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The Only Tips You Need to Have Those Awkward Sex Conversations

How to talk about sex

Oye Yvey
The Honest Perspective

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Everyone wants to have great sex. But no one wants to talk about it.

We find the conversations too awkward, even embarrassing.

However, studies have consistently highlighted that clear communication about sexual preferences leads to both improved sexual satisfaction and happier relationships.

So how do you overcome the awkwardness and have the conversations that will transform your sex life?

I know just the right tips to get you started.

10 Sure Tips to Discuss Sex with Zero Awkwardness

1. Create a “Want, Will, Won’t” List

One effective brainstorming tool is the “Want, Will, Won’t” list.

How do you create one?

Write down all the sex acts you can think of. Now put them into these three categories -things you want to do, things you’re willing to do, and things you won’t do.

Some people also refer to this as a “Yes, No, Maybe” list. This list helps to clarify your desires and your boundaries.

If you need inspiration, Lindsey Doe has an excellent video featuring 150 sex

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Oye Yvey
The Honest Perspective

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