Unit 1
People and Relationship
English vocabulary: useful words to talk about
relationships
‘Hugs and kisses’, ‘butterflies in your stomach’, ‘a pounding heart’ – what am I going on about? Love
and relationships of course!
Talking about relationships can be a tricky, and you don’t want to make a mistake when trying to tell
someone else how you feel about them. To avoid any mix-ups, here are some useful words and
phrases about dating in English.
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When they are dating, people are often either ‘casual’ or interested in a ‘steady’ relationship. A ‘casual’
dater, someone ‘playing the field’, is someone who isn’t looking for a serious relationship, while a
‘steady’ dater is looking to possibly settle down with the right person soon.
Maybe you haven’t had the opportunity to ask the person you like out on a date yet, or perhaps you
only have a ‘crush’. A ‘crush’ is when you really like someone but you haven’t told them yet. Perhaps
you might start ‘flirting’ with them. If you ‘flirt’ with someone, it means you are trying to playfully
impress them.
Once people have started a serious relationship, they often say they have ‘found the one’, referring to
their ‘boyfriend’ or ‘girlfriend’, the person they want to be with forever. Before they ‘get married’ and
make their relationship legally binding, some people enter into an ‘engagement’. When two people are
‘engaged’, it means they have made an agreement to get married. There is often an engagement ring
representing this promise.
However, sometime love stories come to end. Perhaps you and your ‘significant other’ (the person you
are with: boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife) no longer feel the same way about each other, and you
no longer have ‘butterflies in your stomach’ (that nervous feeling in your belly when you’re with
someone in the beginning). It might be time to ‘break up’ with the other person.
This means to end the relationship and go your separate ways. If you are married, this break up
would be called a ‘divorce’. You would need to officially document the separation to end your marriage.
Well, let’s not leave on a sad note here! There are other types of relationships like your ‘best friend’.
This is a friend that you are very close to and share many aspects of your life with. Some say
relationships come and go, but friendships remain.
Basic words
father – somebody’s male parent
mother – somebody’s female parent
parent – somebody’s father or mother
son – somebody’s male child
daughter – somebody’s female child
husband – the man who a woman is married to
wife – the woman who a man is married to
spouse – somebody married to another person; husband or wife
brother – a boy or man who has the same parents as another person
sister – a girl or woman who has the same parents as another person
sibling – a brother or sister
elder brother/sister – a brother/sister who is older than you
younger brother/sister – brother/sister who is younger than you
grandfather – somebody’s parent’s father
grandmother – somebody’s parent’s mother
grandparent – somebody’s parent’s parent
great grandfather – a father of your grandparent