, athithir, Brahaspathi Sarpaa ithyethaani
prakrud dwarani daivathani sanakshtrani sa grahaani Sahorathrani
samuhurthaani Tharpayami
2, Vasoomscha tharpayami
3. Pithro aarayama bhaga savithaa thwashtaa vayu indra agni ithyedhaani
dakshinathwarani daivathani, sanakshthrani sa grahani sahorathrani
samuhurthaani tharpayami
4. Rudramscha tharpayami
5. Mithra Indro Maha pithara Aabho viswa devaga Brahma Vishnu ithyedhani
prathyagdwarani daivathani, sanakshthrani sa grahani sahorathrani
samuhurthaani tharpayami
6. Aadhithyamscha Tharpayami
7. Vasavo Varuna aja ekhapath ahir puthniya Poosha aswinala yama
ithyethani udagthwarani, daivathani, sanakshthrani sa grahani sahorathrani
samuhurthaani tharpayami
8. Saadhyamschaschatharpayami
9. Brahmanam tharpayami
10. Prajapathim tharpayami
11. Prameshtinam tharpayami
12. Hiranya Garbham Tharpayami
13. Chathur mugam tharpayami
14. Swayambhuvam tharpayami
15. Brahma parshadaan tharpayami
16. Brahma parshadhee tharpayami
17. Agnim tharpayami
18. Vayum tharpayami
19. Varunam tharpayami
20. Somam tharpayami
21. Sooryam tharpayami
22. Chandramasam Tharpayami
23. Nakshthraani tharpayami
24. Jyo dheegumshi tharpayami
Wear the Yagnopavitha over the right shoulder (Pracheena veethi) and do
Tharpana through the right side of the palm right hand chanting the following
manthras (Person whose father is alive should not do this part of the
tharpanam):
1. Pithru Swadha nama tharpatami
2. Pithamaha Swadha namas tharpayami
3. Pithrupithamaha Swadha namas tharpayami
4. Mathru swadha nama tharpayami
5. Pithamahi swadha namas tharpayami
6. Prapithamahi Swadha namas tharpayami
7. Matha mahan swadha namas tharpayami
8. Mathu pithamahan Swadha namas tharpayami
9. Mathu prapithamaha Swadha namas tharpayami
10. Mathamahi Swadha namas tharpayami
While Stotras are verses praising the deity, Dhyana Slokas describe the deity
and help the devotee to bring the deity in his/her mind and proceed with
meditation. There are several Dhyana Slokas for each deity, I have selected
in most cases one of them and presented here along with its meaning.
Ganapathi (Vigneswara)
Vallabha Ganapathi
Hayagreeva
Lord Rama
Lord Krishna
I pray daily morning to Him who is being saluted by Indra and other devas,
Who is a child with the blue colour of the clouds, who ties on his leg and hips,
Lord Parasurama
Lord Shiva
Dakshinamurthy
Nataraja
Viswanatha
Goddess Lakshmi
Goddess Tripurasundari
Goddess Lalitha
Indrakshi
Durga
Goddess Gayathri
I sing about that Gayathri who has five faces of the colour of,
Pearl, coral, gold, blue and white, who has three eyes,
Who has a crown adorned with the crescent of the moon,
Saraswathi
Lord Hanuman
I salute that son of wind god, who has reddish brown eyes and hairs,
Who has a face, arms and legs of the colour of the blood of a rabbit,
Who has the luster which causes glare to the eye and is difficult to see,
Similar to the ebbing luster of billions of Sun gods,
Panchamukha Hanuman
I salute that Shukra with a smiling face, who shines with his white body,
Who sits in a white lotus in the place of business, who wears white marks and
cloths,
Who distributes cloths and gems using his left hand to his devotees,
Who shows the symbol of explanation by his right hand,
And who gives boons to the Rakshasas.
I always salute that Saturn who is the lord of planets, who has a body,
Colour like a blue stone, who sits on a blue lotus flower.
Who has broad shining eyes, who is always angry because of hunger,
Who has a lean dried body without any flesh, who is always angry,
Who is fearsome and who has long beard and hair.
Let us be protected by god Sastha who is the son of lord Vishnu and Shiva,
Who is of the black colour of the clouds, who has a face shining because,
Of the gem studded ear drops that he wears, W ho has the red lotus in right
hand,
Who places his left hand on his left knee , who sits in the lotus pose along,
With his two wives Poorna and Pushkala in the throne of Yoga.
Lord Sastha
Lord Subrahmanya
[Gayatri Mantras are very powerful meditation aids to pray for the grace of a
particular God. Gayatri is the feminine form of gayatra, a Sanskrit word for a
song or a hymn. It may refer to a mantra in particular (attributed to
Vishwamitra - goddess as its personification - represents Para Brahman) or
the name of a Vedic poetic meter of 24 syllables (three lines of eight syllables
each) or any hymn composed in this meter.]
ॐ ।
।
।
॥
Om Kathyayanaya Vidhmahe
Kanya Kumari Cha Dheemahe
Thanno Durgaya Prachodayath.
Om Mahadevyaicha Vidhmahe
Vishnu Pathniyaicha Dheemahe
Thanno Lakshmi Prachodayath.
Om Vrishabhanujaye Vidhmahe
Krishna Priyaya Dheemahe
Thanno Radha Prachodayath.
Shiva Gayatri
Om Narayanaya Vidhmahe
Vasudevaya Dheemahe
Thanno Vishnu Prachodayath.
Om Daserathaya Vidhmahe
Sita Vallabhaya Dheemahe
Thanno Rama Prachodayath.
Om Dhamodharaya Vidhmahe
Rukmani Vallabhay Dheemahe
Thanno Krishna Prachodayath.
Om, Let me meditate on the god whose belly was tied by a rope,
Oh, consort of Rukhmani, give me higher intellect,
And let God Krishna illuminate my mind.
Om Govindaya Vidhmahe
Gopi Vallabhaya Dheemahe
Thanno Krishna Prachodayath.
Om, Let me meditate on the god who takes care of all beings,
Oh, darling of all gopis, give me higher intellect,
And let God Krishna illuminate my mind.
Nirnajanaya Vidmahe
Nirapasaya Dheemahe
Thanno Srinivasa Prachodayath.
Om Narasimhaya Vidmahe
Vajra Nakhaya Dheemahe
Thanno Narasimha Prachodayath.
Om Vanisvaraya Vidhmahe
Hayagrivaya Dhimahi
Tanno Hayagriva Pracodayat.
Om, Let me meditate on the god of learning,
Oh, God who has a horse face, give me higher intellect,
And let God Hayagreeva illuminate my mind.
Om Sudharshanaya Vidmahe
Maha Jwalaya Dheemahe
Thanno Chakra Prachodayath.
Om Vedathmanaya Vidmahe,
Hiranya Garbhaya Dheemahi,
Thanno Brahma Prachodayath
Om Lambhodaraya Vidmahe
Mahodaraya Deemahi
Thanno Danthi Prachodayath.
Om Ekadanthaya Vidmahe
Vakrathundaya Dheemahi
Thanno Danthi Prachodayath.
Om Thatpurashaya Vidhmahe
Vakrathundaya Dheemahi
Thanno Danthi Prachodayath.
Om Sahasra Nethrayevidhmahe
Vajra Hasthaya Dheemahe
Thanno Indra Prachodayath.
Om Aanjaneya Vidhmahe
Maha Balaya Dheemahe
Thanno Hanuman Prachodayath.
Om Aanjaneya Vidhmahe
Vayu Puthraya Dheemahe
Thanno Hanuman Prachodayath.
Om Bhaskaraya Vidhmahe
Diva Karaya Dheemahe
Thanno Surya Prachodayath.
Om Aswadwajaya Vidhmahe
Pasa Hasthaya Dheemahe
Thanno Surya Prachodayath.
Om Padmadwajaya Vidhmahe
Hema Roopaya Dheemahe
Thanno Chandra Prachodayath.
Om Veeradhwajaaya Vidmahae
Vighna Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Bhouma Prachodayaat
Om, Let me meditate on him who has hero in his flag,
Oh, He who has power to solve problems, give me higher intellect,
And let the son of earth God illuminate my mind.
Budha (Mercury) Gayatri Mantra
Om Gajadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Sukha Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Budha: Prachodayaat
Om, Let me meditate on him who has elephant in his flag,
Oh, He who has power to grant pleasure, give me higher intellect,
And let Budha illuminate my mind.
Om Vrishabadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Kruni Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Guru: Prachodayaat
Om Aswadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Dhanur Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Shukra: Prachodayaat
Om Kaakadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Khadga Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Mandah: Prachodayaat
Om Naakadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Padma Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Raahu: Prachodayaat
Om Aswadhwajaaya Vidmahae
Soola Hastaaya Dheemahi
Tanno Ketu: Prachodayaat
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Om, Let me meditate on the son of Sun God,
Oh, great Lord of time, give me higher intellect,
And let God of death illuminate my mind.
Om Thathpurushaya Vidhmahe
Suvarna Pakshaya Dheemahe
Thanno Garuda Prachodayath.
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Om, Let me meditate on that great living being,
Oh, Bird with golden wings, give me higher intellect,
And let the God Garuda illuminate my mind
Om Thathpurushaya Vidhmahe
Chakrathundaya Dheemahe
Thanno Nandi Prachodayath .
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Marriage Rites and Rituals [Iyers]
By P. R. Ramachander
Introduction
An attempt has been made to list out and describe the various rituals and
functions of the marriage of Iyers. It does not mean that these are same for all
Iyers. According the Veda and the Sutra that they follow as well as the
custom adopted by the families these can be different. The marriage rituals,
except for a few have not been stable over years. It has kept on changing
according to the needs and conveniences of the iyer society. Even about 100
years back, most of the marriages were celebrated for four days. Little earlier
to that Vara Dakshina or dowry was not in practice but Kanya Shulka or
brides money was given to the father of the bride. What are being described
are the functions and rituals, as it should be based on the Vedas and different
family customs, which are in vogue. Some effort has also been made to give
the significance of these functions as well as the meanings of the important
mantras recited at different times.
Every individual iyer knows that the iyer marriage is a very complicated
function. They would however be surprised to know that the part dictated by
Vedas in the marriage ceremony is extremely less. Most of the manthras are
very significant but some of them are extremely out dated. Some of the out
dated ceremonies are slowly being changed or left out by our forefathers. We
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have to be really proud of that group of people who were tied in orthodoxy of
those times but willing to change once they realized that it is not relevant.
Apart from the Vedic rituals there are also puranic rituals, which must have
crept in with passage of time. This was possibly the reason why the Indian
Constitution tells that the stipulated marriage rites of a Hindu community are
those rites, which have been prevalent for the past 25 years. There are also
umpteen rituals in the iyer marriage, which has nothing to do with Veda or
puranas or even the religion. These are the loukika rituals. Sumnagalis or
married women whose husbands are alive take a leadership in determining
and carrying out these rituals.
Broadly in the iyer marriage the Vedic rituals are 1. Groom asks for the girl
from her father through intermediaries 2. Father of the bride agrees 3. The
father of the groom gives permission for the groom to marry 4. The bride's
father gives his daughter as a gift to the groom and then 5. The Groom
marries the bride who is now his. But the rituals and steps are much more
than five The rituals and functions as was the practiced are:
1. Vang Nischayam
2. Sumangali Prarthana
3. Pongi Podal at the aunt's house
4. Yatra danam at the Grooms house
5. Receiving of the Grooms party
6. Vara Praekshanam
7. Janu Vasam
8. Nischaathartham
9. Vritham for the groom and Kappu Kettal (Raksha) for the bride
10. Sprinkling of Paligai
11. Para desi kolam and Kasi Yatrai
12. Malai mattal or Exchange of garlands
13. Unchal and Pachai podi
14. Vara Poojai
15. Telling of Pravaram
16. Dharai Varthal or Kanya danam
17. Agni prathishtapanam
18. Madu Parkam and Vara pooja
19. Looking at the bride
20. Vivaha sankalpam, Kanya samskaram and Mangala snanam
21. Mangalya dharanam
22. Wearing of toe ring by the bride
23. Prayer while tying the string made of Dhurbha
24. Groom leading the bride in front of the fire
25. Agni muhurtham
26. Panigrihanam
27. Saptha padhi
28. Parinayam and Pradhana homam
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29. Asmarohanam, Laja Homam and Agni Pradakshinam
30. Removal of Dhurba tied around the bride
31. Jayadhi homam
32. Aseervadham and Phala Dhanam
33. Palum Pazhamum
34. Marriage feast (Lunch)
35. Nalangu
36. Journey towards husband's home
37. Griha pravesam
38. Pravesya Homam
39. Gandharva pooja
40. Prayer for getting good children
41. Seeing of Arundhathi and Dhruva
42. Post Marriage Rituals
a. Sthali bhagam
b. Oupasanam
c. Sesha homam
d. Nandi sraddham
e. Kooshmanda Homam
f. Phala dhanam
g. Thamboola charvanam
h. Aseervadam
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sisters of the family are included in the list of invitees. All Sumangalis come to
the feast in a traditional attire of a nine-yard sari. Here the Sumangalis invited
represent the dead Sumangalis of the house and they are first woshipped and
fed. It is interesting to note that this is the only iyer function in which women
eat before men. Apart from Sumangalis a kanya is also invited. There is lot of
variation of this pooja, which almost differs from family to family. No priest is
called and no Sanskrit sloka is recited. It is a custom in certain families to
hold it after the marriage so that the daughter or daughter-in -law participates
as a Sumangali in this Pooja.
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emissaries to the groom's father and requests him to give his daughter in
marriage to him. The mantras recited are from Rig Veda. This consists of
several parts: -
i. Requests to the Brahmins to Go on his behalf: Hey Elders, You have
decided to help me based on my request. Please go with a contended heart
to request a bride for me. You would be all blessed by the devas who will get
their share in the yagas to be performed by my wife and me after marriage.
ii. Prays for a safe passage to the elders: Let the path of these elders who are
my friends be devoid of stones and thorns. Let Aryama the deva unite the
bride and me. Let the family that we are going to build be holy and well
joined. Let the path these elders take be the shortest and straight one. Let the
Deva Aryama help these elders in their endeavor.
8. Nischayathartham (Loukika)
This is an important item of the marriage ritual and is normally held in the
previous evening to the marriage and after the Janu Vasam. This consists of
a preliminary Ganapathi Pooja followed by honouring the parents of the
groom by the parents of the bride and vice versa and announcing the final
agreement by the bride's parents that they are willing to give their daughter in
marriage to this groom. The groom and his parents accept the proposal. The
groom's parents give her a silk sari during this time. She receives this and
changes whatever sari she wears with the new one. The groom's sister ties in
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some families Thamboola in the end of this sari. Please note that the
proposal was initiated by the groom through the intermediary of the elders
and not by the bride's parents as is common now. This system must have
changed from Vedic times in the recent past. In this function elders from both
families meet each other and bless the groom and the bride for a happy
future. There is also a custom of giving articles for washing and make up as
well as two dolls by the groom's party to the bride during this occasion. It is
called for Vilayadal or playing. This is supposed to be given by the groom's
sister. Sometimes along with this she also presents a silk sari. There is a
tendency nowadays of holding the marriage reception after this
Nischayathatham. Under normal circumstances there seems to be nothing
wrong but many of the rituals reserved for the marriage like Garlanding of
each other and pani Grahanam take place then. Though some elders frown at
this tendency most of them accept it. But if the marriage does not take place
after this pani grahanam and Mala Dharanam, for some reason or other, it will
be really tragic as these are part of the Hindu marriage ceremonies.
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10. Sprinkling of Paligai (Puranic)
Pali means row of trees and this ritual would have been planting of trees by
the groom's and bride's families for the upkeep and happiness of the groom
and the bride. In modern days, this consists of sowing germinated seeds of
nine kinds of pre-soaked cereals in 5 mud pots (layered with green grass and
bilva leaves) by married women (Sumangalis) relatives of the groom and the
bride. They first sow the germinated seeds and pour milk with water over it. It
is a custom nowadays to have five such pots for each side. Five sumangalis
(three from the groom's relatives and two from the bride's relatives in case of
the groom's side and three from the bride's relatives and two from the bride's
side in case of bride's side) sow the germinated grain and pray for long happy
married life for the couple as well as several children to brighten their homes.
In Kerala, these germinated plants in the mud pots are supposed to be left in
the river nearby after 4 days. There is an opinion from a learned referee that,
rather that the germinated seeds should be eaten as is the custom in
Karnataka. But during modern times, this is rarely done and nobody bothers
about the germinated seeds.
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12. Malai Mattal (Loukika)
In the olden days the groom used to go inside the mantap and come out later
for the malai mattal. But nowadays he is received by the bride at the entrance
of the mantap. Normally the maternal uncles of the groom carry him in a
cradle to the mantap. Though in marriages this still takes place, in many
cases, the maternal uncle simply accompanies the groom. The bedecked
bride waits at the entrance of the mantap to receive the groom. Both the
groom and bride apart from the normal garland wear 3 sets of garland(called
Mattu Malai), which is not in the usual form but in the form of "U" put around
the neck. At the entrance the bride is lifted up by her maternal uncles and the
groom by his maternal uncles and one after another the garlands are
exchanged. Lot of mirth and fun takes place during this ritual. When the bride
tries to garland the groom either he is moved away or lifted too much high so
that she will find it difficult to garland him. The bride's party also tries to move
the bride in critical time so that the groom has to virtually chase the bride to
garland her. The women relatives sing various songs in the background.
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going on the women invitees sing mellifluous tunes composed by several
poets for the occasion. Most of them remind of the puranic marriages of either
Vishnu or Shiva. Once the function is over a pot of water is handed over to
the groom and bride so that they can wash their feet. The priest waves a
coconut round the bride and groom and breaks the coconut.
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symbolizes the transfer of ownership of the bride to the groom (Note: They
are still not married and the ritual of the marriage would be performed by the
groom. It is obvious that the Hindus thought that the daughter is owned by her
father till then and will be owned by the groom later.)
While transferring the bride her father should tell the following prayer:
a. I am giving to you as a gift, my ever playful gold like daughter who came to
my house to give redemption to my ancestors and who would make me reach
the heavens in future, bedecked in gold to you, who is the personification of
Vishnu.
b. I am giving her to you so that you can get children through her and do all
your prescribed religious duties.
The groom replies:
I accept her by the grace of Sun who made this world with my hands
protected by the Aswini Devas with he permission of the Sun God.
It is considered normal for the bride's parents to cry after this ceremony. This
is because the transfer of ownership of the bride is complete.
17. Agni prathisthapam (Vedic)
This means raising of fire. Fire has been the basis of modern life. For
centuries the only method of raising the fire was by churning wood. (since
there was no match box). Due to it being extremely essential in day to day
life, a married man was supposed to maintain fire perennially in his house
with the help of his wife. This is a Oupasana. He daily removes the ashes
surrounding the fire worships the fire and maintains it. During this holy ritual a
new fire is supposed to be raised by the groom with the help of the priest. He
is supposed to take a part of this fire and maintain it in his home for life.
18. Madhu Parkam and Vara Pooja (Vedic)
Once the bride's father gives away his daughter to the groom and he accepts
her, the bride's father becomes happy and again does honours to the groom
by washing his feet and then offering him a mixture of honey and curd called
Madhu Parkam. He also is supposed to give him a cow (the basis of a happy
home in earlier times. In fact wealth was counted by the number of cows one
has). Nowadays cow is substituted by token presents. While the bride's father
washes his feet, the groom prays, "Let this water poured over my feet destroy
my enemies and take care of my family." The bride's father then tells the
groom "You who are the personification of Maha Vishnu, please take your
seat and accept all these good things that I give you".
After this the mixture of curds, honey and ghee is given to the groom. In some
families they also add popped rice and fried rice flour. The groom tells the
following prayers:
Hey, God of Knowledge, who is responsible for the gleam in people in
general and the lustrous strength of Brahmins, Hey Vedas who add luster to
the God of Knowledge, Hey Vedas who are themselves the strength of all, I
pray you to make all people love me like this, please make me own several
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herds of cattle. Hey Madhu Parka, which has come to me, please give me
luster, fame and milk like qualities. Let all people love me. Please give me
cattle wealth.
19. Looking at the bride (Vedic)
This is a ritual, which symbolizes, announcing to everybody his intention of
marrying the maid who has been given to him. He looks at her part by part
and talks to her and requests her to become a part of his family.
First he prays to the Gods thus:
Hey, Varuna, Let not anything bad befall on the sibs of my bride. Hey,
Brahaspathi, please remove all bad physical and mental qualities in her that
would bring bad luck to her husband. Hey, Indra please remove all the
physical barriers in her that would prevent birth of children and also equip her
with good qualities so that she can bring up the children properly. Oh, All
Gods, please shower her with all good qualities.
20. Vivaha sankalpam, Kanya samskaram and Mangala snanam (Vedic)
a. Kanya Samskaranam
This means refining of the bride or civilizing the bride. The marriage rituals
really start from this point only. The groom realizes that his marrying the bride
and taking her away would make her parents sad. He feels that they should
not become sad and tells them:
Though the bride has been brought up with love and care, it is not proper for
you to shed tears at this time. She is full of life and is going to lead a happy
life. Instead of this you all should be happy because of me and this girl are
going to lead a life full of love Also this act of giving the bride is going to repay
your debts to your ancestors. Shedding tears now will displease them. Then
he addresses the maid he has chosen to marry and tells her what he expects
of her and also refines her and removes all that is bad in her by a prayer:
"Hey maid, Please be the one who is not giving a harsh stares at the
husband. Please be kind to my brothers. Please always go in the most proper
way and please always keep your body clean. I will be praying for long life for
all the children, which you will beget for me. Since this requires the worship of
the devas, you should also have a desire to worship them. I also beseech you
to be always good to all my family members and the animals like the cows
and horses owned by the family."
After this the groom takes a dharbha grass and gently moves it over the
eyelids of the bride and throws the dharbha behind her reciting a mantra
praying the devas once again to make her behavior kind towards him.
b. Mangala Snanam and Vivaha Sankalpam
This means holy bath and marriage preparations. This is done in a few steps.
They are:
i. Prayer to the Brahmins to bring water that is holy for giving bath to the
bride.
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Normally this holy water is brought by even number of learned Brahmins
(normally 2 or 4). The groom prays to them:
"There are lots of sins that are transferred to the water. Hey, Brahmins bring
that holy water which has not been spoiled by death and that water which will
not destroy her children in her womb and that water which is devoid of any
bad effects."
ii. Prayer when keeping the dharbha ring on the head of the girl.
The groom then keeps a thick ring (normally meant for keeping the mud pots
stable) on the head of the girl and recites the following prayer. He also prays
his relatives to surround him and the bride.
"Hey, Deva called Aryama, like the stand made of dharbha kept on the head
of this maid is round, with your blessings let er and my brothers and mother
surround this fire and witness these ceremonies. Her relatives and mine also
should surround this fire and will witness the marriage between us and pray
for our welfare. Let their prayer be granted by your grace."
iii. Prayer when keeping the yoke on the ring.
Then the groom keeps a model of a yoke (meant to tie two bullocks) on the
Dharbha ring and recites the following prayer. He reminds Indra of the way he
cured a girl called Abala (Abala literally means "strength less". In fact in
Sanskrit all girls are called Abalas.)
"Hey Indra, In he same way as all the bodily defects of Abala disappeared
and she became similar to the sun, please remove all the bodily defects of
this girl and make her shine like Surya."
(Abala was a girl who had leucoderma and was cured by pulling her through
the hole in the yoke used to tie the horses in Indra's chariot, three times)
iv. Prayer when keeping gold in the hole in the yoke
(Normally the hole in the stick is covered with the mangalya made of gold and
kept on the head of the bride. )
The groom prays "Hey maid, let this stick covered with gold and the holy
waters brought by the Brahmins wash of all the defects in you which would
bring bad effects on me and which are not visible. Let it thus bring good to
you. Let these unite your body with mine later when we love each other. "
v. Prayer for performing holy bath to the bride.
This consists of 5 prayers by the groom. They are:
a. These waters shine like gold, and have an unblemished luster. This water
itself is pure and is capable of purifying others. Let these waters remove all
the blemishes in this maid. Was it not in these waters in which several
hundreds of holy theerthas (Holy river waters) are present? Let the God of all,
use this water and make you pure.
b. This water in which was born Lord Surya, this water in which was born the
fire, this water which is as blemish less as gold and this water which purifies
all others, let it, Oh maid, remove all your sorrows, and let it also give you
eternal pleasure.
c. These waters in which God Varuna remains in the middle and watches all
the good and bad one does, these waters that wear fire in the middle and
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these waters of purest colour, let it give all the pleasures of this world to you,
Oh, Maid.
d. These waters which gods drink from the sky, these waters which exist in
the sky in various shapes, these waters which have raging fire in the middle
should give you pleasure both of this world and the world thereafter., oh, maid
e. Oh maid, who is going to marry me now, let these waters see you with its
welfare giving eyes, let it with its holy body touch your skin and let these
waters which give rise to the innate principle of the ghee, give you all the
pleasures of this world.
vi. Prayer while giving new clothes to be worn by the bride. The bride till this
point wears the cloths normally worn by unmarried women, (Sari), Now the
groom gives her a new cloth which should be worn by her in future.
The groom prays while giving new clothes to the bride:
"Similar to the fact that this maid is surrounded by the new clothes on all her
sides, Let You, Indra, who worship elders who do service to God, be attracted
by my prayer and be kind enough to give all that is good to this maid."
With this prayer the groom hands over to the bride a nine yards sari, which is
called Koorai Pudavai. (Till recently it was a custom for the groom's parents
to pay for the Koorai Pudavai. It was invariably in the colour of Lac. But
nowadays the bride's family purchases Koorai Pudavai). The sister and lady
relatives of the groom dress the bride in this new cloth. Possibly this is the
last chance for them to examine the bride in secret and find out whether she
has any defects.. Koorai in Tamil means roof and this name must have been
taken from this sloka, where the cloth is supposed to cover her allover One
author feels that it must have come from the word "Kroora" which means
"cruel" Possibly it hides her from the cruel looks of other males by bringing
her under the protection of marriage.
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"This string is holy and giver of good things in life. It also is going to elevate
my life. Hey, beautiful maiden, I am tying this around your neck and pray that
you would live for hundred years."
It is important to note that this prayer is in modern Sanskrit and is not taken
from Veda, It also is important to note that this ritual is not prescribed by the
Vedas. Possibly this custom originated in later years. But as of today,
according to general people, it is one of the very important functions of
marriage. After the mangalya Dharanam is over, the elders shower flowers
and yellow coloured rice on the groom and bride. It is also common
nowadays to congratulate the bride's parents and groom's parents after this
ritual. A sweet sherbhat (sweet scented water) is served to all the people in
the mantap once this ritual is over. But really the marriage ritual is has just
begun and is far from being over.
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her to Oonchal (swing). According to some people, this sloka also indicates
that the groom and bride are supposed to live in their own house and not with
the family of groom's parents. It is not clear when the joint family concept
came in to India.
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27. Saptha Padhi (Vedic)
Literally this means the "seven steps". Courts in India have ruled that this is
the most important ritual of a Hindu Marriage. They consider that unless this
ritual is completed the marriage itself is not over. According to Vedas, once
this is over the bride and groom become wife and husband. This ritual
consists of the groom taking the right foot of the bride in his left hand and
making her take seven steps either in the direction of east or north.
The following prayers are recited:
First Step:
Let God MahaVishnu who is spread throughout the world, Give you food in
plenty.
Second step:
Let Him come with you for a second step and give you sufficient strength
Third step:
Let Him come with you for a third step to make you observe all religious
rituals.
Fourth step:
Let Him come along with you for the fourth step to give you pleasures
Fifth step:
Let Him be with you when you take the fifth step to give you lot of wealth
(cow)
Sixth step:
Let Him lead you the six stages of life with happiness and welfare
Seventh step:
Let him help you in performing Soma Yaga and other prayers when you take
the seventh step
The following requests are to be recited by the groom to the bride after she
takes the seven steps:
"You who has taken the seven steps with me should become my friend.
We who have taken the seven steps together would live as friends.
I should get your friendship, Oh maid.
Oh maid, I should never get parted from your friendship.
We who have attained each other, should get lustrous health, serenity,
peaceful mind, and should enjoy together the food and all other tastes.
We would plan all things that are to be done in future together.
Let us both make our two minds in to one.
Let us enjoy together all the physical and mental pleasures together from now
onwards.
Let us do all religious observations together."
Then again the groom tells the bride:
"You are the Rig Veda and I am the Sama Veda
I am the Sama Veda and you are the Rig Veda (recited twice for emphasis)
Like these two Vedas we should never separate from each other. We also will
not get separated.
I am the world Dyu and you are the earth (dyu is the world above. This
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indicates that she is below him and should obey his wishes).
I am the material called Shukla (semen) and you are the wearer of this in your
womb.
I am the mind and you are the word
I am Sama Veda and you are the Rig Veda
I am telling this because I have lot of care for you.
Please bear me male children in future,
Hey Maid come with me."
Once the prayer and the grooms request is recited the bride becomes
groom's wife and joins his family (Gothra).
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x. Let your behind be protected by the God of Sky; Let your thighs be
protected by Vayu; Let your breasts be protected by Aswini devas; Let your
sons be protected by Savitha and till you wear clothes; Let you be protected
by Brihaspathi.
xi. I am giving this offering in the fire so that all the causes which stand
against the birth of a son and those which cause the death of a sin in you are
removed from you. Like the wilted flowers that you wore on your head was
removed and thrown,, Let God remove all such defects in you and transfer
them to your enemies.
xii. Oh Varuna, please hear this prayer and give me all pleasures just now. As
soon as I ask you should give me pleasures. I want to be saved by you only
and hence I am praying you,
xiii. I am reciting this Vedic prayers and surrender to you so that I can save
myself. People who do this worship are doing so to save themselves. Hey
Varuna, you should help me complete this task, which I have taken up. So
please do not rob allotted years from my life.
xiv. Hey Agni, Help me by reducing the anger of Varuna towards both of us.
You who is the greatest among those who are worshipped, you who takes the
offering given by us to devas gently and who shines with luster should
remove from us all those hateful qualities.
xv. Hey Agni, You who are the greatest among all those devas who are
worshipped and is the cause of existence of the devas, should save us when
it is the dawn and also during daytime. You should be very near us always.
You please prevent Varuna from coming to us and troubling us. You who give
us all pleasures should consume the offerings given by us. Please come
when we call you. And also help us to become happy when we call you.
xvi. Hey Agni, you are suitable of devotees attaining you and also you attain
the devotees directly. And because of that you are suitable for attaining by
mind. Hey Agni, because you can be easily attained by devotees, I am
meditating on you using my mind and beg to get your blessings.
Hey Agni, you who can be easily attained by devotees should receive from us
the offering to different devas and give it to the concerned devas. Also please
give us the capacity to demit our sins.
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present given by the bride's family to the groom's sister during Mangalya
dharanam for tying the two knots.
The prayer to be recited by the husband while placing the leg of his wife on
the stone:
"Hey bride, please climb on this stone. You should become as stable as the
stone in your mind. When somebody wages a war at you, you should be
boldly oppose them and insult the enemies."
The prayer while putting popped rice in to the fire for the first time:
"This lady is praying a long life of hundred years for her husband. Please
fulfill her desires."
The prayers while circling the fire for the first time:
i-iii. Hey Agni, When the world began, you were given the daughter of Surya
(sun god) along with wealth for marriage. Now please give this wife to me so
that we can beget children.
Hey Agni, since you have married the daughter of Surya, all the girls in this
world are in your custody. So for begetting children, I pray you to bless me by
giving a blemish less wife.
iv. Hey Agni, please give me a wife who is very attractive and with long life.
v. Hey Agni, bless us to cross like water all problems in our life. Then he
should keep the leg of his wife on the stone second time with the same prayer
as of the first time. The prayer while putting popped rice in to the fire for the
second time:
Maids worship the God Agni, because he is easily pleased and gives them
their desires.
Oh Agni, she prays you to remove her bonds with her parent's house and
also at no time remove her bonds from my house.
Hey Agni, performing this offering of popped rice has benefited several
maidens. Please accept her offering and fulfill her prayer.
Then they circle the fire and step on the stone once more and make the
offering of popped rice for the third time.
The prayer while putting popped rice in to the fire for the third time is:
"Hey Agni, you have been always in charge of food and the maidens, who are
the path of heaven. And because of that you give maidens to us. Please
make us both of the same mind and opinion. For this I am pouring ghee into
you similar to the water being given to the tree.
Hey, Agni, the portals of heavens through fire sacrifices are not open to those
who do not have a wife. You are the giver of the maidens to us. Please make
us both of the same mind and opinion. For this I am pouring ghee into you
similar to the water being given to the tree."
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with me to you in the world of Brahma.
ii. I free you form the string of Varuna tied by the Lord Parameshwara who
gives blessings to his devotees. You can live with me in Brahma loka where
the blessed go and be with me without the fear of the rope of Varuna.
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Phala Dhanam or giving of cash presents to all the guests used to take place
after the Aseervadam. Normally this used to be a quarter of a rupee and used
to be given by the bride’s family. But as on today this has been discontinued
and cash gifts are now given in some marriages only to the near and dear of
the groom.
After this an Arathi is taken. This consists of water in which turmeric and lime
is mixed, waved in a circular fashion by one female representative of the
groom's side and the other from the brides side, along with a suitable song.
The groom puts two coins as gift to these relatives. This in reality should bring
to an end the pre-lunch rituals of the marriage. But nowadays the rest of the
Vedic rituals, which are supposed to be carried out in the groom's house, also
are compressed and carried out before lunch.
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to see himself. After this all these rites are performed by the husband to the
wife but he would be sitting down.
Once this is over the husband takes a coconut and gently rolls it towards his
wife. In olden days the couple used to get a brass coconut from the bride's
father as a present. She catches it and rolls it towards him in return. While all
these are going on the relatives gathered round sing melodious songs. In the
olden days there were two types of songs called Pathiyam (in praise of the
groom or bride or description of mythical marriages) and Yesal (gentle
reminder of the deficiencies of the husband and wife). There were instances
when this has led to a quarrel. They composed most of these compositions.
But in recent yesteryears only film songs and classical music are sung.
At the end of the Nalangu, the husband is asked to hold the coconut with one
hand and the wife is asked to pry it out using both her hands. Once she
succeeds or accepts defeat, the wife holds the coconut with both hands and
the husband is asked to pry it using one hand. The relatives tease them a lot.
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a. To lift the bullock cart
The mind, word and body hold the earth. The sun Gods hold the sky. The
Sun Gods live in fire sacrifice (yaga). The soma latha holds the heaven. Like
this I should be able to hold this cart safely.
b. To tie the bull to the cart
i. Men tie big horses or bulls in these carts, so that it will have strength to run
and cross things which are permanent. This would continue till the time when
the stars and sun shine in the sky.
ii. We will call Indra on every occasion when we are forced to tie the horse or
the bull, so that we complete our journey safely.
c. Prayer for the wife to occupy the cart
Hey lady, climb in to the cart which is made of soft wood and in which leaves
without thorns are spread. This has also shine like gold because of the
decorations done for this occasion. It also has stable and good wheels.
Please carry with you all the wealth and articles (for making my life pleasant)
from your parent's house in this cart.
Hey Lady, you who climb in this glorious cart should drive away all
quarrelsome people and climb on my head. (i. e. you will become my ruler).
Like Virat, you should beget for me ten sons. You should become the queen
of your father in law, mother in law, sister in laws and brother in laws.
d. Prayer before starting the cart
I spread a blue and red string before this cart so that I can escape all the bad
things wished by others on me. I pray that if the enemies of my paternal
family hatch a conspiracy so that my new wife should not get along well, that
this should be defeated.
I pray that the thieves who are planning to steal the material, which this girl
brings from her house, should not succeed.
I have reached that path that does not have danger from thieves and in this
path I have my servants to help me.
e. Prayers while traveling in the cart
Let Aswini devas make the water available on my way healthy and of good
quality. Let them give me ten sons and wealth.
Let this boat made of wood take both of us safely to the other shore. Let it
also give luster to us and long life (if there is necessity to cross a river)
There are similar prayers to cross a burial ground, forests and rivers.
f. Prayer while showing his home to his wife
The husband should first take all the wealth and materials brought by his wife
inside his house and then tell her:
Hey. Lady, this is my home and please see it well. Please see all the material
brought by you and which has been kept in this hose without hatred and with
peace.
Then he prays God Savitha that all the wealth that he has brought should
increase steadily.
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37. Griha Pravesam
The husband should enter the house first and spread the hide of a bull in the
central hall with the neck side pointing towards east. While spreading he
should pray:
Let the pleasure-giving hide be properly spread. Hey God who is the god of
the new moon day, let this girl become fertile, let her live with the blessings of
God Bagha.
Then the wife steps with her right leg in to the house with the following prayer:
I who am capable of becoming mother to sons, am entering my husband's
house where his relatives, brothers and their children live and which is
protected by capable watch and ward, happily. I am reaching this house,
which has lot of cooked rice over which the ghee flows. After this the couple
perform the Pravesa Homa.
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viii. This wife was made by God Twashta. The same God made me her
husband., Hey wife, the reason of my becoming your husband was because
of God Twashta Let him give us both different types of wealth and give us
long life.
ix-xiii. These are same as the last four prayers of the pradhana homam.
Then a prayer for increase of cattle wealth, begetting valorous children and
wealth which never diminishes is made and the homa comes to an end.
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After this the husband points out the star Arundhathi that is a part of the
constellation of great bear. She was the wife of the sage Vasishta. She has
been cited as an epitome of wifely devotion. He then recites the following
prayer:
When the great seven rishis made Arundhathi as the greatest among the
wives of the great sages, the other six sage wives acknowledged her position.
By seeing her, let my wife become the eighth one.
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The bride once she enters the room is supposed to light the lamp and pray f or
a happy life. The elderly married female relatives used to gather outside the
nuptial room and sing bawdy uninhibited songs for some time. This was again
to make the bride understand the facts of life.
There are also prayers to be chanted in the nuptial room, when the husband
and wife are alone. He tells her that she should embrace him and derive
happiness because of it. Then he prays for virility for himself for a long time
and capacity for himself to produce several children. He tells her that similar
to the fashion of making fire on a stick by rotating a stick on it he would be
making lots of sons in her. He prays that all their children should be long
lived. He also compares her to earth which has fire in the middle and receives
the rain from the sky to produce the plants. (she should receive the seeds
from him similarly). He also tells her that they should worship gods daily and
get good children.
Thus comes to an end the iyer marriage ritual.
As mentioned in various places the ladies attending the marriage used to sing
several songs on different occasions, while the marriage rituals are
performed. Unfortunately many of these songs are no more available or
known to our elders. (Film songs or classical music has nowadays replaced
these). A few of the songs are given below:
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When the friends and priests,
Praised and blessed him who is God,
With love and with joy,
With her holy hands (Flower ...)
B. Songs sung during Unchal and Pacha Podi
1. Kannunjal Adinal
Asaindhu Sangiliyada,
Usandu Urvashi pada,
Isaindhu Thalangal poda,
Meenakshi Priyal Kondada (Kannunja ...)
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2. Laali
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In the hand that was born to the sea,
The Lustrous ring sparkling bright,
Please come to make merry,
In the garden beautiful,
With my lovely friends all around (Please come ...)
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Nana Vida Taalam Poda,
Nalangidugiral Meena Lochani.
Neela Varna Divya Manjalai Edutthu,
Nithyanandarai Kurithu,
Poorithu, Bhoopathi Padathile Ittal,
Pushpa Haram Marbil Pottal. (Nalangidugiral ...)
Swarna Panneer Chombai-Jothi eduthal,
Sundareswarar Mel Thelithal,
Vasanai Kalanda Parimalam Poosinal,
Vanangi Chamaram Veesinal (Nalangidugiral ...)
Vistharamai Neenda Nettiyai Thottal,
Kasthuri Thilagangal Ittal,
Malligaiyai Chelli Kai Ale Thelithal,
Maha devar Veniyile Mudithal (Nalangidugiral ...)
Thanga Thambalam Thaga Thaga endru Eduthal,
Thamboolangaludan Koduthal,
Munnale Nandraga Pathiyam Padithal,
Meenakshi Priyal Manasai Sada Pidithal (Nalangidugiral ...)
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She took a glittering gold plate,
And gave him with Thamboola,
And also sang nice Pathiyams,
And thus our darling Meenakshi caught hold of his mind.
(Our girl Meenalochani ...)
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c. Pathiyam (sung by the bride)
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Surukkai inda sangadiyai, surukkai en karanam ketka,
Kapadamillamale, Urayum Nanna
Oh Darling mine,
Why should you look so worn.
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Minnal Oli Pondra Nee, Vinnor Paniyum nee,
Vilangave Ulagathil Vandavalum nee,
Darling, Oh Darling,
Rukhmani, oh my darling,
Ornament mine, Golden girl mine,
You are lotus faced, Oh my darling.
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Soppanathil Analum e prapancha madargalai -
Sugithu Nan Anaithahthillai, en tholal
My heart of hearts,
Don't doubt me for a minute please,
I will tell you, all the truth,
Please hear this, oh darling mine.
My heart of hearts,
From the day, I held your hands,
Oh darling with a moon faced smile,
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Kai Murukkum Boondhi Laddum,
Then kuzhalum,
Vida Vidamaga,
Oru Kai Parapal ... (Engal Sambandhi ...)
Amerikka Badam,
Arabia Pereechai,
Irakkin Pistaa,
Kashmir Akroot,
Kumkuma poo potta,
Karkandu Palai,
Kudam Kudamaga,
Kudithe Theerpal ... (Engal sambandhi ...)
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grandfather's or grandmothers' brother's wife;
d. Marriage between:
i. brother and sister;
ii. uncle and niece;
iii. aunt and nephew;
iv. children of brother and sister;
v. children of sisters;
vi. children of brothers.
However the Hindu Marriage Act recognizes the marriages mentioned above
if the custom or usage applicable to the parties to the marriage permits such
marriages. Only if their custom or usage does not permit such marriages
would the parties be held to be within prohibited degrees of relationship.
Custom that allows such marriages should be ancient, certain and reasonable
and should not be opposed to public policy, decency or morality
Q: What ceremonies should be observed to solemnize a Hindu Marriage?
Hindu marriage can be solemnised according to the customary rites and
ceremonies of either the bride or the bridegroom. Customary rites and
ceremonies mean religious rites traditionally performed by the caste or
community to which the bride or bridegroom belong. It should be shown that
such custom has been followed definitely from ancient times and the
members of the caste, community or sub-caste had recognized such
ceremonies as obligatory. Rites and ceremonies consistently followed for
more than 25 years within a particular community and had been uniformly
observed and not discontinued at any point of time would be said to be
customary rites and ceremonies for the solemnization of a valid legal
marriage. According to the Arya Samaj rites, the invocation before the sacred
fire and the sapthapadi are essential ceremonies.
Q: What is sapthapadi?
Sapthapadi symbolizes those aspects of life, which the parties to a marriage
undertake to share in togetherness. The seven steps taken stand for the
vows they make before the almighty. It is only on taking the seventh step that
the marriage would be said to be solemnized
Q: Is sapthapadi, i. e., the custom of the bride and bridegroom taking seven
steps, an essential part of a Hindu Marriage?
If the customary rites and ceremonies traditionally performed by the caste or
community, to which the bride or the bridegroom belong, do not include
'sapthapadi gaman', it would not be an essential part of the marriage. If it is
proved that 'sapthapadi', is not a part of the ceremony it need not be
performed. Otherwise 'sapthapadi' remains an essential ceremony in a Hindu
marriage.
Q: Would a marriage be valid on the observance only of sapthapadi?
Where 'sapthapadi' and invocation before the fire is observed, without
observing the customary ceremonies, which are neither ancient and definite
nor obligatory and unalterable, such marriage would still be valid.
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Appendix-3. Making arrangements for the marriage by the bride's
parents - Some points
The iyer marriages (98%) of the rites and rituals are arranged by the bride's
father. Since this is a complex duty, some of the arrangements, which he
should not lose sight of are mentioned here:
2. Fixing up of a hall
This is possibly one of the very important aspects of the work to be done.
Most of the good halls are booked very early. If necessary help of few friends
who have their own vehicles can be requested. The major consideration is
the number of guests expected to attend the function, the timing of the
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Vritham, Nischayathartham, Marriage reception and the travel programme of
the groom's family. Since most of the Groom's relatives and friends are new
to the place where marriage is conducted, sufficient accommodation should
be available in the Hal. If it is not available alternate accommodation has to
be searched. Once the hall is located and available on the day of the
marriage, it should be booked for a minimum of two days. It is important to
find out from the manager of the hall
a. Number of Chairs available in the hall
b. The number of chairs available in the dining hall
c. The number of rooms available (whether all of them have attached bath
rooms and if not the number of common bath rooms),Personally inspect how
neat they are. Also find out whether hot water facility for bath is available.
d. Whether they will provide the vessels and stow with the hall free?
e. Whether there is a generator in the hall?
f. Whether there is provision for extra decoration with them?
g. Whether they have a swing for the Oonchal ceremony?
h. Whether they have Homa Kunda for performing homa.
i. The number of servants who are available with the hall and their
remuneration.
j. The number of cars that can be parked inside the compound.
k. At what time the hall will be handed over to them and when it has to be
handed back.
Before leaving find out the correct name, address, telephone number,
telegram address if any of the hall and also the transport facility to the hall
from different parts of the town. Make a list of bus numbers passing near by.
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4. Thamboolam packets for the guests attending the marriage
5. Coconuts for Sambandhi
6. Putting of Kolams as and when required
7. Materials for Arathi, Pachaipudi
Some of them will also arrange
1. Photographer and video coverage
2. Decoration of the hall
It is essential at this stage to make extensive consultation with friends or
relatives who have already arranged marriages so that the contract money be
fixed at reasonable limits.
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(b) Purchase of Veshti and Uttariyam for the groom and Materials for Kasi
Yatrai
The groom has to be given a Pattu Veshti and Uttariyam. Vratha Pattu).
Besides Two grand Veshtis with lot of zari border (cotton) has to be
purchased for him to wear during Kasi Yatrai. One more extra set of Veshti
has to be presented to him.
For Kasi yatrai, it is necessary to purchase an umbrella, a walking stick, a
hand held fan, a holy book and slippers.
8. Silver vessels
Most of the groom's parents expect a few silver vessels. The most essential
are panchapathram and Uddarani for the groom, silver lamp(some families
insist on a pair of lamps) and silver Kukuma Chimizh. It is also essential to
purchase two silver cups called Madhuparka Kinnam.
In addition a silver plate for taking meals for the bride and the groom is also is
usually given. Two small silver cups for receiving and drinking Palum
Pazhamam would avoid lot of problem when this ceremony is going on.
9. Brass vessels
For the Oonchal, it is necessary to buy two lamps, two thambalams and two
Chombus made of brass.
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11. Posting of Invitations
This is a very time consuming job. Close relatives expect a personal letter
along with the invitation. Nowadays it is got separately printed. It is better to
consult as many relatives and friends as possible so that no important person
is missed from the list of invitees.
It is also necessary to identify the persons to whom special invitations printed
in tamil has to be sent.
A personal hand written letter has to accompany the invitations being send to
very senior elders of the family. It is a custom to personally go to the Groom's
parents’ house along with Coconut, Thamboola, flowers etc and inform them
of the marriage. If any brides relations stay near the place of the groom they
can do it on behalf of the bride's parents.
If there are any near relatives of the groom staying in the same town as the
bride's parents, they also should be invited personally with coconut,
thamboola and flowers.
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15. Purchase of presents to near relatives and honoured guests
This is another item that needs detailed planning. Normally the elder and old
enough younger sisters of the bride, her sister in laws are presented with a
silk sari for the marriage. The budget depends on our capacity to spend.
Similarly it is also a custom to present saris to the paternal and maternal
aunts. It is also necessary to purchase suitable presents to the cousins of the
bride. Sometimes cash present is made to them, so that they can choose
their own presents. It has also become customary to give token presents to
all women guests during the marriage. But all these need to be discussed
among the nearest family members and decision taken based on our capacity
to spend.
It is also a custom to present very close male relatives with Veshti and
Uttariyam. The requirement should be estimated and sufficient quantity
purchased.
16. Contacting the Grooms party and finding out their travel plans
Since the groom's party normally comes from some other place, it is
necessary to receive as many of them as possible and provide them transport
to the hall. So a very clear timetable of their arrival should be drawn up. It
would also be necessary to ask them whether they need any arrangements
made for their return reservations.
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It is essential to procure sufficient number of locks and duplicate keys to the
different rooms in the hall. Since the grooms party are to be properly looked
after, it is better to keep a few pieces of toilet soaps, combs, mirrors, tooth
brushes, paste, kumkum tins, Vibhuthi, use and throw shaving sticks etc. this
is to help those people who forget these things while coming to the marriage.
If the hall does not provide beds, bedspreads, pillows etc, arrangements
should be made to hire these also. A very detailed plan of the programme for
the next two days should be drawn up and individual responsibilities
assigned. Also all things to be taken to the hall are to be packed properly.
If the vritham is the next day morning, the toilet items purchased for the
groom along with oil, Payaru, Vellam and sweet should reach the grooms
party early in the morning and is traditionally given by the aunt of the bride.
Nowadays it is a custom to give a full toilet set to the groom during this
occasion. This should consist of toothbrush, toothpaste, Shaving set, mirror,
toilet powder, hair oil and comb.
This is also the time for the lady of the house to plan as to the res ponsibilities
like palikai, oonchal, arathi etc to the different female relatives.
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is necessary to introduce the bride's family guests to the groom and very
important ones to his parents. For this purpose the bride's parents should
always be near the stage. It is better to entrust other important responsibility
like accompanying the guests to the dinner etc to other relatives and friends.
Most of these guests will not be coming for the marriage. So it is essential
that the Thamboola packets be distributed to them while they are leaving.
If the Vritham has not taken place that day, it is essential to see that the
materials for Vritham to the groom reaches them before they retire.
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This can be done easily, if preliminary arrangements are made for the same.
If by chance the groom and bride are little delayed, their lunch with the
important members of both families should be retained. This is important
because sometimes, if much larger number of guests come, the material
cooked would not be sufficient.
Most of the guests would like to meet the bride’s parents before they go. If
palaharams and presents are to be distributed to them, arrangements should
be made for the same.
If there is Nalangu this should be arranged in the afternoon. Though most of
the brides party would be dead tired before evening, it is necessary to treat
the groom and his guests in a befitting manner. They should be provided
transport to the bus stand or railway station as and when they want it.
While all this is going on arrangements should be given a final shape to the
nuptials. According to sastras it should be held in the boys house but now it is
a custom to hold it on the day of marriage. It can either be held in brides
home or in a convenient hotel. But it is essential that the views of the
bridegroom and his parents be ascertained before arranging it in a hotel.
Somebody should be put in charge of decorating the room and taking there
essentials like a lamp, milk to drink, flowers, fruits etc.
If bulk of the groom's guests depart on the same evening, it would be
necessary to give them food packets for the way. The marriage contractor
normally supplies this. It is a custom to supply Kattu Chadam to the departing
guests of the groom's party.
Normally there is a feast for dinner on that day. But some people prefer
simple meals. The wishes of the groom's party should be ascertained
regarding this.
A few of the people accompanying the groom normally stay over to the next
day. They should be well taken care of. If the Mantap has to be vacated, then
they should be provided alternative accommodation.
On the next day tall the groom's party would depart. It is essential to give
them Kattuchadam and also provide them transport.
It is also essential that some elder relatives accompany the bride and groom
when they depart to their house. Arrangements for their reservation (if they
are going by train) should be done well in advance.
In some cases the father in law (bride's father) foots the bill for the
Honeymoon of the couple. Again early arrangements for journey and stay
have to be made.
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Nitya Parayana Stotram
By P. R. Ramachander
Savants and sages of the religion suggest several methods to attain this
enviable state. Of these the simplest is Bhakthi Yoga or devotion n to God,
which ultimately merges you with God. To make this easily possible a pan
theistic concept of God is enunciated by the religion. Also the Godhead is
viewed in myriad forms so that the devotion to him can be done in a manner
closest to our heart. He is viewed by some as a child or friend or mother or
father or a cruel one who punishes or a kind one who is merciful or even as
our sweet heart. This has resulted in varied type of prayers addressed to his
or her favourite Form of God.
A Hindu is supposed to wake up very early in the morning much earlier to sun
rise. It is believed that the first thing you see in the morning determines one's
day.
As soon as one wakes up see he is supposed to see his palm and recite the
following sloka:
Earth is a Goddess to Hindus. She is one of the wives of Maha Vishnu one of
the trinity of Hinduism. So it is necessary to ask her pardon before one sets
ones foot on her. This is done by the following prayer:-
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Samudhra vasane devi, parvatha sthana mandithe,
Vishnu pathni namasthubhyam pada sparsam kshamasva mae.
Salutations to you consort of Lord Vishnu,
Who is clothed by oceans,
And is adorned prettily by the mountains,
Pardon me mother, for setting my foot on you.
Cleanliness is a sin qua non-to every Hindu. He does purification of the body
as well as the mind during his bath. Purificatory bath is ultimate if it is done in
the sacred waters of some great rivers of India. The following prayers are
recited while taking bath:-
Govindethi sada snanam Govindethi sada japam,
Govindethi sada dhyanam, sada Govinda keerthanam.
Meditate on Govinda while taking bath,
Meditate on him in your prayers,
Meditate on him while thinking of God,
And always sing his name.
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Thulasi or ocimum plant is venerated by every Hindu and is invariably grown
in the courtyard of every house. After lighting up the lamp he is supposed to
clean up the thulasi plant and water it while reciting the following prayer:-
Thulasi shree sakhi shubhe, papa haarini punyade,
Namasthe Naradanuthe, Namo Narayana priye.
Oh, Holy Thulasi,
Bosom friend of Lakshmi,
Destroyer of sins,
Bestower of blessings,
Salutations to thee,
Who is praised by sage Narada,
And is the darling of Lord Narayana
Then he prays to the banyan tree which is the holy tree providing him with
shade, happiness and prosperity.
Then he prays to Gods and nature to make the day very great for him by
reciting the following prayers:-
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May the sages, Sanathkumara, Sanaka, Sanathana,
Aasuri and Pingala,
Let the seven musical notes
And let those seven nether worlds,
Make this morning great for me.
He then turn east faces the Sun God and recites the following prayer:
He then prays to the God to make his day peaceful by promoting harmony of
the mind, body and spirit by reciting one of the most ancient prayers of the
world:
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He then reminds himself of the two great epics of India by reciting the
following slokas:
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Gayathru, Thulasi, Ganga,
Kamadhenu and Arundathi,
Will destroy the greatest sins.
Pancha Kanya Sthuthi (Prayer to the five maidens)
The bakthi lore of Sanathana dharma extols its members to pray to his Ishta
Devatha (Pet god). The devotee is given a wide choice to choose from. This
is not fanaticism but a bevy of options depending on one’s personality. I am
giving below prayers addressed to several Gods of the Hindus. If one has
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time it would be great if all prayers are recited. If not read at least the stotras
to your Ishta Devatha:
Ganapathi
Elder son of Lord Shiva and Parvathy he is the remover of all obstacles .He
has an elephant face and rides on a mouse.
Shiva
Mrityunjaya
The name means he who is victorious over death. He is a form of Shiva and
this prayer which occurs in Rudram is supposed to give us long life as well as
helps us to get rid of fear over death.
Om Tryambakam yajamahe
Sugandhim pushtivardhanam
Urvarurkamiva bhandhanam
Mrityor mukshiya ma-mrtat.
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We salute and respect,
Him who is naturally scented,
Him who looks after his devotees with mercy,
And him who has three eyes.
And pray and request,
To move us away from the catch of death,
Like the cucumber separated from its stalk,
And firmly put us in the path of salvation.
Shiva who dances the thandava (male form of vigorous dance, presides over
the temple in Chidambaram, You rarely find him in temples of North India.
Vaidyanatha
The name means Lord of the doctors (a form of Shiva) and prayer to him is
supposed to help in curing of diseases. He is the presiding deity in
Vaitheeswaran Koil. This temple also houses a separate temple for Chovvai.
It is believed that Lord Rama performed the obsequies to Jadayu in this
place.
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Viswanatha [Lord of Kasi]
The holiest temple of Lord Shiva is in Varanasi also called Benares. The
presiding deity in the temple is Viswanatha. Prayer to him is supposed to
grant all wishes.
Ardha Nareeswara
Lord Shiva has given half his body to his consort Goddess Parvathy. This
form of God has half of its bode as Shiva and the other half Goddess
Parvathy.
Dakshinamurthy
This is the holy form of Shiva in the guise of a teacher. The young Shiva who
normally faces the south teaches the oldest and wisest sages just by his
silence. People who meditate on Lord Shiva with a view to get knowledge
leading to salvation prefer to meditate on Dakshinamurthy.
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Gurave sarva lokanam, bhishaje bhava roginam,
Nidhaye sarva vidhyanam, Dakshinamurthaye nama
Shiva Lingam
Lord Shiva is normally worshipped in the form of Linga. Except for a few
exceptions like Nataraja, Dakshinamurthy etc, he is always represented in the
form of Linga.
Subrahmanya
Most popular God of Tamils is the son of Lord Shiva. He killed the demon
Sura Padma. And was the Commander in chief of the army of Devas.
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Sreesadhi deva gaa poojitha pada padama,
Vallesanada mama dehi karavalambham.
Oh Lord of Lord Shiva,
Oh store house of mercy,
Oh God who is nearest to the poor,
Oh God who is nearest to the lotus faced Shiva,
Oh God whose feet are worshipped by devas led by Vishnu,
Oh God who is Lord of Valli,
Please give me a helping hand.
Nandi
The big bull on which Lord Shiva rides. It is believed that before entering the
temple of Shiva we are to take his permission.
Nandikesa Maha Bhaga, Shiva dhyana parayana,
Gowri sankara sevartham Anugnam dathumarhasi.
Oh Lord Nandi who is Lord of all bulls,
Who is immersed in prayer of Shiva,
Please give me permission,
To worship Lord Sankara with his consort Gowri.
Vishnu
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Who has lotus like eyes,
Who is seen by saints through thought,
Who kills all worries and fears,
And who is the lord of all the worlds.
Rama
Sri Rama, one of the greatest incarnations of Vishnu, showed the world how
a man ought to live. It is believed that just uttering his name destroys all the
sins committed. His story is Ramayana,
Aapadam apa hartharam dhataram sarva sampadam,
Lokabhi ramam Sri ramam bhooyo bhooyo namamyaham.
My prostrations to that Sri Rama,
Who removes all dangers in life,
Who gives all riches to his devotees,
And who is the darling of all the world.
Aarhanaam aarthi hantharam bheethanam bheetha nasanam,
Dwishatham kaladandam tham Ramachandram namamyaham
Krishna
Oh God Hari,
Oh God who killed Mura,
Oh God who killed Madhu and Kaitabha,
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Oh God who is protector of cows,
Oh God who lifted the earth,
Oh Lord, who gives immortal bliss,
Oh God who is hero among heroes,
Oh God who is the Lord of fire sacrifice.
Oh God in whom all souls reside,
Oh God who is black in colour,
And Oh Lord who is Vishnu himself,
I have become very helpless,
And So Oh Lord who is the master of universe,
Be pleased to save me.
Venkatesa
The Lord of Thirupathi, which is the most holy temple of in South India. He
along with his two consorts Padmavathi and Bhoo Devi resides at the top of
the hill. People who turn to him at the time of distress are in millions. He is
also called Balaji, Ezhumalayan, Malayappa Swami etc.
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Hayagreeva
The horse faced form of Vishnu is worshipped as the God of learning by the
Vaishnavas.
Narasimha
Ranganatha
The Lord of Sri Rangam, the holiest town of the Vaishnavas is seen as
reclining on his snake bed. The greatest exponents of Vaishnavism
worshipped this form of Vishnu.
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Let the Lord of Sri Ranga,
In whom Lakshmi resides,
In whom the whole world resides,
Who lives in the lotus of my mind,
Who lives in the Sun,
In whom all the mercy resides.
And with whom all good qualities are a part,
Play in my mind always.
Pandu Ranga
This form of Vishnu is very popular in Maharshtra and several savants prayed
him ecstatically.
Achyutha
Achyutha means he who never slips or He who never changes. There are few
soulful prayers addressed to Lord Vishnu in this form.
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Bala Krishna
The child form of Krishna has attracted the devotion of the common man. He
is loved in this form like their son by the devotees.
Mukunda
Mukunda means he who gives immortal bliss. One of the greatest savants of
Vaishnavism Prince Kula Shekara Azhwar, prayed to Lord Vishnu in this
form.
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Hanuman
Hanuman is the timeless devotee of Lord Sri Rama and is considered as God
himself. People fervently believe that prayers addressed to Hanuman are
answered by Lord Vishnu himself.
Dattatreya
It is the combined form of Vishnu, Brahma and Shiva and is a popular God of
Karnataka and Maharashtra.
Jatadharam, Pandurangam,
Soolahastham Krupanidhim,
Sarvaroga haram devam,
Dathathreyamaham bhaje.
My salutations to Dathathreya.,
Who is with matted hair,
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Who is Lord Vishnu,
Who holds soola in his hand,
Who is store house of mercy,
And who is the panacea for all illness.
Sastha (Iyappa)
Dharma Sastha and his incarnation Iyappa, who is the son of Shiva and
Vishnu is one of the most popular Gods of Kerala. His temple is in
Sabarimalai. Millions of devotees visit his temple every year.
Loka Veeram, Maha poojyam, sarvam raksha karam vibhum,
Parvathy hrudayanandam, Sastharam Pranamamyaham.
My salutations to Sastha,
Who is the hero of the world,
Who is the one who is the greatest,
Who is the Lord who protects everything,
And who gives pleasure to the mind of Parvathy
Sun
Lalitha
Worshipping God in the form of mother is an age old practice among Hindus.
Of these the most popular Goddess is Lalitha. She is the consort of Lord
Shiva and it is believed that by worshipping her, several super human powers
can be obtained.
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Sindhuraruna vigraham trinayanam manikya mouli spurath
Thara Nayaga sekaram smitha mukhi mapina vakshoruham,
Panibhayam alipoorna ratna chashakam rakthothpalam vibhrathim,
Soumyam ratna gatastha raktha charanam, dhyayeth paramambikam.
Annapurneshwari
Another form of Goddess Parvathy. Took this form to give alms to her own
consort Lord Shiva. She presides over the holy city of Varanasi.
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Sithala Devi
Meenakshi
Mookambika
The Goddess presiding over the city of Kollur in Karnataka. She is a form of
Goddess Parvathy but is supposed to grant wisdom, knowledge and
intelligence. She is very popular among Keralites who all wish to teach the
first alphabets in front of her on Vijaya Dashami day.
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Naana pushpa sukandha malya sahitham,
Naana janaa sevitham,
Naana veda purana sasthra vinutham,
Naana kalir pradham,
Naana roopa dharmam, mahesa mahishim,
Dyayami mookambikam.
Durga
She is the fearsome aspect of Goddess Parvathy and was created by her to
fight against Shumbha and Nishumbha. She is popular among the entire
length and breadth of India. The poor generally prefer to worship her.
Shyamala
Goddess who is considered as sister of Lord Vishnu. The name means "She
who is black"
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I meditate on the daughter of sage Matanga,
Who plays on the jewel studded Veena,
Who is voluptuous and who speaks sweetest words,
Who is worshipped by Indra, the king of devas,
And who has perfectly pretty form.
Lakshmi
The consort of Lord Vishnu, who is the Goddess of wealth. She was born out
of the ocean of milk.
Kanaka Lakshmi
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To the Hari who wears supreme happiness as Ornament,
The Goddess Lakshmi is attracted,
Like the black bees getting attracted,
To the unopened buds of black Tamala tree,
Let her who is the Goddess of all good things,
Grant me a glance that will bring prosperity.
Saraswathi
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Pithru Sthuthi
[Bruhad Dharma Puranam]
Translated by P. R. Ramachander
Brahmo uvacha:
1. Om nama pithre,janma dhathre, sarva deva mayaya cha,
Shukhadhaya prasannaya supreethaaya Mahathmane.
Brahma said:
Om salutations to the manes, who gave me birth and who are filled with all
devas,
And who bless us with pleasure, who are happy and are great ones liked by
good people.
Oh manes of the form of all yajnas, who are the gods in heaven,
Who are the form of all sacred waters as well as oceans of mercy.
Salutations always to them who are easily pleased, Salutations to them in the
form of Shiva,
To those who always pardon our mistakes, who are pleasant and bless us
with pleasure.
The human birth is difficult to get, and through you I have got it,
For performing of Dharmas and so my salutations to you manes.
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Having taken bath in sacred waters, done penance and meditation, I have
been able to see you,
Oh teacher of all teachers, because of that I salute you oh manes.
Phala Sruthi
Hearing of usefulness
Man should try to chant this blessed prayer addressed to the manes,
Daily as soon as he gets up and also on the Sradha days of the manes.
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Samkshepa Dharma Shastra
[Summary Rules of Dharmic Life]
Translated by P. R. Ramachander
Introduction
The Vedas are the fundamental and most sacred books of the Hindus. It is
believed that all the knowledge contained in Vedas was floating in the
atmosphere. Some great sages were able to hear these immortal truths and
taught them to their disciples. Vedas are nothing but the collection of such
truths as taught by many rishis to their disciples. Every section of the Veda
thus has a sage who realized the perennial truth and taught to his disciples.
Then each of these has a meter. This was required, because in the initial
days, there was no script to our language. Also Sanskrit pronounced
differently lead to different meanings. So the sages taught what they have
heard to their disciple, following a meter, so that learning them by heart
became very easy.
The large numbers of people who learned the Vedic truths by heart from their
Guru and passed on to the next generation were the Brahmins. Not only they
preserved the perennial truths but followed the ritualistic and simple life
taught by their Gurus. At this time a need arose for very brave warriors who
would sacrifice even their life to protect the society and these people were
called Kshatriyas. There was also a need to look after the wealth generated
by a community, buy essential things based on barter from other similar
communities. These wealth managers and business people were called
Vaisyas. These three specialized group of people needed assistants and
servants, who would help them in other routine jobs of life and in production
of food. These people need to be strong and hard working. They were called
Shudhras. These were the four varnas of Hindus. Early study of the Vedas
and Puranas seem to indicate that these caste labels were given based on
their suitability for the above four different roles.
The Vedas, the Grihya Suthras as well as Dharma Shastras codified the rules
of life for these four groups of people. Among the best compilation of the rules
of life for a Brahmin is the great book called Vaidhyanatha Deekshitheeyam.
(Copy of the book in Sanskrit running to nearly thousand pages is available in
the web site mudgala. com.) Copies of this book are normally not available
and with people giving less and less importance to Sanskrit education, it was
extremely difficult to understand this book. Late Paramacharya of Kanchi
asked Sri Manjakkudi Venkatrama Sastrigal, who was one of his disciples, to
make a selection from this book and seek the help of Sri E. S. Ramamurthy
Sastrigal for translating it in to Tamil. This book was published by Heritage
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India Educational Trust, Mylapore, Chennai as per the wishes of
Paramacharyal. The great sage also told the publisher that there should not
be any copy right to this book. This book was named as "Samkshepa Dharma
Sashthram (Summary rules of Dharmic life)" and was first published in 1985.
I. Dharma
II. Dharma Pramana (Support for Dharma / Axioms of Dharma)
III. Authors of Dharma Sashthraas
IV. Places suitable to live
V. Yuga Dharma (Dharma in different eons)
VI. Process of Creation
VII. Brahmana Dharma
VIII. Dhanam (Charity)
IX. Kshatriya Dharma (Ruler's Dharma)
X. Vaisya Dharma (Dharma of business people)
XI. Varna Sadharana Dharma (Ordinary Dharma applicable to all four Varnas)
XII. Forty Samskaras
XIII. Garbha Dhana
XIV. Pumsavana
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XV. Seemanthonnayanam (Seemanantham)
XVI. Jatha karma
XVII. Namakaranam (Naming Ceremony)
XVIII. Annaprasanam (Giving of first Cereal Food)
XIX. Choodakaranam (First cutting of hair)
XX. Sthreenaam Jathakarmaadhi (After birth ceremonies for girl child)
XXI. Anupaneetha Dharma (Duties of boys who have not received sacred
thread)
XXII. Upanayanam (Putting of sacred thread.)
XXIII. Yagnopaveetam (Sacred thread)
XXIV. Danda dharanam (Holding of staff)
XXV. Vasthrajina Dharanam (Wearing of upper cloth)
XXVI. Brahmachari Dharma (Duties of a Bachelor)
XXVII. Upanayana karthru Dharma (Duties of who carry out sacred thread
ceremony)
XXVIII. Upakarma (Annual redemption Ceremony)
XXIX. Vivaha (Marriage)
XXX. Agadheega Rithumathi Vivaha Prayachitham (Redemption ceremony
for marriage of a girl)
XXXI. Vivahe Sadharana Dharma (General rules of a marriage)
XXXII. Sthri Dharma (Duties of women)
XXXIII. Grahastha Dharma (Duties of the householder)
XXXIV. Sanyasa Dharma (Duties of those who has forsaken worldly life)
I. Dharma
1. Vedas:
The basis of the universe is Vedas
2. Manu:
Understand that Dharma is that which is practiced by those who know the
Vedas and Shastras and are persons without bad qualities like passion and
jealousy and are practices recognized by the mind as correct.
3. Apasthambha:
Dharma and Adharma do not tell that I am Dharma and I am Adharma.
Devas, Gandharwas and pithrus (manes) would not tell that this is Dharma;
this is Adharma by showing their real form. So understand that which is
praised by saints as Dharma and which is not accepted by them is Adharma.
II. Dharma Pramana (The support for Dharma/ The axioms of Dharma)
1. Manu:
All Vedas support Dharma. The teaching and actions of the sages who know
Vedas and the acts that are followed by Vedas are support to Dharma. The
happy assent by saints is also support Dharma.
2. Apasthambha:
Following of our Acharas as told in the Vedas would give him immense
pleasures in this life, take him to heaven, and then he would be born again in
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earth in a good caste, with beauty, colour, strength, wisdom, intelligence,
wealth, house, garden, gold etc and he would live with interest in Dharmic
activities, Like this he would keep on rotating in between the heaven and
earth.
3. Parasara:
Aachaaraas (practices as ordained by religion) is important for all the four
castes. Bathing, inner cleaning (aachamana), following rules for food and
celibacy are termed as Aachaaraas. These are a part of every one's Dharma.
So Dharma should be followed along with Aachaaraas. Then only one's
Dharma would be protected and one would get results (benefits). Unless
dharma is carried out with Aachaaraa, it does not give strength.
4. Narada:
Vedas, devotion to Vishnu and Devotion to Maheswara (Shiva) do not save
any one who is not following aachaaraas, even if he is a Brahmin. Going to
sacred temples, taking bath in sacred rivers like Ganges, carrying out
sacrifices like Soma Yaga also do not protect one, who has slipped from
Aachaaraas.
Following of aachaaraas would result in heaven, pleasures as well as
salvation. Is there anything in the world that cannot be attained by following
Aachaaraas.
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is the Rishi Desa. The aryavartha (the place where gentlemen live) is called
the blessed land.
In the South of Bharatha, Kaveri, Thungabhadhra, Krishna veni and
Godhavaree rivers flow and in the north the five Ganga rivers flow. The
regions bordering these rivers are fit place to stay.
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4. Those things that can be avoided in Kali Yuga:
Entering Vana Prastha, remarriage of daughters, travel in the sea, pleasing
devas by performing yagas, Life long celibacy, sacrificing cows in Yaga,
doing yaga by sacrificing men or horses, reducing ritual cleanliness,
depending on status, wisdom and good conduct, paying the fee charged by
teachers, Sanyasis begging in front of the houses of all castes, Brahmin
taking meals along with other castes, etc.
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VII. Brahmana Dharma
1. Devala:
The child born to a Brahmin lady sired by a Brahmin father is a Brahmin.
Similarly for Kshtriya. Vaisya and Shudhra.
2. Manu :
Learning of Vedas, Teaching of Vedas, conducting Yagas, conducting Yagas
for others, giving alms and taking alms are the six duties of Brahmins.
3. Madhaveey:
The Brahmin who has learned the Vedas, if due to non-belief or due to
laziness, does not do fire sacrifices (agni Hothra), he would go to hell. So The
Brahmin should do all rituals and sacrifices and pray God.
4. Gargya:
Suppose you are not fit to do the Vedic rituals, at least do Aupasana
(mainitaing the fire of the home) and Sthaleepaka,. If you are not able to even
do that take bath, do Sandhya Vandhana and ritual worship with interest and
attention and remain clean.
5. Yama:
Teaching Vedas, getting alms given in charity, helping others to conduct
Yagas are not the daily duties allotted to Brahmins. These are meant to earn
a living for them. If one has sufficient wealth, there is no need to do the
above. Among the three earning wealth by conducting Vedic rituals is the
best, for the sin of doing that can be washed off, by doing chanting of God's
names and by doing Homas. But the sin of getting wealth through begging
cannot be even washed off by even Vedas.
6. Manu:
Along with several rituals and the laws laid out in the Sashthras, Vedas
should be learned fully. The Upanishad part also should be learned.
Learning Vedas of other families by leaving out the Vedas which they inherit
from their family makes one a great sinner. He does not have right to do any
Vedic duties.
7. Manu:
The Brahmin who wants to do Thapas, should chant Vedas again and again.
That is the greatest Thapas that he can do.
8. Daksha:
The learning of Vedas is of five types viz Learning it from the Guru, Thinking
and doing research on its meaning (Arthavicharam), again and again
repeating it, Reading it as per rules and teaching it to one's students.
9. Yama:
The teachers should get up early in the morning, clean their teeth, take bath,
do Sandhya Vandhana (ritual prayers at dawn, noon and dusk), do Agni
Hothra (make offerings in the fire), Oupasana (maintaining family fire) and
teach Veda to students
10. Manu:
Teacher's son, he who does service to you, he who teaches other knowledge
to you, he who follows Dharma, he who leads ritualistic life, relatives,
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intelligent people, he who gives money, good people, wise men are the ten
people,who can adopted as your student. Thy can be taught the Vedas..
Sashthras say that Vedas should not be taught to those who do not follow
rituals, atheist and a jealous man.
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6. Yama:
The character of one can be understood by closely moving with him. Whether
he follows rituals will be known by his conduct and his wisdom can be gauged
by talking to him. Like this we have to determine about the suitability of
people to whom we give charity.
7. Prajapathi:
He who gives up prescribed rituals is a sinner. Any one depending on him
also is a sinner. He who thinks very poorly of God is a sinner. These people
would go to hell. Do not give anything in charity to these people.
8. Manu:
It is important to look after old parents, a virtuous wife and sons and daughter
when they are children. Do everything to see that these people are properly
looked after.
9. Parasara:
Brahmins who do bathing, Sandhya Vandhana, worship, Oupasana, Brahma
Yagna and Vaiswadeva, can earn money by cultivating the earth. In times of
crisis, they can do trade or live by selling their wealth.
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3. Parasara:
Looking after people, collecting of weapons for punishing of bad people,
doing Dharmic war, winning over enemies army and ruling the world are the
duties of Kshatriya.
He should specially worship Brahmins for they are the visible Gods, since
they learn Vedas according to rules worship Devas and protect the entire
world. The king gets one sixth of the blessings they get by doing good deeds.
This is the prize that he gets for looking after them.
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9. All rituals should be done facing north or east.
10. All rituals are to be started with Aachamanm (inner cleaning) and
Sankalpam. (saying the intention)
11. If important aspect of a ritual is forgotten, it has to be redone. If a minor
aspect is forgotten, there is only need to do Prayachitha (redemptive action)
12. All rituals have to be performed according to one's own Suthra (Example:
aapasthamba).
13. If the chief article is not available for a ritual, it can be done with
representative article.
14. That which is not told in one's own Suthra can be taken from other
Suthras and ritual performed but it should not be against one's own Suthra.
15. If there is any problem in getting done a ritual according to one own
Suthra, it can be got performed using the Bodhayana Suthra.
16. Doing a ritual before the correct time is equivalent to not doing the ritual.
So in case it is done, it should be repeated at the proper time.
17. All actions have to be performed sitting normally (swasthikasanam) but
this can be altered depending on the rules laid down by a ritual.
18. No ritual should be performed with a cloth over the neck.
19. All rituals should be done between our two knees.
20. For all rituals, meditating on Krishna is the Prayachitha (redemptive
action)
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It is essential to do all rituals from Garbha Dhana to Upanayana. If one feels
detached with this world at that time, he can take Sannyasa, otherwise he
can marry and proceed with other rituals.
XIV. Pumsavana
1. Apasthambha
Once the pregnancy shows clearly, Pumsavana should be done in the
Pushya (poosam) star.
2. Kaladarsa:
Pumsavana should be done in the third or fourth month of pregnancy.
3. Paraskaropa:
Pumsavana can be performed in the second or third month in a male star
(Hastha, Moola, Punarvasu, Mrugaseersha and Pushya) Another sage
Jathukarnya says that Pumsavana can be performed along with Seemantha.
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XV. Seemanthonnayanam (Seemanantham)
1. Kasyapa:
Seemantham can be performed on 6th, 7th, 8th or 9th month or till the time of
delivery.
2. Aapasthambha:
He says that Seemantha should be performed in the fourth month in case of
first pregnancy. Seemantham need to be performed only for the first child.
Since it is a Garbha Samskara, its effect would continue to be there in case of
further pregnancies also. The same is applicable to Pumsa vana.
3. Gaargya:
If the child is born without doing Seemantha, after its birth, the child should be
kept in a box and Seemantha performed. Then only the child should be seen.
If the husband dies before doing Seemantham, then his brother or teacher or
any one belonging to his paternal family should do the Seemantham.
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not be harsh, should have clear meaning, should be pretty, should indicate
good, should indicate blessing and should end in a vowel like Aa, ee, uu etc.
The names of men should have even number of letters, and women's name
should have odd number of letters. Rama, Krishna, Shiva etc are samples of
men's name and Yashodha, Parvathi etc are samples of women's name.
XXI. Anupaneetha Dharma (Duties of boys who have not received sacred
thread)
1. Daksha:
For the first years after birth, the boy is considered as a baby only. i. e. even
though he is born, he is considered as somebody who is still in the womb of
his mother.
In case food and drinks, there is nothing which should not be consumed and
that which should be consumed. Once he receives sacred thread, there are
some restrictions. If something which should not be consumed, there are
redemptive acts to set it right. But alcoholic drinks should not be consumed.
Death is the only redemptive act for consumption of alcohol.
2. Mithakshara:
From the sixth year onwards boys who have not received the sacred thread,
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should be trained by father and other elders in the caste Dharma. Seeing of
matters regarding passion is permitted before this age.
Those who have not received the sacred thread should not pronounce Vedic
mantras. But they can do it, if they are involved in performance of death
ceremonies.
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downward and nine threads upward. Then it should be tied. After wards the
Prathishta (sacred foundation) should be performed. The thread which is
spun should be tied 96 times over 4 fingers (shannavathi) and should be
sprinkled with holy water with chants of Aapohishta, Hiranyavarna and pava
mana chants. and then it should be made in to three by chanting Gayathri,
beaten thrice in the hand and the Navathanthu and Granthi Devathas should
be made to occupy the thread, shown to Sun God with the "Udhaya" chant
and worn with the Yagnopaveetha chant.
The navathanthu devathas are Bhaga, Soma, Pithara, Prajapathi, Vishnu,
Dharma and Sakala Devatha. There may minor modifications to these rules
depending on the family.
3. Bhrugu:
One sacred thread is prescribed to Brahmachari (unmarried man) two to the
married man and one for the sages
The third Yagnopaveetha (sacred thread) is worn, in case the person does
not wear an upper cloth (uthareeya)
Always we should wear the sacred thread. Always the hair should be tied and
rituals performed. If any ritual is done without Shika (hair) and
Yagnopaveetha (sacred thread) this is not approved by Sastras. The Gods
would not receive it.
4. Vyasa:
Rituals performed without Shika and Yagnopaveetha are Rakshaseeya (fit for
the underworld) That is, it would do harm to the world. The man for whom it is
done will not get any results out of it.
5. Bhrugu:
Slipper, dress, Yagnopaveetha, ornaments, flower garland, small pot are
used ritualistically. They should not be used by any other persons.
If during the first four days after upanayana, by chance the yagnopaveetha is
cut or lost, you have to perform Vyahruthi homa and chant Anagnatha
manthra before wearing another Yagnopaveetha.
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XXV. Vasthrajina Dharanam (Wearing of upper cloth)
1. Vasishta:
Brahmin Brahmachari should wear cloth made of cotton, the Kshatriya
Brahmachari should wear the silk coloured with Manjishta tree and Vaisya
should wear the yellow coloured Kouseya (?).
During the sacred thread ceremony, the Brahmin wears the loin cloth,
followed by new Dhothi and wear the black deer's skin as Uthareeya (Upper
cloth)
A cloth which is white, which has a border and which has not been worn by
anybody else is called Ahavasa. This is holy and can be used to perform all
rituals.
2. Gowthama:
The Brahmin Brahmachari should wear upper cloth made of black deer's skin,
the Kshatriya the (rurumajinam?) deer's skin and the Vaisya the skin of the
white goat respectively.
3. Manu:
The Brahmin brahmachari should wear a belt made by Munja grass in three
strands, the Kshatriya the belt made of Moorvvaa grass, and the Vaisya that
made of jute. (This is called Mekhala and is worn above the cloths like a belt)
4. Samvartha:
Apart from Mekhala they should also wear a Kati Suthra (A belt over the hip
under the cloth) Without wearing this, no rituals including the fire sacrifices
lead to any positive results. This is true also for the married man.
5. Manu:
If the Mekhala (belt), deer's skin, staff and the sacred thread are decayed,
they should be thrown in water and new ones should be worn with due
chanting of Manthras.
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Guru is not available, the collected alms should be shown to his wife or his
son or one of his own classmates.
4. Vasishta:
Sanyasis should take eight handful of food, while Vanaprasthas should take
sixteen handfuls and family men should take 32 hands full. There is no such
restriction to Brahmacharis.
5. Jaimini :
Till the Upanayana day (Brahmopadesa), there is no Sandhya vandana
(Worship during dawn/n and dusk). After Brahmopadesa it should be
observed three times without fail.
6. Manu:
The samith (fallen sticks collected from Banyan tree/Palasa tree) should be
collected from outside the village and should be preserved on the lofts. These
should be used to do Samidha Dhanam twice every day.
7. Aapasthambha:
Bath should not be undertaken in scented water.
8. Manu:
Whether the Guru tells or not, the Brahmachari should take special interest in
studying Vedas. He should also pay attention to do service to his teachers.
After controlling the body, voice, organs for increasing knowledge and mind,
one should face the teacher with folded hands, and understand the good
things that he teaches.
In front of the teacher you should not cover your upper body with the upper
cloth. You should wear religious marks on the forehead and follow all
ritualistic rules. If the teacher asks you to sit, then you should sit with humility.
This way the teacher should be looked after.
In the place where the ill is talked about your teacher, you should close your
ears. You can also leave that place and go elsewhere.
You should avoid Honey, meat, tusk, garland, things which are juicy, women,
and those things which have turned sour. You should not cause harm to any
animals. You should not apply perfumed oils, apply collyrium to the eye, wear
slippers and hold an umbrella. You should leave out passion, anger and
avarice. You should also avoid dance, music, gambling, talking about others,
telling lies, ogling at women, touching women and doing bad for others,. A
brahmachari should not sleep in day time.
9. Chandirikayaa:
A brahmachari should learn Sastras along with Vedas, Learning Dharma
Shastra, Vyakarana (grammar), Meemasa, Tharka (debating) purana (epics)
Ithihasa (history) and stories of great people is essential to him.
10. Devala:
Among the men the gurus are teacher, father, elder brother, King, uncle,
father in law, he who saved you, Maternal grandfather, Paternal grandfather,
the chief of one's clan and the brothers of one's father.
Among the ladies the gurus are mother, mother's mother, teacher's wife,
sisters of father and mother, mother in law, paternal grandmother, elder sister
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and she who brought us up.
The Gurus in father's and mother's side above are suitable to be worshipped.
Among them five merit special worship. They are He who honours us, our
mother, he who gives us knowledge, elder brother, he who gives us food.
Among them the first three are more important. Mother is the greatest guru.
There is nobody who can be compared to her.
11. Manu:
By devotion to mother you can attain earth, by devotion to father heavens,
and by devotion to teacher one can attain the world of Brahma.
The father, who bears the son, celebrates his sacred thread ceremony and
gives him wealth to lead the worldly life and is called Great teacher (Maha
Guru)
12. Vyasa:
The mother gives him place in her womb for ten months and gives birth to
him after suffering lot of pains and sorrow. She would give all that she has
earned with difficulty and all her luck to her child. Whatever one can do to her
will not be an adequate compensation for her love.
13. Manu:
People who are rich, our relatives, elderly people, people who have carried
out yagas, and those who are well learned are fit to be worshipped. Among
them the well learned one is the greatest.
14. Bodhayana:
If a Brahmin, king, blind person, cow, elderly people, those who carry load,
pregnant women and a weak person, comes in front of you, please give them
the way.
15. Manu:
If you see an elderly person, you should give pranams (namaskaram) to him.
He who salutes them and serves them will have more long life, wisdom and
fame,
16. Smruthyartha sara:
Go near the Guru, salute him, then tell him, I who am born in so and so
Gothra, named so and so is prostrating before you and then Touching both
our ears, touch the right feet of the Guru with our right hand and his left leg
with our left hand after bending forward. This should normally be done only to
the Guru, Similar thing (upasankramana) can be done towards people whom
we consider as equal to our Guru.
The Guru or the elders who receive such a prostration should bless the one
who did the prostration. It is said that they should tell Pluthaswara (?) for
three mathras.
Like this several duties for brahmacharis have been told. He who learns a lot
in this Ashrama becomes great later.
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XXVII. Upanayana Karthru Dharma (The duties of those who carry out
sacred thread ceremony)
1. Bhaskara:
During the marriage the food must be given to the maximum possible, During
Aadhana (?) at least 100 Brahmins should be fed and in case of sacred
thread ceremony also 100 Brahmins at least should be fed. If your financial
situation does not permit, try to feed the maximum possible number of
Brahmins.
2. Aapasthambha:
If the sacred thread ceremony is conducted by someone who does not
understand its implication, then the ceremony for the man who carries it out
and to the man who wears, similar to travelling from darkness to darkness. So
the one who does not know Vedas and who does not follow rituals should not
carry out a sacred thread ceremony. People who are having great humility is
the most proper person. For the boys born as twins, all rituals from Jatha
Karma till the Upanayana should be done on the same day in the same
Lagna. Since it is not possible to do upanayana for both in the same lagna,
for one of them it can be got performed by somebody else in the same lagna.
The dumb, the one whose speech is not clear, the one who is mad and to the
one who is lame, Upanayana should be performed. In case of the dumb and
mad, the acharya (the one who carries out) can do every ritual and see them
after chanting Gayathri Manthra. For the others normal Upanayana can be
performed but this group of people would not have any right to do any other
ritual. They cannot do any fire sacrifices.
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3. Gobhila:
Krishna Yajur Vedis, who have learned the Taithreeya branch of the Krishna
Yajurveda should do Upakarma on the full moon day of the month of
Sravana. Rig Vedis should do it in Sravana (Thiruonam) star and Sama Vedis
should do it in Hastha star.
For Krishna Yajur vedis, the pournami Thidhi should be there from the
morning till noon. This is called Oudhayakhi.
3. Smruthyanthara:
If Pournami and Prathama join after 12 nazhigai after sun rise (called Sangha
kala-4 hours 48 minutes) and before noon, that is the proper day for annual
chant of Gayathri (Gayathri Japam). If it joins before this time then previous
day is Upakarma and next day Gayathri Samitha Dhanam.
4. Thidhi darpanam:
Rig vedis should do Upakarma on the day when during sun rise Sravana star
is there. Yajur vedis should do when Pournami extends beyond 4 hours 48
minutes. Sama Vedis should do it when Hastha Nakshatra extends beyond
this time in month of Bhaadrapada (Purattasi/Kanni/September-October).
If the Simha Bhadrapada is not holy due to Moudya, then they (Sama Vedis)
should do it in Kanya month during Krishna Paksha (waxing period of moon)
For Rik Vedis the lord of the Shaka (branch) is Guru, For Yajur vedis it is
Shukra, for Sama Vedis it is Angaraka and for Atharva Vedis it is Bhudha. So
they should do upakarma when the Lord of their Shakha is powerful.. If these
planets are in Moudya (powerless) or when there is eclipse or when there is
month beginning, Upakarma should not be performed on that day.
For Yajur Vedis, Pournami in Sravana month is important. If it is bad then
they can do in Pournami of Aashada (AAdi/karkidaka/july-august) month. If
that also is bad, then they should do in the Pournami of Sravana month after
carrying out redemption rituals. Rik Vedis should do Upakarma in Sravana
star in the month of Sravana. If there is dosha during that period, they can do
it instead on a day in the same month when Hastha star and Panchami Thidhi
are together.
Shukla Yajur Vedis should do Upakarma on the full moon day of Sravana
month. If that has dosha they can do it on Sravana star of the same month or
on the day when star Hastha and Panchami thidhi are together in the same
month and if even that is unsuitable they can do it on the day when Hastha
star is there in the Sravana month. They can also do it in the full moon day of
the Bhadhra pada month. The decision has to be made based on the family
custom.
Brahmacharis should do Upakarma after hair cutting. Yajur Vedis should start
learning Vedas (Uthsarjanam) on a full moon day of the Pushya month. If this
is not suitable they can do it in Magha (Maasi/Kumbha/ February-march)
month also.
5. Sandilya:
Upakarma should not be performed with wet cloths. If it is done, it is termed
as Rakshasa. During Upakarma, a new sacred thread should be worn. That is
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Upakarma should be done with new cloths and new sacred thread by
everyone and in case of Brahmachari they should wear in addition a new belt,
new deer's skin and new staff.
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along with Dakshina (fee) to the Brahmachari. (Possibly the fore runner of
marriages with dowry)
In case of aarsha marriage, the bride's father receives a cow and bull from
the Brahmachari and gives his daughter in return (as cost) to him.
In case of Prajapathya marriage, the father of the bride worships a good
groom and gives him his decorated girl with an oral request to him to lead a
family life (no ceremonies are performed).
Only the above four types of marriage are according to Dharma. The children
born out of this type of marriages would be religious and would be praised by
elders. The children born due to the above four types of marriages would be
strong, of good conduct, handsome, have wealth and fame, would enjoy fully
the pleasures of family life, would be interested in doing charity and would
have long life. So these four types of marriages are according to Dharma.
The other types of marriages are dear to the inter caste and inter racial
marriages. The children born out of them would be cruel, tell lies and would
hate ritualistic routine. So these marriages should not be performed.
4. Yagnavalkya:
The Brahmacharya should be observed as per rules and then the
Brahmachari should marry a virgin with good qualities. Good qualities of the
girl are that
i. She should not have been possessed by any other man
ii. She should be pleasing to the mind
iii. She should not belong to our clan
iv. She should be disease free
v. She should be born with brothers
vi. She should not belong to one's Gothra or Pravara
vii. She should not be from past five generations of mother's family and seven
generations of father's family.
viii. Shaathaathapa: He who marries a girl with the voice like swan, colour like
clouds, and eyes like honey would attain all comforts and would grow further.
6. Vishnu:
A horse should be chosen based on his father, a girl based on her mother,
land based on the grass growing there and a clan based on its practices.
7. Yama:
The girl's father should choose a boy based of good family, good character,
good conduct, good body, age, education, relatives and wealth. What would
happen in the future would be good and need not be bothered about much.
8. Aapasthambha:
The wealth of the groom are his relations, good conduct, education and
freedom from disease
9. Vishnu:
For a Brahmin his clan/family is more important than his education or wealth.
And so in case of choosing a groom or in case of Sradha education is not an
important criterion.
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10. Samvartha:
A girl who is eight years old is called Gouri. A girl who is nine years old is
called Rohini and a girl who is ten years old is called Kanya. All girls above
ten years are called Rajaswala. Giving a Gouri in marriage would get you
Swarga loka, and those giving a Rohini in marriage would get Brahma loka.
And those who give in marriage a Rajaswala (above 10 years of age) would
go to hell.
11. Yama:
For giving sacred thread to the boy or giving a girl in marriage 8 years
(including one year spent in the womb) is the proper age. If the girl does not
get married then, they are not suitable to any religious duties.
Those responsible for a girl's marriage (father, mother and elder brother)
would attain hell if girls are not given in marriage at the proper time. A girl
who has attained puberty should be given in marriage after a redemption
ceremony is conducted.
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family/clan.
2. Aathri:
Marriages and sacred thread ceremonies should not be performed in one's
own birth star, birth month and birth day of the week. For the eldest daughter
or eldest son such celebrations should not be performed in the Jyeshta
(aani/Mithuna/June-july) month.
3. Vyasa:
Between the months of Ashada (Aadi/Karkidagam/July-august) to Karthika
(vruschigam, November-december), God Vasudeva sleeps and so marriages
or sacred thread ceremonies should not be performed. Other festivals also
should not take place.
4. Devala:
No ceremonies in the house should be performed after the festival of Gods of
the village start, till it ends.
5. Skanda:
After repeating the name of Gothra and the names of the groom and the
bride, facing east, One should give as Dana a girl to the groom who is facing
north. The girl should be younger to the groom.
6. Sangraham:
If during marriage the fire of Oupasana goes out, then the marriage should be
performed again. But after marriage if the fire of the Oupasana goes out, it
can be relit after doing redemption.
The fire of Oupasana should be lit at night after doing Agneypakam. The time
difference should not be more than 9 Nazhiga (3 hours 36 minutes). The
marriage ceremony should be observed for four days. The pravisya Homa,
before the marriage, should be performed in the groom's house. Then after 4
day marriage ceremonies, the Sesha homa should be again performed there
in the later part of night in the groom's house. The Sthali pakam (fortnightly
offerings made to the family fire) should be done in the same fire.
If the girl matures before doing Sthalipaka (two months), then the oupasana
fire would get polluted. In that case the Poornima Sthalipka should be done
again, followed by Darsa Sthalipaka, Both should be done in the Prathama of
Krishna and Shukla paksha prathama thithis.
7. Garga:
When the elder brother remains unmarried the younger brother should not
marry. Similarly aadhana should not be performed.
8. Yagna valkya:
By getting married the family will grow by getting sons and grandsons. So the
Women should be respected and looked after carefully.
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She should be protected in such a way that she should not err even in a small
way.. This is because if she errs she would bring bad name for her father's
family as well as husband's family. This should be observed by people of all
varnas.
The six things that a woman should avoid are drinking, friendship with bad
people, living away from her husband, roaming out of the house, sleeping at
odd times, and living in a home that is not her own. These would harm her
pathivruthya (duties/penance to her husband)
2. Manu:
There are no rituals prescribed for a woman. Her dharma is doing service to
her husband. Because of that service she would go to heaven. Observing fast
and other punishing rituals are not prescribed for her.
3. Aasheela:
Even if her husband's character is bad or even if he has baser qualities, a
wife should not neglect her husband. Husband for her is the living God.
She should be always happy, expert in work around the house and should
keep the house as well things in it clean. She could liberally spend money on
just things.
4. Aathri:
A woman cannot reach heaven by fasting or due to Vrithas (rituals). Only by
worshipping her husband she can reach there. She who deceives in money
or life would be born in the next life as a worm and later suffer a lot by being
born in the lowest caste. Japa, Thapas, Pilgrimage, living like a saint,
becoming expert in manthras by frequently chanting and worshipping Gods
are the six things that spoil her Pathivruthya.
5. Vyasa:
She should wear with sincerity turmeric., Kumkum, Sindhur, Kajal, Blouse,
Betel chewing, holy ornaments, bangles ear studs and comb and care for her
hair. By doing these the life span of her husband would be increased.
Daily morning as soon as she gets up she should offer oblations of water to
the Sun. By doing this she will not become a widow for seven births.
That lady who draws the ceremonial drawing before her house every day
morning and does worship with sacred rice would make the gods happy.
Goddess Lakshmi would live in that house in which courtyard is cleaned daily
and Kolam (design drawn with rice powder) is put.
By doing service to her husband and being a Pathivrutha, no sin would come
in this world or the next world for a woman. She should be thought as the real
goddess Parvathi. No body should ever think of insulting them. God will
punish those insulting her.
6. Daksha:
The man who cruelly treats his wife in the young age and makes her cry and
deserts her is a sinner. He would be born as a woman for seven generations
and suffer due to lot of diseases.
7. Smruthi Rathna:
Pregnant woman should not eat or take bath during dusk, noon or dawn.
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They should never go below a tree.
They should not talk bad words, should not laugh unnecessarily. They should
serve their father and mother in law. And would keep attention in matters
which are good for her husband.
8. Yagnavalkya:
When a pregnant woman craves for anything she should be satisfied. There
should not be any neglect in this. If neglected, the child in her womb may
suffer.
9. Vyasa:
When her husband dies a woman becomes a widow. If she strictly follows the
duties of a widow, she can attain comfort with her husband in the next world.
Widows should cut their hair.. If she ties her hair, her husband in heaven will
suffer. She should take meals only once.
She should not use scents. She could offer oblations to her husband daily
using Gingelly and Durba grass. She should worship Lord Vishnu daily. She
should imagine that her husband is Vishnu. A widow who observes all this
would live comfortably.
10. Aswalayana:
The women whose husbands are no more, whether she has a son or not
should depend on her father and other relatives and lead a calm subdued life.
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XXXIV. Sanyasa Dharma (Duties of those who has forsaken worldly life)
1. Amgeera:
You can forsake the world (become a Sanyasi) only when you do not find
attraction in any thing. People who take sanyasa without this are base human
beings.
2. Haritha:
He who is detached only, gets Sanyasa and those who have attachment can
continue to be householders and do their duties. The one who takes Sanyasa
when he has attachments will go to hell.
3. Jabala Sruthi:
When you are a Brahmachari if you gets detached you can take Sanyasa. We
can also take Sanyasa when we get detached either when we are a
householder or when you are in Vanaprastha. You can live in all these stages
and assume Sanyasa if you are detached with everything.
3. Yama:
The bad effects of the clan or the bad effects of sins and good deeds would
be cleaned by Sanyasa like a fire cleaning Gold. It would make all bad things
into ash.
4. Vyasa:
God Vishnu has two forms. The moving form is that of a Sanyasi and the
fixed form is that of an idol.
5. Daksha:
The person who becomes a sanyasi saves from hell, 30 generations of his
manes before him and would prevent thirty generations that follow him from
hell.
A person who is very sick and in the death bed can take Sanyasa just by his
mind and word. This is called Apat Sanyasa.
6. Samvartha:
The four types of Bhikshus (Sanyasis) are Kuteechaka, Bahoodaka, Hamsa
and Paramahamsa, in the same order of importance.
7. Bhodhayana:
Kuteechaka, after taking Sanyasa, can get alms from his house or some of
his relatives. He should wear tuft, one sacred thread, and have three
numbers of staff, and a pot for carrying water. He should chant Gayathri
Manthra more number of times.
He should spend the entire spare time in Japa, Dhyana and reading or
hearing of epics like Ramayana, Bhagawatha and would always think of God
in his mind.
Bahoodaka should go away from his relatives and should live by taking alms
in other houses. He should not receive alms from more than seven houses
per day. If he gets sufficient alms in two or three houses, he should not ask
for alms in any other house. He should follow other rules of the Kuteechaka.
8. Vishnu:
Hamsa should have one staff, ochre robes and should have a cloth which can
be used to move away living things on his way without hurting them. Other
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things are like Kuteechaka. It is not clearly mentioned whether he should
have a tuft.
9. Aathri:
The Parama hamsa should have two loin cloths, one torn cloth to cover
himself and one staff. He also should definitely have a water pot. He should
control his mind and senses and meditate on Brahma. He should always
chant "Om". He should hear Vedantha, learn them by heart and remember
them. He could live in any neat place.
10. Parasara:
He should leave out passion, anger, pride, avarice and foolishness and would
live without egoism.
11. Bhavishyad Purana:
The staff should be a bamboo stick. It should have even number of nodes,
pretty and should be from a tree growing in a holy place. It would be better if it
has many black spots. It should be straight and should reach up to the eye
brow or nose.
12. Yagnavalkya:
If they need a book on Vedantha, they can get it from a Grahastha.
They should be always alone and if spoken reply suitably along with the
name of Narayana. They should not talk unnecessarily.
Meditations, cleanliness, taking alms, being in solitude always are the only
four duties for them. Paramahamsas do not have a fifth duty.
They should not pluck flowers for worship but worship Lord Vishnu and Lord
Shiva using fallen flowers and leaves, Salvation would be given to them by
Vishnu and Wisdom would be given to them by Lord Shiva.
13. Kanva:
They should stay not more than one day in a village and not more than five
days in a city. They can stay for four months comfortably in the place of their
choice during rainy season.
14. Vyasa:
A Brahmin who takes up Sanyasa which leads to salvation and follows all
rules with a firm mind would burn like a peaceful fire and would become like
Brahma,
!5. Vishnu:
Sanyasis who are old and who are ill can stay in one town or village They
should be particularly served by the Grahasthas of that place.
The people who are in search of Athma and those who have realized it are
the form of God. So whatever they wish would happen. So the Grahasthas
who wish to get wealth can get it by serving them.
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B. Ahneeka Prakarana [Details of Acts to be Performed]
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Ahneekam are the acts that we should perform during the day and night. This
chapter gives in detail, the proper ways of doing our duties from the time we
wake up on a day till we wake up next morning.
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And all the great things, make this morning good to me. 4
If these very holy verses are read in the morning or at least remembered,
that would destroy bad dreams, and make the morning good, by the blessing
of God.
Reading the epic Mahabharata, or singing it with blessing of Saraswathi.
If Brahmins also sing the name of Lord Kesava as soon as they get up,
Would be blessed by Nala, Yudhishtra, Goddess Sita and Lord Janardhana. 6
3. Shandilya:
In the early morning the names of God should be repeated in a loud voice.
Singing the names is considered equivalent to reciting prayers.
The Brahmin who recites Vedas in the morning and sees lucky people, cow,
fire and the person doing Yaga would be saved from all dangers.
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of nature in the sky, in front of a woman, Guru and a Brahmin.
If we forget to put the sacred thread on the ears while attending calls of
nature, then we have to wear a new sacred thread.
5. Devala:
After attending to calls of nature one should not get in ponds and rivers to
clean yourself. We should take water in a pot and clean yourself.
6. Mareechi:
The water are mud which we get in a place or country is suitable for cleaning
one self.
7. Manu:
The method of cleaning oneself using mud is described. We should clean the
penis once by using the mud and anus thrice using mud after attending the
calls of nature. Then the left hand should be cleaned using water mixed with
mud ten times and right hand cleaned seven times. This number is for the
householder. For Bramacharis it is double this number and Vana Prasthas
thrice this number and for Sanyasis four times this number. The leg should be
cleaned seven times using the mud. Water should be taken in a broad
necked pot, water poured in the concerned place and then the place cleaned
by left hand. Then the water should be transferred to left hand and the right
hand cleaned.
8. Vyasa:
First you should clean the anus, then penis, then feet and then the hand.
9. Aapasthambha:
The above rules of cleanliness has to be observed in the day time. In the
night half of it only need to be observed, and while on travel quarter only need
to be observed. When you are sick or handicapped, observe as much as
possible.
Even boys who have not received sacred thread, women and non-Brahmins
also should use the above method using water and mud. The number rules
above does not apply to them. They have to clean themselves adequately.
10. Devala:
If you happen to touch man's bone, open flesh, stool (other's), urine, semen
and blood, you have to take bath, apply ointments, clean yourself again and
do Achamana. Suppose these were our own, then we need only to clean that
spot and do Achamana. Suppose some one takes the entire water of Ganga
and uses one mountain of mud to clean oneself till he dies, if he does not
have faith, the operation of cleaning will never clean him. So it is necessary to
follow the ritualistic rules with faith.
11. Bodhayana:
Cleaning can be done either by time, fire, water, mud, mental satisfaction.
Even if we do not know how they clean, they would definitely clean.
Act of cleaning brings fame to Brahmin. So he should take special effort for
doing that. Cleanliness and Dharmic laws unless followed will not give results
for any action.
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IV. Gandoosha Vidhi (Rules for Gargling)
1. Parasara:
After cleaning ourselves with mud and water to the prescribed number of
times, and after tying the matted hair and the loin cloth, man should gargle
and then do Achamana.
2. Vyasa:
On the right side of the Brahmin, the gods live. So he should sit and gargle
facing the left.
After answering calls of nature, we have to gargle twelve times, and after
urinating four times and after taking food 16 times.
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5. Manu:
Brahman should always do Achamana using Brahma Theertha, He can also
do it using Rishi theertha and Deva theertha but he should never do it using
Pithru theertha.
This classification is based on where we hold the water in the right hand. If
we hold it just below the thumb it is Brahma Theertha. If it is held just below
the little finger it is Rishi Theertha and at the edge of four fingers, then it is
Deva theertha. If it is held between the thumb and the first finger, it is called
Pithru Theertha.
6. Sounaka:
The water has to be taken after washing the hand and legs. The water that
we see clearly should be used. The water which can just drown a black gram
should be taken and it is sufficient if it reaches up to the chest.
After the Achamana, we have to close our lips and wipe the mouth by the
base of the thumb twice. Then we have to touch the mouth by all fingers held
together.
It is said after this all organs should be touched by the fingers. We drink the
water saying Achyuthaya Nama, Anathaya Nama and Kesavaya Nama and
touch the organs using fingers chanting the 12 names of Vishnu. This method
has been taught by our elders. We should touch our eyes using thumb and
first finger, touch the nose using the thumb and the third finger, touch the ears
with thumb and the little finger, touch the shoulders using the thumb and the
second finger, touch the belly button using the thumb, touch the chest using
three fingers and touch the head with all fingers. There can be differences in
these rules. The family tradition has to be followed.
Achamana can be performed standing in water but should not be done in
water if the depth of water is below our knees.
7. Samvartha:
Achamana must be performed after bath, after taking food, after drinking
fluids, after sneezing and after sleep.
If during chanting of mantra, we happen to see anything dirty, Achamana
should be performed and chanting recommenced.
8. Parasara:
Manu and Parasara are of the opinion that the sacred waters of Prabhasa,
the ganges, Sun, Varuna, Chandra, Fire and wind are always in the right ear
of a Brahmin.
If we are not able to do Achamana, or if we are not able to get water for
Achamana when we have to do Achamana, we need only to touch our right
ear. This is equivalent to Achamana. During meals, Homa, taking of alms,
eating, or giving of alms, we need to perform Achamana twice.
9. Markandeya:
After eating mango, sugar cane piece, betel leaf and Soma Pana, there is no
need to do Achamana. After taking the Vishnu Pada Theertha also
Achamana should not be performed. You should not wash your hand in this
case.
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VI. Dandavadhana Vidhi (Rules for cleaning of Teeth)
1. Athri:
Daily the mouth becomes old. Hence one becomes defiled. So we should
clean our mouth using one of the sticks prescribed. Then only the teeth and
mouth become clean.
2. Bharadwaj:
We have to first wash our hand, legs and face and then to Achamana and
clean the teeth facing east in a sitting position.
Whichever stick we use to clean our teeth it should be purified by recitation of
the following Mantra:
"Rishi Prajapathi, Anushtup Chanda and Brahaspathi devatha
Aayurbala yaso varcha praja pasu vasuni cha,
Brahma pragnam cha medhaam cha thwannoi dehi vanaspathe."
Please give me long life, fame, children cattle,
Make me realize Brahmam, give me wisdom,,
You who have been grown in the forest.
3. Haaritha:
Sticks from all trees with thorn are suitable for cleaning the teeth. They give
us punya. All sticks from trees having milk would give us fame. The stick
should be as thick as the tip of our little finger and should not be dry.
Sticks of Khadhira, Khadambha, Kharanja, Kharaja Thrasini, Venu, Pruthwi,
Jamboo, Nimba, Apamarga, (In Tamil Karungali, Kadambai, Pingu, Charadai,
Kla, Moongil (Bamboo), Ven, Mandarai, Naval, Vembu (neem), Nayuruvi,
Bilwam, Yerukku, Athi), are suitable for cleaning the teeth. Sticks of Peepal
tree, purasu and Simshubha are not suitable. Some saints feel that sticks of
bilwa should not be used.
4. Yama:
During Chathurdasi, Ashtami, Amavasya (new moon), Pournami (full moon),
Sankramana (month beginning) we should not use meat, should not make
love nor clean teeth (The commentator says, meat eating is the Dharma of
Kshatriyas)
To clean teeth on Sradha (devotion day of manes) and during days of
Starving, cleaning teeth is a sinful act. If it is done by mistake then water over
which Gayatri is chanted 100 times should be sipped.
We can clean the teeth using grass and leaves on all days except Amavasya
(new moon) and Ekadasi. It can be done using the leaves of Jambu,
Plakshas, Ichi and Mango. Among them Mango is very good. A widow, a
virgin and a Brahmachari should not clean their teeth.
You can clean the teeth using tooth powders using any finger except the
second finger
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2. Sathyavratha:
By taking bath man attains strength, beauty, fame, dharma, wisdom,
pleasure, courage and great health.
3. Aathri:
One should not eat anything without taking bath, without chanting stotras,
without oblations in the fire and without giving charity. If something is taken
without these then the food is equivalent to stool, spoiled blood, worm and
poison.
All the rituals told in Vedas are to be done after taking bath. The man who
has not taken bath is not suitable to meditation and fire oblations.
The householder and Vana prastha should take bath both in the morning and
noon. The Sanyasis should take bath thrice, in the morning, in the noon and
at dusk. The Brahmachari need to take only the morning bath. All sections
need to take bath only once, if they are sick or when there is scarcity of water.
If one is healthy and if plenty of water is available, one should take bath. Bath
is ordained for Brahmins and non Brahmins.
4. Sounaka:
The Brahmin should stand in the middle of water and without any thoughts in
the mind, think of only Lord Vishnu, do Achamana and take bath by thrice
going below the water. While under water he should chant the Aghamarshana
Suktha.
5. Daksha:
During bath and other acts, one should meditate on Lord Narayana, By this
he gets rid of attachments and reaches Brahma Loka. He will not be born
again in this world. The bathing act has five parts viz. Sankalpa (telling of
intention), Chanting of Varuna Suktha, sprinkling water on self with chanting,
Telling of Agamarshana Suktha and giving oblations to Devas. While taking
bath in the pond or while washing the feet of a Brahmin or while chanting
Gayathri or while giving water offerings one should do it facing the Sun. When
one is taking bath in the river, he should bath against the tide do marjana and
chant Agamarshana, In other places it should be done facing the sun. At night
he can take bath facing east or north. In ponds belonging to the Gods, you
should take bath opposite them.
One should tie his hair, do Achamana, wash the shore with water, keep durba
there, wear pavithram, with folded hands recite Varuna Suktham and worship
the Goddess of water and then take bath. Then he should clean his body
including arm pits and again take bath, do Achamana twice, sprinkle water
using the chant "aapohishta.. ", chant Agamarshana Suktha, take bath, do
two Achamanas and offer oblations to Gods. This can be learned from
scholarly elders.
A man who is sick can take bath in hot water.
6. Skanda:
The period of 96 minutes before sun rise is called Arunodhaya period. Taking
bath at that time is supposed to be great. That is we have to take bath around
4. 30 AM.
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There are three types of bathing. They are Nithya Snana (daily bath),
Naimithika Snana (causal bath) and Kamya Snana (desirable bath). During all
types of bath Tharpanam (oblations to satisfy Devas, Rishis and manes)
should be performed. Bathing after cropping the hair or after shaving is called
Naimithika Snana. Any bathing after we become defiled is Naimithika Snana.
On such occasions two times bathing is prescribed. During the first time, no
Tharpana needs to be done. After drying oneself we have to take bath again,
Then Tharpana should be done.
7. Vishnu:
The Tharpana after the bath should be performed with wet cloths, standing in
the water, where we have taken bath.
8. Bharadwaja:
We have to do Tharpana to Gods in the same water. The water has to be
lifted to the height of the horns of a cow. Tharpana (that which satisfies)
should be done to Gods, manes and Rishis in that order. If the order is
changed the water is equivalent to blood and will invite the wrath of Devas.
For devas the Tharpana should be done facing the north with sacred thread
in the Upaveethi (left shoulder to right hip) position. In case of Rishis it should
be done facing north wearing the sacred thread like a garland (niveethi) and
for manes (pithrus) it should be done with sacred thread worn in the
Pracheena veethi (From right shoulder to left hip) facing the south. We should
stand in the middle of water and take water with both hands while doing
Tharpana.
After doing Tharpana for devas and Rishis, we should do Tharpana for the
God called Yashma in the banks of the river (pond). We have to say, "due to
my washing my body with water, I have made the water dirty and so I am
giving oblations to Yashma so that the sin committed is pardoned."
A Brahmin after the bath should wear the sacred thread in the Prachina
veethi position and stand in the shore till all the water in his body dries away
so that all animals are satisfied. If water falls from hair towards our back, it is
equivalent to toddy and if it falls in the front, it is equal to water of Ganges. So
we have to bend towards the front while drying our hair. The uthareeya
(upper cloth should be folded twice (four fold) and water allowed to fall
through its tips. We should never make it three fold. We should not remove
the water from the upper cloth in the middle of the water. When we remove
the water from cloths, we have to wear the sacred thread in the niveethi
(garland) position.
After removing the water from upper cloth, in the four fold state, we should
put the sacred thread in proper position (upaveethi) and carry the upper cloth
by our left wrist and do two Achamanas.
After taking bath we have to do Tharpanam to devas, sages and manes, do
Achamana and dry our body and head by the two cloths that we wear. We
should not remove water from the hair by shaking it.
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VIII. Snana Bedha (Different types of bath)
1. Sankha:
There are two types of bathing called as Gowna and Mukhya
2. Daksha:
The nines types of bathing viz Agneya, Varuna, Brahma, Vaavya, Divya,
Manasa, Parthiva, Kapila and Saraswatha are mentioned in the Sasthras.
3. Bharadwaja:
After washing our hands and legs, sitting facing the east and after doing
Achamana, the Basma Snana (Ash bath) should be started.
Using the white from the fire sacrifices and after chanting eesana manthra,
the ash should be sprinkled on our heads.
Ash should be sprinkled after chanting Thath Purusha manthra on the face,
Agora manthra on the chest, Vamadeva manthra on the private parts,
sathyajotha manthra on the legs and Pranava (Om) on all parts of the body.
This is called Agneya snana (bath by fire), If we get ash from fire sacrifice it is
much more divine but it can be performed using any ash.
The bath by reciting Jala Deva Daga manthra in the middle of water and
dipping in the water and later doing Tharpana to devas, Rishis and manes is
called Varuna snanam (bath by water)
4. Kathyayana:
Sprinkling water on the tips of our breast after chanting the Aapohishta
manthra and using Deva theertha (water from tips of fingers) is called Brahma
snanam. This is called Mathra snanam.
5. Brahaspathi:
The falling of the dust raised by the hooves of cows during dusk is called
Vayavya snamam (bath by wind)
Bath which occurs as per the advice of great people is called Saraswatha
snanam.
Bathing in the rainwater in the Northern solstice of Sun (utharyana) when
there is rain as well as sun light is called Divya Snana.
Meditating on Lord Vishnu with four arms as carrying conch, wheel and mace
is called Manasa snanam (mental bath)
Taking clean earth, chanting mantras and taking bath is called Parthiva
snanam.
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than taking from well and taking bath. Better than that is the water of the
mountain spring. Better than that is the water from Saras (water worshipped
by sages) and better than that is water of rivers. Even better than that is the
sacred water worshipped by elders. Better than everything is the water of
Ganges.
3. Yoga Yagnavalkya:
You should not take bath in the pond constructed by others. If you happen to
do it, take out seven clods of mud from the pond and put it on its shore. If it is
some body else's well, remove three pots of water and throw it away before
taking bath. It is proper to take bath in wells and ponds which are public and
have been constructed as charity. If you happen to take bath in wells
constructed by atheists and debased people, we should perform Prajapathya
Kruchram (?). If there is a river you should not take bath in well or a pond,
when there is a lake you should not take bath in a pond.
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2. Manu:
Those who touch a woman in periods, one who has given birth to a baby,
sinner, corpse and the man who has touched a corpse, should take bath
immediately with the dress one is wearing.
3. Parasara:
If one sees a bad dream or if he vomits, if he gets a shave or if one makes
love or if the smoke of a dead body falls on one's body, then he has to take
bath immediately.
4. Samvatha:
But in times of sorrow or pain, or in narrow streets, or in streets with large
number of up and downs, in shopping streets and in towns, try to move away
from a person (as told by above) as much as possible. It is told that it should
be to a length of a cow's tail. There is then no need to take a bath.
5. Aapasthambha:
If the body of a dog touches you, then you have to take a bath along with
dress or that part should be shown in the fire before washing. Then if we
wash our feet and do Achamana, we become pure. Some other people are of
the opinion that if we happen to touch the under belly part of a dog, it is
sufficient if we wash that part and do Achamana. If we happen to touch the
upper part, it is necessary to take bath immediately. After seeing the festival
of Gods, or after doing a good act or after bidding farewell to relatives and
friends, we should not take bath. We should not take bath at the middle of
night.
6. Manu:
During eclipse, Sankramana (Beginning of a month), marriage, and birth, we
can take bath and do charity at night. During other periods we should not
bathe at night.
7. Marrechi:
If we are forced to take bath at night, we can take bath using the water
brought during the day time. If we do not have such water we can take bath in
the river after lighting a fire in its shore.
8. Mahabharatha:
During lunar and solar eclipse, it is very special to take bath in the Ganges.
We can take bath in other rivers also.
9. Vyasa:
During the time of eclipse all river waters are equivalent to Ganges water, all
Brahmins are equal to God and all charities are equal to charity of land.
10. Vasishta:
The benefit of giving in charity crores of cows can be got by taking bath in the
Ganges during the eclipse.
If we take bath in the Ganges during lunar and solar eclipse, we get the
benefit of taking bath in all holy rivers of the world. It implies that there is no
need to take bath in other holy rivers, after such a bath.
11. Saathaathapa:
During the time of eclipse, it is essential to take bath, do charity and Sradha
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towards worship of manes. The people who do this get immense blessings.
When solar eclipse comes on a Sunday and lunar eclipse comes on a
Monday it is called Choodamani eclipse.
We can take bath and do all the above during the eclipse, even if we are in
the untouchable period.
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3. Aathri:
A woman in periods becomes pure after a purificatory bath on the fourth day.
If she bleeds again after 18 days, she becomes impure only for one day, but if
it happens after 20 days, she has to take rest for three days and take bath on
the fourth day. When she is undergoing periods, she should not apply
collyrium to the eye, should not comb her hair and should not spin yarn. She
should take food without anybody seeing her. If some body sees her she
should do redemption. If a woman in periods happen to touch another girl in
periods or a girl who is impure, she has to take rest for three days and take
purificatory bath. When in periods impurity due to birth or death happens,
then she should take bath before taking food. If Yekadasi comes in between,
she should not take any food during that time.
If she gets sick during the periods and is not able to take the purificatory bath,
then on the fourth day, another woman should touch her and then take bath.
She should then wear cloths, touch her gain and again take bath. Like this
she has to do ten times and then the sick girl in periods should give some
thing in charity and also sprinkle herself with holy water Then she becomes
pure.
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Saturday, the concerned planets would bless you and grant peace, wealth
and pleasures in life. Four thidhis starting with Dwitheeya, Sapthami, Navami,
Dasami and Thryodhasi are very suitable for taking oil bath. Sunday,
Tuesday, Thursday and Friday are not suitable for il bath. Oil bath should not
be taken on the day of your birth star, Sankramana and Vyatheepatha. During
Ekadasi, Chaturdasi, Ashtami, Prathama and Parva days, oil bath should
never be taken. Oil bath should not be taken by those who desire a pleasant
life on Uthram, Kettai, Thiruonam, Thiruvadirai and at night. In case of
children, elders and those who are sick oil bath and bathing in hot watrer can
be taken according to the circumstances.
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2. Naarasimha:
Ganges, Yamuna, Godavari, Thunga Bhadra and Kaveri are considered as
great rivers.
The rivers have periods on the first three days of Karkidaka month (July-
August) and people are requested not to take bath in rivers during that period.
From fourth day, they become as pure as the Ganges. Ganges does not have
the tainted nature due to periods.
The rules for taking bath in the rivers are as follows. The man who carries
Umbrella to the river looses quarter of the punya (result of good deeds), he
who wears slipper looses half the punya. He who travels in a palanquin to the
river looses the entire punya. So even if you are rich, you should go to the
sacred rivers as a common man. But if you are sick instead of a bullock cart,
one can go in a cart drawn by a horse.
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XIX. Pundra Dharana Vidhi (Rules of wearing sacred religious marks)
1. Pangme:
In this Kali Yuga, house of any one who has Gopi Chandana mud in his
house, is considered as equivalent to Dwaraka. Any one who is seen by a
man wearing Gopi Chandana becomes pure. We have to wear Urdhva
Pundra (Long mark) using Gopi Chandana.
2. Atharvana:
You have to apply the long mark with Gopi Chandana, which indicates the
feet of Lord Vishnu, for our benefit in the forehead and other places. By doing
so one would become dear to that great Purusha called Narayana and he
would become suitable for getting the reward of salvation.
3. Vasu deva Upanishad:
The detailed method of applying Gopi Chandana is given here:
First we have to salute Gopi Chandana and take it. And pray as follows:
This Gopichandana which destroys all sin,
Has been born out of the body of Lord Vishnu,
Salutations to him who holds the holy wheel,
Please grant me salvation because of wearing this.
You have take water with the chant starting with "Imam may Varuna…" and
because it came from the body of Vishnu you have to add water, kept in the
left hand and make it a paste keeping it on the right hand. Then we have to
chant thrice with the Rik starting with " Devaa avanthu na…"and then pray the
lord using:
Oh Achyutha who lives in Dwaraka,
Who holds the conch, wheel and the mace,
Oh Govinda who has as eyes like Lotus,
I surrender before you, please take care of me.
The householder should then chant the Vishnu Gayathri and, should take the
Gopichandana using his ring finger and apply it, chanting the twelve names of
Lord Vishnu starting with Kesava, on his own forehead, belly, chest, neck,
right arm, right upper arm, left arm, left upper arm, left side of the neck,
behind portion of the belly and behind the neck. And then chanting the
name,"Vasudeva" he has to apply it on his head. Vanaprastha and
Brahmachari should apply chanting either Vishnu Gayathri or five names of
Lord Krishna in forehead, neck, chest and upper arms. The sanyasis called
Kuteethaka, Bahoodhaka and Hamsa should apply it with the second finger
on forehead, head and chest chanting "Om". The paramahamsa Sanyasi
should apply it only on his forehead.
4. Vishnu Smrithi:
Performing Yagna, Giving charity, doing meditation, doing Homa, Chanting of
Vedas and doing Tharpanam for the manes without applying Urdhwa
pundram is useless.
(Please note that in many families such marks cannot be worn while doing
Tharpana.)
Now the rules of Tripundra (Three lines using sacred ash)
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Using the ash generated by fire, chanting the five mantras called Sathyojatha
and also chanting the Manthra starting with "Agneerithi…"
Take the ash chanting "Manasthoke..." mix it with water and put three lines
each in forehead, chest and shoulders in the lateral fashion, and chant
mantras starting with "triyayusham...", "triyampadam..." etc. Wearing sacred
ash like this is called Sambhavee vrutha and is very dear to Lord Shiva,
So any one desiring salvation, should definitely wear the sacred ash. Those
Brahmachari, learned man, householder, Vanaprastha and Sanyasi who wear
tripundra would get rid of all their sins. They would have prayed all Gods by
doing this. They would have been deemed to have taken bath in all sacred
waters. He who applies the sacred ash, will get all types of wealth. He would
enjoy all types of pleasures. He would be considered equal to the one who
has chanted all mantras of the Vedas. After death, he would not take birth in
this world again. He would attain salvation. This is told by Kalagni Rudra.
5. Smrithi:
Chanting the triyayusha mantra, you have to apply sacred ash in the
forehead, two arms, belly, head and chest as well on both sides of the body.
For applying this Sacred ash should be made in to a paste with water. This
should definitely be done by all Brahmins knowing Vedas.
6. Kathyayana:
We should wear sacred ash in Sradha, Yagna, meditation, Homa,
Vaiswadeva and worship of Gods. Any ritual done without applying sacred
ash is useless. (In many families wearing sacred ash is forbidden while doing
Sradha.)
7. Mahabharatha:
All people desirous of long life, wealth and salvation should definitely wear
sacred ash. This should be worn regardless of the Varna we belong to.
Whether to wear Tripundra or Urdhwa pundra depends on the practices of
our clan. We should not change it.
8. Smrithi Sangraha:
Tripundra should be worn laterally using sacred ash. Urdhwa pundra should
be worn using Gopichandana in a vertical fashion. You should not change
this. But sandal paste can be worn vertically or laterally. We should never
wear it in a circular fashion. We should not wear ordinary ash or charcoal. We
can wear Kumkum, if it is given as Prasada.
9. Vyasa:
We should do all rituals wearing either Urdhwa Pundra or Tripundra. We
should never do them with an empty forehead.
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indicates a period of time in a day, the worship done during that period is
called Sandhya Vandana.
3. Yoga Yagnavalkya:
During Sandhya, we have to worship the Goddess of Sandhya. We should
not do Sandhya Vandana in the evening after Sun has set. Similarly we
should not do it after Sun rise. Lords Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva worship
Sandhya at the proper time. So a Brahmin should also definitely do it.
4. Samvartha:
Learned people are of the opinion that Sandhya Vandana should be done
thrice in a day-at dawn, noon and dusk.
6. Shankha:
The dawn worship should be done when stars are still there, the noon
worship after the noon bath and the dusk worship when Sun is still there.
7. Vyasa:
Any Brahmin who does all other Dharmas except Sandhya Vandana
undergoes untold sufferings.
He who because of the lack of wisdom, engages in only matters other than
Sandhya Vandana should be banished from rituals by Vedic Pundits.
8. Yama:
He who observes Sandhya steadfastly, gets rid of all is sins and attains the
world of Brahma.
A Brahmin who commits sin by body, mind and word during the day, if he
performs the Sandhya Vandana at dusk with devotion, gets rid of all sins.
A Brahmin who commits sin by body, mind and word during the night if he
performs the Sandhya Vandana at dawn with devotion, gets rid of all sins.
Some elders are of the opinion that Argya (water offering), Sandhya Dhyana
(meditation), Gayathri japa and Upasthana are the four important aspects of
Sandhya Vandana. This is a confirmed truth. Other things like Prokshana are
only branches.
Forty eight minutes before Sun rise is the most important time for Sandhya
Vandana. One hour and 24 minutes after Sun rise is the Gowna (average
time?) time for Sandhya Vandana. After that you are not supposed to do
Sandhya Vandana
In the Gowna time above you can do Sandhya Vandana, only if there is revolt
in the country, if water is scarce, if you are ill and if you are in danger Like
that Sandhya Vandana can be performed in Gowna time during noon as well
as dusk.
9. Athri:
A man who is healthy and is not ill should do Sandhya Vandana at the proper
time. If he does not do it, he is a great sinner who troubles the Sun God.
10. Brahma:
Sandhya Vandhana performed in falling water is faulty. The Pithrus and Gods
will not appreciate it.
11. Vyasa:
After wearing the sacred thread and tying the hair properly and after doing
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Achamana twice, the Sandhya Vandana should be performed with great
attention
You have take water in the cup made by both hands, and chanting Gayathri,
face the Sun and offer Arghya (Water oblation) three times
12. Samgraha:
You have to take water in the cup made of both hands and lift it to the height
of a cow's horn and then pour it.
Arghya should be done in water. If water is not available, you can clean a
place and offer Argya there.
Arghya should be given standing in the dawn and at noon and should be
given sitting at dusk.
13. Bharadwaja:
After giving Arghya, you have to give Prayachitha Arghya (Arghya of
redemption), perform Achamana, do Athma Pradakshina with water (Throw
water around your head in a circular fashion), stand near a Durba grass in a
clean place, wear Durba and meditate on the soul. Then we have to
Tharpana to the nine planets and the twelve devathas starting with Kesava.
14. Shankha:
The specification of the place where Japa (meditation) is to be done is
described. If you get one effect for doing Japa at home, if you do it by the
bank of the river you get two times, in the cattle shed 10 times, before homa
fire one hundred times, In great temples and sacred waters and before God
thousand times of one hundred crore times.
15. Brahaspathi:
You should assume a comfortable seat and posture, control all your senses,
recall the name of sage, Chandas (meter) and Devatha (God to whom it is
addressed) and do Pranayama understanding its import silently.
16. Smruthi:
You have to do Gayathri Japa after chanting ten times Gayathri with the
seven Vyahruthis, You have to do Gayatri Japa after doing Pranayama ten
times, during dawn, noon and dusk.
17. Yama:
Brahma put all the Vedas in one part of the scale and Gayatri Manthra in the
other part of the scale. Both were at par. That is Gayathri is equivalent to all
the four Vedas together..
18. Manu:
In the morning Gayathri Japa should be done standing till the Sun rises, In
the evening it should be done sitting till the stars rise.
19. Samvartha:
Daily the house holder and Brahma Chari should chant Gayatri 108 times
during each Sandhya Vandana. Vana prastha and Kuteesika Sanyasi should
chant 1008 times.
Gayathri should be chanted within the mind. Chanting with the movement of
the face, toungue and other body parts without it being heard by others is
considered Madhyama (medium) and chanting it with other people hearing is
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Adhama (bad)
20. Rathnavalya:
Gayathri should be counted using phalnges of the fingers. This is done
because Gayathri is the mother of the Vedas. This rule is not applicable to
other Japas.
21. Pithamaha:
After chanting Gayathri till sun rise, you have to complete it by chanting the
mantra starting with "Uthame Shikare Devi"
22. Vyasa:
Then you have to pray Sun god using the chants of the three Vedas in a
standing posture (upasthana). Similar Upasthana should be done all the three
times.
23. Bharadwaja:
After doing Upasthana, you have to salute the four devathas starting with
Sandhya. The four devathas are Sandhya, Savithri, Gayathri and Saraswathi.
24. Then you have to salute east, south, west, north, up, down, environment
and earth chanting the names of these directions/Gods in a perambulating
way. Then you have to do Upasthana of Yama, Vishnu, Virupaksha and
Savitha chanting the proper mantras and facing the proper directions.
Sandhya Vandana should be done as per the customs of the family and then
the entire act should be dedicated to God.
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Chanting the thirteen letter chant "Sri Rama Jaya Rama, jaya jaya Rama"
twenty one times, you can get rid of crores of the Brahma hathya sin.
7. Bhrugu:
Even if crores of dangers which give fear toi man comes, if he chants "Rama
Rama", those dangers will vanish,
8. Narada:
The Kali Purusha will not spoil the man who sings the six names of Shiva viz.
Shiva, Shankara, Rudhra, Eesa, Neelakanda and Trilochana. Those people
are blessed who chant the Shiva's names "Mahadeva, Viroopaksha,
Gangadhara, Mruda and Avyaya"
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XXIII. Homa Vidhaana (Rules of fire sacrifice)
1. Pulasthya:
All Vedic acts should be begun after bath, Sandhya Vandana, and sprinkling
of all materials for Homa as well as for other things in the house by water
brought after bath.
2. Haaritha:
Brahmin should do Sandhya Vandhana properly, then do Surya Namaskara
(salutations to Sun) and should do Homa both in the morning and evening in
the fire started on the day of marriage.
3. Aapasthambha:
In the stalipaaka done in fire, two hand full of rice, two hand full of barley
should be offered to the fire. Some people are of the opinion that the first
offering in the morning should be to the Sun God. Before and after the
offering to the fire Parishechana (sprinkling water all round the fire telling
mantras) should be done. In the place where we intend to keep the fire, two
sets of three lines, one ending in the east and another ending in the west
should be drawn, water should be sprinkled on the place and the fire kept
over it. The water remaining after sprinkling should be emptied either in the
east or north and new water taken.
4. Vishnu:
The householder should use the Oupasanagni lit on the day of marriage for
performing acts like Sthalipakam and Sradham. The Vedic sacrifices should
be done in Trethagni and all public rituals should be done in the normal fire
and not in Oupasanagni of an individual. If we are not able to observe Vedic
rituals then the rituals of Smarthas should be done. Otherwise it is enough if
we do bath, Sandhya Vandana, Meditation and worship.
5. Smruthyartha Sara:
In the Homa performed in the Oupasana fire, the head of the family is the
chief performer. Suppose due to some reasons he is not able to do it, then his
wife or, daughter, priest, disciple, teacher, brother, nephew or son in law can
do Homa instead of him. If the wife and daughter happen to do it, then they
should not do parishechana (sprinkling water all round fire) but only Homa.
6. Garga:
A married householder should be with fire;iIf he does not have it, he is termed
as debased or sinner.
7. Vyasa:
The food offered by householder who does not have Oupasana fire, will not
be eaten by wise people. He would be called Vithaapakan (He who cooks
without reason).
8. Kathyayana:
If we do not perform Oupasana for one year, then he should give in charity 6o
measures of rice and three measures of ghee and restart the Oupasana fire.
9. Shaatchayanee:
All the intended material for Homa, when you do not perform it for a long
period should be given in charity to a Brahmin and then the fire lit again.
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10. Bruhaspathi:
Homa should not be stopped because of untouchability due to birth as well as
death, weakness, eating of meals in the Sradha or going out of town. The
Homa should be got done by others.
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Paridhi twice that.
The names of trees which should not be used as fuel are listed. Kovidha Ravi
(Malai Agathi), Bheethaka (Thanee), Kapitha (Vilaa), Aamalaka (gooseberry),
Raja Vruksha (Konnai), Shakadhruma (palai), Neepa (kadambu), Nimbha
(neem tree), Karanja (Pongamia-punugu), Thilaka (mullilavu silk cotton),
Shalmali (naruvili), Sleshma should not be used for Homa. Using dried sticks
of Thulasi (Ocimum) would give great strength to us.
2. Aapasthmbha:
The sticks which are offered in the fire should be sprinkled with water
(prokshana) before putting them in the fire.
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(English equivalent not known). One measure (Padi) of grain is sufficient for
64 offerings. In case of gingelly half measure and in case of Ghee quarter
measure is sufficient.
5. Bhodhayana:
100 numbers of paddy or barley is one offering. In case of cooked rice, it is
double the quantity, which would be same size as egg of a pea hen. The
equivalent of a hen's egg is called Pinda. Avadhana is equal to the size of
one phalange of thumb and Swishtakruth is bigger than that and is equal to
four phalanges of the thumb. Oupasana Homa has to be done by the tip of
the fingers; It is written that it should be done by the northern side of the
fingers. With the open palm, holding the offering (havis) by the folded thumb
and the four fingers, Homa should be done silently. Smrithi says that fire
should not me made to burn by use of cloth, leaf, hand, chaff, mouth, stick
and fan. It should be made to burn by a pipe, grass and stick by blowing by
the mouth, You should also blow directly by the mouth,. It is told that the fire
should be made to burn by the face. Homa should be done in the fire raised
by dried sticks, which does not have smoke and where the fire is of small
size.
6. Aapasthambha:
The embers of the fire join with the thin ashes giving out blue flame.
Performing Homa at such a time is equivalent to Performing Homa to the
Brahmam. The fire sacrifice should be done according to the Grihya Suthras
applicable to our family.
7. Vyasa:
If you talk when you are taking bath, Varuna will steal your beauty. If you talk
while doing Homa, Agni will steal your wealth. If you talk while eating you
would be attacked by God of death. So these three actions should be
performed silently.
8. Aapasthamba:
The oupasanagni (oupasana fire) should always kept alive. If the fire gets out
due to some reason, it can be started again by churning wood or borrowing
fire from the fire in the home of a householder.
Even if fire is alive, if Homa is not done for 4 days, it becomes ordinary fire.
9. Sounaka:
If the fire goes out or if Homa is not performed twice or if the couple goes out
of the home together, the fire becomes ordinary fire. That is, it is not suitable
for Homa.
10. Bharadwaja:
If the oupasana fire becomes ordinary fire, for 12 days we can do Homa after
redemptive fire offering. But after 12 days, the fire has to be relit.
11. Bhodhayana:
If the oupasana fire is put out, for three days we should do Homa chanting the
Rik "Ayase Agnaye", then for six days chanting the Rik "Thanthumathi" and
from 7th to 12th day by chanting the Rik "Manojjyothi". After that only it
becomes the sacred fire. But in several clans this procedure is not followed.
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You have to do it according to the practice of the family. If the oupasana fire
goes out it can be lit in wooden sticks, in oneself and in sticks of the banyan
tree (samith). The self raising of fire should be done by oneself. The other two
can be got done by Rithviks (Vedic Pundits)
12. Angeeras:
The benefit (punya) of maintaining Oupasana fire is equal to giving away the
entire world as well as the Golden mountain of Meru in charity.
13. Manu:
The Homa done in fire reaches the Sun God. From Sun we get rain. From
rain the earth produces food. And people are happy because of that. So the
man who does Homa religiously is taking care of this world.
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7. Samgruhe:
In Brahma Yagna, after meditating on Lord Vishnu, Purusha Suktha has to be
chanted. This would give the benefit of reading Vedas with all its branches.
Those rituals which are to be performed in the day time can be performed till
the end of the First Yama at night. But In case of Brahma Yagna and Soorya
Namaskara, it should be performed only in day time.
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act. We would reach good worlds after our death by protecting them.
The only man who is alive is the one on whom his relations depend and live.
The other one who earns money for himself is like a dead man.
2. Shankha:
The morning Sandhya Vandana should be done when stars are still there in
the sky. Five hours after this, after taking the noon bath, Madhyahneekam
(noon prayer) should be observed. The evening Sandhya vandana should be
done when half the sun has set. The water offering (argya) should be done
once during Madhyahneekam, then after Dhyana and Gayathri Japa, the
Tharpana for Devas, Rishis and manes should be done.
3. Vyasa:
If Brahma Yagna is not done in the morning it should be done after
Madhyahneeka. Then the Tharpanam should be done for satisfying Devas,
Rishis and manes. For Tharpana for rishis and devas water with akshatha
(rice) should be used. But in case of manes water mixed with Gingelly should
be used. In case of Tharpana for devas, the sacred thread should be worn
over the left shoulder (upaveethi), for Tharpana addressed to Rishis, the
sacred thread should be worn as Garland and in the case for manes the
sacred thread should be on right shoulder (Pracheena Vidhi) The Tharpana
should be done once for Devas, twice for Rishis and three times for manes.
4. Haritha:
The man who knows shastras should wear dry clothes, sit on dry Dhurba
grass and do Tharpanam. Tharpana should never be done in to another
vessel. The Tharpana with Gingelly should be done only outside the house.
The weak person can do it within the home. He can offer water offerings in to
another vessel. But he should not use earthern vessel. In times when we are
barred from doing Tharpana it can be done using water mixed with rice.
Devas and Pithrus like the water offerings. So if the sons do not do Tharpana,
they will go back disappointed and we would be subject to their curse.
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Parameshwara or Lord Brahma using Vedic mantras. You can also worship
all of them or more than one of them.
5. Sangraha:
The householder who performs the Pancha Maha Yagna (five great
sacrifices) should specially worship Sun or Ambika or Vishnu or Ganapathi or
Maheswara.
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Lord Krishna. Kadamba, Vakula, Sugandhi (Makizham poo) and Kalhara
(chenkazhuneer) are dear to the God. If you worship with these flowers you
would shine well in Vaikunta.
5. Moudgalya:
Even if you worship Lord Krishna once with Bilwa leaves, you would reach
near him and be without any sorrow. He who worships Lord Krishna with
sweet smelling Thulasi (Ocimum sanctum) leaves and completely covers the
idol, he would attain all comforts.
6. Samvartha:
He who lights a lamp in the temple, in the house of a Brahmin or in the street
junction would become wise and get very good eye sight. Cooked rice, sugar
mixed with ghee, payasa made of wheat, cooked rice mixed with milk or
ghee, curd, milk honey, fruits, edible roots, vegetables and modhakas should
be offered to the God. Offering cooked rice in milk (havis) all the three times
is very good. Offering it twice is moderate and offering it only once is Adhama
(bad). Afterwards we have to offer Thamboola (betel leaf), worship with lamp,
Manthra pushpam, Pradhakshina (perambulations) and Namaskara (saluting)
and drink the theertha (water offering to God).
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leads to good effects.
After the bath, make the God wear sweet scented cloth with zari border, It
should be new and should not have human hair in it. He who worships Lord
Shiva with sacred thread, sandal paste, ornaments and flowers shines in the
world of Shiva. Lord Shiva should be worshipped by forest flowers, Bilwa
leaves and flowers from or own garden. Pandanus flower (thazham poo) is
not suitable for worship of Lord Shiva. Offering Bilwa leaves with chanting of
Panchakshara (Om Nama Shivaya) would take you to the presence of Lord
Shiva. Afterwards he should be worshipped with incense, light and later
should be given the food offering (Naivedyam). He would live in the heaven
for as many thousands of Yugas as the number of rice in the Naivedyam. He
who prepares Naivedyam with Jaggery, Ghee and also offers foods prepared
in ghee, would get benefit more than giving very costly things as alms. After
this Thamboola (betel leaf) should be offered and Dheepa Aradhanai
(worship with lamp) done. Then Pradakshina (perambulations), Namaskara
(offering of salute), Stotra (reciting of prayers) narthana (offering of dance) etc
should be done
5. Parasara:
The thought that Guru (teacher) is after all a man, Linga is after all a stone
and manthras are after all sound should never occur. If it occurs it would be a
great sin.
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(dried sticks) chanting the eight mantras starting with "Deva kruthasya".
Because of this they get rid of their sins.
6. Aapasthamba:
In the Oupasana fire or the fire used for cooking Annam (cooked rice) should
be taken by hand and offered to the fire six times chanting
i. Agnaye swaha
ii. Somaya swaha
iii. Viswebhyo devebhyo swaha
iv. Druvaya bhoomaya swaha.
v. Druvakshithaye swaha and
vi. Achyuthakshithaye swaha.
Afterwards once more chanting Swishtakruthaye swaha.
7. Gowathama:
People who follow Sama Veda should do five Homas in the fire used for
cooking for Agni, Dhanvanthari, Viswadeva, Prajapathi and Swishtakruth.
8. Kathyayana:
We have to do five homas for Brahma, Prajapathi, Gruhya, Kasyapa and
Anumathi along with chanting of Swaha.
Vaiswadeva sacrifice should be performed according to the rules laid for our
branch-nothing more and nothing less, thus says Veda Vyasa.
If the flames do not come in the Homa fire, Vaiswadeva should not be
performed. If it is done otherwise, Manu tells that the eye sight of the
performer will be affected.
9. Vyasa:
The Havis (cooked rice) should be mixed with ghee or it could be either mixed
with curd or milk. If these are not available even water can be mixed. Oil or
other pungent articles should never be mixed. If you are dong Homa with
cooked vegetables,, some people do it at the northern side.
10. Chathur vimsathi pratha:
If Havis in the form of rice is not available, fruits, vegetables, water, milk, curd
and ghee can be used to do Vaiswa deva sacrifice. While the solids should
be taken by hands the liquids should be taken by spoons made of leaves, but
if water is being used, then the Homa should only be performed in water.
11. Aapasthamba:
The people who prepare rice for Vaiswadeva sacrifice should be neat and
respected. Women can cook for Vaiswadeva.
12. Chandrika:
The Baliharana should be performed at the top side of the fire. The procedure
should be as per the practice of our branch.
13. Yagnavalkya:
Bhootha bali dhana should be performed by rice remaining after the homa for
devas. Bali harana is meant for all beings. For the dog, debased human
beings and crow, the bali harana should be kept on the floor. At last the
vessel holding the rice should be washed and the water poured in the north
eastern corner.
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14. Vyasa:
Daily Vaiswadeva has to be performed. This is Devi Yagna. With rice
remaining after the Homa we have to do Bali Harana. This is a Bhootha
Yagna. This causes good to all beings. Performing Bali with manes (Pithrus)
in mind or feeding a Brahmin for pleasing The Pithrus is Pithru Yagna. So
there are three yagnas in Vaiswa deva, Since Manushya Yagna and Brahma
Yagna are also performed during the Bali, it is really Pancha Maha Yagna
(Five great sacrifices). A Brahmin should begin the ritual of Vaiswadeva
during day time. This is considered to improve our soul as well as our food.
For a family which is not divided al these need to be performed only as a
family unit and not individually. But once the assets are divided, the brothers
have to perform all rituals individually and separately. Even on the Sradha
day after worshipping the Brahmins, Vaiswadeva has to be performed after
the Sradha ceremony, with separately cooked rice.
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6. Haaritha:
Daily after worshipping Lord Vishnu, we should give alms to the Sanyasis.
We should give alms to Brahmacharis also. We should think the Sanyasi as
Lord Vishnu. The shastras say that the house where a Sanyasi takes his
food, Lord Vishnu takes his food. If Lord Vishnu takes food, please
understand that all the three worlds take their food.
7. Vyasa:
He who gives a full vessel alms to a Yati (Sanyasi), gets rid of all sins
committed by him. He would never become poor. He who gives Gold to
Sanyasi, uncooked rice to a Brahmachari and cooked rice to a householder
will suffer.
8. Parasara:
The guest who comes after Vaisva deva should be welcomed with good
words and then worshipped. He should then be given a seat and his feet
washed. Later food should be served with sweet and polite words, When he
goes back, we should follow him for little distance, You should never enquire
from a guest about his learning, clan or Gothra,. We should think that the
guest is our God. All Shastras consider guests as God like.
9. Manu:
People with less means should not neglect the guest. If you do not have seat,
you can request him to sit on Dhurba grass. If we do not have bed, he can be
requested to sleep on the floor. If we do not have oil, water can be given
instead. If we do not have food, sweet words can be talked to him.
In the house where a guest feels "Why did I come here?", the Pithrus
(manes) would not partake the food offered to them for the next 15 years. The
man who disregards guests, would not get rid of his sin even if offers 1000
bundles of holy sticks and 100 pots of Ghee in the Homa fire.
10. Vyasa:
He who with devotion takes care of the guest, who comes dead tired because
of the travel and is a stranger to him, gets the benefit of giving away 100
cows which are as big as an elephant.
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have to sit on a seat facing east to take our meals. Meals should be taken
only after doing Aachamana. If you happen to take food without doing
Aachamana, then redemption should be done. That is we have to chant
Gayathri Manthra 1008 times.
5. Aathreya:
In a clean place, after applying cow dung in a figure with four corners (called
Mandala), we have to make a design to keep the plate or leaf. You have to
eat keeping the plate or leaf on that design.
6. Sankha:
The Adithyas, Vasus, Rudras, Brahma and manes depend on the Mandala.
So you have to take food after making Mandala,
7. Athri:
A Brahmin should sit on a seat keeping his feet on earth. One who sits like
that and eats in silence gets the same effect of not taking food for three days.
A Brahmin who keeps his legs on a seat, and puffs air by mouth on the food
to cool it down, gets the sin of eating the meat of a cow.
8. Manu:
He who eats facing east gets long life. He who eats facing south gets fame.
He who eats facing west gets wealth. He who desires truth should face north
while eating. He who has his Pithrus (manes) alive should not face the south
while eating. Facing north, while eating is dear to the manes. You should not
eat food wearing a turban or with slippers. This would be classified as
Aasuram (demonic).
9. Apasthamba:
A Brahmin should wear Pavithram in his right hand while eating food. The
man who eats with pavithram will not be affected by bad effects of food. A
pavithram made of gold is much better; It could be made of Durbha grass
also.
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3. Smrithi Chinthamani:
A householder can take food in a clean brass vessel with weight less than 20
palas. He can take food of any quantity in plates weighing above 20 Palas.
4. Vyasa:
If we take food in our hand, cloth, steel vessel, copper vessel or leaves of
Banyan, Peepal or Vata (Yerukku in Tamil) leaf he has to observe
Chandrayana.
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addressed to Surya, Soma, Agni, Vayu and Parjanya,. This was got from a
dilapidated palm leaf and is not being practiced presently.
9. Athri:
Drinking water, Payasa or Aapochana with sound is equivalent to drinking
alcohol.
10. Vyasa:
Silence means not talking. We should not talk in any language including
Sanskrit. We can sing or meditate on Lord Vishnu but not any other Gods.
The words of Apasthamba are that we should not chant God's name when we
are unclean. When we are eating we are Uchishta (half eating) and so we
should not think of any other Gods. When we are eating every hand full of
rice we have to say Govinda, Govinda. There need not be any doubt, whether
we can chant it when we are unclean. For Lord Vishnu is greatly pure. A
householder need not remain silent during entire meals but only till he
completes the Pranahuthi. But we should talk according to Dharma and
should not talk anything which leads to stoppage of taking food.
11. Shandilya:
Householders need not observe silence during meals. They should do
upachara (pleasant words requesting to eat more) for those who are taking
food with them.
12. Markandeya:
With concentration first we have to eat a sweet dish. Salty and sour food
should be taken in the middle and bitter and Thuvarpu (Tamil word) things
afterwards. You have to first take fluids, in the middle hard things and in the
end liquids. A man who takes food like this would be healthy and strong.
13. Aapasthambha:
Sanyasi should take eight hand full of food, Vanaprastha sixteen handful of
food and householder 32 hand full of food. There is no limit to Brahmachari.
14. Bhodhayana:
You have to do Uthrapochanam (taking small quantity of water after meals),
chanting "Brhamani mama Amruthathwaya". This indicates we are joining the
soul to the body; He who does this is greater than one who performs all
rituals.
15. Parasara:
The food taken by one wearing a turban, or eaten facing the south or keeping
his hand to the left side or eaten standing is eaten by Asuras.
16. Vyasa:
He who eats food keeping it in his own hand or eats with great sound or eats
with spread fingers is eating food similar to beef. You should not take food
sitting on elephant, horses, Chariot, vehicle and camel. You should not eat
food in the middle of a cremation ground, temple or in bed. We should not
take food which is kept in hand or is on the seat. You should not eat with wet
cloths, wet head and without sacred thread. You should not take food with
stretched legs, or keeping on hand on the thigh or keeping hands on the leg
or sitting on a cot.
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You should not take food with head covered with a cloth or keeping food on
our lap or wearing only one cloth or wearing slippers and sandals or sitting on
an animal hide or sitting on a seat covered with leather. Suppose we take one
handful of rice and eat half of it, the other half should not be taken. You
should not drink water that is left out in the vessel. We should not eat
vegetables and fruits cutting them with teeth. When we are taking food in a
company you should not eat faster than others but adjust your speed of
eating. You should not waste rice. When we are in the process of eating, we
should not go anywhere. If we happen to eat food which is fallen in the
ground, we have to observe Chandrayana.
17. Manu:
We should not eat food along with our wife. We should not see our wife while
she is eating. We should not see her while she is sneezing or yawning or
when she is sitting listlessly.
18. Athri:
If Ghee is not added to the Pranahuthi, it should not be added later. But if it
was added before Pranahuthi, it can be again added later.
19. Yama:
When a company of people are taking food together if for reason of love or
fear or due to financial status, food is served differently to people by an
individual, then he will be subject to Brahma Hathi dosha (Sin of killing a
Brahmin)
20. Gomila:
If when people are taking food together, even if one man leaves off touching
the food and gets up, all others should stop eating and get up.
21. Parasara:
When people are eating together the sin committed even by one sinner is
transferred to every one. There is no sin committed in splitting the group in to
more than one.
People say that a company of people taking food can be split by fire, ash,
pillar, water, door and way.
22. Smrithi Rathna:
We should not eat on the bed. We should not eat food keeping it on hand or
on a seat. You should not blow our nose while eating. We should not angry or
shout or turn attention some where else or chide children or see dog or
Chandala while eating. We should not ea in the middle of dirty people or eat
when others who are not eating food are seeing us or at unseemly time or the
food mixed with poison. We should not take food without performing
Vaiswadeva. If some body spits on our plate or half eaten food of others fall
on our plate, then the food in our plate should be thrown out, the area
cleaned with cow dung, and then we can take food in another plate after
doing Parishechanam again. There is no sin in doing like this. When
Brahmins are taking food together, if one Brahmin touches another, then that
food should be thrown out. If we do not do it, later we have to chant Gayathri
108 times. If we become thirsty while taking food, we can drink water with the
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left hand. But at that time we should touch our leaf or plate with right hand. If
we do like this that water is equivalent to nectar. If we do not touch the plate
with right hand, then the water is equivalent to blood.
23. Yama:
Cooked rice and other vegetables are to be served only by ladles. But fried
food and fruits can be served with hand.
24. Vyasa:
When we are eating or worshipping God or carrying out good functions or
meditating or doing Homa or in the middle of a crowd, then we should not
blow our nose nor spit from the mouth.
25. Pulasthya:
A wise man should not take food without leaving a little bit. He should keep
remains of every food that he eats. But Curd, flour, Ghee, fruits or milk should
be completely eaten.
26. Parasara:
If we find that the food that is affected with worms, fly or hair, they should be
removed, water sprinkled on them and ash sprinkled over it and then the food
can be taken.
XXXVIII. Bhakshya Abhakshya Viveka (Food those can be eaten and those
which cannot be eaten)
1. Manu:
A Brahmin is killed by the God of death due to his not learning Veda, not
practicing rituals, laziness and due to sin in eating.
2. Apararka:
Some food belong to bad species, some have bad effects, some become bad
over time, some become bad due to company, doubtful food and some have
bad character,. These types of food should not be eaten. Garlic, Drum Stick,
onion, mushrooms, brinjal, stem of lotus and Bottle gourd belong to bad
species. Just because a food is seen by a debased human being it does not
become bad. All food in which ghee or oil is not added, get spoiled over time.
Cooked rice also becomes bad over time. Curd, Fried food and honey do not
get spoiled over time. Food in which toddy or garlic is added and food in
which the first ten days milk of a cow is added are bad food. They should not
be eaten. Those food which are doubtful, should not be eaten. The cow's milk
of the first ten days has a bad character.
3. Parasara:
Milk of the first ten days, white garlic, white brinjal, Grunjanam (?), onion, gum
of a tree, property of a temple, mushroom, milk of a camel, and goats milk
should not be eaten or drunk. If taken without knowledge, we have to starve
for three days and on the fourth day take Panchagavyam.
If White Garlic or white Brinjal is eaten, we have to starve for three days and
take Panchagavya on the fourth day. But if we eat black Brinjal or red onion,
we have to only starve.
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4. Devala:
Even though it is resin, we can eat Asofotida and incense in our food. A man
who eats Coccinea, Kalinga (?), lotus stem and Iluppai Poo (?) would not
think of Lord Vishnu when he is about to die.
5. Sumanthu:
Garlic, Onion and Grunjana are different forms of onion. If you eat them you
have to Chant Gayatri Mantra 1008 times. If again done, this should increase.
Any savory or rice to which ghee or oil is added can be eaten, even if it
becomes olds. Similary the remnant of the Havis can be eaten, even if it is
old.
5. Manu:
Any food which has become sour over time should not be eaten by a
Brahmin. But if it is washed with water, it can be eaten. This is told in cases
when no other food is available. But the sourness will not make curd unfit. We
can drink the milk of cow, goat and Buffalo. If you happen to drink the milk of
any other animal you have to starve. To the man who eats Gooseberry fruit at
night, fame, wisdom and passion will reduce. So Gooseberry should not be
taken at night. Fried grain should not be eaten in the day time. In the night
curd, Paddy, fried flour and food prepared by Gingelly should not be eaten.
Sour food, Ginger, curd, gruel, gingelly and Saaka (?), should not be eaten at
night. If he eats, then he would get the sin of making love to women in
periods and his form, words and wealth would be affected.
Tender coconut water and Sugarcane juice which is kept in a bronze vessel
should not be drunk. Milk and curd kept in a copper vessel should not be
consumed. Milk or ghee in which salt is added should not be consumed,
because they are equal to toddy. You should not put salt when others are
seeing but it can be added by adding it with some other food. If Agasi leaf
(Agathi keerai), Thulasi (ocimum), Gooseberry and Chundakay (A species of
brinjal) are in the stomach of a person, Lord Vishnu is near him. He who eats
Savories, food and Chutneys after touching them and chanting "Om Namo
Narayanaya" would reach heaven. If you happen to eat the food given by
Sanyasi, or which is in the vessel of a saint or which is sent by a saint, then
you have do Chandrayana.
People eating the food of a proud man, a foolish one, man without character,
man with a crooked mind or man who does not bother about anything, gets
Sin of Brahma Hathya (killing of a Brahmin). So we should not accept food
from such people. People who do not wear sacred thread, blind man, sinner,
man who has not learned Vedas, man who sells virgins, poor man, fool, man
who insults a Sanyasi, man who performs rituals to those who do not have
right to perform, Man who does not have respect, man who tills the ground,
Man who does bad acts towards Gods, Man who finds fault with Vedas, Man
who wears iron ornaments belonging to Gods and man who sells Soma latha
are debased people, So their food should not be eaten.
6. Bharadwaja:
If you eat food from,a Man who does not do rituals and man who does
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banned acts, then you have to observe fast for one day.
7. Parasara:
If you eat food from one who follows all rituals and one who has learned
Vedas, then the sin committed by us during one day is removed.
8. Sathathapa:
You should not eat food from a householder who does not do Homa in
Oupasana fire. He is a sinner,
9. Vishnu
Six Pranayamas is the redemption for eating meals in Sradha. One who eats
food in Sradha, should chant Gayathri and drink water 10 times before doing
evening Sandhyavadana.
10. Vyasa:
In case of solar eclipse food should not be taken within four yamas of the
start of eclipse. In case of lunar eclipse, it is three yamas. This rule is not
applicable to children, old people and patients.
In the day before a lunar eclipse we should not take food. In case of Solar
eclipse, we should not take food in the previous night. If a Brahmin due to
ignorance takes food in a place where he should not take food, he should
observe Kruchram (?) for one year.
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4. Sankha:
While learning Vedas, Puranas and Shastras, we should meditate on Lord
Vishnu in the physical form as well the spiritual form. We should never sleep
in the afternoon. We should not make love with a woman in the day time. By
such sleep your life span would be reduced. Making love in the morning
destroys the effect of good deeds done by you. We should not unnecessarily
talk and never talk bad about others. You should offer good betel leaf, good
betel nut and lime to other Brahmins and also take it yourself. This has to be
done after meals. Taking Thamboola always would cause bad effects on the
body. Also life span, wisdom, strength, alacrity and power of passion would
be reduced. Also the toungue will become insensitive to the taste of food.
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8. Manu:
The householder should make love to his wife in the period when she will
conceive. (Ruthu Kala). If he has desire to make love other than this time, it
can be done during all time except during her periods.
9. Bhodhayana:
We can make love to our wife in the later part of the night also. When we are
sleeping we should think of Agasthya, Madhava, Muchukunda, Kapila and
Astheeka who are the great sages who sleep well. We should wash our feet
dry it, do Aachamana twice, think of Lord Vishnu and then sleep,
10. Vyasa:
These rules of procedure and rituals should be performed daily. This would
lead to all good things in the world. He who does not observe these rules due
to non belief or due to laziness will be born as a crow in the next life and also
would suffer in many types of hell. For getting a pleasant life, no special
Dharma other than these Varnashrama Dharmas have been mentioned in the
Sastras. So for pleasing God these rules of life should be observed without
fail. This is what has been told in the Sastras.
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different types. Since this knowledge was with the elder generations, slowly
this knowledge is disappearing. This chapter deals in detail about the type
and period of the taint as well as its applicability to different relations and clan
members.)
III. Asouche Thyaja Karmaani (Rituals which should not be done during the
tainted period)
1. Manu:
Both in the case of death taint or birth taint, we should take food in the house
of people with Asoucha. The man with Asoucha should not do charity, Homa
and recitation of Veda during this period.
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During this 10 day period, worship of Gods should not be done. He should not
do rituals aimed at manes, give charity or do chanting of Mantras.
2. Kanwa:
If we do not get another Brahmin to do Agnihothra on our behalf, we can take
bath and perform the Agnihothra along with wet cloths, till we complete the
ritual we do not have any taint. Then only we get Asoucha.
3. Brahaspathi:
The Oupasana (Vedic maintenance of domestic fire) should not be
discontinued during birth and death taint, or when we are sick or when we go
to a foreign place or when we take food in the Sradha (worship of manes). It
should be got done by another Brahmin.
4. Kanva:
Body cleanliness, Aachamana, bath, rules for taking food, taking bath when
we touch things that should not be touched etc should be observed in the
Asoucha period also. When you get Asoucha, even the things that you
posses become tainted. When your Asoucha period is over, they
automatically become clean so you should not posses them during Asoucha
period. Even if we sprinkle water they do not become clean. Curd, milk, ghee,
vegetables, flowers, mustard, medicines, fire wood, tubers, fruits meat,
honey, water of the well, skin of deer, can be taken by others with permission
of the owner
5. Sangraha:
In times of danger, the rules of Asoucha do not apply.. So during the Asoucha
period, if we are sick or in any other danger, we can do all activities to get rid
of the danger.
6. Parasara:
The wealth given during war, Yagna, marriage, Sankramana (month
beginning), eclipse, during death and after birth of children would give rise to
pleasures. Even if these happen during night, charity can be given or taken.
During other times charity should not be given at night.
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when the country is being attacked also undergo Sadhya Asoucham only.
3. Brahaspathi:
For people who are Naishtika Brahmachari (who have not married at all),
Vana Prastha, Sanyasi and for Brahmachari there is no taint because of
death or birth.
4. Sangraha:
If Asoucha happens after the start of giving money to Brahmins, People who
are observing Sradha, People who are giving Dhana., Homa, Thapas and
Yaga, for them it is only Sadhya Asoucha. In case of taint due to death they
have to take bath but in case of taint due to birth, they need not take bath.
5. Smruthyartha sara:
The Yaga begins once we choose the Rithviks, do Vrutha and Sathrayaga.
The marriage ceremony begins with Nandi Sradha. The Sradha begins with
cooking of food or when we choose the Brahmins. In all these cases after the
beginning till it ends there is no Asoucha.
6. Bodhayana:
Once we chant Pranava and Vyahruthees and do Sankalpa for Veda
Parayana, we cannot stop the chanting in the middle. So till it ends there is no
Asoucha due to death or birth.
7. Smruthyantha:
If the marriage ceremony begins and if either of the parents die, then the
marriage ceremony including Sesha Homa should be completed and then
only we have to begin the rituals of death.
If after marriage and before Sesha Homa one of the couple dies then Sesha
Homa should be completed and then only cremation has to be done.
8. Shadtrisanmathi:
When Brahmins are taking food, if Asoucha comes to the man who does the
Kriya, then we should request our friends who do not have Asoucha t o serve
food and ask them to do Aachamana from water brought from other houses
and complete the ritual.
9. Vishnu Purana:
In case of Sradha which is seen by a women in periods or women who has
given birth to a baby (within the stipulated time) or Person with Asoucha or
Person who has carried a corpse, then neither the manes nor the Devas take
food.
10. Parasara:
In case of death because of falling from a mountain or due to fire or when
death occurs in some other country, death of a child or death of a Sanyasi,
there is only Sadhya Asoucha (only ritualistic bath).
11. Budha Vasishta:
During eclipse there is no Asoucha due to birth or death. It comes only after
the eclipse.
12. Samgraha:
In case of death of the son in law, for the father in law and the mother in law
or in case of death of sister's husband to the brother in law or in case of death
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of Yajaka for the Yajya or in case of death of disciple to the teacher or in case
of death of a student of a class to the son of the teacher or in case of death of
Yajaman (Kartha) to the rithvik, there is only Sadhya Asoucha.
13. Parasara:
In case of death due to failure of crops or death due to calamities, dangers,
pestilence, flood etc, the Gnathis (paternal clan members) will have only
Sadhya Asoucham. In case of death of an artist, carpenter, ironsmith,
doctors, servants and maids, barbers, kings, people who have learned Vedas
Sadhya Asoucham is prescribed.
14. Brahaspathi:
He who fights boldly and dies according to the Dharma of Kshatriyas (royals)
has a death which is similar to the end of a Yaga. In such a case there is only
Sadhya Asoucham.
15. Yagnavalkya:
In case of kings or those who die due to thunder o those who sacrifice their
life to save a Brahmin or cow or those who die in war and in case of the
favourite priest of the king only Sadhya Asoucha is prescribed.
V. Durmruthaanaam Samskara (Ceremonies for those who die badly)
1. Parasara:
Sadhya Asoucha is prescribed for death of a young boy or to the one who is
abroad, sinner and Sanyasi. It is also prescribed for those who commit
suicide using fire, hanging and jumping in water.
2. Samgraha:
Taint (Asoucham) is not there in case of the death of Eunuch or sinner or a
Sanyasi who later gave up Sanyasa or he who does not follow Dharma or a
man who wastes his life or prostitute or he who does not belong to any stage
of life or thief or the one who causes abortion or lady who kills her husband or
those who commit suicide. To these people death ceremonies are to be
performed without Mantra. Their family members do not have taint
(Asoucham). One year after their death, a ritual called Narayana Bali is to be
performed.
3. Vyasa:
For those, who die using a sinful means, after one year perform Narayana
Bali and start the after death ceremonies. After this there is a three day taint
(Asoucham). On the second day putting the bones in water, third day Udaka
Dana and fourth day Sradha has to be performed.
4. Angeras:
To the one who attains cruel death, Narayana Bali should be performed after
one year or after three months or six months and rituals have to be
performed. The after death rituals in this case are different. After one year
Narayana Bali has to be done after performing Prajapathya Kruchram,
Athikruchram, three Thaptha Kruchrams and Chaandrayanam. Since there is
no certainty of our life span, the rituals can be performed after 6 months but
with double of what has been told above. In case of three months, three times
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the above should be done. In case of three fortnights, it should be four times
and for immediate performance it should be five times. (Particulars of these
Kruchrams (mortifications) are given in last chapter)
VI. Garbhasthravadhi Nimithasoucham (Taint due to abortion)
1. Parasara:
In case of abortion, the mother has birth taint for number of days equal to the
number of months that the foetus was in her womb. An abortion occurring
within 4 months is called Sravam (Oozing) and that which occurs after 5 or 6
months is called patham (falling) and that which occurs after 7 months is
called Prasavam (delivery). After 7 months the mother has to observe birth
taint for ten days.
2. Dasaka:
For abortion within three months, the mother has birth taint for three days.
That which occurs after 4 months but before 6 months, it is number of days
equaling the number of months and in case of abortion after 7th month, a full
ten days birth taint has to be observed.
3. Sangraha:
If a girl baby is born, the girl babies brother, father, brother of father, his son,
grand father and grand father's brother have to observe 10 days taint.
In case of birth of a male child, all the members of the paternal clan will have
ten days birth taint. In case of female child, the parents, the grand father, their
father and brother as well as the brothers of the father only have to observe
the ten day birth taint. Other clan members need not observe.
There are two types of birth taint - One where nobody should touch us and
other where we are not eligible for rituals. Mother has full taint (no body
should touch her) but in case of father he can be touched after he takes bath,
but he is not eligible for doing rituals, which are not of personal nature. He
can do Oupasana, Vaiswadeva etc. In case of the members of the paternal
clan, the untouchability taint is never there.
In case of birth of a male child, the people of the paternal clan of the child do
not have untouchability taint. But they do not have the permission to do some
rituals. The father and mother have taint. Once the father takes bath after
hearing the child's birth, the father does not have untouchability taint. The
people of the clan, father and mother have equal untouchability taint. When
they take bath after 10 days, they get rid of the taint. But mother has taint till
the day she is allowed to touch the pots. Though father gets rid of the taint,
he does not have permission to do ritualistic acts till the taint goes away from
his wife. In the Kali Nishidha Prakarana, it is told that the taint should not be
reduced or removed depending on the leaning of a Brahmin. The
untouchability birth taint is for 10 days. In case of male birth, the father does
not have permission to do rituals for 20 days and it is 30 days in case of
female child. But these can be modified as per the clan customs.
4. Markandeya:
Six days after the birth of the child, the relations have to celebrate. This would
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bring happiness to the Goddess called Janmadha. The ladies should sing
during this occasion. The men should be armed and keep awake during night.
Similar festivities should be observed on the tenth day also. This protects the
child.
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Sanchayana after five years of age without Mantra. After six years of age till
the sacred thread ceremony, the Samskara should be done following garcha
tradition, and then Thiolodhaka, Pinda Dhana, Nava Sradha and Shodasa
sradha without Mantras. After the sacred thread ceremony, the cremation
should be done using the Pithru Medha tradition with chanting of Mantras and
the rituals carried out.
Within 8 years, the pashana Sthapana (consecration of stone) should be
done followed by Udhaka Pinda dhana but there is no sapindeekarana.
In case of the married boy, above seven years of age and unmarried boy
above 12 years of age, Sapindeekarana should certainly be done.
In case of unmarried girl, male child, and lads before marriage Pindodhaka
Kriyas should be done for three days. The death taint would be there for ten
days. The Pindodhaka Dhana should start from eighth day and completed
within ten days and Narayana Bali should be given on 12th day.
In case of male child: Unmarried girl, eunuch and the sinner Narayana Bali
should certainly be done. This should be done in case of Sanyasis also.
Udhaka Dana should be done after three years of age and Narayana Bali
should be done after four years of age.
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the clan members will have ten day taint.
2. Manu:
When a death occurs after age 8, the clan members will have ten day taint.
In case of death taint Sapindas (clan members up to seven generation) will
have ten day taint. But Samnodhakas (Clan members beyond 7 generations)
will have only three day taint. Their brother's however will get rid of the taint
by a mere bath.
3. Parasara:
For a Brahmin who observes Agnihothram, Chants Vedas and observes all
aacharas (ritual rules of life) the taint is only for one day. If he does not
observe Agnihothra but reads Vedas and observes Achara, he has three day
taint, For a Brahmin who does not follow any of these there is a ten day taint.
He who has done errors in Karmas and birth, He who has left performing
Sandhya vandana. Oupasana and Aacharas, and who is only for name sake
Brahmin, has ten days taint, In Kali age Asoucha (taint) should fully be
observed.
4. Haaritha:
For death of the paternal clan members definitely Brahmins should observe
ten days taint period. You should not follow rules contrary to this mentioned
elsewhere.
A Brahmachari (unmarried person) should not do death ceremonies till
Sapindeekaranam to any one except his parents. If he does he should do
redemption and get sacred thread ceremony performed again.
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adoption. The death or birth of children for an adopted son would entail only a
purificatory bath for his original clan members.
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daughters, mother's parents, sister, her son and daughter, brother's daughter,
son's daughter, father's mother, father, daughter's daughter the taint is there
for the concerned woman and not her husband.
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suppose he happens to do cremation for another, the second taint would go
away when the first taint ends. But in case of death of parents, the full ten day
taint has to be observed. These will not be affected by any other taint.
9. Sangrahe:
When taint is being observed, if one becomes the father of the child or
happens to cremate some one else in the middle, the second taint should be
fully observed.
10. Prajapathi:
When you are observing a taint, if you become a father of a son, since you
have to do Jatha Karma, immediately taint comes to an end and along with
the first taint, the taint due to birth also will come to an end. If the wife gives
birth to a baby in between the ten day taint due to the death of parents, our
taint goes along with the death taint. But the wife's taint goes only after the
prescribed period,
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6. Brahaspathi:
If there is a big river in between or when there is a mountain in between or if
people of that place speak a different language, it is considered as outside
country.
If the son who has to perform death ceremonies lives in another country,
even if it takes one year, he has to complete the death ceremonies. If you
hear about the death of a step mother, with in a year one has to do the death
ceremonies. If one hears about it after one year, he need to observe only a
three day taint.
XVII. Jana Marana Sambhave Dina Nirnaya (Fixing day of death or birth)
Kalpa says that if the death/birth happens in the first half of the night (night
starts after Sun set), it should be counted as having occurred in the previous
day and if it occurs in the second half, it should be considered as having
occurred in the next day. Another view divides the night in to three parts and
considers death/birth having occurred in the previous day, if it occurs in the
first two parts of the night. However if it occurs in the third part, it should be
considered as having occurred in the next day.
One Amsa is 10 Nazhiga (4 hours). In that we have to leave out previous
dusk for 3 nazhiga, and later dawn for the same period of time and the
remaining part as thriyama night (Night of three yamas). In that adding the
first part of the dusk, it becomes 18 Nazhigai (one Nazhigai is 24 minutes)
and this is considered as previous day.
Another view is that if death /birth happen after sun rise, till next sun rise, it is
considered as having occurred on that day. Please follow the belief based on
the family tradition. You should not eat or drink with a person with taint. If we
do, then the taint would come to us also.
If the dead body is in the village or in the home, you are not supposed to do
any religious action (daily rituals, rituals which happen to be done and
desirable rituals). If a dead body is there in a village with more than 400
Brahmins, there is no dosha, and rituals can be done. If there is a street in
between us and the dead body or if it can be approached only by a different
path or if it is in a different street, rituals including worship of Vishnu can be
done. In case the body is that of the sage, Sanyasi or Sidhas whose soul
enters a different body, there is no dosha due to the dead body.
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ii. Three day taint for men
1. Maternal grand father 2. Maternal grand mother 3. Uncle 4. Uncle's wife 5.
Father in law 6. Mother in law 7. Mother's sister 8. Father's sister 9. Nephew
wearing sacred thread 10. Daughter's son with sacred thread 11.
Samanodaka with sacred thread (relative connected with water oblation
beyond 7 generations) 12. Daughter who is married 13. Sister who is married
14. Biological father in case of adopted son 15. Biological mother in case of
adopted son 16. Son who has been given in adoption 17. The son belonging
to the clan who is above 7 years and before marriage with three generation of
clan relation 19. The son of the clan who’s first cropping (choula) has been
performed before 25 months for the death of all these people there is a three
day taint.
For Samanodaka (relative connected by oblation of water to the manes), less
than seven year old son whose sacred thread ceremony has been completed
or for boy older than seven years, there is three day taint in case of their
death. For all births in case of Samanodaka (relatives connected with water
oblation) there is three day birth taint.
iii. Bakshinyasoucha (Taint for one and half days) for men.
1. Father's sister's daughter. 2. Mother's brother's son and daughter 3.
Mother's sister's son and daughter 4. Sister's daughter 5. Daughter of
Father's brother 6. Daughter of son 7. Daughter's daughter 8. Daughter's son
9. Son of sister who is less than seven years and does not have sacred
thread. In case of death of all these people, men have to observe one and
half days taint.
iv. One day taint for men.
1. Brother, sister and daughter of step mother 2. Daughter's of the above
three. 3. Wife's brother 4. Daughter of father's step brother 5. Step brother's
daughter. 6. Father's step sister 7. Daughter or son of Father's step sister 8.
Parents of step mother 9. Daughters of the clan within three generations who
are above 25 months and below six years and not married. 10. Biological
brother in case of adopted son 11. Clan members of the biological family 12.
Father in law and mother in law who do not have any other children 13. Boys
above 25 months and below six years of boys who had not undergone first
crop (Choula) belonging to paternal clan.
v. Three day taint for women
1. Brother whose sacred thread ceremony is over 2. Brother's son whose
sacred thread ceremony is over. 3. Sister's son whose sacred thread
ceremony is over 4. Mother of the other wives of husband.. Three days taint if
death occurs to any of these.
vi. One and half day taint for women.
1. Father's brother. 2. Mother's sister 3. Mother's brother 4. Father 's sister 5.
The children of Sno1 to four. 6. Paternal Grand father 7. Paternal Grand
mother. 8. Maternal grand parents 9. Sister 10. Sister's daughter 11. Brother's
son. Death of any of these will entail One and half a day taint.
vii. One day taint for women.
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1. Son, daughter, brother, and sister of co wife's mother. 2. Their children 3.
Father's step brother 4. Father's step sister 5. Children of 3 and four 6. Co-
wife's parents. Death of any of these entails one day taint for ladies. The
people described above are men for whom Sacred thread has been
performed and Woman who are married. The taint for a woman does not
affect her husband.
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XXVIII. Ashtaka Sradha niroopanam (Time for Ashtaka Sradha)
XXIX. Mahalaya Sradha Niroopanam (Particulars of Sradha during Mahalaya
Paksha)
XXX. Vrudhi sradha niroopanam (Sradha performed for progress -
particulars)
XXXI. Sradhe Desa kaladhi niroopanam (Differences in Sradha according to
time and place) - Some important points in Performing Sradha
XXXII. Sradha Prasamsa (Praising Sradha )
(Though most of us are familiar with most of the day to day rituals, few of us
know anything about death related rituals and after death ceremonies. This
chapter deals with these aspects in great detail.)
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Vyasa says that if one looses conscience or dies, the son who is to do the
death ceremonies or any other relation should do dhana for the benefit of the
dead person
Even if one does great sins or the nine types of sins, if he sees a great soul,
his sins would vanish. So at the time of death it is beneficial to see great
souls.
In whatever way they say "Govinda", sinners would get rid of their sins. Those
without sins would attain salvation if they utter "Govinda'
At the time of death if one chants, "Shiva, Shiva, Shiva", then the first chant of
"Shiva" removes all his sins and grants him salvation. The other two "Shiva"
chants are necessary but give happiness to the one who chants.
At the time of death the son should tell in the right ear, holy Sukthas (Vedic
chants), Mantras and names of Gods as well as Karna Mantra.
When the father is dying, the son should place the head of his father on his
right lap and keep on telling in his right ears, holy chants like Ashtakshara,
Panchakshara and Rama Shadakshara. This is the help that a son does to
his father. After the soul leaves the body, grass should be spread on the floor
and the body should be laid on it.
II. Mumukshur Dhana Vidhi (Rules of Dhana for the dying soul)
1. Bharatha:
Hey Dharmaputhra, between the earth and the land of Yama there is 86000
Yojnas (Each yojana is 10 miles). The terrain is difficult to travel. Sun would
be very hot. There would not be shade of trees. There would not be tank,
streams and wells on the way. There would not be villages or houses. Stones
and thorns would be strewn on the path besides burning sand. Only Dhana
(charity) would help you to cross this road. So we should do Dhana as much
as possible. This has to be done by the sons who do after death rituals. If
they do the souls will not suffer much in reaching the land of Yama.
2. Prachetha:
Cow, land, Gingelly, gold, ghee, cloth, grains, Jaggery, Silver and salt are
called the ten dhanas, which can be given. These can be given at time of
birth as well as death. Giving them away after death would give comfort to the
departed soul in the land of the dead. Giving them away at birth, gives long
and comfortable life to the child. For him who goes outside his country,
knowledge is his friend., for him who stays in his house wife is the friend, for
him who is sick, doctor is the friend and for him who is dying, Dhana is the
only friend.
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(Mixture of cow dung, cow urine, milk, curd and ghee) and further bathed by
water and later sanctified by chanting of Pavamana Suktha. If this is not done
the entire after death ceremony is a waste.
2. Bhodhayana:
If a person dies in the day time, he should be cremated in the day time itself.
If he dies at night, he should be cremated before 9.45 PM. Afterwards
cremation at night is not permitted.
3. Smruthyanthara:
If one dies before sun rise in the morning, he should be cremated in the
morning itself.. If it is not done redemptive acts should be carried out. This
redemptive act is given by Vaikanasa. So if one dies in the morning, he
should be cremated in the day time but if one dies at night, he should be
cremated before 9.45 PM. If we do cremation in the day time for one who dies
at night, we have to perform redemptive ritual for late cremation. If one dies in
Kumba or meena rasi, he would get good after death life but his relations will
suffer. So we have to do Dhanishta Santhi for those dying in Avittam,
Chadayam, Pororattathi, Uthrattahi and Revathi. For death during
Dakshinayana, Krisha paksha, night or if death is accompanied by vomiting or
passing of stools or death happens due to knife, we have to do Kruchram
(mortification) and perform the redemptive ritual with Homa.
4. Kruchra prathinidhi:
It has been told that we have to give away (as per our means), one cow for
Prajapathya Kruchra, two cows for Santhapana Kruchra, three cows for
Paraga Kruchram, Thaptha Kruchra and Adhi kruchra and eight cows for
Chandrayana Kruchra. (These are described in the chapter o redemptive
acts.
IV. Karthru Krama (The order of eligibility for carrying out death ceremonies)
1. Chandrika
1000 holy periods of eclipses, 10000 vyathee padam or one lakh Amavasyas
are not equivalent to one sixteenth of a dwadasi. Three half crores of such
Dwadasi will not become equivalent to one sixteenth of the death day of
parents. This means that the death anniversary of our parents is a very holy
day. You have to do the rituals with devotion and interest on that day.
2. Sumanthu:
The biological son should perform the rituals after death with proper mantras
and utmost devotion.
3. Jamadagni:
The son should do offering of food and water to his father. Suppose he is not
in a position to do it, he should offer fire (cremate) and get the other rituals
done by some body else.
4. Smruthyanthare
Though there are several brothers the eldest son only has to do
Navasradham, Sapindeekaranam and Shodasa sradhams. Even if the sons
have divided the property before the death of the father, the right is only to
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the eldest son. If eldest son is not available nearby, the eldest among the
brothers present can undertake the cremation and other rituals associated
with it.
If a man has several wives, the eldest among all his sons has only the right to
do rituals to his father. The seniority of the wives is not taken in to
consideration here. But in case of women, her eldest son only has the right to
do cremation for her. In case of twins, the son born second is elder. The
adopted son has to do such rites to his biological father, if he does not have
sons or grand sons to do the rituals. If after adoption a biological son is born
to the couple, only the biological son has the right..
5. Vrudha Manu:
He who is doing penance during the pregnancy of the wife, you should not
get shaved or cremate the bodies of any one except his parents.
He can also do cremation to his elder brother and uncle, if they do not have
sons.
6. Brugu:
The Brahmachari (after sacred thread ceremony) can do the after death
rituals to his mother's father, uncle, Maternal grand mother who does not
have sons and maternal uncle's wife. This would not be considered as
breaking of the Brahmacharya vow. Even if he has not received the sacred
thread, he should do after death rituals to his parents. If he is not capable of
chanting the mantra, he should cremate their body and authorize some body
else by giving them Durba to complete all necessary rituals. If a man is doing
a Yaga as Kartha (That is he has taken austere life for doing Yaga) and if
either his mother or father attains death and if he is the only son, he should
go and do death rituals of his parents and come back and complete the Yaga.
If the parents die in between the marriage, he should offer Gingelly, pinda
and do the cremation but should not do, after death ceremonies
7. Marichi:
The order of preference for doing after death ceremonies for the dead is as
follows:
Son, Son's son, Son's grand son, Daughter's son, brother of the wife, son of
the brother, father, mother, daughter in law, sister, sister's son, member of
the paternal clan and those who receive money, If the first one is not there,
the subsequent one will get the right. If during marriage of the daughter, a
mantra is told that her son would be responsible for after death ceremonies,
that son will be called Dwayamushnan. He would be from both the paternal
and maternal gothras.
8. Manu:
In the world, there is no difference between son's son and daughter's son and
so the daughter's son inherits the wealth of those who do not have a son. So
the daughter's son should be considered as having the right to do death
ceremonies of his mother's parents.
Even if the maternal grand father does not have wealth, the daughter's son
should do the after death rights of his maternal grand parents.
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The wife is considered to have more right to do death ceremonies of her
husband than their daughter's son. The son should do death ceremonies for
his father. If he is not there, the person's wife should do it. The next order is
daughter's son, brother, brother's son etc,
If the wife without a son dies, her husband should do death ceremonies for
her. If a daughter's son is there, he can be asked to do it. If one person has
several wives and one wife has a son, he should do death ceremonies for all
his step mothers.
VI. Upavithadhi Niyama (Those acts which should be done with normal
wearing of sacred thread (On the left shoulder)
Bathing, Aachamana, Pranayama, Namaskara (saluting), Pradakshina (going
round) even if it is done during a ritual of Manes (pithrus) should be
performed with Normal fashion of wearing sacred thread.
1. Bharadwaja:
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In the ritual connected with the corpse (pretha), Aachamana should be done
in the beginning and end. This is true for every ritual for the success of the
ritual. For having internal cleanliness Pranayama should be done.
In the case of ritual with Corpse, the sacred thread should be worn in the
opposite shoulder (pracheena vidhi) When you are carrying the corpse, it
should be worn as a garland (neevithi). This rule is meant for people who
carry the corpse.
In case of Avahanam, argyam, Sankalpam, Pinda dhanam, Thilodhaka
Dhanam, Akshayam, Aasanam and Padhyam, the names and Gothra should
be definitely mentioned.
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4. Vasishta
Fire should not be kept on the corpse. In the Veda Corpse is considered as
that which is offered to the fire and so is should be offered to the fire. If this is
not done, nothing good will come out of the act. So the fire should be put on
the pyre. Afterwards chant the Upasthana Mantra and the rest of the fire
should be put on the pyre. The pyre should be lit from all directions. Please
understand that the man who died will reach the world of Brahma by this.
After cremation, the cloth one wears should be washed and the one who
does the cremation should take bath. Then he should take bath wearing
cloths and this would make him clean. That is he becomes one with a clean
mind.
When going to the cremation ground, the youngest should go first and while
coming back home, the eldest should come first.
4. Usana:
If we follow the corpse or go along with his paternal clan, we should take
bath, eat food along with ghee and again take bath. If ghee is not available,
chant Gayathri 10 times and drink water. After this Japa and Homa should not
be performed for one day.
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paternal clan members, father in law, mother in law, elder sister, and her
husband, there is shaving in case of their death. Even if wife dies early or
even if the father and mother in law do not have children, there is taint for one
day but no shaving.
If the tenth day happens to be a Friday, the clan members have to get shaved
on the previous day. This rule is not applicable to the son. If
Sapindeekaranam is done on the 12th day to the mother and father then
shaving is not necessary, If this is done in other times like Tripaksha, shaving
has to be got done. In case of cropping Sashti, Ashtami, Prathama,
Chathurthi, Navami and Chaturdasi are to be omitted. Monday, Thursday,
Wednesday and Friday are suitable. The shaving for the taint because of
touching the corpse should not be got done on Fridays.
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pranayamas touching it. Yekothara Vruthi dhana depends on the number of
Udhaka dhana and that many sradhas are to be done in aama roopa (?) The
nava sradhas should be done on 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 and 11th day. Hence six nava
sradhas are done. If these nava sradhas are not done on the specified days,
they should be done on the 11th day.
5. Aapasthamba
The Asthi Sanchayana (collection of bones) should be got done on the next
day, third day, fifth day or 7th day, This should be done in the morning time. It
is recommended that it should be done within four hours after sun rise.
6. Yoga Yagnavalkya
The son who does the cremation should deposit the bones collected in river
Ganges or Yamuna or Kaveri or river Sathadruthu or river Saraswathi, In
case of parents proper day for Asthi Sanchayana need not be observed. In
other cases it is a must. On the tenth day because the Pretha has all its
organs it gets very great hunger. To appease this hunger several dishes
should be offered as Prabhoothabali. This has to be done before Udaka and
Pinda Dhana on the tenth day. After the Pinda Dhana, the pretha should be
removed from the consecrated stone.
7. Padathi
In case of cremation other than parents, if Darsa Sradha (amavasya) comes
within ten days, Udaka and Pinda dhana have to be completed before it. Asthi
Sanchayana should be done before Amavasya. But in case of parents this is
not applicable and the ceremony should not be cut short but continue for ten
days.
XI. Karthru Vishaye Niyama (Some rules to be followed by the Kartha - the
man who does rituals)
People who have taint should not consume salt, pungent food, oil, betel leaf,
should not have any relation with woman nor should sleep in a cot. In case
Savagni (fire of the corpse) is put out, the ordinary fire can be used for rituals
of redemption (prayachithahoothi).
1. If younger son does the cremation and the elder one arrives before
Sanchayana,, he should shave himself, do the Sanchayana, do extra udaka
dhanas and continue with the full cremation ritual. But if he comes after the
Sanchayana, he should do all the rituals up to Yekodishta starting with extra
udaka dhana, then observe ten day taint and do the Sapindeekaranam in the
tripaksha period.
2. If the cremation is done by some others, the son should again do
cremation and do the rituals for ten days.
3. If the cremation is done by some one else re cremation (Punar dahanam)
has to be got done.
4. If the one who is entitled to do cremation (other than son) comes before
Sanchayana, there is no re- cremation. That is rule number 3 is applicable
only in case of sons.
5. If a man who does not belong to the paternal clan does the cremation and
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if the chief Kartha (who does rituals) comes before Sanchayana, then to the
man who does the cremation there is neither taint or Udaka dhana. But if he
comes after Sanchayana and if the outsider had taken the tainted food, he
has to observe ten day taint and Udaka Dhana.
6. But if the cremation is done by brother, nephew etc who have normal three
day taint, they have to observe ten day taint and offer Udaka Dhana, even if
the Kartha comes and takes over.
7. If the chief Kartha does not come, he who does the cremation should do all
rituals up to Yekodishta. Unless this is done he will remain tainted.
8. If the younger son does the cremation, if the eldest one comes on the tenth
day, he should shave, offer Udahaka and Pinda Bali, Prabhoothabali, shave
himself completely, perform Yekodishta on the tenth day, and then observe
ten day taint and do Avruthathyam and Sapindeekaranam. But if the Kartha is
not the son, his taint goes away on the tenth day.
9. If the son comes after 10 days but on the eleventh day, he should shave do
Yekodishta and do the Thilodhaka rites that should have been carried out
during the first ten days, If no ritual has been done and he comes within ten
days, he should do Udahaka Dhana for ten days after he reaches and do
Yekodishta on the eleventh day. Then he should do Sapindeekaranam in the
tripaksha (45th day) If he comes on the night of the tenth day, he should first
do the rites to be carried out for first ten days in the eleventh day morning.
10. If the cremation has been done by an outsider and also first day ten day
ritual has been performed and if the son comes before Sanchayana on the
tenth day, he should start with Punar Dahanam (re cremation) and do all rites
up to Yekodishta. Including Udaka dhanam He also should observe taint for
next ten days. If he comes after Sanchayana, he should observe
Vrushithsarnam, Yekodishta, observe ten day taint and also Udaka dhana.
11. If the son is abroad and either his father or mother expires and if the
rituals up to Yekodishta has been performed by an outsider or another son,
as soon as he hears about it, he should shave, observe ten day taint, do
Udaka dhanam and Sapindeekaranam. If Sapindeekaranam has also been
done, the eldest son should again repeat the rituals up to Sapindeekaranam.
If the rituals have been carried by the elder son, the younger son need not
repeat them again.
12. if the Sapindeekaranam has been done by an outsider, if the eldest
brother is not near by, then if the younger ones share the property of the
deceased, then each of them have to do Sapindeekaranam separately. If the
wealth is not going to be divided, only the eldest among them need to do it.
13. If the son who lives abroad hears about the death of his father/mother
only after one year, he should observe ten day taint and do all the rituals. But
Masika and Sothakumba need not be performed; He can directly do the
Apthika (first year death anniversary ceremony). But if he hears before one
year, he has to do all rituals including Masika and Sothakumba. If the son is
younger and the rituals have already been performed by elder son, he need
not repeat them again. He needs to observe three day taint and do Udahaka
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dhana.
14. If the biological son of a step mother is not nearby, the step son has to do
the rituals. If the biological son comes in the middle, he has to complete the
rituals. If he comes after Sapindeekaranam, he has to repeat it. If you hear
about the death of a step mother within a year, ten day taint and Udaka
dhana has to be performed. If you hear afterwards only taint period need to
be observed.
15. If you hear the death of an elder brother, where rituals have been
performed within six months of his death, you have to observe three day taint.
If you hear afterwards, Bakshini taint only need to be observed.
16. If somebody goes away some where and nothing is known about him,
after 12 years, the death ceremonies long with prithi kruthi dahana should be
done within three days. This has to be done after doing Narayana Bali. In
case of father or mother this should be done only after 15 years. The months
of Ashada, Magha Margaseersha, Badra pada and Krishna Paksha Ekadasi
or Amavasya can be taken as the day of death and annual ceremonies
performed
17. In case of Ahithagni, the taint is ten days after cremation and in case of
Anahithagni the taint is ten days from death.
18. If the person who does cremation does another cremation within ten days,
then the second taint will go away along with the first taint. But if the
cremation is being done to the parents, full ten day taint has to be observed.
19. If father dies during the taint days of mother's death, the sons have to
observe ten day taint from the day of death of father. But if mother dies during
the taint of father's death, the taint of mother's death would pass away after
one and half days after the ten day taint of father.
20. If mother dies first, on the eleventh day after her death Yekodishta has to
be performed for her. For the father who dies during the taint period, again
Yekodishta has to be performed ten days after his death. But if father dies
first, on the tenth day of father's death, do Pinda dhana and Udahaka Dhana
for mother and on the eleventh day after father's death, perform Yekodishta
for father, and on the eleventh day of mother's death do Adhya Sradha for the
mother.
XII. Dampathyo Saha Mruthyu Krama (Rituals when couple dies together)
1. Haritha
If the couple dies together or if one of them dies before the cremation of the
other, cremation has to be done together. But if one of them died after the
cremation, rituals have to be performed separately.
2. Pithru medha sara
Hiranya Sakalam, Nagna prachadana sradham, Vasodhakam, Thilodhaka,
Pindam, Ekothara vrudhi sradham, nava sradham, Sothakumba, Vrushith
sargam, and Shodasa sradham have to be done separately. Charukaryam,
Funeral pyre, Kundam, Asthi Sanchayana and Santhi Homam have to be
done together. Yekodishta, Sapindeekaranam and Nimithvaranam have to be
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done separately. Paka Homam and Vaiswadevadhikam have to be done
together. In case, the one to do death rituals is the same and two person of
the same clan die together, depending on the relation between them, the
death rituals have to be performed
3. Haritha
In case of death together the son has to Sapindeekaranam to his parents on
the 12th day. For others he can do it on the 45th day.
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Due to the possible problems created by time as well as the place that we live
and also due to possibility of disease and death the sixteen sradhas have to
be performed on the eleventh day.
The adhyam (first) on the eleventh day, the 12 masikams, the tripakshikam
(forty fifth day ceremony), the shan Masika (the sixth month ceremony) and
the one performed before the annual ceremony are the sixteen sradhas.
When we are doing Sapindeekaranam on the 12th day, on the eleventh day
these sixteen sradhas are to be abridged and performed as Yekodishta and
one rice ball (pinda) given. Then for each of the 16 sradhas pinda dhana has
to be performed. In the fire Prethahuthi is done once and all the other fifteen
are combined and performed once. After Sapindeekaranam, again the
monthly and other Sradhas have necessarily be done. If you do no get
Brahmins for the sixteen sradhas it can be done in the Aama form also.
2. Galava:
Within day or two from the Oona day, Oona Masika has to be performed. This
is true for Unapthikam also. The first oonam should be performed within 3
days of the 27th day of death. The tripakshikam should be performed within 5
days of the 40th day. The oona shan Masika has to be performed within ten
days of the 170th day. The oona apthika has to be performed within 15 days
of the 340th day. Oona masikams have to be performed on odd days. It is
good if the day to be performed is selected properly. If good events take
place in the house, the oonams can be done after Akarshana (?). But it
should not be redone after the good event.
3. Paitinasi:
The sixteen sradhas should be done before Sapindeekaranam. The sradhas
which are performed after Sapindeekarana should be performed like
Pratyapthika sradha (annual ceremonies). They should be carried out in the
parvana method. The Sradha done aimed at three ancestors viz pitha
(father), pithamaha (grand father) and prapithamaha (great grand father) is
termed as Parvana.
4. Yama:
For the Sanyasis the son should not perform Yekodishta and
sapindeekarana. On the eleventh day Parvana Sradha should be performed.
On the twelfth day Narayana Bali has to be performed.
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entitled for cremation and in case of mother and father Sapindeekaranam
should be performed on the 12th day.
Even if both of them are not entitled to do cremation, the sapindeekarana can
be done on the 12th day. It could be done later also. But due to convention it
is normally performed on the 12th day.
The man who carries out death ceremonies, is not entitled to perform any
good rituals without doing Sapindeekaranam.
3. Sridhara
Sapindeekaranam can be performed from 11th to 16th day. It could be done
on 17th day also.
4. Garga
If it is not possible for some reason to do Sapindeekaranam on the proper
day, it could be performed in the Panchami, Ashtami, Amavasya or Ekadasi
in the Krishna Paksha.
5. Smrithi rathna
Sapindeekaranam can be performed on Amavasya, on the thithi when the
body expired or in Mahalaya Paksha. In such cases, the unsuitability of Thithi
and day need not be seen. If Sapindeekaranam is done after completion of
one year the 16 sradhas have to be redone.
6. Gobhila
If the does is Ahithagni and the dead one is Anahithagni, then the
Sapindeekaranam should be done on the 12th day
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2. Brahma
In case the father has died but the grand father is alive, he should do parvana
Sradha for three generations above great grand father and merge the pinda
for father along with them.
In the case of a wife who does not have sons. The husband should do
sapindeekarana to his wife.
3. Smrithi
Two sradhas should be started and Sapindeekarana has to be done. Parvana
has to be done first and Pretha Varna Sradha using the Yekodishta method
should then be done. Combination of these two is Sapindeekarana. In
Sapindeekarana sradha, first Kala agamaka Viswedeva, then pithrus and in
the end Pretha should be recognized and called.
In all parvana sradhas a Brahmin should be recognized as the form of
Vishnu. Devala and Chandilya say that any Sradha where Vishnu is not
recognized would not lead to any purpose.
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mother with that of paternal grand mother Similar action should be done in
case for Sapindeekaranam of maternal grand parents.
3. Smruthi
If you do not know the Gothra tell as Kashyapa Gothra. This is because Veda
says that all beings originated from Kashyapa. If we do not know the name of
the father, tell "pithivishath". If grand father's name is known tell
"antharikshasath" and if great grand father's name is not known say
"Divishath".
4. Jamadagni
The river Vaitharani has bad smelling blood flowing in it, is black in colour and
tides are extremely fast. It also contains bones and hair in it. This is on the
way to the land of Yama. If Cow is given as gift during sapindeekarana, the
pithrus cross this river easily. So gifting of cow is important during
sapindeekarana. The sapindeekarana of the parents have to be done by the
eldest son. That which is performed with the permission of all using the
undivided wealth, is considered as having been done by everybody. The
Sapindeekaranam of the parents should not be done by all brothers.
5. Sayanee
For the mother, father maternal grand mother, maternal grand father and
eldest brother, the Sapindeekaranam should be performed in Oupasana fire.
The eldest brother is equivalent to the father. The Sapindeekaranam to the
paternal grand parents also should be done using Oupasana fire. For a
Brahmachari and a widower, the Sapindeekaranam should be done on
Loukika fire. This is the opinion of sage Apasthamba.
If Oupasana fire is far off then some people feel that the homa can be
performed in hand itself. This is not correct. The homa done with the sacred
thread worn over right shoulder should be done only in fire. The remnants of
the Homa should be kept in the meals plate of Brahmins, meditating on Lord
Vishnu. The one who does not have a wife or the one whose wife is very far
away or the one who is a Brahmachari can do Sradha in Agni but should use
only Loukika fire. If wife is having periods, after she has taken purificatory
bath, we have to raise fire afresh and do Sapindeekarana. Even if the fire is
there, it is not proper to do it before her bath as there is sufficient time period
given to do Sapindeekaranam. That is, it should not be done during the
unclean period. If there are several brothers and if the eldest one is not
maintaining Oupasana fire, the next one who maintains Oupasana fire should
do the Sapindeekaranam. If there is only one son and if he does not maintain
Oupasana fire, then he can do it in Loukika [Link] for the one who is to do the
Sapindeekaranam, wife is not amenable, he can wait up to one year for her
and after her coming do the Sapindeekaranam. If this is not possible the next
brother who maintains Oupasana fire can be asked to do it. If there is only
one son and his wife does not come within a year, he can make some one
represent his wife and do the Sapindeekaranam. If the wife is amenable
doing Sapindeekaranam leaving her out is a useless exercise. He does not
have the right to do Sapindeekaranam.
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XX. Sothakumbha Vidhi (Method of performing Sothakumba sradha)
That Sradha where Viswadeva and Vishnu are not considered and done
aiming at three men is done with Udhakumbha and is called Sothakumba
sradha. In this case there are no special rules to be followed by the performer
or the Brahmin who comes to do it. The performer can do Sothakumba
Sradham after Brahma Yagna and regular worship. The first one should be
performed on the twelfth day and then it should be done daily for one year.
1. Kathyayana
If it is not possible to do it, it should be at least done once in a month. It could
be done during Darsa or before Masika Sradham. When you are not able to
do it in a particular time, it can be done along with the next. People may
question that once the Pretha status is removed on the 12th day by doing
Sapindeekaranam, there is no heat generated by Janitha Kshudragni. It is
said that even though Pretha status is removed, in the mind there will be fear
of pretha status for one year. After Sapindeekarana and before Apthika
(annual ceremony) Darsa, Mahalaya and Manvadhi Sradha should not be
performed. But Tharpana can be done. Ashtaka Sradha also could be done.
The death taint while performing death ceremonies is for 12 days. So during
these 12 days Worship of God, Pithrus, Homa Dhana, and Japa should not
be done.
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practice of the elders of our family. Those who use lunar month, should
observe it in Athimasa thithi or Nija masa thithi.
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suitable for Sradha. (Approximately after 12 noon)
The periods starting from Kuthabha kala till Sayahna is the most suitable
period for Sradha.
4. Bodhayana
If the previous and following days are such that thithi spreads in Aparahna,
then Sradha has to be performed in the Aparahna thithi. If the second one is
a kshaya thithi and the first one is an Aparahna thithi, the sradha should be
performed in the first thithi. If the second one is an Aparahna thithi and the
first one is a vrudhi thithi, Sradha should be performed in Aparahna Thidhi. If
in both days thithi is not found in Aparahna, the Sradha should be performed
in the first thithi.
5. Vasishta
In rituals for Pithrus, the thidhi which is connected to the asthamana (setting
of sun) is considered as poorna (complete).
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A solar moth with two Amavasya is called Samsarpaka masa. The first month
of the athi masa which is samsarpaka is not suitable for any rituals. The next
month is suitable. Similarly in case an athimasa is a Kshaya masa, the first
month is suitable and the second month is not.
1. Vrudha Vasishta
The inauguration of streams, well and tank, soma yaga and great Dhanas
should not be performed in the mala masa.
2. Kala Nirnaya
Jatha Karma, Pumsavana, Seemantha and Vruthas can also be performed in
mala masa. The death ceremonies also can be performed.
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in Poorvethyu (previous day to ashtaka), Ashtaka and Anvashka (next day to
ashtaka). i. e on Sapthami, Ashtami and Navami days.
In the Pournami of Magha month, Ashtami and Kettai concurrently occur in
the Krishna Paksha, This is called Yekashtaka. Apasthamba is of the opinion
that it is an important ashtaka.
In the Ashtami of Bhadrapada and Magha masa, people who cannot afford to
do Sradha should at least do a Gingelly Tharpana.
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XXX. Vrudhi Sradha Niroopanam (Sradha performed for progress -
particulars)
1. Vishnu Purana
The father has to do Jatha Karma and Nama karana for his sons. At that time
he can perform nandi Sradha. When performing Namakarana, Annaprasana,
Choula, Samavarthana, Somayaga, Upanayana, snana karma, Kanya Dhana
and Vivaha, Nandi sradham should be performed. These are done by the
father for the sake of the son. Nandi sradha should be performed in the
Poorvahnna. This is the first 10 Nazhigai (i. e 4 hours) of the day from sun
rise. In Nandi sradha Curd, Ilandai pazham and Akshatha should be mixed
with the pinda and Pinda pradana done. Gingelly should not be used. The
Swadha word should not be used. And it should not be performed with sacred
thread on right shoulder (Prachina vidhi). The Durba should not be spread
facing south. It could also be done in the Hiranya form, if one cannot afford.
When you do several rituals together Nandi Sradha need to be done only
once.
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6. Smruthi
Amavasya, vyatheepada, Sankramana, Vaidruthi, Ashtakas, Manwadhis,
Yugadhis, Mahalaya Paksha, Eclipse of sun as well as moon, Gajachaya,
Money and learned Brahmins determine the apt time to perform Sradha. In
rituals of God, the Brahmins can be used without testing them but in case of
Pithru Karmas (rituals of manes) they have to be tested. We should find out
whether they have clean lineage, whether they have learned Vedas and
whether they observe aacharas.
7. Manu
Among the son who has learned Vedas but his father who has not learned
Vedas, and one who has not learned Vedas but his father has learned Vedas,
who should be called for Sradha? The man who has not learned Vedas fully
but whose father is a learned Vedic pundit should be invited. The money
given to one who has learned Vedas and who is fit to be worshiped, would
grant us great strength. So in Pithru Karmas we should call great Brahmins.
We can call that Brahmin who is interested in chanting of Gayathri and who
leads his life according to religious rules. That Brahmin who though is an
expert in Vedas but who eats in all places, who leads a life selling everything
and who does not take bath or do Sandhya Vandhana should not be chosen
for the Pithru Karmas.
He who does Agnihothra, He who knows Nyaya Sasthra, he who knows the
six branches of Vedas, He who knows Manthras, He who protects Dharma,
He who worships Guru, God and fire, He who is wise, He who worships Lord
Shiva and he who has devotion to Vishnu are termed as Pankthi Pavanas
(holy people). They can be called for Pithru karmas. If a Sanyasi lives in a
village we should inform that we are performing Sradha to him. Those who
tell Vedas during the banned times of Amavasya and Prathama, Those who
do not have good Aacharas and are unclean and those who eke out a living
from the fourth caste are people who are finding fault with Brahmins.
In the month or Paksha in which Sradha comes, one should not crop and
shave and also avoid having sexual relation with women. The place where
Sradha is to be performed should be cleaned using cow dung and water.
Then we have to sprinkle Gingelly (til) on that space. Wheat, Paddy, Barley,
Gingelly, garden pea, mustard, Paryangu (?), Govidhara (?) and Avarai (lab
lab beans) are suitable for the Sradha. Without black gram Sradha cannot be
performed. Curd, milk, cooked rice, ghee and Jaggery should be used in
Sradha. These satisfy the Pithrus for one month. The Pithrus who are
satisfied by honey, give us all that we want. So honey should definitely used
in Sradha. Jack fruit, banana fruit, Pomegranate, Mango fruit, Grapes, Bitter
gourd, cucumber, Avarai, snake gourd, Plantain, Curry leaf, Elephant foot
yam (karunai Kizhangu), ginger and Lime should definitely be used in Sradha.
Presenting cloth according to our financial capability is considered good.
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Some Important Points In Performing Sradha:
1. After 12 Nazhigais (about 11 am), you have to give oil and Choorna
(powder soap/shampoo) to the Brahmins and they should be requested to
take bath. Then the man who performs the Sradha should take bath. In
Dwadasi powder of gooseberry should be given.
2. When performing Avahana, Argya, Sankalpa, Pinda Dhana, Thilodhaka,
Akshayya, asana, Padhyam and Annadhana, we have to tell our name and
that of the Gothra.
3. When you are doing Avahana of Devas, rice has to be sprinkled on right
foot, left foot, right knee, left knee and head of the Brahmin. When we do
Avahana of Pithrus sprinkle Gingelly on head, left shoulder, right shoulder,
left knee, left foot and right foot.
4. The Brahmins participating should not gossip or talk unnecessarily.
5. For devas we can hold the thumb and in case of Pithrus they should be
invited (amanthranam) along with the thumb.
6. They should neither praise nor find fault with the food.
There are many such rules. Consult elders in your family about them. Veda
says that Pithrus are Vasus, Pithamaha (grand father) are rudras and
prapithamaha (great grand father) are Adhithyas. Except the Mruthaha
Sradha others can be performed as Ama Roopa or Hiranya Roopa. When
you cannot afford to do Sradha, feed sufficient grass to cows. They can be
fed with rice balls (pindas). We can do Thila Tharpana addressing the Pithrus.
When you do Tharpana, you should take bath and wear dried cloths. He who
is not able to do Sradha, if he performs the representative of the rituals with
devotion, he gets the same effect as having performed Sradha.
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V. Thithinam veda vichara (Examination of veda regarding this)
VI. Prathama thithi nirnaya (Description of Prathama thithi)
VII. Yekabhaktha nirnaya (One time food determination)
VIII. Naktha Vrutha nirnaya (Determination of of the night only food practice)
IX. Dwitheeya thithi nirnaya (Estimate of the Dwitheeya thithi)
X. Thrutheeya nirnaya (Determination of Thrutheeya thithi)
XI. Chathurthi Nirnaya (Determination of Chathurthi thithi)
XII. Panchami nirnaya (Determination of Panchami Thithi)
XIII. Sashti nirnaya (Determination of Sashti thithi)
XIV. Sapthami nirnaya (Determination of Sapthami)
XV. Ashtami nirnaya (Determination of Ashtami)
XVI. Sri Krishna Janmashtami nirnaya (Determination of Lord Krishna's
birthday)
XVII. Sri Rama Navami nirnaya (Determination of Rama Navami)
XVIII. Dasavathara kala nirnaya (Determination of the time of birth of Ten
Incarnations)
XIX. Dasami nirnaya (Determination of Dasami)
XX. Ekadasi nirnaya (Determination of Ekadasi)
XXI. Dwadasi nirnaya (Determination of Dwadasi)
XXII. Thryodasi nirnaya (Determination of Thryodasi)
XXIII. Chaturdasi nirnaya (Determination of Chaturdasi)
XXIV. Shiva Rathri nirnaya (Determination of Shiva Rathri)
XXV. Panchadasi nirnaya (Determination of Panchadasi)
(Thithi, the nature of moon's crescent is important in fixing the time for rituals
as well as festivities. But thithis do rarely start with sun rise and end with next
day's sun rise. So almost every day is the mixture of thithis. (Khanda thithi).
This chapter tells us the rules for fixing the rules for the time of different rituals
based on Khanda thithis.)
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apart it is called Poornima. Chandra has 15 crescents. Entry of each crescent
of the moon in to the sun is the thithis of Krishna Paksha. The coming out of
these crescents after they fully enter the sun are the Thithis of Shukla
paksha,
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This division is considered important in shastras.
The day can be divided in to two parts, Poorvahnna and Aparahna or three
parts Poorvahnna, Madyahna and Aparahna or four parts Poorvahnna,
Madyahna, Aparahna and Sayahna or five parts Pratha, Poorvahnna,
Madyahna, Aparahna and Sayahna. The division in to five is considered as
more appropriate.
1. Devala
That thithi in which sun set takes place is very suitable for Dhana (charity),
Parayana (reading scriptures) and Upavasa (fasting). That thithi should not
be less than three muhurthas. It could spread more than three muhurthas.
That type of Thithi only is suitable for rituals.
2. Sairepi
If a thithi is spread during sun set it should be spread for at least three
muhurthas. Elders say that only such complete thithis are suitable for holy
activities.
3. Sumanthu
If we observe fast according to thithi or Nakshatra, at the end of the thithi and
Nakshatra we should do Parana (eat/drink something i. e beak our fast) If we
do not that that Vrutha is not complete. This is applicable to those thithis
which have Veda. For Shudha thithis this would not happen. For Sivarathri
Vrutha or Sravana Vrutha the Parana is at the end of the thithi and not
Nakshatra (Sravana in this case). Where Parana is prescribed at the end of
Thithi and Nakshatra and Thithi are Nakshatra are beyond three Yamas at
night, the Parana can be performed in the morning after we get up.
If we are not able to observe in the Poorva Veda thithi, fast can be performed
in Uthara Veda thithi also.
Depending on the kala (duration) prescribed for the Vrutha, it has to be
observed depending on what thithi pervades during that time.
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Understand that in this in case of the first two there is relation with Madyahna.
In the case of third since Poorva Vidha is special and the spread in the
Gowna kala is more and the thithi in the previous day only is recognized. In
the fourth case also the relation in the previous day is important and is
considered more suitable for rituals. In the fifth case, though there is equal
relationship with Madyahna, Poorva vidha (previous day) is considered as
better. In the sixth case the day when spread in to Madyahna is more is
considered. Yekabhaktha has to be observed taking these in to consideration.
This is also the rule for worship as well as fast.
VIII. Naktha Vrutha Nirnaya (Determination of of the night only food practice)
1. Varaha Purana
In the Marga seersha month in the Shukla Paksha Prathama, we have to
observe Naktha Vrutha (fast in the day time and take food at night) and Lord
Vishnu worshipped
2. Kala Darsa
In Naktha Vrutha, the thithi should be there for three muhurthas (6 nazhigas
of 24 minutes) before sun set and also three muhurthas of thithi after sun set.
The thithi before sun set which goes in to Sayamkala is the Gowna period.
The thithi which is spread after sun set is considered more important. The
thithi which spreads over Pradosha is especially good for Naktha Vrutha.
Sanyasis and widows should not take food at night. So the thithi which is
spread over Gowna period is suitable for them. In case of Naktha Vrutha,
family people can take food at night. So for them the thithi, which is spread
over Pradosha is more suitable for them. (Naktha-night, Pradosha- the
beginning of night)
3. Vyasa
Pradosha is the period of three muhurthas after sun set. Naktha Vrutha
should be observed then. In this case also the spread of the thithi is in 6 ways
and should be taken in to consideration.
4. Skanda
If Thithi does not spread in to Pradosha, Naktha Vrutha can be observed in
Sayamkala. That is the period when your shadow is twice your size and is
suitable for Naktha. In Naktha Vrutha, if Sunday is involved then even a
Grahastha should not take food. He should observe it in day time.
On Sunday, Amavasya and Pournami, we should not take food at night. In
case of Chaturdasi and Ashtami, we should not take food during day time.
When the period of ban for taking food is over, then we can take food. In the
Parva, food should not be taken at night. In case of eclipse, after eclipse is
over, only you can take food. In the night if there is an eclipse, we should not
take food at night.
5. Vrudha Yagnavalkya
For Snana (holy bath) and Dhana (ritual charity) the Uthara vidha period
should be chosen.
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IX. Dwitheeya Thithi Nirnaya (Estimate of the Dwitheeya thithi)
Brugu
Ekadasi, Ashtami, Sashti, Dwitheeya, Chaturdasi, Thryodasi and Amavasya
are Para vidha and are suitable for fasting.
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In the Sravana Krishna Paksha Ashtami, Janmashtami has to be observed. If
this is not observed, the person will be born as Rakshasa. If in the Sravana
month Krishnashtami, Rohini star also comes, then it is called Sri Jayanthi.. It
is superior.
1. Vasishta Samhitha
If Rohini and Ashtami occur together in Sravana or Bhadrapada month, it is
called as Jayanthi. If it occurs in Sravana month it is considered as special.
That which occurs in Bhadrapada month is classified as Gowna.
2. Jyothisharnava
Here Sravana or Bhadra pada denotes Avani (Chinga) month InPurattasi
(kanya month) or Sravana in Aadi (karkidaka) should not be considered. This
is concerning Krishnashtami Jayanthi festival.
The Jayanthi in Ashtami can come in Sravana or Bhadrapada. That is it
should come in the month of Avani (Chingam). If this is not available Ashtami
in Sravana month can be used for Janmashtami Vrutha. This rule is for
Smarthas. Srivaishnavas determine it predominantly based on the Rohini
star.
3. Varaha
Here the time of the birth of Krishna is being told. When sun was in Simha
rasi (that is in Avani (chingam)), when the sky is completely covered by
clouds in the Bhadrapada Ashtami, in the midnight, when moon was about to
rise, in the last pada of Rohini, in Wednesday, in Vrushabha Lagna, in the
harshana yoga and in Gownava karana, I was born as the son of Vasudeva
and Devaki - So told Krishna to Brahma.
4. Padma
It is opined that if Ashtami Rohini comes in the month of Sravana on a
Wednesday or.
Monday, it is suitable for observing Vrutha of Janmashtami. The difference of
month depends on the Kalpa difference. But Rohini should be there in the
midnight. The Ashtami Rohini in the midnight has to be considered as the
holy time. That is the time between the fifteenth and sixteenth Nazhigai at
night. If Rohini does not occur there at all, then the presence of Ashtami
should be taken in to consideration. For Janmashtami darkness is considered
as the holy time. The Ashtami at midnight is a holy time. In this place Poorva
Vidha is not considered. If any Ashtami begins after midnight and ends before
next midnight, then that Ashtami has relation with both the nights. So the
Ashtami has to be celebrated next day only. This is because when we chant
Sankalpa Mantra Ashtami should be there. This Janmashtami has to be
celebrated by every one. This is considered as Nithyam like Sandhya
vandana. We have to observe fast during Janmashtami. If Ashtami is
remaining in the next day Parana (breaking of fast) should not be done on
that day till Ashtami thithi is over.
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XVII. Sri Rama Navami Nirnaya (Determination of Rama Navami)
1. Agasthya
If in the Chitra month Shukla paksha Navami is with Punarvasu star that is a
very holy time. If Punarvasu is not there during that time, Rama Navami
should be observed in the Shudha Navami during Madyahna. Here also fast
should be observed.
The holy time of Sri Rama Navami is superior to even one crores of solar
eclipses. So any ritual done aimed at Rama, if done with devotion, would give
great strength. Worship of Rama, reading the story of Rama's birth, fast,
waking up at night, and Tharpana aimed at the manes could be done. All
good things including getting of salvation will then happen. This also is a
nithya ritual and should definitely be observed. If not observed it will lead to
sin.
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If we aim at going to the world of Vishnu and want to lead a pleasant life with
plenty of wealth, observe fast during both Ekadasi.
4. Sanath Kumara
Ekadasi fast should never be forsaken. There are redemptive procedures for
one drinking alcoholic drinks but there is no redemption for not observing
Ekadasi and so Ekadasi should definitely be observed. If we leave it we will
get sin. There is no solution for it.
From these we understand that it is Kamyam (desirable) that is it can be
observed for our personal welfare. If we have all we want and because of that
not observe Ekadasi, we will get sin. So it is Nithyam. So Ekadasi is classified
as Nithya Kamyam.
We would now tell how Smarthas should determine the Ekadasi fast day.
It is said that an Ekadasi day with Dasami on the same day is not suitable for
fast,. In this aspect Vaishnavas and Smarthas differ. Vaishnavas are said to
be those who have Deeksha in their Pancha Rathra Agama.
5. Brahmaikavartha
We are telling the meaning as given by Vaidyanatha Deekshithiyam. The four
Nazhigai (24 minutes each) before sun rise is called Arunodaya time. Dasami
in the beginning of Arunodaya time is called Veda,if it is for half a Nazhigai
(12 minutes). If the relation is one Nazhigai (24 minutes) then it is called
Adhiveda. If the relation extends up to the sun rise it is called Maha Veda.
Even if there is a few seconds of Dasami left during sun rise it is sufficient.
This is called Udaya veda.
If related with Dasami, Ekadasi is there during sun rise Sri Vaishnavas do not
fast or worship during that day as they consider it unsuitable. So if during
sunrise if there is Dasami, understand that it is not suitable for Smarthas.
6. Narada
If during sunrise, Ekadasi is seen with relation to Dasami, Smarthas should
not observe Ekadasi on that day. If observed the good effect earned in
hundreds of birth would be lost.
7. Vishnu Rahasya
During breaking of fast (Parana) Dwadasi should be there at least for a few
seconds. If it is no there, then we can observe Ekadasi with Dasami Veda.
This is applicable to smarthas.
If Ekadasi is there fully Dwadasi increases and is available in the next day
also it is called Vanjuli Ekadasi. In such cases you have to leave Ekadasi on
that day, observe fast on Dwadasi and break the fast next day. Widows and
Sanyasis should not observe such Ekadasi. For them even if Dwadasi is not
there for breaking the fast, it does not matter.
A householder if he observes complete fast on Shukla Paksha Ekadasi, it is
desirable. But in case of Krishna Paksha Ekadasi, he need not observe
complete fast but take some Tiffin/fruits. No fast should be observed on
Sundays, Sankramana (first of a month), Krishna Ekadasi, Vyatheepada and
Sradha days. You can take palahara once during such days.
The Ashada Shukla Ekadasi is called Sayahna Ekadasi and Kruthika Shukla
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Ekadasi is called prabodhini Ekadasi. The householder should necessarily
observe fast in the Krishna Paksha Ekadasi coming in between them. It
indicates that complete fast need not be observed in other Krishna Paksha
Ekadasi.
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2. Kamika
Sivarathri is mentioned in Kamika Sasthra. Magha Krishna paksha night is
called Shiva Rathri. Any good deed done during this day would give easy
benefits.
If on Magha Krishna Paksha, if Chaturdasi is fully there, without doubt Shiva
Rathri should be observed on that day. If partial thithi comes Thryodasi is not
desirable but Chaturdasi is. If Chaturdasi is there after sun set, it is
considered as propitious.
3. Ishana Samhitha
The shiva Rathri time is determined here. Chaturdasi should be there at night.
The time between 15th and 16th Nazhigai is defined as night. Chaturdasi
should be there at that time. If during that time for two consecutive days
Chaturdasi is there, then that day when it extends up to Pradosha is taken as
Shiva Rathri.. It is impossible for this to happen on both days.
4. Nagarakhanda
On Shiva Rathri day, fast and spending awake the day and night as well as
special poojas on Linga during the four Yamas should be done. People who
observe Shiva Rathri this way would lead a life without any wants and reach
the heaven of Lord Shiva. So Shiva Rathri is also classified as Nithya
Kamyam.
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XII. Jnana Ajnana krutha Papa Vichara (Sins done knowingly and
unknowingly)
XIII. Pathakam Dwividam (Two types of crime)
XIV. Prajapathya Kruchra Lakshanam (Procedure of Mortification)
XV. Pada Kruchra (Procedure of Pada - quarter - Kruchra)
XVI. Ardha Kruchra (Procedure of Ardha - half - Kruchra)
XVII. Athi Kruchra (Procedure of Athi - more - Kruchra)
XVIII. Kruchradhi Kruchram (Kruchram of Kruchrams)
XIX. Chaandrayanam (Mortification for 30 days)
XX. Keshaam chith paapanam Prayaschitha (Redemptive acts for certain
sins)
XXI. Rahasya papa pariharam (Redemptive acts for sins done secretly)
XXII. Kruchraprathinidhaya (Alternative to Kruchra)
(This chapter lists out the different types of sins which can be done by a
Brahmin. It then tells us in detail about several rituals involving mortification to
get rid of the effects of sins.)
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perform redemption.
2. Yagnavalkya
The people who do the five Mahapathakas would suffer in cruel hells for a
long time and take several births in this world. The man who does
Brahmahathi (literally killing of a Brahmin) sin is born as Deer, dog, pig and
Camel. The Brahmin, who takes up to Alcoholic drink, will be born as donkey,
pulkasa (demon) and Vena (bard). The Brahmin, who steals gold, will take
birth as worms, insects and flying insects. The one, who rapes his teacher’s
wife, would be born as grass, plants and climbers. The one who does
Brahmahathi (killing of Brahmin literally) would be born as one with T. B., the
one who drinks alcoholic drinks would be born with black teeth and the one
who steals gold will have brittle nails. The one who joins with these types of
people is also a great sinner. The hells merited by the type of his friends and
rebirths would be awarded to him also. If we do holy or sinful acts, first you
would undergo blessings and punishments in the present birth and would go
to heaven or hell. If we do it intensively you would see the results in three
years three months and three days. So intensity in doing sins is not good.
Sins should not be done at all.
3. Manu
The type of rebirths taken by people who commit different types of sins is also
told by Manu. He who befriends a sinner or steals the wife of another or
steals the property of a Brahmin would be born as Brahma rakshas (a type of
ghost). He who tells gossips about others would be born as one having a
stinking nose. He who points out the ills of others would have a stinking
mouth. He who steals grain would be born as handicapped. The Misraka
(adulterator) who buys good grains and adulterates it with bad grain would
have extra organs. The one who steals food would be diseased, he who
muzzles the opinion of others be born as a dumb one, the one who steals
cloth would be born as one with Leucoderma and the one who steals a horse
would be born lame. The people who do such sins would not be liked by good
people, would be zombies, would be dumb, would be blind, would be deaf
and would have ugly looking organs. People who due to avarice steal gems,
corals and pearls would be born in criminal tribes. The one who steals grains
would be born as a mouse, the one who steals bell metal would be born as a
swan, the one who steals water would be born as a water crow, the one who
steals honey would be born as big fly, the one who steals milk would be born
as crow, the one who steals juicy things would be born as a dog and the one
who steals ghee would be born as a mongoose. The one who steals white
silk would be born as a small bird, the one who steals costly white silk would
be born as frog, the one who steals things made of cotton thread would be
born as a Krowncha bird, the one who steals a cow be born as mountain rat,
and the one who steals Jaggery would be born as a bat. The one who steals
things made with good ivory would be born as a mouse, the one who steals
leafy vegetables be born as a peacock, the one who steals cooked rice would
be born as an animal called Swavith and the one who steals uncooked rice
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born as a porcupine.
The one who steals fire would be born as a stork, the one who steals house
hold articles as a worm called Grahakari and the one who steals red apparels
as a thief.
The one who steals deer or elephant would be born as wolf, the one who
steals horse would be born as tiger, the one who steals fruits and flowers as
monkey, the one who steals women as a bear, the one who steals drinking
water as Chathka (bird who cannot drink water) bird, the one who steals
vehicles as camel and the one who steals cows as white sheep. Whatever
may be the case, the one who steals the belongings of others would be born
as a beast or a bird, Eating material meant for Homa without doing Homa is a
sin which gives the same result. Hence undesirable acts should not be done.
There may be minor differences to the punishment which would be awarded,
among different sages but one of them is definite.
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2. Manu
Stealing the article given to us for safe custody and stealing land, diamond
and jewels are equivalent to stealing gold.
3. Manu
He who does evil things without intention or motive with his daughter, Dalith
lady and the wives of friends as well as son which commits sin equivalent to
raping the teacher's wife. These are classified as Samapathakas,. But if he
does it willfully it is Athipathaka.
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XI. Jathibramsakarana (Destroying community)
Wounding, troubling Brahmins and making them sad, smelling things like
onion, garlic etc and denying sex to the husband are Jathibramsakarana sins.
XII. Jnana Ajnana Krutha Papa Vichara (Sins done knowingly and
unknowingly)
1. Chagaleya
Redemption is only for those sins which are committed unknowingly. For sins
committed knowingly, there is no redemption.
2. Manu
Some people are of the opinion that redemption is there only for sins
committed unknowingly. Others however believe that redemption is there for
sins committed knowingly also.
3. Smruthi
The redemption for sins committed knowingly are double that for sins
committed unknowingly.
4. Athramadhaveeta
There is two results of Prayaschitha (redemption). One is that he will not
suffer in hell after death. He also can have good interaction with every one in
this world when he is alive. But if he has committed the five great sins, even if
he carries out redemption, no interaction should be there with him. No body
should have any dealings with him. So except for these, in case of
Upapathakas, if redemption is done, he will not suffer hell after death and
even in this world he can interact with others. For people who do
Upapathakas intentionally, they should do double the amount of redemption.
If this is done even for them there is no suffering in hell and people will move
with them. There is no redemption for the one who does Mahapathakas
intentionally. The only redemption is to fall from a mountain or falling in fire.
That is redemptive acts are only for those Mahapathakas not done
intentionally. Because redemptive acts after death are banned in the Kali age,
for the acts of passion done intentionally resulting in a Mahapathakas, the
suffering for hell is bound to be there. But if he does the 12 year Sadhya
Prayachitha, other people can move with him. If Upapathakas are done
unintentionally, just by reading Vedas, the redemption can be carried out. But
if done intentionally redemptive rituals should be carried out.
5. Smrithi
It tells about redemption to those who aid a murder. The murderer, the man
who approves it, the one who encouraged doing it, the man who helped in
planning, The man who encourages a murder, The one who helps in its
execution, The man who showed the path, the man who provided the place,
the man who gave the weapon, The one who fed the murderer before
committing it, the one who did not prevent it even though he could have
prevented it, The man who appreciated it are all guilty. There are redemptive
rituals for all of them.
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XIII. Pathakam Dwividam (Two Types of Crime)
Sins are of two types. One is doing sin with every one's knowledge or
publicly. This is called Prakasa papam. Another is the sin committed without
any one knowing it. This is called Rahasya papam (Secret sin). In case of
Prakasa papam we should approach scholars who are expert in Vedas,
Scholars knowing Dharma Sasthra and Great people who observe all rituals
and carry out the redemptive ritual as advised by them. That is a Prakasa
Prayachitham (public redemption). In case of Rahasya papam, the
redemptive act also can be kept as secret,
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Kruchram. This is easier. Thaptha Kruchram is taking once for three days hot
water once, followed by three days of once hot milk followed by three days of
hot ghee, which has to be followed by three days of complete starvation.
Santhapana Kruchram is taking Cow's urine, Cow dung, milk, curd, Ghee and
Kuchotha (?) in that order once for one day each, followed by one day of
starvation.
Starving for 12 days is called Paraga Kruchram. Suppose we live for one
month only on fruits, it is called Phala Kruchram. Suppose we take only gruel
made of Barley for one month it is called Yavaka Kruchram. Reciting
Agamarshana Suktha followed by Thrishavasa (?) snana and observing fast
for three days is called Agamarshana Kruchram.
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committed by us to people. After reaching Rameshwaram, you have to take
bath in Dhanushkoti and in all theerthas including Agni Theertham. After this
we can to return to our village and give as Dhana hundreds of cows and feed
hundreds of Brahmins.
2. Manu
The one, who does Brahma Hathi Dosha, should build a hut outside the
village and stay there for 12 years. He has to eat by begging for food in the
Kapala (skull) of a human being. Also all the twenty four hours we should
meditate on Hari.
3. Parasara
The redemptive act for the one who kills a cow is like this. He should shave
all the hair from his head, take bath thrice a day and observe Go (cow)
Vrutha. He should live with the group of cattle at night. When Cows go for
grazing during day time, he should follow them. He should not bother about
sun, rain etc. He should pay attention in protecting the cow. If they are caught
in mud, he should himself lift and help them. Then he has to observe
Prajapathya Kruchram. That Kruchram should be divided in to four depending
on the age of the cow killed. Then he should do Godhana and feed Brahmins.
This is the Prayaschitha for killing cows. Then he tells about redemptive act
for killing a cow or for beating it with a stick, big stone and knife and other
weapons. For the one who beats with a stick and kills, Santhapana Kruchram
is prescribed. For the one who hits it with a ball of mud and kills it,
Prajapathya Kruchram is prescribed. For the one who kills it with a stone
Thaptha Kruchram and the one who kills with knife Athi Kruchram is
prescribed. If a man kills a cow and hides it,, he would go to the hell called
Kala Suthra and suffer there for a long time. Then he would be born for seven
lives as one who has great disease, eunuch and one who only suffers. In the
term cow, bull also is included.
4. Manu
If a man drinks alcoholic drink, for redemption he has to boil the drink and
drink it as such when it is boiling. If his body is burnt as a result, he would get
rids of the sin committed by drinking.
5. Yama
If you happen to drink milk or coconut water in a copper vessel or drink milk
mixed with salt or drink alcoholic drink knowingly you have to observe
Chaandrayanam. If you do it unknowingly, Prajapathya Kruchra is sufficient.
6. Yagnavalkya
If a Brahmin steals Gold, he should give a big mortar (Ulakkai) to the king and
request the king to beat him with the mortar. If not he should do the
redemptive act prescribed for drinking alcohol. Other alternative is to give to
another Brahmin Gold equivalent to his own weight.
7. Markandeya
Going to a prostitute destroys both respectability as well as wealth. This
would also destroy fame and Thapas. Having sex with a widow would reduce
your power as well as life. Having sex with some body else's wife would
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destroy everything. The prayachitham for this is very harsh.
8. Devala
The man who spreads gossip about others, a rowdy, Drunkard and a
Gambler are considered as very bad people. If we happen to live with any of
them for one day, we have to perform Paraga Kruchra. If we live with any of
them for 15 days, we have to perform Thaptha Kruchra. If we live with any of
them for a month, we have to perform Prajapathya Kruchra. If we live for one
year we have to perform Chaandrayanam. Then only we would become
clean. If we live more than one year, we are also classified as very bad.
9. Jabali
The one who takes bath in the well for 7 days, the one who takes bath in hot
water for 7 days and the one who does not clean himself with mud after
answering nature's calls should do Prajapathya Kruchram and then drink
Pancha Gavya to get himself cleaned.
10. Yagnavalkya
For getting rid of Upapathakas we have do Chaandrayanam or live with only
milk as food for one month or perform Paraga Kruchra.
XXI. Rahasya Papa Pariharam (Redemptive acts for sins done secretly)
1. Manu
Doing Veda Parayana daily, doing the five great Yagna (Pancha Maha
Yagna) and being patient, destroy the sins committed in secret. Like a fire
makes twigs in to ash, the Veda knowing Brahmin drives away all the sins by
the fire of his knowledge. It is also told that if we do 16 Pranayamas along
with Mantras, the sins committed vanish.
2. Parasara
Chaandrayanam, Yavaka Kruchra, Thula Purusha Dhana, Go Vrutha and
taking care of cows are normal redemptive acts for all sins.
3. Paitinasi
Even though we are involved in several sins, if we meditate on Achyutha and
Vasudeva forgetting the world, we again become pure and become noble.
4. Brugu
Even if sins are done in one crore different ways, if we sing "Rama, Rama",
by the effect of the name "Rama" all sins would be destroyed. This is a
redemptive act for all sorts of sins. There is no better redemptive act in any of
the Shastras.
5. Brhamikavartha
The man, though he has committed all sorts of sins,, if he sings about Lord
Shiva with a sinless mind and great devotion, he would become a pure soul.
6. Athri
If we chant the Sri Rudra Mantra, eleven times, even if we have committed
great sins, we would get rid of all sins.
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XXII. Kruchraprathinidhaya (Alternative to Kruchra)
1. Hemadhri
Because due to the change of time and place, we may not be able to observe
Prajapathya Kruchra, The great sages have told other alternatives.. This
Kruchram according to them is equivalent to feeding 12 Brahmins or Ten
thousand times chanting of Gayathri or doing 1000 thila homams.
2. Parasara
Prajapathya Kruchra is equivalent to 200 pranayamas
Or
12 times bathing in sacred rivers like Ganga
Or
Walking 20 miles singing the names of God
Or
Chanting Gayathri Manthra 10000 times
It is sufficient if one of them is observed.
3. Madhaveeya
If we are not able to observe Prajapathya Kruchra, we have to give one cow
to a Brahmin, If this is not possible, we can give sufficient money to buy a
cow to a Brahmin. If without intention sins occur to sagely elders, they can do
Japa and Homa and get rid of the sin. If Sin is done by one who does not
follow Achara, he has to do Kruchrams to get rid of sins. In case of rich
people they can get rid of their sins by large donations of wealth.
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If the man observing fast is not able to observe complete fast he can choose
one out of Water, root vegetables, fruits, milk, Rice without salt, what has
been offered in Sradha, the teachings of Guru and medicine. These eight do
not spoil the Vrutha of fasting.
By frequently drinking water, by frequently eating Thamboola (betel leaf plus
betel nut), by sleeping in the day time and having sex with ladies, the fasting
ritual would be destroyed. So we should not do them while fasting.
Those great ones who do Japa (chant) do not have bad dreams, worry,
ghosts, snakes, Brahma Rakshas, thieves, head ache etc So it is essential to
chant good Mantras.
The one who lights the perennial lamp and maintains it in the temple of
Vishnu or Lord Shiva, and maintains them everyday gets the effect of having
performed an Aswamedha Yaga.
After meals, if we worship Lord Vishnu and eat the Nirmalya Thulasi (ocimum
sanctum) leaf, then we would get rid of all sins and get the effect of having
performed 100 Chaandrayanam,
During sacred thread ceremony, we can eat together with our mother and on
the day of the marriage we can eat with our wives. But in all other times if we
eat along with a lady, we would become sinners.
Sins do not stick on the body of a Brahmin in whose body Vedas are there.
He would be personification of Vedas but by a bare body there is no use.
First we have to learn Veda face to face from some one. Then we have think
and do research on the meaning of what we have learnt. Then we have to
repeat again and again whatever we have learnt. We should do Brahma
Yagna. We should teach what we have learnt to others. These are the five
aspects of learning Vedas.
When we learn Vedas we have to lead a ritualistic life, follow the writs of the
part of Veda we are learning, eat food on the floor and learn the entire Veda
including Upanishads. This is the important duty of a Brahmin.
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When we are beginning to learn Prasna and Anuvaka, we have say Hari
slowly similar to Harihi. It should be separately pronounced and not mixed
with "Om” that follows it. "Ha" should be told loudly and "Ri" softly.
That Brahmin who teaches Vedas according to the tenets of Dharma, he gets
similar benefit as that of Bhoo dhana (giving away land) and Godhana (giving
away cows)
If a Gothra or Pravara rishi is found in some other Gothra, Such Gothras are
considered as similar Pravara. But this is not applicable to Brugu Gothra and
Aangeeras Gothra.
If a girl is not given in marriage (even after she grows up), she can live in the
house of her birth till death. So Just for the sake of marrying her away, we
should not give her in marriage to a debased male.
In case of Sradha of mother and father, the Thila Tharpana should be done in
the next day morning. But in Sradha of others, Tharpana has to be performed
immediately.
On the first day of a Yuga, on the first day of the month, Pournavasya and on
Vyatheepada, The Tharpana should be done before the Sradha where Anna
is offered. In case of Ardhodhaya, Gajachaya, Sashti, Mahalaya Bharani and
Mahalaya Maka, the Tharpana should be done afterwards.
In case of Nandi Sradham, Sapindeekaranam, Pretha Sradham,
Anumasikam, Apthika and Vimokam, there is no Tharpana.
In Mahalaya Sradha and in all Sradhas which are performed in the Hiranya
form, the Tharpana should be performed after the Sradha. The consideration
of before and after is only in case of Anna Sradha.
If several Sradhas come on the same day, first do Pratyapthika, (annual) then
Masika (monthly) and then Darsa (on Amavasya).
Any sin which can be removed by starving for 15 days can be removed by
doing 100 pranayamas. That sin which can be removed by doing 1000
Pranayama, can be removed in a second by meditating the four armed form
of Vishnu with conch, mace, flower and the wheel. So please meditate on
Hari always.
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There is no one like Samba or Eesaana who cut of the ties of worldly life, who
is superior to me. I am divine, I am free, I am everywhere. My being
everywhere is not due to the effect of illusion. I am witness for everything.
(This indicates that worship of Lord Shiva gives us all that we desire and
want.)
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Sandhya Vandanam - Tri Vedi
Procedure with Summary and Meaning
Compiled by P. R. Ramachander
Introduction
Sandhya Vandanam literally means either Salutation to the goddess of Dawn
and dusk or the prayers done during dawn and dusk. Hindus considered the
period just before dawn and just after dusk as well as the exact period of
noon, as extremely suitable for meditation. All Brahmins after Upanayanam
(prescribed to be done at the age of seven), were required to do these
prayers without fail. Essentially these prayers are offering oblations to devas
(arghya pradanam), doing breathing exercises (pranayamam) and then
meditating on Gayathri by chanting the king of all manthras Gayathri. This
Manthra is taught to every boy by his own father during the ceremony of
brahmopadesam. After learning Gayathri every boy is supposed to have
taken a second birth and is entitled to be called Dwija. Our scriptures attach
lot of importance to Sandhya Vandanam. They prescribe that a dwija should
do it without fail every day. They also say that the knowledgeable Brahmin
who salutes the Sun god daily thrice would attain whatever he wants. They
further say that one who does not do sandhyavandanam is a sinner and is not
eligible for any Vedic duties. What is given below is the Sandhya Vandanam
procedure prescribed for Yajur Vedis. But the manthras to be chanted by
followers of the other Vedas is also mentioned wherever there is a difference.
All people are requested to do the Sandhya Vandanam initially for a few times
under the guidance of their "Guru" and use the procedure and manthras
given below later. This is requested because English being not a very
phonetic language is inadequate to transliterate Sanskrit slokas and that too
those written in the Vedic Sanskrit. A summary meaning of all the manthras
chanted is appended at the end.
Sandhya Vandhana has two parts, the first one normally to be done either
standing in a river or sitting with hunched legs on the feet outside the house
and the second part is done by sitting on firm ground using the lotus pose
(Padmasana). It is normally done facing east during dawn and noon and
facing west during dusk..
1. Perform Achamanam
Take small quantities of water (just sufficient to soak one grain of black gram)
three times in the right hand and take it with the following manthra:
Om Achyuthaya Namah, Om Ananthaya Namah, Om Govindaya Namah.
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Then
Touch with thumb both cheeks saying Kesava - Narayana
Touch with ring finger both eyes saying Madhava - Govinda
Touch with the first finger both sides of nose saying Vishno - Madhusoodana
Touch with little finger both ears saying Trivikrama - Vamana
Touch with the middle finger both shoulders saying Sreedhara - Hrishikesa
Touch with all fingers the belly button saying Padmanabha
Touch with all fingers the head saying Damodara
2. Ganapathi Dhyanam*:
Recite the following manthra slowly hitting the forehead with both fists
together:
Shuklambaradharam Vishnum Sasi Varnam ChathurBhujam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dyayeth Sarva Vigna Upa Santhaye.
*This prayer is not recited by Vaishnavas. They are requested to go to the
next section.
3. Do Pranayamam:
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om.
4. Sankalpam
Keep the right palm inside the left palm and keep the palms on the right thigh
and recite the following manthra:
Mamo partha samastha duritha kshaya dwara, Sri Parameshwara
preethyartham*,
pratha sandhyam upasishye (for madhyannikam instead tell "madhyaynikam
karishye" and for evening sandhya vandhanam tell "sayam sandhyam
upasishye")
*Vaishnavas may instead tell "shri bhagavadaagnaayaa shriimannaaraayana
priityartham".
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5. Marjanam
Sri Kesavaya Namah (write OM in water with the ring finger)
Recite the following ten manthras. While reciting the first seven sprinkle water
on the head, while reciting the eighth touch the feet, nine again sprinkle on
the head and complete by reciting the tenth with Take little water on your right
palm and throw around your head in clockwise direction like pradakshinam:
Aapo hishta mayo bhuva (1) thana oorje dadha thana (2) Mahe ranaaya
chakshase (3) Yova shiva thamo rasa (4) Thasya bhajaya thehana (5)
usatheeriva mathara (6) Thasma aranga mamava (7)
Yasya kshayaya jinwadha (8)
Aapo janayadha jana (9)
Om bhorbuvassuva (10)
6. Praasanam
Take in the hand small quantity of water in the palm (just sufficient to
immerse one grain) recites the following manthra and drink it while telling
"swaha".
Noon (Madhyahnika)
Aapa punanthu prithweem, prithwee pootha punathu maam
Punanthu brahmanaspathir brahma pootha punathu maam
Yad uchishta mabhojyam yadhwa ducharitham mama
Sarvam punanthu mamopa asatham cha prathigraham swaha
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Ahasthada valumbathu
Yad kinchid duritham mayi
Idamaham maam amrutha yonau
Sathye jyothishi juhomi swaha
7. Achamanam
Use the same manthras and action as given in "1" above
8. Punar Marjanam
Recite the following fourteen manthras. While reciting the first eleven-sprinkle
water on the head, while reciting the twelfth touch the feet, thirteen again
sprinkle on the head and complete by reciting the fourteenth with Take little
water on your right palm and throw around your head in clockwise direction
like pradakshinam:
Dadhi kravinno akarisham (1) Jishno raswasya vajina (2) surabhino mukha
karaath (3) Prana ayugumshi tharishath (4) Aapo hishta mayo bhuva (5)
Thana oorje dadha Thana (6) Mahe ranaaya chakshase (7) Yova shiva
thamo rasa (8) Thasya bhajaya thehana (9) usatheeriva mathara (10)
Thasma aranga mamava (11)
Yasya kshayaya jinwadha (12)
Aapo janayadha jana (13)
Om bhorbuvassuva (14)
Some Rik vedis after doing this punar marjanam recite the following manthra
with little water in hand, smell the water and pour it in southwesterly direction.
Ruthancha sathyancha thapasodyadha thadho rathri jayatha thada samudhro
arnavaa
Samudhradarnavaa dadhi samvadvaro ajayatha.
Aho rathraani vidhathat viswasya mishadho vasi.
Soorya chandrama sow dhatha yadha poorva magalpayath.
Divancha prithweem santharishmatho Suva.
9. Argya Pradhanam
Join both hands together and take hand full of water taking care not to join
both thumbs with other fingers (facing east during Pratha Sandhya, facing
north during Madyannikam, and facing west during Sayam Sandhya) repeat
the following manthra and pour it, thrice during pratha sandhya, twice during
Madhyannikam and twice during Sayam sandhya:
Om Bhorbuvassuva. Tatsa vithur varenyam bhargo devasya deemahi. Dhiyo
yona prachodayath
Rik vedis in all the three times offer three argyas always standing.
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10. Prayaschitha Argyam
Do Pranayama (refer S. No. 3 above)
Then offer one more Argyam in a similar fashion as above. This is a
Prayaschitha (atonement) for doing the argya pradhanam late. Take small
quantity of water in the right hand and rotate it above ones own head saying
(this is called Athma parishechanam)
Om Bhorbuvassuva
Rik and Sama Vedis use a different manthra for this prayachithargyam:
Morning (Pratha Sandhya)
Om yadathya gacha vruthrahan. Udayaa abhisoorya sarvaan dathindra they
vache.
Noon (Madyannikam)
Om uthkedthbhi sruthamagam vrushabham naryabasim
Astharameshi soorya
11. Ikyaanusandhanam
With both hands touch the middle of the chest, close the eyes, meditate and
chant
Asaavadhityo brahma. Brahamaivahamasmi
Then do Achamanam.
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Govindam tharpayami
Vishnum tharpayami
Madhusoodhanam tharpayami
Trivikramam tharpayami
Vamanam tharpayami
Sreedharam tharpayami
Hrishikesam tharpayami
Padmanabham tharpayami
Damodharam tharpayami
Then do aachamanam
1. Japa Sankalpam
Recite the following manthra slowly hitting the forehead with both fists
together:
Shuklambaradharam Vishunum Sasi Varnam ChathurBhujam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dyayeth Sarva Vigna Upa Santhaye.
*This prayer is not recited by [Link] are requested to go to the
next section.
Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tat savithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
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Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om
Keep the right palm inside the left palm and keep the palms on the right thigh
and recite the following manthra:
Mamo partha samastha duritha kshaya dwara, Sri Parameshwara
preethyartham*,
pratha sandhya gayathri maha manthra japam karishye (for madhyannikam
instead tell "madhyaynika gayathri maha manthra japam karishye" and for
evening sandhya vandhanam tell "sayam sandhya gayathri maha manthra
japam karishye")
*Vaishnavas may instead tell "shri bhagavadaagyayaa shriimannaaraayana
priityartham"
2. Pranava Japam
Pranavasya Rishi Brahma (touch the forehead with fingers), Devi gayathri
Chanda (touch below the nose), Paramathma devatha (touch the middle of
the chest)
Bhooradhi saptha vyahrudeenam athri - brugu - kuthsa - vasishta - gowthama
- kasyapa - aangeerasa rishaya (touch forhead)
Gayathree - ushnig - anushtup - brahathi - pankthi- trushtup- jagathi -
chandamsi (touch below the nose)
Agni - vayu - arka - vageesa - varuna - indra - viswe deva - devatha (touch
the middle of the chest.)
3. Gayathri Avahanam
Aayadithya anuvagasya vamadeva rishi (touch head), Anushtup chanda
(touch below nose), Gayathri devatha (touch the middle of the chest)
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Aayathu varada devi aksharam brahma samhitham.
Gayathri chandasam mathedam brahma jushaswana.
Oojosi, sahosi, balamasi, brajosi, devaanaam dhama naamaasi. viswamasi,
viswayu sarvamasi, sarvayu abhipoorom, Gayathrim avahayami, Savithrim
avahayami, saraswathim avahayami (while reciting the last three manthras,
after avahayami, keep both the palms together with little fingers touching and
then slowly take the fingers towards oneself, and bring it back to original
position after one rotation)
4. Gayathri Nyasam
Savithrya rishi brahma (touch the forehead), nichrud gayathri chanda (touch
below the nose), savitha devatha (touch the middle of the chest)
5. Gayathri Japam
Repeat 108 times the Gayathri facing east in the morning, west in the
evening:
Om Bhur Vhuvah Svah
Tat Savitur Varenyam
Bhargo Devasya Dheemahi
Dhiyo Yo Nah Prachodayat
[take care that the manthra is not heard to any one and if possible without the
lips moving. The counting is done by using japa mala or counting 10 with
using the thumb the ten phalanges except the bottom two of the ring finger.
Some people insist that the counting should not be known to others and cover
the counting hand with towel.]
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6. Gayathri Upasthanam
Do pranayamam and then stand up and chant
Facing the same direction:
Pratha sandhyam upasthanam karishye (during pratha sandhya)
Adithyam upasthanam karishye (during madyannikam)
Sayam sandhyaupasthanam karishye (during sayam sandhya)
Then repeat
Uthame shikare devi, bhoomyam parvatha vardhini,
Brahmanebhyo anugnanam, gacha devi yada sukham.
7. Surya Upasthanam
During morning (Pratha Sandhya)
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Adithya naava maroksham poornamparipadinim
Achithram bharayishnaveem satharithraam swasthye om Namah adithyaya
Udyantham dwa aadithyanu deeyasam
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Chithram devaanam udaganeekam chakshur mithrasya varunasyagne
Aa pra dyava pruthvi anthareeksha soorya athma jagadas tha dushacha
Thachkshur deva hitham purasthac chukramussarth
Om bhorbuvaswarom
Soorya iva druse bhooyasam agneeriva thejasa, vayuriva pranena, soma iva
ganthena, brahaspathher iva budhya, aswina iva roopena, indragni iva
balena, brahma bhaga evaham bhooyasam paap mabhaga me dwishantha.
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For Sama Vedis
Yaso aham bhavami brahmananaam yaso ragnam yaso visaam
Yasa sathyasya bhavami
Bhavami yasasaam yasa
Adithya naava maroksham poornamparipadinim
Achithram bharayishnaveem satharithraam swasthye om Namah adithyaya,
Namah adhithyaya, Namah adithyaya
Prathi thishtantham thavar adhithya anu prathi thishtassam.
8. Samashti Abhivadanam
Starting from the direction facing which the japa was done after each manthra
turn 90 degrees to the right. Say the next manthra and so on.
Sandhyayai Namah
Savithryai Namah
Gaythryai Namah
Saraswathyai Namah
Then touch with both hands the ears slightly bow and chant
Abhivadaye (tell your rishis) (tell number) Risheya
(tell your pravara) pravaranvitha
(tell your Gothra) gothra
(tell your Suthra) suthra
(tell your Veda) adhyay
Sri (tell your name) sarmanam aham asmibho
After this touch your feet with both hands and do Namahskaram.
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Chandilya Kasyapa, Aavathsara, Naidruva, Reba, Saptha risheya
Raibha, Choundilya, Chandilya
Then again face the direction in which you were doing japa and continue
Oordwaya Namah (above)
Adharaya Namah (below)
Anthareekshaya Namah (straight)
Bhoomyai Namah (earth)
Brahmane Namah
Vishnave Namah
Mrutuyuve Namah
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Aakasath pathitham thoyam,
Yada gachathi sagaram,
Sarva deva Namahskara
Sri kesavam prathi gachathi,
Some families face the North after this and chant the following Sarpa Raksha
Manthram:
Narmadayayi Namah-Prathar narmadayai namo nisi
Namosthu narmadhe thubhyam trahi maam visha sarpatha
Apa sarpa sarpa bhadram the Dooram gacha maha yasa
Janamejayasya yagnanthe aasthika vachanam smaran
Jarath karer Jarath karvam samuthpanno maha yasa
Aasthika Sathya santho maam pannagebhyo abhi rakshathu.
13. Samarpanam
Take a small quantity of water recite the following manthra and pour it on the
ground
Kaye na vacha manase indriyair va
Budhyathma nava prakruthai swabhavat.
Karomi yadyat sakalam parasmai,
Narayana yethi samarpayami
Then do aachamanam
14. Raksha
Sprinkle some water on the place where japa was [performed reciting the
manthra below, then touch the ground with ring finger and place it between
the eyelids:
Adhya no deva savitha praja vath saavee soubhagam
Para duswapneeya suva
Viswani deva savitha - durithani paraa suvaa
Yad bhadram thama asuva
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Summary Meaning of Sandhya Vandhanam in English
Sandhya Vandhanam - Part-I - Argya Pradhanam
1. Aachamanam
This is a preliminary purification ceremony. Gods Achyutha, Anantha and
Govinda are saluted and then chanting the twelve names of Vishnu purifies
the self.
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5. Marjanam (Holy bath by sprinkling water)
Salutations to Lord Kesava. It is well known that you Gods of water are the
source of greatness in life. Please grant us the ethereal vision. Like the holy
and dear mothers, grant us please the ultimate essence of happiness that
you have. We are praying you for that essence of happiness to posses, which
you are personification of pleasure. You gods of water should through
knowledge help us to be born holy in the next birth.
6. Prasanam (drinking water powered by Manthras)
Morning (Really at dawn)
Let the sun God, the anger that makes every one its slave and the powers of
God, which control anger save me from the sins committed while being angry.
Let the God of night remove the sins done by me using my mind, my voice,
my hands, my legs, my belly and my penis and also any other sins that
remain with me. I offer myself to the great light of sun, after the purifications
of my sins as a result of this prayer. Let this offering be done well
Noon
Let the god of water purify the earth, which is its source, and let the earth thus
purified purify me. Let it also purify my teacher who is the source of Vedas to
me. Let Vedas, which are ever holy, purify me. Let the god of water purify me
of my action in eating the remnants of food eaten by someone else, which are
fit not to be eaten and also my bad habits, which are within me. Let it also
purify me of my action in following the actions of bad people. I offer myself to
thee God.
Evening (really dusk)
Let the God of fire, the anger that makes everyone its slave and the powers
of God, which control anger save me from the sins committed while being
angry. Let the God of day remove the sins done by me using my mind, my
voice, my hands, my legs, my belly and my penis and also any other sins that
remain with me. I offer myself to the great light, which gives Holy Communion
with the ever shining, after the purifications of my sins as a result of this
prayer. Let this offering be done well
7. Aachamanam (same as 1)
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you are personification of pleasure. You gods of water should through
knowledge help us to be born holy in the next birth.
1. Japa Sankalpam
Dressed in white thou art,
Oh, all pervading one,
And glowing with the colour of moon.
With four arms, thou art, Vishnu.
I meditate on thine ever-smiling face,
And pray, "Remove all obstacles on my way".
Pranayamam
Hindus believed that that there were six holy worlds above the earth. These
along with earth are remembered in the first part. These worlds are bhooloka,
bhuvarloka, suvarloka, maharloka, janaloka, thapaloka and satya loka. The
second part is the famous Gayathri manthram. It means "I meditate on that
savitha (the sun or the enlightenment within ourselves) which helps us in our
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though process, that god which is within me and that all engulfing power."
Or
"I meditate on the most holy shining aspect of that God, who helps in
brightening our thought process." Then the third part means "Om is water, it
is the light, it is the earth which gives the food, it is the air which supports life,
and it is the ether which is spread all around. It is also the holy seven worlds."
By touching the nose the hands are supposed to get polluted and this is
removed by touching the ears thrice.
Sankalpam
This is a preliminary rite in every Vedic action. We tell why we are doing what
we do. We chant To become dear to the Lord Parameshwara (in case of
Vaishnavas it is Lord Vishnu) and to destroy all the effects of sins committed
by me, I do meditation on Gayathri in the morning (noon, evening)
2. Pranava Japam (Pranayamam as preliminary to meditation)
For "Om", the sage is Lord Brahma himself, the meter is Gayathri, and the
ultimate Brhman is its God.
For the seven worlds, the rishis are Athri, Brugu, Kutsa, Vasishta, Gowthama,
Kasyapa, Angeerasa and the corresponding meters are Gayathri, Ushnik,
Anushtup, Bruhathi, Pankthi, Trushtup and Jagathi are the respective meters
and Fire God, Wind God,, Sun God, God of words, God of Rain, God of
Devas and God of the universe are Gods respectively.
This is followed by Pranayamam whose meaning is given under sankalpam.
3. Gayathri Avahanam (Requesting Goddess Gayhtri to come within us)
For this Manthra starting with the word "Ayanthu", the sage is Vama Deva,
meter is Anushtup and Goddess is Gayathri.
The goddess Gayathri who can give all desired boons, who is ever
permanent, who is known by Vedas and who is the mother of all meters
should come in me. Let this prayer be granted.
Hey mother Gayathri, you are the power of soul supporting air, you are the
power of all organs, You have power to win over all enemies, You are the
resplendent light, You are the brightness of all Gods, You are the universe,
You are time - the soul of the universe, You are soul of everything, You are
victorious overall and So I pray you who are the meaning of the word "Om". I
request Gayathri to come within me, I request Savithri to come inside me, and
I request Saraswathi to come inside me.
4. Gayathri Nyasam (Preliminary to Gayathri Japa)
For The Savithri Manthra, the sage is Viswamithra, meter is Nichruth-Gayathri
and the God is Savitha
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6. Gayathri Upasthanam (Requesting Gayathri to go back)
I am requesting the Goddess of Morning ( evening) to go back to her plac e
In the noon, I am requesting the Sun God to go to his place.
After blessing us who pray you, please be kind enough to bless us and go
and occupy your place, which is in the holy peak, and be ever happy.
Noon
The sun God who is resplendent in his light of the soul and who travels with
his visible light which makes the people of earth and heaven do their allotted
duties, travels in his golden chariot inspecting all the worlds,
We who see the sun God, who rises daily after swallowing darkness and who
with his light protects the devas attain the glittering shine of the soul.
His horses, which are his rays, carry the Sun God who is well known in the
Vedas and who knows everything and travel round the sky so that we the
people of earth can all see him.
The sun God who is like an eye to Mithra, Varuna and Agni and who is
personification of all devas travels very high in the sky. The Sun god who is
the soul of those who are mobile and also to those who are immobile spreads
through out the heaven, earth and the atmosphere. Rising in the east and
doing good to all the gods the sun is like an eye. We will see him for hundred
springs, WE would live for hundred springs, We would enjoy life with all those
who are dear for hundred springs, We would live with fame for hundred
springs, We would hear sweet words for hundred springs, We would live
without being won by bad deeds for hundred springs, Like this we wish to see
our dear Sun God for a long long time.
Let the Sun God who gives us all boons, who has reddish eyes, who knows
everything, who shines in all directions and who rises from the middle of the
vast ocean in the dawn make me holy with all his mind.
Evening
Oh god Varuna, please hear now this prayer. Make me happy just now for I
pray you beseeching for protection. I pray you using manthras of Vedas for
that purpose and fall at your feet. One who does fire sacrifice with offerings to
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the fire is also requesting for the same thing. Of Famous God Varuna, without
neglect be pleased to hear my prayer. Please never reduce my life span.
Oh God Varuna, we might have neglected to worship you daily due to
carelessness. Without knowing we men might have deceived the devas in
worship, we might have spoiled your good deeds. Oh God Varuna, please do
not punish us for these sins.
We might have been defamed without basis by bad people like gamblers. We
might have done sins fully knowing it. WE might have done sins without
knowing it. Please destroy in to small pieces; all these without pain, Please
keep me as one who is very dear to you.
The crimes of passion and anger done by me were not done with full
realization. I beseech you again and again to pardon all those sins, which
were done unknowingly by me.
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To him who destroys,
To him who can put to an end,
To Him who is the son of Sun God,
To him who represents march of time,
To him who causes death to all beings,
To him who is supremely strong,
To him who is called the universal giver,
To him who has a bluish body,
To him who is being worshipped by all,
To him who has a huge belly,
To him who is really peculiar,
And to him who guards his secret.
Guards his secret continued.
11. Hari Hara Vandanam
I salute Him
Who is the beauty in all things I see,
Who is the truth in what I tell,
Who is the ultimate Brahmam,
Who is the soul of every being,
Who is the amalgam of black (Vishnu) and Red (Shiva),
Who sees up from energy,
Who is the three eyed God,
And who is personification of the universe.
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Oh great one, I am follower of the pravara rishis called --------------------
belonging to -------------------- Gothra (clan), following the --------------------
Suthra and a student of -------------------- Veda and my name is --------------------
Sarma and I am following at thine feet.
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Smriti Mukta Phalam
By P. R. Kannan
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Stotra Chinthamani
[Sloka Prayers for Solving Various Problems]
Compiled by Sri Vathsa Somadeva Sharma
Translated by P. R. Ramachander
[These slokas and the method of chanting them have been taken from a book
"Stotra Chinthamani" compiled by Sri Vathsa Somadeva Sarma and
published in Tamil by Surabhi Jagatguru Sathabdhi Publications, Madras.]
1.
For Getting Rid of Diseases
[Prayer is addressed to Balambika of Vaitheeswaran Koil]
Lord of Balambika, God of doctors, Hara the god who removes disease of
birth and death,
He who reads these three names daily, would get rid of great diseases.
2.
For Getting Rid of Diseases
[Chant this 108 times and apply sacred ash. Disease would go away. Repeat
for 40 days if it is serious.]
3.
For Getting Rid of Misery
[To be read eight times]
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4.
To Get Rid of Bad Dreams
To get the effect of reading Shiva Sahasranama
[To be read three times]
5.
To Get Desires Fulfilled
[This has to be chanted 108 times after bath for 40 days.]
6.
To Avoid Bad Dreams
[Chant 3 times before retiring to bed]
7.
To Get Rid of Sins
[Chant it three times as soon as you get up. Sins done in the previous day will
vanish.]
Vishnum, Narayanam, Krishnam, Madhavam, Madhusudanam,
Harim Naraharim Vandhe Govindham, Dadhi Vamanam.
I Salute Vishnu, Narayana, Krishna, Madhava, Madhusudana,
Hari, Narasimha, Govinda and Vamana.
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8.
To Get Rid of Incurable Diseases
[Chant this 1008 times in the morning for 40 days]
Om Nama Paramarthaya Purushaya Mahathmane,
Aroopa Bahu Roopaya, Vyapine Paramathmane.
Om, I Salute the Purusha who is the truth and a Great One,
Who is without form, who has several forms, who is the divine soul, who is
everywhere.
9.
To Get Result Equal to Performing Yaga
Salutations to Smruthi, Yagna [fire Sacrifice]. All Yagnas are great and great.
I always salute Devas and let the God of Fire Sacrifices be pleased with me.
10.
To Get Effect of Performing Oupasana
[This has to be chanted at dawn, noon and dusk.]
Using four things, four things, you enter the fifth stage,
In the case of fire Sacrifice, Lord Vishnu would be pleased with you.
11.
To Remove the Sins of not Performing Rituals Properly
[Chanting this thrice in the morning and in evening - Removes sin of not doing
Sandhya Vandana as well as doing it late.]
Vishnu who has the form of divine God makes us cross from one shore to
another,
As he is shore to the sea of sorrow as well as sea of the cycle of birth and
death.
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12.
Prayer to Lord Vishnu and Lord Shiva.
I salute the ever permanent one; I salute him, who wears the forest garland,
I salute him, who has halahala poison in the neck; I salute consort of
Lakshmi.
13.
To Prevent Messengers of God of Death from troubling us
[The Messengers of Yama will not trouble us if we chant this prayer]
14.
Trimurthi Sthuthi
[Prayer to the Trinity - Chanting this three times destroys sin committed by
mind, words and body.]
15.
For Increase in Knowledge and to Pass In Examination
[This has to be chanted eight times in the morning.]
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I Salute her who is the goddess of interpretation of all Sastras,
As well as other works laying down rules as well as all alphabets.
16.
To Attract an Individual
[Chant 108 times, writing every time the name of person who has to be
attracted on Saffron or turmeric powder and wear that powder.]
17.
To Destroy Sin Committed by the Mind
[This has to be chanted eight times at dawn and dusk.]
Vibhatheeya Shivasane, Shivena Saakam Avyaya,
Hiranmaye Athinirmale Namami Thaam Himathrijaam.
I Salute her who sits with Lord Shiva on the shining seat of Shiva,
The Golden Goddess, who is extremely pure and who is daughter of
Himalayas.
18.
To Get Cured of Poxes
[To be chanted 108 times for three days, for the sick man, by another one
standing in water.]
I Salute the Goddess Sitala [cold one] sitting on a donkey, wearing the sky as
cloth,
Who holds in her hand a broomstick and a pot, who would cure all poxes.
19.
To Increase Memory and Avoid Loss of Memory
[To be chanted 108 times daily]
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I salute her, salute her and salute her, who exists,
In all beings in the form of memory.
20.
To Get Cured of Cholera
[Take water in a copper pot and chant this mantra 108 times and then make
the patient drink the water. If you daily chant this, you would not be attacked
by Cholera.]
21.
To Get Rid of Eye Diseases
[To be chanted 12 times daily, 108 times on Sundays and first of the Sanskrit
months and should be offered Jaggery rice as Naivedhya. This is a part of
Soorya Sthava Raja.]
The transformer, one who shines, bird of the sky, one who lights, one who
bestows,
One who lights the world, the eye of the world, the great lord,
The witness of the world, the god of three worlds, the doer, the destroyer and
killer of night,
He who heats, he who cools, the pure one, one who rides on seven horses,
He who has shining hands, one who has realized Brahman, one who is
saluted by all devas,
He who improves health, increases wealth and fame.
22.
To Remove Balarishta
[This has to be chanted 100 times, written on a card and hung on the cradle
of the baby. This would remove difficulties during childhood.]
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Lord Brahma, Lord Vishnu, Lord Shiva, Lord Subrahmanya, Goddess
Parvathi, Goddess Lakshmi, the Greatest God,
Let them protect from fever and thirst and set this baby free from all troubles.
23.
To Get Rid of Barrenness among Ladies
[These names of 18 Puranas should be chanted once daily and 108 times in
the Shukla Dwadasi of the Karthigai month.]
One who reads the names of Brahma Purana, Padma Purana, Vishnu
Purana, Saiva Purana,
Bhagwatha, Bhavishya Purana, Narada Purana, Markandeya Purana,
Agneya Purana, Brahma Vaivartha Purana, Linga Purana, Varaha Purana,
Skandha Purana, Vamana Purana, Koorma Purana, Mathsya Purana,
Garuda Purana,
Brahmanda Purana would definitely get a son.
24.
To Give Birth to a Son
[Daily this has to be chanted 108 times, Payasa has to be offered as
Naivedhya and distributed among children]
Kausalya gave birth to Rama who was gifted with all good qualities,
Who was half of Vishnu, who was Great and increased the Ikshuvaku
Dynasty.
25.
To Get Married Quickly
[To be chanted by the girl or boy or their parents daily 108 times]
Hearing the words of Janaka, the four held the hand by their hands,
Of the daughters of Janaka due to the advice expressed by Vasishta.
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26.
To Get Rid of Diseases like Epilepsy and Fainting
[Chant 108 times]
27.
To Realize Success in What We Do
[As soon as you start something recite this mantra ten times to get success in
that thing]
28.
To Get Rid of Danger
[Daily chant this mantra ten times and when great danger comes chant 1008
times]
29.
To Get Rid of Fear of Enemy and to Get Rid of Sorrow
[Salute Lord Rama and chant 1008 times]
Aarthanaam Aarthi Hantharam Bheethanam Bheetha Nasanam,
Dwishatham Kaladandam Tham Ramachandram Namamyaham
My Salutations to that Ramachandra,
Who wipes away all miseries of the miserable,
Who wipes away all fear from those who are frightened,
And who is the God of death to his enemies.
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30.
To Avoid Accidental Death
[Chant this 1008 times and apply Sacred Ash]
Mruthyunjayaya Rudraya, Neelakantaq Shambhave,
Amruthesaya Sarvaya Mahadevaya They Nama.
Oh God who has won over death, Oh angry God, Oh God with blue neck, Oh
Shambu,
Oh God of the Nectar, Oh Shiva, Oh Mahadeva, I Salute you.
31.
To Get the Grace of Goddess
[Chant this ten times daily]
32.
To Get Rid of Fear of Theft
[To be chanted daily before sleep]
33.
To Avoid Becoming a Widow
[To be chanted by unmarried girls and Sumangalis three times a day]
Oh Goddess, who was prior to Om, who carried a book and a Veena,
Oh mother of Vedas, I salute you; please do not make me a widow.
34.
To Get Rid of Dosha of Widowhood
[After performing Pooja to Thulasi, this should be chanted 12 times.]
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I Salute the Thulasi in whose reads all sacred waters stay,
In the middle of which all devas live and in the tip of which all Vedas exist.
35.
To get the effect of having done Aswamedha
[This should be repeated thrice in front of Thulasi plant]
Brinda, one who is even Brindavana, one worshipped by the world, one which
makes world pure,
One who is essence of flowers, the daughter, Thulasi and one who lives with
Krishna.
36.
To Get Blessing of Lakshmi and to Get a Job
[To be chanted 10 times daily - on Fridays chant this 108 times after lighting a
ghee lamp.]
Sridevi, she who rose with nectar, great lotus like goddess, she who shines
like moon,
Wife of Vishnu, Consort of Vishnu, Consort of Varaha, she who holds
Saranga bow,
She who is darling of Hari, the Goddess of gods, Maha Lakshmi, the pretty
Goddess.
37.
To Get Rid of Poverty
[To be repeated three times at dawn and dusk]
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38.
To Get Rid of Worries and Depression
[Daily chant this three times at dawn and dusk]
Salutations to the one who took different forms like Fish and Turtle,
Who is always engaged in helping his devotees,
Who gets the job of creation, upkeep and destruction by Lord Brahma and
others,
And who holds the mace conch, Lotus Flower in his hands.
39.
To Salute Brahmins [Knowers of Brahman]
[Sloka told before Saluting Brahmins]
40.
To Sprinkle Water used to Wash the Feet of Brahmin [Knower of Brahman]
41.
For Cleaning the Ground to do Chanting
[To be chanted before chanting the names of God]
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These Bhoothas which spy on me and these Bhoothas who are on earth,
This Bhootha which create obstacles may go away due to the order of Lord
Shiva.
42.
To Clean the Water in the Kalasa [Pot] meant for Worship
Kalasaya Mukhe Vishnu, Kanda Rudra Samasrutha,
Kukshouthu Sagaraa Sarve Sapthakveepaa Vasundaraa.
Rig Vedadha Yajurveda, Sama Vedhopi Atharvana,
Angaischa Sahithaa Vedaa Kalasambu Samasrithaa,
Gangecha Yamune Chaiva Godavari Saraswathi,
Narmadhe Sindhu Cauvery Jalesmin Sannidhim Kuru.
On the face of the pot is Lord Vishnu, on its neck is Rudra,
On its stomach is the sea, seven islands and earth,
Rig Veda, Yajur Veda, Sama Veda and Atharvana Veda,
Along with their branches are present in the pot,
Also river Ganga, Yamuna, Godavari, Saraswathi,
Narmada, Sindhu and Cauvery are present in the water inside.
43.
For Ringing the Bell during Worship
Aagamatrhanthu Devaanaam Gamanarthanthu Raakshasaam,
Kuru Gandaravam Thathra Devathahvana Lanchanam.
For the coming of devas and for going away of the asuras,
Make that sound which would be welcoming the devas.
44.
To Pour Water in Conch around the Deity
Sankhamadhye Sthitham Thoyam Sankaropari,
Anga Lagnam Manushyaanaam Brahmahathyaa Aayudham Saheth.
If the water in the conch which was poured over Lord Shiva,
Touches the body of human being, even the sin of killing would go away.
45.
To Take the Sacred Water after Anointing God
i. Akala Mruthyu Haranam, Sarva Vyadhi Nivaranam,
Samastha Papa Kshaya Karam, Shiva [Vishnu] Padodakam.
The water washing the feet of Lord Shiva [Vishnu]
Would avoid accidental early deaths, would cure all diseases,
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And would also destroy all the sins committed.
ii. Darasanth Nikhila Kilbishabhakam, Sparsanath Akhila,
Kamadham Shubham, Prasanasch Parmartha Bodhakam,
Chandrachooda Saranodhakam Bhaje.
I sing praises of water which washing the feet of God, who wears the moon,
Which removes all seen if seen, fulfills all desires just by touching,
Would give you realization of Philosophy by taking it.
46.
Prayer to God
47.
To Give Away our Duty to God
48.
As soon as we See Our Food
49.
As Soon as Food is Served On the Leaf
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Oh great Goddess Annapurna, who is the dear wife of Lord Shiva,
Oh Parvathi, give me alms for the sake of wisdom and detachment.
50.
After Taking Meals, the Water which has been Taken by us
[The water remaining in hand after "amruthapi dhanamasi" should be taken
round the leaves and left on right side. Say "Annadatha Sukheebhava"- let
those who gave food have a pleasant life.]
51.
For Food Getting Digested after Eating
Oh Sage, who ate Vatapi, of Sage who destroyed the pride of Vindhyas,
Oh Sage, who drank the ocean water, please digest the food that I have
taken.
52.
Saying this Touch the Water and then the Stomach
To do Pradakshina [circumambulation]
53.
Places of Salvation
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54.
The Greatness of Cauvery
Trirathram Jahnavi Thoye, Saptha Rathranthu Yamune,
Sadhya Punaati Cauvery Papam Aamaranathikam.
All sins would be washed away by taking bath for three days in Ganges,
Seven days in Yamuna and just by taking bath in Cauvery.
55.
Seeing of Sethu in Rameswaram
Raghu Veera Pada Nyasa Pavithra Krutha Pamsave,
Dasa Kanda Sirachedha Hethave Sethave Nama.
Place which was made holy by the touch of the Feet of Rama,
I Salute you Sethu, who is the cause of slaying of Ravana.
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Tharpanam - Iyengars
[Oblations to the Manes]
Compiled by P. R. Ramachander
Introduction
Tharpanam means "That offering which satisfies". But what we mean by the
word Tharpanam is the offering of water mixed with gingelly to the manes
(dead ancestors). Though we have several ancestors, this offering is
addressed to three generations of father, grandfather and great grandfather
along with their wives in our family and maternal grandfather, his father and
grandfather along with their wives in our mothers birth family. Only those
whose father is dead are eligible to do Tharpanam. If maternal grandfather is
alive Tharpanam should not be done for his family but restricted to our family.
All the manes are supposed by our religion to live in the Pithru loka for some
time and either be reborn as any being or go to lokas like deva loka, Vaikunta
etc or even attain salvation by getting mixed with god. The pithru loka is
populated by three group of pithru devas viz, Vasu, Rudra and Adhithya.
These devas receive our oblations and make it reach to our manes wherever
they are and in whichever form they are. The pithru loka is supposed to be on
the unseen side of the moon. This portion gets exposed to sun on the new
moon days. It is according to our concept lunch time for the people populating
the pithru loka. These pithrus, since they have left the world are solely
dependent on only their progeny to feed them. This feeding is done through
Tharpanam. It is believed that if Tharpanam is not done out Pithru devas will
curse us so that we may not have male descendents to offer tharpanam to
us.
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tharpanam. Some of them are Apasthabha, Bodhayana and Drahyayana.
What is given below is the manthras and method of the Apasthabha sutra of
Yajur veda. There is slight differences in the sankalpam among Iyers and
Iyengars. The version followed by both groups of Sri Vaishnavas viz.,
Thenkalai and Vadakalai are given here. It is understood that the tharpanam
for rik vedis is almost similar but that for Sama Vedis is different. There is also
differences brought about by local practice and family tradition. People are
advised to follow their traditions strictly. They have precedence over what is
written down here. For example in many families tharpanam is done without
wearing Thiruman but there are certain families who do tharpanam wearing it.
Some people do avahanams of Pithrus on two koorchas. Some on one
koorcha and some on spread durbhas.
There are several rules regarding tharpanam though many of them are not
being followed by most of the people. They are:
1. On the day of Tharpanam, till tharpanam is completed we are not
supposed to drink/eat anything.
2. On the day of tharpanam, the daily rituals like Sandhya vandhana have to
be first performed. Then before tharpanam one more bath has to be taken.
3. Wet cloth should not be worn during tharpanam nor is it right to wear cloth
which was washed a day before and dried. The cloth has to be made wet the
same day and dried. Pure white silk cloth can also be worn, but wearing this
silk cloth you should not have eaten any food. If wet cloth is not dry, it should
be seven times shaken dry in wind before wearing it.
4. Except the tharpanam during eclipse all other tharpanams are to be done
after 12 noon. Considering the difficulty, our law givers have agreed that it
can be done after 8.30 AM.
5. As mentioned earlier nothing should be eaten or drunk before performance
of Tharpanam.
6. Oblations should be done with hand full of water and not drops or spoon
full of water.
7. The water should be poured out using the space between the thumb and
the four fingers.
8. Every time a pinch of black til has to be taken. Care should be taken not to
take it using the thumb and the index finger.
9. Pithru tharpanam should always be done with poonal hanging from the
right shoulder to the left side of the body.
10. The pavithram for pithru tharpanam should be made out of three durbha
and the koorcham should be made of 7 or 9 durbhas.
11. We should preferably sit on seat made of durbha(durbhasanam) while
doing tharpanam and in its absence put few durbhas on the place we are
going to sit,
12. Silver vessels are prescribed for used during tharpanam. If not available
copper vessels can be used. Under no circumstance should steel or other
metal vessels are to be used.
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13. Tharpanam should be done facing east or south. It is believed that it
either should be done in our homes or in public holy places like shore of the
river, sea active you happen to do it in the place belonging to someone else.
We are supposed to compensate the owner of the property.
14. If Amavasya and the first of the month in which tharpanam has to be
performed comes on the same day, then tharpanam for the
sankramanam(first of the month) should be done.
Tharpanam
1. Perform Achamanam
Take minute quantities of water (just sufficient to soak one grain of black
gram) three times in the right hand and take it with the following manthra.
Om Achyuthaya nama
Om Ananthaya nama
Om Govindaya nama
Then
Touch with thumb both cheeks saying kesava - Narayana
Touch with ring finger both eyes saying Madhava - Govinda
Touch with the first finger both sides of nose saying Vishno - Madhusoodana
Touch with little finger both ears saying Trivikrama - Vamana
Touch with the middle finger both shoulders saying Sreedhara - Hrishi kesa
Touch with all fingers the belly button saying Padmanabha
Touch with all fingers the head saying Damodara
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Vedanthacharya varyo me sanni datham sada hruthi
2. Gurubhya tad gurubyascha namo vaga made mahe,
Vruni mahe cha tatrath you dampathi jagatham pathi
3. Swasesha bhoodeth mayaa sweeyai sarva parichadai,
Vidahthum preethamath manam deva prakramade swayam
4. Shuklam baradaram vishnum sasi varnam chadur bhjam
Prasanna vadanam dyayeth sarva vigno upa santhaye
5. Yasyad viratha vakthradhya parishadya para satham,
Vignam nignanthi vishvaksenam tham asraye.
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Sanskrit) nakshatra yukthayam Shubha yoga - Shubha karana, Evam guna
viseshana visishtayam asyam (Name of the thidhi) Punya thithou,
(Change the position of poonal from left shoulder to right shoulder (LEFT
MODE)
(Your Gothram) Gothranam (Names of father, grandfather, great
grandfather)** Sarmanam, Vasu-Rudra-adithya swaroopanam asmad Pithru -
Pithamaha-Pithru Pithamahanam, (your Gothram) Gothraa (Names of
mother. Grandmother, great grandmother)*** Namnee, Vasu-Rudra-Adithya
swaroopa Asmad Mathru**** - pithamahi-Prapithamahischa, (Your maternal
grandfather's gothram) gothraanam (names of maternal grandfather, his
father and his grandfather) Sarmanam vasu - rudra - adithya swaroopanam
asmad mathamaha, mathru pithamaha, mathru prapithamahanam, (Your
maternal grandfather's gothram) gothraa (Names of maternal grandmother,
maternal great grandmother, Grandmother of maternal grandfather) Namnee,
vasu-rudra - adithya swaroopa asmad mathamahi***** - mathru pithamahi,
mathru prapithamahinam Ubhaya vamsa pithrunaam akshayya
thripthyartham amavasya****** punya kale Thila tharpanam karishye.
(throw away the Durbha (only) held round the fingers along with Pavithram.
Change position of poonal to the left shoulder (usual mode), touch water with
finger, change position of poonal to right shoulder (left mode)
* Refer to Panchangam (almanac) for the names or get the particulars. For
Sanskrit names refer at the end of compilation.
** It is recommended that you substitute these names in various places and
take a print out for your use. Contact family elders if you do not know this
information.
*** Names of grandmother, great grandmother, Fathers great grandmother if
mother is alive
**** In case mother is alive, this would be pithamahi-prapithamahi-
pithruprapithamahischa
***** In case mother?s mother is alive, this would be mathamahasya mathu-
pithamahi-prapithamahischa
****** Mesharavi punya kale for tharpanam done on Mesha sankramam
(chittirai-makaram first) Karkadaga ravi punya kale (for tharpanam done
during adi-Karkidaga Sankramam (Adi first), Thula ravi punya kale for
tharpanam done during thula masam first (Iyppasi first), makara ravi punya
kale for tharpanam done on makara sankramam (Thai first), Suryoparaga
punya kale for tharpanam done during solar eclipse, Somoparaga punyakale
for tharpanam done during Lunar eclipse and In case of Paraheni tharpanam
done after Sraddham, "Purvedya maya krutha mathru pithru prathyabdhika
sradhangam thila tharpanam karishye. Please note in case of paraheni
tharpanam, the offering (tharpanam) is made to only paternal side pithrus.
Arrangement of Koorcham [in some families they only use one koorcham]
East - Pithru Varga Koorcham
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North South - Mathamaha varga koorcham
Durbha Durbha - West
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gothraa (Names of maternal grandmother, maternal great grandmother,
grandmother of maternal grandfather) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa
asmad mathamahi* - mathru pithamahi-mathru prapithamahischa dyayami
avahayami.
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Parisrutham swadha sdha tharpatatha me pithroon,
(your gothram) Gothraan (Grandfathers name),
Sarmana Rudra roopan mama pithaamahaan swadha namas tharpayami.
ii. Pithrubhya swaadhavibhya swadha nama
pithamahebhya swadhavibhya swadha nama
Prapithamahebhya swadhavibhya swadha nama
(Your gothram) Gothraan (Grandfather's name),
Sarmana Rudra roopan mama pitha mahaan swadha namas tharpayami.
iii. Ye cheha pitharo ye cha neha,
Yagscha vidmayagm u cha na pravidma,
Agne thaan veththa yadi the jathaveda
Sthaya praththagm swadhaya madanthu
(Your gothram) Gothraan (Grandfather's name) ?
Sarmana rudra roopan mama pithamahaan swadha namastharpayami
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Namnee Rudra roopa mama pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Your gothra) Gothraa (Grandmother's name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
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shwatha prathibhir deva yanai
asmin yagne swadhaya madhayanthwadhi bruvantha the avanthasman,
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's
name),sarmana vasu roopan mama matha mahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
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d. Mathamahi tharpanam* (Oblations to maternal grandmother)
i. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
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b. Jnaatha jnatha mathu pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
c. Jnaatha jnatha mathu pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
Oorjam vahantheeramratham grutham paya keelalam parisrutham swadha
stha tharpayatha me mathu pithroon trupyatha thrupyatha thrupyatha.
13. Pradhakshinam
Change poonal to usual pattern from left shoulder
(Chant and rotate in the same place clock wise)
Devathabhya pithrubhyascha maha yogibhya eva cha
Nama swaadhai swaahayai nithyameva namo nama.
Some versions ask us to chant this Manthra for Pradakshinam:
Namo va pitharo rasaya,
Namo va pithara sushmaya,
Namo va pitharo jeevaya,
Namo va pitharo swadhayai.
Namo va pitharo manyave,
Namo va pitharo ghoraya,
Pitharo namo vo ya ethasmin lokestha,
Yushmagusthe nuye asmin loke,
Manthenu ya ethasmin lokesya,
Yuyyanthesham vasishta bhooyastha,
Asmin loke ahanthesham vasishto bhooyasam.
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15. Udwasanam*
Change Poonal to left mode i. e from right shoulder
a. Aayatha pithara somya gambhirai pradhibhi poorvai prajamasmabhyam
dadhatho rayim cha deergayathwam cha satha saaradam cha.
b. Om bhorbuvaswarom
c. Asmad koorchat (Your gothram) gothran (Names of father, grandfather,
great grandfather) sarmana vasu Rudra adithya swaroopan asmad pithru-
pithamaha-pithrupithamahaan (Your gothram) gothraa (Names of mother,
grandmother and great grandmother) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa
asmad mathru**, pithamahi-pithrupithamahischa yada sthanam
prathishtapayami. Shobhanarthe kshemaya punaragamanaya cha.
d. Aayatha mathu pithara somya gambhirai pradhibhi poorvai
prajamasmabhyam dadhatho rayim cha deergayathwam cha satha saaradam
cha.
e. Om bhorbuvaswarom
f, Asmin koorche(maternal grandfather's gothra) gothran (Names of maternal
grandfather, maternal great grandfather and his father) sarmana vasu Rudra
adithya swaroopan asmad mathamaha-mathru pithamaha-mathru
prapithamaha (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Names of maternal
grandmother, maternal great grandmother, grandmother of maternal
grandfather) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa asmad mathamahi*** -
mathru pithamahi-mathru prapithamahischa yadasthanam prathishtapayami.
Shobanarthe kshemaaya punaragamanaya cha
* People doing tharpanam on one koorcham chant "Asmad koorchat
vargodhaya pithrun yadastanam prathishtapayami."
** In case mother is alive, this would be pithamahi-prapithamahi-
pithruprapithamahischa
*** In case mother's mother is alive, this would be mathamahasya mathu-
pithamahi-prapithamahischa
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17. Brahmarpanam
Offer a hand full of water chanting.
Om Tat sat Brahmarpanamasthu
Do Aachamanam.
1. Aachamanam
This is a preliminary purification ceremony. Gods Achutha, Anantha and
Govinda are saluted and then the self is purified by chanting the twelve
names of Vishnu.
2. Dhyanam (Vadagalai)
This is a prayer to the God Ganapathi who is supposed to remove all
obstacles on our way in performance of any rite, in this case, Tharpanam.
i. I keep always in my mind the devotees of the Lord of the venkata mountain
as my religious teacher.
ii. With all my attention I bow before that teacher of teachers who are the first
mother and father of this world.
iii. I keep my mind on him who lies on the Adhi Sesha attended by Bhoo devi
and Lakshmi.
iv. I meditate on the dark coloured Vishnu who has four hands and wears
white silk and is always gracefully happy.
v. I bow before Vishwaksena so that what I am starting is completed without
problems.
2. Dhyanam (Thenkalai)
i. I meditate on the dark coloured Vishnu who has four hands and wears white
silk and is always gracefully happy.
ii. I bow before Vishwaksena so that what I am starting is completed without
problems.
3. Pranayamam
This manthra is a guide to a breathing exercise as also a prayer. While
chanting Om bhoo,Om Bhuva, Ogum Suva, Om Maha, om jana, om thapa,
ogum satyam we are supposed to keep the left nostril closed and inhale
through the right nostril. While chanting, "Om tat sa vithur varenyam bargo
devasya dhee mahi, dhi yo yona prachothayad", we are supposed to close
both nostrils and hold the breath. After this the left nostril is opened and air
exhaled till the end of the manthra.
Hindus believed that that there were six holy worlds above the earth. These
along with earth are remembered in the first part. These worlds are bhooloka,
bhuvarloka, suvarloka, maharloka, janaloka, thapaloka and satya loka. The
second part is the famous Gayathri manthram. It means
"I meditate on that savitha (the sun or the enlightenment within ourselves)
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which helps us in our though process, that god which is within me and that all
engulfing power."
Or
"I meditate on the most holy shining aspect of that God, who helps in
brightening our thought process. "
Then the third part means "Om is water, it is the light, it is the earth which
gives the food, it is the air which supports life, and it is the ether which is
spread all around. It is also the holy seven worlds. "
By touching the nose the hands are supposed to get polluted and this is
removed by touching the ears thrice.
4. Sankalpam
This is a preliminary rite in every Vedic action. We tell why we are doing what
we do and we also tell, what we are going to do every time. In some cases
like the tharpanam we also tell when we are doing it and where.
To attain the grace of God, through destruction of sins committed by me,
praying the lord of all worlds,
i. I pray god Lakshmi pathi and mention below the auspicious hour, day, star,
moon phase, my knowledge base and the strength of God and salute the
feets of Lord Vishnu.
ii. Whether one is in pure or impure state or whatever state one is in, just by
remembering Pundarikaksha that is Lord Vishnu, I get cleaned both outside
and inside.
iii. There is no doubt that the sins committed either by mind, or words or by
action go away by remembering the names of Lord Rama. Rama. Rama
iv. The moon phase, the day, the star, the yoga and the happenings are all
Lord Vishnu and thus the whole world is filled with Lord Vishnu. Govinda,
Govinda, Govinda.
v. In the second ionic division of lord Brahma who acted according to the
wishes of the prime God Lord Vishnu, In the great period of the white Varaha,
in the extended reign of Vaivasvatha manu, in the 28th time period which is
the first step of Kali yuga,
At the Indian sub-continent of the Indian continent of the great Jambu island,
In the south of the Meru mountain, In the year of the saka timeperiod starting
with the year Prabhava, in the solstice, in the season, in the month of
In the waning/waxing period of the moon, in the day of the moon crescents, in
the day, in the star, in the holy period which is for good action, which results
in good, and in the period which has many other good properties, in the day
of moon crescents, I do oblations with thil(gingelly) and water for destruction
of all my sins and for the favour of the god, to my father whose name is who
is of the form of vasu, who belongs to the gothra, to my grandfather whose
name is who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra, to my great
grandfather whose name is who is of the form of adithya and who belongs to
the gothra, as also to my mother(grandmother if she mother is alive) who is of
the form of vasu and who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to my
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grandmother (great grandmother if mother is alive) who is of the form of
Rudra who belongs to the gothra
And whose name is, to my great grandmother (her mother if mother is alive)
who is of the form of Adithya and who belongs to the Gothra and whose
name is, to my maternal grandfather who is of the form of Vasu and who
belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to my maternal great grandfather
who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to
my great grandfather of my mother who is of the form of Adithya and whose
name is, to my maternal grandmother who is of the form of vasu, who
belongs to the gotra and whose name is, to my maternal great grandmother
who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to
my great grandmother of my mother who is of the form of adithya who
belongs to the gothra and whose name is. for their perennial satisfaction,
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gothra and whose respective forms are that of Vasu, Rudhra and Adhithya
and request them to occupy this koorcham.
b. Oblations to grandfather
i. Hey gods who love water, carry suitable food, nectar, ghee, blood and
toddy to my manes if by chance they are born as men, tree, creeper and men
of the lower caste and make it suitable food for them and also become food
for them. I offer this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather
whose name is and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra.
ii. I salute my father, grandfather and great grandfather who like the food
called swadha which is mixed with water and offer them the food which is
swadha. I offer this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather
whose name is and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra.
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iii. Hey God of fire who is all knowing, You know my manes who are present
here, who are not present here, those who are known to me because they
departed not long ago, those are not known to me,. Please take this food with
water, which I am offering to them and let all my manes become happy. I offer
this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather whose name is
and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra
13. Pradakshinam
Salutations to gods, manes and great sages.
Salutations to food, fire sacrifice daily
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The meaning of the alternate manthra:
Oh manes salutations,
To your spirit,
Your strength,
Your soul,
Your food, which is swadha,
Your anger,
And your strong punishment.
Let those people whom you are with,
Obey you.
You kindly do as per our wishes.
Please be friends to those whom you are
Within Pithru loka and be a good home for them.
For those who are in this earth,
Let me a good home.
15. Udwasanam
This is the same as Avahana manthra except that the manes are asked to go
their place and are requested to come again and again.
17. Brahmarpanam
I do give all this to the great god Brahma so that faults are pardoned.
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Appendix:
1. Names of Nakshatras in Sanskrit for Sankalpa
S. No. Tamil Malayalam Sanskrit
1. Aswathi Aswini Aswini
2. Bharani Bharani Apabharani
3. Karthigai Karthiga Kruthiga
4. Rohini Rohini Rohinee
5. Mriga Siarm Mageeram Mriga Seersha
6. Thiruvathirai Thiruvathira Arudhra
7. Punarpoosam Punartham Punarvasu
8. Poosam Pooyam Pushya
9. Ayilyam Ayilyam Aslesha
10. Magam Makam Magha
11. Pooram Pooram Poorva Phalguni
12. Uthiram Uthram Uthra Phalguni
13. Haastham Atham Hastha
14. Chithirai Chithra Chitra
15. Swathi Swathi Swathi
16. Vishagam Vishakam Vishaka
17. Anusham Anizham Anuradha
18. Kettai Ketta Jyeshta
19.. Moolam Moolam Moola
20. Pooradam Pooradam Poorvashada
21. Uthradam Uthradam Uthrashada
22. Thiruvonam Thiruvonam Sravana
23. Avittam Avittam Sravishta
24. Chathayam Chathayam Satha bishak
25. Poororattathi Poororattathi Poorva proshta pada
26. Uthrattathi Uthrattathi Uthara proshtapada
27. Revathy Revathy Revathee
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11. Masi Kumbham Kumbha
12. Panguni Meenam Meena
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Tharpanam - Iyers
[Oblations to the Manes]
Compiled by P. R. Ramachander
Introduction
Tharpanam means "That offering which satisfies". But what we mean by the
word Tharpanam is the offering of water mixed with sesame to the manes
(dead ancestors). Though we have several ancestors, this offering is
addressed to three generations of father, grandfather and great grandfather
along with their wives in our family and maternal grandfather, his father and
grandfather along with their wives in our mother’s birth family. Only thos e
whose father is dead are eligible to do Tharpanam. If maternal grandfather is
alive Tharpanam should not be done for his family but restricted to our family.
All the manes are supposed by our religion to live in the Pithru loka for some
time and either be reborn as any being or go to lokas like deva loka, Vaikunta
etc or even attain salvation by getting mixed with god. The pithru loka is
populated by three group of pithru devas viz, Vasu, Rudra and Adhithya.
These devas receive our oblations and make it reach to our manes wherever
they are and in whichever form they are. The pithru loka is supposed to be on
the unseen side of the moon. This portion gets exposed to sun on the new
moon days. It is according to our concept lunch time for the people populating
the pithru loka. These pithrus, since they have left the world are solely
dependent on only their progeny to feed them. This feeding is done through
Tharpanam. It is believed that if Tharpanam is not done out Pithru devas will
curse us so that we may not have male descendents to offer tharpanam to
us.
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tharpanam. Some of them are Apasthabha, Bodhayana and Drahyayana.
What is given below is the manthras and method of the Apasthabha sutra of
Yajur Veda. There are slight differences in the sankalpam among Iyers and
Iyengars. Both versions are given here. It is understood that the tharpanam
for rik vedis is almost similar but that for Sanma Vedis is different. There are
also differences brought about by local practice and family tradition. People
are advised to follow their traditions strictly. They have precedence over what
is written down here. For example in many families tharpanam is done
without wearing Vibhuti or Namam but there are certain families who do
tharpanam wearing these. Some people do avahanams of Pithrus on two
koorchas. Some on one koorcha and some on spread durbhas.
There are several rules regarding tharpanam though many of them are not
being followed by most of the people. They are:
1. On the day of Tharpanam, till tharpanam is completed we are not
supposed to drink/eat anything.
2. On the day of tharpanam, the daily rituals like Sandhya vandhana have to
be first performed. Then before tharpanam one more bath has to be taken.
3. Wet cloth should not be worn during tharpanam nor is it right to wear cloth
which was washed a day before and dried. The cloth has to be made wet the
same day and dried. Pure white silk cloth can also be worn, but wearing this
silk cloth you should not have eaten any food. If wet cloth is not dry, it should
be seven times shaken dry in wind before wearing it.
4. Except the tharpanam during eclipse all other tharpanams are to be done
after 12 noon. Considering the difficulty, our law givers have agreed that it
can be done after 8. 30 AM.
5. As mentioned earlier nothing should be eaten or drunk before performance
of Tharpanam.
6. Oblations should be done with hand full of water and not drops or spoon
full of water.
7. The water should be poured out using the space between the thumb and
the four fingers.
8. Every time a pinch of black til has to be taken. Care should be taken not to
take it using the thumb and the index finger.
9. Pithru tharpanam should always be done with poonal hanging from the
right shoulder to the left side of the body.
10. The pavithram for pithru tharpanam should be made out of three durbha
and the koorcham should be made of 7 or 9 durbhas.
11. We should preferably sit on seat made of durbha (durbhasanam) while
doing tharpanam and in its absence put few durbhas on the place we are
going to sit,
12. Silver vessels are prescribed for used during tharpanam. If not available
copper vessels can be used. Under no circumstance should steel or other
metal vessels are to be used.
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13. Tharpanam should be done facing east or south. It is believed that it
either should be done in our homes or in public holy places like shore of the
river, sea active you happen to do it in the place belonging to someone else.
We are supposed to compensate the owner of the property.
14. If Amavasya and the first of the month in which tharpanam has to be
performed comes on the same day, then tharpanam for the
sankramanam(first of the month) should be done.
I. Tharpanam
1. Perform Achamanam
Take minute quantities of water (just sufficient to soak one grain of black
gram) three times in the right hand and take it with the following manthra.
Om Achyuthaya nama
Om Ananthaya nama
Om Govindaya nama
Then
Touch with thumb both cheeks saying kesava - Narayana
Touch with ring finger both eyes saying Madhava - Govinda
Touch with the first finger both sides of nose saying Vishno - Madhusoodana
Touch with little finger both ears saying Trivikrama - Vamana
Touch with the middle finger both shoulders saying Sreedhara - Hrishi kesa
Touch with all fingers the belly button saying Padmanabha
Touch with all fingers the head saying Damodara
A. For Smarthas:
2. Ganapathi Dhyanam:
Recite the following manthra slowly hitting the forehead with both fists
together:
Shuklambaradharam Vishunum Sasi Varnam ChathurBhujam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dyayeth Sarva Vigna Upa Santhaye.
3. Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tatsa vithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhi mahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
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Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om
4. Do Sankalpam
Mamo Partha Samastha Duritha kshaya dwara Sri Parameshwara
Preethyartham.
Apavithra pavithro va Sarvavastham gathopi va,
Ya smareth pundarikaksham sa bahyanthara suchi
Manasam vachikam paapam karmana samuparjitham
Sri Rama smarane naiva vyapohathi na samsaya
Sri Rama-Rama Rama
Thidir Vishnu thada vaara nakshatram Vishnureva cha,
Yogascha karanam Chaiva sarvam Vishnu mayam jagat
Sri Govinda Govinda Govinda
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Vignam nignanthi vishvaksenam tham asraye.
C. For Sri Vaishnavas of Then Kalai:
Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tatsa vithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhi mahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om
Then Chant the following manthras:
1. Shuklam baradaram vishnum sasi varnam chadur bhjam
Prasanna vadanam dyayeth sarva vigno upa santhaye
2. Yasyad viratha vakthradhya parishadya para satham,
Vignam nignanthi vishvaksenam tham asraye
WHAT FOLLOWS IS COMMON TO SMARTHAS AND VAISHNAVAS OF
THENKALAI AND VADAKALAI.
Adya Sri Bhagavatha maha purushasya Vishnor Agnaya pravarthamanasya
Adhya Brahmana Dweethiya parardhe Swetha Varaha kalpe Vaivaswatha
manvanthare ashta vimsathi thame kali yuge prathame padhe,jambu dweepe,
Bharatha varshe, Bharatha Khande, Mero Dakshine Parswe, Sakabdhe
asmin varthamane vyvaharike Prabhavadeenam sashtya samvatsaranam
madhye (name of the year)* Nama samvatsare, (dakshina / uttara ayane,
(name of the season) rithou, (name of the month in Sanskrit) mase,
(Krishna/shukla) pakshe, Adhya (Name of the thidhi-moon phase) Punya
thithou (name of the day in Sanskrit) vasra yukthayam (name of the star in
Sanskrit) nakshatra yukthayam Shubha yoga - Shubha karana, Evam guna
viseshana visishtayam asyam (Name of the thidhi) Punya thithou,
(Change the position of poonal from left shoulder to right shoulder (LEFT
MODE)
(Your Gothram) Gothranam (Names of father, grandfather, great
grandfather)** Sarmanam, Vasu-Rudra-adithya swaroopanam asmad Pithru -
Pithamaha-Pithru Pithamahanam, (your Gothram) Gothraa (Names of
mother. Grandmother, great grandmother)*** Namnee, Vasu-Rudra-Adithya
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swaroopa Asmad Mathru**** - pithamahi-Prapithamahischa, (Your maternal
grandfather's gothram) gothraanam (names of maternal grandfather, his
father and his grandfather) Sarmanam vasu - rudra - adithya swaroopanam
asmad mathamaha, mathru pithamaha, mathru prapithamahanam, (Your
maternal grandfather's gothram) gothraa (Names of maternal grandmother,
maternal great grandmother, Grandmother of maternal grandfather) Namnee,
vasu-rudra - adithya swaroopa asmad mathamahi***** - mathru pithamahi,
mathru prapithamahinam Ubhaya vamsa pithrunaam akshayya
thripthyartham amavasya****** punya kale Thila tharpanam karishye.
(throw away the Durbha (only) held round the fingers along with Pavithram.
Change position of poonal to the left shoulder (usual mode), touch water with
finger, change position of poonal to right shoulder (left mode)
* Refer to Panchangam (almanac) for the names or get the particulars. For
Sanskrit names refer at the end of compilation.
** It is recommended that you substitute these names in various places and
take a print out for your use. Contact family elders if you do not know this
information.
*** Names of grandmother, great grandmother, Fathers great grandmother if
mother is alive
**** In case mother is alive, this would be pithamahi-prapithamahi-
pithruprapithamahischa
***** In case mother's mother is alive, this would be mathamahasya mathu-
pithamahi-prapithamahischa
****** Mesharavi punya kale for tharpanam done on Mesha sankramam
(chittirai-makaram first) Karkadaga ravi punya kale (for tharpanam done
during adi-Karkidaga Sankramam (Adi first), Thula ravi punya kale for
tharpanam done during thula masam first (Iyppasi first), makara ravi punya
kale for tharpanam done on makara sankramam (Thai first), Suryoparaga
punya kale for tharpanam done during solar eclipse, Somoparaga punyakale
for tharpanam done during Lunar eclipse and In case of Paraheni tharpanam
done after Sraddham, "Purvedya maya krutha mathru pithru prathyabdhika
sradhangam thila tharpanam karishye." Please note in case of paraheni
tharpanam, the offering (tharpanam) is made to only paternal side pithrus.
Arrangement of Koorcham [in some families they only use one koorcham]
East - Pithru Varga Koorcham
North South - Mathamaha varga koorcham
Durbha Durbha - West
5. Avahanam for Pithru Varga (Fathers side)*
Wear the poonal in the left mode, take little ellu (black gingelly) and along
with water keep on the Koorcha meant for Pithru varga while chanting the
following manthras:
a. Aayatha pithara somya gambhirai padhibhi poorvai prajamasmabhyam
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dadhatho rayim cha deergayuthwam cha satha saaradam cha.
b. Om bhorbuvaswarom
c. Asmin koorche (Your Gothra) gothran (Father's, grandfather's and great
grandfather's name) sarmana vasu Rudra adithya swaroopan asmad pithru-
pithamaha-pithrupithamahaan (Your Gothra) gothraa (Names of mother,
grandmother, great grandmother) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa
asmad mathru**, pithamahi-pithrupithamahischa dyayami avahayami.
* People using only one koorcha, please do avahanam chanting "Asmin
koorche vargodhaya pithroon dhyayami avahayami".
** In case mother is alive, this would be pithamahi-prapithamahi-
pithruprapithamahischa
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8. Asanam for Mathru Vargam
Chanting the manthra below place gingelly on the mathru varga koorcha
a. Sakrudacchinnam barhirurnna mrudhu,
Syonam pithrubhyasthwa baramyaham
Asmin taseedanthu me pithara somyaa,
Pithamahaa prapithamahaaschaanugai saha.
b. Mathamaha-mathru pithamaha-mathru prapitha mahaanaam, Mathamahi-
mathru pithamahi-mathru prapithamahischa idam asanam, thiladhi
sakalaradhanai swarchidham
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iii. Ye cheha pitharo ye cha neha,
Yagscha vidmayagm u cha na pravidma,
Agne thaan veththa yadi the jathaveda
Sthaya praththagm swadhaya madanthu
(Your gothram) Gothraan (Grandfather's name)
Sarmana rudra roopan mama pithamahaan swadha namastharpayami
c. Prapithamaha tharpanam(oblations to great grandfather)
i. Madhu vaathaa ruthaayathe madhu ksharanthi sindhava
maadweer na santhwashadhi
(Your Gothram) Gothraan (Great grandfather's name),
Sarmana adithya roopaan mama prapithamahan swadha namas tharpayami.
ii. Madhu nakthamuthoshasi madu math parthivagam
raja madhu dhourasthu na pitha
(Your gothram) Gothraan (great grandfather's name),
Sarmana adithya roopan mama prapithamahaan swadha namas tharpayami
iii. Madhumanno vanaspathir madhu magma asthu soorya,
Maadweer gavo bavanthu na
(Your gothra) Gothraan (great grandfather's name),
Sarmana adhithya roopan mama prapithamahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
d. Mathru tharpanam* (Oblations to mother)
i. (Your gothra) Gothraa (mother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathu swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Your Gothra) Gothraa (Mother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathu swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Your Gothra) (Gothraa (Mother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathu swadha namastharpayami
* If mother is alive instead of mathru tharpanam perform pithamahi
tharpanam. In the manthras replace mathu with pithamahi.
e. Pithamahi tharpanam* (Oblations to paternal grandmother)
i. (Your Gothra) Gothraa (Grandmother's name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Your Gothra) Gothraa (Grandmother's name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Your gothra) Gothraa (Grandmother's name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
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ii. (Your Gothra) Gothraa (Great Grandmother's name)
Namnee adithya roopa mama prapithamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Your Gothra) Gothraa (Great Grandmother's name)
Namnee adithya roopa mama prapithamahi swadha namastharpayami
* If mother is alive instead of prapithamahi tharpanam perform pithru
prapithamahi tharpanam. In the manthras replace prapitha mahi with pithru
prapithamahi.
10. Jnaatha Jnatha Pithru Varge Tharpanam (Oblation to unknown manes
of paternal sides)
a. Jnaatha jnatha pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
b. Jnaatha jnatha pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
c. Jnaatha jnatha pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
Oorjam vahantheeramrutham grutham paya keelalam parisrutham swadha
stha tharpayatha me pithroon trupyatha thrupyatha thrupyatha.
11. Mathamaha Varga Tharpanam (oblations to ancestors of maternal
grandfather)
Offer tharpanam with hand full of water mixed with black ellu on the koorcham
for Pithru vargam after each manthra
a. Matha maha tharpanam(Oblation to maternal grandfather)
i. Udheerathamvara uthparasa,
Unmadhyama pithara somyasa
Asum ya eeyuravyaka ruthagna
Sthene avanthu pitharo harveshu
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's name),
Sarmana vasu roopan mama matha mahaan swadha namastharpayami.
ii. Angeeraso na pitharo navagwa,
Adharvano byagava somyaasa,
Thesham vayugum sumathou yagniyanaa mapi
Badre soumanase syama
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's name)
Sarmana vasu roopan mama matha mahaan swadha namas tharpayami.
iii. Aa yaanthu na pithara somyaso agni
shwatha prathibhir deva yanai
asmin yagne swadhaya madhayanthwadhi bruvantha the avanthasman,
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's
name),sarmana vasu roopan mama matha mahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
b. Mathru pitha maha tharpanam (oblation to grandfather of mother)
i. Oorjam vahanthiramrutham grutham paya keelalam
Parisrutham swadha sdha tharpayatha me pithroon,
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal great grandfather's name)
Sarmana Rudra roopan mama mathu pithaamahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
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ii. Pithrubhya swaadhavibhya swadha nama
pithamahebhya swadhavibhya swadha nama
Prapithamahebhya swadhavibhya swadha nama
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal great grandfather's name)
Sarmana Rudra roopan mama mathu pitha mahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
iii. Ye cheha pitharo ye cha neha,
Yagscha vidmayagm u cha na pravidma,
Agne thaan veththa yadi the jathaveda
Sthaya praththagm swadhaya madanthu
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal great grandfather's name)
Sarmana rudra roopan mama mathu pithamahaan swadha namastharpayami
c. Mathu Prapithamaha tharpanam(oblations to great grandfather of mother)
i. Madhu vaathaa ruthaayathe madhu ksharanthi sindhava
maadweer na santhwashadhi
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's
grandfather'sname)
Sarmana adithya roopaan mama mathu prapithamahan swadha namas
tharpayami.
ii. Madhu nakthamuthoshasi madu math parthivagam
raja madhu dhourasthu na pitha
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's
grandfather'sname)
Sarmana adithya roopan mama mathu prapithamahaan swadha namas
tharpayami
iii. Madhumanno vanaspathir madhu magma asthu soorya,
Maadweer gavo bavanthu na
(Maternal grandfather's Gothra) gothran (Maternal grandfather's
grandfather'sname)
Sarmana adhithya roopan mama mathu prapithamahaan swadha namas
tharpayami.
d. Mathamahi tharpanam* (Oblations to maternal grandmother)
i. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee vasu roopa mama mathamahi swadha namastharpayami
* If maternal grandmother is alive instead of matha mahi tharpanam perform
matha mahasya mathu tharpanam. In the manthras replace mathamahi with
mathamahasya mathu.
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e. Mathru Pithamahi tharpanam* (Oblations to grandmother of mother)
i. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal great grandmother's
name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama mathu pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal great grandmother's
name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama mathu pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandmother's name)
Namnee Rudra roopa mama mathu pithamahi swadha namastharpayami
* If maternal grandmother is alive instead of mathu pithamahi tharpanam
perform matha mahasya pithamahi tharpanam. In the manthras replace
mathu pithamahi with matha mahasya pithamahi
f. Mathu Prapithamahi tharpanam* (Oblations to great grandmother of
mother)
i. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandfather's
grandmother's name)
Namnee adithya roopa mama mathu prapithamahi swadha namastharpayami
ii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandfather's
grandmother's name). .
Namnee adithya roopa mama mathu prapithamahi swadha namastharpayami
iii. (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Maternal grandfather's
grandmother's name). .
Namnee adithya roopa mama mathu prapithamahi swadha namastharpayami
* If maternal grandmother is alive instead of mathu prapithamahi tharpanam
perform mathamahasya prapithamahi tharpanam. In the manthras replace
prapitha mahi with matha mahasya prapithamahi.
12. Jnaatha Jnatha Matha Maha Varga Tharpanam (Oblation to unknown
manes of maternal grandfather side)
a. Jnaatha jnatha mathu pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
b. Jnaatha jnatha mathu pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
c. Jnaatha jnatha mathu pithroon swadha namas tharpayami
Oorjam vahantheeramratham grutham paya keelalam parisrutham swadha
stha tharpayatha me mathu pithroon trupyatha thrupyatha thrupyatha.
13. Pradhakshinam
Change poonal to usual pattern from left shoulder
(Chant and rotate in the same place clock wise)
Devathabhya pithrubhyascha maha yogibhya eva cha
Nama swaadhai swaahayai nithyameva namo nama.
Some versions ask us to chant this Manthra for Pradakshinam:
Namo va pitharo rasaya,
Namo va pithara sushmaya,
Namo va pitharo jeevaya,
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Namo va pitharo swadhayai.
Namo va pitharo manyave,
Namo va pitharo ghoraya,
Pitharo namo vo ya ethasmin lokestha,
Yushmagusthe nuye asmin loke,
Manthenu ya ethasmin lokesya,
Yuyyanthesham vasishta bhooyastha,
Asmin loke ahanthesham vasishto bhooyasam.
15. Udwasanam*
Change Poonal to left mode i. e from right shoulder
a. Aayatha pithara somya gambhirai pradhibhi poorvai prajamasmabhyam
dadhatho rayim cha deergayathwam cha satha saaradam cha.
b. Om bhorbuvaswarom
c. Asmad koorchat (Your gothram) gothran (Names of father, grandfather,
great grandfather) sarmana vasu Rudra adithya swaroopan asmad pithru-
pithamaha-pithrupithamahaan (Your gothram) gothraa (Names of mother,
grandmother and great grandmother) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa
asmad mathru**, pithamahi-pithrupithamahischa yada sthanam
prathishtapayami. Shobhanarthe kshemaya punaragamanaya cha.
d. Aayatha mathu pithara somya gambhirai pradhibhi poorvai
prajamasmabhyam dadhatho rayim cha deergayathwam cha satha saaradam
cha.
e. Om bhorbuvaswarom
f, Asmin koorche(maternal grandfather's gothra) gothran (Names of maternal
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grandfather, maternal great grandfather and his father) sarmana vasu Rudra
adithya swaroopan asmad mathamaha-mathru pithamaha-mathru
prapithamaha (Maternal grandfather's gothra) gothraa (Names of maternal
grandmother, maternal great grandmother, grandmother of maternal
grandfather) namnee vasu Rudra adithya swaroopa asmad mathamahi*** -
mathru pithamahi-mathru prapithamahischa yadasthanam prathishtapayami.
Shobanarthe kshemaaya punaragamanaya cha
17. Brahmarpanam
Offer a hand full of water chanting.
Om Tat sat Brahmarpanamasthu
Do Aachamanam.
1. Ganapathi Dhyanam
Recite the following manthra slowly hitting the forehead with both fists
together. :
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Shuklambaradharam Vishunum Sasi Varnam ChathurBhujam,
Prasanna Vadanam Dyayeth Sarva Vigna Upa Santhaye.
2. Do Pranayamam.
Hold both Nostrils with Thumb and the little and third finger of the hands and
recite the following Manthra:
Om Bhoo
Om Bhuva
Ogum Suva
Om Maha
Om Jana
Om Thapa
Ogum Sathyam
Om Tatsa vithur varenyam Bargo devasya dhi mahi dhiyo yona prachodayath
Om Apa
Jyothj rasa
Amrutham brahma
Bhoorbuvasuvarom
Touch the ears three times saying
Om, Om, Om
3. Do Sankalpam
Mamo Partha Samastha Duritha kshaya dwara Sri Parameshwara
Preethyartham.
Brahma Yagnam karishye. Brahma yagnena yakshye.
4. Prayogam
a. Vidhyudhasi vidhya me paapmanam ruthath sathya mupaime.
Touch water. Do Achamanam three times and after first and second touch
water,clean the lips, and after the third sprinkle water on left arms and left leg.
Then touch head, eyes, nose and chest.
b. Then chant
Om Bhoo, tatsa vithurvarenyam
Om Suva, Bhargo devasya dheemahi,
Ogum suva. dhiyo yona prachodayath,
OM Bhoo tatsa vithurvarenyam bhargo devasya dheemahi.
Om Bhuva, dhiyo yona prachodayath,
Ogum suva, tasa vithur varenyam bhago devasya dheemahi dhiyo yona
prachodayath.
c. chants from all the four Vedas
Hari Om, Agni meele purohitham, yagnasya devam ruthvijam. Hothaaram
rathna dhathamam. Hari om (Rik veda)
Hari Om, Eeshethvorje twam vayavastho payavastha, devo vassavitha
prarpayathu sresta thamaya karmane. Hari om(Yajur veda)
Hari om, Agna aayahi veethaye grunano havya dhathaye ni hotha sathsi
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barhishi. Hari Om (Sama veda)
Hari om. , Sanno deveer abhishtaya aapo bhavanthu peethaye, sam
yorabhistravanthu na. Hari om (Atharvana veda)
d. Chant "Om Bhoorbhavassuva" and rotate little water round your head
e. Chant "Satyam Thapa, Sradhayam Juhomi" with folded hands
f. Chant thrice with folded hands
"Om namo brahmane. Namasthvagnaye,, nama pruthviyai, nama
oshadheebhya. Namo vache, namo vachaspathaye, namo vishnave,
bruhathe karomi.
g. Chant "Vrushtirasi vruchame paapmanam rhuthaath sathya mupakam
Deva rishi-pithru tharpanam karishye.
Deva Tharpanam(tharpanam with usual mode of poonal water falling through
tip of fingers)
Brahmhadhaya ye devas than tharpayami
Sarvan devans tharpayami
Sarva deva pathnis tharpayami
Sarva deva ganans tharpayami
Sarva deva gana pathnis tharpayami
Rishi Tharpanam (Tharpanam with Poonal as garland and water poured out
by the left side of right palm)
Krishna dwai payanadhayo ye rishin thaan rishins tharpayami
Sarvan rishins tharpayami
Sarva rishi ganans tharpayami
Sarva rishi pathnis tharpayami
Sarva rishi gana pathis tharpayami
Prajapathim kaanda rishims tharpayami
Somam kanda rishims tharpayami
Agnim kanda rishims tharpayami
Viswan devaan kandarishins tharpayami
Samhetheer devatha upanishadhas tharpayami
Yagnigheer devatha upanishadas tharpayami
Varuneer devatha upanishadas tharpayami
Havya vaham tharpayami
Viswan devan kanda rishims tharpayami
Water should be poured towards ourselves chanting
Brahmana swayam bhuvam tharpayami
Viswan devan kanda rishims tharpayami
Arunan kanda rishims tharpayami
Sadasaspathims tharpayami
Rigvedam tharpayami
Yajur vedam tharpayami
Sama vedam tharpayami
Adharva vedam tharpayami
Ithihasa puranam tharpayami
Kalpam thapayami
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h. Pithru tharpanam (Change poonal to right shoulder and pour out water by
the right side of the palm)
Soma pithrumaan yamo angeeraswan agni kavya vahanaadhayo ye
pitharasthan pithruustharpayami
Sarvaan pithruntharpayami
Sarva pithruganaans tharpayami
Sarva pithrupathnis tharpayami
Sarva pithru ganapathnis tharpayami
Oorjam vahanthi ramrutham grutham keelalam paristhrutham swadhabhyam
tharpayatha may pithrun, thrupayatha, thrupyatha, thrupyatha
Pour water chanting "Aabrahma stambha paryantham jagat trupyathu".
Chant
Kayena vacha manase indrairva,
Budhyathamanava prukruthai swabhavat,
Karomi yadyat sakalam parasmai,
Sriman narayanayethi samarpayami.
i. Put the poonal in proper position and do Aachamana
1. Aachamanam
This is a preliminary purification ceremony. Gods Achutha, Anantha and
Govinda are saluted and then the self is purified by chanting the twelve
names of Vishnu.
3. Pranayamam
This manthra is a guide to a breathing exercise as also a prayer. While
chanting Om bhoo,Om Bhuva, Ogum Suva, Om Maha, om jana, om thapa,
ogum satyam we are supposed to keep the left nostril closed and inhale
through the right nostril. While chanting, "Om tat sa vithur varenyam bargo
devasya dhee mahi, dhi yo yona prachothayad", we are supposed to close
both nostrils and hold the breath. After this the left nostril is opened and air
exhaled till the end of the manthra.
Hindus believed that that there were six holy worlds above the earth. These
along with earth are remembered in the first part. These worlds are bhooloka,
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bhuvarloka, suvarloka, maharloka, janaloka, thapaloka and satya loka. The
second part is the famous Gayathri manthram. It means
"I meditate on that savitha (the sun or the enlightenment within ourselves)
which helps us in our though process, that god which is within me and that all
engulfing power."
Or
"I meditate on the most holy shining aspect of that God, who helps in
brightening our thought process."
Then the third part means "Om is water, it is the light, it is the earth which
gives the food, it is the air which supports life, and it is the ether which is
spread all around. It is also the holy seven worlds."
By touching the nose the hands are supposed to get polluted and this is
removed by touching the ears thrice.
4. Sankalpam
This is a preliminary rite in every Vedic action. We tell why we are doing what
we do and we also tell, what we are going to do every time. In some cases
like the tharpanam we also tell when we are doing it and where.
To attain the grace of God, through destruction of sins committed by me,
praying the lord of all worlds,
i. I pray god Lakshmi pathi and mention below the auspicious hour, day, star,
moon phase, my knowledge base and the strength of God and salute the
feets of Lord Vishnu.
ii. Whether one is in pure or impure state or whatever state one is in, just by
remembering Pundarikaksha that is Lord Vishnu, I get cleaned both outside
and inside.
iii. There is no doubt that the sins committed either by mind, or words or by
action go away by remembering the names of Lord Rama. Rama. Rama
iv. The moon phase, the day, the star, the yoga and the happenings are all
Lord Vishnu and thus the whole world is filled with Lord Vishnu. Govinda,
Govinda, Govinda.
v. In the second ionic division of lord Brahma who acted according to the
wishes of the prime God Lord Vishnu, In the great period of the white Varaha,
in the extended reign of Vaivasvatha manu, in the 28th time period which is
the first step of Kali yuga,
At the Indian sub continent of the Indian continent of the great Jambu island,
In the south of the Meru mountain, In the year of the saka timeperiod starting
with the year Prabhava, in the solstice, in the season, in the month of
In the waning/waxing period of the moon, in the day of the moon crescents, in
the day, in the star, in the holy period which is for good action, which results
in good, and in the period which has many other good properties, in the day
of moon crescents, I do oblations with thil(gingelly) and water for destruction
of all my sins and for the favour of the god, to my father whose name is who
is of the form of vasu, who belongs to the gothra, to my grandfather whose
name is who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra, to my great
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grandfather whose name is who is of the form of adithya and who belongs to
the gothra, as also to my mother(grandmother if she mother is alive) who is of
the form of vasu and who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to my
grandmother (great grandmother if mother is alive) who is of the form of
Rudra who belongs to the gothra
And whose name is, to my great grandmother (her mother if mother is alive)
who is of the form of Adithya and who belongs to the Gothra and whose
name is, to my maternal grandfather who is of the form of Vasu and who
belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to my maternal great grandfather
who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to
my great grandfather of my mother who is of the form of Adithya and whose
name is, to my maternal grandmother who is of the form of vasu, who
belongs to the gotra and whose name is, to my maternal great grandmother
who is of the form of Rudra, who belongs to the gothra and whose name is, to
my great grandmother of my mother who is of the form of adithya who
belongs to the gothra and whose name is. for their perennial satisfaction,
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Vasu, rudhra and adhithya and my maternal grandmother, maternal great
grandmother and grandmother of maternal grandfather whose names are
who belonged to the
gothra and whose respective forms are that of Vasu, Rudhra and Adhithya
and request them to occupy this koorcham.
b. Oblations to grandfather
i. Hey gods who love water, carry suitable food, nectar, ghee, blood and
toddy to my manes if by chance they are born as men, tree, creeper and men
of the lower caste and make it suitable food for them and also become food
for them. I offer this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather
whose name is and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra.
ii. I salute my father, grandfather and great grandfather who like the food
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called swadha which is mixed with water and offer them the food which is
swadha. I offer this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather
whose name is and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra.
iii. Hey God of fire who is all knowing, You know my manes who are present
here, who are not present here, those who are known to me because they
departed not long ago, those are not known to me,. Please take this food with
water, which I am offering to them and let all my manes become happy. I offer
this oblation of this food mixed with water to my grandfather whose name is
and who is born in the gothra and who is the form of Rudra
The Tharpanam for the manes of the maternal grandfather side (11 and 12) is
same as that of paternal side except the manes of the maternal grandfathers
side are mentioned so as to avoid repetition this meaning is not given.
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13. Pradakshinam
Salutations to gods, manes and great sages.
Salutations to food, fire sacrifice daily
The meaning of the alternate manthra:
Oh manes salutations,
To your spirit,
Your strength,
Your soul,
Your food, which is swadha,
Your anger,
And your strong punishment.
Let those people whom you are with,
Obey you.
You kindly do as per our wishes.
Please be friends to those whom you are
With in Pithru loka and be a good home for them.
For those who are in this earth,
Let me a good home.
14. Namaskaram (Salutations)
Salutations to father - grandfather and great grandfather,
Salutations to mother - grandmother - great grandmother
Salutations to maternal grandfather, his father and his grandfather
Salutations to maternal grandmother, maternal great grandmother and great
grandmother of maternal grandfather.
The meaning of alternate manthra.
Oh manes who are great in blessing and in action,
Be pleased to depart by either the old way
or through the land of yama or any other way,
Please grant us wealth and good luck.
Please tell the Vasu, adhithya and devathas,
About the food that I offered you.
15. Udwasanam
This is the same as Avahana manthra except that the manes are asked to go
their place and are requested to come again and again.
16. Sarva Tharpanam (general oblations)
Let all those manes who do not have mother, father, friends, others of their
family or even others belonging to other gotras to do tharpanam for them
partake this water mixed with gingely and be satisfied. , be satisfied, be
satisfied.
17. Brahmarpanam
I do give all this to the great god Brahma so that faults are pardoned.
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II. Brahma Yagnam
This is supposed to be done by all Brahmins daily after Madhyahnikam. This
is a worship of Vedas and honouring and satifying the devas, rishis and
Pithrus. The Manthra starting with "Vidhyudhasi" means
Oh God, you are the lightning which is in between the clouds and you know
my sins. and I seek the part of that power of yours. Daily.
The vedic chants have the following meaning:
1. I worship the god of fire who is the first god in all fire sacrifices, who is the
one who conducts and who is the conductior of the fire sacrifice and who is
capable of giving all wealth (Rik Veda).
2. Oh calves of cows. To supply us food as well as make us worship god, you
graze and return. Let the god savithru give you good grazing (Yajur veda).
3. Oh God of fire, be pleased to come. You should be pleased accept our
worship. Please make the fire sacrifice that we do to the devas (sama veda).
4. Oh Gods who like water, Apart from quenching our thirsts, you should fulfill
all our desires and grant us good things. By your grace let sorrow vanish from
our lives and let happiness come (atharvana Veda).
Meaning for the sloka starting with "Vrushtirasi"
You are rain,You will cut off my sins,
After this several oblation is offered to devas, rishis, Vedas and pithrus.
Appendix:
1. Names of Nakshatras in Sanskrit for Sankalpa
S. No. Tamil Malayalam Sanskrit
1. Aswathi Aswini Aswini
2. Bharani Bharani Apabharani
3. Karthigai Karthiga Kruthiga
4. Rohini Rohini Rohinee
5. Mriga Siarm Mageeram Mriga Seersha
6. Thiruvathirai Thiruvathira Arudhra
7. Punarpoosam Punartham Punarvasu
8. Poosam Pooyam Pushya
9. Ayilyam Ayilyam Aslesha
10. Magam Makam Magha
11. Pooram Pooram Poorva Phalguni
12. Uthiram Uthram Uthra Phalguni
13. Haastham Atham Hastha
14. Chithirai Chithra Chitra
15. Swathi Swathi Swathi
16. Vishagam Vishakam Vishaka
17. Anusham Anizham Anuradha
18. Kettai Ketta Jyeshta
19.. Moolam Moolam Moola
20. Pooradam Pooradam Poorvashada
21. Uthradam Uthradam Uthrashada
22. Thiruvonam Thiruvonam Sravana
23. Avittam Avittam Sravishta
24. Chathayam Chathayam Satha bishak
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25. Poororattathi Poororattathi Poorva proshta pada
26. Uthrattathi Uthrattathi Uthara proshtapada
27. Revathy Revathy Revathee
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Vedic Marriage Ceremony
By S. N. Sastri
"Where women are honoured, there the gods are pleased; where women are
not honoured, there all worship of gods is futile." - Manusmriti, 3.56
"Where there is mutual affection and regard between husband and wife, there
alone will there be happiness and welfare". - Manusmriti, 3. 60
The Hindu religion, or, to use its original name, Sanaatana Dharma, lays
down a comprehensive scheme for the spiritual development of the human
being. The ultimate goal of human life is liberation from the repeated cycle of
births and deaths. All the rites laid down in the Vedas have, as their ultimate
purpose, the attainment of this goal. The essential requisite for progress
towards this goal is purity of mind. The Vedas, supplemented by the Dharma
Sastras, prescribe a series of samskaras or sacraments to be undergone by
Dvijas (Brahmanas, Kshatriyas and Vaisyas) at various stages of life. These
sacraments have, apart from their immediate objective, the effect of purifying
the mind and making the person fit for spiritual progress and ultimate
liberation. Some of the important samskaras are jaatakarma (performed
immediately after the birth of the child), naamakarana (naming ceremony),,
annapraasana (first feeding of rice), upanayana (investing with the sacred
thread) and vivaaha (marriage). Of all the sacraments marriage is the most
important. Our scriptures accord a very high place to the Grihastha or
householder. Those belonging to all the other three orders, namely,
Brahmachaaris, Vaanaprasthas and Sannyaasins, depend on the
householder for their sustenance. Manusmriti says: "Just as every creature
lives by air, so the other orders of life are sustained by the householder".
After completing his studies under a guru the Brahmachaari is enjoined to
enter Grihastha-asrama in the normal course. (It is only for those very rare
individuals who have attained total detachment towards worldly affairs that
Sannyaasa directly from Brahma-charya is prescribed). One of the mantras in
the marriage ceremony says that the purpose of marriage is to beget virtuous
progeny. Only a Grihastha is entitled to perform the rituals prescribed in the
Vedas, including Sraaddha to ancestors. There is an anecdote in the Rigveda
describing the origin of the institution of marriage. A god by name Soma
desired to get married and sent the two Aswinidevas to Savita, the father of a
girl named Sooryaa, to ask for her hand. Savita agreed to give his daughter in
marriage to Soma. Then the bridegroom Soma went to Savita's house and
was received there with honours. Sooryaa was given in marriage to Soma
with the god of fire as the witness. Our marriages have been modeled on this
episode from time immemorial. There is one item in the marriage ceremony,
known as Vara-preshanam, which is reminiscent of this episode and re-
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enacts it by the chanting of mantras implying the sending of two or four
Brahmanas by the prospective bridegroom to seek the consent of the father
of the prospective bride.
In all Vedic ceremonies dakshina to the officiating priests and 'daanam' or the
gifting of cash and various useful articles to the priests and other Brahmanas
present forms an important ingredient. This should not be looked upon as
mere charity intended to benefit the recipients. The main purpose of these
gifts is to help the spiritual progress of the giver. The tendency to accumulate
wealth and cling on to it is natural in every human being. The Upanishads
declare that as long as this tendency remains in the mind, there is no hope of
spiritual progress for the individual. A hymn in the Saama veda exhorts
everyone to counter this tendency by giving freely of one's wealth to others.
In the Brihadaaranyaka Upanishad Brahma, the Creator, instructs human
beings to give 'daanam' liberally, in order that they may get rid of the defect of
greed which is a serious obstacle to spiritual progress. The Bhagavad gita
says that greed is one of the gates to hell. It is therefore in the interest of the
spiritual development of the giver that the institution of 'daanam' has been
built into every religious ceremony. Giving of gifts during ceremonies such as
marriages has thus a two-fold objective, namely to earn merit (punya) as well
as to facilitate spiritual progress towards the ultimate goal of liberation. The
importance of dakshina is brought out in the following extract from the
Bhashya (commentary) of Sri Sankaracharya on the Brihadaaranyaka
Upanishad: "The yajna (sacrifice or any other Vedic ritual) rests on the
dakshina to the priests. The fruit of the Vedic rite accrues initially to the
priests who actually perform it. It has to be acquired by the yajamaana (the
person for whose benefit the ritual is meant) by paying dakshina to the
priests. The dakshina rests on faith because when a man has faith he gives
dakshina to the priests; if he has no faith, he does not give it. 'Faith' implies
liberality --- faith in the Vedas coupled with devotion". There is a tendency
among some people to spend lavishly on all other items in a marriage but to
economise when it comes to dakshina and daanam. Compared to the total
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amount that has to be spent on a marriage these days the amount that goes
out by way of daanam and dakshina is a very small percentage, but the result
attained cannot be evaluated in material terms. One should therefore be as
liberal in giving dakshina and daanam as he is in respect of the other items of
expenditure.
The mantras chanted during the marriage ceremony were handed down to
posterity thousands of years ago by our ancient sages who 'saw' them in their
state of super-consciousness or communion with the divine. The mantras
express lofty ideas and have great spiritual potency. The vibrations set in
motion by the chanting of the mantras purify the marriage hall as well as all
those present there. The persons belonging to the bride's party and the
bridegroom's party should listen to the mantras with devotion and faith so that
the maximum benefit may be derived. The bridegroom's father, the
bridegroom and the bride's father should, when they perform the various
rituals, repeat the mantras after the priest with devotion and faith (Bhakti and
Sraddha). Devotion and faith are very important. Lord Krishna says in the
Bhagavad gita that he accepts even insignificant offerings, such as a leaf,
flower, fruit or even just water, so long as they are made with devotion. He
further says that any yajna, daanam, austerity or any other rite performed
without faith does not benefit the person either in this world or in the next. The
Chaandogya Upanishad makes it clear that chanting mantras even without
knowing their meaning does confer benefit, though the benefit will be greater
if the person chanting knows the meaning also. Marriage is not merely a
joyous occasion, but, more than that, it is essentially a religious function with
great sanctity attached to it. The guests who attend the marriage ceremony
will contribute greatly to the lasting welfare and happiness of the bride and
bridegroom if they observe silence, listen to the mantras, and keep mentally
praying to God to bless the couple, instead of merely engaging in
conversation with others. Nowadays the decibel level in a marriage hall goes
up so high that the chanting of the mantras cannot be heard. We, the
educated elite, should bring about a wholesome change in this situation so
that the sanctity of the marriage ceremony may be maintained and the full
benefit of the mantras may be derived. Another point to be stressed here is
that no one should shake hands with the bride or bridegroom until the
marriage ceremony is completed. It would-be advisable if the invitees wait till
the end of the marriage ceremony to offer their presents to the bride and
bride-groom. Those who want to leave early would do well to hand over their
presents to some other member of the family concerned instead of
interrupting the ceremony by insisting on giving them to the bride or bride-
groom.
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It will also be seen from the episode of the marriage of Soma to Sooryaa
narrated above that it is the prospective bridegroom who has to take the
initiative in searching for a bride and not the parents of the bride as has
become the practice now.
The various items in the marriage ceremony are essentially the same for
persons belonging to all the three Vedas, but there are differences in some
details, depending on the Veda to which the bridegroom belongs. These
differences will be pointed out at the appropriate places. The marriage
ceremony as performed by the Brahmin community in Tamil Nadu is what is
described here.
The various limbs of the actual marriage ceremony will now be described.
On the afternoon of the day preceding the marriage the bridegroom's party
sets out for the marriage hall. Before starting, a puja to Lord Ganesa is
performed by the bridegroom's father.
Jaanuvaasam:
On the evening preceding the day of the marriage, the bride and bridegroom
and the members of their families go to a temple and offer worship. In the
past the bridegroom used to be taken in a procession, but this is done only
rarely nowadays. The term 'Jaanuvaasam' puzzles most people. 'Jaanu'
means, in Sanskrit, 'knee' and 'vaasa' means 'cloth'. A Brahmachari is,
according to the Sastras, expected to wear only a single dhoti which reaches
up to his knees. When he becomes a Grihastha, he has to wear
'panchakaccham' and an upper cloth. (The word ‘panchakaccham' is wrongly
pronounced by most people as ‘panchgaccham'.Kaccham means an end or
hem of the dhoti and pancha means five. In this way of wearing the dhoti, five
ends are tucked in and hence the name panchakaccham). The occasion on
which he wears the single dhoti up to the knees for the last time is known by
the term 'Jaanuvaasam'. The term persists, though no one follows these
conventions about dress nowadays.
Samaavartanam:
The main rite preceding the actual marriage is Samaavartanam (popularly
known as Vratham). This represents graduation on the completion of studies
by the Brahmachaari under a guru and is the prelude to the marriage. In
ancient times this was performed by the Brahmachaari while leaving the
gurukulam on completion of studies. This is done either on the morning of the
day of the marriage or on the previous morning according to convenience.
The following items form part of this rite:--
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place till the completion of the marriage ceremony. They are then immersed
in water in a temple tank or other convenient place. The idea behind this rite
is the worship of the various gods to get their blessing for the smooth conduct
of the marriage. The pot at the centre represents Brahma, and the other four
pots represent Indra, Yama, Varuna and Soma.
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The actual marriage ceremony now begins. The bridegroom prays to the
assembled priests and Brahmanas and all elders to bless him and make him
fit to go through the marriage ceremony. He then performs puja to Lord
Ganesa. He chants a mantra which says that he is marrying in order to beget
virtuous progeny.
Varapreshanam:
As stated earlier, this is reminiscent of the marriage of Soma and Sooryaa.
The bridegroom requests two or four of the Brahmanas present to find a
suitable bride for him from a good family. The Brahmanas request the bride's
father to give his daughter in marriage to the bridegroom for begetting
virtuous progeny. The bride's father gives his consent by saying three times,
"I shall give". All this is done through appropriate mantras. Before this the
bride's father should have performed all the preliminary rites for the bride,
such as jaatakarma, etc.
After this there are some rituals for purification, known as punyaaha-
vaachanam.
Varapooja:
This is worship of the bridegroom by the bride's father, looking upon him as
Lord Maha Vishnu Himself.
Kanyaadaanam:
The bride's father sits facing east on a raised seat. The bride sits on his lap.
The bridegroom stands facing them. The 'Pravara' (lineage) of both the
families is then recited by the father of the bride. A sample Pravara runs thus:
'"To the bridegroom named Krishna Sarma, belonging to Samaveda, who is
Maha Vishnu Himself, who is the great grandson of Narayana Sarma
belonging to Bharadwaja gothra, and the grandson of Mahadeva Sarma, and
the son of Viswanatha Sarma, I give my daughter named Jayalakshmi, who is
the great granddaughter of Sundaresa Sarma belonging to Kausika gothra,
the granddaughter of Ramaswami Sarma, and the daughter of Rajagopala
Sarma". The mantra further says: "I being desirous of attaining Brahmaloka,
give my daughter, adorned with gold ornaments, to you, Maha Vishnu. May
all the gods and goddesses and all the beings who support the universe be
the witnesses. I am giving this daughter so that my ancestors may attain
salvation. May I attain moksha by gifting my daughter to you. I give this
daughter of mine to you for begetting virtuous progeny and for performing
religious rites." He then places the hands of the bride in the hands of the
bridegroom. The bridegroom clasps the right hand of the bride and both sit
down for performing the further rituals.
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Purification of the bride:
For this there is a rite in the marriage ceremony of Rigvedins and
Yajurvedins. As there are various wrong notions about this rite, it is described
here along with its real significance. A miniature yoke made of wood is placed
on the head of the bride. The thiru mangalyam is placed near the hole in the
yoke and water is poured drop by drop through the hole on the bride. This is
based on an old story according to which sage Atri had a daughter by name
Apaalaa. She had some skin disease because of which nobody was willing to
marry her. She did penance and prayed to Indra. Indra came and poured
water on her through the hole in the yoke of his chariot. She not only became
completely free from the disease, but also lustrous like the sun. The mantras
recited in this context are taken from Apaalaa's hymns of praise in the
Rigveda. This rite is not performed when the bridegroom is a Saamavedin.
Instead, the bride is purified by the singing of some Saamaveda chants.
The bridegroom then gives a sari (Koorapudavai) to the bride. She goes
inside, wears it and comes back. The bridegroom's sister is asked to help the
bride to wear this sari. During this interval the priests should be asked to sing
hymns from the Saamaveda if the bridegroom is a Saamavedin. In Rigvedic
and Yajurvedic marriages the priests should chant Ghanam.
Maangalyadhaaranam:
The thirumangalyam (or Mangalasutra) is first taken round to get the
blessings of the elders present in the marriage hall. Then the bridegroom
invokes Maangalya Devataa on the thirumangalyam and performs puja with
the 16 upachaaras (shodasopachaara).
The bride's father sits on the raised seat, facing east. The bride sits on his
lap. The bridegroom places the thirumangalyam around the bride's neck and
ties one knot, chanting a mantra the meaning of which is as below:-- "O
auspicious damsel, I tie this auspicious thread, which ensures long life for me,
around your neck. May you live for a hundred years". The bride-groom's
sister then ties two knots.
Paanigrahanam - Taking the hand of the bride by the bridegroom:
The bridegroom clasps with his right palm the right palm of the bride,
including the thumb and recites mantras which mean: I take your hand so that
we may beget virtuous progeny and live till a ripe old age. The gods Bhaga,
Aryamaa, Savita, Indra and others have given you to me to be the mistress of
my house. O Goddess Saraswati, we sing your praise in the presence of all
living beings. Please confer your blessings onus. May all the gods make you
(the bride) always favourably inclined towards me.
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the joined palms of the bride with his left hand and with his right hand he lifts
the right foot of the bride and moves it over seven steps, chanting mantras for
each step. The mantras uttered by the bridegroom at each step mean: "O
dear damsel, by the first step may Lord Vishnu bless us with plenty of food,
by the second step with bodily strength, by the third step success in the
performance of all vows, by the fourth step happiness, by the fifth step cattle
and all other wealth, by the sixth step may all the seasons be favourable to
us, by the seventh step may Lord Vishnu bless that we may together perform
all the ordained Vedic rites successfully. By taking seven steps with me you
have become my most intimate friend and well-wisher. I shall never swerve
from this relationship. God has united us. We shall perform all our actions
together with mutual love and full faith in each other. We shall always be of
one mind. We shall perform all our religious duties together. We are
complementary to each other. May we have good progeny and prosperity".
Now the bridegroom pours oblations of ghee into the sacred fire. The bride
sits by his side, touching him with her right-hand, to indicate that the two are
performing this rite together. Mantras are chanted to propitiate the various
gods, with the following prayers: "May Indra bless the bride to become
attached to her husband's house and family, to beget good children and to be
prosperous. May Agni bless her children with long life. May she have
happiness from her children. May she never have to shed tears. May she be
protected on all sides by all the gods. May Varuna guard our lives.
Asmaarohanam:
A grinding stone is kept to the west of the homa kunda. The bridegroom holds
the joined palms of the bride with his left hand and, lifting the right foot of the
bride with his right hand, places it on the grinding stone, chanting a mantra.
The gist of the mantra is this: "Get up on this stone. Be firm like this stone in
carrying out your vows. Resist those who oppose you (in carrying out your
vows). Do not succumb to them." Here the stone is a symbol of firmness.
There are various wrong notions about the significance of this rite als o.
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Thereafter the groom again lifts the right foot of the bride and places it on the
grinding stone as before, chanting the same mantra as before. Then again,
going back to the homa kunda, parched rice is offered as oblation as before.
This is followed by going round the fire and lifting the right foot of the bride
and placing it on the grinding stone for the third time. Parched rice is again
offered into the fire.
Griha Pravesam:
The bride and bridegroom go to the bridegroom's house accompanied by the
members of their families. There some mantras are to be chanted by the
bridegroom. These mantras indicate the very high place that is accorded to
the daughter-in-law in the house. The mantras, addressed to the bride, say:-
"Be like an empress in this house. May you be like a queen to your father-in-
law, mother-in-law, sisters-in-law and others. By your affectionate conduct
towards all those in your husband's house, may you win them over". These
mantras indicate the great importance given to the daughter-in-law of the
house by the Vedas.
Pravesa Homam:
This is now performed by the bridegroom. The mantras chanted pray for long
life, prosperity and virtuous children for the couple.
After the stars rise in the horizon, the bridegroom points out these stars to the
bride, chanting some mantras. Dhruva stands for firmness. It is prayed that in
their married life this couple should be as firm as Dhruva and they should
never swerve from the path of Dharma. Arundhatiis the wife of Sage Vasishta
and is the symbol of chastity. The idea is that the bride should be chaste like
Arundhati.
There are some variations in the order of the different rites in the three
Vedas.
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Specific rituals related to food consumption include worshipping the food, which is believed to increase strength and virility . Food should be served with a ladle, not by hand, to maintain purity, and should be worshipped using specific water rituals to purify it before consumption . The method of taking food also includes not finding fault with food, and not talking or seeing unclean things or people while eating, as this is believed to taint the food and transfer sin or impurity . Certain rituals are performed based on the type of utensil or leaf used for serving, with different materials prescribed for different social roles, such as Sanyasis or Brahmacharis, versus householders . The consistency and material of food vessels, alongside direction of facing and physical posture during meals, are crucial as they are believed to have spiritual impacts, such as promoting auspiciousness or attracting negative energies . These rituals are performed to keep the food and the process of consumption pure, ensuring the consumer benefits both spiritually and physically ."}
Traditional beliefs regarding purity and impurity in Hindu rituals are clearly reflected in practices related to eating and personal hygiene. Certain actions and substances are seen as impure. For instance, drinking coconut water in a bell metal vessel, milk mixed with salt, and drinking from a copper vessel are considered equivalent to consuming alcohol, reflecting a taboo against impurity . Additionally, eating onions and garlic is believed to diminish spiritual purity, necessitating further rituals to restore ritual eligibility . Regarding personal hygiene, specific rules dictate that one must not attend to calls of nature under certain circumstances, such as in front of sacred elements or while facing particular directions, as this is considered impure . Mud and water are prescribed for cleaning after using the toilet, with different requirements based on one's stage of life . These beliefs emphasize maintaining ritual purity through adherence to detail-oriented practices.
Hindu rituals express respect for nature through various practices that honor the elements and deities associated with them. For instance, the Ankuraarpanam ceremony during marriages involves sowing seeds of certain grains in five earthen pots, each representing deities like Indra, Yama, Varuna, and Soma, as well as Brahma, the central pot symbolizing creation and growth . Rituals such as the use of sacred water symbolize purification and respect for water bodies, as seen in Snaanakarma, where water is sanctified for rites and bathing, emphasizing its purifying properties . Additionally, during religious functions, prayers and offerings are made to various natural elements and deities, demonstrating dependence on and reverence for the natural world. Bathing in sacred rivers like Ganges, Yamuna, and Cauvery for spiritual cleansing further underscores the significance of natural elements in these rituals . These practices collectively embody a cultural reverence towards the elements of nature, integrating them into religious observance and daily life.
Marriage customs integrate Vedic elements like Pani Grihanam, denoting spiritual and legal union, while non-Vedic elements such as Malai Mattal add cultural vibrancy and social engagement . This blend serves spiritual purposes like invoking blessings through Vedic chants and culturally binding elements through activities that encourage familial bonding, signifying both community acceptance and divine approval .
Sandhya Vandana is a daily practice to purify one’s mind and body for spiritual activities, mainly involving the recitation of the Gayathri Mantra. It involves specific postures like sitting cross-legged and facing certain directions at different times of the day (east in the morning, north at noon, west in the evening). The practice includes pranayama, reflecting on divine names, and structured mantra repetition, promoting concentration and meditational focus .
Janu Vasam symbolizes the groom's status as a Brahmachari, traditionally dressed in a simple cloth up to the knee, signifying a life of learning and saintliness . Invitations would expose the groom to the community, allowing objections based on his character or status to surface. Over time, these processions have evolved to incorporate more elaborate displays, such as nadaswaram music and fireworks, diverging from the original austere tradition .
Lord Vishnu plays a pivotal role in addressing cosmic aspects through his avatars, each taking on specific duties to restore cosmic order. Lord Vishnu's essence permeates the entire universe, reflected in daily occurrences such as the moon phases, days, and stars, symbolizing the interconnectedness of existence . Vishnu's avatars like Lord Rama are invoked for purging sins committed in thought, speech, or action. Chanting the name of Lord Rama is believed to cleanse these impurities and bring purification from inside out . Similarly, through rituals like Tharpana, Vishnu provides a channel for performing duties towards ancestors, emphasizing the preservation of dharma and cosmic balance . Additionally, the worship of Vishnu in forms like Salagrama stone signifies his eternal presence and the path to salvation, highlighting the spiritual dimension of his role . Each avatar and aspect of Vishnu reflects a different focus—be it purification, cosmic stability, or spiritual liberation—integral to maintaining the balance of the universe.
The significance of Ekadasi in Hindu rituals lies in its classification as a Nithya Kamya observance, meaning it is essential and desirable for one's personal welfare and spiritual benefit . Observing a fast on Ekadasi is seen as a way to cleanse the body and mind, and it is considered as important as Sandhya Vandana, a daily ritual . The fast is believed to prevent sin and lead to spiritual advancement or the attainment of wealth and happiness . The consequences of not observing the Ekadasi fast are considered significant; it is believed that neglecting it results in sin, with no redemption available, unlike other transgressions that might have redemptive procedures . Thus, Ekadasi observance is a critical aspect of devotion and spiritual discipline in Hinduism.
Nischayathartham, a significant ceremony in Hindu marriage rituals, formalizes the engagement between the two families, emphasizing the vital role of familial and societal approval in the union. This ceremony involves announcing the commitment of the bride and groom in the presence of family members and elders, who play a crucial role in arranging and witnessing this junction of families. It reflects the communal aspect of marriage, where the individual union also signifies a merging of two families, reinforcing social ties and responsibilities . Marriage in Hindu society is not just a contract but a religious sacrament aimed at the spiritual and social integration of the couple into a unified household, forming the basis of society itself . Customs like Kanyaadaanam, the gifting of the bride by her family, highlight the roles and duties entrusted to family members, ensuring the continuity of family traditions and social order .
Sapthapadi, the act of taking seven steps, is a significant ritual in Hindu marriages, symbolizing the vows taken by the couple to share their life together. According to Hindu tradition, it is only upon taking the seventh step that the marriage is considered solemnized . However, if the customary rites and ceremonies traditionally performed by the caste or community to which the bride or bridegroom belong do not include sapthapadi, it may not be considered essential for the marriage . This flexibility highlights the acknowledgment of diverse cultural practices within Hindu communities, where specific rites depend on the customs followed for more than 25 years within a community . Thus, sapthapadi might not be mandatory if the customary rites do not necessitate it.