MALE PROSTITUTION MANUSCRIPT For Printing
MALE PROSTITUTION MANUSCRIPT For Printing
INTRODUCTION
Most lucrative, most persuasive and the world’s oldest job of all time (Patton, 2017).
A job that has been around for thousands of years in one form or another. Whether for
money, trade, and protection, people have been selling their “goods” across the globe since
Perceptions of this job are based on culturally determined values that differ between
societies. In some societies, workers of this job have been viewed as members of a
recognized profession; in others they have been shunned, reviled, and punished with
cover three main areas – pornography, prostitution, and striptease. There seems to be the
most intersection between prostitution and striptease with many sex workers entering the
industry through these two areas and switching between the two over the span of their
Over the last twenty or so years the strip club industry has grown exponentially in most of
the industrialised world (Jefferys, 2008). Strip clubs have been the setting in several American
feature films such as Showgirls and Striptease as well as being a common background scene in
many mainstream television programmes, films and music videos. More recently, there has also
been an upsurge in the mainstreaming of stripper culture, with gyms offering ‘strippercise’
programmes, exercise Digital Video Discs (DVDs) based on stripper moves, the popularisation of
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In 2010, Mustafa cited that prostitution and stripping professions are essentially the same.
Both professions require teasing, sensual touching, being naked for a period of time and getting
paid for that. There are strip joints all around and they are just doing the same thing as
prostitution but they are not going all the way. It is not surprising if within strip joints they all do
sex to go on for extra money. The key here is money. This is a male dominated society and sex is
a major part of the male psyche. Strippers and porn are substitute for the real thing to "ease" their
desire.
Again, the motivation is financial and they feel it will be an easier and quicker way to make
more money. Being that the primary motivation for strippers and streetwalkers is financial,
a closer evaluation of the system through which they make their money is needed. The
number of ‘volunteer’ streetwalkers is considered to be very low. Most often any sex
worker who does it purely for enjoyment, which is very rare, is found in higher-class fetish
Prostitution has existed in almost every society since the dawn of history. It is the common
problem of every country especially in the Philippines that has a numerous or has a large number
of operations of prostitution. Prostitution is often quoted as the world's oldest profession. There is
no doubt that prostitution has been around since the first recordings of history (Larson & Lewis,
2015).
in general with someone who is not a spouse or a friend, in exchange for immediate payment in
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entail heterosexual or homosexual activity, but historically most prostitutes have been women and
In layman’s term, prostitution is defined in a negative way, where talents are misused.
Additionally, a prostitute assumes a prototype of a woman, conveying that women are the sole
purveyors of sexual services. Yet, men in history have engaged in the selling of their bodies
associated with the selling of sex and tried to reframe the definition without placing value-based
judgment. Scholars have used “sex work” in replacement of “prostitution” (Sarah, 2002).
Steering away from the value-based definition of “prostitution” and heading towards a more
neutral definition, male sex work is defined as “the adult exchange of direct physical contact sexual
services for monetary gain.” However, it is noted that compensation for sex services is not always
monetary, but there are alternative ways of compensating male sex workers. Beyond the monetary
compensation, scholars have attempted to add other dimensions to the definition such as: support
of livelihood necessities (i.e. food, shelter, etc. and other items of monetary values (i.e. drugs,
clothes, cosmetics, luxury goods, overseas vacation, drugs, etc. Moreover, to distinguish male sex
workers (MSW) from other forms of sexual relationships with benefits such as marriage, the
dimension of “hired” service or employment is added to the definition (Bungay and Atchison,
2016).
Matthews, (2014) stated that there are two types of prostitution, the female prostitution
and the male prostitution. In female prostitution, women are involved in prostitution and they are
amongst the most victimized group of people in society. Even liberals and libertarians find it
difficult to deny this, particularly in relation to trafficking and the involvement of children. While
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in return for payment. It is a form of sex work. Although clients can be any gender, the vast
Male prostitution is a globalized phenomenon, existing in almost all countries and expanding
rigorously into the digital world (Nguyen, 2017). Male prostitution is on the rise in different parts of
Asia. A growing number of men is prostituting themselves (Gales, 2015). It is the common problem
of every country especially in the Philippines that has a numerous or has a large number of
operations. Prostitution in the Philippines is officially illegal; penalties range up to life imprisonment
for those involved in trafficking, which is covered by the Anti-Trafficking in Persons Act of 2003
As with its female counterpart, male prostitution has generally been regarded as deeply
problematic, either because of negative societal attitudes to the selling of sex or the prevalence of
psychosocial and economic problems amongst those attracted to MSW and the attendant health
risks and dangers encountered whilst engaged in it. The sexual risk for the worker and client has
long been the subject of particular public concern due to the fear of sexually transmitted infections,
especially HIV, all of which have proved influential in directing the research focus. (Wilcox &
Christmann, 2006)
The strong social disapproval upon the prostitutes makes it extremely difficult for them to
avoid personal demoralization. Like the female prostitution, male prostitution is the practice of
engaging in sexual acts for money. Compared to female sex workers, MSW is infrequently studied
by researchers. In other countries there are many types of male prostitutes but not similar to our
country. Male prostitutes are known by various names and euphemisms including male escorts,
gigolos, rent-boys, models, masseur and hustlers. The term “rent-boy” is derived from the boys
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sex with male clients for money, is sometimes called “gay for pay” or “rough trade” (Ciego, 2015.)
The researchers use the name “Juan dela Cruz or Juan,” pertaining to an ordinary Filipino
man, “Juan” was coined when a certain Robert McCulloch Dick served as a court reporter at The
Manila Times in 1902. He noticed the frequency with which the names appeared on police blotters
and court dockets. Later on, McCulloch-Dick widened his idea of Juan until he made Juan dela Cruz
as a typical Filipino. Juan dela Cruz is associated with the image of a naïve-looking man wearing a
salakot, camisa de chino, native trousers and slippers (The Manila Times, 2014).
Being the oldest known profession, researchers want to investigate and explore the
experiences of a male prostitute who worked in the different provinces specifically in Angeles City,
Pampanga. Hence, this study chose male prostitution, because it is far less studied. Studies among
men who sell sex to either men or women are much rarer than female prostitution wherein almost
of the researches that has been conducted are about the female sex workers (Bindel, 2010). The
world of male prostitution is not much explored that is why there are many unheard stories of male
sex workers.
In line with the aforementioned realities, the researchers wanted to listen on the unheard
voices of the male prostitutes to change the views and perceptions of the society to them, as well
as to find a bigger picture on why did they engage in this field of work, their psychological well-
being and their medical condition. Also, to reach the target respondent of the study as well as to
enlighten the perception of the society, religious sector and the government towards the situation
1.1 Age;
1.2 Religion;
2. What are the conditions or circumstances that led the respondent to engage in
prostitution?
4. How do these experiences affect the respondents’ over all psychological well being?
This study focused on the unheard stories of a male sex worker in the Province of
Pampanga specifically in Angeles City, located near Clark Air Force Base, for it is known as the red
light district or the “Mecca Sex Trade,” military adult-entertainement capital of the Philippines in
1974.
The participant was delimited to one participant, single or in a relationship status. The
study focused on the experiences of a male sex worker who is taking part in any sexual work to
address his needs and wants. The study was limited to a male sex worker, should be at his legal
To the Respondent, who will be the primary beneficiary of this research study, in a
manner that he may be able to reveal and share his untold stories as a sex worker. This study can
empower him to contribute for the change and his life’s endeavour. It will serve as an inspiration
for him to change his lifestyle and face another chapter in his life.
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To the Academe, this study provides information that there is a kind of system like this. In
addition, this study aims to open new opportunities in preventing male and female students in
engaging in this kind of work. It will serve as a revelation to the academe and create an
intervention on how to solve this kind of issues on reaching the education we deserve.
To the Society, this study can contribute to the society by spreading awareness that male
prostitution is a rising social problem. Moreover, this study seeks to clarify the thinking of each
individual, towards the MSW’s. This study will provide new learnings to the society and will make
clear understanding towards the situations of the male sex workers. Through their experiences and
situations, the society may relate the situation to the real life so that they may be able to
To the Religious Sectors, this research study will be a revelation to the religious sectors
of our community. This study is contrary to the will of the church. Furthermore, this study will
serve as a guide to the religious sector to create a move to solve societal issues that continuously
rises. Through this revelation, the religious sectors may find the right way to approach and guide
METHODOLOGY
This section presents the methodology that the researchers employed in the present study.
Specifically, this chapter discusses the research design, participants, instrument, data collection,
Research Design
This study used qualitative research design to further discuss the different situations of the
MSW’s. According to Crossman 2015, qualitative research is a type of social science research that
collects and works with non-numerical data and that seeks to interpret meaning from these data
that help us understand social life through the study of targeted populations or places.
Furthermore, the researchers used descriptive case study approach to explain and narrate
the unheard stories of the participants. Descriptive case study aims to analyze the sequence of
interpersonal events after a certain amount of time has passed. In addition, case study research
paper examines a person, place, event, phenomenon, or other type of subject of analysis in order
to extrapolate key themes and results that help predict future trends, illuminate previously hidden
issues that can be applied to practice, and/or provide a means for understanding an important
Research Participant
The target participant of this study was a male prostitute who is on his legal age and
The researchers used a purposive sampling technique in choosing the respondent for this
study. A purposive sampling is a non-probability sample that will select the respondent based on
the characteristics of a particular group and is purposefully sought for the study.
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This study provided characterization of experiences and feelings about their chosen work as
Research Instrument
The researchers used an unstructured interview for the respondent. The unstructured
interview helped the researchers to gain in depth and more personal information about the topic.
This is used to extract the information in a form of personal talk to the respondent.
According to Wisker (2009), interviews can provide both detailed information you set out to
collect some fascinating contextual or other information. The researchers gathered data through
Data Collection
In this study, the researchers at their legal age, together with their research adviser went
to one of the bars at Angeles City to ask the owner for a permission, thru the manager via phone
call, to conduct an interview about male prostitution. Due to the unavailablity of the male
prositutes for their “Big Night,” (Friday and Saturday) the researchers were instructed to return on
The researchers found a participant who met the qualifications based on the given criteria.
During the interview, they first presented the informed written consent before conducting the
interview proper. After that, they informed and discussed the topic, the objectives, the purpose and
the procedure of the study to the respondent, so that it would result to a well-conducted interview.
Furthermore, the researchers made use of an audio-recorder to prevent future loss of data
and to refer back to the interview for the transcriptions of findings. In addition, they also made use
of handwritten notes to record the bodily movements and facial expressions of the participant. Any
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information.
In addition to the aforementioned, the researchers made a connection with the participant
through the follow-up questions asked by the researchers. Then, after the data gathering process
Ethical Consideration
With all due respect to the ethical aspect of research, the researchers obtained first the
authority from the facilitator, principal, before conducting the study. Consents were given to ask
Rest assured that the participation of the participant was voluntarily and he was not forced
to participate during the conduct of the study. He had the right not to answer questions that were
against his will and his decisions were truly respected. Any personal information such as identity
and privacy of the participant was confidential and was only disclosed with the researchers. And
lastly, all information obtained throughout the process of the project has been cited appropriately.
Data Analysis
Right after the gathered data has been recorded, researchers analysed and interpreted
the transcrived interview. With the help of the respondent, the researchers gained more
understandings of the subject from listening and reading the transcribed interviews.
Coding the data began once all the data was fully transcribed. Collaizzi’s Method (1978) is
research data and to identify meaningful information that needs to be organized into themes or
categories. In the first step, the data was analysed from the stories told by the participant.
Afterwards, the researchers began to transcribe the statement that should had been directly stated
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sub-themes, which emerged through the process. The themes, emerged, were assigned
accordingly.
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FINDINGS
This section contains presentation, interpretation, and analysis of all the gathered data and
information on the unheard stories of a male prostitute. All the following results from the actual
execution of the interview were based from the participant of the study.
Science in Hotel and Restaurant Management. According to him, he already worked in the different
parts of the Philipppines including Manila, Iloilo and at this time working in Angeles City, Pampanga
I. NATURE OF WORK
In this context, the researchers distinguished how the participant reacted on the nature of
their work to others. The researchers found the self-reflection of the participant about the
difference of their work to other regular works, likewise on the difference of their work from female
prostitution and, on how they use their physical appearance to earn living . They also observe that
he seems to be positive when he talks about his work, and he can still see himself staying longer in
this work.
This nature of work that the participant entering is not an easy job, dealing with the
everyday customers waiting for them to pick them up, focusing on their appearance and dealing
with outcomes that the customer brings as part of their regular job.
Difference of Prostitution from other works. The response of the participant on the
difference of their work to the common work is quite optimistic, since he feel s positive and
entertained whenever he goes to work everyday. The difference is that they work with different
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“kaibahan ng trabaho namin? Nakabikini kami tapos magmo-model. ” [(The) difference of our work
However, he revealed some things that are not known by the community. He uttered on
one of his answers “kase nandidiri yung iba, akala nila ay yuck! Nakakadiring trabaho yan, hindi
nila alam hindi naman ganun ka-laswa. Parang nandiyan ka lang, nanunuod ka lang ng naka-bikini
para bang nanunuod ka lang ng bikini open.” (other people loathe our job, they do not know that it
is not that lascivious. And It is like your just watching a bikini open.) He also disclosed the
transaction between him and the client happens, “kapag show up, ipapatawag ka nun tapos
bibigyan ka ng alak, lahat kami nasa stage, tapos pipili lang yung mga costumer ng i-tetable.”
(When the show up comes, they will call for you and will give you some drinks , all of us are on the
stage and then the costumer will pick from us to entertain or accompany them).
Female VS Male Prostitution. After asking him the difference of their work and of the female
prostitutes he stated some examples and differences. One of it is the limitation of the
entertainment, According to him, “Mas matino pa nga trabaho namin kesa mga babae e. totoo
lang. May VIP sila (female prostitutes) may kwarto, kami wala, bawal yun,” (Our job is a lot more
decent than the females. They have their VIPs, they have rooms and we don’t have, it is
prohibited). He also added, “Kami naman parang ganun lang (bikini open), pero nilalagyan namin
ng fashion, sayaw, akala kasi nila basta’t ganun may nagse-sex na sa loob, wala. Kumporme na sa
amin yun kung magpapalabas kami (outside the bar) o hindi.” (we are just like in the bikini open,
we are just adding fashion and dance. They just thought that we do sex, but the truth is we don’t.
On the other hand, the participant described the female prostitutes as “All the way sila,
tapos bini-VIP pa sila sa kuwarto, pwede mo silang galawin diba.” [you can do anything to them
There is quite a difference when it comes to the nature of a sex work, Female Prostitutes
tend to work in this kind of industry with sexual acts to have money. On the other hand, Male
prostitutes tend to entertain for money, and sex will follow to the prostitute if they will agree with
the costumer. It seem like Female Prostitutes are submissive towards the costumers and the
management, while the Male Prostitutes are a lot more assertive when it comes to their costumers
Physical Appearance. In every job that a person should be interested, there are these assets or
the strengths that needs to be consider. They may vary according to the type of job but they are
At first, you need to have a great body and a good looking face to satisfy the customer's
preferrence on looks. The participant stated "... dito tinitignan ka nila kung pwede ka o hindi...
syempre titignan nila yung ano mo... (Pisikal?) "... Oo" (Here they will look at your face first to
decide if you're okay in the work.. "Physical?" "Yes". The customers look for good physique and
In every job there needs to be a profit. In this case, the participant’s profit comes primarily
from his customers. He has his own profit by working in the club, he also received tips and gifts
that give the participant the willingness to engage in that kind of work.
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Salary. The repondent even admitted, “Tulad ng iba yung sinasabi n’yo ang daming trabaho bakit
ito pa yung pinasok namin, kasi iba-iba kasi yung dahilan ng mga nagtatrabaho dito, kung bakit
dito kami napunta e. eh hindi naman namin ginusto to diba kumbaga sa ano, yun lang ang tanong
ng lahat , kung bakit may itsura raw yung mga nag-aano (those who are working as a prostitute)?
Kung bakit ito pa yung pinasok? Ayun kasi yung iba iniwan nang asawa parang nasira na yung
buhay n’ya, pumasok sa ganyan para malibang-libang s’ya parang ganun. Ako, Madali-dali lang
naman kasi yung pera, so practical lang, easy money.” (like what the other people say, there are a
lot of jobs available. They even question us why did we enter in this kind of job because we have
the looks. We have different reasons as to why we are in this field. Some were left by their
partners that’s why they entered this work to entertain themselves. I entered this work because of
In terms of salary, he quoted "kasi 200 lang yung budget namin dito (per day), kada isang
drinks namin isang daan sa amin yun." (We only have 200 pesos a day, and for every drink we
Tips. Having the minimum salary, it is just necessary for the respondent to depend on the tips
given by the costumers. According to him, his biggest tip was when a costumer just asked him to
dance. "Ano, kukulang sa P200,000 ata, oras lang, " (less than P200,000 I guess, for hours only).
However, they usually earn atleast less than (P10,000) ten thousand for two nights, he stated
“Two nights? Ala, maliit lang. Kulang sampu,” pertaining to the customers who gave them money
One of the things that he received from his client is his necklace, “Eto (pointing to the
necklace) yung sa matanda yung binigay n’ya sakin (100,000) isang daang libo mahigit, isang araw
lang. binili ko para pundar, yung iba binangko ko, syempre hindi naman habang buhay hawak s’ya
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pesos and I bought with it this necklace. I deposit the rest of the money I have because I know
Being in the field of sex work for around 7 years, the respondent gained different
experiences in his chosen work. There are times that the respondent encountered different types
of clients to entertain as well as different risks or threat to his health and environment.
Clientle. Clients are different in age and gender. Some are going to the bar to simply watch the
show, and some are patronizing the bar for them to be entertained by a prostitute.
The participant mentioned that the customers are mostly women, “ Mga babae ,maraming
babae, mahina ako sa mga bakla-bakla mukha daw kasi akong badboy,“ (Women, lots of women,
I’m not popular to Gays they said I look like a badboy). According to him, his customers’ age
ranges from twenty to twenty-nine years old and above “twenty-nine pataas, pinakabata na yung
Entertaining a Client
Entertaining the costumers is the primary job description of a male prostitute. The
participant treat his clients just like a normal person, by hugging, talking face to face and maybe
cuddling a little. The participant quoted " Ala yung parang, yung paano ano lang, yung parang
There is also an instance wherein a costumer tries to make him jealous over the other male
prostitutes, “Parang yung customer ko dito yung lola lola na, Alam na napaka pabebe e. gusto niya
sinusubuan mo pa, Pinagseselos ako akala mo naman magseselos ako.” (Just like one of my
customers here, a bit older. She’s hard to please, she wants me to feed her. She’s making me
The participant gives professionalism and handles his clients with care. The participant
uttered "Wala iniintindi nalang, kasi customer is always right e, " (I’ll just leave it like that, because
the customer is always right). If the participant will lose his temper to his customers, the boss will
be mad at him for doing so, that is why the participant just understands his customers whatever
the cause.
Danger At Work. The risk of experiencing harm and hazard on every job is part of their daily
routine as workers. Danger at workplace exist not only to the place that he has been considering
He also faces danger at his work. He has been scared to do any sexual activities with his
customers because he might acquire sexually transmitted diseases. He also admitted that had
experienced sex abuse from his customers. Lastly, the participant stated that the other club
members are using drugs to boost their morale in dancing and in entertaining their customers or
client.
In his chosen field, having any sexual intercourse can possibly happen because of the
nature of the work itself. But the participant chose not to engage on it. The respondent shared,
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Sexual Abuse
In his (7) seven years career as a prostitute different sexual abuse had happened but as he
share his unforgettable experience he emphasized that “ Parang bakla, gusto niya akong ilabas,
pinipilit niya kahit magkano. Para bang foreigner siya e. Yun parang gusto niyang tirahin niya ko sa
pwet, p*tangina di ako pumapatol sa mga ganong ano. ” (I think he’s bisexual, he wants me to go
out with him for any cost. He’s like a foreigner. He wanted to take me from behind). In his job it is
Death Threat
The environment plays a big role in the respondent’s well being. Having a numerous threats
via text message or in any form affects the respondent. He said that someone told him that “ wag
daw akong maglalabas” (I should not go out) which was about one of his client that has a partner.
In this job, it is impossible to remove the danger regarding his life and safety.
Use of Drugs
Different situations and incident can happen in the respondents surrounding. Getting
involved to different issues such as using drugs is not new to the surrounding they have. Not
because of the connutation about their work but based on reality that drugs have been their great
enemy.
The respondent indicates that some of them cannot save money because of the vices they
have. He stated that “Wala silang kinikita kung saan saan nila dinadala. Yung iba, kumikita pinang
da-drugs,” (They are not earning because they are engaging in drugs). It is not impposible that
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Emotion At Work. Experiences of the participant in his line of work also affect his emotions and
psychological state. He said that at first he felt ashamed but as time goes by he got used to it and
it is like a normal routine to him. He can also feel any guilt about his but he said that he has his
Psychological well-being
The participants said that he is psychologically fine when he was asked about his reaction
to others perspective about their work, the participant did not consult to any psychologist, yet he
was positive in his life, ignoring those bad comments they are receiving about their work, the
participants uttered “Parang ngayon lang sila nakakita ng ganun syempre kami normal lang kasi
hindi kami lumalabas masyado.” ( As if its their first time seeing someone like that, of course for us
Guilt
The participant still a human who commit something unclean but not sexually, he still feel a
bit of shy while he was interviewed by the researchers. Hence, he stated that “ itong trabaho na ito
ay hindi malinis pero hindi siya sexual, parang nanunuod ka lang ng bikini open” (This job is not
decent but is not sexual, it’s as if you are watching a bikini open). Also, he was asked about his
religion if he felt any guilt whenever he passes by the church, he said “Syempre kahit dumadaan
ako minsan sa simabahan hindi man ako bumababa ng motor nandoon lang ako, sabi ko”
patawarin niyo ako kasi yung trabaho namin kung sino-sino”, wala na lang akong magagawa
naiintindihan na ng Diyos yun.” (Of course, everytime I pass by the church, While I’m at my
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IV. SUPPORT
In this context, the way how this family, friend and even other people react or see on job is
a big factor on the respondents well-being. Getting a positive or negative feedback about his work
The participant also has his fair share of family and friends that supports him in his chosen
work. When the researcher asked him if his work is okay with his family he stated that at first he
kept it a secret but as time comes they finally found out and they were okay with it. Also his
friends just laugh at him when they found out that he had that kind of job and they're okay with it.
And finally his partner doesn't want him to go to his workplace anymore but he said that he just
Interpersonal Relationships. In this context, it will show the different ways on how the
Co-workers
The participant and his co workers treat each other like brothers. The participant said
“Halimbawa wala akong costumer, sinasabi nila sa costumer, “bigyan mo naman ang kaibigan ko,
hindi pa siya na-table; kahit dalawang drinks lang.” ganyan nagkaka-isa kami.” (For example I
don’t have a costumer, they will ask their client to give us some drinks).
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The participants work is not a big deal to his friends, they just think it is funny because of his work.
The participant quoted “Wala tawa sila ng tawa pinapaexample lang ako ” (My friends just laughed
Family
Working in that kind of environment requires a firm reason to stay. As for the respondent,
he mentioned that he is the breadwinner of their family since his older siblings already have their
own families. There was this one instance when he gave presents to his family, “Syempre ano e ah
naka ano ako e yung parang may pinapadeliver ako r’on, isang truck mga appliances tapos sinasabi
ng kuya ko bat daw may truck doon e kase may customer ako e koreana. Sabi ko wala akong
gamit sa bahay, yon hanggang sa binili ako ng mga gamit ayun natuwa naman.” (At first there was
a truck full of furnitures that was being delivered to our house, my brother wondered what’s
happening and I said that I had a Korean customer. I shared to my customer that we don’t have
things at our house so she bought those furnitures for me. My family became happy about it.)
Partner
Based from his stories, he met his partner in the bar that he is working. She is a regular
costumer. As he stated, “ tsaka nakapag asawa ako dito, diyan ko rin nakilala” (I even met my wife
here). The researchers find out that acquiring a partner for serious relationship can also happen in
Having a partner, it is just normal that you will not allow your partner to proceed or engage
in this kind of work, but in his case he refused his wife. According to him, “Ayaw na kong payagan,
parang naglilibang lang ako. kahit di siya ganun ka milyonaryo di niya ko pinapayagan. Halos lahat
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bahay, bar- bahay. Tsaka ano ako, bantay sarado ako non” (She doesn’t allow me, I just do this for
fun. Even if she’s not that of a millionaire, she doesn’t allow me. She gives me almost everything.
She even knows that I don’t agree to be taken out. Besides, I’m just here inside. Bar to house, bar
Conceptual Framework
                                                    Nature of
                                                     Work
                                                                                          Financial
             UNMASKING the                  Difference of Prostitution                    Stability
                                            from other works
            LIFE of a MALE
                                            Female VS Male
            PROSTITUTE
                                            Prostitution
                                                                                          Salary
                                            Physical Appearance
                                                                                          Tips
                                                                         Experiences at
                                  Support                                    Work
                              Interpersonal                        Clientle
                              Relationships                        Danger at Work
                                                                   Emotion at Work
The framework above shows the different experiences of a male prostititute. This structure
presents the connection of themes along with their sub-categories to each other. The presentation
began with a two-emotioned black and white mask illustrating what the community knows and
revealing the things that they are not aware of; starting with the nature of his work and on how he
earns money, including his experiences at work especially on how he handles his customers as he
face different circumstances while at work. Through the life that has chosen to live with, he was
able to take care of his emotions at work especially with the support of the people around him;
that made him feel unmoved by the other people’s opinion towards his work.
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DISCUSSION
This section summarizes the findings, states the conclusion and provides answers and
CONCLUSION
Although there is a small but growing literature exploring the experiences and practices of
male prostitutes, there has been very little published scientific research regarding the unheard
stories of a male prostitute. This study aimed to examine the response of a male prostitute on his
work at night and to be able to empathize with the stories. It mainly examined the reaction of the
male prostitute on the nature of his work, financial stability, experiences at work, dealing with
danger at work, and even his emotion at work. In addition to this, the study recognized the
peculiarity of the male prostitute work to the other prostitutes who work for sex to have money.
Unlike the participant, he entertains only to have money. In general, the paper studied into the
Moreover, the researchers distinguished how the participant reacted on the nature of their
work to others. The researchers found the self-reflection of the male prostitute about the
difference of their work to other regular work, on an article conducted by Blackwell (2007), the
nature of work is changing far quicker than the economic world around us. Just glance around a
modern workplace to see how far our working styles have evolved from just a few years ago. Ask
an executive the seemingly simple question "what is a 'normal' job?" and the probability is that
Thus, the participant also mention that his work is far less more sexual but not clean, he
also mention that his work is just having a normal conversation with people, an article by
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might ask about prostitution and modeling. One might ask about the moral status of a particular
agent's engaging in modeling or prostitution, and whether one action is morally worse than the
other. Regarding both sorts of questions it seems to me that much more should be considered
beyond whether the practice or the act is an instance of “selling one’s body”, modeling and
Likewise, to the difference of female prostitute to the male prostitute, who plays a lot of
different roles. The participant is positive to mention the difference of the prostitution industry of
woman, conveying that women are the sole purveyors of sexual services. Yet, men in history
have engaged in the selling of their bodies just as women. Also, women are involved in
prostitution and they are amongst the most victimized group of people in society, particularly in
relation to trafficking and the involvement of children (Matthews, 2014), and Male prostitution is
the practice of men providing sexual services in return for payment. (Savage, 2012)
This nature of work that the participants entering is not an easy job, dealing with the
everyday customers waiting for them to pick them up, focusing on their appearance and dealing
with outcomes that the customer brings is part of their job in everyday basis. In an article
“Prostitution a Difficult Job to Escape”, for many prostitutes, the prospect of escaping the industry
seems impossible or at the very least too dangerous to endure. (NPR ,2009) .
Several studies have attempted to answer the question: What are the conditions or
circumstances that led the respondents to engage in prostitution? The participant mention that
because of the low cost of salary, he was able to engage on this work. Thus, on the study of Kofod
(2012), he stated that “While there’s no doubt that money is the primary reason for the women
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study the participants stated that he engaged in this kind of work because profit is just easy to get.
In addition, Pauw (2016) stated that, People enter the profession for various reasons, the
most common is unemployment or the desire to improve their income. Prostitution can be a
lucrative business but the profit vary enormously. He was able to survey 200 sex workers in 2005
indicated that some earned a minimum of R80 per day, while others earned a daily income of R1
700.
The participants in the study, mention that money in the world of prostitution is easy but
working from it is not easy, hence, he stated that some client tend to give more tips and valuable
things like house and accessories. In a study done by Bungay and Atchison (2016), it is noted that
compensation for sex services is not always monetary, but there are alternative ways of
compensating male sex workers. Beyond the monetary compensation, scholars have attempted to
add other dimensions to the definition such as: support of livelihood necessities (i.e. food, shelter,
etc. and other items of monetary values (i.e. drugs, clothes, cosmetics, luxury goods, overseas
vacation, drugs, etc.). Also, the participant mentioned that he met his partner in the bar; in regards
to this, Bungay and Atchison also said, to distinguish MSW from other forms of sexual relationships
with benefits such as marriage, the dimension of “hired” service or employment is added to the
definition.
To work on an industry like this, the participants mention that appearance is one of the
investments that play a vital role here, to satisfy customers taste. Moreover, a study that supports
the business between a Client and the worker, much of what is known about the clients of MSWs
has been determined from MSWs themselves. From the perspective of Male sex worker’s, studies in
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Interviews with MSWs also indicate that a high proportion of clients already have a primary
relationship, often with women but sometimes with other men as well (Smith & Grov, 2011). MSWs
suggested that many of the men who hired them did so not only for sexual gratification but also for
companionship and emotional support. Even though the large majority of encounters involved
some type of sexual activity, typically oral sex and masturbation (Smith & Seal, 2008), MSWs also
reported that nonsexual activities occupied the time they spent with clients (Smith & Grov, 2011).
Furthermore, there are instances that the participant’s work might put them to risk. As a
result of the frequency of rape in prostitution, prostituted people have the highest HIV rate of any
population studied. One study found an HIV prevalence rate of 93% (Ward and Day 2006). Risks
of prostitution also include domestic violence, physical assault, and psychological sequelae of these
eating disorders, suicide attempts and successful suicides, and substance abuse. Most people
However, the response of the participant of this study in his situation was still peculiar in
matter because he took it positively; he ignored the opinions of others towards his work. Hence, he
never consulted to any psychologist about his emotional stability because he thinks he is fine both
physically and emotionally. He does not even think on leaving on this kind of work because of the
“easy money” thinking that he said, but if he was given a chance to leave he would not, despite of
It is important to include the emotional and psychological components involved in the work
of a male prostitute, both scholarly publications and mainstream articles geared to the public. In
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In this study, the result showed that the participant has a positive and optimistic side
despite of the challenges in his work, which made him more confident in doing this work. Although
at first it was hard for him to adjust because of the nature of this work however, the researchers
found out that as he grew and became used to this kind of work he takes a lot of confidence after.
The male participant took his experiences positively. These happenings became his source
of strength in facing and overcoming difficulties at work. It helped him grow into a stronger person
he was in the present. On the negative side, it made him envious of other people who works with
regular work. Together with his family, he did not give up on the challenges he had encountered,
and are still living his life with abundant love and prosperity. His experiences served as his way to
The participant goes out with his family despite of his work. His family and friends still
support him, they respect his work, the reaction of the family may vary according to the belief they
have thus, to his partner, The researchers find out that acquiring a partner for serious relationship
Recommendations
To the Participant
The participant should continue to not engage in sexual activities in his job to prevent STD’s
but it is advisable to consider changing his job because his wife is against to his job and she wants
him to stop going to the bar. Furthermore, there is a lot of opportunity out there for good paying
The partner of the participant should always continue to support him, despite of his job he
is caring to his partner and he loves his partner. She should always give him strength and
understand his situation because he is only doing that kind of job to support her and give her the
needs to live a better life. She should always treat him with care and give him all especially her
love.
The family members, friends and colleagues of the participant should always give him
support and not tease him because of his job. They should understand that he is only doing that
kind of job because he has no job in the first place and he wants to support his family financially.
Thus, this will be a big help and a confidence booster for the participant because he knows that his
To the Society
The society must understand that people that are on the sex work does not mean that they
always engage in sexual activities. This perception about sex workers must change because the
society must understand that they only engage in that kind of job because of certain reasons.
Through understanding that kind of work, the people who are part of doing sex work will be more
To the aspiring researchers, this paper should help you in future studies. This will give you
an overview in the world of male prostitution and sex work. The future researchers should also
cover topics and literature that we did not able to find. There are many more opportunities in the
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by other researchers and it is very rare. We hope that you as the future researchers will improve
this topic into a better and developed paper that can be internationally recognized.
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         Appendices
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Sister:
Greetings of Peace in the name of our Patron Saint, St. Dominic De Guzman!
We, the Grade 12 students of the Dominican College of Tarlac are currently enrolled in the
Research Project course as a partial fulfillment of the requirements for the completion of the Senior
High School program. As Humanities and Social Sciences students, we have proposed a research
entitled “Male Prostitution: The Unheard Stories of Adam at Night”. This study aims to
identify the respondents’ experiences and the psychological outcomes of their work. Moreover, this
study aims to present the life stories of the respondents to find the bigger picture why they engage
in this kind of field.
In line with this, we are asking for your permission to allow us conduct the study. We shall be
interviewing and gathering data among our identified participants who are qualified in the inclusion
criteria set by the undersigned.
Thank you and more power!
Respectfully yours,
Abrea, Dexter B.                        Laxamana, Jay Vee Y.
Bayan, Rhea Lyn G.                    Quibuyen, Jayferson R.
Datu, Cristalyn F.                     Serrano, Crizelle Krizee D.
De Leon, Al Jemuel R.                 Siapo, Kimberly C.
Laxa, Erika G.
Noted by:
Recommending Approval:
Approved by:
________________________________
Signature Over Printed Name of Student
____________________________________________
Signature Over Printed Name of Parent/Legal Guardian
Date: _________________________
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Sir/Ma’am:
Greetings of Peace in the name of our Patron Saint, St. Dominic De Guzman!
We, the Grade 12 students of the Dominican College of Tarlac are currently enrolled in the
Research Project course as a partial fulfillment of the requirements for the completion of the Senior
High School program. As Humanities and Social Sciences (HUMSS) students, we have proposed a
research entitled “Male Prostitution: The Unheard Stories of Adam at Night “. This study
aims to identify the respondents’ experiences and the psychological outcomes of their work.
Moreover, this study aims to present the life stories of the respondents to find the bigger picture
why they engage in this kind of field.
In line with this, we are asking for your permission to allow us conduct the study in your reputable
institution/organization. We shall be interviewing and gathering data among our identified
participants who are qualified in the inclusion criteria set by the undersigned. Rest assured that
policies and procedures will be followed and any information that will be obtained will be secured
and kept confidential.
Should you have further inquiries, you can contact Mr. Jayferson R. Quibuyen 0909-873-4125 or
email at quibuyenjayfersonr@gmail.com.
We are hoping for your kind consideration.
Thank you and more power!
Respectfully yours,
Abrea, Dexter B.                        Laxamana, Jay Vee Y.
Bayan, Rhea Lyn G.                    Quibuyen, Jayferson R.
Datu, Cristalyn F.                     Serrano, Crizelle Krizee D.
De Leon, Al Jemuel R.                 Siapo, Kimberly C.
Laxa, Erika G.
HUMSS 2C – Mater Inviolata
Noted by:
D. Validated Instrument
Validator
Greetings of Peace in the name of our Patron Saint, St. Dominic De Guzman!
         We, the Grade 12 students of the Dominican College of Tarlac are currently enrolled in the Research
Project course as a partial fulfillment of the requirements for the completion of the Senior High School
program. As Humanities and Social Sciences students, we have proposed a research entitled “Male
Prostitution: The Unheard Stories of Adam at Night”. This study aims to identify the respondents’
experiences and the psychological outcomes of their work. Moreover, this study aims to present the life
stories of the respondents to find the bigger picture why they engage in this kind of field.
         The instrument that will be used is unstructured form of interview to gather the needed data. In
this way, the instrument is expected to gather valid responses. The used of unstructured interview premised
on several research assumptions such as a). Avoidance of personal bias, b). Less pressure for immediate
response. In the end it encourages open responses to the topic at hand. We would greatly appreciate it if you
can provide us relevant insights comments and suggestions that will help us capture what we truly intend in
our data gathering.
        Attached is a copy of our initial questionnaire items. Kindly review each of the item check if the item
is Accepted (A), Rejected (R), Need Revisions (NR).
Respectfully yours,
Abrea, Dexter B.                    Laxamana, Jay Vee Y.
Bayan, Rhea Lyn G.                  Quibuyen, Jayferson R.
Datu, Cristalyn F.                  Serrano, Crizelle Krizee D.
De Leon, Al Jemuel R.               Siapo, Kimberly C.
Laxa, Erika G.
Noted by:
ITEMS A R NR COMMENTS
 1.      Name
 2.      Age
 3.      Religion
 4.      Socio Economic Status
 5.      What is “Prostitution” to
 you?
Comments/Suggestions:
________________________________________________________________________________________
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________________________________________________
Validated by:
       _____________________
    Name and Signature of theValidator
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E. Questionnaires
Alias:
Age:
Religion:
Socio Economic Status:
What is “Prostitution” to you? (Describe your work)
     (Maaari mo bang ilarawan ang iyong trabaho?)
     (May kaibahan ba ito sa ganitong uri din ng trabaho ng mga babae?)
What would you like people to know about this kind of job?
   (Anong maipapayo mo sa mga gustong pumasok sa ganitong trabaho?)
   (Ano ang gusto mong malaman at iparating sa mga tao patungkol sa ganitong uri ng trabaho?)
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F. Transcribed Interview
R1: meron po kami dito na questions pwedi na tayong mag simula sir?
R1: elias niyo po?
P1: *Rjay
R1: age niyo po?
P1: 32
R1: religion niyo po?
P1: katoliko
R1: socio economic class or status, eto po yung ummm, istado niyo sa buhay o kahit na mag bigay
lang po kayo ng kinikita niyo per month.
P1: ughh~ mga ano, bente ganyan.
R1: so eto na sir yung interview proper, maari mo bang ilarawan, I mean
P1: paano?
R1: ano po yung pagkakaiba ng trabaho niyo sa usual na trabaho?
P1: ugh, yung mga regular na trabaho?
R1: Yes sir!
P1: sumasayaw kaming nakabikini ganon
R1: ugh, a side from that sir ano pa po?
P1: alen? Yung mag ietertain kaming costumer ganon?
R1: sir how do you entertain you client?
P1: ala yung parang, yung paano ano lang, yung parang normal na kwentuhan ganon, parang taga
saan ka ganon.
R1: chichat lang po ganon? Kwentuhan lang~
P1: oo, oo, oo
R1: kapag ganun ba sir,automatic may alak, ganon
P1: ah, oo, kase ano e. pagka show up pinatawag ka bibigyan ka ng alak
R1: paanong show up sir?
P1: lahat kami nasa stage
R1: lahat po kayo nasa stage?
P1: tapos pipili lang yung costumer
R1: yung costumer then?
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QUESTIONS                                      RESPONSES
ano po yung pagkakaiba ng trabaho niyo sa      ugh, yung mga regular na trabaho?
usual na trabaho?                              sumasayaw kaming nakabikini ganon.
ugh, aside from that sir ano pa po?            alin? Yung mag ietertain kaming costumer
sir how do you entertain your client?          ganon?
kapag ganun ba sir, automatic may alak,        ah, oo, kase ano e. pagka show-up
ganon?                                         pinatawag ka bibigyan ka ng alak.
                                               Ayon.
yung costumer then?
kwentuhan lang? oo
Hm, kahit ano sexual or physical contact ano   sa loob? Wala, hindi naman kase ano e. kung
po yung physical contact na pweding mang       baga ano jan ala naman talagang mga
yari sa loob sa inyo?                          gagawin. syempre maraming tao, maraming
                                               makakakita.
no kiss, no
                                               ah ala, kung baga sa ano yakap-yakap lang
so, ano po yung pwedi nilang gawin?            ganon
R1- so ikaw sir, mga ilang taon na kayo dito   ah ditto? sa ganitong trabaho? Ayon 2012
sir?                                           ako nag-umpisa eh. at nag-ano na ako, sa ilo
                                               ilo, manila
sa 7 years na yon sir, anong pinaka hindi mo   ah yung negro ano, parang bakla gusto niya
makakalimutan na pinagawa sa iyo ng client     akong ilabas, pinipilit nya kahit magkano.
mo?                                            Para bang foreigner siya e. yon parang gusto
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R1- sa 7 yrs sir matagal tagal na din yon no,   ahh wala, naisip ko lang. naisip lang naming
so ano yung nagtulak sayo para gawin yong       magkapatid.
trabaho na to?
ah so may kapatid ka sir, dito din po?          ahh oo, nasa Singapore nga lang,
                                                nagbakasyon.
hm, Maliban sir sa trabahong na ito, 7 yrs      ah nag ano ako, ah waiter sa hotel, yari kasi
before ano po yung naging trabaho niyo?         ako ng college HRM 2yrs nga lang, di ako nag
                                                4 years.
so, sa 2years na yon sir, nakapag tatrabaho
naman kayo ng                                   ah, oo normal
bakit?
                                                ‘di yun nga e, tulad ng iba yung sinasabi nyo
                                                daming trabaho bakit ito pa yung pinasok
                                                namin, kasi iba-iba kasi yung dahilan ng mga
                                                nagtatrabaho dito, kung bakit dito kami
                                                napunta e. eh di naman namin ginusto to
                                                diba kumbaga sa ano, yun lang ang tanong
                                                ng lahat, kung bakit may itsura raw yung
                                                mga nag aano? Kung bakit ito pa yung
                                                pinasok? Ayun kasi yung iba iniwan nang
                                                asawa parang nasira na yung buhay nya,
So, ikaw ba sir bakit mo napili?                pumasok sa ganyan para malibang-libang sya
                                                parang ganun.
so, kung kasama ka rin sa mga group dancer      alin, ah hindi model
sa labas, ah bali naging unang trabaho mo
dito ay dancer?
kapag ba model kung ano ba ang ginagawa?        nag momodel ka lang, ayon tapos nakaporma
                                                ka
Kapag dancer, sasayaw lang?
                                                oo, naka bikini
araw-araw ala
kapag papasok ka dito kuya, anong oras ka    mga alas nuwebe ng gabi
pumapasok?
tapos matatapos yung shift mo ng?            4:30am magbibihis na kami 5am uwian na
                                             yon
sir, yung first time mo dito ano ang unang   wala parang normal lang.
experience mo? First day mo?
‘di kaba kinabahan nung unang una sir?       ah nung sa olongapo, nahihiya ako, syempre
                                             sumasayaw ka, nakabikini.
na kakaiba talaga sa isang performer?        pero inisip ko nalang na nag aano ka lang sa
                                             mga bikini open na may kasamang sayaw
                                             ganun.
Both dancer and model sir, uhm dancer and
model nasubukan mo na sir?                   Ah, oo.
Parang meron bang step yun kuya pag bago     Oo. Model, pero kung tatanungin ka naman e
ka ano ka muna model muna?                   tsaka dito tinitignan nila kung pwede ka o
                                             hindi
So dapat maayos yung katawan?
                                             Syempre ano ka no, syempre titignan muna
                                             yung ano mo
Pisikal?
                                             Oo
So, sa pisikal na yun syempre kasama
katawan, bukod dun sir?                      ‘Di naman tatanggapin yung badjao dyan
                                             kung papasok yung badjao dyan.
So, dapat maayos yung mukha syempre may
itchura.
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Mga gaano kakatanda kaya yon?                 Mahilig sila sa mga bata, katulad nung naka
                                              pula kanina yung …
Ah yung tahimik? oo
Sa bakla?
Kuya anong age nung mga kilyente mo? Mga ano twenty-nine pataas.
P1: hm, ano yung pinaka bata po na,           Siguro mga twenty ganyan
pinakabata?
Ah twenty, diba sir may mga client tayo na    Ah oo
minsan makukulit matigas yung ulo
so pano mong hinahandle yun sir?              Wala iniintindi nalang, kasi customer is
                                              always right e.
Ano sir yung ano uhmm pinaka malalang         Kahit magalit ka dyan papagalitan ka parin ng
situation na ganon na makulit yung client     boss mo, syempre intindihin mo nalang.
mo?                                           Diba?
Yung pinaka
Kuya except dun sa negro na gusto kang        Ah, yun mara… marami binabayaran nila ko
ilabas                                        para mag sex lang kami
                                              Di ako pumapayag
Pero di ka pumayag?
                                              ‘Di ko alam e, kase di naman kami
May mga instance ba na pumapayag ang          nagtatanungan. Kase minsan pag out,
mga kasama mo sa pag ano?                     kunwari day off di mo naman alam kung sino
                                              kasama nila, syempre may mga contact silang
                                              ganun.
Pinaka mataas mong kinita, yung pinaka        Ano, kukulang P200,000 ata.
mataas
                                              Oo, oras lang.
Isang araw?!
                                              Customer ko, sinasabitan akong pera
pano? Bakit? Pano nangyari?                   P100,000 ganun.
                                              Hindi, pera.
Cheke sir, cheke?
May tanong ako sir ano yung tinatawag         Ahh, big night. Punong puno kami rito non.
nilang big day?
tuwing biyernes at sabado?                    Hindi, uhm hindi ano tuwing sa isang buwan
                                              may isang beses na ganon. Puno kami non.
                                              Oo, may mga lobo rin sa labas. Busy kami
                                              non.
So anong nangyayari pag ganon?
Mas maraming tao?                             Ahh yun ano may mga… Oo, tsaka may mga
                                              event kami e may mga production kami.
Di mas marami ang kita kuya?
                                              Oo.
Nung ahh sabado tsaka kahapon yun diba, ay    Oo
Friday sabado?
Dun sa two nights na yon, magkano kinita mo   Two nights? Ala, maliit lang kulang ano
non?                                          sampu. Pero ambilis diba? Magttrabaho ka sa
                                              Jollibee… uutus-utusan kapa ng gravy.
                                              Diba? At 8 hours kapang nakatayo. Edi ito
                                              tignan mo pahiga higa ka dyan matulog kang
                                              kaunti.
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Naging customer mo siya kuya?                 Oo, pero hindi rito, nag-iibang bansa. Sa
                                              Australia.
                                              Pero Filipina Siya.
May anak na kayo?
                                              Ala dalawang beses ko nabuntis yun e,
                                              nakukunan mababa yung matris
R: Up until now po kayo pa? Kayo pa po,
hangga ngayon?                                Oo, ano kami nun e. October 6, 2016. Bali 2
                                              taon maygit na.
Nung time na yun kuya diba dito nga kayo
nagkakilala nung time na yon ahh ano naging   Wala hindi naman talaga ako yung… marami
reaksyon niya?                                sila e hindi naman talaga ako yung pinili niya.
                                              Marami kame kaso sakanya ako umuupo.
type mo talaga siya kuya?
                                              Tsaka alam ko siya yung magbabayad e, kase
                                              yung mga kasama niya hindi. Ayun hanggang
                                              sa, e ang kulit ko raw binabalikan ako sa bar
                                              hanggang sa nagsama na kami.
Parang naging suki mo siya?
                                              Pero may ano siya, may foreigner siya, pero
                                              may anak siyang isa.
                                              Pero alam nung anak niya bata pa yun e mag
                                              si-six palang. Pero yung asawa niyang
                                              foreigner hindi naman asawa, kasi hindi sila
                                              kasal e parang ala na silang sex non parang
Sustento nalang?                              ano na.
Nung pumasok ka dito kuya itinago mo ba sa    nung unang una, Oo. Sabi ko waiter ganon.
mga kaibigan mo, pamilya?
nung unang una
ano naging reaksyon nila nung nalaman         Wala tawa sila ng tawa pinapaexample ako
nilang…                                       lang, pati nanay at tatay ko di naman sila
                                              ano.
Nung mga panahong kuya na yon san             Syempre ano e, ah naka ano ako e yung
napupunta yung pera mo non?                   parang may pinapadeliver ako ron isang truck
                                              mga appliances tapos sinasabi ng kuya ko
                                              ‘bat daw may nag baba, may truck doon e
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                                             Oo
Edi ayos lang sa parents mo?
                                             Ah oo sobra. Dati kasi yari akong college
 Bali dahil dito kuya sa trabaho mo          saglit lang akong nagtrabaho, tambay na ko
nasuportahan mo den?                         parang tinamad ako.
Kuya sabi mo ano, nakapag asawa ka, ah       Ayaw na kong payagan, parang naglilibang
okay lang sakanya na nagtrabaho ka dito?     lang ako
Ayaw? Pero bat bumabalik ka dito? Halos lahat naman binigyan sakin e.
Seven years kana dito no kuya ah may balak   Oo hanggat kaya ko yung ano hanggat kung
kapa ba na dagdagan pa ng mga ilang taon     ano yung itchura mo.
yon?
                                             Malalaman mo naman dyan kung kumikita
Hanggat bata pa yung itchura mo?             kapa o pinipili ka e. Pag di kana pinipili ng
                                             matagal magisip kana non chaka di naman
                                             din ako gano magtatagal parang gusto ko na
                                             din, Kase dadalhin ako nang asawa ko sa
                                             Australia kaso ayaw ko pa ngayon.
Ahh hanggang ngayon kayo pa? bukod pa        Ahh hindi wala, bangko lang.
dun kuya may mga napundar ka bang
business?                                    Bangko lang ng bangko tsaka ano hanggat
                                             bata ipon ng ipon. Kase ibang dancer dito
                                             wala. Walang ano wala silang ano kinikita
                                             kung san-san dinadala. Yung iba kumikita
                                             pinan dadrugs lang.
Diba kuya yung iba dahil nahihiya yung       Ahhh, hindi ako. Kase nung hindi pa ganyan
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Ano kuya yung gusto mong ipayo sa mga        Disiplina lang, tapos wag silang basta basta
gustong sumubok sa trabaho mo?               magtiwala sa mga katrabo nila kase
                                             kakaibang trabaho ito e hindi naman basta
                                             basta trabaho.
Ano kuya yung gusto mong malaman ng          Ano saka nandidiri yung iba aka nila “ay yuck
ibang tao tungkol sa trabaho mo?             nakakadiri yung trabahong yan” hindi nila
                                             alam hindi naman ganoon kalaswa, parang
                                             nandyan ka lang nanonood ka lang
                                             nakabikini, para bang nanonood ka lang ng
                                             bikini open parang ganoon lang pero
                                             nilalagyan namin ng fashion, sayaw, kala nila
                                             basta ganito ang trabaho nag sesex na sila sa
                                             loob, kase pag sasabihing ganito yung
                                             trabaho, akala ng iba ang pangit pangit na.
                                             Mapangit pa nga ang trabaho ng mga pang-
                                             babae saamin e, nag-o-all the way pa sila,
                                             tapos pag nag VIP pa sila sa kwarto pwedi
                                             mo silang galawin. Matino pa nga yung
                                             trabaho namin sa mga babae e, kung sa
                                             totoo lang.
Wala ka bang gustong i-share kuya or         Wag gayahing yung ano, kung kani-kanino
gustong sabihin sa mga nag babalak na        sumasama sa costumer sa labas, kase yung
pumasok sa ganitong trabaho. O kaya maa-     iba naranasan ng ibang katrabaho, binaril
advice mo ba siya na gayahin yung ganitong   ganon. Kase syempre sasabihin ng mga
klase ng trabaho?                            kunyari matropa ganon, sasabihin na wala
                                             daw siyang asawa tapos nag away lang pala
                                             sila ng asawa niya e tapos kernel pala yung
                                             asawa tapos pag labas nila kasama yung
                                             babae di alam nung babae pinasundan pala
                                             sila, ayon binaril. Yan sa may marquee. Sa
                                             may peryahan, yun don. Sa harap non, kaya
                                             hindi rin safe yung trabaho namin.
Pero may na- experience na po ba kayo na     Ay oo marami na, Death threat? Marami na
parang na threaten kayo?                     parang ano, wag daw akong mag labas-labas.
Tinitext ka?                                 Hindi may nag sasabi sakin. Kase may naka
                                             table ako engineer yung asawa pero hindi
                                             niya naman alam na dito ako nag tatrabaho,
                                             Oo ganun nga pero hindi nya alam itsura ko
pero nung una kuya nung hindi kapa sanay    syempre na aano parang masamang tao
ano ang nararamdaman mo pinag               kami ganun, pero lahat yung sinasama
bubulungan ganun?                           naming dito, kasi may sinama kami dito
                                            tambay-tambay lang taga samin din pero
                                            ngayon tignan mo gumanda buhay nila,
                                            ngayon tuwang tuwa magulang nila samin,
                                            hindi yung bat mo pinasok yung anak naming
                                            sa ganyan, hindi, napagawa pa yung bahay
                                            nila edi tuwang tuwa pa nanay nya diba, kami
                                            kase yung nararanasan naming gusto naming
                                            ibahagi sa mga tambay samin, parang iniisip
                                            nila hindi ganun ganun trabaho naming.
Malaki talaga yung kita noh.                Hindi, dati nung bago ako wala ako ganun
                                            yung iba kotse may mga motor hanggang sa
                                            tumagal ako nagka meron ako, may kotse
Ngayon kuya tignan mo may gold kang         nako may motor nako dyan kolang din
kwintas.                                    nakuha.
Kasama ba yon sa mga pundar mo?             Oo
                                            Eto yung sa matanda yung binigay nya sakin
                                            isang daang libo mahigit isang araw lang
                                            binili ko, para pundar yung iba binangko ko
                                            syempre hindi naman habang buhay hawak
                                            sya eh kasi costumer lang yan yung iba
                                            naninira sinisiraan ako.
Kuya bukod pa sa gamit na nabigay sayo at   May bahay ako saamin eh tapos dito yung ka
sa parents mo maliban duon nakapag patayo   livein ko may pinapagawa hanggang 3rd floor
kaba ng bahay mo maaring bumukod ka?
Gastos mo ba lahat kuya?                    Pero ako naka tira ako sa apartment pero sa
                                            asawa ko yun may mga apartment kasi sya
Ay ano kuya kasi kanina kasama, I mean      eh.
kasama yung Religion kapag nag sisimba ka
hindi kaba nakakaramdam ng Guilt, ganun?    Hindi syempre kahit dumaan ako minsan sa
                                            simbahan hindi man ako bumababa ng motor
                                            nandun ako parang, sabi ko patawarin nyo ko
                                            kase syempre trabaho namin parang kung
                                            sino-sino ganun kase kahit saan naming
                                            trabaho ay iisa lang eh,kaya wala kaming
                                            magagawa naiintindihan naman ng Diyos
                                            yun.
Usap usap lang.                             Kase yung iba hindi naman lalabas dito ng
                                            hindi masaya eh,hindi naman babalik dito
                                            kung hindi masaya diba ganun yun, kase
So yun kuya Salamat, Salamat.               karamihan hindi naman nila habol yung
                                            lalakeng sumasayaw karamihan sakanila yung
                                            mga bonding bonding lang.
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Personal Information
Educational Background
Secondary:
Senior High School :        Dominican College of Tarlac
Address            :        Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
Year Attended      :        S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
        Fast Learner
        Written Communication
        MS PowerPoint and MS Word
        Responsible
Educational Background
    Secondary:
    Senior High School :        Dominican College of Tarlac
    Address            :        Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
    Year Attended      :        S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
            Fast Learner
            Written Communication
            MS PowerPoint and MS Word
            Responsible
Educational Background
Secondary:
Senior High School :       Dominican College of Tarlac
Address            :       Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
Year Attended      :       S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
        Fast Learner
        Written Communication
        Responsible
Educational Background
Secondary:
Senior High School :         Dominican College of Tarlac
Address            :         Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
Year Attended      :         S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
        Fast Learner
        Written Communication
        MS PowerPoint and MS Word
        Responsible
B. Educational Background
   Secondary:
   Senior High School :        Dominican College of Tarlac
   Address            :        Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
   Year Attended      :        S.Y. 2017-Present
C. Skills
           Fast Learner
           Written Communication
           MS PowerPoint and MS Word
           Critical Thinker
           Responsible
Educational Background
Secondary:
Senior High School :         Dominican College of Tarlac
Address            :         Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
Year Attended      :         S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
        Fast Learner
        Written Communication
        MS PowerPoint and MS Word
Educational Background
Secondary:
Senior High School :         Dominican College of Tarlac
Address            :         Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
Year Attended      :         S.Y. 2017-Present
Skills
        Fast Learner
        Written Communication
        MS PowerPoint and MS Word
        Responsible
Personal Information
Educational Background
    Secondary:
    Senior High School :        Dominican College of Tarlac
    Address            :        Mc Arthur Highway, Poblacion, Capas 2315, Tarlac
    Year Attended      :        S.Y. 2017-Present
F. Skills
           Fast Learner
           Written Communication
           MS PowerPoint and MS Word
           Responsible