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HOW TO BLOW HER
MIND IN BED
The essential guide for any man
who wants to satisfy his woman
siski green
To Josecito, te amo más!
Contents
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xi
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xiii
1:Flirting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
Your Silent Signals
Her Silent Come-Ons
The Approach
Real Girls Tell All
2:Kissing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25
Why You Must Kiss
Kissing Technique
Timing and Locations
Real Girls Tell All
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7:Using Your Hands On Her Body . . . . . . . . 145
Her Body
Your Touch
Her Touch
Hands-Solo Style
Real Girls Tell All
8:Sex Toys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 175
Introducing Toys
Using Toys
Household Objects
Real Girls Tell All
9:Sex Fantasies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 193
Her Fantasies
Your Fantasies
Real Girls Tell All
References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 209
Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 215
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3:Breasts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
Admiring Her Breasts
Knowing Her Breasts
Touching Her Breasts
Real Girls Tell All
4:Sex Positions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73
Her On Top
You On Top
On All Fours
Side By Side
Standing
Real Girls Tell All
5:Giving Oral . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95
Finding Your Way
Technique
Best Positions
Real Girls Tell All
6:Getting Oral . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
First Times
Helping Her to Get It Right
Encouraging More Oral
Real Girls Tell All
Acknowledgments
Thank you to my wonderful family for being suppor-
tive without being nosy; Graeme Gourlay, an inspi-
rational editor and publisher, for giving me my first
career break and giving me the confidence to keep
moving forward; to Morgan Rees for encouraging
me to write about sex and relationships and to always
strive for perfection; to Jake at Conville and Walsh
for his perseverance and support.
I learned a lot by reading some other fantastic sex
books: Lou Paget’s The Big O: How to Have Them, Give
Them, and Keep Them Coming, Dr Sadie Allison’s Tickle Your
Fancy: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure, Tracey Cox’s
Superhotsex, and Nancy Friday’s My Secret Garden. I’ve also
had some great advice from sex counselor Dr Pam
Spurr, psychosexual therapist Vicki Ford, and Relate
counselor Paula Hall.
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I’d also like to say thank you to Joe Mackie, Rob Kemp,
Hecks, Nicky, Pip, Ray, Jo and Justin, Elain, Kirsten,
Blommers, and anyone else I may have momentarily
forgotten—for talking, listening, and just being there.
Please see www.siskigreen.com for more about me and
to email any tips and techniques you’d like to share.
Introduction
I view sex as I do eating: it’s an essential part of my
life, but I try hard not to take it for granted. And,
like eating, I like to think about sex even when I’m
not doing it. Just as I would consider the ingredi-
ents I’m going to cook with, which spices to add,
and how I’ll heat it up and serve it, I’ve spent a lot
of time thinking about the different ways people
can explore sex. What makes my thoughts about sex
different, though, is that I get paid to put them on
paper—something I can’t claim for my enthusiastic
home cooking.
Since I started writing about sex five years ago, I’ve
had everyone from the plumber to family members
telling me their sexual secrets and concerns. Sex, it
seems, is something we’ve all got lots to say about,
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only we tend not to say it out loud. That’s a shame
because, like great recipes handed down from gener-
ation to generation, I think there are probably a lot
of fantastic sexual tricks and techniques that we could
all learn from (and if you’d like to share them, please
feel free to email them anonymously to the address
given on page xii).
So, based on what I’ve learned through my own expe-
riences as well as hundreds of ideas and techniques
I’ve learned from others, I’ve tried to provide an
insight into what sex is like for a woman to give you an
idea of what feels great, what she hates, and the things
she wishes you’d do more of. I want you to finish this
book feeling that you’ve got a better understanding
of women, that you’ve learned exactly how to make
her feel fantastic in bed, and, most importantly, that
you’re so charged up with new ideas that you just can’t
wait to try them out.
Remember, though, that in sex, just like in cooking,
each chef has his or her own favorite ingredients,
preferred techniques, and signature dish. This book,
like a recipe book, is here to guide and advise you—but
if you’d like to add a little more salt or a little less
pepper, keep things boiling a little longer, or skip a
particular recipe completely, please do so. There is
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only one absolute rule when it comes to phenomenal
sex: there are no rules, just good advice. And that’s
what I hope to provide in this book.
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