Indirect Openers
Drunk I Love Yous This is a good opener for moving directly onto the topic of relationships and setting yourself up for later more detailed Comfort routines on your philosophies on dating, love, and relationships. Hey, do you guys think drunk I love yous count? They respond.! "#, check this out$ my friend %ick got really drunk last night and told his girlfriend that he loved her, then this morning he took it &ack. 'o you think he meant it? They respond.! Heres my take. (hen youre drunk you say things that you actually mean &ut are afraid to say, so I told her that he pro&a&ly meant it &ut )ust need more time to say it so&er. Email Read (omen *ill often &e more open than usual *hen they first meet you due to the initial anonymity you have, and may admit things theyve done that are a &it unusual. +se this to your advantage to cold read or tease her responses see important terms, Chapter ,! and move for*ard. (ould you read your &oyfriends email if you thought he *as cheating on you? They ans*er.! -y friend thought his girlfriend *as cheating on him so he had these guys in China hack into her email for ./01$I kno* its shady2 any*ay he finds out she is cheating. 3ut should he tell her he hacked into her email or )ust dump her out of the &lue? They ans*er.! If he &reaks up *ith her out of the &lue itll seem *eird to everyone. Theyve &een together for like t*o years. 3ut if he says he read the email, shell totally turn it around on him and make it a&out the hacking. Thats totally a &rilliant girl tactic. Turning it around on the guy even *hen youre *rong$ To the *oman you *ant!4 5ou *ould totally do that. Makeup Opener This opener is most useful in all6female groups. 3ecause it leads 7uickly into playful teasing, it is especially suita&le for e8tremely attractive *omen. Hey guys, 7uick 7uestion, my friends and I are having a conversation and cant decide 9 can a girl tell *hen another girl is *earing make up? They ans*er 5es:%o:-ay&e.! Thats interesting &ecause *e *ere at drinks *ith our friends today and all the girls said ;yes and all the guys said ;no. To the *oman you *ant!4 <re you *earing makeup? =he responds 9 usually ;yes, especially if in a night clu&.! "h. "#. Im sure youre still pretty. "> Hold your hand out. =lap hand playfully.! Thats for cheating. Set Up This routine demonstrates pre9selection in that you have friends trying to set you up *ith people and also that you have standards and are picky a&out *ho you date. The concept of pre6selection is covered in Chapter ? of -agic 3ullets. Hey guys, ho* do you tell someone youre not interested *ithout hurting their feelings? They respond.! "#, check this out, I came out *ith some friends of mine and my friend -indy is trying to set me up *ith her friend, and shes cute &ut shes )ust not my type. (hat should I say?
Direct Openers
'irect openers e8plicitly e8press some degree of interest. They can come in many different forms. The success of a direct opener has less to do *ith the actual script of the opener and more to do *ith the level of confidence and congruence *ith *hich it is delivered. @or more details on the practice and e8ecution of direct game, check out the guys at 3ad&oy Aifestyles ***.3ad&oyAifestyles.com! *ho *rote an e8cellent &ook on the topic called the 3ad&oy Aifestyles =eduction -anual. They also offer one6on6one and small group training around the *orld, *here they train and coach you at malls, &ars, and coffee shops to do this successfully.
