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5 Steps to Get Your Man to Take Initiative

5 steps to help your partner become more proactive

Oye Yvey
The Honest Perspective

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Photo by Karsten Winegeart on Unsplash

Are you tired of always telling your man what to do and how to treat you?

It might start to feel like you’re raising a child instead of being in a partnership with an adult.

So, how can you get him to step up and be the man you want?

I’ll show you five simple steps that worked for me and will inspire your man to take charge and lead with confidence.

Step 1: Accept that You Can’t Force Him

The first thing to understand is that you can’t force anyone to change their behavior.

It’s like trying to get someone to change their diet. You can advise them all you want, but you can’t shove food down their throat.

One of the best ways you can get anyone to do anything is to lead by example. When they see positive changes in you, they might be inspired to do the same.

So, telling your partner to step into his masculine, telling him, “You need to man up right now,” or “I need you to start stepping up” won’t be the best approach.

Instead, stay on your journey and let him find his path. You can’t force him.

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Oye Yvey
The Honest Perspective

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