PinnedOluchi 🦋Some Uncomfortable Truths About Why Women Entertain Men They Don’t Like or WantSome of this felt like a confession I hadn’t intended to make.Jul 219Jul 219
PinnedOluchi 🦋Seriously, Somebody Please Tell Me Why Women of a Certain Age Are Getting MarriedWhen the return on their hefty investment promises to be so painfully lowSep 824Sep 824
PinnedOluchi 🦋Why Black Men Will F*ck You Over But Expect You to Keep Doing Right By HimIf a man plays with or fumbles your heart, don’t ask him why he does it. Ask yourself why you let him.Jul 1230Jul 1230
PinnedOluchi 🦋7 Obvious Yet Overlooked Signs That a Man is Into YouWhat I’ve learned from a few good men — and a lot of bad onesJul 258Jul 258
Oluchi 🦋We Wear the Mask that Grins and LiesAnd gives us the illusion of safety and invincibility, while they slowly strangle us into silence, shame, and suffering.Sep 281Sep 281
Oluchi 🦋How Black Men Inspire the Respect of Black Women with StandardsBlack man, if a Black woman is disrespecting you, it’s not her. It’s you.Sep 171Sep 171
Oluchi 🦋What a Deep Tissue Massage Reminded Me About BoundariesEvery interaction, says Spiritual Teacher Carolyn Myss, is a negotiation of power. That is, she who sets proper boundaries, holds more…Sep 131Sep 131
Oluchi 🦋Uncomfortable Truths Black Women Find Hard to FaceWill the Strong Black Woman ever retire?Sep 19Sep 19
Oluchi 🦋Why It’s So F*cking Hard to Love a Man: A Case StudyIs there any wonder that there’s an epidemic of loneliness among menAug 2011Aug 2011