The History of Flower Meanings
The History of Flower Meanings
The History of Flower Meanings
The symbolic language of flowers has been recognized for centuries in many countries
throughout Europe and Asia. They even play a large role in William Shakespeare's works.
Mythologies, folklore, sonnets, and plays of the ancient Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and
Chinese are peppered with flower and plant symbolism—and for good reason. Nearly every
sentiment imaginable can be expressed with flowers. The orange blossom, for instance, means
chastity, purity, and loveliness, while the red chrysanthemum means "I love you."
Learning the special symbolism of flowers became a popular pastime during the 1800s. Nearly
all Victorian homes had, alongside the Bible, guidebooks for deciphering the "language,"
although definitions shifted depending on the source.
In the Victorian era, flowers were primarily used to deliver messages that couldn't be spoken
aloud. In a sort of silent dialogue, flowers could be used to answer "yes" or "no" questions. A
"yes" answer came in the form of flowers handed over with the right hand; if the left hand
was used, the answer was "no."
Plants could also express aversive feelings, such as the "conceit" of pomegranate or the
"bitterness" of aloe. Similarly, if given a rose declaring "devotion" or an apple blossom
showing "preference," one might return to the suitor a yellow carnation to express "disdain."
How flowers were presented and in what condition were important. If the flowers were given
upside down, then the idea being conveyed was the opposite of what was traditionally meant.
How the ribbon was tied said something, too: Tied to the left, the flowers' symbolism applied
to the giver, whereas tied to the right, the sentiment was in reference to the recipient. And, of
course, a wilted bouquet delivered an obvious message!
More examples of plants and their associated human qualities during the Victorian era
include bluebells and kindness, peonies and bashfulness, rosemary and remembrance, and
tulips and passion. The meanings and traditions associated with flowers have certainly
changed over time, and different cultures assign varying ideas to the same species, but the
fascination with "perfumed words" persists just the same.
See our list below for symbolic meanings of herbs, flowers, and other plants. (Please note:
There are many meanings for flowers over the centuries; our chart below reflects mainly
Victorian symbolism.)
NAME MEANING NAME MEANING
Take, for instance, all of the different meanings attributed to variously colored carnations:
Pink meant “I’ll never forget you”; red said “my heart aches for you”; purple conveyed
capriciousness; white was for the “the sweet and lovely”; and yellow expressed romantic
rejection.
Likewise, a white violet meant “innocence,” while a purple violet said that the bouquet giver’s
“thoughts were occupied with love.” A red rose was used to openly express feelings of love,
while a red tulip was a confession of love. The calla lily was interpreted to mean “magnificent
beauty,” and a clover said “think of me.”
Unsurprisingly, the color of the rose plays a huge role. Red roses symbolize love and desire,
but roses come in a variety of colors and each has their own meaning.
One tradition is to select the flowers of a wedding bouquet based on plant symbolism. As an
example, look to the royal flower bouquet in the wedding of Prince William, Duke of
Cambridge, to Kate Middleton (now Catherine, Ducchess of Cambridge). Her all-white
bouquet had lily-of-the-valley (representing trustworthiness, purity), sweet William
(gallantry), hyacinth (loveliness), myrtle (love in marriage), and ivy (continuity). Altogether,
these flowers’ meanings reveal the hope of a loving, everlasting marriage.
The groom, too, wears a flower that appears in the bridal bouquet in his button-hole. This
stems from the Medieval tradition of wearing his Lady’s colors, as a declaration of his love.
One fun modern idea is to give each bridesmaid a bouquet featuring a signature flower whose
meaning suits her personality.