Understanding the Sexual Self
Understanding the Sexual Self
✍️ Module Guide
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Assessment
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2. Write your answers.
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“Our sexual self is a complex combination of our social, cultural, and biological inheritance.”
– Pepper Schwartz
Learning Objectives
Introduction
Puberty marks the start of sexual development in an individual. Physical changes start
and as an individual continues to adolescence, these changes are highlighted as sex hormones,
undergoing physical changes, and producing feelings that are sexual in nature. The sexual
self, in particular, is where one learns and understands about his or her sexual development,
and how people’s sexual activity, beliefs, and conceptions about sex can influence one’s own
sexual behaviors and responses. The sexual self speaks about one’s sexual health, sexual
orientation, gender identity and expression and values around sexuality.
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A. Discussion
Sex Determination
Life begins upon the moment of fertilization. Twenty-three (23) chromosomes coming
from the mother and twenty-three (23) chromosomes coming from the father produces a
normal newborn, having genetically 46 chromosomes or 23 pairs of chromosomes. The
1st pair of chromosome up to the 22nd pair are called the autosomes which is responsible
for the physical and mental characteristics. While the 23rd pair is called the sex
chromosomes which determines the sex of the new individual. If the 23rd pair is XX then
the individual is a female. But if otherwise the 23rd pair is XY, then the new individual is
a male. Any intervention with the normal pattern of sex hormone production in the
embryo results in strange abnormalities.
This physiological response model was first formulated by William H. Masters and Virginia
E. Johnson in 1966. Sexual response follows a pattern of sequential stages or phases when
sexual activity is continued.
Arousal Stage – It is the subjective sense of sexual pleasure and physiological signs of
sexual arousal. In males, penile tumescence (increased flow of blood into the penis)
happens. While in females, vasocongestion (blood pools in the pelvic area) occurs,
leading to vaginal lubrication and breast tumescence (nipples erect).
Orgasm Phase – If stimulation is continued, sexual climax usually occurs. Sexual climax
is marked by a feeling of sudden intense pleasure, an abrupt increase in pulse rate and
blood pressure, and spasms of the pelvic muscles causing contractions in the female and
emission of semen by the male. Involuntary vocalization may also occur. Sexual climax
lasts for a few seconds (normally not over ten).
Resolution Phase – After which the individual enters the resolution phase, the return to
a normal or subnormal physiological state. Up to the resolution phase, males and females
are the same in their response sequence. However, whereas males return to normal even
if stimulation continues, continued stimulation can produce additional sexual climax in
females. In short, after one sexual climax, a male becomes unresponsive to sexual
stimulation and cannot begin to build up another excitement phase until some period of
time has elapsed, but females are physically capable of repeated sexual climax without
the intervening ‘rest period’ required by males.
Sexual Dysfunction
Sexual dysfunction is a common problem among both men and women. It can be caused by
physical problems and medical conditions, such as heart disease and hormone imbalances,
or by psychological problems, like anxiety, depression and the effects of past trauma. There
are four main types or categories of sexual dysfunction.
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Desire Disorders – These disorders affect sexual desire and interest in sex, are also known
as libido disorders or low libido. Low estrogen and testosterone levels can cause
decreased libido, as can hormonal changes, medical conditions like diabetes and heart
disease, relationship problems, sexual inhibitions, fatigue, fear, depression, and anxiety,
among other things.
Orgasm Disorders – These involve the absence of orgasm or delayed orgasm which are a
common problem with women, but they can also occur in men. Pain during sexual
activity, stress, fatigue, hormonal changes and reduced libido can all lead to delayed or
absent orgasm.
Pain Disorders – These involve pain during intercourse which can affect both men and
women. In women, pain may be caused by vaginal dryness, vaginismus (a condition that
affects the vaginal muscles), urinary tract infections (UTIs), hormonal changes during
menopause, and other conditions. In men, pain may be caused by Peyronie's disease
(physical damage to the penis), infections like UTIs, prostatitis and yeast infections,
genital herpes and skin conditions.
The insertion of the male reproductive organ into the female reproductive organ, is
viewed by society quite differently depending upon the marital status of the
individuals. The majority of human societies permit premarital coitus, at least under
certain circumstances. In more repressive societies, such as modern Western society,
it is more likely to be tolerated (but not encouraged) if the individuals intend marriage.
Teenage Pregnancy
This is pregnancy in human females under the age of
20 at the time that the pregnancy ends. Pregnant
teenagers face many of the same obstetrics issues as
other women. There are, however, additional medical
concerns for mothers aged below 15 years old. For
mothers aged 15-19, risks are associated more with
socio-economic factors than with the biological effects
of age. In teenage pregnancy, there are risks of low
birth weight, premature labor, anemia, and pre-
eclampsia are connected to the biological age itself, as
it was observed in teen births. Every day in developing
countries, 20,000 girls under age 18 give. This
amounts to 7.3 million births a year. And if all
pregnancies are included, the number of adolescent
pregnancies is much higher.
Republic Act 10354: The Responsible Parenthood and Reproductive Health Act of 2012
It is also known as the Reproductive Health Law or RH Law is a Philippine law that
provided universal access to methods of contraception, fertility control, sexual education,
and maternal care in the Philippines.
Methods of Contraception
The natural family planning methods do not include any chemical or foreign body
introduction into the human body. Most people who are very conscious of their religious
beliefs are more inclined to use the natural way of birth control. Some want to use natural
methods because it is more cost effective. Below are the natural methods of contraception.
The artificial methods are any unnatural technique that is used to prevent conception.
Permanent methods of contraception are just that – permanent. They are usually chosen
once you have had children and have decided that your family is complete. Permanent
methods of contraception include vasectomy and female sterilization. However, even though
vasectomy and female sterilization are permanent methods of contraception they will not
protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Bacterial
Chancroid
Chlamydia
Gonorrhea
Protozoal
Trichomonas
Vaginalis /
Trichomoniasis
Viral
Herpes Simplex
Virus / Genital
Herpes HSV-2
Human
Papillomavirus
/Genital Warts
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Human The human immuno-deficiency virus (HIV) can only infect human
Immuno- beings. The effect of the virus is to create a deficiency within the body’s immune
deficiency system. This organism is a retro virus which means it can reproduce itself by
Virus (HIV) taking over the machinery of the human cell.
Sexual transmission
Infected blood and blood products (i.e. blood transfusion from an HIV-
infected donor and sharing of infected syringes and needles)
Mother to child (i.e. from an HIV-infected mother to her child)
Casual contacts (e.g. sharing food and utensils, shaking hands, hugging
or kissing, coughing, sneezing, using public phone, visiting a hospital)
Feces, urine, saliva, sweat, tears
Donating blood
Sharing toilets
Insect bites
Swimming pools
Bisexual – Attracted to people of one’s own gender and people of other gender(s). Two
common misconceptions are that bisexual people are attracted to everyone and anyone,
or that they just haven’t “decided.” Often referred to as “bi.” See also Pansexual/Fluid
and Queer.
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Gay – Generally refers to a man who is attracted to men. Sometimes refers to all people
who are attracted to people of the same sex; sometimes “homosexual” is used for this
also, although this term is seen by many today as a medicalized term that should be retired
from common use.
Questioning – One who may be unsure of, reconsidering, or chooses to hold off
identifying their sexual identity or gender expression or identity.
Straight – Attracted to people of the “opposite” sex; it is also sometimes generally used
to refer to people whose sexualities are societally normative. Alternately referred to as
“heterosexual.”
Gender identity and expression are ways in which a person identifies and/or expresses their
gender, including self-image, appearance, and embodiment of gender roles. One’s sex (e.g.
male, female, intersex, etc.) is usually assigned at birth based on one’s physical biology. One’s
gender (e.g. male, female, genderqueer, etc.) is one’s internal sense of self and identity. One’s
gender expression (e.g. masculine, feminine, androgynous, etc.) is how one embodies gender
attributes, presentations, roles, and more.
Androgyny – The mixing of masculine and feminine gender expression or the lack of
gender identification. The terms androgyne, agender, and neutrois are sometimes used by
people who identify as genderless, non-gendered, beyond or between genders, or some
combination thereof.
Cisgender – A gender identity that society considers to “match” the biological sex
assigned at birth. The prefix cis- means “on this side of” or “not across from.” A term
used to call attention to the privilege of people who are not transgender.
gender, and someone who considers this an integral part of their identity may identify as
a crossdresser (note: the term crossdresser is preferable to transvestite and neither may ever
be used to describe a transsexual person). Cross-dressing is not necessarily tied to erotic
activity or sexual orientation.
Transgender – First coined to distinguish gender benders with no desire for surgery or
hormones from transsexuals, those who desired to legally and medically change their sex,
more recently transgender and/or trans has become an umbrella term popularly used to
refer to all people who transgress dominant conceptions of gender, or at least all who
identify themselves as doing so. The definition continues to evolve.
Transsexual – The term transsexual has historically been used to refer to individuals who
have medically and legally changed their sex, or who wish to do so. Most transsexual
people feel a conflict between their gender identity and the sex they were assigned at birth.
Other labels used within this group are MtF (male-to-female) or trans woman, and FtM
(female-to-male) or trans man.
Biphobia – Aversion of and/or prejudice toward the idea that people can be attracted to
more than one gender, and/or bisexuals as a group or as individuals, often based on
negative stereotypes of bisexuality and the invisibility of bisexual people.
Coming Out – The process of acknowledging one’s sexual orientation and/or gender
identity or expression to oneself or other people.
Gender Binary – A system of classifying sex and gender into two distinct and
disconnected forms of masculine and feminine. It can be referred to as a social construct
or a social boundary that discourages people from crossing or mixing gender roles, or
from creating other third (or more) forms of gender expression. It can also represent some
of the prejudices which stigmatize people who identify as intersex and transgender.
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Heterosexism – The presumption that everyone is straight and/or the belief that
heterosexuality is a superior expression of sexuality. Often includes the use of power of
the majority (heterosexuals) to reinforce this belief and forgetting the privileges of being
straight in our society.
LGBTQ – An acronym for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. This is
currently one of the most popular ways in U.S. society to refer to all people who are
marginalized due to sexual orientation and/or gender identity, although other letters are
often included as well to represent identities described above.
B. Assessment
1. Interview your parents or any adult household members who already have their own families.
Know their experiences in raising their children and how they make a living to support their
families. Write down your insights about their experiences and identify how applicable the
use of family planning methods is in their situation.
2. Explore your gender and sexuality by answering “The Genderbread Person” activity
worksheet (see the guide and template in the next page). In this activity, there is no right or
wrong answer because nobody knows you better than yourself. You can select your answers
on the given categories below or based on the above-mentioned classifications or refer to the
following video link for explanation of the worksheet. Answer in a bulleted list format.
Scoring Guide: Refer to the point system below to know how your answers will be graded.
1-2. Each item is equivalent to ten (10) points. Below is the rubric.
C. References
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“Responsible parenthood and reproductive health act of 2012”. (n.d.). Retrieved from
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“Types of sexual dysfunction in men and women”. (n.d.). Retrieved from
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Alata, E. P., Caslib, B. N., Serafica, J. J., Pawilen, R. A. (2018). Understanding the self (1 st ed.).
Sampaloc, Manila: Rex Book Store, Inc.
Cerro, B. S. (n.d.). Sexually transmitted infections with emphasis on HIV and AIDS. Regional
Epidemiology and Surveillance Unit VIII. Understanding the Self – Student Forum.
Family Planning Material. (n.d.). Commission on Population.
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Villafuerte, S. L., Quillope, A. F., Tunac, R. C., & Borja, E. I. (2018). Understanding the self. Quezon
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