Twenty Questions to help you challenge negative thinking-
1) What is the evidence?
2) Am I jumping to conclusions?
3) What alternatives are there?
4) Am I assuming my view of things is the only one possible?
5) What is the effect of thinking the way I do?
6) What are the advantages and disadvantages of thinking this way?
7) Am I asking questions that have no answer?
8) What thinking errors am I making?
9) Am I condemning myself as a total person on the basis of a single event?
10) Am I expecting myself to be perfect?
11) Am I using double standard?
12) Am I blaming myself for something which is not really my fault?
13) Am I taking things personally which have little or nothing to do with
me ?
14) Am I only paying attention to the black side of things?
15) Am I overestimating the chances of a disaster?
16) Am I exaggerating the importance of events?
17) Am I fretting about the way things ought to be, instead of accepting
and dealing with them as they are?
18) Am I assuming I can do nothing to change my situation?
19) Am I predicting the future instead of experimenting with it?